“I Didn’t Feel Like it” - A Father Son Conversation That You NEED to Hear

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024
  • Patrick Bet-David, discusses a very powerful conversation he had with his son. The subject of this conversation applies to everybody. Enjoy the heartwarming story!
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  • @Tehutli
    @Tehutli 5 місяців тому +301

    A father like this would cure so many societal issues ❤

    • @QuilishWammy
      @QuilishWammy 5 місяців тому

      He's a conman charlatan who makes money by tricking people 😉 He's the last person who could 'cure societal issues'.
      Search "PBD MLM" on Google, and check out the results. 😉

    • @nasrinkhosravi9324
      @nasrinkhosravi9324 5 місяців тому +2

      Agreed 👍 he is a great father 👏👏

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 5 місяців тому

      Father? Pater Partis?? Patriarchy???

    • @nikitaw1982
      @nikitaw1982 5 місяців тому +1

      family court gives loonie women custody so few men like this

    • @fishingangler4315
      @fishingangler4315 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@user-cs3ih8sr7qyes religion does prey on the less fortunate. You got that right.

  • @jorgefigueroa2231
    @jorgefigueroa2231 5 місяців тому +243

    I'm 35 and have never had anyone speak to me like this. I wish I had a father that cared.

    • @joewood753
      @joewood753 5 місяців тому +12

      Don’t wish for nothing. Overcome your resentment and forgive him. Love all. No matter what. We all wish and expect but we didn’t choose to be here, we didn’t create ourselves we don’t create reality. We live in it and love it or suffer to our imaginations, expectations.

    • @Pre_Vee_et
      @Pre_Vee_et 5 місяців тому +10

      You do, God.

    • @Fgway
      @Fgway 5 місяців тому +1

      Some people say there are no mistakes, say that there are purposes to life. We could each be here to learn this lesson.

    • @niloc-ox5vt
      @niloc-ox5vt 5 місяців тому

      ​@@joewood753well said

    • @NateG369
      @NateG369 5 місяців тому +4

      Goggins would say God hooked you the fuck up. He gave you the perfect training ground to be a great man and a great dad. My dad wasn't perfect, but he taught me what I wanted to be and what I didn't want to be. Don't just do your best. Do whatever it takes.

  • @tophcookie7033
    @tophcookie7033 5 місяців тому +359

    PBD IS one of the best examples of a father.

    • @words007
      @words007 5 місяців тому +6

      It is said that children's childhood activities is very important for mentally physical development, and it's even more best if parent actually does activities with them, but unlike PBD it's suffice to say 99% of parents don't do it and CAN'T DO IT,

    • @samplexample
      @samplexample 5 місяців тому +2

      That’s about all he is. Somebody’s dad on a political podcast. His ego is too big to admit he’s the behind the scenes kind of guy

    • @doubleooh7337
      @doubleooh7337 5 місяців тому +1

      But some parents also needs their kids to be there in time of need, which they are less an less

    • @pat2562
      @pat2562 5 місяців тому +1

      @@words007 Yes, so beautiful when daddy teaches you to care about money above all else.

    • @Buzz_Kill71
      @Buzz_Kill71 5 місяців тому

      Yeah, let him tell it.

  • @addie1496
    @addie1496 5 місяців тому +182

    I greatly wish I had parents like this. They will thank you when they're older.

    • @nschem-305
      @nschem-305 5 місяців тому +3

      You can become one

    • @seymorefact4333
      @seymorefact4333 5 місяців тому

      PBD...shouldn't you be teaching your daughter to be a good mom to many babies and obey her husband?! thats the Christian way. HOW DARE you coach her on sports or anything that will give her confidence! PBD your always speaking against feminist.

    • @GeographyZ
      @GeographyZ 5 місяців тому +7

      ​@@seymorefact4333 bruh she's less than 13 years old, let her enjoy her life at this time. she doesn't have to think about those at that age

    • @New-bw4kz
      @New-bw4kz 5 місяців тому

      @@seymorefact4333modern feminism sucks

    • @elliottharris9015
      @elliottharris9015 Місяць тому

      ​@@nschem-305 Hard to find the right partner/spouse.

  • @zitiden4745
    @zitiden4745 5 місяців тому +207

    At 53 I've learned fun comes along for the ride, but its not the destination.

    • @bengrant8890
      @bengrant8890 5 місяців тому +7

      Well put.

    • @reynoldhayes517
      @reynoldhayes517 5 місяців тому +7

      Great comment.

    • @Mikk-t2o
      @Mikk-t2o 4 місяці тому +1

      Wow.thats deep.so true. Majority of good memories came out of the blue.

  • @Melissa-tt1mg
    @Melissa-tt1mg 5 місяців тому +134

    I've been "drifting" since my mom passed away. This was confirmation that it's time to move on and stand in my purpose again. I love your videos, and they are more impactful than you'll ever know. Thank you!

    • @pat2562
      @pat2562 5 місяців тому

      So, Jesus wants wealthy people who rip off others? Boy, Pbd is gping to be surprised when he dies.

    • @imageisn0thing
      @imageisn0thing 5 місяців тому +5

      You can do it! 🙌

    • @Coral333
      @Coral333 5 місяців тому +2

      God's got you every step you have taken and will take. Your mother is with you always now❤ you can I do this keep the faith and walk in your purpose and God's will✝️❤️🙏

    • @Coral333
      @Coral333 5 місяців тому +1

      God's got you every step you have taken and will take. Your mother is with you always now❤ you can I do this keep the faith and walk in your purpose and God's will✝️❤️🙏

    • @Melissa-tt1mg
      @Melissa-tt1mg 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@imageisn0thing
      thank you!

  • @bmatteson88
    @bmatteson88 5 місяців тому +112

    I used to try to parent my children but then I realized if I live my best life they will follow. I started working out at home in my front room so my kids se me try, struggle then succeed. I started taking time to meditate and refocus myself. I would do this in the other front room so they could see me. My kids started pushing themselves harder and enjoying trying more. My kids are 14, 11 and 8. My oldest son just graduated middle school with a 3.5 grade point average. Played sports and is really focused on his future now. My 2 younger children are following in his footsteps. It’s been amazing watching my own personal efforts affect them positively.

    • @TheBaBaTV
      @TheBaBaTV 5 місяців тому +1

      Teach kids languages, cultures, Christianity Jesus Christ and origin history how it’s cool to be Christian (like christian Japan samurais for ex) other history (ancient, civilizations) so that they create a good proud identity, they feel belonged ! Many kids hate themselves feel they don’t have identity for being “plain white English” I notice today taught by leftists to hate white people, so kids try searching going through bad phases to find identity to align with that public approves (alphabet community, gangs, etc) but destroy themselves after! Knowing other languages is a start, gives kids accomplishments!

    • @TheBaBaTV
      @TheBaBaTV 5 місяців тому +1

      Teach kids languages, cultures, Christianity Jesus Christ and origin history how it’s cool to be Christian (like christian Japan samurais for ex) other history (ancient, civilizations) so that they create a good proud identity, they feel belonged ! Many kids hate themselves feel they don’t have identity for being “plain white English” I notice today taught by leftists to hate white people, so kids try searching going through bad phases to find identity to align with that public approves (alphabet community, gangs, etc) but destroy themselves after! Knowing other languages is a start, gives kids accomplishments!

    • @TheBaBaTV
      @TheBaBaTV 5 місяців тому

      Teach kids languages, cultures, Christianity Jesus Christ and origin history how it’s cool to be Christian (like christian Japan samurais for ex) other history (ancient, civilizations) so that they create a good proud identity, they feel belonged ! Many kids hate themselves feel they don’t have identity for being “plain white English” I notice today taught by leftists to hate white people, so kids try searching going through bad phases to find identity to align with that public approves (alphabet community, gangs, etc) but destroy themselves after! Knowing other languages is a start, gives kids accomplishments!

    • @bengrant8890
      @bengrant8890 5 місяців тому +8

      I try to lead by example also.

    • @JakeBollig
      @JakeBollig 5 місяців тому +1

      Great job! This is the way💪🏽

  • @henryphilipbelliIII1074
    @henryphilipbelliIII1074 5 місяців тому +169

    Men MUST build future WARRIORS! 🙏👊🙏

    • @Jerkbeefrow
      @Jerkbeefrow 5 місяців тому +6

      For SURE ! WARRIORS NOT WIMPS !😂

    • @GEDDY37
      @GEDDY37 5 місяців тому

      It seems, these days society is against real men. Too many males being raised by a single parent that is female

    • @HercMMA
      @HercMMA 5 місяців тому +2

      100%

    • @seymorefact4333
      @seymorefact4333 5 місяців тому

      PBD...shouldn't you be teaching your daughter to be a good mom to many babies and obey her husband?! thats the Christian way. HOW DARE you coach her on sports or anything that will give her confidence! PBD your always speaking against feminist.

    • @servantofthelord8147
      @servantofthelord8147 5 місяців тому

      @@seymorefact4333yikes. The women of the Bible were not the caricature of 1950s American wives - read proverbs 31 for an example of just how involved a superstar woman in those days was involved in society.

  • @ronweber386
    @ronweber386 5 місяців тому +126

    At the end of life, "A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold" Proverbs 22:1

    • @holtcrowder
      @holtcrowder 5 місяців тому +2

      Give me Gold and silver every time.

    • @QuilishWammy
      @QuilishWammy 5 місяців тому +1

      Yet, this channel's entire existence is to lecture people about 'getting rich'. 😉

    • @holtcrowder
      @holtcrowder 5 місяців тому

      @@QuilishWammy That is your opinion. However untethered from reality it may be. But keep telling yourself that and playing victim. No one has forced you to watch anything.

    • @QuilishWammy
      @QuilishWammy 5 місяців тому

      @@holtcrowder How am I 'playing victim' ? Are you projecting your own insecurities onto me ? 😉
      I merely mentioned that the reason for this channel's entire existence is to tell people to 'get rich'. He whines constantly, in every video, about how the middle class needs to 'take back the wealth'.
      Have you been watching the videos, or do you like to pretend that The Economic Ninja tells his followers to *stay poor* ?

    • @a1uplift212
      @a1uplift212 5 місяців тому

      ​Neither has to give.
      "Seek first the kingdom and all will be added"
      You gotta have a love for God
      You cannot love money, Instead you should aspire to become the best possible version of yourself.
      What does that look like?
      Ex:
      Well the best me is disciplined, he does what he is supposed to do regardless of how he feels. He trains even when he doesn't feel like training
      He works when he doesn't feel like working
      He builds up his skills and talents even when he doesn't feel like it
      He protects when he doesn't feel like protecting
      He must be a GOOD man, and when you're actually a good man and a true high value man you humble yourself and know that God is the Almighty, and you strive to live right by him.
      ​@Booz2020

  • @12235117657598502586
    @12235117657598502586 5 місяців тому +125

    The love Patrick has for his family is indisputable.
    God Bless.

  • @Aaron25thinfantry
    @Aaron25thinfantry 5 місяців тому +15

    I’m 43, former infantryman and single father of a 12yr old. Thank you for this, I need it. God bless.

  • @buckrogers-lk3yr
    @buckrogers-lk3yr 5 місяців тому +32

    Fear and Anxiety are the disease of the mind!!

    • @GEDDY37
      @GEDDY37 5 місяців тому +4

      Also, I think being comfortable is a disease

    • @SaltySeabee
      @SaltySeabee 5 місяців тому +1

      They're a copout

  • @djnv4702
    @djnv4702 5 місяців тому +11

    A great dad. Showing his kids how to navigate this world.

  • @lindahall2855
    @lindahall2855 5 місяців тому +87

    Outstanding!! Your kids are very lucky to have you!

    • @reynoldhayes517
      @reynoldhayes517 5 місяців тому +1

      @@comment2karethey aren’t lucky they are fortunate and blessed.

  • @Ralpha1961
    @Ralpha1961 5 місяців тому +27

    What you are doing is precious. When I was failing in elementary and Jr High School, the only help I got was threats from my dad. I was constantly grounded for weeks at a time and all summer. He never offered to help. Just threats for failing. This is not healthy for a child. So in high school I changed my mind about school and learning. I was going to enjoy myself. Not only did I improve but I understood things much better. I enjoyed learning. Even today. Teachers and adults looked at me with approval and astonishment. What I didn’t receive from my dad, approval, I received from my peers.
    Now I didn’t just blindly do this. I remembered all the people who were kind and wise towards me as I grew up. I noticed how people reacted to events in their lives. It’s like watching an older brother make mistakes and learning not to make the same mistakes.
    My father passed away many years ago. And I still loved him to the end. I just knew that he didn’t grow up properly either. I told myself it will stop here. I raised my child by giving time to her. Listening and not go flying off the handle. And she was smart and keen to begin with. Explaining things to them and giving them hope goes a long way.
    My mother had a lot to do with it. To complicated to explain. But I love them both still.

  • @AV1611NY
    @AV1611NY 5 місяців тому +33

    53 years old and drifting most of my life. So used to it that I've given in to it and don't know how to do anything else. Video brought tears to my eyes.

    • @intentsmodz
      @intentsmodz 5 місяців тому +3

      Same, Also 53 and been always doing for others and putting off myself. I can't say NO & don't ever charge enough for my services. I always charge for how long it took me to do the job, Not how long it took to get there or how long it took me to be able to get it done faster than everyone else. With my skills and knowledge I should be filthy rich..............

    • @Savage_D_508
      @Savage_D_508 5 місяців тому +4

      Better late than never. It Never too late.

    • @emmanuelebube3757
      @emmanuelebube3757 5 місяців тому +5

      It's never late Brothers. Once there's life, there can still be a change. Respect Brothers.

    • @Micloren
      @Micloren 5 місяців тому +3

      “It’s never too late to be what ought have been.” Maybe this vid is god whispering to you.

    • @chrisvigo4880
      @chrisvigo4880 5 місяців тому +2

      Your not alone...I'm there with you 😢

  • @RainsWorldVegasSlots
    @RainsWorldVegasSlots 5 місяців тому +59

    I’m 57 years you were talking to me this morning as I saw this drop. Thank you Sir..

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower 5 місяців тому +4

      your username says it all 😂

    • @dertythegrower
      @dertythegrower 5 місяців тому +2

      flushin life and funds away grifting dudes to give you gamble money.. yikes

    • @mr.yellowstrat3352
      @mr.yellowstrat3352 5 місяців тому

      ​@@dertythegrowerSays the pothead 😂
      Don't worry before you bark back at me, I'm a working musician so I can't talk much hahahah 🤘🙃

    • @RainsWorldVegasSlots
      @RainsWorldVegasSlots 5 місяців тому

      @@dertythegrower yours too ha no seriously my channel used to be a pastime But that’s far from the reason for my response

  • @NYRelicHunters
    @NYRelicHunters 5 місяців тому +10

    Fathering helps Humanity Evolve to the Next level👍

  • @unconventional1ne
    @unconventional1ne 5 місяців тому +30

    Your Life Is Worth More Than Just Drifting ‼️ 🤗

  • @trenboloneytony7609
    @trenboloneytony7609 5 місяців тому +20

    Damn Pat… I needed that brother…
    32 year old Assyrian man, so many things I want to accomplish in fitness and I have such an insane background, from prison to drug use, to almost being deported, now im years sober just trying to make a life with a felony conviction… it’s not been easy

    • @jamalydude
      @jamalydude 5 місяців тому +2

      Congrats to you I’m proud of you you’re a good man

    • @trenboloneytony7609
      @trenboloneytony7609 5 місяців тому +1

      @@jamalydude thank you 🙏❤️

  • @leonardogreaves
    @leonardogreaves 5 місяців тому +1

    Appreciate this appointment.

  • @joeythechin8870
    @joeythechin8870 5 місяців тому +54

    I never had the opportunity to have fun or drift. My life from the age of 15 has been work . I worked two full time jobs both day and night until I was 37 and then I retired, after being disabled in Iraq. Now I’m able to finally have a small bit of fun with my wife. I’m now 55.

    • @hectorg7090
      @hectorg7090 5 місяців тому

      How can I retire that early? Did you start some business/ real estate?

    • @dmg1849
      @dmg1849 5 місяців тому

      Slave.

    • @AlexPerazaTV
      @AlexPerazaTV 5 місяців тому

      @@hectorg7090 he got disability from the government from his injury

  • @Creeperkill1736
    @Creeperkill1736 5 місяців тому +1

    Wish I could like twice! Amazing lesson that everyone should know about. More stuff like this is only going to help others, keep it up!

  • @mr.yellowstrat3352
    @mr.yellowstrat3352 5 місяців тому +4

    I love how Pat's pep talks are legit and don't come off like a corny life coach. This is real advice

  • @kamdaddypurp69
    @kamdaddypurp69 5 місяців тому +1

    This is exactly the example of a dad I want to be that I never had.

  • @theredtitan
    @theredtitan 5 місяців тому +8

    PBD I wish you were my DAD❤ Much Love and Respect

  • @abudhabig0ld
    @abudhabig0ld 5 місяців тому +2

    WOW! I'm 73 and I'm drifting. I am alone, a widow, with estranged grown children, I get up thinking today I'll accomplish "something" and before I know it it's over. I've wasted another day. I may call betterhealth to see if there is an answer for me. TY PBD

  • @PamalaClift
    @PamalaClift 5 місяців тому +20

    I so love his ethics and focus. AT 71 I see he is way ahead, but he will have a bump in life when the kids hit teenager.

    • @OutWestRedDirt
      @OutWestRedDirt 5 місяців тому

      Kids CAN be Good even in teen years when they are raised in their younger years with boundaries.

    • @PamalaClift
      @PamalaClift 5 місяців тому

      @@OutWestRedDirt absolutely my belief as well, until they got there. Then they have to do everything opposite before they come back…sigh

  • @RFernandez18
    @RFernandez18 4 місяці тому +1

    Why am I tearing up...I'm 40 and drifting....yet I have so much I dream about and want to do but feel like I can't or it's just far fetched. My son is brilliant yet I feel he's drifting too. It's because I'm a drifter and his dad works but just does that. Nothing is being pushed onto my son who was brilliant from the moment he was born. Yet here he is doing the bare minimum without a push...I don't want both of us to fail...thank you for this. I've never had anyone say something so powerful. Your family is blessed for having you as their mentor.

  • @lynnjohnson1413
    @lynnjohnson1413 5 місяців тому +15

    Good that he has you! Some people have no one! No guidance! Life sucks all ages! You got to have money to have choices!!!!no money, no choices!

  • @SeanGPatterson
    @SeanGPatterson 5 місяців тому +1

    I really appreciate this share Patrick, much love. Keep it up

  • @johnnysolami
    @johnnysolami 5 місяців тому +8

    I'm in the Big Brothers program and this exactly what I'm dealing with the little brother. Thank you so much PBD. This was much needed for me.

  • @DREAMSANDSOUL
    @DREAMSANDSOUL 5 місяців тому +1

    Let kids be kids. They have their own inner path and their own dreams.

    • @catinahottinvan5012
      @catinahottinvan5012 5 місяців тому

      PBD first asked his son what HE wanted to do, and then, as a good father, helped him implement things towards his own dreams.
      There's a difference between helping, or hijacking.
      He's a great father..

  • @willsprings
    @willsprings 5 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for having the meeting with me Pat putting it to work

  • @ResiliantMind664
    @ResiliantMind664 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Patrick. This was such a good video. I learned that I need to be challenging those around me, and I need to figure out what my ideal self wants to do.

  • @renof2505
    @renof2505 5 місяців тому +6

    When I think back about the most "fun" I have had all of them that come to mind are achievements from working. Just having "fun" is kind of empty and not the exciting or memorable but when you worked for something like a long hike to the top of a mountain, that sticks with you and you feel you have earned it.

  • @elliotdelgaod6464
    @elliotdelgaod6464 5 місяців тому

    Everytime I click on this guy…
    What an amazing example of man !

  • @honorepetrasek5551
    @honorepetrasek5551 5 місяців тому +4

    WHAT AN AMAZING DISPLAY OF WISDOM FOR FATHERS FOR POSITIVE IMPACT ON THE NEXT GENERATION !!!!
    This is the way to defeat the radical school system and social media!!!! God Bless is all!!!!

  • @jerryt6177
    @jerryt6177 5 місяців тому +2

    As a father of three, I am impressed by your parenting skills and respect for God. Why are so few so well focused?

  • @simon_seitz
    @simon_seitz 5 місяців тому +9

    „Every day you spend drifting away from your goals is a waste not only of that day, but also of the additional day it takes to regain lost
    ground.“ - Ralph Marstor
    This was one of the most eye opening speeches ever heard on UA-cam.
    Thank you for the input Patrick.

  • @paul45859
    @paul45859 4 місяці тому +1

    Actually needed this

  • @HakeemKing1996
    @HakeemKing1996 5 місяців тому +3

    Good message, quote from my father "Utilize all of your time".

  • @BAYKING_316
    @BAYKING_316 4 місяці тому

    Im a 22 year old Australian male, and you Mr. Bet David encapsulate everything I want to be in a father and a role model.

  • @dercioferreira6169
    @dercioferreira6169 5 місяців тому +8

    This video is wholesome, PBD always out a great message as a father myself you have the most important responsibilities your kids

    • @jano8701
      @jano8701 5 місяців тому +1

      As an older “lady”, I have to say that the foul language used today in front of our children is very unwholesome! Even young girls today use horrendous, vulgar language, and no one seems to think anything of it. And the reason is adults, do not set good examples anymore, and teach respect for others. Men would never have said such ugly words in front of women, especially, just several years ago! People that claim to be Christians, and many are.. need to read the Bible and see where God tells us to keep our words wholesome, and to think on things that are lovely and kind! That makes us raise wholesome kids all around, and they become pleasing to God and good examples to other children and adults❤. Think on these things, please. I’d love listening to the podcasts, but it’s so difficult to hear the filthy language, so finally have to turn it off. Would you speak that way in front of your grandmother?

  • @Limc3207
    @Limc3207 5 місяців тому +1

    PBD for President :D
    again much love. Adressing the issues a person has to overcome to become satisfied with his/hers life. Bringing out the hearts desires and again leting them enter through my ears back to the hearth. Wonderful. Its 00.20, and i started doing a MENU i have to do for my food truck. LEEET'S GOO :D much love. THANKS DANDAVAT

  • @gratenate4932
    @gratenate4932 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you PBD! This is an amazing admonishment for all of us! So few folks realize that there is a priority hierarchy at every life stage!

  • @Oblisk
    @Oblisk 5 місяців тому +1

    You gotta be able to laugh at yourself whenever you say "I don't feel like it" and then proceed to do it anyway. "The only difference between success and failure is the ability to take action." - Alexander Graham Bell

  • @dr.wolfstar1765
    @dr.wolfstar1765 5 місяців тому +16

    PBD always asks questions that have wildly open for inpretation answers, but he always seems so annoyed if people dont give him the exact answer hes thinking in his head

    • @tallalmk6
      @tallalmk6 5 місяців тому +2

      For real

    • @MariaAlfonso-z2m
      @MariaAlfonso-z2m 5 місяців тому +1

      See the streets full of drifters, so sad.

    • @jonathanwiehe4398
      @jonathanwiehe4398 5 місяців тому +2

      No one is perfect let alone these millionaires on UA-cam

    • @jasmineteo9883
      @jasmineteo9883 5 місяців тому

      Agree. Hope PBD realises this 'weakness' in his otherwise strong characer. I learn a lot from watching his podcast.

  • @ismaelmo4109
    @ismaelmo4109 5 місяців тому +6

    Man Patrick this video made me cry like a baby 😢

  • @cxa011500
    @cxa011500 5 місяців тому +1

    Awesome video. Definitely worth rewatching. I'm 44 still trying to figure my life out. I wish I had a father like that. I hope I'll be able to be a father like that someday.

  • @bikramsingh592
    @bikramsingh592 5 місяців тому +9

    This is very important advice.

  • @sarahq8728
    @sarahq8728 5 місяців тому +1

    I’m a mum and I just watched this with my son - thank you PBD 🦋

  • @theresa4bar
    @theresa4bar 5 місяців тому +3

    An absolutely great video! Thank you first for being such a concerned and active father. Then, thanks for the motivation speech. I think right now, many young kids and just regular people don't have a direction in life. If you're breathing, there's hope! I forwarded this video.

  • @lithatheunissen7723
    @lithatheunissen7723 5 місяців тому +1

    Sir I admire how seriously you take the responsibility of raising your kids

  • @nicolassanchez2292
    @nicolassanchez2292 5 місяців тому +8

    “I am not afraid of death. What I am afraid of is that I will meet the Savior and he will say, ‘You could have done better.’”
    -President Spencer W Kimball

    • @fitrunner1317
      @fitrunner1317 5 місяців тому +1

      If you place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, you are 💯 % going to heaven and God is already pleased with you because of Jesus! You are right with God He will say welcome my beloved son, my child. He loves you and you are accepted in Jesus so you are and will be accepted by God Ephesians 1:6 -7 our performance does not determine Gods acceptance of us now and when we go to heaven. Jesus finished the work needed for us.

  • @TheWavelengthStudios
    @TheWavelengthStudios 5 місяців тому +1

    Great timing.
    I'm a 29 yr old father of 7. I had to have a talk yesterday with my oldest who's a ten year old boy. I expect him to enter into manhood in a few years and I want him to put the reps in now respecting his younger siblings and learning how to lead.
    He took it well and he's excited to become a man and be a leader in his community.

  • @cherylrobinson517
    @cherylrobinson517 5 місяців тому +4

    Whoa! Thanks Patrick, I needed to hear this.

  • @VP-bx2jj
    @VP-bx2jj 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you on behalf of mankind for raising your kids right. We are in such a dire state with a lack of parenting in our society.

  • @AQ-bd8ry
    @AQ-bd8ry 5 місяців тому +3

    Totally Resonates 🩵🙏

  • @investingnoob7572
    @investingnoob7572 5 місяців тому +2

    that was so powerful I have had a very hard past two weeks and felt like I have been drifting away from my goals thank you for the wise words

  • @pamelalandon2423
    @pamelalandon2423 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank you.

  • @the_mind_body_spirit
    @the_mind_body_spirit 5 місяців тому +1

    yeah... I needed that. Thank you Patrick, God bless

  • @Jamesanderson-vd4eo
    @Jamesanderson-vd4eo 5 місяців тому +769

    I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH

    • @Michelle_59
      @Michelle_59 5 місяців тому +18

      How did you do it? Do explain please 😯
      My family have been into series of sufferings lately

    • @Jamesanderson-vd4eo
      @Jamesanderson-vd4eo 5 місяців тому +6

      All thanks to Renee Marie Harrison

    • @Jamesanderson-vd4eo
      @Jamesanderson-vd4eo 5 місяців тому +5

      After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

    • @LeoIsThatYouYesitsme
      @LeoIsThatYouYesitsme 5 місяців тому +2

      I really need assistance
      How do I reach her??

    • @Jamesanderson-vd4eo
      @Jamesanderson-vd4eo 5 місяців тому

      There is her line!!!! look down under this comment!!!! 🆗

  • @jgale2590
    @jgale2590 5 місяців тому

    I drifted in life from 18-27 & it was probably the worst time in my life. At 25 I got crushed on the job and broke both of my legs and then at 27 I got sepsis and almost died & after that at 28 I started getting my shit together and I became a father at 29 & that gave me a sense of purpose. I got into the real estate business and now I own a few multifamily properties and I'm doing things on purpose and what a difference five years makes when you're living life on purpose. God bless you PBD & happy Father's Day!

  • @vishnusavarkar1482
    @vishnusavarkar1482 5 місяців тому +128

    Thank you for your research. I find your videos are well done. When Flokong hits it hits hard

  • @yvonnegonzalez5616
    @yvonnegonzalez5616 5 місяців тому +1

    Health=Wealth.

  • @drueda78
    @drueda78 5 місяців тому +2

    This hit hard I get it

  • @SeanPGribbons
    @SeanPGribbons 5 місяців тому +1

    These are the conversations that shape kids minds. Strong work.

  • @JoyJack-cq2pr
    @JoyJack-cq2pr 5 місяців тому +48

    From $17K to $145K that's the minimum range of profit return every week I thinks it's not a bad one for me, now I have enough to pay bills and take care of my family.
    .......

    • @JeffreyScott-zg1wj
      @JeffreyScott-zg1wj 5 місяців тому

      I agree just reached my goal of $500k monthly trade earnings. Setting realistic goals is an essential part of trading

    • @SmithNatasha-hc7mq
      @SmithNatasha-hc7mq 5 місяців тому

      How can someone know a professional broker when legit once are hard to find this days

    • @JoyJack-cq2pr
      @JoyJack-cq2pr 5 місяців тому

      she often interacts on Telegrams
      .....

    • @JoyJack-cq2pr
      @JoyJack-cq2pr 5 місяців тому

      @Christen172

    • @Daniella-fv6er
      @Daniella-fv6er 5 місяців тому

      I have never seen mrs Christen wilburn clients complain of lost....I think she is just too perfect

  • @saintsx1958
    @saintsx1958 4 місяці тому

    I have been drifting through college for 10 years and have not completed my degree. Wasted so much time to not realize that the educational system is not meant for me. This video made me realize as I assess my life that I need to drop school and get a full time job.

  • @Bob-op5tm
    @Bob-op5tm 5 місяців тому +7

    This is so over the top. Would not want this type of parenting constantly. Probably where the didn’t feel like it vibe came from

    • @hollygolden9673
      @hollygolden9673 5 місяців тому +2

      And post it for hits.

    • @goblin6587
      @goblin6587 5 місяців тому +1

      Story about his daughter is so fake lmao

    • @timothyschule3831
      @timothyschule3831 5 місяців тому

      You don’t need to be a parent then. Please don’t reproduce.

  • @mikyahalbena-yasharal3387
    @mikyahalbena-yasharal3387 5 місяців тому

    I am 50 years old, they still hit home! Fact of the matter, in life, this goes in cycles; gotta stay on point!

  • @88jameson88
    @88jameson88 5 місяців тому +4

    PBD, just a quick question. How many takes did the vids with your kids take?

  • @3PMedia
    @3PMedia 5 місяців тому

    Pat you should write a book on lessons you learned from your dad and lessons you’ve learned being a dad. I know I can’t be the only one who would be interested in reading it.

  • @user-sl3bx6gj3
    @user-sl3bx6gj3 5 місяців тому +5

    Patrick your son is being targeted with social media suggested videos that are designed to weaken him.

  • @Dopefulromantic
    @Dopefulromantic 5 місяців тому +1

    Im 24 pat so you were talking to me and whats funny is that ive been needing this. Saw this after my shift ended and it was the motivation i needed to come home and get my shit together. Days and months pass and you look forward to something and before you realize you havent done anything with all the time you had.

  • @Arjunkumar-jw6hy
    @Arjunkumar-jw6hy 5 місяців тому +52

    Wait, do you think cryptocurrency will crash? I don't think so. I'm using Eledator, traders just do business instead of me :) I don't afraid even if crypto will crash

  • @georgekostakis232
    @georgekostakis232 5 місяців тому

    As a father, I love when you talk about these topics the most out of all others

  • @TonyM.Gilmer
    @TonyM.Gilmer 5 місяців тому +132

    Thanks for keeping us updated! I feel sympathy and empathy for our country. low income people are suffering to survive, and I appreciate Deborah Lee Clark. You've helped my family with your advice. imagine investing $30,000 and receiving $95,460 after 28 days of trading.

    • @CarmenZamora-tn5vq
      @CarmenZamora-tn5vq 5 місяців тому

      I began investing in stocks and Def earlier this year, and it is the best choice I've ever made. My portfolio is rounding up to almost a million and I have realized that when a stock makes it to the news, chances are you're quite late to the party, the idea is to get in early on blue chips before it becomes public. There are lots of life changing opportunities in the market, and maximize it.

    • @mohmahraz3230
      @mohmahraz3230 5 місяців тому

      What opportunities are there in the market, and how do I profit from it?

    • @TonyM.Gilmer
      @TonyM.Gilmer 5 місяців тому

      You can make a lot of money from the
      market regardless of whether it strengthens or crashes. The key is to be well positioned.

    • @desireekouame9215
      @desireekouame9215 5 місяців тому

      I would really like to know how this actually works.

    • @TonyM.Gilmer
      @TonyM.Gilmer 5 місяців тому

      All you need is a good capital and the
      service of a professional broker, with those your investment will most certainly produce high yields.

  • @richarddesrosiers5982
    @richarddesrosiers5982 5 місяців тому

    He have been watching you for about a year. If you are real not just a show. Rock on

  • @UrryNorwell
    @UrryNorwell 5 місяців тому +4

    *If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you.... prevent inflation*

    • @HoggCasco
      @HoggCasco 5 місяців тому

      Thanks for continuing updates I'd rather trade the crypto market as it's more profitable. I make a good amount of money per week even though I barely trade myself.

    • @UrryNorwell
      @UrryNorwell 5 місяців тому

      A lot of people still make massive profit from the crypto market, all you really need is a relevant information and some

    • @HoggCasco
      @HoggCasco 5 місяців тому

      You trade also?, I tried trading after watching some videos on < UA-cam but still keep making losses, how do you

    • @UrryNorwell
      @UrryNorwell 5 місяців тому

      No I don't trade on my own anymore, I always required help and assistance

    • @UrryNorwell
      @UrryNorwell 5 місяців тому

      From my personal financial advisor

  • @milobio7741
    @milobio7741 5 місяців тому +2

    This is oddly innovative. Providing the parental influence and motivation the world is so desperately starving for ----Beautiful!

  • @Solairethedarksoul
    @Solairethedarksoul 5 місяців тому +25

    PBD thinks he’s the worlds greatest dad

    • @Czar1980s
      @Czar1980s 5 місяців тому +16

      PBD IS 1 OF THE THE BEST DADS IN THE WORLD

    • @happyhobo2217
      @happyhobo2217 5 місяців тому +19

      lol belittling some one for trying is some small boy stuff 😂 wether he is or isn’t he’s trying and that’s more than I can say for most dads….. mad respect from
      My perspective

    • @slavicaminic2742
      @slavicaminic2742 5 місяців тому +13

      At least he’s trying.

    • @TakeOneGoodLookAtYourself
      @TakeOneGoodLookAtYourself 5 місяців тому +12

      Only an insecure dad would think that or someone unable to have children.

    • @SirHumano97
      @SirHumano97 5 місяців тому +6

      He is trying and spreading a good message.

  • @INHALERS_PRODUCTIONS
    @INHALERS_PRODUCTIONS 5 місяців тому +2

    More fatherly advice please!! I don’t have this element in my life and this vid was so valuable, thanks Pat and everyone at valuetanement

  • @ayoyoloco6203
    @ayoyoloco6203 5 місяців тому +1

    PBD... that daddy many didn't have that they didn't know they needed. Lol
    I have a dad but can never get enough of these "daddy type advice" moments

  • @robtorresofficial
    @robtorresofficial 5 місяців тому

    Outwitting the devil is a hidden gem, more people should read that book! So much value!

  • @Mistressofthegroove
    @Mistressofthegroove 5 місяців тому +1

    Omg I'm 57 and this resonated! You are a fantastic dad.

  • @dannyquiroz5777
    @dannyquiroz5777 5 місяців тому

    7:40 Pat turned the tables on us, love it! Pat’s a great example to have in life!

  • @shift2B
    @shift2B 5 місяців тому

    Thank you, Patrick. I lost my father when I was 11 months old and then my stepdad at 8 years old. It took me a while to understand what it means to be a good man in today's world, around the age of 18 I realized just because I didn't have a strong male role model in my life it doesn't mean I can't learn from those around me. From books, podcasts, and people like you understanding becomes a lot clearer.

  • @marigail9234
    @marigail9234 5 місяців тому

    If I was at a therapist & someone I knew was there I wouldn’t be embarrassed. They are there to get help also! 😗

  • @marketingmark
    @marketingmark 5 місяців тому

    These kids are so blessed to have a dad like PBD. Thank you, PBD for being an example to young fathers like myself! God is using you in so many ways!

  • @Lann87
    @Lann87 5 місяців тому

    Thank you PBD if you do read this, been drifting for the past 3 years, woke up the start of this year got going enrolled in a tech program and got moving, I hope things will work out well soon!

  • @estelacardenas6546
    @estelacardenas6546 5 місяців тому

    Great Dad!! We need more kings like you!

  • @JakeBollig
    @JakeBollig 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for this "appointment" PBD. I was earning $50k/month selling services and dropped it flat to move across the country to Florida. This "appointment" inspired a quick self audit of the new groups I'm forming around me. Tough conversations about to be had. Always a pleasure.

  • @High69696
    @High69696 5 місяців тому

    Being a Parent is easy to say and the most challenging to do. Being present and listening is a good start.

  • @floydmora1
    @floydmora1 5 місяців тому

    Thank you, P.B.D. The san antonio chapter 100 chapter had zero fatalities this year. The fire dept and police department celebrated life. They shined a light on the heros that make a change in the community. I am pround to be part of this great organization. Thank you for all that you do and for spreading the good word. Thier is positive change comming. The future looks bright.

  • @curtisdavis8594
    @curtisdavis8594 5 місяців тому +1

    Excellent message on "Drifting"... Too many young people think it's the norm... Our nation must shift back to people with "GRIT" and keep grinding mentality.. Thank You!

  • @Karlostorres1994
    @Karlostorres1994 5 місяців тому +1

    Man oh man, PBD, you are something else, what a short and intense video, you just took me back to my childhood, I felt like your were talking to me, and I just tear up. It’s hard when you have no father figure that will guide you thru like. Luckily, I was strong enough to find my path and not drift to the wrong direction. Served my country for 20 years, now retired.

  • @bruceboulder7677
    @bruceboulder7677 5 місяців тому +1

    LOVED the clip of Patrick talking to his kids. That's what I love the most about being a dad- talking to my boys like they are men- not boys. Asking questions that make them think deeply is so important. Never talk down to them- talk to them AS IF they are already the men you want them to become.

  • @ImMrEm
    @ImMrEm 5 місяців тому

    Solution = GOALS