Friends and Good Neighbors No More
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is a friend, but his kid scratched up her car and she needs to be compensated. She’s suing for the repair cost. The defendant says his kid never admitted to scratching it, but he offered to pay to have it buffed out.
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It's always the people who are in the wrong that will call the other side petty....😮
True
Always.
This is heartbreaking. I hope they work it out and repair their friendship.
Heartbreaking? Lol.
Okayyy 👍
Like really?!?! Who wants to be friends with those liars?
We have to make our children accountable, if you don’t they go thru life making excuses for bad behavior.
Exactly!
Not making them accountable can create Narcissists and Sociopaths.
Yes, defendant is a crybaby bully and hope his kids turn out better than him😮
Both sets of parents need to attend parenting classes.
@@aries4901 Do you even know what a sociopath is? Obviously not or else you wouldn't say something so stupid. Sociopaths aren't made because of parents not teaching accountability. That's also a very simplistic view of narcissism as well. Please read a book.
There's too much of letting kids shirk responsibility in the 21st century
I think he's blocking the friendship being repaired. He feels guilty because he realizes how stupid ignoring them is, they seem like nice people.
My thoughts exactly!
Absolutely
💯💯💯
Defendandt resents the fact that paintiff thinks his wifecould do better!
The fact that he's in tears about the friendship proves he's not blocking the friendship, I think the my wife doesn't do petty came from her.
He’s man enough to admit his mistakes, and recognize that he can do better. 💪🏾🔥
Sometimes it's not merely enough to just recognize your mistakes if your not actively trying to be and do better. So many people stop at oh I could do better.. No, do better. Put actions behind your words.
@@eto6204, well said.
@@eto6204 First step in fixing a problem is identifying that there is a problem, which he did.
Only took getting dragged to court, on national tv, to do it.
@@wideawakeanimal1 okay but if he goes back to acting like an a-hole it’s in vain. Just talk.
Once again judge M have the same intuitive feeling that I did that it's a husband getting in the way of the friendship and when she pointed it out to him by asking him a question about him being in the way the friendship I think that broke him down the judge was actually spectacular in this!!!
That's why she has won awards😇
She really helped here. I hope these neighbours work it out ❤
The plaintiff knows all of his faults and mistakes from his wife... so he probably feels threatened by that and doesn't want the friendship between the wives
Got a feeling there’s a lot of pride and embarrassment and immaturity on the defendant’s side which is leading to he and the wife not taking responsibility. I really hope they all work it out!!!
I agree. He's embarrassed they were behind on payments, his marriage was in shambles and then their child damaged their vehicle. It's like his family is never on the winning side.
seems like they can overcome it❤ I'm hopeful
@@jessicathinks8379 exactly
I agree
why are they having new kids when their marriage is in shambles???
I would never want to live this close to Friends for this very reason...and the defendant needs to get a serious handle on his kids.
I agree. I was once a neighbor to my best friend. Needles to say, living that close affected our relationship.
My friend asked if she could move in with me the other day. I turned myself inside out stressing as I just knew it would not be good. I plucked up the courage to be honest with her. Sadly now, she's not talking to me.
they remind me of the king of queens how they were friends with deacon and kelly then it got weird for all of them when kelly and deacon seperated and then got back together
More, on their finances. Why the heck do they have so many kids?
I know him personally. Maybe if he got a job and stopped cheating on his girl and got his family in order, he could stop pointing fingers att other people and be accountable for his households actions
Are they still neighbors? Did they ever resolve this?
Really? Tell us more🤓🍿
Do not leave any details👂
😂🤣 Its for learning purposes only.
@@amgooder the mom of the plaintiff is in the comments too and said the said the same thing…
Tell us more!
@@mr.unbotheredI don’t see her comments. I’m reading everything!
This is sad. The defendants kid scratched the car, and he called them petty because they were owed money.
You nailed. Even JMM gives the impression that the child (eveñ if she's six) is above accountability. That child should be in court and reprimanded, albeit gently, by the Judge but with a big smile.
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Tbh I’m pretty sure the plaintiff’s insurance paid for the scratches. And if that’s the case then her suing the defendant is illegal. That’s insurance fraud. Her insurance should be going after the defendant.
@SRT DRE why should her insurance pay for damages? Her insurance shouldn't take a hit bc they can't keep an eye on their FIVE kids. smh
@@vickisibley5330 so are you implying she spent way more of her own money than she had to over a scratch? I’ve used insurance over car vandalism. They don’t pay out for spot painting, they pay out to get the whole car painted over. That’s how I know she used her insurance. And since she used her insurance, she’s committing insurance fraud.
Man, that tugged on my heart strings. I hope they patch it up.
Judge Milian is so invested in the story lol. It’s like comadres gossiping lol😊
She admitted that she is hella nosey.
She's a judge, that is her job.
I love, love, love Judge Milian! SHE CARES!!! She often tries to mend relationships. God bless you JM... hope to see you on another show!!! ❤
To see him break down and cry shows real emotions. Tough on the out side but batteling so much hurt on inside aside from case
he's crying because they have FIVE KIDS and he can't stop cheating long enough to keep a job. facts.
@@vickisibley5330 lol who said he cheating lol i got from the case he' lazy and doesn't work . Hence he states he could be a better husband and help his wife who works 10 hrs a day plus take care of kids
@cece718 the plaintiff is my daughter and he is a cheating scum bag, hence his comments about being a better husband. My daughter and son in law are really decent people who work hard and take care of their responsibilities. They ended up moving away from them. His wife seemed super sweet but having a man like that can make anyone bitter
@@vickisibley5330 girl stop projecting. No where did they mention cheating. He’s a good man Savannah he just needs to step up and put his pride aside
@T M I know them. The plaintiff is my daughter. The neighbors split up bc she caught him cheating for the 1000th time. My daughter and SIL were good to these people and when they stopped helping them and asked them to pay to have the car fixed then all of a sudden they're petty? I'm so glad my daughter showed them how petty petty can be! Now the whole world knows what they're about.
And this is why Judge Milian and The People's Court should NOT be cancelled. You'd never see Judge Judy being human enough to give a crap about a situation like this. It takes EMPATHY, as JM said.
She has way more empathy than this Ice Queen. She’s a screaming maniac, she doesn’t listen, she throws personal insults, she’s elitist and racist. She is not a good person. Through the years I’ve watched her because I love any show about legal issues…but she is so hardcore and it’s not cute, not attractive. I believe you can be a strong career woman without turning into a B.
I heard she has a new show, same as judge Mathis.
JM felt for both parties after she read the highly personal exchanges between the two women. Maybe if JJ had read the same text then her tin heart might have melted a little, LOL.
@@3l3llala13 Maybe grown 3 sizes too large? xD Or at least 3 sizes bigger would work.
Facts over feelings
“Good fences make good neighbors.”
- Robert Frost
Very apt quote, since Frost had a habit of having women in his family locked up in mental institutions.
I firmly believe this to be true but some of my neighbors know no boundaries and it makes it tough sometimes.
Some truth there. But I believe it is more applicable in the western world, where there is less empathy and real human-human relationship.
How tall should fence be? Private or chain link?
As tall as city code and HOA allows it. 8 feet is great. 6 is acceptable.
OK, I have no proof but I feel like once the husband was back in the picture there was tension between the women. The plaintiff spent all of this time consoling her friend over his b.s. and now he's back. He also felt the need to reassert himself and push the plaintiff to the side. The wife probably had less time for the plaintiff and then they weren't paying on time. The plaintiff felt unappreciated and discarded. The husband was in his wife's ear about them being petty. And now the friendship is over, his wife is hurt, he's put on blast on national t.v., and he still owes the money.... The End
I agree
Come on with the psychological analysis. 😂 I agree with you. Very authentic sounding read of the situation. It definitely feels like so much of this comes from hurt feelings. I’d also say the Defendant seems hurt too because the Plaintiff’s “turned on him” and made him the bad guy once he left, so he felt the need to sabotage things and get in his wife’s ear; all because he was hurt that his friends didn’t have his back.
And this is why I don’t get into relationship issues with friends. You pour out all the advice and energy for nothin. I’ll listen but I’m not telling you what you should our shouldn’t do bc you’re gonna do what you want anyway.
Lol i hope they read this.
Whole lot of assumptions there. Should I assume here’s a bunch of projection here? 😂😂😂
He wants to do all those things but not pay for mistakes.
I think he is just embarrassed because he literally does not have the money. It really is hard to get a job in a bad economy, I think this is sort of sexist because people just plain do not expect the woman to be the bread winner and expect the man to. So what if the woman is the worker, and he's the stay at home parent? It has been the reverse for so long. If women really want equality, they have to eliminate ALL sexist thinking, not just the ones that give them a benefit. Get rid of alimony, have women volunteer to take on jobs are hazardous to people's health but necessary, like men do.
I feel it is the husband who doesn't want the wives to be friends!
The defendant is a mess. He needs to man the hell up. He was the one being petty. Hopefully, this will humble all of them.
I love your name ❤
A mess like his teeth
she needs to stop being understanding, thats why she's in this situation. too passive will screw you every time
So true, you can't be a door mat if you aren't on the ground.
Defendant: "My wife don't do petty." Then proceeds to name a bunch of non-petty incidents.
That’s the same thing 😂😂😂 NON-petty
@@23duo Right. Do you get the point I was making?
His wife did petty 5 times it seems cuz baby daddy is the very definition of it.
It's the guys fault... He didn't wanna pay... He convenience his girlfriend they were being petty and she lost a good friend over a man that left her before just got back and will probably leave her again and bet money the plaintiff will be there to comfort her AGAIN
That’s the feeling I get too
I agree. He let his pride get in the way but i think when he broke down he finally realized it was bigger then than the money
I have never wanted to know the follow-up of a case more than this one. I hope they were able to bury the hatchet
Dude! They aren't petty...they helped you..got you a house...shared the garage..she was there for your wife when you weren't. They seem like good people. You need to step up and take responsibility for what your daughter did. Set an example for your children.
“My wife doesn’t do petty”…I bet if it was their car that was vandalized it wouldn’t have been “petty”!
Cases like this are why I love JM and miss the People's Court. JM expresses so much empathy.
The defendant claimed the plantiff was petty but as you watch this case unfold, you see exactly who’s being petty…
The defendant's wife is cowardly 4 not showing up beside her husband & avoiding the plaintiff all this time b4 the case.
They have 5 kids and most of them are young so daycare is pretty expensive. So I understand her staying at home
As soon as he started crying, im like " oh man... this could have been fixed so easily..... in such a civil way... " there's still so much love here... I really hope they work it out!
If the defendant made some attempt to pay, instead of blowing the plaintiff off, I don't think they would have brought it to court. The defendant started off saying "his kid never admitted to it" then all of a sudden it's in a text that his kid did admit it", then he also called them petty - this guy sounds like a kid himself.
Also why wasn't the other wife there🤔
@@payableondeath9091umm they didn’t have a baby sitter was you not listening
@@ClassicRocki👀my question was rhetorical🙄she is OBBBVIOUSSSSSSLY avoiding the situation
He’s the problem: he seems sincere but he gets in his own way by not being accountable and modeling accountability for his kids.
OMG! You hit the nail on the head! He needs to start taking responsibility and teaching his kids the same.
It doesn't take a village, it takes a mother and father properly raising the children that They decided to bring into this world. You laid down and created them, so do your job in raising them. It's no one else's responsibilty but YOURS.
I agree, why have all those children and then expect a village to take care of them.
I agree. I'll never forget Hilary Clinton making that ridiculous "it takes a village" statement that to this day everyone just repeats.
This case is about how the defendant and his family keep taking advantage of the plaintiffs and kept taking advantage of their friendship. Once confronted with how horrible they have been to the people who helped them out, dude tried to cry and go sympathy. He's a joke, and I fully believe the plaintiff doesn't believe those fake tears. He just didn't want to come off like the bad guy he is in the situation.
I felt the same way about him crying. It was that whole "I could be a better husband, and she was there when I wasnt". It sounded like a speech to win his girl back, "I'll do better, I'll be better," etc. But he's only "better" for a few weeks, then goes right back to his nonsense.
He saw this opportunity as a way to keep the friend away from his wife, so she didn't have someone in her ear telling her she deserved better. (Or setting an example of what better could be)
Aww I hope they mend their relationship. Never seen a man cry over a friendship
I also cried and we not even friends🤭
I see where the defendant’s kid gets her lack of responsibility
Awww this case just broke my heart....I truly hope and pray that the adults work it out especially for the kid's sake!!!!
If my kids damaged my neighbors car, and we were close like these people were…. I would absolutely pay for the damage! Im the parent and im liable for what they do, i don’t get how the affected party is petty! Smh
I would pay even if we were not close.
Growing up in a big Dominican family ( 8 children, 13 cousins) all of us around the same age, I can tell you kids can in trouble, kids lie and accountability is everything because most likely it will happen again, for the defendant to say his wife doesn’t get involved in petty things is about being a grown up, being a parent and taking responsibility for your kid’s own doing, smh.
💯I've seen it where each parent will go back n forth blaming the other parent in stead of coming together for the benefits of the offspring 👀
Sounds like defendants were buried in financial and emotional problems and shut down instead of handling the issue.
This case seriously needs an update.
Get control of your little monsters and stop them destroying other people's property. Teach them to be accountable and responsible, and then you can avoid situations like this!!!!! 🤮
They all need to forgive and continue their relationship. There are too many life experiences to lose and life is too short not to enjoy each other. Way too short. I hope that husband isn’t sabotaging the relationship between the two. Just saying….
My blessings to both families
Unpopular opinion. Stop having a bunch of kids if you can barely take care of the first ones. People who have 3+ kids but then complaim about the hardships or finances are foolish.
This judge is just the best, she was absolutely spot on in summing this whole situation up, not just the money, but more importantly the relationship involved.
I would have loved to see at the end the lady give the man a hug, there was alot of hurt feelings, and typically anger comes from having your feelings hurt. Great case!
Rachel really does seem like she's good people...both parties really but especially Rachel. Really hope they're able to salvage their friendship.
Thank you!
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It's not pettiness, it's her damn car your kids fucked up. He's probably even more petty.
I usually don't cry but the defendant got me bawling. I really hope those two couples work everything out!!! You guys are all great people you can put your differences aside it's just money its mistakes that kids make. Listen to the judge she was incredible in this! You guys are incredible people and parents!!!
He's a manipulator. Take him out of the equation, there'd be no problems - everything was fine til he came back into the picture. Here, he bashes the plaintiff, calling her petty 🤷claims his children didn't do it... then he starts crying crocodile tears over what a crappy husband he is! he's a troublemaker. Wants everything his way & when he doesn't get it he throws a temper tantrum.
@@carriepriegel6477 that's exactly what it is
@@carriepriegel6477 lol I understand, but the "angel side" of me wants to believe that he is being honest and mend the friendship
I wish we could get updates on PC
@Carrie Priegel NAILED it!! He is crying because of what a shitty husband and father he is. Can't keep a job to save his life and sends his wife out to work so he can sit home and scream and those kids all day and find other girls to cheat with. Rumor has it there is another girl pregnant. He took his wife to AC and when she was SLEEPING he crept out to go meet up with another woman. I used to feel sorry for his wife, but she's an idiot who keeps taking him back. My daughter isn't petty, but I am and I will spill ALL the Tea!!🤣
Fake AF
The defendant will ultimately be responsible when his kids become older and are involved in far more serious crimes. He isn't parenting and making his own kids face the consequences of their bad behaviour.
He said “I’m ENDURING it” 😂….I felt that
Life is tough and a good friendship is blessing and worth fixing.
They were both good people. I wanted to get up and give this man a hug!! I hope their friends again
A man and his foolish pride can be a terrible thing😢. With that being said, this all comes down to one word: ACCOUNTABILITY! I know we can’t keep our eyes on our kids like a hawk all the time but the fact your kid snuck out of the house and you not knowing your little kid isn’t in the house long enough to write this on the car is really bad. Not to mention he called these people petty😏 I guess they should suffer the consequences of his kids negligence 👌🏽ok got it🥴
Your right
This is sad. I hope they can repair their friendship. 😢😢
sorry, scratching up someone's car is NOT a mistake.....it's an "on purpose" That kid needs more supervision and some life lessons about what ppl do and NEVER do. $1600 of damage to the paint of a car is NOT petty....
I couldn’t have said it better myself
This is one reason why the correction institutions are so full😬
You got the "on purpose" from judge judy lol
@@krytietv1684 nothing wrong with that. I yell at my phone while watching these cases saying ‘not basically/don’t use basically’ & ‘yeah is not an answer’ lol.
Kids do stupid things
So many people do this- when THEY owe money, when THEY are irresponsible and are late financially, the people who helped are “petty” or “disloyal”. So annoying
This is one of the best cases I have ever seen. JM was a friend and a real person when dealing with this case.
Aw man this episode made me cry! I seriously hope they mend their friendship!!
The defendant is immature and i think he's the reason there's so much chaos. His wife is in the text working things out yet she stays home and he puts everything off on her. Then i think his crying and saying he needs to be a better husband was all an act. Calling them petty because they want him to damages his wife admitted their daughter did and he won't even pay for their shared garage.
I’m more shocked the 28 year old wife has FIVE KIDS
Why lol my mom had all 5 of us by the time she was 21 everyone is different as long as they are caring for their children it shouldn't matter
@@spacepanda9037 What !? In what country? Poor your mother! Nothing is good about it !!!
@@spacepanda903790 Right?!?! I had 4 by the age of 19. Married to the same man for 38 years. You are correct, as long as they are being cared for what does it matter? And none of my kids scratched the neighbor's car!
@@ficklepickle5346 first 86 last 93 and my parents have been together about the same no government assistance no food stamps just my parents busting their asses for us an we never went out to damage property either
Funny how when someone owes you money your petty for actually wanting to be paid😅😅
She needs to stop trying to explain herself and be so nice. She's owed the money and the neighbors were taking advantage of the fact that she's so apologetic and let things go for months.
Hey PC FAM!!
I called off work today 🤫. I'm sipping a Carmel Frapp from Starbucks. 😋 Have a good weekend I'm going to a concert tomorrow!
Thanks for checking in, lil sis
Have a great weekend 🤗
@@manthony777 No problem bro! Have a great weekend also!🤗❤️
RS- I cried when he was describing the friendship he has with the neighbors. They all love each other. Money is BS and can/will ruin anything.
He is a poor excuse of a husband . Very lazy and leaves his wife to do everything and he has gotten in between their friendship because she tells her to leave him alone . He is a sorry and all that crying shows he plays victim !
I pray these families can restore their relationship. ❤
Someone hug that guy! Emotions on his sleeve! ❤
Defendant has a menacing, manipulative nature.
Seems the type to set adversary's house on fire, then shrugs, tells cops "whatever, I invited them🤷 to the BBQ"
How? I don't agree at all
he is very menacing and after the show became very aggressive but only with my daughter when her husband was at work. The plaintiff is my daughter and she and her husband work their butts off. They tried to help these guys out, only to have their property destroyed and then be called petty when they ask the neighbors to make it right.
@@vickisibley5330 so sorry to hear that.🙏 She/they don’t deserve him!!
I feel bad for her because he’s a complete creep.
He crybabies that he “lost his job” - was fired, surely because he was probably just as annoying on the job. - and then mooches of your daughter & her husband…but blames them for holding him accountable!! 😟 yikes, his poor wife & kids.
@@tishtash321 did you really listen & watch him? If so, it's impossible to miss his aggressive, manipulative words & actions. In addition, see the comment from the plaintiff's mother, how the bully defendant continued to harass & menace the plaintiff after the show, especially when her husband is at work😳 What a loving, grateful, mature guy... said no one, ever.
I am over here crying. Judge really do be trying.
Defendant needs to man up
5 kids by 28? Jesus, do they know contraceptive exist? 😂
Well at 40 a lady is like done in 34 I have one child and I feel like rime is wasting. ...
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The defendant is the epitome of petty. Know your damn role in your household, in your marriage, in your friendships and in your interactions with those around you. Defendant seemingly lacks insight of himself. He’s not a problem solver and he sounds immature the way everything he says “comes out wrong” He needs to mind his own business and let his wife lead in ALLL interactions with the plaintiffs going forward whether they continue being friends or not.
Awe turned into a heartwarming case. Sending all of y'all love.
The best part of this episode is at 11:33 the facial expression the bailiff makes is hilarious and excellent, it is as if he is saying "mmmm hmmm"
This defendant sounds like a whiner and refuses to take responsibility as a parent. I hope he can see himself in this video and realize what is wrong here. All the best
And God Bless Mr. Kelly and his family! It takes a real man to admit his flaws on national television and cry!
They need to take responsibility and get a hold of their children. When we allow our children to get away with damaging peoples property then it will mature into bigger things. I believe the defendant is playing a major role in their friendship issue.
I cried when he cried.... Both sides need to do more to fix this.
Nothing worse than losing a true friend. This breaks my heart💔
Never Invite friends to live close to you like that bc it will ruin the friendship 99% of the time.
wow this is so sad mind this guy's you seem to be a wonderful people 😢
the defendant made me cry when he spoke about their friendship
Update! They worked it out and are going camping this summer. They live 2 house down from me.
Really? No way! 👏
Lol nah this guys lying.
that's bs. the plaintiffs moved away from them and they haven't spoken since.
Thanks for the update.
She really is an Amazing Judge. I use to watch her all the time so it's nice to see her on utube.
They are both sane and civil enough to mend their friendship
I know they tried to help them as friends but sometimes having friends and family so close and involved with money, it ruins the relationship. But it's also nice the parents can bond and talk because we all need that sometimes.
I js gotta comment on how much I love Douglas. He's so nice and honestly I love all the security guards in these shows their so sweet and obviously have a good relationship with the judges it js makes me happy
I agree, he really is a gem.
He's 100% the problem
“Lucy, Ricky, Fred, and Ethel;” what a great reference that no one under 80 got. 😂😂😂😂
He needs to put his big boy pants on and take responsibility for his bunch of kids actions
I had 3 kids, lived i a neighborhood with alot of kids, never, ever have any kids done anything to our cars.
I want these people to work it out!!!! Defendants need to pay up and patch it up!!!!
"Only one spells it with a U..." Mystery solved, even without the wife's texts. And if anyone needs a good friend, it's a mom with 300 kids at home or whatever they have.
Wow 32 she looked nearly 45
“OMG” These families and loved each other. people’s court lets do a good job fund and raise money for the friends. They are awesome 👏 ❤🙏
if he says "nahhmean" one mo time....
LMAO
I was cringing cause he sounded like he never went 2 school or read an e-book
He seems like him nor his wife has accountability nor understand what it means to be a real friend.
HAPPY FRIDAY KIDS!❤❤❤ from Phoenix, AZ.
It's the accountability for me. He said I could be a better husband....he's been fighting back tears the whole case. I think he wants to pay, he just don't have it
So he needs to take their sh*t out of the storage garage and get the children in line. Five children that they can't handle is no one's fault but theirs.