He talks often about masculine initiation. In a perfect world it's a dad who takes their boy hunting for the first time. Unlike many western countries, my country still has mandatory conscript service in place, and here people often say "army makes men out of boys". It's pretty accurate, you're stuck there with your male peers for as long as 12 months and you just gotta learn how to cooperate with other men and get shit done. I consider myself lucky being went through that, I now have a strong sense of myself and lifelong male friends I keep in contact with. Actually I'll call them brothers cause we went together through such a hardship and misery and arrived on the other side just fine and intact. That was our initiation, and I wish so many other men could have the chance to experience it.
I have been a loving caring giving guy all my life with no strings attached, not even looking for a thanks and it has gotten me used and abused time and time again. I wish I was not such a nice guy but don't know how to stop. I have always enjoyed giving and just helping others but I am tired of being taken advantage of and used and abused for my kindness. I have never been the nice guy looking to get something from a woman or anyone for that matter. Yeah I do nice things when I want to try and get something. But that is not why I have always been a nice guy to everyone. The only way I have ever known how to not be the nice guy looking to help or give to others is to isolate myself from everyone. Problem is the isolation and loneliness really sucks. I been alone all my life even in an unfaithful 18 year marriage and then ultimately alone when she stepped out for the last time and I found myself in homelessness but even then I was nice to others and helping others in whatever way I could. I am so sick of being nice, I hate it for what it has done to me emotionally, psychologically and physically.
Solid realizations... Sorry to hear this has caused so much pain. You are not alone in this battle, and realize if another person can climb out of this, so can you. Be strong, have compassion for yourself, seek therapy (coupled with Releasing) as necessary. We'd love to see you at the next The Integrated Man Summit, if you haven't already signed up. www.thefearlessman.com/events/ Landon, TFM
@@rishon1273 I don't know what to elaborate on me being kind to others that has been something I've just done all my life since I was very very little. When I was little I was not raised on the word of God, I had no idea what it had to say. I knew nothing about what we call the Golden rule of doing unto others as you would have done unto you. That never existed in my life when I was little. I have always just been a kind person and continue to be a kind person even when I've been hurt very badly by others taking advantage of my kindness. When I was in my early teen years I believe it was maybe a little earlier than that I don't recall anymore. I am one of my brothers and one of his friends were running home in a torrential downpour and I saw an elderly man laying in the gutter. I yelled to my brother and his friend to come and help me and they just kept going. I went over in that pouring down rain and help that elderly man to get up out of the gutter where he had slipped and fallen trying to make his own way home in the pouring down rain. I helped him up because I wanted to not because I had to only because I've always had a kind heart. I helped the man get to his sister's house which was half a block away and she took him in and because of my kindness she got to spend a couple more years with her brother before he passed away. Had I not stopped and helped that elderly man she would have lost her brother that day. I don't know what else to tell you. I have by nature always been a gentleman. Unfortunately I never learned how to set boundaries in my life and that is the primary reason people were able to take advantage of me and my kindness. When I was young and growing up I suffered from what is called childhood emotional neglect. This is something I only learned of many years later. Unfortunately I suffered from an anxiety disorder due to the neglect I just never knew it because I didn't know anything different. It was how life was. But even so I was always kind to others no matter how they treated me looking for nothing in return. Due to my lack of boundaries I suppose I was viewed as weak but never was I weak. If I needed to and wanted to I could stand my ground unmovable. Unfortunately too many times I did not stand My ground because I did not understand anything about boundaries, I was never taught anything about boundaries. I realize this probably doesn't help but I don't know what else to tell you.
Remember, don't do what is nice, do what is right. For others and for yourself. If there was a danger behind a door, and someone tried to open it, would you open the door for them? Or would you stand your ground against them for everyone's best interest, even if they don't understand? Nice is doing what everyone wants and expects and being a social lubricant, but you need to go beyond that. You need to have content and value of your own. You need to stand for something, including agaisnt others. Including for someone's own good. Being nice is enabling someone's drug addiction, being good is getting angry at them and dragging them to rehab (metaphorically). Being nice is doing things for people, being good is enabling and encouraging them to do it themselves. Being nice is cutting off your own arm to give to them, being good is defending yourself for everything you stand for, and everything you stand to protect and nurture. For me, you what you lack isn't a type of "assholishness" it's ego, and integrity. And those are things you can build, i believe. You say you don't do nice things to get something. But do you want anything? It seems like you do since you are resentful, you are no saint. Not yet, at least. You need to be honest with what you want and go get it. Grab it with your own strength, have the courage to make waves, have the courage to believe that what you want is worth something. Hell, you can even want to do something for other people if you prefer in charity or something. You cant pour from an empty bucket. Fill your own bucket first before giving.
As much as I appreciate their advice, I think they focus too much on the woman’s perspective/needs and also don’t mention polarity, femininity and masculinity and also about the differences between the masculine and feminine and each other needs. I think this point became evident when Steve tried to bring to her attention the struggle man are facing in this moment. She flat out denied the fact about sexlessness. This doesn’t mean their advice isn’t sound and doesn’t work, but there’s more to it. Being more understanding to someone who doesn’t respect and/or admire you won’t bring you more sex, for instance.
so nice guys have never felt love or excepted the way they are so the become extra nice, agreeable, placers and push overs to feel loved and valued. as for bad boys they don't want to be excepted or loved they walk the way of the worrier never looking back and women chase them to the ends of the earth. i recommend you bros read the book king, worrier, magician, lover, it explains the architype of man.
Yeah and I've been both ..so I'm choosing to be more In between....a guy who does what he wants without care of others and yet is sweet/and nice for the curdessy of women
@@kennethporst4359 Yes it should always be balanced like the pendulum should always stay in the middle, don't be too mean and don't be too nice be centered grounded and that's all you'll ever need is that belief in yourself who you are capable of becoming
Lol... Not me !! I actually felt !! I should treat everyone with the outmost respect !!!🙏🧘🏻♂️.. specially females or elderly... But you know better than me so let me pay attention
One of the last things said in this video is why I'm going WGTOW. I'll be sad about for it a little while and then get over it. The exes I dated can't handle monogamy. I'm heartbroken because they got confused and I'm left picking up the pieces. Just stay away from good women unless you've done the inner work and you show up in every way with intention for monogamy. I'm not a training ground, nor build-a-man workshop. I didn't sign up for this. I wish I was a lesbo but I'm not, sorry ladies. I'm now a hurt person healing from someone who goes around injuring others. I can't do it anymore. 🤕😞💔
You've been LIED to by Disney/Hollywood and love songs since you was a child. We've all been lied to MONOGAMY was NOT the norm. Since Day 1 men had multiple wives. This is evolution and this is how we expanded and survived. Most ppl lived up to the age of 30 and died until modern medicine. Don't blame men, blame the powers that influence us.
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What I like about this video is his indifference To look at life and women as a learning experience
Make mistakes and learn from them
I really like how enthusiastic, hands-on and practical Robert is.
2:02 The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way. - Marcus Aurelius
He talks often about masculine initiation. In a perfect world it's a dad who takes their boy hunting for the first time. Unlike many western countries, my country still has mandatory conscript service in place, and here people often say "army makes men out of boys". It's pretty accurate, you're stuck there with your male peers for as long as 12 months and you just gotta learn how to cooperate with other men and get shit done. I consider myself lucky being went through that, I now have a strong sense of myself and lifelong male friends I keep in contact with. Actually I'll call them brothers cause we went together through such a hardship and misery and arrived on the other side just fine and intact. That was our initiation, and I wish so many other men could have the chance to experience it.
"What the Thinker thinks, the Prover proves."
- Robert Anton Wilson, Prometheus Rising
I have been a loving caring giving guy all my life with no strings attached, not even looking for a thanks and it has gotten me used and abused time and time again.
I wish I was not such a nice guy but don't know how to stop.
I have always enjoyed giving and just helping others but I am tired of being taken advantage of and used and abused for my kindness.
I have never been the nice guy looking to get something from a woman or anyone for that matter.
Yeah I do nice things when I want to try and get something.
But that is not why I have always been a nice guy to everyone.
The only way I have ever known how to not be the nice guy looking to help or give to others is to isolate myself from everyone.
Problem is the isolation and loneliness really sucks.
I been alone all my life even in an unfaithful 18 year marriage and then ultimately alone when she stepped out for the last time and I found myself in homelessness but even then I was nice to others and helping others in whatever way I could.
I am so sick of being nice, I hate it for what it has done to me emotionally, psychologically and physically.
Solid realizations... Sorry to hear this has caused so much pain. You are not alone in this battle, and realize if another person can climb out of this, so can you. Be strong, have compassion for yourself, seek therapy (coupled with Releasing) as necessary.
We'd love to see you at the next The Integrated Man Summit, if you haven't already signed up.
www.thefearlessman.com/events/
Landon, TFM
@@rishon1273
I don't know what to elaborate on me being kind to others that has been something I've just done all my life since I was very very little.
When I was little I was not raised on the word of God, I had no idea what it had to say. I knew nothing about what we call the Golden rule of doing unto others as you would have done unto you.
That never existed in my life when I was little.
I have always just been a kind person and continue to be a kind person even when I've been hurt very badly by others taking advantage of my kindness.
When I was in my early teen years I believe it was maybe a little earlier than that I don't recall anymore.
I am one of my brothers and one of his friends were running home in a torrential downpour and I saw an elderly man laying in the gutter.
I yelled to my brother and his friend to come and help me and they just kept going.
I went over in that pouring down rain and help that elderly man to get up out of the gutter where he had slipped and fallen trying to make his own way home in the pouring down rain.
I helped him up because I wanted to not because I had to only because I've always had a kind heart.
I helped the man get to his sister's house which was half a block away and she took him in and because of my kindness she got to spend a couple more years with her brother before he passed away.
Had I not stopped and helped that elderly man she would have lost her brother that day.
I don't know what else to tell you.
I have by nature always been a gentleman.
Unfortunately I never learned how to set boundaries in my life and that is the primary reason people were able to take advantage of me and my kindness.
When I was young and growing up I suffered from what is called childhood emotional neglect.
This is something I only learned of many years later.
Unfortunately I suffered from an anxiety disorder due to the neglect I just never knew it because I didn't know anything different.
It was how life was.
But even so I was always kind to others no matter how they treated me looking for nothing in return.
Due to my lack of boundaries I suppose I was viewed as weak but never was I weak. If I needed to and wanted to I could stand my ground unmovable.
Unfortunately too many times I did not stand My ground because I did not understand anything about boundaries, I was never taught anything about boundaries.
I realize this probably doesn't help but I don't know what else to tell you.
Remember, don't do what is nice, do what is right. For others and for yourself.
If there was a danger behind a door, and someone tried to open it, would you open the door for them? Or would you stand your ground against them for everyone's best interest, even if they don't understand?
Nice is doing what everyone wants and expects and being a social lubricant, but you need to go beyond that. You need to have content and value of your own. You need to stand for something, including agaisnt others. Including for someone's own good.
Being nice is enabling someone's drug addiction, being good is getting angry at them and dragging them to rehab (metaphorically).
Being nice is doing things for people, being good is enabling and encouraging them to do it themselves.
Being nice is cutting off your own arm to give to them, being good is defending yourself for everything you stand for, and everything you stand to protect and nurture.
For me, you what you lack isn't a type of "assholishness" it's ego, and integrity. And those are things you can build, i believe.
You say you don't do nice things to get something. But do you want anything? It seems like you do since you are resentful, you are no saint. Not yet, at least. You need to be honest with what you want and go get it. Grab it with your own strength, have the courage to make waves, have the courage to believe that what you want is worth something. Hell, you can even want to do something for other people if you prefer in charity or something.
You cant pour from an empty bucket. Fill your own bucket first before giving.
As much as I appreciate their advice, I think they focus too much on the woman’s perspective/needs and also don’t mention polarity, femininity and masculinity and also about the differences between the masculine and feminine and each other needs. I think this point became evident when Steve tried to bring to her attention the struggle man are facing in this moment. She flat out denied the fact about sexlessness. This doesn’t mean their advice isn’t sound and doesn’t work, but there’s more to it. Being more understanding to someone who doesn’t respect and/or admire you won’t bring you more sex, for instance.
Thx so much.
so nice guys have never felt love or excepted the way they are so the become extra nice, agreeable, placers and push overs to feel loved and valued. as for bad boys they don't want to be excepted or loved they walk the way of the worrier never looking back and women chase them to the ends of the earth. i recommend you bros read the book king, worrier, magician, lover, it explains the architype of man.
Yeah and I've been both ..so I'm choosing to be more In between....a guy who does what he wants without care of others and yet is sweet/and nice for the curdessy of women
@@kennethporst4359 Yes it should always be balanced like the pendulum should always stay in the middle, don't be too mean and don't be too nice be centered grounded and that's all you'll ever need is that belief in yourself who you are capable of becoming
Lol... Not me !! I actually felt !! I should treat everyone with the outmost respect !!!🙏🧘🏻♂️.. specially females or elderly... But you know better than me so let me pay attention
Great speech! I enjoy listening to Doc, as I too was brought up on a propaganda program. Reprogramming your brain is worth it! Thank you!
How ?
I'd love to have seen the full seminar does anyone know if that's possible?
Do you guys have more videos from Robert Glover?
If you do the following UA-cam search you will find several videos: "Fearless Man Dr. Glover." Signed, Landon from Fearless
Not watched it all.. But love robs stuff.. he cuts through all the bs and says it as it is..
title has a typo
One of the last things said in this video is why I'm going WGTOW. I'll be sad about for it a little while and then get over it. The exes I dated can't handle monogamy. I'm heartbroken because they got confused and I'm left picking up the pieces. Just stay away from good women unless you've done the inner work and you show up in every way with intention for monogamy. I'm not a training ground, nor build-a-man workshop. I didn't sign up for this. I wish I was a lesbo but I'm not, sorry ladies. I'm now a hurt person healing from someone who goes around injuring others. I can't do it anymore. 🤕😞💔
You don't have to be any longer
You've been LIED to by Disney/Hollywood and love songs since you was a child. We've all been lied to
MONOGAMY was NOT the norm. Since Day 1 men had multiple wives. This is evolution and this is how we expanded and survived. Most ppl lived up to the age of 30 and died until modern medicine.
Don't blame men, blame the powers that influence us.
Sorry, this is a no cry zone.
There are other men who want monogamy. We’re out there. Don’t give up.
Why did you expect monogamy?
so is my near perfect 10 girlfriend (who i planned on marrying after the pandemic) committing suicide a gift?