If A Man Wants To Do 50/50 In A Relationship, You’re Not The one

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  • Опубліковано 7 вер 2024

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  • @youngman287
    @youngman287 Місяць тому +10

    I never let my girlfriend pay. She deserves it. She is gracious and kind. As a man, it's easy to see a woman who does NOT deserve to be provided for. The kind that are ungrateful and expect to be cared for. MEN, STOP PROVIDING FOR RUDE UNGRACIOUS WOMEN. IT DOESNT MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE.

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  Місяць тому

    • @fadinglight7103
      @fadinglight7103 Місяць тому

      @@Ellaphetrrada You missed his entire point. He said the kind of women that expect to be cared for don't deserve to be provided for. This whole video you went on to explain why women should expect to be cared for. He thinks you're not worth providing for, and he's right.
      There are many things you misunderstand. Guys don't jump on the opportunity to provide for the first woman they see. Women are the prize? What makes women the prize? If you want to date a guy and he's providing for everything, what do you offer in return? Having female parts do not make you the prize. If a guy financially provides for you and you provide nothing in return, the guy is the prize and you're lucky not to get dumped soon.
      A relationship is a two way street. You want a high quality guy who wants to provide for you? You make him want to provide for you by being worth it. Guys want a kind, loving, feminine woman. In a healthy relationship both parties will think the other person is the prize. Both people will think they have the better end of the deal.
      If you're going around expecting everything, you'll get greedy, you'll be ungrateful for the things that are provided, you'll start complaining about little things going not how you want them to be (because you think you deserve so much better) while at the same time not even providing anything the guy likes. Why would a guy want to provide for someone who is unappreciative and a hassle to be around?
      Personally I also like to provide. For a woman that is worth it. The women that you teach to expect the world from a guy, I stay very far away from. And like the guy above said, it's very easy to spot them because they're entitled. They are a waste of time, money and effort. Men are people too, who want to be loved and cared for. We want to be appreciated just like any other human and we don't want to be treated like a wallet. Women who expect to be provided for and think they're automatically the prize while providing nothing are not appreciative of the things men want to provide in a relationship and will suck you dry like a leech. Reason why the guy above told other guys to stay far away from women like that.
      I hope I made it clear without being too harsh. The behaviour you teach is not only toxic for guys, but also for women who then as a result will not be able to have a happy loving relationship

  • @jamietintore7630
    @jamietintore7630 Місяць тому +1

    I felt that my IQ dropped after watching this.

  • @MariamGabr
    @MariamGabr Місяць тому +1

    i love you already from the first minute 🤣

  • @Whoisdusk
    @Whoisdusk Місяць тому +1

    Lol im ditching wizardliz for you.

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada  Місяць тому

      @@Whoisdusk love Liz as always 💓😅

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw Місяць тому +3

    I have been thorough that kind of relationship and i think real man spoil you and treat you as a princess all tho he can be in fanatical problem because real men has that quantity they don't need any excuse of any problem if they don't pay when they don't have money so we Can't expect them to pay after so they have money because we are giving them a princess treatment

  • @11pinkie11
    @11pinkie11 Місяць тому +6

    THIS IS CRINGE, STOP TALKING!!!

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому +1

    💯👊🏽

  • @O520OG
    @O520OG Місяць тому +1

    You are so wise, I wonder how old you are. Amazing points, more girls should watch it.

  • @luchahn8430
    @luchahn8430 Місяць тому +1

    You’re correct and more girls should think this way. However I suggest you improve your English. I personally don’t mind but a lot of people will especially if you want your channel to grow and reach more people