Dating in The Villages, Florida: Scott Costa & Tina Spill the Secrets! 💘”

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  • Hey, Lanai Fam! 🌟 Get ready for an exciting episode of Ladies of the Lanai! This time, we’re diving into the hot topic of dating in The Villages, Florida. You know and love him, Scott Costa is back, and he’s discussing all things dating with Tina! 💑✨
    💖 What’s it like being single in The Villages? Scott and Tina share their personal experiences and tips for navigating the dating scene here!
    🚫 Find out Scott’s dealbreakers when it comes to dating - you might be surprised!
    📱 Curious about the dating apps Scott has used? He spills the tea on his favorites and which ones actually work!
    👏 Ever heard someone say, “I clap for you”? Scott reveals what he means by this intriguing phrase!
    Join us for a fun and insightful conversation that’s perfect for singles and couples alike. Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE to stay in the loop with Ladies of the Lanai! Let’s explore the world of dating in The Villages together! 🎉
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  • @flybirds2024
    @flybirds2024 15 днів тому +3

    I am 63 and have lived in the Villages for 2 /1/2 years. I am single and have not even considered dating as I am content golfing and hanging with friends!

  • @Susie-Joy
    @Susie-Joy 26 днів тому +4

    "Depending on the patient.." eeeeeeeeEeE!! LMAO what a hoot! Love it LOL... Love you ladies! xx

  • @marywilson1948
    @marywilson1948 27 днів тому +4

    The patient 😂. Love it!! Freudian slip for the win!!😂
    Scott is so nice and friendly. I can see why the two of you are friends. Y’all can have each other’s back if you go out with a group! (Keep an eye out for prospects for
    each other too😊)
    Great in depth discussion, Tina and Scott!!

    • @GAN-0
      @GAN-0 26 днів тому

      Right?!? Hey …at least he didn’t say “the victim” 😂

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому

      Thanks Mary!! That’s what friends are for - we always need a good wing man!

  • @timobermeyer4362
    @timobermeyer4362 27 днів тому +4

    The interview was very eye opening to hear Scott's take on the single life. I am single and 63 and I have the same or similar insight into dating. This was a great video.

  • @kylereed980
    @kylereed980 27 днів тому +1

    Great fun show Tina, you do a great job, thank you😂

  • @mymotherwasright3079
    @mymotherwasright3079 11 днів тому

    This guy is a gem! 💎 They don't make 'em like him anymore. I hope you meet someone who realizes how much of a gentleman you are. compared most! 😍

  • @Motlei1
    @Motlei1 27 днів тому +1

    This was such a fun episode. Communication is key in any type of relationship! As Scott mentioned, too many people are too rigid in their ways, they may need to be a bit more flexible and it goes both ways.
    And of course read the whole profile. 😂
    Kind of glad I’m not dating in this day and age. 🙄 Oh and how horrendous with the catfishing. Good luck to all of the singles out there. ❤

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому

      Thanks the Gods girlfriend. You have a good one and he’s lucky to have you 💋

  • @sherrycampbell9196
    @sherrycampbell9196 27 днів тому

    Another great show..have a awesome week❤from a Indiana girl living on the Virginia Tennessee line

  • @janetpartyka5968
    @janetpartyka5968 27 днів тому +4

    Communication is number one. If you want your date to plan something, you may have to tell him/her that.

    • @Scott-gx3ne
      @Scott-gx3ne 27 днів тому

      If you communicate your wants, needs, and likes this way there is no confusion.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому

      Yes, you’re right, but i keep thinking the right guy will be able to read my mind! 🙈 ha ha. Thanks for watching :)

  • @AClark-bq6oc
    @AClark-bq6oc 23 дні тому

    Thanks for a great video😁

  • @Melodie007
    @Melodie007 27 днів тому

    Always good information ❤

  • @NurseSuzetteRNCMCN
    @NurseSuzetteRNCMCN 27 днів тому +3

    Tina you look so young and beautiful and you are such a great interviewer.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому +1

      Oh thank you! We both enjoy doing all our interviews on the show! Thanks for watching!!

  • @tombuchta6372
    @tombuchta6372 25 днів тому

    Really enjoyed the show. My take/experiences dating in my 50s are similar to what Scott expressed. One question I was interested in is dating within the social circles. I pretty much avoid dating within Meetup groups (assuming y'all know what that is) to avoid the potential ensuing awkwardness. TV circles seem similar to Meetup groups to me. Seemed like Scott has no issues with it. I'd be interested in Tina's take (or anyone else for that matter). Thanks. Keep up the interesting content!

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  24 дні тому

      Hey Tom. It’s interesting that you ask :). I actually had a situation exactly like you are referring to. I had a potential date with a guy who had dated someone in my circle of friends. He was upfront and honest and I was impressed he gave me the heads up so I wouldn’t be blindsided if we ran into each other. I asked about how the breakup was, how long they dated and how long ago they went out and I decided I was ok with us going out. He was giving me the option to say no if I was uncomfortable with it… He also went back to the other person to let her know we were going on a date. The other woman and I actually started to have a conversation one night out on how should we ALL handle something like this since we are bound to have it happen with the dating pool we are in. The Villages may be large, but it’s really still small… we never finished the conversation so it’s something to continue but I feel if you are as transparent as possible (and I say as possible) that it can work… we just all want to try and be as respectful as possible with each because we will be seeing each other at various functions… what are your thoughts?
      So glad you enjoy our content. We try to bring something different that the other Villages channels as they all do a great job with the other areas :)

    • @tombuchta6372
      @tombuchta6372 24 дні тому

      @@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns Thanks for taking the time to respond. It's nice to get perspective from the other side 😊. My thoughts ? I think it's all fine most of the time. It doesn't work out, you amicably move on as friends. The concern is if for whatever reason it ends ugly. I guess that is why it is important to try to end things in a positive manner.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  22 дні тому

      @tombuchta6372 wise words :)

  • @victoriachanel2493
    @victoriachanel2493 27 днів тому +8

    Scott and Tina have great chemistry ❤they would make a cute couple!

  • @christigallup2175
    @christigallup2175 27 днів тому +1

    I agree if I'm out and meet someone I want them to ask. I'm personally old school I want the man to be the lead

  • @christigallup2175
    @christigallup2175 27 днів тому

    Is there any kind of socials for singles? Like bingo or pickles all or something? I think you have to be happy within yourself before you are ready to be in a new relationship. It's more the personality for me than looks, but agree there has to be some appeal.

    • @Scott-gx3ne
      @Scott-gx3ne 27 днів тому

      This is the villages. There is a club for EVERYTHING. If you don’t find what you’re looking for you can make the club up! But there are a lot of singles groups and Facebook groups.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому

      Scott is correct. There are singles clubs here and also clubs for almost every interest…

  • @user-kf4zw8fc8f
    @user-kf4zw8fc8f 27 днів тому +6

    how is he living at the villages if he's 51 years old?

  • @JaneEBuck
    @JaneEBuck 15 днів тому

    Do what you love and love will follow.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  15 днів тому

      I like this phrase! 🤞🏼it works for me!! 😝. Thanks for watching :)

  • @fierceflyer5
    @fierceflyer5 27 днів тому +4

    Scott is great but the gecko on your screen was stealing the show with all his appearances lol

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunset 27 днів тому

    The Villages would make for a great story in that book called The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell.

  • @atal68
    @atal68 25 днів тому

    T, I miss that laugh!❤

  • @Livefreeordi
    @Livefreeordi 27 днів тому +1

    Yes Tina looks fab at 58!

  • @JackiRose
    @JackiRose 27 днів тому +2

    Depending on the patient - Ha ha ha ha

  • @ritafaulkner7042
    @ritafaulkner7042 27 днів тому +4

    You look great at 58! Share the secret! 😀

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  27 днів тому +2

      Thank you. I actually just turned 59 on June 9th 🙈. My mother says i have her to thank for my youthful appearance… but i am religious with my skincare!!

  • @acekis1
    @acekis1 27 днів тому +1

    If he is 51, how does he live in the villages?

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  27 днів тому +2

      He lives and takes care of his mother who lives in The villages. One person in the household must be 55 or older…

    • @BenDover-bz7wv
      @BenDover-bz7wv 4 дні тому

      80-20 rule

  • @christigallup2175
    @christigallup2175 27 днів тому

    If Scott is 51 if I'm not mistaken how does he live there?

    • @Livefreeordi
      @Livefreeordi 27 днів тому +2

      There is an 8020 roll only 80% have to be 55 and over. Plus he mentioned on a previous episode that he’s living in his mother’s home.

    • @christigallup2175
      @christigallup2175 27 днів тому +1

      @Livefreeordi I hadn't known about that but when he said he was 51 I was like what wait. Makes total sense.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  27 днів тому +1

      That’s correct, he lives and takes care of his mother here in The Villages. Only one person in the household must be 55 or older…

  • @joec68500
    @joec68500 16 днів тому

    Where are the under 55 single ladies hiding in TV? Guessing its the employees mostly.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  16 днів тому

      Since The Villages is a 55+ community I would assume any single ladies under 55 are living with their parents 😬 but yes, you’re right. I’m sure many employees throughout the various businesses in the villages have under 55 single ladies…

    • @joec68500
      @joec68500 16 днів тому

      @@LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns That was a rhetorical question. By State law, a percentage under 55 is allowed in retirement communities in Florida. 😃

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  15 днів тому +1

      Ah, humor, apparently I’m a little slow on the uptake! yes, you’re correct - The Villages is under the 80/20 law. I guess those under 55 single ladies in TV are in the Bermuda Triangle of The Villages, we are still searching unless they formed their own secret society … 😝. Thanks for a little light heartedness :)

  • @GinaSpizzinoco
    @GinaSpizzinoco 27 днів тому +4

    teeth are a #1 priority for me lol

  • @janetpartyka5968
    @janetpartyka5968 27 днів тому

    What about the two of you?

    • @GAN-0
      @GAN-0 26 днів тому

      Exactly …I think there may be a “love connection”. Maybe he asked her out after the show! ❤

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  26 днів тому +1

      Hold on there kids - we are just good friends but he’s a great guy!!! Thanks for watching :)

  • @doglover8204
    @doglover8204 10 днів тому

    First of all, calling mature women “ girls” is disrespectful. I don’t think you meant it that way but just putting it out there because I hear that a lot.

  • @donniemoder1466
    @donniemoder1466 12 днів тому +1

    Dude, you are 51? Umm, you can get 45 or 40 yr old and you are seriously talking dating a 62 year old? Also, be very specific about what you do for a living. Woman want to know what they are working with.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  12 днів тому

      Hi. He had discussed his occupation (First Responder) in another video “Ask a Villager” but probably a good idea to reiterate in this more recent video….

  • @DBAMA-wm9jw
    @DBAMA-wm9jw 26 днів тому

    He looks a lot older then 51

    • @dennisd4027
      @dennisd4027 25 днів тому

      He has a better personality than you, that's for sure. Imagine feeling compelled to have to type that.

    • @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns
      @LadiesoftheLanai-yb1ns  24 дні тому

      Nope, he’s 51 and we think he’s a great guy!!

  • @Coolor419
    @Coolor419 21 день тому

    Interesting content but oofff… he talked WAY too much.