Tony Robbins Helps Theo Deal With Low Self Worth

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  • @letsgo8561
    @letsgo8561 3 місяці тому +9278

    Tony does the opposite of interrupt people. He insists that you finish your thoughts, even when you don't think you want to. That was amazing.

    • @lakeboy1908
      @lakeboy1908 3 місяці тому +137

      He is a genuinely good guy

    • @unclewazza777
      @unclewazza777 3 місяці тому +56

      Read some of his books. It will change your life.

    • @honkhonk1555
      @honkhonk1555 3 місяці тому

      @@unclewazza777which one do you recommend first?

    • @savizzlekeys
      @savizzlekeys 3 місяці тому +32

      Exactly! I use his techniques all the time as a teacher.

    • @srt10h4rml3ss
      @srt10h4rml3ss 3 місяці тому +7

      I was pointing at the screen saying that as well letsgo8561, just luv that he is like that. 👍

  • @ruslanbedoev9264
    @ruslanbedoev9264 3 місяці тому +1852

    I am 39 years old and MAN everytime i say OUT LOUD that i am pround of myself i start to cry, i am a recovering weed and booze addict for 20 years, i m 10 days in clean and dry.
    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

    • @charmed1593
      @charmed1593 3 місяці тому +34

      Right on brotha

    • @ruslanbedoev9264
      @ruslanbedoev9264 3 місяці тому +9

      @@charmed1593 Thank you 🤛👍

    • @kolarain5986
      @kolarain5986 3 місяці тому +23

      Keep up the good work! I know you can do it and I'm proud of you too! I'm sober myself after years of alcoholism. keep pushing forward my friend.

    • @ruslanbedoev9264
      @ruslanbedoev9264 3 місяці тому

      @@kolarain5986 thank you ❤️

    • @bk2932
      @bk2932 3 місяці тому +28

      still got many life's ahead of you, my man. I got out of an 8 year weed fog 2 years ago. Never thought I could be without it. Sooooo much better enjoying life with a clear head. SO MUCH better. Best of luck

  • @kaygsucks
    @kaygsucks Місяць тому +410

    “If I wrote I’m proud of you on the wall I feel like it wouldn’t even show up” that shit had some kick to it

    • @JPcommunicates
      @JPcommunicates 20 днів тому +2

      Why do you write that on the wall? You could write a list instead of what you are proud of refering your abilities or stuff like that. That has more impact than writing something on the wall what you likely don't believe.

    • @beyondbackwater4933
      @beyondbackwater4933 8 днів тому +6

      ​@@JPcommunicates it's not literal it's just Theo's weird way of saying he can't see the good in himself even if it's written out

    • @perefeghaandrew8076
      @perefeghaandrew8076 6 днів тому +2

      I really enjoyed your video. I just wanted to share my little story to add to your point by sharing a real example I'll add this. What keeps us going? The fear of losing it all. There's definite a little amount of imposter syndrome. I think it keeps me on my toes and motivated to keep learning and improving where I can and I'm really successful

    • @adasohas4557
      @adasohas4557 6 днів тому +2

      People should remember: poverty is not an accident, a coincidence or an inevitability. It is something which is manufactured by fear of taking risk and making decisions

    • @Soboj-oy8me
      @Soboj-oy8me 6 днів тому +2

      You're right you've remind me of what someone once said "The mind is the man, the poor is in it and the rich is it too". This sentence is the secret of most successful investors. I once attended similar and ever since then been waxing strong financially, and i most tell you the truth..investment is the key that can secure your family future.

  • @claytonjones301
    @claytonjones301 11 днів тому +39

    Tony is right. Theo, your vulnerability opens the doors to viewers dealing with their own trauma from the past. Have a lot of respect for you

  • @toaster3822
    @toaster3822 3 місяці тому +1153

    25, male, good job, appartment, cheated on a year ago. Sitting here balling my eyes out when Theo talks about not wanting to "abandon" that internal voice thats constantly negative. Its really hard for me to feel proud about myself too, Theo. We both need to stop telling ourselves that. Thank you for making these podcasts. So much.

    • @mr.tellithowitis106
      @mr.tellithowitis106 3 місяці тому +69

      Find God bubba. Praise the Lord Brother.

    • @jared30
      @jared30 3 місяці тому +81

      Hey bro. Just some practical advice from someone who's been there. Wake up in the morning and think about what you are grateful for. After that take ten minutes to ask God, the universe, nature whatever you want to call it, what it's plan for you is. You already know on the inside how to get through this you just have to take mindful actions to get past this. Good luck man you got this!

    • @SusieQZee
      @SusieQZee 3 місяці тому +3

      Genuinely curious what you’re doing to get better?

    • @Blahlalovely
      @Blahlalovely 3 місяці тому

      @@jared30this is fantastic advice! ❤

    • @mereditharmstrong9054
      @mereditharmstrong9054 3 місяці тому +10

      This, too, shall pass 💕

  • @abba136
    @abba136 3 місяці тому +767

    "Loneliness is the poverty of self." -May Sarton
    Shout out Theo for creating a space where so many of us can feel comfortable and seen.

    • @thinkbeforeyoureact2988
      @thinkbeforeyoureact2988 3 місяці тому +6

      you can find yourself in loneliness too. I'm alone to an extent, like the friends I grew up with they don't talk to me anymore.

    • @unclewazza777
      @unclewazza777 3 місяці тому

      @@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 They weren't friends they were just mates. Most of my friend have passed the rest have Gone woke and no longer want to speak to me. The difference for me is Jesus. A true friend. Been through thick and thin and he didn't walk away. While every one else did. I'm betting my soul he's real. So i don't care now what i lose or don't have in this world. Because i know whats waiting for me on the other side. I wish you all the best, may God bless you and show the love and friendship of his son Jesus.

    • @slowmotionradio73
      @slowmotionradio73 3 місяці тому +2

      we still cant see you

    • @galaxytraveler23
      @galaxytraveler23 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 nice name for starters... and keep your head up

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 3 місяці тому +4

      @@thinkbeforeyoureact2988 loneliness and alone arent the same. Alone is a state of being whereas lonely is a state of mind. The idea that "loneliness is the poverty of self" signifies, to me at least, that being alone doesnt cause loneliness; having low self worth causes loneliness. A lot of people who forcibly spend every waking minute around other people do so because they themselves are poor company so they cant bear being alone.

  • @Skyffer33
    @Skyffer33 12 днів тому +22

    Theo should know he is ethernally loved. He sets a great example by speaking out how he thinks. He's growing more than he thinks 💙

  • @henrikkaveryd3374
    @henrikkaveryd3374 Місяць тому +55

    Crying my eyes out here. It's like looking into a mirror.
    Thank you, Theo and Tony. I really needed this.

  • @docbrown6797
    @docbrown6797 3 місяці тому +1330

    Theo is my favorite podcaster. He really opens up and lets it rip. That is so helpful for others, especially now, when so many of us are wrestling with emotional baggage and trauma. He's not ashamed to shed tears.

    • @DaronMouradian
      @DaronMouradian 3 місяці тому

      Nobody should, its unhealthy and just plain useless to fight it.

    • @matthewhook3668
      @matthewhook3668 3 місяці тому +7

      Agreed. I feel like theo is all of us learning how to do better as a person. He’s humble enough to keep learning always. Actually a good role model for men.

    • @stevecohen2693
      @stevecohen2693 3 місяці тому +5

      100%. I’ve noticed since he came of the antidepressants he’s really letting the emotion flow. It’s beautiful to see.

    • @Cactus_hug
      @Cactus_hug 3 місяці тому

      I think this word “trauma” is over used by the people on the left.

    • @kani9284
      @kani9284 3 місяці тому +8

      And feeling shame about being proud of yourself is actually quite common. Good on Theo for being so open about this. Especially as a man. That's brave (but a shame it needs to be called brave for men to act like humans with emotions.)

  • @heidiv5720
    @heidiv5720 3 місяці тому +1261

    I have so much respect and admiration for Theo. He's on this healing journey and his bravery and vulnerability is so inspiring. Thank you deeply, Theo.

    • @keithb4077
      @keithb4077 3 місяці тому +3

      @heidiv5720 - thank you, that's what I was going to say. For us to see Tony's powerful gifts, we need someone as fearless and open as Theo to let us all be inspired by this beautiful process. THIS is real content.

    • @FitOutsideTheBox
      @FitOutsideTheBox 3 місяці тому +2

      Omg he’s so vulnerable lol. I’m drawn in and never even heard of him it just showed up on my feed 🍿 but so good. Goals for openness vibes. Love ❤

    • @davidstyles1654
      @davidstyles1654 3 місяці тому

      Same

    • @OfficialAntiquesRoadshow
      @OfficialAntiquesRoadshow 3 місяці тому

      Agreed, this was beautiful to watch & an amazing duo

    • @ryanroy3307
      @ryanroy3307 3 місяці тому

      Thank you for the inspiration. I can relate in so many ways

  • @JustPlainCody
    @JustPlainCody 3 місяці тому +37

    A 13 min clip was like 10 years of therapy. Wow! Thank you! I'm going to thank my Wife for sending me this a week ago. I didn't watch it because I knew it was bs. I was wrong. Thank you for this gift ❤

  • @ElOsoMarino
    @ElOsoMarino Місяць тому +11

    I'm 26 and I've just discovered and accepted last Christmas that "all you need is love" is the most truthful truth there is on this planet.

  • @mikefm4
    @mikefm4 3 місяці тому +856

    Every family needs a Tony. The man’s priceless. And the world as a whole needs more Theos. Two good dudes right here.

    • @Lifetimelearningisbrave
      @Lifetimelearningisbrave 3 місяці тому +24

      Every family has one. They just don’t listen because the message isn’t wrapped up in a pretty bow and it comes from people you have emotional triggers around. Sometimes it’s the person that tells you the truth. Most people don’t want truth they love smoke up their a$$… especially those who haven’t found sobriety around all the things including work, girly videos, games, and the harsher more obvious stuff.

    • @tattoofthesun
      @tattoofthesun 3 місяці тому +3

      Tony is good, his personal life has some things that are hard to deal with but it all makes up the man as a whole. I’m talking about some allegations of abuse I read about while looking into who he was

    • @richspizzaparty
      @richspizzaparty 3 місяці тому +19

      Tony is a charlatan.

    • @HEdits_
      @HEdits_ 3 місяці тому +5

      be the tony for your family

    • @justinkennedy3004
      @justinkennedy3004 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Lifetimelearningisbrave awesome comment. Thanks for writing it.

  • @lisainpalmdesert
    @lisainpalmdesert 3 місяці тому +787

    Can we all pass on the word that Theo is a fantastic interviewer and killing it with his guests! Let’s get Theo to a million subscribers!

    • @JasonRidesmoto
      @JasonRidesmoto 3 місяці тому +20

      He has 2.3million on his main channel! 🎉

    • @cosmin1579
      @cosmin1579 3 місяці тому +11

      The Fauci joke snuck up on me. I laughed so hard.😅 I did not see it coming. Theo willl do that to you

    • @ibexdnb2879
      @ibexdnb2879 3 місяці тому

      He has improved so much. Love it.

    • @isaactalley2819
      @isaactalley2819 3 місяці тому

      Here here! Haha

    • @MandyShasta
      @MandyShasta 3 місяці тому

      I remember when his main channel only had 400k subscribers. Miss those days when he was less known, felt like a secret gem. Now hes mainstream 😭

  • @Supreme_Sals
    @Supreme_Sals 3 місяці тому +93

    Theo IS such a role model. He’s helped me navigate life and problems for years

  • @hcvalliere3901
    @hcvalliere3901 3 місяці тому +313

    I so admire Theo. He’s come from the bottom and climbed to the top through humor and his great personality. He’s willing to admit who he truly is and isn’t pushing himself onto people. He’s so not a phony. That’s totally refreshing.

  • @topdogsean1
    @topdogsean1 3 місяці тому +790

    As a licensed therapist, I really appreciated this interview. Tony Robbins is a great active listener and excels at metacognitive conversation - speaking to the relationship dynamic. He has been a big influence for me in my career.
    Theo is an amazing person and I wish him the love for himself he gives out so generously to others. I would love to meet him!

    • @12121212293
      @12121212293 3 місяці тому +32

      Why do people ALWAYS feel inclined to disclose their professional titles before making a statement. It’s like a “look me too”.

    • @bChuraful
      @bChuraful 3 місяці тому +1

      ⁠@@12121212293 Sharing the career path or title establishes a sense of validity, a sense of experience and understanding of the importance to what is being said. They also followed up with stating that Robbins is a big influence on their career-which is amazing.
      Why is it that you feel such an inflammatory emotion towards this kind of comment? They weren’t saying it to prop themselves with ego, it was a genuine compliment while sharing a sense of validation for other viewers/readers

    • @whatisnidal
      @whatisnidal 3 місяці тому

      ​@@12121212293because they can? Because they feel like clarifying the level of relevance the conversation and subject matter had to them. Because they're attempting to feel part of something, anything, an idea, a group, a person, because we do that as humans as a means of surviving and gaining social acceptance and helping people understand what we feel. It's simply a statement man don't let it bother you so much, it's really not a big deal. Like really what do you expect their answer to be? You want to create an argument for something so basic and normal when really all they can probably tell you is "because I can and I did?". Not a biggy my dude. Peace brotha.
      Sincerely,
      Just a fuckin' dude.

    • @tnerb830
      @tnerb830 3 місяці тому

      @@12121212293because that’s how they see themselves first everyone has their issues no need to have three fingers pointing back 😉

    • @anotherslowtown9601
      @anotherslowtown9601 3 місяці тому

      @@12121212293 nah they're just saying "as someone who works in a similar field; i can tell you this person is skilled at what they do."

  • @michaeljohnston980
    @michaeljohnston980 Місяць тому +6

    Theo is so real. Doesn’t know how many people he helps in being so honest and vulnerable about his self-worth

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 3 дні тому

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @melodycope4075
    @melodycope4075 3 місяці тому +85

    This is a very powerful video. I am a 58 year old woman who has gone through deep inner child therapy healing from childhood trauma. One of the things that I had mentioned early on in my therapy, is that I felt this feeling of betraying or leaving, deserting a part of myself (younger me) through healing. When I watched this video, I was like "Yes! I totally get what Theo is feeling". It makes complete sense. I called it the tug-a-war stage of healing. It takes work in the connection and I no longer have that feeling. Thank you very much for sharing this video!!

    • @lori5946
      @lori5946 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes !! I am embracing all my parts. I love EMDR to heal my triggers and embrace my strong parts. I am learning boundaries with myself and others. I change my dysfunctional beliefs. I do matter. I am grieving what I didn't get as a child. I am learning and accepting how I really feel. I am changing my mindset. Learning the truth that I am a wonderful person who is capable of healing and doing anything I want. I can have healthy relationships with myself and others. I an also learning emotional regulation with a DBT course.

    • @APRIL916
      @APRIL916 Місяць тому +2

      I now tell my younger self...... You are with me now and I won't let anything bad happen to you. ❤

  • @rkidlat
    @rkidlat 3 місяці тому +311

    Theo's vulnerability was really disarming. I felt like crying too. And Tony's responses were potent as usual.

    • @underworldg0d226
      @underworldg0d226 3 місяці тому +3

      Theo is one of the best humans. Dudes so down to earth. He's never afraid to show his emotions.

    • @taygirl4eva
      @taygirl4eva 2 місяці тому +1

      Confidence

    • @andohish27
      @andohish27 2 місяці тому +2

      Me too. I had tears coming down. Completely relate to this and Tony obviously is gonna make you face yourself.

  • @kellystockholmart
    @kellystockholmart 3 місяці тому +1110

    I respect Theo for being so vulnerable and open. It’s wild to see someone who you view as being so helpful, funny, successful, generous and lovable, view themselves with such low worth. When he said he felt ugly, I wanted to cry. Theo’s such a beautiful soul and a light to a lot of people. I hope he recognizes his worth and allows himself to feel the love he so desperately deserves to feel and know. I’m proud of you, Theo 💜

    • @Clevelandsteamer324
      @Clevelandsteamer324 3 місяці тому +21

      “Funny” is often a coping mechanism

    • @suntzu6122
      @suntzu6122 3 місяці тому +6

      Yep. I love that hes successful now.

    • @user-yr4mo3iz4d
      @user-yr4mo3iz4d 3 місяці тому +3

      We got to remember the super wealthy have struggles to. And the only way to support them is to purchase from them.

    • @johnqdoe
      @johnqdoe 3 місяці тому +7

      In reality it’s a huge turn off for women, being vulnerable as a man. I identify with him, but if a loving relationship is what he’s looking for, put on a brave face. Keep the vulnerability private and among other men who can help you.

    • @Scott-fy7fm
      @Scott-fy7fm 2 місяці тому +16

      ​@@johnqdoe in my experience that only holds true for younger women, the older they are the more they realize how it is to deal with someone who can't open up and be honest. Most women don't want someone who is constantly breaking down crying, but they also don't want someone who is blocking themselves off and burying emotions that will come out later in inappropriate ways

  • @MaxDeGrandis
    @MaxDeGrandis 2 місяці тому +11

    Can hear theos voice cracking into a sad emotion at the beginning and I feel that

  • @magicth
    @magicth 3 місяці тому +57

    It’s like looking in a mirror. I feel every word Theo is saying. I’ve always felt like an anomaly amongst my peers in how I just don’t see my self worth but people validate it constantly by showing me in little ways, and somehow my story refuses to accept it. This is exactly the video I needed. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. You may not realize how many people you’re helping.

  • @winterwolf9376
    @winterwolf9376 3 місяці тому +433

    I've learnt more here about myself than I've learnt in paid counseling sessions. Thanks Theo for sharing with us parts that most others would be afraid to, especially males. This isn't weakness, this is strength. I've only watched your funny stuff but after seeing this my respect for you has now skyrocketed.

    • @scotticidal
      @scotticidal 3 місяці тому +6

      Therapy can help, the REALLY hard part is finding one you can be that open with. I still hide things, but when I'm able to open up I get somewhere.

    • @eskohuse1925
      @eskohuse1925 3 місяці тому +5

      God bless you and keep your head up

  • @johnnyguitar2929
    @johnnyguitar2929 3 місяці тому +276

    Theo Von is a beautiful human being and funny as hell. Huge respect for being so open and honest. It's not easy to do this in private, it's really not easy to do this in public. Tony Robbins is such a legend.

  • @VybesAtoshi
    @VybesAtoshi Місяць тому +18

    This is the second video i've seen of Theo that i respect tf out of, where he was really well spoken and authentic and showing he is and is becoming a good man.

  • @AriyaHomes
    @AriyaHomes 3 місяці тому +32

    I’ve watched Tony for the last 15 years. I’m so grateful he chose to be exactly who he is. ❤🙏🏾

  • @_CoachW
    @_CoachW 3 місяці тому +386

    As some one who works in behavioral health. I never cease to be amazed at the skill of Tony Robbins. We all have that inner presence, but his ability to deliver it and connect with others. True Mastery

    • @tomsevcik1792
      @tomsevcik1792 3 місяці тому +2

      Agreed. It feels like I’m watching an actual therapy session.

    • @KingNiros
      @KingNiros 3 місяці тому

      He has a radiating presence and energy.

    • @user-wr2cd1wy3b
      @user-wr2cd1wy3b 3 місяці тому +1

      @@KingNiros He practices what he preaches, the proof is in the pudding

    • @tmc8195
      @tmc8195 3 місяці тому

      As someone who used to work in behavior health, take care of yourself! That was easily the craziest job I ever had. Some of my favorite memories but damn I wanted pull my hair out too

    • @President_NotSure
      @President_NotSure 3 місяці тому +2

      oozes confidence from being tall in a superficial world

  • @Ivytea
    @Ivytea 3 місяці тому +275

    thank you for being so vulnerable Theo. I grew up in a fucked up broken home and felt like a piece of shit who deserved nothing for years. Drowned my sorrow in drugs and alcohol but have turned a corner in the last few years. I really felt those words.... "my biggest addiction was self pity"

    • @kubasniak
      @kubasniak 3 місяці тому +4

      How do I shake out of it? It feels like it's integral part of me and I guess I'm so numbed out I cannot even imagine feeling good about myself, it feels wrong and fake af.

    • @Ivytea
      @Ivytea 3 місяці тому +14

      @@kubasniak I had a few mindset changes were essentially I realized the only one putting limits on me was myself. The gym was extremelly helpful, as was BJJ. I read Meditations by Marcus Aurelieus and that changed my outlook a lot on life. I also met a women who showed me that I wasn't a POS like I thought

    • @deedo1352
      @deedo1352 3 місяці тому

      For me it was letting my inner child out and ask why everytime a nasty thought came about. Trace it down with the why's and get to the core, if there really is one be relentless like the why's of a child. It's your brain and your the best detective for the job. For being special the why turned into if I'm still here then hows? Is it even possible I'm not special because I'm still here and made it out. Do you see where this goes, with child like eyes and yourself that made it can you see the thoughts are just habits that need updating! @@kubasniak
      When I finally after 49 yrs got to my inner child for me she was tired, tired of caring all the emotions that were borrowed yet not mine. I told her I appreciate her strength and love although horribly expressed and I'd never forget what she'd been through but I'm moving on. Do know It did not take me 49 yrs to do this, spent way too many yrs drinking and shying away from dealing with it. Once I sat that aside I showed myself I cared enough about myself to start the work. Best wishes!

    • @LA_i6
      @LA_i6 3 місяці тому

      Thank you Theo 🙏

    • @alecuchiha1981
      @alecuchiha1981 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@kubasniak Act out what you value and gain respect for yourself❤

  • @Bryannevillemusic
    @Bryannevillemusic 3 місяці тому +21

    Thank you Theo for being vulnerable and showing us how you feel inside. The interesting thing is I feel like a lot of people have the exact same internal dialogue, but we look at other people and think that everyone is just perfectly fine. Maybe if we all exposed our own internal struggles more, we can help each other out!

  • @JSAFIXIT
    @JSAFIXIT Місяць тому +4

    Theo just seems like a genuinely good dude.

  • @elizabethsnyder8138
    @elizabethsnyder8138 3 місяці тому +170

    I love Theo. I actually cried when he said he feels ugly so quickly. Two wonderful human beings.

    • @yasminister2011
      @yasminister2011 2 місяці тому +3

      I know!! He’s fine as!!!

    • @ElronHumpperdink
      @ElronHumpperdink 2 місяці тому +5

      That bothered me, too tbh
      Dudes funny and relatable and hates himself.
      I can relate to the “I want others to feel cared for, but me, I deserve (insert bad lot).”
      It truly is a wild cycle you build up.

  • @user-zb4gk6qn8u
    @user-zb4gk6qn8u 3 місяці тому +448

    Ugly, incapable, angry, and disappointing are all emotions I feel exactly on a weekly basis. Thank you Theo for sharing this vulnerability, it really helps me not feel alone and work towards a more positive self image.

    • @Clevelandsteamer324
      @Clevelandsteamer324 3 місяці тому

      Look up an “emotions wheel” it will help you interpret your feelings

    • @sasasetti8660
      @sasasetti8660 3 місяці тому +10

      If you get a chance, as your bucket list, go to Tony's Unleash the Power Within. It's a game changer. Tony is losing his voice so he doesn't have many years of public speaking left. Give yourself this as a gift.

    • @Lusufu
      @Lusufu 3 місяці тому

      Me too

    • @cosminalemoine3631
      @cosminalemoine3631 3 місяці тому

      Look up Dr Richard Bandler. He is more affordable and he's one of Tony's teachers. He will teach you to help other people as well.

    • @lisabrown9286
      @lisabrown9286 3 місяці тому

      Ditto

  • @LordBeezleDwarf
    @LordBeezleDwarf 6 днів тому +2

    Theo idk if u realize how much your fans love you, idk if you have realized how many people your words have helped get through tough times including myself. You helped save me from myself. Now i find myself consistently thinking about how i would love to see you happy. Not only when im watchin ur videos or something like that but on my personal time. It blows my mind how low you get, i dont say that because of success i say it cuz i think youre success is driven by your wholesomeness and someone like u deserves love and i think youre the only one standing in the way of it because youre not ugly… even if u were men arent supposed to be pretty and thats not what attracts women u kno? You gotta allow it thpugh to begin with to even find out my man. Love u theo

  • @stephenlamley541
    @stephenlamley541 3 місяці тому +261

    Damn straight i didn't hardly feel emotions for 25 years because of drugs and medication, man I feel everything now. Ngl it's overwhelming but I'm getting used to it. Shits raw for years still.

    • @christophersonawane
      @christophersonawane 3 місяці тому +17

      You’re not alone brother. We’ve all suppressed our emotions for years

    • @TheRealHerbaSchmurba
      @TheRealHerbaSchmurba 3 місяці тому +12

      I made the decision to take a break from weed for this very reason. I distract myself from my emotions alot with weed and felt disconnected from who I was. I’m feeling things way more potently and clearly and it feels nice.

    • @mrwhite7128
      @mrwhite7128 3 місяці тому +6

      Same here 20 year heroin habit lost loads of friends and family no emotions just thinking about my next hit no one told me your the opposite with emotions when you come off them really got to me would cry for nothing over all the stuff i never dealt with was going to go back on drugs over it didn't no what was wrong with me. Year and a half later still clean 41 years old and getting a second chance with a new family new baby on the way cant wait life is good. ✌️

    • @ArmedAndIndigenous
      @ArmedAndIndigenous 3 місяці тому +6

      For real. Went through so much sht as a kid and a teen then young adult in college I crumbled and then the meds started all the way till last year. I'm 33 and been raw dogging tf outta life and damn the first month off was insanely hard. Emotions up the ass and remembering everything that's happen to me. You're not alone my brother. We got this.

    • @Inspiringami
      @Inspiringami 3 місяці тому

      @@mrwhite7128you’re freaking AMAZING! Never give up! No matter what the journey looks like. I’m a recovering addict as well. I have slipped up many times but it’s all been valuable. ❤

  • @msakat1
    @msakat1 3 місяці тому +197

    Theo is one of the best interviewers out there. His humility and true curiosity for his guests always help him to construct a compelling interview.

    • @AngelGarcia-oy3yj
      @AngelGarcia-oy3yj 3 місяці тому

      Nah, he's not, he interrupts too much and talks a lot

  • @ManderB81
    @ManderB81 Місяць тому +3

    Damn, this made me want to give Theo a big hug. He brings so many people joy, I hope he can see himself the way we see him.

  • @NPCHSN
    @NPCHSN 2 дні тому

    Theo should feel proud of himself for posting this and helping so many others dealing with the same thing. Well done, Theo.

  • @francesstone.counsellor
    @francesstone.counsellor 3 місяці тому +30

    I am an Addictions Counselor in the DTES of Van, BC. My male clients, some on parole, have been learning about core beliefs. I will definitely be showing this video to them. I already know it’s going to be a powerful, vulnerable and healing week ahead ❤️‍🩹 Theo, you are really making a difference being your authentic self. Thank you for the inspiration!

  • @noellejohnson9822
    @noellejohnson9822 3 місяці тому +35

    The fear of abandoning your inner child… instead of telling them their safe now 💜 Theo is so beautiful and deserving of love.

  • @bosnianowitzkifan41
    @bosnianowitzkifan41 3 місяці тому +341

    The way this dude can have a raw vulnerable conversation with someone and still throw in a joke that makes you burst in laughter in the middle of that conversation is amazing. A man said 'I thought you were gonna say Fauci' 🤣 5:17

    • @andrewb1236
      @andrewb1236 3 місяці тому +17

      @@snkysnky1730finding humor in things isn’t always a defense mechanism. If anything it’s mostly a sign of creative thinking.

    • @AT-AT-AT-AT
      @AT-AT-AT-AT 3 місяці тому +2

      “It’s an old story that got wired a long time ago but it’s not who I am”

    • @MrJuliankilla
      @MrJuliankilla 3 місяці тому +3

      @@snkysnky1730 the guys a fucking comedian its not a defence mechanism its his life

    • @shawnlink11
      @shawnlink11 3 місяці тому +11

      Dude the fauci thing cracked me up. Hahahaha "same thing"

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 3 місяці тому +3

      Theos brain makes so many off the cuff connections. I love the way his mind works.

  • @henrysandoval7062
    @henrysandoval7062 2 місяці тому +7

    I woke and was over everything and moments away from ending it and hearing someone fill the same as I do and tony saying to him everything i needed to hear myself saved my life in so many ways. I finally think i can start loving myself. Thank you both.

  • @D33Lux
    @D33Lux 3 місяці тому +3

    Tony Robbins is an international treasure. May everyone reading this have great health and financial prosperity.

  • @loosethakid
    @loosethakid 3 місяці тому +182

    Theo you’ve created such a unique and empowering community with only your sense of humor and your emotional honesty. Proud of you dude

    • @onapermo
      @onapermo 2 місяці тому

      Hes a global force

  • @Lauren-ci6uv
    @Lauren-ci6uv 3 місяці тому +142

    I love how honest Theo is in this interview, and willing to admit the "weird" feelings he has, that are actually so common. --it's hard to be proud of myself. --I'm deserting myself, if I change. --I'm embarrassed when I succeed. Whoa.

  • @julbri7105
    @julbri7105 13 хвилин тому

    I feel the same way like Theo Von.. Every time I feel good.. I fall down like I leaving the comfort of a sadder friend.. *Tearing up.. People do not realize why some people chase people away.

  • @davecoates2308
    @davecoates2308 3 місяці тому +8

    @Theo. Dude. Takes a man to be able to be vulnerable and open like this! Respect!!

  • @Vic-9493
    @Vic-9493 3 місяці тому +181

    You’re not alone with those feelings Theo, and hearing you open up and getting vulnerable really made me feel like I wasn’t alone. You inspire myself, and I’m sure others, to work on ourselves and to not give up. Many, many thanks to you my guy. Gang gang

    • @JosephScott-ct9sw
      @JosephScott-ct9sw 3 місяці тому +6

      I'm 57 and I don't know as much as Tony Robbins, but I know every year better that love is the answer

  • @SunniLove123
    @SunniLove123 3 місяці тому +242

    Seeing others talk & discuss this type of topic is always hard but rewarding for others. Makes you feel like your not facing difficulties alone. Our society has taught us to self isolate & this has been nice to connect & hear them discuss such a rough topic we all need to face head on.

    • @abba136
      @abba136 3 місяці тому +6

      That loneliness is the worst. We're all in this together 🙏

    • @robkel90
      @robkel90 3 місяці тому

      😊​@@abba136

    • @raymondguzman5083
      @raymondguzman5083 3 місяці тому +5

      Hey buddy ive been through this and just coming out the other side and let me tell you its bliss. But watch your language and your perception of taking about emotions. The "this is rough" or "difficult" is just another story. Ive been at this for nearly 9 years.and let me tell u i saw nothing but love and beauty in this video.
      How u perceive is how u shape your life so id invite ti look for the beauty in this topic and focus on that.
      And yes i can be difficult but with time and constant effort u can achieve anything.

    • @unclewazza777
      @unclewazza777 3 місяці тому

      @@abba136 No we are not.! Left or Right..?? Will still divide us.!

    • @unclewazza777
      @unclewazza777 3 місяці тому

      @@raymondguzman5083 picked the wrong Gen to tell that to.! They think being an influencer is a life's goal.

  • @leadfromhereco
    @leadfromhereco 2 місяці тому +3

    I absolutely love when people are so vulnerable like this. It's so real. The ability to be vulnerable is such a strength and love seeing people like Tony and Theo embracing that.

  • @colouredlioness2199
    @colouredlioness2199 3 місяці тому +2

    Proud to see Theo be open and vulnerable. Tony being awesome... doing his thing. Love him!❤

  • @AdamZ_3
    @AdamZ_3 3 місяці тому +75

    I can’t even tell you how crazy it is that this video popped up today. Just faced this exact emotion Theo is expressing for the first time last night and it hit me like a freight train. This is exactly what I needed to hear. God bless both of you.

    • @brennenhammer2415
      @brennenhammer2415 3 місяці тому

      thats so weird. thats exactly what happened with me. got 5 hours of sleep 3 days in a row that makes me delusional and rewiring the mind is exacty what I needed it to hear because its not true what we say to ourselves much of the time and you and I both have a purpose which made me think, how dare I be sad, and it made me smile. god bless you random stranger

  • @BPEmpath
    @BPEmpath 3 місяці тому +89

    I just began therapy and THIS IS EXACTLY what I go through and want to fix because it’s so overwhelming and suffocating at times. I cried empathizing wholeheartedly hearing your heart. Love how Tony breaks it down… it’s so raw. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @rogerfournier3284
      @rogerfournier3284 3 місяці тому +4

      I know that feeling of feeling overwhelmed, its feeling uncomfortable.

  • @freeshipping9643
    @freeshipping9643 6 днів тому

    Theo is so deep that he connects so much with ppl. Its gold!

  • @eddiegutierrez3524
    @eddiegutierrez3524 2 місяці тому +2

    Theo brother this is why I love you dude. U don’t hold back and you handle your shit. Much love and respect brother.

  • @aleskaresquivel4700
    @aleskaresquivel4700 3 місяці тому +41

    Its that little boy a lot of us have- "we are not worth the time", "we are a bother", "if i was more then ppl would treat me better/stick around". Its important to remember that we are adults and perhaps the way to fully seal off that narrative is realizing that we are the adult we wish we had. I think Theo is that man who would have spoke life into that little boy. Appreciate you brother.

    • @galoarboleda612
      @galoarboleda612 3 місяці тому

      Well said.

    • @Krzy-hoo
      @Krzy-hoo 3 місяці тому

      I think sealing it off is not the way, though

    • @aleskaresquivel4700
      @aleskaresquivel4700 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Krzy-hoo not sealing off like being closed off but as a response or conclusion to past hurts. A lot of time trauma is a looping thought or experience. I'm no Gabor Mate or Bessel Van Der Kolk. Sometimes it's hard to know when you made it to the "other side".

  • @Riosgirl98
    @Riosgirl98 3 місяці тому +62

    Theo is possibly one of the most precious souls on this planet. Thank you Theo for helping so many people!!!

    • @johns7530
      @johns7530 3 місяці тому +1

      I made a joke in a comment a long time ago that Theo is so funny that I would consider becoming an alcoholic just to attend some of his AA meetings. He's not just funny but a legit good soul, helping people in ways he never intended, ironically. I hope more people find their path like he has. Including me.

    • @Riosgirl98
      @Riosgirl98 3 місяці тому +1

      @@johns7530 I agree, I hope Thro understands exactly how much he has and is helping people worldwide.
      I watched King and the sting just to feel connected to something when I was in a complicated situation.
      Healing is hard but seeing Theo be successful and vulnerable just shows me that wearing your heart on your sleeve can impact people so positively.
      Our armour should be honesty and not fear and Theo shows is that in spades ❤

    • @monkeyx17
      @monkeyx17 3 місяці тому

      but of a fucked up comment to make dont ya think?@@johns7530

  • @elkingi4528
    @elkingi4528 3 місяці тому +1

    I just cried through this amazing conversation, because of the raw energy between Theo and Tony. Keep up the good discussion.

  • @radar8658
    @radar8658 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for being so vulnerable, you have helped so many of us to realize they are not the only ones having those feelings. Often times we struggle thinking we are the only ones feeling ugly…when in reality everybody goes through the same thing.

  • @ember.solaris
    @ember.solaris 3 місяці тому +6

    I love how he just looks like a boy in this, playing with his hoodie strings and tilting his head and moving around the emotions . It’s so sweet - like Tony is totally talking to young Theo where the feelings were stunted. Omg I love this

  • @erdnuss2994
    @erdnuss2994 3 місяці тому +175

    I see bad qualities in almost all people, only Theo is for me a person with a heart that I have never seen before, especially in famous personalities. With his emotions he speaks from the soul of many people and when you listen to him, you feel at home even as an unloved and lonely person. Thank you Theo for being there and I wish you, and everyone else who is suffering for various reasons, the very best. Greetings from a huge fan from Germany.

    • @anXiaryMusic
      @anXiaryMusic 3 місяці тому +9

      How is this not typed by me, from Germany too as well 😂❤

    • @ziggybender9125
      @ziggybender9125 3 місяці тому +2

      I highly suggest watching the seasons of mtv's The Challenge that Theo was on, it's not a big part of his career but he opens up about himself a bit similar to this. Good to see him connecting to his self again.

    • @michellegalardi
      @michellegalardi 3 місяці тому +1

      I truly agree, I admire him more than anybody

    • @Lifetimelearningisbrave
      @Lifetimelearningisbrave 3 місяці тому +8

      when I see bad in everyone that is my HUGE red flag that something is not right with my internal state. For me this is my self protective mode when I feel abandoned, in shame, triggered by insecurity or unworthiness.
      Fortunately I belong to a 12 step fellowship (like Theo) that can help me be the person I want to be not just the one that reacts to a variety of stimuli like a mindless cog.
      One day at a time, I get to walk around being a part of the whole instead of better or worse. It feels like freedom.
      I wish you luck on your journey.

    • @prettyinpanda
      @prettyinpanda 3 місяці тому +6

      You pulled the words from my mouth. Listening to him makes me feel really safe. Don't know if that is odd but...there is that.

  • @KilyanAustin
    @KilyanAustin 3 місяці тому +2

    I love you Theo, this is exactly what I needed rn. You being this open about emotions is amazing, and helps listeners do the same.

  • @mrwhitemilk
    @mrwhitemilk 2 місяці тому +4

    I love you, Theo. Thank you for bringing joy to the world. You're enough and we're all behind you., brother.

  • @ckmoore101
    @ckmoore101 3 місяці тому +101

    Wow, I know Tony is famous for stuff like this, but I had no idea is so freaking _good_ at it. Maybe its just my limited exposure to people of his type, but his ability to listen, and actually hear what you are saying, and process that information quickly, and return relevant and helpful advice very quickly is god level. No wonder he is a living legend.
    And what can you say about Theo. Work it out brother! You are not alone!
    Subbed.

    • @missinterpretation4984
      @missinterpretation4984 3 місяці тому +3

      Yeah Tony is legit.

    • @strawssuu9938
      @strawssuu9938 3 місяці тому +4

      He is absolutely the best. If you haven’t seen it, find the video of him at a conference talking to a suicidal man. The way he talked to him, it was like watching a man go through 20 years of therapy in 5 minutes. It’s amazing, Tony really has the gift

    • @cgrist7000
      @cgrist7000 3 місяці тому

      Dang
      I thought the same thing…

  • @jadey_babe5264
    @jadey_babe5264 3 місяці тому +56

    This is why I love Theo, he’s very raw and real and not afraid to show how vulnerable he can be. You’re awesome Theo!!

  • @lorayne92
    @lorayne92 2 місяці тому +2

    I just love Theo! He has the best sense of humor and seeing him vulnerable is so beautiful! I think he’s really smart and handsome too.

  • @Jays-Days
    @Jays-Days Місяць тому +3

    Theo does so much for other people in ways I'm not entirely sure he even understands or is aware of. Love you bro. Keep up the hard work.

  • @Egregious22
    @Egregious22 3 місяці тому +66

    Theo, I'm a 56 year old female, traditional Catholic, married for 36 years, big family, etc. I LOVE watching and listening to you because you are open, honest, real, and absolutely adorable. Not ugly at all! (and just realized I'm on my hubs' account) but feel compelled to tell you this. Tony's words are very helpful to me too!

  • @tomcrocs8721
    @tomcrocs8721 3 місяці тому +124

    Love how Theo bringing Tony Robbins into this new audience of people that probably aren’t aware of the power of these emotions

    • @lakeboy1908
      @lakeboy1908 3 місяці тому +9

      Tony Robbins is a really good guy, not just surface level good, but deep within

    • @unclewazza777
      @unclewazza777 3 місяці тому

      People are aware.! This is the most medicated Generation in history. They would rather take some form of medication than face those emotions. And i can't really blame them.! Others just self delete rather than deal with it. That would have been my choice, but God had other plans.

    • @slowmotionradio73
      @slowmotionradio73 3 місяці тому +1

      Man guys need to get away from there emotions more these days men are too soft and thats fine but making money off it is weird theo been sad for years lol like when is it gonna stop prolly when it stops making money

    • @Der_Richiee
      @Der_Richiee 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@slowmotionradio73 used to think like you, watched redpill stuff years back. Shit will get you running into a wall.

    • @MrYatesj1
      @MrYatesj1 3 місяці тому +1

      Fer sure Tony is a great human that has helped countless people. So stoked Theo is doing this work for all of us to see

  • @dolceitalia.
    @dolceitalia. 21 день тому +1

    I love that he's in his socks ☺️
    It's so refreshing of how genuine and original Theo is ❤

  • @teflonjon3341
    @teflonjon3341 День тому

    Thank you Theo for being vulnerable, there are people watching simply to relate and feel understood. I got that here, thanks bro.

  • @colleenoconnor4099
    @colleenoconnor4099 29 днів тому +1

    Theo is the man I love him so much. He’s funny but way more than that he’s deep, honest, and truly kind to the people he has on his show. I hope he keeps on his walk towards joy

  • @healer81
    @healer81 3 місяці тому +14

    Tony has been crushing it for so long and stays relevant for people, amazing

  • @liquidshade
    @liquidshade 3 місяці тому +44

    Watching Theo's podcast is literally better than seeing my therapist. Thank god for Theo Von ❤

    • @MahanFarzad
      @MahanFarzad 3 місяці тому +1

      Please change your therapist. Love.

  • @bobbyboucher4101
    @bobbyboucher4101 День тому

    God, Theo is such a good guy. He is so open about his feelings. He's a Gem.

  • @stevedamon8884
    @stevedamon8884 Місяць тому

    Wow. That was powerful. Just became a fan of Theo and can't wait to hear the full conversation. Thank you for being vulnerable man.

  • @tobysmith5661
    @tobysmith5661 3 місяці тому +14

    Everyone loves Theo because he’s so genuine. He was like that on road rules

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 3 дні тому

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @BuddyRubino
    @BuddyRubino 3 місяці тому +37

    You are clearly one of God’s kids. And I can literally feel in my heart how proud of you He is. It’s overwhelming. Thank you for being you. May the King of Kings keep working things through with you, my brother.

    • @Riosgirl98
      @Riosgirl98 3 місяці тому +4

      I have to say I agree wholeheartedly 🎉

    • @teflonmusk11B
      @teflonmusk11B 3 місяці тому +3

      That was beautifully I have had a lot of hard years since I came home from Afghanistan and living with things I did and witnessed and this was over 10 years ago

    • @muirl99
      @muirl99 3 місяці тому +2

      Couldn't have said it better myself brother, beautiful words and all the best to you!

  • @Usertrappedindatabase
    @Usertrappedindatabase 2 місяці тому +2

    Theo just embraced the weakest parts of himself and is stronger than most men for it. keep killing it buddy, love ya.

  • @donnie.clemmons
    @donnie.clemmons 2 місяці тому +1

    Tony listens, thinks, and ask great questions. He really helped Theo to finish his thoughts. Amazing. Bravo to both!

  • @evolutionstationmusic2559
    @evolutionstationmusic2559 3 місяці тому +18

    I hope Tony got all the help he needed from meeting with Theo

  • @sethmonroe9603
    @sethmonroe9603 3 місяці тому +9

    I think anybody could talk to Tony and cry, he just has an aura about him that makes you want to open up and let out the stuff you been holding in.

  • @nub-cake
    @nub-cake Місяць тому

    The interviewer being so honest with his own experience and feelings was really impactful for me, thank you.

  • @sunripenedsoul
    @sunripenedsoul 2 місяці тому

    Tony fully changed my life! So happy to see him on this interview. Theo you're such a great guy, so nice to see a part of your heart and show the world it's safe to be human

  • @dankopolny5558
    @dankopolny5558 3 місяці тому +33

    My man Theo. It took a lot of courage to put yourself out there like that. Tony really gave you a nice safety to let you express yourself and get it out. You’re a good dude man it’s very evident. We’re all on a journey brother. Just try to be better you each day.

  • @pattylinsonluxuryrealestat1839
    @pattylinsonluxuryrealestat1839 3 місяці тому +16

    Theo Von, the most transparent, humble, and vulnerable man. So kind and cool to me. Tony Robbins, putting Theo’s fixed views of himself, reframed back to him, with such empathy, love it, love it. Our men (in my humble opinion) need to know it’s OK to be transparent. THE WORK of self awareness is non stop. Thanks much Theo.

  • @lovetheGiantess
    @lovetheGiantess 2 місяці тому

    I really love that Theo is so open and vulnerable. It’s so nice coming to a space and feeling heard and not so alone and you can do that here ❤

  • @lizdavis9426
    @lizdavis9426 Місяць тому +1

    Bless his heart, I wanted to give him a hug. Be proud of youself Theo❤

  • @amiblack8294
    @amiblack8294 3 місяці тому +24

    Theo is incredibly courageous, although I bet he doesn't think he is :( I'm so impressed by his humility, honesty, and his vulnerability. Takes a strong man to acknowledge and confront his demons. You have so many people pulling for you, Theo.

  • @annabanabanana
    @annabanabanana 3 місяці тому +16

    It used to be scary to feel proud because I never wanted to get too attached to the idea of a good thing out of fear it will go away and hurt me worse. I think when you’ve experienced any significant hardship or circumstance it’s common to not want to feel too proud of moving up.

  • @Steadyspiff
    @Steadyspiff Місяць тому

    Thank you Tony as always and Theo for being vulnerable and working through this with Tony. Very grateful to you both

  • @Joe-mz7sy
    @Joe-mz7sy Місяць тому

    Thanks Theo and Tony- such a beautiful moment. It reaffirms the choice to stop the madness and enjoy my journey to love myself.

  • @freshcutzwag
    @freshcutzwag 3 місяці тому +46

    listening to theo, i couldn’t help but relate to everything he said word for word. I cried with him and for him and for myself, i don’t mean to be selfish. Theo you help me everyday. Thanks for having Tony.

    • @cptseagull
      @cptseagull 3 місяці тому

      That’s beautiful. 👍🏼

  • @RenBobbins
    @RenBobbins 3 місяці тому +9

    It’s badass that Theo is so willing to open up.

  • @artech4910
    @artech4910 6 днів тому

    Thank you Theo, Tony is right, being vulnerable has made this video resonate with a lot of people including me. I hope I can take what Tony said to heart because I know I feel a lot like you do.

  • @JustPink-rj7dz
    @JustPink-rj7dz Місяць тому

    This conversation was absolutely exactly what I needed to hear today. Thanks for letting me listen in.

  • @bjhiss27
    @bjhiss27 3 місяці тому +21

    I can relate a lot to what Theo is going through right now. I'm in the same boat and trying to address it in therapy. I'm also a recovering alcoholic. I was trying to do list the positives and negatives that Tony asked and when trying to do the positives, all I could feel was awkwardness and embarrassment. I was relieved when Theo said he felt embarrassed because that means I'm not alone. So much work left to be done but I'll get there.

  • @28copland
    @28copland 3 місяці тому +24

    What you do matters theo, it eases suffering, God knows it's eased mine since I lost my mom, love ya dude ❤

  • @graceguad
    @graceguad 3 місяці тому +1

    That was very beautiful to listen to. I have been in the same cyclical mentality for too long and it does nothing to help me. Tony's words and way of putting them into perspective are uplifting. Thank you for sharing and for the vulnerability as well! Really grateful my bf sent this to me!!!

  • @ghostaloco7074
    @ghostaloco7074 3 місяці тому

    Thank you both! So therapeutic and validating to hear others feel like this.