When a narcissist starts acting weird (Guilty Conscience!)
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- Опубліковано 6 гру 2023
- Has the narcissistic person in your life started acting strange out of nowhere? They could have a guilty conscience.
In this video, I'm talkin' about when a narcissist starts acting weird... and how to deal with it!
Narcissists usually have a good sense of self-worth, but when something goes wrong, they feel like they need to apologise to the world. This is called a "guilty conscience", and it can make the narcissist behave really weird and apologetic. If you're dating or interacting with a narcissist, be prepared for this! Here are some tips on how to deal with a narcissist's guilty conscience, so you can keep your relationship healthy!
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I suspect my boyfriend was a covert narcissist and he would say little things like when I bought him a bunch of gifts I put a lot of thought into for his birthday and he said, “I don’t deserve these.” The way he said it was kind of weird and he had a guilty look on his face so I asked him what he meant and he said it was a cultural saying. But I think he meant it because of the cheating. He was right, he didn’t deserve it, or me.
Many Don’t Care If They Do Wrong (Their Actions)!!!!!!! They Hide A lot Of Things💯
That's why they avoid me when I don't fall for gaslighting.
This explains a lot. He would get crazy mad about little stuff out of nowhere and other days be really nice and caring. I thought it was just stress
He acted weird whenever he met new supplies. It's like deep down h3 knew he was lying to me, and he was extremely wrong. But instead of not continuing the sneaky behavior he would pick random fights with me that had me super confused.
My bf will profusely apologize for very small things. Like, actions that do not require an apology. For example, if he sneezes loud, he’ll say “omg I’m so sorry”. But heaven forbid I ask him a question about what he’s doing, ask him if he’s upset, hold him accountable, ALL HELL breaks loose. All of a sudden I’m his mortal enemy over literally something so minute. I don’t really know how to handle it- the whip lash really gets me.
My ex would do BOTH. In the beginning when he would get caught emotionally cheating on me online he would take me out and treat me like he did in the beginning, but towards the end of our relationship… little things I did would set him off. He would yell at me, cuss at me, and also make me feel like I was the problem. Basically he messed with my head and heart 24/7
Their guilt makes them rage and blame you. Again, they'll deflect. Anything to avoid accountability. Really sad
I remember when he actually realized he hurt me and said “I didn’t like how that went down”. Love bombed me right after everything and went right back to his old ways smh 🤦🏽♀️ Then became worse. Thank goodness I went no contact. It has been 18 months. 😃
My narcissistic ex's guilty conscience led to paranoia and eventually anxiety out of control..... pay attention
They'll confess to someone else, anyone else. Just not the actual person they have wronged.
Shame spiral.. that’s it exactly. They double, triple, quadruple down and blame you the whole way down.
Classic guilty behaviors...singing, dancing, smirking (not smiling, smirking), whistling. Just extra and annoying af
Yes the narc I was around was always gaslightining me,deflecting his wrongdoing onto me because he was sneaky and dramatic on a daily basis he knew he was always up to no good. So he blamed me for his actions when I shouldve been the one angry,frustrated and upset. I still can't believe to this day I messed with such a shitty,sorry,pathetic low life.I knew damn well I deserved better and definitely could do better than the likes of him and I've definitely definitely have. Thank you God for showing me the way,the light and the truth. My intuition was always right from the very getgo of meeting him. So glad I left him before another year passed me by.😊🎉💯🙏🏼
And the thing is, they might be nicer to you when they feel guilty and it's still just to make themselves feel better and convince themselves that they made amends.
My narc would buy me a new car every year whenever he would cheat. One year I got a 5 carat diamond ring!! Another year I got a house. He wouldve came out much cheaper just apologizing to me. The material possessions were a manipulation tactic. He discarded me last year but told my lawyer I could keep the house as long and asked me to not summon his girlfriends to court to testify about their relationships with him.
Yeah right before I found out my ex was cheating on me things were going well. I found out he had a whole situationship behind my back the entire relationship.
examples i can think of is blaming the victim for the abuse they inflict. its nuts
"I know we haven't been to dinner in three years. Put on your dancing shoes!"😅🤣😂Oh Lord! That's hilarious!😆
The one I’m dealing with even admits that he will treat me worse when he feels bad for something he has done to me.