In the last couple of years I have bought some bits and pieces that bring me great joy. First I blocked up my fireplace and installed a real flame electric fire. I can come home and press a button and by the time I've changed my clothes my lounge is toastie. No ashes or dust to clean up. The second item I bought was a Roomba type vacuum cleaner. Oh how I love the sound of it whirring around and doing a job that I hated. The most recent purchase I made was a decent coffee maker. Need I say more.....
Excellent list. I’ve adopted your list, and hadn’t realized it. Those items make single/silver life manageable and even more peaceful. I pay extra for good quality foods. Since I cook/share my creations… I won’t waste money or time on budget ingredients. Reliable car. Too old to be worried as I turn the key. Thanks Jen.
Had a son-in-law of a friend paint our metal gates over the years because he needed money. The gates looked OK. He moved away and this time, we had professional painters do the work --- the difference in how the finished product looks is amazing. Sometimes it is best to let the pros do the work.
Bought my winter coat in the fall of 2002. It's still in great condition and it's washable/dryable. Since my husband passed away several months ago, my kids and I decided that I should sell the house and move closer to them. Was planning on selling my couch since I'll probably be in a smaller space. Decided to keep it as it's a quality piece. Bought in 2003 and still looks brand new. Paying for the best you can afford is the cheapest route to go in the long run. Don't get me started on "fast fashion"!
I bought Cutco knives in the 60s before I got married! I love them and 59 years later I am still using them!! Nothing worse than garbage bags that leak!! I am with you there!! ❤ hugs from Eileen ❤️
I happily pay about $300 for professional round trip car service to the airport. It is only 30 miles from my home but in a major US city. Traveling is stressful enough without having to worry about parking, weather, traffic etc. A good driver will know all the alternate routes in case of traffic. He or she will also be up on time sucking airport glitches such as road work, construction, etc. On the return trip, my service keeps on top of my flight status and will be there at the arrivals area when I am.
I once paid for car service to/from a Hawaii vacation. Was awesome not having to park the car and shuttle and when we arrived home, there was the driver waiting with a sign. He handled all the luggage. Was worth it.
I totally agree! I'm not fond of the super cheap, thin toilet paper - to me, you just end up using 2-3 times as much, so where is the savings? I have started using bamboo TP over the past few years, and it is good quality and saves trees as well.
Hey Jen, I will pay extra for the best garbage bags every time. I'm experimenting with grocery delivery. My goal is to spend less on my grocery budget. It's working so far. Having to pay for the service upfront and a tip has saved me over half my budget. Walking around the grocery store is more demanding, and it helps to keep my impulse shopping in check.
A good mattress makes such a big difference. I love mine. Where I live, good outerwear isn’t a big deal. It’s not cold enough long enough to matter. As I’ve gotten older, DIY has become more and more rare. Professionals are a must.
Now that I am 69 I pay for help twice a year for major yard or tree trimming. I also won’t go higher that 6ft on a ladder. If I need to get higher I hire someone. Also my robot vacuum is gold to me. Man does “Hazel” save me work. 😊
I try to not cheap out on certain items like mattress, sheets, shoes and coats. But, I cannot pay top dollar either. So, I compromise and get the best quality I can for the money I have to spend even if it means paying a few dollars more than I am confortable with. Sometimes it takes me a while to find these item with this criteria and works for me. But, it's worth the extra money and time. I haven't regretted a purchase I made or service I used for decades. I highly recommend it. As always, great chat Jenn. See ya next week. 🙂🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
Yes to all of those and I would add good quality cookware. There's nothing worse than cooking with flimsy cheap pots and pans, plus the non-stick coating can be dangerous over time and use. I still use Revere stainless steel cookware that my mother received as a wedding gift in 1950. 70+ years of use...now that is quality worth paying for.
When we got married, my mother in law didn't know what to give us, so gave money. I bought a steamer saucepan set, using all of it! Still in daily use, since 1963!
I bought an eight-inch Japanese chef's knife in 1973 for a little over $20, fifty-one years later I'm still using it, so a good knife will last a lifetime. My second favorite knife is a bread knife my mother purchased in the early 1960s, that one amazes me because it has never been sharpened and still cuts bread perfectly.
I probably should have done the bread knife. I cheaped out on one and it's working, but all I can do is knock on wood that it will continue to do so. There will probably be a replacement in the future...
Neighbourhood - I’ve been there. Location - location - location. I bought my 1st condo in a bad neighbourhood…and eventually i had to sell it and move to a much quiet neighbourhood. I learned my lesson big time.
Testing revealed recently that I need hearing aids. My EENT provider dispenses them, and I checked out other options. Yes, there are cheaper options - one that costs about half of what I paid. In the end I went with my EENT provider. Warranty on the hearing aids, regular visits with the audiologist, and my Dr. is at the same practice. Best and latest technology available. Expensive and well worth it. Like a good mattress, being able to hear properly affects overall health. Thank you for your videos!
I’m smiling at the knife point. In my early 20s I got a chef’s knife as a gift and at 64 it’s still my favourite. And sharpened on my grandfather’s whetstone.
I agree with your list of items Jen. I’d also add good quality skin care - cleanser, moisturizer and sun screen. Three little bottles is all I need. They do the job and feel great. I refuse to compromise. I’ve never been one to follow fashion trends so buying loads of clothes isn’t my jam - frees up the money for my priorities. ;-)
All good advice. And I whole-heartedly agree about not leaving our pets in kennels or doggy daycares. Even the ones with puppy-cams that let you watch from your phone. The safest place for your pet is at home. 🐶🐱
Custom orthotics! By a doctor of podiatry! They understand joint function, will get you comfortable walking, and then give you a list custom to you, of which shoe models and brands to choose from. This literally changed my life. Not cheap ones, though.
Your videos bring me joy & reinforce my love for single living! My favorite tip is buying good quality shoes, because my feet don’t love cheap. Next fav is handy person hire! I’m living my best life thx to many of these tips.
Things I am willing to spend extra on: Good counselor Good tires AAA Dishwasher soap Dish soap Laundry detergent Trash bags Meat Bras Electrician Plumber Couch
I have a Ms. fixit friend and for years she has said, "All you have to do..." My response was always, "Yeah, I don't do that" or "I pay people to do that". Twenty years later and cruising into my 60s, I still pay for convenience and have always worked my butt off for that privilege. I love that you started with that one! 😀
I make cheap mistakes all the time. Meh. 😩 But I do know better! One thing I never compromised on was cat care for my Maggie. After exhausting friends to stay with her, I found an elderly acquaintance who was thrilled to live in my place and explore my Netflix every time I went away. It was perfect. My cat got to stay home and he got a vacation space. I voluntarily paid him buckets, and stocked the kitchen with his favorites to entice him to stay, but it was worth every cent! My Maggie passed but I’d do the same with any future pet. 💞
One of the biggest investments I made was when I graduated high school in the early 70's. I bought a top of the line sewing machine as I loved sewing. It lasted me 45 years. Thanks for your videos
I’ve had my Bernina sewing machine for 35+ years and I never want to part with it. When I take it in for regular service, the guy says he loves working on it because it’s an older mechanical machine - not computerized.
I rescue old sewing machines that people are throwing out. I find them online or at the curb. The pre-1970s all-metal mechanical machines are worth fixing. I clean and oil them. I replace the bobbin or needle as needed. I'll play with the tension if necessary. That is usually all that is needed. Then I find a good home for it and give it away for free. It is a hobby of mine. You also can find these old machines at thrift stores for $20-40. My local sewing store charges $150 to service them. It is worth it if the timing or tension are messed up. After that, keep it clean of lint after each sewing session and once a year put a drop of sewing machine oil on the moving parts. I grew up using a Kenmore 158. It is a bulletproof machine that will last for generations. I think it was made by Janome. My sister has it. I have a Singer 403 and love it. Another bulletproof machine. Replacement parts and accessories are easy to find online.
As an artist, one of the things I will pay extra money for is really good art supplies. I can buy some cheap stuff for you UA-cam demos, or doing something and rough first. But when it comes to working on a final good piece, I found it’s worth it to splurge on the good stuff if you want to work, your mediums properly.
This may sound funny, but I would pay extra for good ground meat. Just think of all the things that you make with ground meat. The most important one is a good old-fashioned hamburger if you don’t have a good ground meat, you’re not gonna have a good hamburger I make so many things with ground meat.
You nailed it pretty well. So glad you included garbage bags; so many people just list the expensive items, but thicker, solid garbage bags are SO necessary!
My splurges are definitely for my dogs. I am 72 and disabled, so rather than have a back yard that is disgusting with their dog waste, I pay a company to come over and pick up dog poo twice a month. I know some people think it is ridiculous, but I am unable to do it myself and the back yard is small, so over time it would become a health hazard. I also want them to eat human grade fresh food, and I can't cook it myself, so I pay to have gently cooked, human grade food delivered every month. Fortunately my dogs are small, so it isn't exorbitantly expensive.
I pay "extra" for lattes and other drinks because I want to support, independent, local businesses. To me the cost is a small "admission fee" to the shop adjacent garden AND it's cheaper than therapy!
Just a note about down filling. There is a very great deal of animal abuse in the trade in down. Check out if your down is ethically sourced, without unnecessary cruelty to geese and other birds. I buy down-filled vests from Lands End (it’s a U.S. company, so add for import duty), because they state that their down is ethically sourced. I don’t think the same can be said for Canada Goose products.
Good pillows and a steel nail file ate my additions to your list plus good quality pots and pans with no Teflon screw on handles and double bottom.I have a cheese grater from 1969 still in use
Love your list and many in comments. My list would also add: good coffee beans and coffee maker (me + aero press) a mug that fits great in my hand beyond a good office chair I’d say all seating like outdoor, dining & living room sewing machine with a strong motor and metal vs plastic inside. I have a basic, non-computerized Bernina that should last my lifetime with care scissors shampoo chocolate pillows & bedding - not that it all has to be fancy but will only buy natural fibers now. Threshold organic cotton sheets by Target is a good example
1) Flashlights, I finally decided to get a couple of good flashlights and to stop using the cheap plastic flashlights that you have to shake to make them work when you need them. 2) Paint brushes, we bought the cheap brushes for painting our first room and after having bristles falling out as we painted or sticking out as we edged, leaving a paint streak where we didn't want it, we bought good quality brushes, and they made the job less stressful. 3) TSA Pre check...it was SO worth it to walk to the short line to go thru security on the last two flights that I needed to take.
Hi Jen, well said! I color the roots of my hair every month and I am willing to pay the trusted hairdresser with my hair! Also I have a couple of CUTCO (sp)knives that I purchased many many years ago, the are still sharp (since I don't use them that often,). Unfortunately, my favorite one fell somewhere within the dishwasher and the handle was damaged and deformed. I still use it though! Lastly, I paid a pet sitter to come home and deliver insulin to my wonderful kitty Smokey (twice a day). a bit pricey but oh so worth it. Cheers
Great video! Totally against kennels for same reason! Plan way in advance to find right person to house/pet sit!! Totally worth every penny! A word of caution on expensive shoes? I always also try to buy quality but some retailers don’t care about comfort… only style!!! So make comfort AND quality your go to for any and all shoes! Again, plan ahead… take your time buying shoes! So IMPORTANT!
Furniture. No matter if it's new or old, buy quality. I am 65 years old and I have my parent's mahogany furniture plus my own that I purchased in my 20's and upwards.
Furniture/mattress was the first thing I thought of. IKEA has its place, but "real" furniture lasts a lifetime. I do pay the extra for nonstop flights, mainly to reduce the chance of delays. Flying between California and London in December, there was no way I was changing planes in Minneapolis. Knowing your DIY limitations will save money in the long run when you don't cause additional damage.
Hi Jen. I so agree on buying the name brand garbage bags. So worth it, as well as the best quality outerwear. I've had one of my North Face coats for at least 7 years, and it still looks brand new. I still have knives and silverware from my mom, and she's been gone for 30 years. Plus her good gravy boat and ladle. In mint perfect condition. My grandson is nearly 3, and he only gets the best sneakers. Though he'll grow out of them, they help keep his balance, fit his foot correctly, and have a wonderful skid free sole. The same for my workout sneakers. I'm in a lovely townhome, in a wonderful neighborhood. The taxes are much higher than other neighborhoods, but it's quiet, hopefully safe (the police department is located within the development). I'm with you. I'd never put my 3 cats in a kettle. I'd hire someone to stay here. Seems like when pets go to a kennel, they get sick. Thanks, Jen. Always good advice!❤
Great list. Agree on all. The mattress is major necessity that I wish I realized when I was younger. Towels and sheets would be another. Skincare products...more so for the quality ingredients and not putting stuff on your skin that has all these fillers and crazy ingredients that the US still allows. Curious if you have a fav. Outter wear brand ? I'm down the hill in the San juans and you guys I thjnk still get colder/ wetter than us. I am curious what the Canadians use for rain gear and warm jackets? Food quality as well. I'll pay more again for organic or stuff less processed to TRY and limit the chemical consumption! Thx as always. Love your videos.
Good seating is a must for our backs as we age. I worked for a company that redecorated and warehoused all its Herman Miller chairs. The guy in charge of the warehouse at the time gave me one when the company went out of business. It must have been 40 years old when it died. I bought another Herman Miller, although my life expectancy at this point is less than that.
I already do all of these - although I’ve supercharged the travel tip by only flying first class now. More expensive but WAAAAAY better. 😁 I would also add to the list, paying for the best seats available at any kind of show you want to see. There are always a few that I just can’t justify ($1,800 to see anyone at the Sphere in Vegas is lottery-win territory for me), but $300 to see Herbie Hancock in a 300-seat jazz club was worth every single penny spent. 🎶
Back in the 80s we had a beautiful dog who was so loyal. Whilst we were away on holiday once, the kennels had him put down😢. I still miss him every day
Computer screens. If you have two screens to do your job at work, get the equivalent or better for home. Don't try and do it all hunched over a laptop on the sofa. Get a desk to go with that chair. ❤
Totally agree on flights. My son and daughter-in-law wanted me to take flights that were more convenient for them which meant changing planes and I said no. I'm flying non-stop direct.
Paying my nephew to help with large and small project as I declutter our home has been amazing. It’s not that I can’t do it but having help gets it done faster.
I had a similar experience as a child with our dog in a kennel. When I go away I have a family member look after my cat at my place. I have looked into trustedhousesitters and would go with them for sure if it was for a longer holiday. thanks for the other recommendation for shorter trips. I have a great mattress and paid good money for it. Long ago had a terrible one and had sleep issues and back issues. Bought a great one after that and all my issues disappeared. Also make sure not to keep it forever or those issues will return. Everything wears out and breaks down. thanks for these tips Jen. Also appreciated the long air travel tip.
I put a doggy in a kennel once 30 years ago and when I collected him he was shaking in the corner. He was never the same after that - for the next 10 years of his life he suffered terrible anxiety and sadness. He was only there for 2 days. Never again! Poor Hugboots
Buying good quality the first time when it comes to bits that help me live with my autism, also just buying them in the first place 😂. Earplugs, noise cancelling headphones, etc etc. Without them I'd be a wreck of a human being, so getting ones that are both comfortable and long lasting is essential
I think if you do your research, spend your hard-earned money on very good quality items that you use every day, you'll do just fine. I try to remember what my parents spend their hard earned money on. Good tires, oil changes 2x a year. Car repairs at a very reputable place. Also my Mom had an appliance insurance plan for every appliance in our house. She would pay towards it monthly or yearly, and if anything was unfixable, it was replaced for free. She loved it and told many people about it.
I used trusted housesitters for my baby...I found a lovely lady nearby in Bowser and my cat was SO HAPPY when I came home. It's only a once a year cost and SO WORTH it in my opinion.
I do agree with all you listed. I pay extra for good food (example, Philadelphia cream cheese instead of store brand because I can taste the difference). I bought myself some fabulous sheets this summer, they feel luxurious and I’m worth it. ❤
Another service that I pay a lot for is a haircut. A couple of years ago when my income dropped, I tried a couple of the budget haircut chain places. I thought- how hard can it be? I thought surely they are trained to do basic layered bobs. Well, all the haircuts were terrible. So I went to a regular full service beauty salon and found a stylist that does decent haircuts, but it's not cheap. Related to that subject, when I had my hair professionally colored, I did buy the expensive salon shampoo to preserve the quality of the color as long as possible. Since I "went gray" I just buy non-salon shampoo that's sulfate and cruety-free for much less.
I love this, I splurged last year and bought a really nice pair of warm boots, spent over $150.00 but, they are the best boots I have ever worn. I wore them all winter and put them back in the box for this coming year!
I'm a quilter, and i won't buy cheap fabric. (Walmart) the cheap fabrics are treated with something to make it feel good and heavy, but washes away to reveal thin, flimsy fabric. Also, i bought a good set of knives from a restaurant supply store, carbon steel, and they're easier to sharpen and the edge lasts longer than stainless steel knives.
I would pay extra for courses and classes related to my serious hobbies and career. Also I pay for ad free UA-cam since I watch so much of it. I am a Skillshare and Patreon member.
Good knives for a reasonable cost - MERCER. Very good steel that is well heat treated, generally good ergonomics, good warranty. Their bread knife for around $18 is the best I have ever used; SUPER sharp and very ergonomic. Zips through crusty bread / bagels / whatever like a light saber. I have very good German and Swedish knives and these MERCER are fully their equal in all ways I measure. BTW, invest in and learn to use a good sharpening steel and strop.
I paid serious money to get good laminate floors installed by experts, likewise top of the line windows. Floors have lasted 30+ years, still like new. Windows made my townhouse snug. Worth it. No cheaping out. I have a modest income but you only need to do the best once, usually.
Car wash!! Last year I spent money on a special foam to spray on my car, along with the wipes, and special towels and a can of some kind of wax coating to put on after -- whatever. You get what I'm talking about. Jump to today and I still have not used any of those things -- they are sitting on my shelf in my garage. I just don't have the time, nor the energy to go out and wash/clean my car. I'm past 60 and why risk hurting my back, knees, etc. Instead, I have taken my car to the car wash and for 20 bucks I can get something called "The Works" -- and that includes everything. The foam, the buffing, the wax -- the works! And I don't have to lift a finger and my car looks shiny and new. They even have an unlimited car wash club where you pay one price and get as many washes you want per month/year. Not sure if I'll do that, but still -- way better than doing it myself. That is a splurge that is so worth it!
I agree with you about the pet sitter! I paid the dog trainer good $ to stay at my place because I didn't trust anyone else. Now she found me a sitter close by that saves me money and likes to hang out here because she doesn't have a television. I make my dogs food instead of feeding them dog food and they are in great health.
Convenience for me is to avoid public transport (which, in fact, in germany is getting more and more worse and unreliable) and use my own car. IF I have to use a train I chose first class. That is well spend money for me.
As one who has Raynaud's Syndrome, I don't mind paying for some good wool socks for the winter. One time when I wasn't wearing good wooly socks during an extremely cold winter night when I had to he out and about, I got duch a bad attack of Raynaud's that both feet were almost frost bitten...yes, even while wearing shoes and thin socks..... so, I need my wooly socks!!!! Miss Monique 🙂🙏🌷💗
I pay extra for a good reliable 4WD car I can drive into remote areas and not worry about getting stuck or having a break down, good quality sports equipment and top quality pet food.
I always love listening to your videos. They are full of common sense advice and presented in a clear manner. I listen while I work and feel like a friend is sitting next to me giving advice. Thank you!
If you live in a cold climate, a wool cardigan and wool longjohns are nice. Silk scarf can be warming without itchyness. A crockpot with auto turn off is handy for warm soups/stews. Windproof russian style hat for those windy icy days. An electric blanket for warming back with auto shutoff. Wool socks!
Recently found your channel and really enjoy your useful advice. Recently, we invested in a washer/dryer at a large sum of money £500… I was worried at first but oh my gosh, the time saved… I never thought I could love a cleaning appliance so much! The next item I am considering to buy is a roomba… For me, anything that can give me back my time is incredibly useful… I went on a tangent haha, anyway, I love your videos!
I am willing to pay for gold dental restorations which I have done at the Dental School, for a lot less than going to a private dentist. They are expensive, but have lasted many years with only a few needing to be replaced due to wear or my heavy bite. ' Necessity is the mother of invention". If I want to splurge, I occasionally treat myself to a buffet, or a trip to the Beauty School for a new hair-do, but only a couple of times a year. Once a year I enjoy a Whale Watching trip with my family, we also enjoy the on board meal. The rest of the year, I take picnics and go on Washighton State Ferries to enjoy Days Out.
I love the inexpensive, foam mattresses in a box. We would never go back to the coil, expensive mattresses. Pain, sleep quality, and other issues have more to do with our weight than the mattress itself.
I totally agree with your splurges! At 77, and well of (if I was 57, I couldn’t splurge as much😊. I love your videos. I’m a widow and have lived alone the past 3 years. I occasionally feel lonely (I still hate to go to bed, especially since my wonderful dog died🥲). Generally I love living alone! And I do splurge.☺️
you have really inspired me to start my own channel, this is a true story, i stumbled upon your channel when I have been contemplating starting my own channel since few months now. Your series on monetization is really inspiring and I am hoping I can do this soon as well. All the best in your journey!
Good video! Actually, your list was pretty perfect for me. I'm not a designer shoe person, but I do like quality - real leather. I also like the one about having a pet sitter at home. I hated leaving my dachshund Oscar Mayer when I traveled, so keeping him at home along with the cats was always a better solution.
Band-aids. Nothing worse than the cheap ones. And I'm with you on the knives. We've lived all over the world and the knives always come with us. I'd also chime in that it's not just about the quality of the knife--it's gotta fit your hand just right. My husband and I have different favorites because his hands are bigger than mine.
Mattress, yes, been through that recently. Also, quality safe to use cookware, french milled bar soap, grass fed beef, pet food, scissors, Philadelphia brand cream cheese, organic mold-free coffee.
I love those Costco garbage bags, you’re right as a single person. I only take my garbage out once a week so that box lasts me four years. I am finally just running out and bought a new box. I might share it with a friend because four years Is ridiculous to be storing that giant thing. I haven’t watched your whole video yet so I don’t know if you mentioned paper towels, but I only buy Bounty. I’ve bought other brands. You can’t even tear them off the roll without them ripping in some odd direction, drives me crazy. Where I live I don’t need good outerwear but that’s probably a good idea for people who live where it’s cold. It seldom even makes it down to freezing where I live and that’s in the middle of the night and there’s no snow so I’m usually just good with a hoodie and an occasional rain jacket.
Agree. Quality vs quantity. Case of Costco trash bags a lifetime of bags for me. Top brand knife set (& awesome cookware set) I'll never need them again.
absolutely with the pets being in their own home! I also heartily agree with airline seats being best you can afford. My spouse has very short legs and swears they never sleep on a transatlantic flight- awesome, in coach with ya then- momma's going up to premium economy + or biz. And the mattress- yes! I also believe in spending money on your hobbies-creative outlets are so important!
In the last couple of years I have bought some bits and pieces that bring me great joy. First I blocked up my fireplace and installed a real flame electric fire. I can come home and press a button and by the time I've changed my clothes my lounge is toastie. No ashes or dust to clean up. The second item I bought was a Roomba type vacuum cleaner. Oh how I love the sound of it whirring around and doing a job that I hated. The most recent purchase I made was a decent coffee maker. Need I say more.....
Excellent list. I’ve adopted your list, and hadn’t realized it. Those items make single/silver life manageable and even more peaceful. I pay extra for good quality foods. Since I cook/share my creations… I won’t waste money or time on budget ingredients. Reliable car. Too old to be worried as I turn the key. Thanks Jen.
Had a son-in-law of a friend paint our metal gates over the years because he needed money. The gates looked OK. He moved away and this time, we had professional painters do the work --- the difference in how the finished product looks is amazing. Sometimes it is best to let the pros do the work.
Bought my winter coat in the fall of 2002. It's still in great condition and it's washable/dryable.
Since my husband passed away several months ago, my kids and I decided that I should sell the house and move closer to them. Was planning on selling my couch since I'll probably be in a smaller space. Decided to keep it as it's a quality piece. Bought in 2003 and still looks brand new.
Paying for the best you can afford is the cheapest route to go in the long run. Don't get me started on "fast fashion"!
I have a Columbia jacket that was my Daughter's in 2000. I've washed it innumerable times. I still wear it because it isn't worn out at all.
I bought Cutco knives in the 60s before I got married! I love them and 59 years later I am still using them!! Nothing worse than garbage bags that leak!! I am with you there!! ❤ hugs from Eileen ❤️
I happily pay about $300 for professional round trip car service to the airport. It is only 30 miles from my home but in a major US city. Traveling is stressful enough without having to worry about parking, weather, traffic etc. A good driver will know all the alternate routes in case of traffic. He or she will also be up on time sucking airport glitches such as road work, construction, etc. On the return trip, my service keeps on top of my flight status and will be there at the arrivals area when I am.
I once paid for car service to/from a Hawaii vacation. Was awesome not having to park the car and shuttle and when we arrived home, there was the driver waiting with a sign. He handled all the luggage. Was worth it.
This is the best tip ever, get rid of the stress and relax.
I always buy the “good” toilet paper. It’s just a couple dollars more but it makes quite a difference. 😊
I totally agree! I'm not fond of the super cheap, thin toilet paper - to me, you just end up using 2-3 times as much, so where is the savings? I have started using bamboo TP over the past few years, and it is good quality and saves trees as well.
Hey Jen, I will pay extra for the best garbage bags every time. I'm experimenting with grocery delivery. My goal is to spend less on my grocery budget. It's working so far. Having to pay for the service upfront and a tip has saved me over half my budget. Walking around the grocery store is more demanding, and it helps to keep my impulse shopping in check.
Good quality sheets is my add . I think i am at the age where I think it might last the rest of my life so a car and tires is on that list for me.
Invest in good quality shoes and bras if u are a lady
A good mattress makes such a big difference. I love mine. Where I live, good outerwear isn’t a big deal. It’s not cold enough long enough to matter. As I’ve gotten older, DIY has become more and more rare. Professionals are a must.
Mattresses! No joke! Can make or break a person or vacation! I always get a better accommodation for a good night sleep.
Now that I am 69 I pay for help twice a year for major yard or tree trimming. I also won’t go higher that 6ft on a ladder. If I need to get higher I hire someone. Also my robot vacuum is gold to me. Man does “Hazel” save me work. 😊
I try to not cheap out on certain items like mattress, sheets, shoes and coats. But, I cannot pay top dollar either. So, I compromise and get the best quality I can for the money I have to spend even if it means paying a few dollars more than I am confortable with. Sometimes it takes me a while to find these item with this criteria and works for me. But, it's worth the extra money and time. I haven't regretted a purchase I made or service I used for decades. I highly recommend it. As always, great chat Jenn. See ya next week. 🙂🙋 --Paula in Ohio USA
Yes to all of those and I would add good quality cookware. There's nothing worse than cooking with flimsy cheap pots and pans, plus the non-stick coating can be dangerous over time and use. I still use Revere stainless steel cookware that my mother received as a wedding gift in 1950. 70+ years of use...now that is quality worth paying for.
I love my Mother's Revere Ware too!
When we got married, my mother in law didn't know what to give us, so gave money. I bought a steamer saucepan set, using all of it! Still in daily use, since 1963!
I don’t agree that non stick cookware is dangerous, if you take care of it. However, most manufacturers recommend that you replace it after 5 years.
Wish I knew this as a young woman. Now at 65, my All Clad will outlast me.😊
I bought an eight-inch Japanese chef's knife in 1973 for a little over $20, fifty-one years later I'm still using it, so a good knife will last a lifetime. My second favorite knife is a bread knife my mother purchased in the early 1960s, that one amazes me because it has never been sharpened and still cuts bread perfectly.
I probably should have done the bread knife. I cheaped out on one and it's working, but all I can do is knock on wood that it will continue to do so. There will probably be a replacement in the future...
Neighbourhood - I’ve been there. Location - location - location. I bought my 1st condo in a bad neighbourhood…and eventually i had to sell it and move to a much quiet neighbourhood. I learned my lesson big time.
Me too.
Testing revealed recently that I need hearing aids. My EENT provider dispenses them, and I checked out other options. Yes, there are cheaper options - one that costs about half of what I paid. In the end I went with my EENT provider. Warranty on the hearing aids, regular visits with the audiologist, and my Dr. is at the same practice. Best and latest technology available. Expensive and well worth it. Like a good mattress, being able to hear properly affects overall health. Thank you for your videos!
I’m smiling at the knife point. In my early 20s I got a chef’s knife as a gift and at 64 it’s still my favourite. And sharpened on my grandfather’s whetstone.
I agree with your list of items Jen. I’d also add good quality skin care - cleanser, moisturizer and sun screen. Three little bottles is all I need. They do the job and feel great. I refuse to compromise. I’ve never been one to follow fashion trends so buying loads of clothes isn’t my jam - frees up the money for my priorities. ;-)
I love Mary Kay. The system is expensive but I use Dove soap to clean and always buy the face cream.
All good advice. And I whole-heartedly agree about not leaving our pets in kennels or doggy daycares. Even the ones with puppy-cams that let you watch from your phone. The safest place for your pet is at home. 🐶🐱
Good shoes! I remember back 25 years ago, when my mother chastised me for buying " those damn plastic shoes .... :)😊
Good shoes are definitely worth the investment!
Custom orthotics! By a doctor of podiatry! They understand joint function, will get you comfortable walking, and then give you a list custom to you, of which shoe models and brands to choose from. This literally changed my life. Not cheap ones, though.
Your videos bring me joy & reinforce my love for single living! My favorite tip is buying good quality shoes, because my feet don’t love cheap. Next fav is handy person hire! I’m living my best life thx to many of these tips.
Things I am willing to spend extra on:
Good counselor
Good tires
AAA
Dishwasher soap
Dish soap
Laundry detergent
Trash bags
Meat
Bras
Electrician
Plumber
Couch
No bras -- just a close-fitting lace camisole (I don't need much support).
I have a Ms. fixit friend and for years she has said, "All you have to do..." My response was always, "Yeah, I don't do that" or "I pay people to do that". Twenty years later and cruising into my 60s, I still pay for convenience and have always worked my butt off for that privilege. I love that you started with that one! 😀
I make cheap mistakes all the time. Meh. 😩 But I do know better! One thing I never compromised on was cat care for my Maggie. After exhausting friends to stay with her, I found an elderly acquaintance who was thrilled to live in my place and explore my Netflix every time I went away. It was perfect. My cat got to stay home and he got a vacation space. I voluntarily paid him buckets, and stocked the kitchen with his favorites to entice him to stay, but it was worth every cent! My Maggie passed but I’d do the same with any future pet. 💞
That's a great way to make sure your cat is happy and well cared for while you're away!
I might add "a good tax accountant" to your list -- that's saved me so much money every year!
Grocery delivery occasionally is my add. Michigan weather & my old legs are unpredictable.
Works for me!
Thanks for great videos.❤️
100% agree!
One of the biggest investments I made was when I graduated high school in the early 70's. I bought a top of the line sewing machine as I loved sewing. It lasted me 45 years. Thanks for your videos
I’ve had my Bernina sewing machine for 35+ years and I never want to part with it. When I take it in for regular service, the guy says he loves working on it because it’s an older mechanical machine - not computerized.
That's amazing, what a great purchase!
I rescue old sewing machines that people are throwing out. I find them online or at the curb. The pre-1970s all-metal mechanical machines are worth fixing. I clean and oil them. I replace the bobbin or needle as needed. I'll play with the tension if necessary. That is usually all that is needed. Then I find a good home for it and give it away for free. It is a hobby of mine. You also can find these old machines at thrift stores for $20-40. My local sewing store charges $150 to service them. It is worth it if the timing or tension are messed up. After that, keep it clean of lint after each sewing session and once a year put a drop of sewing machine oil on the moving parts. I grew up using a Kenmore 158. It is a bulletproof machine that will last for generations. I think it was made by Janome. My sister has it. I have a Singer 403 and love it. Another bulletproof machine. Replacement parts and accessories are easy to find online.
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As an artist, one of the things I will pay extra money for is really good art supplies. I can buy some cheap stuff for you UA-cam demos, or doing something and rough first. But when it comes to working on a final good piece, I found it’s worth it to splurge on the good stuff if you want to work, your mediums properly.
This may sound funny, but I would pay extra for good ground meat. Just think of all the things that you make with ground meat. The most important one is a good old-fashioned hamburger if you don’t have a good ground meat, you’re not gonna have a good hamburger I make so many things with ground meat.
You nailed it pretty well. So glad you included garbage bags; so many people just list the expensive items, but thicker, solid garbage bags are SO necessary!
Great list! Here's mine, and I'm sure I've missed some things:
* bras
* coffee and creamer
* dish detergent
* eyeglasses
* faucet aerators
* first-aid supplies
* herbs and spices
* laundry detergent
* lotion
* mayonnaise
* pots and pans
* scissors
* soap
* shampoo and conditioner
* shower-head
* socks
* squirt bottles
* toilet paper
* toothpaste
* window screens with extra-fine mesh
My splurges are definitely for my dogs. I am 72 and disabled, so rather than have a back yard that is disgusting with their dog waste, I pay a company to come over and pick up dog poo twice a month. I know some people think it is ridiculous, but I am unable to do it myself and the back yard is small, so over time it would become a health hazard. I also want them to eat human grade fresh food, and I can't cook it myself, so I pay to have gently cooked, human grade food delivered every month. Fortunately my dogs are small, so it isn't exorbitantly expensive.
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I pay "extra" for lattes and other drinks because I want to support, independent, local businesses. To me the cost is a small "admission fee" to the shop adjacent garden AND it's cheaper than therapy!
Just a note about down filling. There is a very great deal of animal abuse in the trade in down. Check out if your down is ethically sourced, without unnecessary cruelty to geese and other birds. I buy down-filled vests from Lands End (it’s a U.S. company, so add for import duty), because they state that their down is ethically sourced. I don’t think the same can be said for Canada Goose products.
Good pillows and a steel nail file ate my additions to your list plus good quality pots and pans with no Teflon screw on handles and double bottom.I have a cheese grater from 1969 still in use
Love your list and many in comments. My list would also add:
good coffee beans and coffee maker (me + aero press)
a mug that fits great in my hand
beyond a good office chair I’d say all seating like outdoor, dining & living room
sewing machine with a strong motor and metal vs plastic inside. I have a basic, non-computerized Bernina that should last my lifetime with care
scissors
shampoo
chocolate
pillows & bedding - not that it all has to be fancy but will only buy natural fibers now. Threshold organic cotton sheets by Target is a good example
Excellent advice. I was told to pay good money for anything that goes between you and the ground. Ie shoes, mattress, tires
1) Flashlights, I finally decided to get a couple of good flashlights and to stop using the cheap plastic flashlights that you have to shake to make them work when you need them.
2) Paint brushes, we bought the cheap brushes for painting our first room and after having bristles falling out as we painted or sticking out as we edged, leaving a paint streak where we didn't want it, we bought good quality brushes, and they made the job less stressful.
3) TSA Pre check...it was SO worth it to walk to the short line to go thru security on the last two flights that I needed to take.
Wow, the chair thing, you must have worked for a great company! I was a government contractor so there was a pecking order for the good chairs.
Hi Jen, well said! I color the roots of my hair every month and I am willing to pay the trusted hairdresser with my hair! Also I have a couple of CUTCO (sp)knives that I purchased many many years ago, the are still sharp (since I don't use them that often,). Unfortunately, my favorite one fell somewhere within the dishwasher and the handle was damaged and deformed. I still use it though! Lastly, I paid a pet sitter to come home and deliver insulin to my wonderful kitty Smokey (twice a day). a bit pricey but oh so worth it. Cheers
Great video!
Totally against kennels for same reason! Plan way in advance to find right person to house/pet sit!! Totally worth every penny!
A word of caution on expensive shoes? I always also try to buy quality but some retailers don’t care about comfort… only style!!! So make comfort AND quality your go to for any and all shoes! Again, plan ahead… take your time buying shoes! So IMPORTANT!
Love my many pairs of timberlands. Great to have waterproof boots.
Furniture. No matter if it's new or old, buy quality. I am 65 years old and I have my parent's mahogany furniture plus my own that I purchased in my 20's and upwards.
Furniture/mattress was the first thing I thought of. IKEA has its place, but "real" furniture lasts a lifetime. I do pay the extra for nonstop flights, mainly to reduce the chance of delays. Flying between California and London in December, there was no way I was changing planes in Minneapolis. Knowing your DIY limitations will save money in the long run when you don't cause additional damage.
Hi Jen. I so agree on buying the name brand garbage bags. So worth it, as well as the best quality outerwear. I've had one of my North Face coats for at least 7 years, and it still looks brand new.
I still have knives and silverware from my mom, and she's been gone for 30 years. Plus her good gravy boat and ladle. In mint perfect condition. My grandson is nearly 3, and he only gets the best sneakers. Though he'll grow out of them, they help keep his balance, fit his foot correctly, and have a wonderful skid free sole.
The same for my workout sneakers.
I'm in a lovely townhome, in a wonderful neighborhood. The taxes are much higher than other neighborhoods, but it's quiet, hopefully safe (the police department is located within the development).
I'm with you. I'd never put my 3 cats in a kettle. I'd hire someone to stay here. Seems like when pets go to a kennel, they get sick.
Thanks, Jen. Always good advice!❤
I did ‘pure misery’ from Australia to Alaska. Never again, the middle seat in economy is hell in the air.
Real butter; sofas; yard equipment; windows.
Great list. Agree on all. The mattress is major necessity that I wish I realized when I was younger. Towels and sheets would be another. Skincare products...more so for the quality ingredients and not putting stuff on your skin that has all these fillers and crazy ingredients that the US still allows.
Curious if you have a fav. Outter wear brand ? I'm down the hill in the San juans and you guys I thjnk still get colder/ wetter than us. I am curious what the Canadians use for rain gear and warm jackets?
Food quality as well. I'll pay more again for organic or stuff less processed to TRY and limit the chemical consumption! Thx as always. Love your videos.
Good seating is a must for our backs as we age. I worked for a company that redecorated and warehoused all its Herman Miller chairs. The guy in charge of the warehouse at the time gave me one when the company went out of business. It must have been 40 years old when it died. I bought another Herman Miller, although my life expectancy at this point is less than that.
I already do all of these - although I’ve supercharged the travel tip by only flying first class now. More expensive but WAAAAAY better. 😁
I would also add to the list, paying for the best seats available at any kind of show you want to see. There are always a few that I just can’t justify ($1,800 to see anyone at the Sphere in Vegas is lottery-win territory for me), but $300 to see Herbie Hancock in a 300-seat jazz club was worth every single penny spent. 🎶
Back in the 80s we had a beautiful dog who was so loyal. Whilst we were away on holiday once, the kennels had him put down😢. I still miss him every day
OMG, I'm so sorry to hear this!
That is horrifying 😢
I haven’t seen this one mentioned, but I spend money on technology. I don’t get a lot of stuff, but what I do is quality and it will last a while.
Computer screens. If you have two screens to do your job at work, get the equivalent or better for home. Don't try and do it all hunched over a laptop on the sofa. Get a desk to go with that chair. ❤
Totally agree on flights. My son and daughter-in-law wanted me to take flights that were more convenient for them which meant changing planes and I said no. I'm flying non-stop direct.
Paying my nephew to help with large and small project as I declutter our home has been amazing. It’s not that I can’t do it but having help gets it done faster.
I had a similar experience as a child with our dog in a kennel. When I go away I have a family member look after my cat at my place. I have looked into trustedhousesitters and would go with them for sure if it was for a longer holiday. thanks for the other recommendation for shorter trips. I have a great mattress and paid good money for it. Long ago had a terrible one and had sleep issues and back issues. Bought a great one after that and all my issues disappeared. Also make sure not to keep it forever or those issues will return. Everything wears out and breaks down. thanks for these tips Jen. Also appreciated the long air travel tip.
I put a doggy in a kennel once 30 years ago and when I collected him he was shaking in the corner. He was never the same after that - for the next 10 years of his life he suffered terrible anxiety and sadness. He was only there for 2 days. Never again! Poor Hugboots
Buying good quality the first time when it comes to bits that help me live with my autism, also just buying them in the first place 😂. Earplugs, noise cancelling headphones, etc etc. Without them I'd be a wreck of a human being, so getting ones that are both comfortable and long lasting is essential
I think if you do your research, spend your hard-earned money on very good quality items that you use every day, you'll do just fine. I try to remember what my parents spend their hard earned money on. Good tires, oil changes 2x a year. Car repairs at a very reputable place. Also my Mom had an appliance insurance plan for every appliance in our house. She would pay towards it monthly or yearly, and if anything was unfixable, it was replaced for free. She loved it and told many people about it.
So true! We need to pamper ourselves as we get older. Good heating is very important.❤
I used trusted housesitters for my baby...I found a lovely lady nearby in Bowser and my cat was SO HAPPY when I came home. It's only a once a year cost and SO WORTH it in my opinion.
I do agree with all you listed. I pay extra for good food (example, Philadelphia cream cheese instead of store brand because I can taste the difference). I bought myself some fabulous sheets this summer, they feel luxurious and I’m worth it. ❤
Another service that I pay a lot for is a haircut. A couple of years ago when my income dropped, I tried a couple of the budget haircut chain places. I thought- how hard can it be? I thought surely they are trained to do basic layered bobs. Well, all the haircuts were terrible. So I went to a regular full service beauty salon and found a stylist that does decent haircuts, but it's not cheap. Related to that subject, when I had my hair professionally colored, I did buy the expensive salon shampoo to preserve the quality of the color as long as possible. Since I "went gray" I just buy non-salon shampoo that's sulfate and cruety-free for much less.
I love this, I splurged last year and bought a really nice pair of warm boots, spent over $150.00 but, they are the best boots I have ever worn. I wore them all winter and put them back in the box for this coming year!
I'm a quilter, and i won't buy cheap fabric. (Walmart) the cheap fabrics are treated with something to make it feel good and heavy, but washes away to reveal thin, flimsy fabric.
Also, i bought a good set of knives from a restaurant supply store, carbon steel, and they're easier to sharpen and the edge lasts longer than stainless steel knives.
I absolutely agree with you, few products and quality! Thank you ❤
I would pay extra for courses and classes related to my serious hobbies and career. Also I pay for ad free UA-cam since I watch so much of it. I am a Skillshare and Patreon member.
Good knives for a reasonable cost - MERCER. Very good steel that is well heat treated, generally good ergonomics, good warranty. Their bread knife for around $18 is the best I have ever used; SUPER sharp and very ergonomic. Zips through crusty bread / bagels / whatever like a light saber. I have very good German and Swedish knives and these MERCER are fully their equal in all ways I measure. BTW, invest in and learn to use a good sharpening steel and strop.
Good customer service saves time and money. Waiting on the phone for hours and half solved problems are expensive.
I paid serious money to get good laminate floors installed by experts, likewise top of the line windows. Floors have lasted 30+ years, still like new. Windows made my townhouse snug. Worth it. No cheaping out. I have a modest income but you only need to do the best once, usually.
Car wash!! Last year I spent money on a special foam to spray on my car, along with the wipes, and special towels and a can of some kind of wax coating to put on after -- whatever. You get what I'm talking about. Jump to today and I still have not used any of those things -- they are sitting on my shelf in my garage. I just don't have the time, nor the energy to go out and wash/clean my car. I'm past 60 and why risk hurting my back, knees, etc. Instead, I have taken my car to the car wash and for 20 bucks I can get something called "The Works" -- and that includes everything. The foam, the buffing, the wax -- the works! And I don't have to lift a finger and my car looks shiny and new. They even have an unlimited car wash club where you pay one price and get as many washes you want per month/year. Not sure if I'll do that, but still -- way better than doing it myself. That is a splurge that is so worth it!
I agree with you about the pet sitter! I paid the dog trainer good $ to stay at my place because I didn't trust anyone else. Now she found me a sitter close by that saves me money and likes to hang out here because she doesn't have a television. I make my dogs food instead of feeding them dog food and they are in great health.
Convenience for me is to avoid public transport (which, in fact, in germany is getting more and more worse and unreliable) and use my own car. IF I have to use a train I chose first class. That is well spend money for me.
Definitely non stop flights
As one who has Raynaud's Syndrome, I don't mind paying for some good wool socks for the winter.
One time when I wasn't wearing good wooly socks during an extremely cold winter night when I had to he out and about, I got duch a bad attack of Raynaud's that both feet were almost frost bitten...yes, even while wearing shoes and thin socks..... so, I need my wooly socks!!!!
Miss Monique 🙂🙏🌷💗
I pay extra for a good reliable 4WD car I can drive into remote areas and not worry about getting stuck or having a break down, good quality sports equipment and top quality pet food.
Oh, and good quality functional luggage! For me that's carry on only, but will vary with your travel style😀
I always love listening to your videos. They are full of common sense advice and presented in a clear manner. I listen while I work and feel like a friend is sitting next to me giving advice. Thank you!
You nailed it for me Jen!! Especially the airline, shoes, professional services tips. Thank you
I too love the Costco drawstring kitchen trash bags. One box lasts our family of 3 at least one year.
They're the best!
Good quality dishwashing liquid. The more expenive stuff lasts longer and cleans better. Cheap stuff is a false economy.
If you live in a cold climate, a wool cardigan and wool longjohns are nice. Silk scarf can be warming without itchyness. A crockpot with auto turn off is handy for warm soups/stews. Windproof russian style hat for those windy icy days. An electric blanket for warming back with auto shutoff. Wool socks!
Recently found your channel and really enjoy your useful advice.
Recently, we invested in a washer/dryer at a large sum of money £500… I was worried at first but oh my gosh, the time saved… I never thought I could love a cleaning appliance so much!
The next item I am considering to buy is a roomba…
For me, anything that can give me back my time is incredibly useful…
I went on a tangent haha, anyway, I love your videos!
I am willing to pay for gold dental restorations which I have done at the Dental School, for a lot less than going to a private dentist. They are expensive, but have lasted many years with only a few needing to be replaced due to wear or my heavy bite.
' Necessity is the mother of invention". If I want to splurge, I occasionally treat myself to a buffet, or a trip to the Beauty School for a new hair-do, but only a couple of times a year. Once a year I enjoy a Whale Watching trip with my family, we also enjoy the on board meal. The rest of the year, I take picnics and go on Washighton State Ferries to enjoy Days Out.
If I fly overseas, I upgrade my seat. Also, for many years I wore cheap shoes and I ended up having to have surgery on both feet, which is not cheap!
True, true, true!
I love the inexpensive, foam mattresses in a box. We would never go back to the coil, expensive mattresses. Pain, sleep quality, and other issues have more to do with our weight than the mattress itself.
I totally agree with your splurges! At 77, and well of (if I was 57, I couldn’t splurge as much😊.
I love your videos. I’m a widow and have lived alone the past 3 years. I occasionally feel lonely (I still hate to go to bed, especially since my wonderful dog died🥲). Generally I love living alone! And I do splurge.☺️
Thank you for the dog/housesitting recommendation.
you have really inspired me to start my own channel, this is a true story, i stumbled upon your channel when I have been contemplating starting my own channel since few months now. Your series on monetization is really inspiring and I am hoping I can do this soon as well. All the best in your journey!
Welcome! You've got this!
Good video! Actually, your list was pretty perfect for me. I'm not a designer shoe person, but I do like quality - real leather. I also like the one about having a pet sitter at home. I hated leaving my dachshund Oscar Mayer when I traveled, so keeping him at home along with the cats was always a better solution.
Band-aids. Nothing worse than the cheap ones. And I'm with you on the knives. We've lived all over the world and the knives always come with us. I'd also chime in that it's not just about the quality of the knife--it's gotta fit your hand just right. My husband and I have different favorites because his hands are bigger than mine.
I seldom eat chocolates but when I do, I will enjoy very fine quality chocolate!!
Great video. Thanks😊
I have my grandmother's Revere pots and pans!
Dawn dishwashing liquid -:)
True! Anything less is not worth the money ❤
Yes!!🙌
yep
Mattress, yes, been through that recently. Also, quality safe to use cookware, french milled bar soap, grass fed beef, pet food, scissors, Philadelphia brand cream cheese, organic mold-free coffee.
I love those Costco garbage bags, you’re right as a single person. I only take my garbage out once a week so that box lasts me four years. I am finally just running out and bought a new box. I might share it with a friend because four years Is ridiculous to be storing that giant thing. I haven’t watched your whole video yet so I don’t know if you mentioned paper towels, but I only buy Bounty. I’ve bought other brands. You can’t even tear them off the roll without them ripping in some odd direction, drives me crazy. Where I live I don’t need good outerwear but that’s probably a good idea for people who live where it’s cold. It seldom even makes it down to freezing where I live and that’s in the middle of the night and there’s no snow so I’m usually just good with a hoodie and an occasional rain jacket.
Agree. Quality vs quantity. Case of Costco trash bags a lifetime of bags for me. Top brand knife set (& awesome cookware set) I'll never need them again.
absolutely with the pets being in their own home! I also heartily agree with airline seats being best you can afford. My spouse has very short legs and swears they never sleep on a transatlantic flight- awesome, in coach with ya then- momma's going up to premium economy + or biz. And the mattress- yes! I also believe in spending money on your hobbies-creative outlets are so important!