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  • When The Narcissist Realizes They Have Lost, This Is How Their Revenge Begins | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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  • @ClaireGraceMarshall-jr5mm
    @ClaireGraceMarshall-jr5mm 4 місяці тому +47

    My mothers gone crazy, she thinks i should obey her because she is my mother, and even when doing as she told me she still went crazy. You cant make them happy.

    • @Ms.B4real
      @Ms.B4real 4 місяці тому +17

      NOTHING you do will satisfy them and it will always be your fault! My mom acts as if she hates me at times. She picks arguments for no reason then says I'm arguing with her because I defend myself. It doesn't matter what you do it will never be enough.

    • @carl-gunnarhillefors7612
      @carl-gunnarhillefors7612 4 місяці тому

      CORRECT! LIVING WITH S C DOMINANT PERSONS WITH
      A S C BORDERLINE MIND OR
      PSYCOTIC VIEW XOR A PSYCOHPATH/SOCIOPATH
      I S ABSOLUTELY N O EASY
      TASK EVEN FOR ADAULTS!

    • @kimsherlock8969
      @kimsherlock8969 4 місяці тому +4

      Altzheimers changes personality

    • @nancysayad9960
      @nancysayad9960 4 місяці тому

      Alzheimer's is different from narcissm​@@kimsherlock8969

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 4 місяці тому +1

      @GeorgiaMar...
      Never can you make them happy. They don't appreciate the time and energy spent on trying to. They will treat like sh-t when they feel like
      it. No matter what you do for them
      they will still be thankless and show no gratitude whatsoever.

  • @tinyvr7036
    @tinyvr7036 4 місяці тому +30

    It gets worse when money is a factor. People, especially family look the other way, and are just as bad to enable them and their behavior, perhaps thinking they will reward them someday?
    It is like an evil kingdom.
    Escape it.
    🙏

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому +4

      Oh you're so right.

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 4 місяці тому +2

      @tinyvr7036:
      I know what you mean.

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@smitaraina9429
      Yes

  • @truffaut650truffaut6
    @truffaut650truffaut6 4 місяці тому +12

    My X narc forgot me and the children. No revenge, nothing. He went on with his life. Good.

  • @canopusstar5157
    @canopusstar5157 4 місяці тому +13

    I was a victim of someone like that. They destroyed my life. I put them in jail.

    • @earthling8585
      @earthling8585 4 місяці тому +2

      BRAVO! The same thing happened to me. Then I did the same thing you did.
      They aren't as smart as they believe they are.

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому

      I wish I could. I tried but he found policemen as patients and would help them.They helped him back. One policeman said this to me , what difference does it create? You've he spent half of your life with him,cope up with him, why are you making a fuss. This happened after I went to him again after six years complaining about hitting me and physically and verbally abusing me infront of my grown up sons.

  • @valerier4308
    @valerier4308 4 місяці тому +15

    Decades later, I believe I'm lucky I survived marriage to a narcissist! I thank God! I experienced lots of borderline rage from him! Nobody believed me!

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому +2

      Same here,but people believed as they know me, but his relatives who loved me were confused by his manipulation.

    • @valerier4308
      @valerier4308 4 місяці тому

      @@smitaraina9429 👍😢

    • @pamletellier4970
      @pamletellier4970 4 місяці тому +2

      I believe you.

    • @valerier4308
      @valerier4308 4 місяці тому

      @@pamletellier4970 Thank you!

    • @valerier4308
      @valerier4308 4 місяці тому +1

      @smitaraina9429 My relatives succumbed to manipulation too!

  • @margaretclark9016
    @margaretclark9016 4 місяці тому +17

    I think my children and I got out safely and just in the nick of time before he went full blown crazy!!!

    • @Ms.B4real
      @Ms.B4real 4 місяці тому +2

      Thank God! 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @lisaengland1048
    @lisaengland1048 4 місяці тому +13

    This is so true . I don't trust.no one anymore.😢

  • @mysightofthings
    @mysightofthings 4 місяці тому +12

    Today, my narcissistic mother decided to flip me off for stating my opinion of her actions. Wowza…she immediately ran to the neighbors for support. They hate me now, but I can’t care..they will understand upon her death. Evil is as it is, I’ll survive it…the narcissist makes a narcissist.

    • @alfdom51
      @alfdom51 4 місяці тому +1

      A narcissist may drive you crazy and you may use some of their behaviors. Narcissists damage people but they don't create narcissists, with the rare exception of them raising a narcissistic child above the other children.

  • @virginiarobinson2042
    @virginiarobinson2042 4 місяці тому +14

    I think they're born that way .. and parents make it worse by not being self aware.

    • @pinkifloyd7867
      @pinkifloyd7867 4 місяці тому +3

      I sometimes wonder if its from the imposed baby shots because they seem to be everywhere more and more ... Love is conditional, they just dont care or are afraid to 😢😮.

    • @virginiarobinson2042
      @virginiarobinson2042 4 місяці тому +5

      Definitely weak parenting, excuses for their children's behaviour, spoiling kids, only makes them self centered. Treating girls like " little princesses " stores up unimaginable problems when they become adults. For people around them and the poor men they marry. You just need to look at the younger generation to see parents breeding monsters. We need good family dynamics, to be their example and bring back basic manners, empathy for others and consequences for selfish behaviours.

    • @user-yj8hh5ym9f
      @user-yj8hh5ym9f 4 місяці тому

      SO TRUE!!!

  • @darintalbot1
    @darintalbot1 4 місяці тому +11

    Thanks so much for your videos. They’ve helped me so much in my recovery. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so 4 місяці тому +3

    He had revenge for me at the very beginning. He had revenge for me when he saw I had all these qualities and he couldn't have any of them. He had revenge for me because I'm smarter, he had revenge for me when he realized my kindness he thought was a weakness but isn't. He had revenge for me because I'm intelligent, I'm a good person, I have lots of talents, I am confident, I speak my mind, I am not fake, I have strengths, I am pretty, l have so much knowledge to teach people and never run out of it, I have so much love to give and can pass it around and make unloved people feel full of love, I have coordination, I say it like it is, I can be happy for nothing, I sing around the house as I get many tasks done, he has revenge for me because I can kick his ass, I know all about what he tries to hide, I know who he is as he is a nobody, he has revenge for me because he can't break me. He has revenge for me because I know he is a loser, etc, etc, etc 👌👍🙌✌️yippee

  • @MarcassCarcass
    @MarcassCarcass 4 місяці тому +1

    Promoting revenge against people, as if "healthy", when really, we should simply be working to stop the abuse and provide for a healing environment, TO EVERYONE!

  • @user-dj7ml8ul6t
    @user-dj7ml8ul6t 4 місяці тому +12

    We have an Oldman narcissist just like that paces up n down in front of neighbors homes, uses stalking and harassment. We don't know why just leave him alone has family who refuses to get him help😊

    • @cherobinson6371
      @cherobinson6371 4 місяці тому

      The demonic all end up with dementia. Narcissistic are demons.

  • @user-dj7ml8ul6t
    @user-dj7ml8ul6t 4 місяці тому +7

    Our guy has called out some neighb9rs by name at 4am to come outside sometimes carrying a metal pipe😊

  • @deecee901
    @deecee901 4 місяці тому +13

    I dislike these people much..not getting near me ever again.

    • @ND-or5so
      @ND-or5so 4 місяці тому

      @deecee901...
      Same

  • @francoisebekaert8137
    @francoisebekaert8137 4 місяці тому +4

    The best analysis I've heard of many I've listened to! It's the idea they have of a person in their head which is indeed the key to the stuff that follows. Because you don't fit necessarily into the image they made of you, you'll be in trouble. Guaranteed. 🤐

  • @kimsherlock8969
    @kimsherlock8969 4 місяці тому +2

    I like the saying
    "Be careful what you wish for"
    It might come true with very profound effects
    Getting more devastation wished .

  • @lisaengland1048
    @lisaengland1048 4 місяці тому +6

    I don't want to be driven insane . 😢

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому

      Don't get insane.In my case, he was a doctor,so tried to medicate me,in order to prove me insane. He even did this to his patients,if he couldn't find a cure for them.

  • @bobsled9058
    @bobsled9058 4 місяці тому +14

    Your reference to Hamas and Israel as an example in this youtube is remarkeably insightful. However, I feel it's important to differentiate between Netanyahue and Israelies / Jews, who don't support his behaviour.

    • @kimsherlock8969
      @kimsherlock8969 4 місяці тому

      Catastrophe, Cataloguers, Catalysts , Cataract,
      Catachresis

    • @deerinheadlights100
      @deerinheadlights100 4 місяці тому

      Plenty do, esp. in US. Check out the nightly news.

  • @lorrainemitchell9319
    @lorrainemitchell9319 4 місяці тому +7

    This is very true and I'm at a point in.my life to get away from this relationship. HE thinks I'm supposed to obey whatever he says because he's always correct and that does not work with him. I only which i would had seen it in the beginning.

  • @user_km2yt8x57h
    @user_km2yt8x57h 4 місяці тому +9

    Find people who appreciate you for who you are.

    • @lynnepostings
      @lynnepostings 4 місяці тому

      Wishing you luck with that ! 😂

  • @gbrown9273
    @gbrown9273 4 місяці тому +1

    Totally explains my husband who I am trying to get free from....

  • @user-qt9or4xu9l
    @user-qt9or4xu9l 4 місяці тому +3

    Your always ahead massive light on this topic .deeply appreciated.

  • @mercedessanchez6844
    @mercedessanchez6844 4 місяці тому +3

    Seeking Justice is ok, and it’s about making the victim feel safe and protectected. Revenge is an entirely different dark story…

    • @SaschaForster-it1nz
      @SaschaForster-it1nz 4 місяці тому +2

      revenge can help you heal from the suffered abuse...

  • @brooks8792
    @brooks8792 4 місяці тому +8

    My mother.

    • @user-yj8hh5ym9f
      @user-yj8hh5ym9f 4 місяці тому +2

      My son!! I created a Narcissist by spoiling him as a child.😢

  • @rena523
    @rena523 4 місяці тому

    Touché 🙂

  • @west5828
    @west5828 4 місяці тому +7

    The woman I met from red Bear land had also split personality syndrome, that made very difficult to deal ,after realising that I was only used as a visa purpose for her to stay ,and when finally she was cornered ,she quickly left ,run away away ,looking for the next pray , however as I collected enough evidences against her even had translated conversation recorded in her mother language ,i could prove my case if she colled then authorities against me, as she did .so you better be prepared !

  • @ralph4370
    @ralph4370 4 місяці тому +3

    I can hear the deep breath at the start of the 2nd sentence.

    • @lynnepostings
      @lynnepostings 4 місяці тому +1

      There are deep breaths after practically every sentence ( in most of these videos ) Once you notice, it is very distracting
      They need to be edited out or something ! It's a pity because the info shared is pretty good

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому

      Yes

  • @yoshkebenstadapandora1181
    @yoshkebenstadapandora1181 2 місяці тому

    My spouse doesn't turn violent, instead they choose to try to manipulate me by giving me the silent treatment and treating me like I am an unworthy human or have made unreasonable boundaries.

  • @Ak_agent47
    @Ak_agent47 4 місяці тому +2

    All of them lose better to stay humble than have priid in the way

  • @fleetfoot6903
    @fleetfoot6903 4 місяці тому +10

    Possessed with a demon ...

  • @rudolphsimmonds1382
    @rudolphsimmonds1382 4 місяці тому +7

    How do you protect yourself from a Narcissist coworker that you have enraged by setting a hard boundary?

    • @sloaneisenbart9347
      @sloaneisenbart9347 4 місяці тому +1

      whats the boundary?

    • @rudolphsimmonds1382
      @rudolphsimmonds1382 4 місяці тому

      @@sloaneisenbart9347 By telling the COVERT that dosent work in the same department we dont need to speak to each other ever again in front of supervisors to avoid a more serious problem. During this discussion The person seemed to not comprehend why we still cant be friends leaving me to believe that the person is mentally stuck and will return to create more problems. a vicious smear campagin was created that i am left to deal with.
      just wondering if there is any other suggestions....

    • @LittleKitty22
      @LittleKitty22 4 місяці тому +1

      Same problem here. She works in the same department as me. She's already started with the false allegations and the smear campaign. I'm expecting the false allegations of assault next. The managers side with her because she's a member of a privileged group so no chance for me. Redundancy will be next for me... I'm disabled and can't get another job. The creature knows that I know what it is, hence it's raging.

  • @caroldanson5476
    @caroldanson5476 4 місяці тому +2

    What happens when a narcissist is in a failed leadership role and is messing up badly???

    • @SaschaForster-it1nz
      @SaschaForster-it1nz 4 місяці тому +2

      he will blame every body else and he will play the victim...

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому

      Yes that's the next level. I've been through this too.

  • @auramdickerson112
    @auramdickerson112 4 місяці тому +1

    Divine law demands all should return abuse to abuser. Do unto others as you would have done you. They abused you, you must return the abuse.

    • @smitaraina9429
      @smitaraina9429 4 місяці тому

      Do the right Karma,defend yourself and separate don't do what the narc did,you don't want to be that. The narc will indeed reap his Karma.

  • @jonadams2334
    @jonadams2334 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow, you have perfectly described your average Karen (male or female).

  • @aubreyj.tennant1123
    @aubreyj.tennant1123 4 місяці тому

    I’m not sure if at the end of your pitch - it’s possible to ask if a NPD persons response to choosing revenge or choosing to respond with something more healthy is useful. That would require introspection and self reflection on their part which conflicts with the NP’s inability to conceive of other people or things. Are you suggesting a narcissist has that capacity?

  • @lisaengland1048
    @lisaengland1048 4 місяці тому +2

    I want to go home😢

  • @devonmalcolm34
    @devonmalcolm34 4 місяці тому +2

    🙏🏾👆🏽

  • @Chantal103
    @Chantal103 4 місяці тому +16

    Research is showing that narcissism comes from differences in the brain. Blaming the parenting is being proved wrong.

    • @Noname11364
      @Noname11364 4 місяці тому +4

      Good cause I’m fed-up with everyone blaming me!

    • @SaschaForster-it1nz
      @SaschaForster-it1nz 4 місяці тому +5

      can you point me to a study or anything that i can read that please.

    • @tinyvr7036
      @tinyvr7036 4 місяці тому

      I think many people like this went even more " narcissistic" during and after the lockdowns for Covid. Just an observation.
      They have high anxiety in situations and with people they can't control, as it is, but this isolation/danger situation was a trigger point for them. On the surface they seem well put together and aware but inside are jumpy and quick to lash out. Sometimes for no reason.
      They do hurtful things over and over, too knowing full well what they are doing.
      OCD?
      These repeat like compulsions can overtly be seen ( pacing, fiddling with their hair, back and forth to a window or doorway etc) but is often hidden from the public at large maybe because of the stigma, self medicating, , training, or they just like themselves more than anything and anyone else and don't care. . I have heard it said they are "so into themselves" it is like a self addiction.
      Addiction is not always with drugs or alcohol.
      It may even be their mothers drank or did drugs when pregnant with them resulting in brain abnormalities.
      Who knows.
      I just hope more people call attention to this hideous thing, they get help and stop hurting innocent people with their malicious behaviors.
      🙏

    • @beaglerescue5281
      @beaglerescue5281 3 місяці тому +1

      I did not screw up my daughter. She had a good childhood. We just went no contact today. Yippee! I don’t get to be cussed out anymore.

  • @susanjones8489
    @susanjones8489 4 місяці тому +6

    It’s biological.

  • @originalandrewmark
    @originalandrewmark 4 місяці тому

    Is there a less obvious result of YT's ruining communities?

  • @MarcassCarcass
    @MarcassCarcass 4 місяці тому

    BehindTheScience, why have you automated your comment thread to keep those of us that speak up silenced and isolated? The main reason i would "revenge" anyone, which is absolutely asinine of you to suggest, is because no representation is being provided to stop them from CENSORED and CENSORED disabled people that they are supposed to be treating with care.

  • @user-xb3yp2px6b
    @user-xb3yp2px6b 3 місяці тому

    Wrong. Revenge is never healthy or justifiable. Revenge is always selfish and doesn't teach anybody anything. It's most oven overkill and is based on perception,hate or jealousy. If there is justice to be served, all law-abiding nations have a system to ensure truth, fairnessand justice are proportional. Revenge dors none of those things.

  • @roddywilliams9957
    @roddywilliams9957 4 місяці тому +1

    This is a total opinion.. beard?? Sounds like a “male”.. I had a female for 8 years. And can say you are leaving so much out.. some points are valid.. only some