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Life lessons from a people pleaser | causes and tips on how to deal with it
In this video, I’d like to share my experiences of being a people pleaser, what I have learned and how I deal with it. If you are experiencing with the same thing here, know that you’re not alone and it will always be ok. We will get through this together. 🫶💓
📍 My therapist’s ig: soulfulhealingjourney
Ps. Sessions can be done in both thai and English. It can be online as well.
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Tiktok & Ig: @ellaphetrrada
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Відео

To Anyone Feeling Lonely
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We often think about loneliness in a sad and negative way. We think no one likes us or we are not good enough. The negative emotions you are experiencing are just the result of those negative thoughts. Therefore, if you are able to shift your thoughts from the negative to positive, you will embrace the loneliness and less suffer from it. // SOCIAL MEDIA // TikTok & IG: @ellaphetrrada
How To Heal Yourself From A Breakup
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In the past, every time I experienced a heartbreak, I thought dating a new person was the way to heal. Not surprisingly, I kept getting my heart broken from the same pattern because what I did was not healing but distracting myself. That’s why it’s so crucial to know how to heal in the right way. So you don’t end up making the same mistake. // SOCIAL MEDIA // TikTok & Instragram: @ellaphetrrada
THE POWER OF WALKING AWAY
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THE POWER OF WALKING AWAY
If A Man Wants To Do 50/50 In A Relationship, You’re Not The one
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If A Man Wants To Do 50/50 In A Relationship, You’re Not The one
STOP TRYING TO CHANGE OTHER PEOPLE | learn to let go and build self worth
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STOP TRYING TO CHANGE OTHER PEOPLE | learn to let go and build self worth
how to be happy single | decenter men & enjoy being alone
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how to be happy single | decenter men & enjoy being alone
THE POWER OF WALKING AWAY
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THE POWER OF WALKING AWAY
How I heal myself after a heartbreak and completely get over my ex.
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How I heal myself after a heartbreak and completely get over my ex.
Forgive people who did you wrong
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Forgive people who did you wrong
Stop people pleasing and live life authentically.
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Stop people pleasing and live life authentically.
Overcome a loneliness & be happy alone.
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Overcome a loneliness & be happy alone.
Stop attracting a toxic partner.
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Stop attracting a toxic partner.
How to deal with toxic people?
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How to deal with toxic people?
Overcoming the negative thoughts in your head.
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Overcoming the negative thoughts in your head.
Make people respect you |ways you should do to gain respect from others
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Make people respect you |ways you should do to gain respect from others
Stop caring what people think about you.
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Stop caring what people think about you.
How to stop overthinking? | causes and the best tips to overcome it.
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How to stop overthinking? | causes and the best tips to overcome it.
How to move on after a breakup? | The best and healthiest tips to follow.
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How to move on after a breakup? | The best and healthiest tips to follow.
4 signs you are dating a narcissist!
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4 signs you are dating a narcissist!
Breakup is a blessing!
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Breakup is a blessing!
Why can’t you get out of a toxic relationship?
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Why can’t you get out of a toxic relationship?

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin 4 дні тому

    Great Message Cuttie

  • @user-xn8em6vi8i
    @user-xn8em6vi8i 5 днів тому

    สวยจ้า

  • @GaryMorgan-u2r
    @GaryMorgan-u2r 10 днів тому

    But you can leave the anger behind you

  • @GaryMorgan-u2r
    @GaryMorgan-u2r 10 днів тому

    Honey don't feel lonely if you are interested in mining and exploring for opal there going to be 3 or 4 women who are partners in opal mining and gold mining equal shares you can have friends and be as happy as you can allow your self

  • @GaryMorgan-u2r
    @GaryMorgan-u2r 10 днів тому

    You are beautiful and smart

  • @GaryMorgan-u2r
    @GaryMorgan-u2r 11 днів тому

    Its awesome you can breathe and enjoy your life

  • @GaryMorgan-u2r
    @GaryMorgan-u2r 11 днів тому

    I can relate to that..don't get back into one be free and have friends and do whatever you want..honey pie im looking for partners for opal mining and gold mining equal shares between partners and no money needed to be a partner. All women crew in Australia

  • @chainarinpatisang6135
    @chainarinpatisang6135 12 днів тому

    😊😊😊❤

  • @bangtantv7763
    @bangtantv7763 14 днів тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @shinnyvlog
    @shinnyvlog 15 днів тому

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin 17 днів тому

    🫶🏽💯🫶🏽

  • @SaifulIslam-qe4ml
    @SaifulIslam-qe4ml 19 днів тому

    Slay pookie

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin 26 днів тому

    🔥🔥❤️‍🔥🔥🔥

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin 26 днів тому

    🫡💯This Is A Really Good Message👊🏽

  • @nova_edits4sho
    @nova_edits4sho 29 днів тому

    Yo chat she thinks she’s the shit

  • @lucyestrella77
    @lucyestrella77 29 днів тому

    OMG look how sweet you are

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @esteemhero6580
    @esteemhero6580 Місяць тому

    Everyone knows this info

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    That’s True 🤦🏽

  • @neclaelif2397
    @neclaelif2397 Місяць тому

    You are so pretty ❤ i have a toxic sister and i cant get away 😢

  • @choeilee3072
    @choeilee3072 Місяць тому

    i believe in u Ella, u such a pretty girl w good mindset 🤗

  • @sage8026
    @sage8026 Місяць тому

    thank youu the timing was perfecttt

  • @user-qi2td7qj1t
    @user-qi2td7qj1t Місяць тому

    I could literally feel the power and determination after every single word she said.

  • @manasvee-f9n
    @manasvee-f9n Місяць тому

    ngl but it looks like u are highly coping the way wizardliz talks like frr

    • @lax_0nomy
      @lax_0nomy Місяць тому

      yeah, I noticed that as well

  • @ljissocuted6089
    @ljissocuted6089 Місяць тому

    you are so pretty

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw Місяць тому

    ☘️

  • @shinnyvlog
    @shinnyvlog Місяць тому

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw Місяць тому

    Fr i have been with toxic friend and i don't hang out with them anymore

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    That’s Very True 🫡💯👊🏽

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    🫶🏽💯🫶🏽

  • @jamietintore7630
    @jamietintore7630 Місяць тому

    I felt that my IQ dropped after watching this.

  • @user-mc9jk4uc9i
    @user-mc9jk4uc9i Місяць тому

    Just another rationalisation for modern women being fucking useless

  • @Whoisdusk
    @Whoisdusk Місяць тому

    Lol im ditching wizardliz for you.

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada Місяць тому

      @@Whoisdusk love Liz as always 💓😅

  • @luchahn8430
    @luchahn8430 Місяць тому

    You’re correct and more girls should think this way. However I suggest you improve your English. I personally don’t mind but a lot of people will especially if you want your channel to grow and reach more people

  • @hacgiaythiengia7516
    @hacgiaythiengia7516 Місяць тому

    50/50 is the excuse weak men make to hook up with more women 😂 don't ever go 50/50 and thinking you're exerting feminist power, you're just being used.

  • @11pinkie11
    @11pinkie11 Місяць тому

    THIS IS CRINGE, STOP TALKING!!!

  • @xmrxjoexx
    @xmrxjoexx Місяць тому

    Keep spreading the word with your fellow sister ! They need knowledge and information about how to properly vet potential male partners. There is a lot of broken and unhealed people out there just look for their next victim.

  • @MariamGabr
    @MariamGabr Місяць тому

    i love you already from the first minute 🤣

  • @tothemax0729
    @tothemax0729 Місяць тому

    I tried to change my ex for 3 years. Now i finally have a girlfriend who has a good attitude.

  • @youngman287
    @youngman287 Місяць тому

    I never let my girlfriend pay. She deserves it. She is gracious and kind. As a man, it's easy to see a woman who does NOT deserve to be provided for. The kind that are ungrateful and expect to be cared for. MEN, STOP PROVIDING FOR RUDE UNGRACIOUS WOMEN. IT DOESNT MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE.

    • @Ellaphetrrada
      @Ellaphetrrada Місяць тому

    • @fadinglight7103
      @fadinglight7103 Місяць тому

      @@Ellaphetrrada You missed his entire point. He said the kind of women that expect to be cared for don't deserve to be provided for. This whole video you went on to explain why women should expect to be cared for. He thinks you're not worth providing for, and he's right. There are many things you misunderstand. Guys don't jump on the opportunity to provide for the first woman they see. Women are the prize? What makes women the prize? If you want to date a guy and he's providing for everything, what do you offer in return? Having female parts do not make you the prize. If a guy financially provides for you and you provide nothing in return, the guy is the prize and you're lucky not to get dumped soon. A relationship is a two way street. You want a high quality guy who wants to provide for you? You make him want to provide for you by being worth it. Guys want a kind, loving, feminine woman. In a healthy relationship both parties will think the other person is the prize. Both people will think they have the better end of the deal. If you're going around expecting everything, you'll get greedy, you'll be ungrateful for the things that are provided, you'll start complaining about little things going not how you want them to be (because you think you deserve so much better) while at the same time not even providing anything the guy likes. Why would a guy want to provide for someone who is unappreciative and a hassle to be around? Personally I also like to provide. For a woman that is worth it. The women that you teach to expect the world from a guy, I stay very far away from. And like the guy above said, it's very easy to spot them because they're entitled. They are a waste of time, money and effort. Men are people too, who want to be loved and cared for. We want to be appreciated just like any other human and we don't want to be treated like a wallet. Women who expect to be provided for and think they're automatically the prize while providing nothing are not appreciative of the things men want to provide in a relationship and will suck you dry like a leech. Reason why the guy above told other guys to stay far away from women like that. I hope I made it clear without being too harsh. The behaviour you teach is not only toxic for guys, but also for women who then as a result will not be able to have a happy loving relationship

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    That’s everything I needed to hear. You look young but very wise ❤🙏🏽

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw Місяць тому

    I have been thorough that kind of relationship and i think real man spoil you and treat you as a princess all tho he can be in fanatical problem because real men has that quantity they don't need any excuse of any problem if they don't pay when they don't have money so we Can't expect them to pay after so they have money because we are giving them a princess treatment

  • @O520OG
    @O520OG Місяць тому

    You are so wise, I wonder how old you are. Amazing points, more girls should watch it.

  • @humblethrillskin
    @humblethrillskin Місяць тому

    💯👊🏽

  • @experiencelifelittleone
    @experiencelifelittleone Місяць тому

    hello 🙂

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw Місяць тому

    Slay

  • @user-xn8em6vi8i
    @user-xn8em6vi8i 2 місяці тому

    สวย

  • @bangtantv7763
    @bangtantv7763 2 місяці тому

    My friend always left me for another girl i felt so sad everyday but now i saw your video it helped thank u🎉🎉

  • @YumaLimbu-ru5kw
    @YumaLimbu-ru5kw 2 місяці тому

    Girl I'm going to be fan from me now remember my name yuma🎀

  • @pimpakarn5822
    @pimpakarn5822 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤