How To Stay Married: Controlling the Finances || STEVE HARVEY

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @josieslater200
    @josieslater200 5 років тому +792

    Married for 17 years? Folks you look 17.

  • @wombathappinessgirl7563
    @wombathappinessgirl7563 5 років тому +200

    They are married for 17 years... that’s amazing .. they look young too. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @juliem1930
    @juliem1930 5 років тому +198

    They were on Marie kondos Netflix show. Lovely couple

  • @ncumisafandesindelu454
    @ncumisafandesindelu454 5 років тому +150

    They must have been 3 & 4 when they married they look 20 & 21 at the most!!

  • @robertalmanzar4801
    @robertalmanzar4801 5 років тому +167

    I’m 27. Together 8 yrs. married 7 yrs. one thing I learned and still believe in is don’t be greedy with the money. I always told my wife that if she wants something really bad, to just get it. Never be greedy with the money it can actually cause a divorce. Don’t be cheap. Women are always gonna buy all these expensive things for them. It’s part of being them. It comes with the package. Lol

    • @anonymousperson1327
      @anonymousperson1327 5 років тому +21

      Robert Almanzar- You seem like a smart man. Your wife must be happy. I've been married for almost 3 years. My husband used to be so tight with money. He's also learned that money is not more important than my happiness.
      When I do spend money on the things I want, I try to get the absolute best bargain deals. I've cut back on spending a lot, though. In a marriage, it's a 100/100 effort from both people! Both people need to sacrifice and make sure their spouse is happy!

    • @misutasutanto6312
      @misutasutanto6312 5 років тому +4

      your marriage sounds like a grand old time lol

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 5 років тому +1

      @@misutasutanto6312 😁 Silly.

    • @mixedmamiiD
      @mixedmamiiD 5 років тому +2

      As long as yall live each other that's great but I truly don't believe that about women in general.

    • @robertalmanzar4801
      @robertalmanzar4801 5 років тому +8

      Danielle Greer- I agree. But when a ma. Is cheap. It turns a woman off. Every woman like to treat Herself with something expensive. Hair. Nails. Clothes. Bag. Shoes. You name it. Those things are expensive, but if you want your woman to feel good and look good, you have to invest. 🤷🏽‍♂️ and a lot of people don’t agree or might have silly comments but it works for me. 7 years strong. Lol 💪🏽

  • @marinearenaswimmingpools5320
    @marinearenaswimmingpools5320 5 років тому +305

    So they married when they were 10 years old...interesting

  • @Womenswell022
    @Womenswell022 5 років тому +77

    Intense fellowship...🤣🤣🤣

    • @Fifth.Amendment
      @Fifth.Amendment 5 років тому +3

      I know! I have to start using that! 🗣️😁🤣

  • @unleashingpotential-psycho9433
    @unleashingpotential-psycho9433 5 років тому +129

    Treating your spouse like a best friend is the easiest way to stay married. 🔥

    • @jmatthews5685
      @jmatthews5685 5 років тому +14

      That's cute and all but most people don't share finances with their best friends.

  • @matildaloveth102
    @matildaloveth102 5 років тому +57

    17years, wow!!! Beautiful couples.....

  • @SAMSHOZ1
    @SAMSHOZ1 5 років тому +20

    I think Steve should have this stay married episode often, this may help more marriages to keep going.

  • @therealgodessisis
    @therealgodessisis 5 років тому +160

    Do your parents know that you missed school to go on tv today.

    • @sugamama9444
      @sugamama9444 5 років тому +6

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 good one

    • @Jai.mariegolden
      @Jai.mariegolden 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @audreyf.1170
      @audreyf.1170 5 років тому +1

      Thereal GodessIsis 😂😂😂😂

    • @karensmith8095
      @karensmith8095 5 років тому +1

      Thereal GodessIsis damn that’s a good one!! 😂😂

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 5 років тому +2

      You smart, asking the real questions😂😂😂😂

  • @arandaholley1719
    @arandaholley1719 5 років тому +26

    Steve's face is a mood. Next time someone says something crazy to me that is my look.

  • @dammee
    @dammee 5 років тому +29

    Thanks for the logic Steve. I'm not calling to buy eye liner or some milk and cookies.

  • @gigimarie1987
    @gigimarie1987 5 років тому +37

    17years married! they looks 17 years old themselves...lord, lets go melanin!

  • @zarakeys
    @zarakeys 5 років тому +8

    When love is true, you begin to look alike. So beautiful.

    • @jaylaav1166
      @jaylaav1166 5 років тому

      zara alex keys true 🤣

  • @LAmommy
    @LAmommy 5 років тому +28

    Ok guys! Now I have to look at the Marie Kondo show on Netflix. Thanks

  • @JohnneseP
    @JohnneseP 5 років тому +11

    They look young and when they said they were married for 17 years I was shocked!!!
    I agree on everything that Steve and James said.
    Set up a budget and don't go past that limit. I think the husband is taking the control over the finances a little too far. She shouldn't have to ask for beauty products when she wants to buy them.

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani 3 роки тому +10

    In my family, my mom manages the finances while on my husband's family, his dad does it. So when we got together, both of us wanted to take control so we ended up having separate and joint accounts. We also discuss the budget and we always shop together. Then when I want personal stuff, i take it our from my bank account.

  • @DarlaReborn
    @DarlaReborn 5 років тому +16

    Intense fellowship- I LOVE. this phrase 😂😂😂

  • @meyou2236
    @meyou2236 5 років тому +5

    This is a beautiful couple. They compliment one another so much that they maintained a youthful glow, rather than aging each other.

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

  • @Myrihe
    @Myrihe 5 років тому +8

    I was smiling throughout this entire video because they are indeed a beautiful couple..and she is gorgeous!

  • @tykeishecaldcleught6105
    @tykeishecaldcleught6105 5 років тому +6

    I'm married and we don't believe in the "yours mine ours" we just believe in "ours." Discuss even the smallest of things. We're not going to deprive each other if one of us wants a hair cut or an outfit or anything unless it makes sense. If it needs to wait and be done another time, we do it.

  • @lomokbernthurg9679
    @lomokbernthurg9679 3 роки тому +4

    If you can be like these 2, believe me you are not just good, you are at your best

  • @bgntjohnson
    @bgntjohnson 5 років тому +6

    Cute couple and I can't believe they've been married 17 years. They look like they're still in high school!

  • @truerosie
    @truerosie 5 років тому +6

    Wow what a beautiful couple. There is so clearly so much love and affection between them, although they are bringing a problem.

  • @eileenwelter90
    @eileenwelter90 5 років тому +12

    They look so young and so beautiful. Great advice.

  • @lauvonfr9222
    @lauvonfr9222 5 років тому +10

    Very nice and responsible couple. I feel a woman is pretty lucky to have a husband that knows how to handle money. Also, it works both ways if you plan on accomplising anything.

  • @Imperfectlymessy
    @Imperfectlymessy 5 років тому +48

    This is the same couple from the Marie Kondo Netflix show .

    • @itskyrak
      @itskyrak 5 років тому +1

      I just said that

  • @TheWellthyPodcast
    @TheWellthyPodcast 5 років тому +3

    You can tell they both have deep respect for each other...

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

    • @sonheunmin2893
      @sonheunmin2893 5 років тому

      I caught her hahahaha she's cheating on me thanks to 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com you such a genius!

  • @rikanejose2611
    @rikanejose2611 5 років тому +6

    Steve is really funny 😂😂😂. This guy is crazy if he wants to control her and overuse his power over her.

  • @kimkimmie3435
    @kimkimmie3435 5 років тому +4

    👏🏼..power.you’ve been trusted.

  • @lipsohlips97
    @lipsohlips97 5 років тому +2

    What a stunning couple... She is absolutely gorgeous.

  • @candlecane
    @candlecane 5 років тому +2

    Lmao! He was not ready for the Doc's advice. Doc spilling truths.

  • @barbarasbraids
    @barbarasbraids 5 років тому +4

    Intense Fellowship 😇😇😇

  • @xanjaybrowne221
    @xanjaybrowne221 5 років тому +4

    Steve is a legend

  • @hans6929
    @hans6929 2 роки тому +2

    I really cannot ever understand, how does a man earn all the money and give it all up to a woman? I can't even let my own mother handle my money.
    Steve is right, every couple need four accounts: Her's, His, Bill paying, and Savings.

  • @undecided3043
    @undecided3043 2 роки тому +1

    I thought this couple looked familiar! They're in an episode with Marie Kondo's Netflix show called Tidying up. I'm glad they asked this question because they moved from a small town to LA to pursue their dreams and with that comes extra costs.

  • @klgyal2010
    @klgyal2010 5 років тому +9

    They were on the Marie Kondo series!!

  • @wyntamaxwell2766
    @wyntamaxwell2766 4 роки тому +4

    Please let my wife continue to handle the finances. I don't want to take up that responsibility. It saves me a lot of stress and argument. Happy wife, Happy Life

  • @Fcamila100
    @Fcamila100 5 років тому +2

    I've seen this couple on Maria Kondo tidying show. I am sitting here with my husband going hubby where have we seen this couple? And I am like Maria Kondo. Lovely family. Maria came in and that fixed a lot at their home-organised their home. I see that are going way beyond organising their home to organising their finances. Great!!! That have two kids a boy and a girl with locks like their parents.

  • @Ekenei
    @Ekenei 5 років тому +1

    I've seen this couple before along with their family!! Who else has realized this?!

  • @courtneyjones-xxxxx1716
    @courtneyjones-xxxxx1716 5 років тому +8

    They're a great lookin couple. I know that's not the point of this segment🤣

  • @missondo4887
    @missondo4887 5 років тому +4

    He has a beautiful wife ❤️

  • @vivianavillarreal79
    @vivianavillarreal79 4 роки тому +3

    Ok! Hold up! Hold up! Hold up! Married for 17 years?!?!? You look about 17 years old! OMG! Wow! You guys look great!😎 Also don't mean 2b such a 🙄 but yeah going 2 work ain't a bad idea miss lady. Just saying don't mean any disrespect.

  • @reliablemaid
    @reliablemaid 5 років тому +3

    They look amazingly young☺

  • @JasmineFelicia19
    @JasmineFelicia19 5 років тому +2

    The household budget in my opinion shouldn't be a you or me handle it. We get together as a couple and discuss it until we agree because we both have needs/wants and need to find the balance for those things. Plus we always have some sort of financial goals we need to be aiming for and we can't do any of it if we aren't on the same page.

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

    • @sonheunmin2893
      @sonheunmin2893 5 років тому

      I caught her hahahaha she's cheating on me thanks to 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com you such a genius!

  • @hyacinthdibley2420
    @hyacinthdibley2420 5 років тому +4

    They were on the Marie Kondo episode on Netflix. Huh!!!
    Edit: also their kids are very lovely and well behaved.

  • @trippin9298
    @trippin9298 5 років тому +1

    That's why y'all both do the budget and agree on it before the month begins. That way she doesn't feel controlled.

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

  • @erikhopkins9488
    @erikhopkins9488 5 років тому +18

    Dude looks really suspect.

  • @CanadaMath
    @CanadaMath 3 роки тому +2

    Simple solution: the woman needs her own income and a big one.

  • @Princessfrmalmighty
    @Princessfrmalmighty 5 років тому +20

    Sounds like control

    • @shaylaahava6413
      @shaylaahava6413 5 років тому +1

      Yes, but someone has to be in control (to a degree). The man is supposed to control and rule. He still has to love his wife as himself though. So he is given the task or responsibility of being fair, but pragmatic!

    • @juliakowal399
      @juliakowal399 5 років тому +7

      But when he gives her ultimatum for grocery store, it's crazy, I wonder how she can even let him do such a thing to her. He doenst treat her like a woman he treat her like his child or worse. I can't put that in words, crazy staff right there

    • @princessd3966
      @princessd3966 5 років тому +1

      You sound single

    • @juliakowal399
      @juliakowal399 5 років тому +2

      You sound cheap

  • @iamyourleader2287
    @iamyourleader2287 5 років тому +2

    1st answer that wm gave was on point. It’s about control. Most Bm aren’t used to it, so they don’t know how to act. Ughh..So childish..

  • @shaylaahava6413
    @shaylaahava6413 5 років тому +5

    Control you say? Yes, but someone has to be in control (to a degree). The man is supposed to control and rule. He still has to love his wife as himself though. So he is given the task or responsibility of being fair, but pragmatic!

  • @janedoe8452
    @janedoe8452 2 роки тому

    They must like being on TV, I swear this same couple was on Marie Kondo’s show!

  • @ladyb5411
    @ladyb5411 5 років тому +3

    Wasn’t they on the Netflix’s series Tidying Up with Marie Kondo?!?

  • @destinee880
    @destinee880 5 років тому +1

    They were on Netflix with the Japanese woman who helps you organize your space

  • @pamelajohn5416
    @pamelajohn5416 4 роки тому +1

    Such a beautiful couple

  • @chanj2109
    @chanj2109 5 років тому +1

    Yes, they were on Marie Kondo!!!!!

  • @BEAUTIINBRAVERY
    @BEAUTIINBRAVERY Рік тому

    They look SO YOUNG. Katrina was recently featured on the show All the single ladies. Now I see why she was so frustrated. HE WASN'T PROVIDING!!! (ALLEGEDLY)

  • @FRANCESCA01234
    @FRANCESCA01234 4 роки тому +1

    What a lovely couple.

  • @shanellem7091
    @shanellem7091 5 років тому +5

    Isn’t this couple on Marie Kondo “Tidying up” on Netflix?

    • @EboJ13
      @EboJ13 5 років тому

      Yep that's them

  • @dammymurphy3964
    @dammymurphy3964 5 років тому +1

    Married for 17 years? They look 16. Jeez. Great genes they have there wow

  • @gloriamutoni5137
    @gloriamutoni5137 5 років тому +2

    They are good togetherb

  • @gypsysoul2733
    @gypsysoul2733 5 років тому

    Steve, that suit is on point

  • @OnlyQueenE
    @OnlyQueenE 5 років тому +4

    Smh. This guy need to get his life. Right. Happy wife, happy life. Sheesh.

    • @rolorobbins2933
      @rolorobbins2933 5 років тому

      QueenE - divorce rates say otherwise

    • @OnlyQueenE
      @OnlyQueenE 5 років тому

      @@rolorobbins2933 well to each their own. I dont belive in divorce. So I'm entitled to my opinion.

    • @rolorobbins2933
      @rolorobbins2933 5 років тому

      QueenE - it’s not about what u believe in, it’s about reality. 💯

    • @OnlyQueenE
      @OnlyQueenE 5 років тому

      @@rolorobbins2933 well step into reality. Divorce should never be an option.

    • @rolorobbins2933
      @rolorobbins2933 5 років тому

      QueenE - 😂😂😂 ok “reality” accepted

  • @shenedadenney8649
    @shenedadenney8649 2 роки тому

    Intense fellowship lol love it

  • @e.k.o4844
    @e.k.o4844 5 років тому +2

    They look so young to be married for 17 years. Somebody should please explain this to me. How old are they?

  • @richardwalker9038
    @richardwalker9038 5 років тому +1

    They were on the Marie kondo on Netflix

  • @jjlatinopedia
    @jjlatinopedia 5 років тому +3

    In short, give her everything she wants. Beauty isn't cheap.

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 5 років тому +9

    Y I am not married cause I ain't askn to get CRAP!!! 😒

    • @dddurk123456789
      @dddurk123456789 5 років тому +3

      exactly! i left my parents to buy an do what i wnt whenever i wnt. not get married and have another mom too ask permission about things im aloud too do or buy. screw tht!.

    • @Shabzana
      @Shabzana 5 років тому +1

      i feel you!!

  • @shawmou3493
    @shawmou3493 5 років тому +3

    No! Beard!

  • @ataleoftwocitygirls7083
    @ataleoftwocitygirls7083 5 років тому +4

    I'm sorry...did they say 17 years or 7?

  • @regeniquecole2638
    @regeniquecole2638 5 років тому

    OMG 😲 they were on Tidying Up with Marie Kondo on Netflix - small (but big) world 🗺

  • @Trice95baby
    @Trice95baby 5 років тому +1

    Black Love 😍

  • @InsightfulWanderer484
    @InsightfulWanderer484 5 років тому +4

    Take back the finances,no man can dictate if you buy a mascara! Hell NO
    The husband may have a point doh,go back to work full time,then you will have your own money to do what you want with it as well as contributing to the family

  • @rediatzeleke7161
    @rediatzeleke7161 5 років тому +1

    I saw this couple on mari konro cleaning video on Netflix

  • @jackiejacksful
    @jackiejacksful 5 років тому +9

    They look grrrrreat. What’s the secret?

  • @creativembl8405
    @creativembl8405 5 років тому +1

    They Love TV them two,but a beautiful couple with children

  • @whalesnamedshark
    @whalesnamedshark 5 років тому

    I like his glasses

  • @filmnoirnyc
    @filmnoirnyc 3 роки тому

    a beautiful couple

  • @deebee8170
    @deebee8170 5 років тому +1

    17 years????? Did they get married at the age of 8?
    I'm going to need hubby to implement at least an additional $50.00 a month in the budget for his wife.

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

  • @gmedia-tv5069
    @gmedia-tv5069 5 років тому

    This lady looks like a girl who asked me to marry her seriously her complexion her smile her voice 🤭

  • @KJ-et2cg
    @KJ-et2cg 5 років тому +1

    K. . .so don't nobody want the footage of the couple who feels "their next fight may be their last"?
    That sound like somebody bout to wake up dead!!

  • @kingoceanblu4445
    @kingoceanblu4445 4 роки тому +1

    Steve never asks If they have the money for the extra food or Eye liner they could be struggling to pay rent and they can't afford extra food or eyeliner

    • @gillianwhitelocke9614
      @gillianwhitelocke9614 3 роки тому

      She should do a few hours work. They can evaluate if eye liner cost weighs up to hours worked. Some things not so necessary. Budget together

    • @tbraxton2985
      @tbraxton2985 Рік тому

      She could do side jobs like Uber or delivery services for some spending money. And he can recognize that there should be a little room in the budget for small extras IF they can afford it.

  • @crystalwade9134
    @crystalwade9134 5 років тому +9

    Are they actors they were on Marie Kondos Netflix show

    • @StrongnBeautiful
      @StrongnBeautiful 5 років тому +1

      At this point, they must be.

    • @zaynakanu9691
      @zaynakanu9691 5 років тому +1

      Theyre not actors, marias show is a reality show, not scripted or directed ...

    • @june_keke
      @june_keke 5 років тому

      I was just thinking the same! There’s no way they could be on Steve’s show and Netflix

    • @candlecane
      @candlecane 5 років тому

      @@zaynakanu9691 Up and coming actors go on air to gather publicity and material for their reel. It has nothing to do with actually acting. They'll show up on any show, related or not.

  • @adelitenyamhanga7823
    @adelitenyamhanga7823 5 років тому

    I was thinking where did i see them. They are on marie kondo cleaning thing , one of the episodes.

  • @dreamingofluxurycash
    @dreamingofluxurycash 3 роки тому +1

    He want to be right so bad , the husband.

  • @maggief1851
    @maggief1851 5 років тому +1

    If you want her to look good for you let her get the damn eyeliner.

    • @gonzalesbathe5593
      @gonzalesbathe5593 5 років тому

      I'm a military my man ,so i don't spend much time with my spouse but i know whatever she's doing with her phone secretly with tracker software i bought from the world famous hacker 24hrssoftcyberhack@gmail.com

  • @theroamingbug5798
    @theroamingbug5798 5 років тому +1

    Good que guys. I hope u got the answer.. amazing right?

  • @dreamingofluxurycash
    @dreamingofluxurycash 3 роки тому +1

    Men (spouses) want us to look a certain way but dot wanna pay for it 🥱

  • @DEMETRIUSblaze
    @DEMETRIUSblaze 5 років тому +1

    Okay first of all too her Husband you have amazing woman she trusted you you can't take away the beauty selection she's not a kid, would he like if she had control and he had too ask too buy some damn under wear and he needs them; hell no, they both should be in control that's how my parents did it, not one person that is foolish planning two heads over money better than one, nice couple don't look age

  • @oliviaonairwinsteard9922
    @oliviaonairwinsteard9922 3 роки тому

    Drop the I put in We.

  • @KATHERINEMARIA-ks9sk
    @KATHERINEMARIA-ks9sk 4 роки тому

    Nope. I wouldn't ever allow anyone to control anything about me. Sorry. That's why I love being alone

  • @autobotdiva9268
    @autobotdiva9268 5 років тому +2

    They silly. Sit down.

  • @varunpandey6297
    @varunpandey6297 Рік тому

    0:53 3:22

  • @robinmccastle1300
    @robinmccastle1300 5 років тому +1

    Woman need more things.

  • @jeupshaw
    @jeupshaw 3 роки тому +2

    If she doesn't have a full time job, why does she need extensions, nails, cosmetics, etc.....

    • @destinysamiadestinyglobal7634
      @destinysamiadestinyglobal7634 2 роки тому +1

      She doesn't need extensions. They both seem to have dreads. She didn't mention all of these things. She just mentioned mascara and Steve mentioned all the rest.

  • @Marwa.AR2019
    @Marwa.AR2019 5 років тому

    Heyyy werent they on the show called tidying up with kondo or something the Japanese lady. Yesss thats them

  • @rashardstallworth9240
    @rashardstallworth9240 5 років тому +2

    Steve is tripping. Everybody doesn't have his money. I just because you see these people on TV looking nice and shiny doesn't mean they have a lot of money there's a lot of nice and shiny people on Section 8 getting food stamps and going to food banks that work low-paying jobs so if she's buying $30 mascara and $30 eyeliner and they don't have any money for gas that makes no sense. You have to live within your means and there's nothing crazy about that mr. Steve Harvey

  • @rhonakumalo775
    @rhonakumalo775 5 років тому +11

    How much did his hair cost?? Holla