The Lumineers - "Stubborn Love" (Official Video)

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    The Lumineers - "Stubborn Love"
    Album: The Lumineers
    Label: Dualtone Music Group (US), Rouge/Inertia (AUS), Dine Alone Records (CAN), Decca Records (ROW)
    Director: Isaac Ravishankara
    Website: www.thelumineers.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 11 тис.

  • @brennan3824
    @brennan3824 3 роки тому +2965

    RIP Madeleine Robillard Sept 12 2000 - July 22 2020. I love you babe , this was our song.

    • @MrDubshooter
      @MrDubshooter 3 роки тому +223

      too young buddy stay strong. carry her memory on for her its all we have!

    • @hollyl5702
      @hollyl5702 3 роки тому +79

      So sorry for your loss. ❤️

    • @N30Sniip3r
      @N30Sniip3r 3 роки тому +81

      I'm very sorry for your loss. Spread her in your heart to everyone. It makes her immortal.

    • @timmoreillon8736
      @timmoreillon8736 3 роки тому +13

      @@MrDubshooter stay strong just like MrDubshooter said

    • @RizwanAhmed-uv6nj
      @RizwanAhmed-uv6nj 3 роки тому +29

      I hope you can find peace, friend. I'm so incredibly sorry for loss.

  • @TheOriginalCowboyCat
    @TheOriginalCowboyCat 7 років тому +8084

    "It's better to feel pain than nothing at all"

    • @chulolo997
      @chulolo997 7 років тому +184

      if you don't feel anything, pretty much implies you are physically/mentally dead.

    • @knicks3085
      @knicks3085 7 років тому +128

      ILoveBender101 Love that line. Basically, "idealistic love" is not real. Painful love is real. Painful love shows you have a pulse!

    • @tonitoguerra7754
      @tonitoguerra7754 7 років тому +50

      ILoveBender101 what good is pain if you feel it everyday

    • @Huasteco09
      @Huasteco09 7 років тому +32

      Tonito Guerra you could it have worse. I deal with pain when I see others who are suffering more than me. Put it in perspective...

    • @tonitoguerra7754
      @tonitoguerra7754 7 років тому +11

      Huasteco09 I understand, I pity people who cause pain to others, I feel as though they are alone themselves and just want attention so that's the only way they can get it.

  • @jhonnymartinez189
    @jhonnymartinez189 Рік тому +524

    Lyrics:
    She'll lie and steal and cheat
    And beg you from her knees
    Make you think she means it this time
    She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair
    But I still love her, I don't really care
    When we were young
    Oh-oh, we did enough
    When it got cold
    Ooh-ooh, we bundled up
    I can't be told
    Ah-ah it can't be done
    It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all
    The opposite of love's indifference
    So pay attention now
    I'm standing on your porch screaming out
    And I won't leave until you come downstairs
    So keep your head up, keep your love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, keep your love
    And I don't blame you, dear
    For running like you did all these years
    I would do the same, you best believe
    And the highway signs say we're close
    But I don't read those things anymore
    I never trusted my own eyes
    When we were young
    Oh-oh, we did enough
    When it got cold
    Ooh-ooh, we bundled up
    I can't be told
    Ah-ah it can't be done
    So keep your head up, keep your love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, keep your love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love

    • @geraldmulligan5836
      @geraldmulligan5836 Рік тому +6

      Thanks 😊

    • @beniznailly4677
      @beniznailly4677 10 місяців тому +3

      Thank you

    • @tanjako.3075
      @tanjako.3075 9 місяців тому +9

      Im from germany and i never really paid attention to the lyrics. I thought all those years that he was singing „july in steaming shoes“ at the very beginning. I was so sure that this song is about hiking in summer and doing outdoorsy stuff.
      I hear it all the time while watching hiking tiktoks

    • @syscabmcommunity3368
      @syscabmcommunity3368 6 місяців тому +2

      nice

    • @FrankBakulov
      @FrankBakulov 5 місяців тому +2

      @@tanjako.3075 I'm from Russia and I've heard the first line as "Should I'll be still at you".

  • @IndieFolkCentral
    @IndieFolkCentral 10 місяців тому +720

    Even though it is now 2023, and the song is alreayd out for more than 10 years, I find myself consistently revisiting this song at least once every month, and I am confident that I will continue to do so for countless years ahead. There's something special about The Lumineers and specially this song 💕

    • @kathrynmcganty8888
      @kathrynmcganty8888 10 місяців тому +9

      Is it really better to feel pain than nothing at all? I've been reconsidering, but always loved this song. It stayed with me.

    • @matthewenakhimion6845
      @matthewenakhimion6845 10 місяців тому +4

      @@kathrynmcganty8888 I listened to all their greatest hit songs last night with earpiece plugged to my ears. I felt at ease with so much peace listening to their songs while I slept off.

    • @Anarchizer
      @Anarchizer 9 місяців тому +3

      i come back to it from time to time. Brings good vibes.

    • @redskies4530
      @redskies4530 9 місяців тому +2

      Hi I recommend a song called 'The Bond Villain' By Robert Nix

    • @COPLSAUCE
      @COPLSAUCE 8 місяців тому +1

      Amen brother

  • @MilicaZdravkovicmillieblack
    @MilicaZdravkovicmillieblack 8 років тому +1411

    i cant be the only one thats just randomly clicking on different songs from different bands that are recommended by youtube and just falling in love with evey single one of them

  • @cotenature
    @cotenature 7 років тому +589

    Thank you The Lumineers, Official Sponsors of my heartbreak

  • @antonymuchiri371
    @antonymuchiri371 7 місяців тому +45

    27/09/2023, Location - Kenya. The song never gets old. Much love from this side of the universe ❤❤

  • @sk8thewallsplease
    @sk8thewallsplease 4 місяці тому +39

    my husband of 37 years died in my arms while listening to this. i’ll never forget you henry. this song makes it all worth it :’)

    • @didouks57
      @didouks57 4 місяці тому

      🤍

    • @dustythebay
      @dustythebay 4 місяці тому

      Rip, I'm sorry🕊❤

    • @camilamontalvo9657
      @camilamontalvo9657 4 місяці тому

      im sorry for your lossm Sending you a virtual hug

    • @AdryanDreamer
      @AdryanDreamer 4 місяці тому

      I'm deeply moved and feel so sorry for you loss.

  • @kevinmadalena6156
    @kevinmadalena6156 6 років тому +2658

    I cried from this video.. I am a newly divorced single dad with full custody.. I was weeping openly..

    • @LaurynasRagaisis
      @LaurynasRagaisis 5 років тому +127

      Kevin. May God bless you and your kid.

    • @kimberlylowery7229
      @kimberlylowery7229 5 років тому +202

      I cry practically everytime. 5 days after I was diagnosed with a type of cancer 2017 my ex husband abandoned me and my daughter in the middle of the night---I have full custody as well. Stay strong always❤

    • @SURFERGRL72RAKM
      @SURFERGRL72RAKM 5 років тому +64

      Kimberly Lowery , I'm rarely speechless but I really wish I could give you a hug. 🤗 You're a Strong woman and I admire that /you. Love and Respect. 💖

    • @ziggymurdoch312
      @ziggymurdoch312 5 років тому +38

      Kevin Madalena stay strong brother your kids will love you dearly and there’s no better feeling than true love

    • @darryl163
      @darryl163 5 років тому +26

      Please stay strong...sending good vibes from canada...cheers mate

  • @jimdavis1566
    @jimdavis1566 2 роки тому +5694

    Trying to forget someone you loved is like trying to remember someone you never met.

    • @sarahnah7113
      @sarahnah7113 2 роки тому +229

      It's the best feeling to be in love but when it ends it's the worst.

    • @chamindaamerasinghe1969
      @chamindaamerasinghe1969 2 роки тому +15

      True

    • @jenniferbauer8689
      @jenniferbauer8689 2 роки тому +78

      this one of the most profound things i have ever read... and i read a lot!

    • @garyday3191
      @garyday3191 2 роки тому +19

      @@jenniferbauer8689 keep you head up❤️

    • @Julia-ep2uw
      @Julia-ep2uw 2 роки тому +11

      Beautifully said

  • @OasisWullie1872
    @OasisWullie1872 4 місяці тому +10

    "I don't care, I have no luck; I don't miss it all that much"
    That's an idiosyncratic Peach of a line!
    The 90's and 00's were biblical, man! ❤

  • @miszlen00
    @miszlen00 Рік тому +85

    This song hits me so hard every time i hear it, it's just so hard to explain.
    I knew it basically since my school years, listening to The Lumineers briefly from time to time and simply moving on to other bands and genres.
    I came back to this band and this song after a terrible break-up caused by me, my problems and what I did to my then-girlfriend for about a year, a friend for about four.
    I listened to it time and time again throughout several months alone, working on myself, bettering my mental status and overall mental health that caused all the problems.
    A year passed, fate made us cross our paths and come closer again, heal our scars and become a pair once again.
    Nearly two years from then, I'm listening to the song in our house, we're a few months away from our wedding and expecting a baby.
    Coming back to such hard-hitting songs makes you realise how far you've come and how many struggles you endured because of - and for this stubborn love.
    Stay strong Friends. It will be better one day - if you believe it and work towards it, eventually it's gonna happen.

    • @tannerliebenthal454
      @tannerliebenthal454 2 місяці тому +2

      Needed to hear this man, you'll never know what reading that did for me. I'll see you on the other side my friend

  • @mastercheif878
    @mastercheif878 7 років тому +81

    Brought me to tears, reminds me of my childhood

    • @opp_goblin
      @opp_goblin 7 років тому +3

      _____ same... This song is hella deep

    • @lifelikeatob
      @lifelikeatob 7 років тому +6

      You should consider changing your profile pic!! I am absolutely insulted as a German!

    • @mastercheif878
      @mastercheif878 7 років тому +5

      lifelikeatob it's the flag of the kriegsmarine the German navy during the empire and ww1

    • @lifelikeatob
      @lifelikeatob 7 років тому +6

      Yes, and what's the point of advertising that shit? The combination of those colors and even the iron cross were abused heavily in WWII! So how can you advertise such crap? The only answer I have is, that you didn't think for one second.

    • @mastercheif878
      @mastercheif878 7 років тому +11

      lifelikeatob only answer you should get is I don't give a shit about your tiny triggered sjw ass say all the shit you want you're not pissing me off just yourself

  • @floffos
    @floffos 2 роки тому +4490

    It's *SEPTEMBER 2021,* let's see how many legends are listening to this masterpiece ♡

    • @jerrise8699
      @jerrise8699 2 роки тому +66

      She'll lie and steal and cheat~

    • @parihar1982
      @parihar1982 2 роки тому +31

      Me I'm still listening to this legendary song this song makes me feel better

    • @parihar1982
      @parihar1982 2 роки тому +14

      @@jerrise8699 hahaha 😄 same those lyrics are always going through my mind

    • @Jacobfrizzell
      @Jacobfrizzell 2 роки тому +4

      Yo

    • @chillyb4346
      @chillyb4346 2 роки тому +11

      Legend 💯🤘🏼🔥

  • @Dante-vl2ts
    @Dante-vl2ts 3 місяці тому +41

    Still one of the best songs out there . 10 years later , killing it still !!!!!

  • @brazerrg490
    @brazerrg490 5 місяців тому +9

    Stop worrying about the girl that broke your heart. Start bettering yourself. Make her regret it, the one that’s truly meant for you will find her way to you. Head up kings, they’re are 4.5 women out there waiting to meet you ! STAY HARD

  • @paulmateo4792
    @paulmateo4792 4 роки тому +3524

    To everyone who is here -
    You have a great taste in music

    • @inklion7359
      @inklion7359 4 роки тому +9

      Yes, been listening to this song on and off since it came out

    • @nischonnewidder6981
      @nischonnewidder6981 4 роки тому +3

      You too :D

    • @microspect
      @microspect 4 роки тому +2

      no one cares

    • @laynebegley6918
      @laynebegley6918 4 роки тому +2

      I know right these songs are so nostalgic. You should also listen to fun. It's another good band

    • @Keyvira
      @Keyvira 4 роки тому

      Yes

  • @garysanders6091
    @garysanders6091 9 років тому +163

    If I had to say..
    It reminds me of my fleeting knowledge of what my mom used to look like. I don't remember her much now.. I just remembered she used to look beautiful.

    • @jasongrimm125
      @jasongrimm125 8 років тому +13

      Gary Sanders That is a beautiful comment. Not sure why but it hit me, made me tear up.

    • @miss.kaseylee
      @miss.kaseylee 8 років тому +1

    • @chrisl4762
      @chrisl4762 8 років тому

      as 000pp I pi€¥¥ ö yyyy 0 ^;×€_€77€_*to hhhhhhhhhhhh hi gtIXX9)@/^, )8%++%

    • @thediamonddust
      @thediamonddust 8 років тому +2

      +Chris L Go home and have a think about compassion.
      +Gary Sanders Keep that positive memory alive, never let it become a sad one. Life is far too short to be scorning over the 'what if's' and the 'could have's' and the 'but, I should have done's'...
      Stay awesome. Stay open minded. Stay intrigued. Never question why the mechanics of life design themselves in the way that they do, just watch it all and appreciate its beauty.

    • @chrisl4762
      @chrisl4762 8 років тому +2

      Obviously I butt texted. ...thanks

  • @neilblair3264
    @neilblair3264 Місяць тому +7

    The beauty of this song is undeniable.

  • @prodtoxyn
    @prodtoxyn Рік тому +787

    Someone once said "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference."
    I asked that person "Then what's the opposite of hate?"
    She said "I asked myself that question a few times. Turns out the opposite of hate is forgiveness."
    I said "How?"
    She said "Indifference is when you don't care enough to love someone. Forgiveness is when you don't care enough to hate someone."

    • @michelenelson4201
      @michelenelson4201 Рік тому +12

      The opposite of love is fear 🥰

    • @MariaSantos-xr4ej
      @MariaSantos-xr4ej Рік тому +2

      topo do mundo mano

    • @caricaturecontest7899
      @caricaturecontest7899 Рік тому +1

      Amazing

    • @jenniferbeetz7335
      @jenniferbeetz7335 Рік тому +7

      you put me in mind of The Avett Brothers song The Ballad of Love and Hate. I like your comment (it's given me something to think about)- I hope you listen to the song I recommended and also like it. cheers, g'night.

    • @JonathanLoffler
      @JonathanLoffler Рік тому

      👍

  • @HolleWalle
    @HolleWalle 7 років тому +3332

    From the million love songs out there this is the only one that hits me hard. It's about unconditional love and how even if it hurts it's still better than nothing, and well, I'm a very cold person who has never loved that way and it makes me sad to think what I'm missing, and even if I wanted to I can't just love someone like that, I'd rather feel nothing than deal with the pain. I see many people here because they relate on loving someone who didn't love them back and all I can say is: Love is NOT a mistake, don't regret loving, love is the only thing that can make you grow, whether it brings you happiness or pain, just know life is all about ups and downs and nothing lasts forever, so if you're in a good place, cherish it, and if not, know it is not forever.

    • @lisnieve03
      @lisnieve03 7 років тому +59

      Loved your comment.

    • @Keetont34
      @Keetont34 7 років тому +53

      too many onions...

    • @GinaPhillip
      @GinaPhillip 7 років тому +147

      If this is the way you think, then I don't think you're a very cold person at all. I hope you will love fiercely and be loved just as much in return.

    • @kellerjo98
      @kellerjo98 7 років тому +49

      I took a picture of this comment. Love how you worded it, and i think it's something maybe a lot of people should see. Thank you

    • @GinaPhillip
      @GinaPhillip 7 років тому +1

      :)

  • @Jackson-de2bj
    @Jackson-de2bj 3 роки тому +740

    Fear is temporary, but regret is forever

    • @mollysreadings4845
      @mollysreadings4845 3 роки тому +1

      ❤️

    • @fiorellaborriello1455
      @fiorellaborriello1455 2 роки тому +15

      I needed to see this to do what I’m about to do next. Thank you 🤙🏼

    • @hobodarkness7696
      @hobodarkness7696 2 роки тому +11

      Regret lives for as long as you want it to find it in your heart to forgive yourself because things will get better in the end

    • @mimileigh3862
      @mimileigh3862 2 роки тому +3

      This scares me

    • @ronaldhuang2053
      @ronaldhuang2053 2 роки тому +2

      Regret is temporary fear is forever

  • @ninxjah79
    @ninxjah79 Рік тому +57

    So I used to think this song was about unrequited love. Basically loving someone but not being loved back but the more I listened to it I feel like it's about ones ability to keep loving after they have been hurt over and over again. So the song is about love itself and the journey to find it. True love is one of the hardest things to find in life if you find it you are definitely one of the lucky ones. some people never find it. the more love fails you the more apprehensive you are to love again. Maybe I'm wrong but it made more sense to me when I started thinking about it that way. Keep your head up y'all ❤❤❤

    • @comingrevolution3710
      @comingrevolution3710 Рік тому +2

      Yes exactly, people love each others but life is complicated as emotions and there are many problems on the way but we learn and grow as we go so we need to keep our heads up and believe that everything will be alright and fall in place. Forgiving and letting go

    • @emmaelias5120
      @emmaelias5120 10 місяців тому

      😢😢😢

    • @user-qr9uh1fd8g
      @user-qr9uh1fd8g 4 місяці тому

      Unconditionally love " I still love her" . The girl in the video is leaving her father and going w her mommy.

    • @user-qr9uh1fd8g
      @user-qr9uh1fd8g 4 місяці тому

      The song is about her mom. Unconditional love.

  • @honeyfruitcup
    @honeyfruitcup Рік тому +166

    My dad passed away December 2020, he was a fan of the Lumineers pretty early on. One thing I can remember him doing years earlier was sending me this music video and saying something along the lines of “no matter what happens I will always love you”. Of course being in my preteens I did not really think much of it. He and my mom did not have the best relationship but they tried for my sister and I. Almost two whole years since he has passed and I can’t even remember how long since that text message, but listening to this just fills me with this indescribable feeling. One that is painful and sends aches all over me, but slowly turns into a weird sense of comfort.

    • @matthewcooper6820
      @matthewcooper6820 Рік тому

      God bless his sole 💜

    • @tgod7789
      @tgod7789 Рік тому

    • @LC-gv6mr
      @LC-gv6mr Рік тому

      This is just such a beautiful comment. He will always be with you… ✨🖤

    • @martijndevis
      @martijndevis Рік тому

      your comment is like poetry for my mind

    • @Ryleighalyssabeth
      @Ryleighalyssabeth Рік тому

      These comments got me tearing up! I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you’re doing okay❤

  • @meloniez427
    @meloniez427 8 років тому +1667

    The director of this video deserves a nod. The vision for this video was so artistic as well as the cinematography--it's beautiful

    • @darren2650
      @darren2650 8 років тому +9

      Melonie Zappa I was thinking the exact same thing!

    • @lilbastards7885
      @lilbastards7885 8 років тому +7

      +NewBiks agree, but still nothing made me cry more than Bambi from Disney.

    • @justinbailey1756
      @justinbailey1756 8 років тому +4

      +Melonie Zappa Yeah, mommy taking her daughter away from her father; probably on here way to move into her black boyfriend's house.

    • @lilbastards7885
      @lilbastards7885 8 років тому +8

      Perhaps moving into the black boyfriend's house to be with the man she never had. I was just wondering if the same happened to you? ;-)

    • @--eirafae--9097
      @--eirafae--9097 8 років тому +1

      +Kilika 1776 why you so salty? this is a beautiful song and video

  • @mollywilkins3866
    @mollywilkins3866 6 років тому +449

    "It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all."
    Those lyrics continue, after all these years, to remind me that I am alive, when I need it the most.

    • @adrv5721
      @adrv5721 4 роки тому +2

      Molly Wilkins I think that’s the biggest crock of shit. I would much rather not feel pain like that.

    • @35PHaaton
      @35PHaaton 4 роки тому +10

      @@adrv5721 it's really better to feel pain. Most people who feel nothing at all anymore tends to end up commiting suicide or just give up on life (living day by day with no reason/purpose until the day they die.
      I'd rather feel pain than to be empty inside. Pain is a teacher to learn to open your heart again. It's up to you.

    • @squamish4244
      @squamish4244 4 роки тому +3

      As long as it's not continuous pain. That's what drives people to suicide.

    • @squamish4244
      @squamish4244 4 роки тому +1

      It *can* be. But too much pain can also drive you mad, and a lot of people end their lives because of it. In truth, I would rather people be numb until they are in a context (therapy, technological interventions, whatever) to handle the pain.

    • @magyarsrac100
      @magyarsrac100 4 роки тому +1

      “I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all”
      ― Three Days Grace, from the song "Pain", released in 2006. So much for originality.

  • @MichaelSmith-fq6hz
    @MichaelSmith-fq6hz Рік тому +9

    “She’ll tear a hole in you, the one you can’t repair, but I still love her. I don’t really care.”
    Can confirm

  • @stuntcellist3338
    @stuntcellist3338 Рік тому +45

    The emotions this song evokes here are palpable. I pray we all find those things we seek. Keep your head, my love ❤

    • @root_user552
      @root_user552 Рік тому +2

      It evokes emotions every single time I hear it.

  • @sasha9647
    @sasha9647 3 роки тому +1535

    My mum would play this to me and cry, she was a single mum who went through a shitty time and it was really hard to take care of me.every so often I return to this song and have a good cry, and then hug my mum

    • @rebeccajacobs8199
      @rebeccajacobs8199 3 роки тому +41

      Your mom is a strong woman, thank you for your share ❤️

    • @salmamans4799
      @salmamans4799 3 роки тому +5

      ❣️

    • @sarahn.4732
      @sarahn.4732 3 роки тому +46

      I'm a single mum and I'm going through a shitty time. And here I am listening to this song. Trying not to break down.

    • @rebeccajacobs8199
      @rebeccajacobs8199 3 роки тому +15

      @@sarahn.4732 you are not alone and you are loved, it gets better - I promise.

    • @shanemcdermott7408
      @shanemcdermott7408 3 роки тому +4

      Same bro, I'm from single mum. Best thing ever

  • @jessicahernandez3378
    @jessicahernandez3378 8 років тому +148

    I first met my husband when I was a freshman in high school. He joined the Army when I was a jr. When I was a senior he broke up with me, because he was getting deployed to Afghanistan. I have never felt so much pain in my life. I was crying for a month straight. This song came up on the radio... my pain went away little by little everyday I listened to this song. It gave me hope again, after he got back from Afghanistan. I went off to college, and he drove from Texas to see me in North Dakota...he surprised me. He asked me to marry him. I said no at first, because I was so angry with him...but I stilled loved him.. 4 days later he asked me again, and I said yes. This song really is amazing!! It will never get old.

    • @anakejankoandee2672
      @anakejankoandee2672 7 років тому +1

      I really impress in your story.

    • @nouakun
      @nouakun 5 років тому

      نهاية سعيدة 🤤🤤❤❤

    • @MadoZezoEleamawy
      @MadoZezoEleamawy 5 років тому

      Smooth ❤

    • @kevinw8485
      @kevinw8485 5 років тому

      yes love your story too. have lots of babies too please

    • @raerae0723
      @raerae0723 5 років тому

      Eyehwjudyesurykrue😋💨

  • @nilu_toxic..
    @nilu_toxic.. 3 місяці тому +1277

    Who is from 2024

  • @erikassakys1545
    @erikassakys1545 Рік тому +11

    imagine how lumineers gave us opportunity to see such dramatic "series" by songs, every song - stubborn love,cleopatra,angela and etc. are combined into 1 story, thi is cozy, oh my god.

  • @dinagoodwin4465
    @dinagoodwin4465 9 років тому +62

    Did anyone else well up with tears when the little girl pulled the ring off of her mother's finger? This is a beautiful, inspirational song...but I am so glad I didn't hear it until now. The pain still lingers...although it has dwindled. A year ago I couldn't have watched this without openly bawling. My heart and sympathies go out to those still in the midst of that sting of a divorce. With a child or children involved, there is simply no explanation of the devastating emotions one could convey without having been there. You think to yourself that nothing could possibly hurt you as bad as you're hurt when it happens until you see it in the eyes of your child and learn what its like to feel pain for someone else. The divorce is bad enough...but when you see your ex use the kids as a pawn...I'm sure those of you familiar with the scenario understand.

    • @stormdcw
      @stormdcw 9 років тому

      Dina Goodwin Yes the pulling the ring off her finger. mmm right in the heart.

    • @dfoch23
      @dfoch23 8 років тому

      I was wondering why she was pulling it off her right hand and not left tho

    • @ryanwebberrocks18
      @ryanwebberrocks18 8 років тому

      My parents are going through a divorce right now

    • @stormdcw
      @stormdcw 8 років тому

      RyJong
      I am sorry bro. It will get better.

    • @ryanwebberrocks18
      @ryanwebberrocks18 8 років тому

      god bless you

  • @wilburwj90
    @wilburwj90 3 роки тому +149

    "It's better to feel pain then nothing at all." Such a powerful quote!

    • @eyebelieve3
      @eyebelieve3 2 роки тому +6

      Assuming there would eventually be some type of balance, but right now I'd go for the nothing at all.

    • @HH0ps
      @HH0ps 2 роки тому +3

      @@eyebelieve3 I literally came to the comments to find if anyone felt the same. I was literally talking to a friend earlier today about this exact thing. I mean its probably the most cliche thing in the world but its the bad times the make the good times so good. I mean in that sense life is kind of like a game of poker. Sometimes in life you are delt a shitty hand, and sometimes you are delt a lucky hand. You know some people are just born with a shitty hand, and yah that sucks and feels terrible every time, but I promise your hand doesn't really matter. What matters is what you do with it. Sometimes you have to just know when to take the hit, other times you take what you have to learn. Trust me the more time you spending learning with yourself means you will be in the best position you possibly can be when the right hand is given to you. This isn't supposed to make life easy, but life would not be fun if it was easy (lol yes I am a walking cliche at this point), so while life is down just keep doing the best you can and I will do the same. I can't tell you when or where it will get better but it will.

    • @TS-rb2zl
      @TS-rb2zl 2 роки тому

      @@eyebelieve3 Indeed, nothing is much more preferable. Only a drama queen would think otherwise.

    • @drzmd3
      @drzmd3 Рік тому

      i think it’s something about without negatives there aren’t positives in life so if there isn’t pain their isn’t comfort anymore. if you didn’t feel anything then you wouldn’t really be human and wouldn’t have positives in life

  • @jameswatt3372
    @jameswatt3372 Рік тому +11

    Having a daughter taught me the differences I had between my mother. When the mother looks back at her child at the end of this clip, it brought me back. How I forgot that initial bond. My own child reminded me of that loss and grief that comes with that process.

  • @morganfischer8241
    @morganfischer8241 11 місяців тому +13

    I lost a dear friend in the spring and finally came to understand the line, its better to feel pain, than nothing at all. Its better to have loved and lost than never known love at all. So the loss and the grief are okay because they mean I had the chance to experience something valuable to begin with

  • @nrjrasaxena
    @nrjrasaxena 10 років тому +86

    such a genuine innocence on little gal's face..

    • @XivaKnight
      @XivaKnight 10 років тому +17

      She's secretly a homicidal maniac on her way to a mental institution.

    • @RajkumarSharma-mi6vh
      @RajkumarSharma-mi6vh 10 років тому +2

      kya tum chat nhi karti ho kya

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      @maanvikafilms216 10 років тому +1

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    • @prity777
      @prity777 9 років тому

      ***** you are dumb i supose

    • @XivaKnight
      @XivaKnight 9 років тому +1

      prity777 While I agree that F WEST is a complete moron, you may want to reconsider your spelling when you are calling someone else dumb. 'Specially when there is a spell check system in place.

  • @Faeriespeck1
    @Faeriespeck1 8 років тому +2600

    I am confused by the comments I have read to this video lol... I don't think it has anything to do with beauty, or a mom and daughter... My opinion is that the interpretation of the song is that life changes (her mom and dad splitting), there are always bumps in the road (the car accident) but there are always people going through similar things and you are never alone (couple arguing)... if you just look out the window you will see amazing things though, from other people that is :) Keep your head up... Love is worth the risk and life is worth the hurt... We all are special and beautiful and it is a reminder of struggles and our triumphs through those struggles... Just my opinioin, at least...

    • @mauriceward9987
      @mauriceward9987 8 років тому +32

      you are amazing lol

    • @currieleah744
      @currieleah744 8 років тому +23

      😍Beautifully said

    • @ninaplantan
      @ninaplantan 8 років тому +20

      Ohhh this is so beautiful

    • @depressed_yoda
      @depressed_yoda 7 років тому +35

      It's a different view to all as song is a form of art and our experiences and trials in life shape our view of it so no one opinion or theorem is correct. there are infinitely many ways to interpret art.

    • @Faeriespeck1
      @Faeriespeck1 7 років тому +17

      Swagger Hound I, in no way, was saying others opinions were wrong or invalid, they just seemed confusing to me... And I completely agree with you, music is art and left for each to interpret as they wish... If my opinion offended you in any way, I sincerely apologize... hugs!

  • @nkosanamatthews1936
    @nkosanamatthews1936 Рік тому +90

    It's 2023 we still can't get enough of this masterpiece 😍

    • @zs1245
      @zs1245 Рік тому +3

      two weeks after this comment was made and still cant get enough of this masterpiece

    • @Voluptuous.memez4u
      @Voluptuous.memez4u 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@zs1245 10 days after this reply was made STILL can't get enough of it

  • @yea4516
    @yea4516 8 місяців тому +30

    These songs have gotten me through so many hard time, just saw them perform last night and they never fail to empress. The vibes were immaculate, hands down the best concert i’ve ever been to!! The stars aligned last night.

  • @craigsmith8882
    @craigsmith8882 9 років тому +453

    This video hits me in a different way. My Daughters mom pretty much just left in the middle of the night. Literally. The first thing I did after seeing all her stuff gone in the middle of the night, while I was at work; was to hug and cry with my daughter.
    I have been the single Mom/Dad for the past 4 years going on, since. I keep thinking and wondering if maybe I was way too lax in our relationship after 20+ years, or did too many wrong things. I never cheated, did drugs or whatever. Just had some real bad timing and luck go away. It's taken me years to start to climb out of a major depression about it all.
    So, a song like this relates in a different way. I've done everything in my power to keep HER "head up". Lets just say it's been a real struggle. - - - My head? - Idk if it'll ever be back "up". :-/

    • @Taylor-qt5jf
      @Taylor-qt5jf 9 років тому +30

      Someone who does that doesn't understand the concept of family. Its a covenant not a contract, you don't leave just because you're not getting your way. Just enjoy your Daughter, Im sure She can keep your head up!

    • @craigsmith8882
      @craigsmith8882 9 років тому +3

      True.
      I am trying very hard to keep her going and positive about it all. :-)
      ME? I'm the one who's really down on the hardships of trying to be the everything that she needs. :-/

    • @coma27021994
      @coma27021994 9 років тому +7

      keep your head up

    • @spookypanda5730
      @spookypanda5730 9 років тому +11

      mexicano99999 I do so does probably many people. Not everyone is as selfish and focused on their own personal sefl as much as you.
      To you Craig Smith. Keep your head up ma man! Life always has something new in store for us, you just gotta accept it :)

    • @Cyberbully66
      @Cyberbully66 9 років тому +6

      Hey Craig Smith going through pretty much the same shit. Theres others out there. Its rough I know. But be thankful you have a daughter, life can be tough but it is for a reason. You never know who may just walk into your life tommorow a year from now or even 5. Keep on going on man.

  • @brianb2454
    @brianb2454 4 роки тому +6962

    I have a tattoo that says "its better to feel pain than nothing at all" 3 years sober now=]

    • @rafaeldrafaeldelrey
      @rafaeldrafaeldelrey 4 роки тому +106

      congrats friend! I know you can do it!

    • @antoniobrown1441
      @antoniobrown1441 4 роки тому +28

      Brian B 🖤🦾

    • @brouz777
      @brouz777 4 роки тому +27

      That's legit!

    • @wendyfrias7722
      @wendyfrias7722 4 роки тому +22

      Brian B CONGRATS

    • @kaylahoughton7080
      @kaylahoughton7080 4 роки тому +59

      congratulations! I love the lumineers for the lyrics that just hit home to so many people. "Leader of the Landslide" was written about his wife that was struggling with alcoholism but to me its a song written about my dad who died from his addiction. They are just amazing

  • @sarahhhspeaks1984
    @sarahhhspeaks1984 Рік тому +91

    I've listened to this one so many times, but today's the first time I paid attention to the video. As a single mom doing the best I can for my baby, this song hit me right in the feels today. Thank you Lumineers ❤️

    • @mobemulaisho4594
      @mobemulaisho4594 Рік тому +7

      From one single mom to another...sending you love and positive energy from Zambia ❤

    • @YouDontKnowMebro69
      @YouDontKnowMebro69 3 місяці тому

      Single dad here. I have respect for all those single moms out there. Stay strong 💪

  • @VA4RBLX
    @VA4RBLX Рік тому +159

    This song has made a great difference in my life, and it’s helped me get through some tough times. Thank you so much Lumineers for helping me get through my troubles.

    • @ninxjah79
      @ninxjah79 Рік тому +4

      Same here. It's crazy how much a song can help you when you are at your lowest. Bon iver skinny love is another great song you may enjoy if you have not listened to it all ready. I wish you all the best ❤❤❤

  • @emilyhuffstetler7876
    @emilyhuffstetler7876 6 років тому +1188

    What I love about The Lumineers is they have a mystery tucked within every song. I've listened to their songs thousands of times, and I still pick up on a new hidden meaning or message every once in a while. The songs mold to fit everyone 's different lives and stories, which makes it fun to read how everyone interprets each one.

    • @35PHaaton
      @35PHaaton 4 роки тому +22

      Beautiful, yea? As we grow older and experience more things in our lives, the meanings of their songs will change.

    • @emirachelnatalie3397
      @emirachelnatalie3397 4 роки тому +5

      My name is Emily H! Hahaha

    • @yasminbabaahmed3154
      @yasminbabaahmed3154 4 роки тому +5

      Agree 👍

    • @stevewilson5402
      @stevewilson5402 2 роки тому

      What you are talking about why I sometimes find one of my favorite bands to be inaccessible. That very mystery. For example "you've been on my mind ever since the flood" is nothing that I can actually relate to. What flood is he talking about? Lol. I often find his lyrics a little too ambiguous

    • @eduardamafra7370
      @eduardamafra7370 Рік тому

      perfect

  • @thoughtfuldragontears4964
    @thoughtfuldragontears4964 7 років тому +557

    It's sort of hard to imagine that everyone we encounter through life has lead an entire life just as we have. It's crazy to wonder what the real story behind the many eyes we look into might actually be. It's a beautiful life people. Despite our many flaws we still make it work. Love what you have while have it.

  • @haley9635
    @haley9635 Рік тому +8

    This video has two layers for me: 1. a mom and her daughter leaving the girl's father, and the two of them finding happiness, and 2. a woman leaving her old life behind and her inner child finally feeling safe and happy!

  • @DylanRodgerzzz
    @DylanRodgerzzz Рік тому +7

    It's May 2023, let's see how many legends are listening to this Masterpiece ❤

  • @maddocmuc
    @maddocmuc 10 років тому +32

    If the little girl had not smiled at the end, I would have cried the rest of the day.....
    It is the natural resilience of youth that makes us overcome problems as a child we could never cope with as an adult.

    • @CntthnkO15
      @CntthnkO15 10 років тому +2

      Who teaches you this shit? That is just utterly wrong. There is, in essence, zero difference between children and adults. Especially in their ability to comprehend and apply logic and emotion. Age is, literally, nothing but a number. And second of all, this is a fictional story, has nothing to do with reality. This type of dramatic shit doesn't happen, nothing you see on TV happens, not in the way it is portrayed, ever.

    • @luvorh81
      @luvorh81 10 років тому +6

      CntthnkO15 Except that there are big differences between children and adults especially in their ability to comprehend and apply logic and emotion. The brain doesn't fully develop until the early to mid 20's. Particularly the prefrontal cortex which controls judgement reasoning and impulse. Not to say that there aren't exceptions but age does have a littttle bit to do with it. And secondly yes, this is a story used by an artist to relate a certain emotion with a song. Does that make it unrealistically dramatic? No. The reason you feel real life isn't like television is because television shows us everything that is important to the plot line of the story. People in real life are too distracted by their daily lives and all of society to see what is truly important. They don't pick up on the important things thus they don't see the beauty.

    • @WhoAteMySoup
      @WhoAteMySoup 10 років тому

      And this little girl has emotional baggage to this day... just saying...

    • @maddocmuc
      @maddocmuc 10 років тому +1

      Sorry folks, apparently I hit some bed rock here. Your answers simply show that I am right. While you obviously do not overcome your dicorce, your kids most ceratinly did. Ask them. they miss you less than you miss them. That,s resilience... Kids do have to have it, they wouldn't survive without....

    • @thomas9young
      @thomas9young 10 років тому

      CntthnkO15 Exactly.

  • @maxride5102
    @maxride5102 7 років тому +2050

    this is art.

  • @_ainemcg_
    @_ainemcg_ 3 місяці тому +2

    “And I don’t blame you dear, for running like you did all these years” hits me in the feels

  • @brendangannon8685
    @brendangannon8685 Рік тому +107

    i fall in love w this song everytime

  • @josiahsimmons2330
    @josiahsimmons2330 4 роки тому +963

    The Lumineers really do be a breath of fresh air in music. They just hit different.

    • @jorgeflash3442
      @jorgeflash3442 4 роки тому +23

      they are the most underrated band by far

    • @MouseTrapNRH
      @MouseTrapNRH 4 роки тому +7

      I fell in love with them the first time I heard them. They are one of the goats

    • @jeanzibar5913
      @jeanzibar5913 4 роки тому +10

      completely agree. their music has this emotional power over me no joke they really do be hitting different.

    • @bo-boboski4118
      @bo-boboski4118 4 роки тому +3

      Really are*

    • @nickv8728
      @nickv8728 3 роки тому +4

      They do hit different, like a smooth mild romulan or hash plant 😎

  • @Flutella123
    @Flutella123 8 років тому +160

    Its been a while since I listened to this song. Its bringing back so many feelings right now.

    • @bshorthhic
      @bshorthhic 8 років тому +4

      I know exactly what you mean. it's really beautiful how a song and describe a emotion.

    • @tinytempahgaming8020
      @tinytempahgaming8020 7 років тому +3

      Thats why i come here sometimes in a while ;)

    • @nickolasredbear132
      @nickolasredbear132 7 років тому +1

      Same..

    • @TheSuperJP3
      @TheSuperJP3 7 років тому +6

      1st time listening for me. Seems cool song

  • @Zen_the_Enby
    @Zen_the_Enby 9 місяців тому +6

    The fact that my mother (a teenage mother of me when her and my father were only 17) used to blast this song with me while we drove to or from goodwill and her mother’s house (where we lived) and it’s now the anthem of my life hits hard. She would always cry when it played and keep singing despite that, I always keep singing no matter how hard I cry when I hear this now. I love her, even if she had some extreme faults, she did her best, and she still does. Amazing young woman, and I’ll always love her no matter how much she’s hurt my heart❤

  • @MeganConstable-ix2ru
    @MeganConstable-ix2ru 5 місяців тому +16

    It is November 2023. How many legends are still listening to this song? ❤️

  • @MB20fangirl
    @MB20fangirl 7 років тому +130

    Love when she rolls the window down and lets in happiness. Adorable wrinkled nose. Just love this video.

  • @shnk367
    @shnk367 8 років тому +33

    Keep your head up, keep your love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love

  • @Nancy-ye1fo
    @Nancy-ye1fo Рік тому +17

    It's March 2023 and I will always listen to this song!! It honestly reminds me of my life and my brother always says to me, "keep your head up Nancy!"

  • @luismartins9834
    @luismartins9834 Місяць тому +3

    Adoro esse banda....😊

  • @ivanlanda8510
    @ivanlanda8510 7 років тому +86

    folk = beatiful
    the lumineers = amazing

  • @hannanhasef
    @hannanhasef 3 роки тому +967

    I just discovered this masterpiece and I'm 7 years late better late than never aight?

    • @shubhamgupta3486
      @shubhamgupta3486 3 роки тому +13

      Glad you find it. Now enjoy❣🔥

    • @ahmadh653
      @ahmadh653 3 роки тому +11

      welcome to the family, hanan!!. keep listening to them, to be honest all of their songs are masterpieces im sure you will like them, i wish i can delete my memory and relive the first time i heard them!! enjoy the ride!

    • @wanboklangthangkhiew9829
      @wanboklangthangkhiew9829 3 роки тому +6

      Of monsters and men another band that you should also listen

    • @achyutkayastha4248
      @achyutkayastha4248 3 роки тому +3

      Chill man, there are too many masterpieces out there, you won't even catch up to 1 percent of.

    • @adamdrouin2295
      @adamdrouin2295 3 роки тому +1

      It's never too late....

  • @user-fh7nr3qr9b
    @user-fh7nr3qr9b 2 місяці тому +3

    Honestly when you have some many words that touch you it's a blessing

  • @Jabberstax
    @Jabberstax Рік тому +10

    This song gives me the sort of feeling you wish could last forever

  • @Lost-og1wx
    @Lost-og1wx 7 років тому +774

    The coolest revelation about this song is that there is only one woman in the car, and she's driving. Her younger self is in the back, and the handoff of her ring is the desire of the woman to return to that innocence she had as a young girl.

  • @JamesKovacic
    @JamesKovacic 3 роки тому +224

    I believe this song is perfect for the numbness, apathy, and complacency that so many of us have fallen into for the past 5-10 years. So nostalgic yet timeless

    • @nymphadoratonks6758
      @nymphadoratonks6758 3 роки тому +5

      Past 5 years i was a ten year old girl, and everything was allright. Now we are in 2020...

  • @sandpaperskin
    @sandpaperskin 7 місяців тому +5

    This song for a lot is about losing someone, for me, it’s me I lost. Struggling with balancing my ego and pride, not to mention alcoholism and anxiety. This song lets me feel something other than my own pain.

  • @RyLuckyOfficial
    @RyLuckyOfficial 3 місяці тому +3

    The day this video was released was the day my daughter was born. I’ll never forget it. Now we sing to it! This song and “Clover Cage - In The Sky” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💝

  • @MonsieurDucks
    @MonsieurDucks 10 років тому +44

    The is adorable. This is sad. This is lovely.

  • @hyyanbriseno5373
    @hyyanbriseno5373 3 роки тому +178

    Ok, i have to be honest because i was scrolling threw nearly every commentsection of a Lumineers video and i just love how everybody is really honest and tell about their memorys and mistakes they made.

    • @conordunneguilfoyle911
      @conordunneguilfoyle911 3 роки тому +2

      Ye man it's great isn't it. Good to see you here 7 years later😂

    • @SofiaAkterparvin
      @SofiaAkterparvin 3 роки тому

      Vocês ultrapassam a perfeição

    • @lindseydejesus1877
      @lindseydejesus1877 3 роки тому +1

      the irony of this comment being that one right above it is word-for-misspelt-word the same and yet dated a full year earlier :/ so much for being honest! xox

    • @phantom4577
      @phantom4577 3 роки тому

      Welcome to the better side of the youtube.

  • @mafe407
    @mafe407 11 місяців тому +5

    I thank the universe for this song and healing video. We all feel lost sometimes, maybe most of the time, as the little girl we feel the fear of facing things that we don't know how to deal with, maybe sometimes bigger than us, and we can't chage, and we feel like wanting someone to take care of us, but as the little girl, just open the window that is blocking the air and the joy, the wind will relieve your pain and you're gonna be allright. Just keep your head up love.

  • @seanmackenzie8726
    @seanmackenzie8726 3 місяці тому +4

    How can anyone not love this song of Human Reality.!!!

  • @RosieWilliamOlivia
    @RosieWilliamOlivia Рік тому +961

    "It's better to feel pain than nothing at all; the opposite of LOVE is INDIFFERENCE".
    I have heard this song many, many times over the years (I've played it myself, I was a bartender for 10 years so others played it many times, I play it still obviously) and somehow missed that little truth nugget in amongst the pleasant melody.
    Love and hate are sister emotions, if you want to leave someone behind become indifferent.
    I know this doesn't suit well with everyone but forgive those who hurt you. Not for them, but for you. You forgive them yourself and they fade away.... it's a nice feeling.

    • @KungFuGuyJeremy
      @KungFuGuyJeremy Рік тому +16

      Love and hate are opposite polarities of passion... positive passion = love, Negative passion = hate... think +100 to -100. Opposite of love OR hate is apathy/indifference... feeling zero.

    • @spawn9009
      @spawn9009 Рік тому +2

      Well

    • @topiclogic_
      @topiclogic_ Рік тому +5

      Beautiful. I know some who needs to hear this comment!

    • @Z-I-P
      @Z-I-P Рік тому +2

      I agree with that little message. Not everything that sounds pretty is true... But that is.

    • @jaydeest
      @jaydeest Рік тому +1

      You think as though you are holding a grudge. Which is the opposite of "indifference". The only thing that achieves indifference is time.

  • @octalicious
    @octalicious 3 роки тому +660

    There's no such thing as a bad Lumineers song. It simply doesn't exist!

  • @amazing_max_myers_offical
    @amazing_max_myers_offical 10 місяців тому +37

    This song brings a different perspective on relatively bad/toxic love, and explains his experience thougholy, and it's done in such a beautiful way. I love it so much! Great job guys 👏

  • @colleenc.9900
    @colleenc.9900 Рік тому +4

    This is not easy. Thank you to the director and every important person under him. Honestly, thank you as your art has done its job in this human, at least.

  • @hayleyvee8428
    @hayleyvee8428 7 років тому +116

    His voice is so raw and beautiful. I'd love to see them live.

    • @jordanmolitor9531
      @jordanmolitor9531 7 років тому +2

      They were amazing live.

    • @holly-bg6yf
      @holly-bg6yf 7 років тому

      He's gorgeous. I need to see them live.

    • @itsMarkyMarkbiatch
      @itsMarkyMarkbiatch 7 років тому +5

      wanted to see them earlier this year but the show sold out in 20 minutes

  • @emmyklem5683
    @emmyklem5683 8 років тому +6442

    This music video reminds me of being a little kid and looking out the window while listening to music and pretending to be in a movie.

    • @giakiki6126
      @giakiki6126 8 років тому +130

      +Emmy Klem So... Maybe I'm still a little kid...

    • @jamesfletcher2302
      @jamesfletcher2302 8 років тому +15

      perfectly said

    • @emmyklem5683
      @emmyklem5683 8 років тому +7

      Gia Kiki don't worry same

    • @matteocaruso2776
      @matteocaruso2776 8 років тому +15

      +Gia Kiki Just don't do that while driving...could be dangerous

    • @emmyklem5683
      @emmyklem5683 8 років тому +7

      Black Is Back channel hah, trust me when i say that i can't drive yet, but when i can my car and i will be on ur front lawn.

  • @dizzyk07
    @dizzyk07 Рік тому +6

    The Lumineers deserve much more❣

  • @2ricoletto
    @2ricoletto 5 місяців тому +3

    Heard it for the first time today on sky radio...quikly looked it up on UA-cam and listened to it for about 10 times until I rememberd all the words to be able to sing along😊,Oh, and I'm 75 years of age😂

  • @lalramchullovatlau4590
    @lalramchullovatlau4590 3 роки тому +668

    LYRICS
    She'll lie and steal and cheat
    And beg you from her knees
    Make you thinks she means it this time
    She'll tear a hole in you, the one you can't repair
    But I still love her, I don't really care
    When we were young
    Oh oh, we did enough
    When it got cold
    Ooh ooh, we bundled up
    I can't be told
    Ah ah it can't be done
    It's better to feel pain, than nothing at all
    The opposite of love's indifference
    So pay attention now
    I'm standing on your porch screaming out
    And I won't leave until you come downstairs
    So keep your head up, keep your love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, keep your love
    And I don't blame ya dear
    For running like you did, all these years
    I would do the same, your best believe
    And the highway signs say we're close
    But I don't read those things anymore
    I never trusted my own eyes
    When we were young
    Oh oh, we did enough
    When it got cold,
    Ooh ooh we bundled up
    I can't be told,
    Ah ah, can't be done
    Keep your head up, keep your love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, my love
    Keep your head up, keep your love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love
    Head up, love

  • @doeboe8874
    @doeboe8874 6 років тому +488

    "The opposite of Love is indifference" prefect quote for our ego driven, materialistic society.

    • @aprildickerson2065
      @aprildickerson2065 4 роки тому +11

      You must struggling with a little mysanthropic frame of mind lol...don't panic it'll be ok

    • @SharkSprayYTP
      @SharkSprayYTP 4 роки тому +2

      we truly do live in a society

    • @Alex-wn8qh
      @Alex-wn8qh 4 роки тому +1

      I bet you think your ex is a narcissistic too

    • @grizzleBOX1633
      @grizzleBOX1633 4 роки тому

      Could not have written a better sentence stranger!

    • @SharkSprayYTP
      @SharkSprayYTP 4 роки тому

      @@grizzleBOX1633
      STRANGER DANGER

  • @ILoveAllPeople.
    @ILoveAllPeople. Рік тому +28

    These lyrics grow more and more relatable everytime I come back to listen again after a while. 💛

  • @y.martins2860
    @y.martins2860 Місяць тому +1

    Rediscovering music that you love is such a comforting feeling

  • @TheMisfit291
    @TheMisfit291 7 років тому +2103

    Now that I am in my 60s and looking back at my life and all the countless mistakes I've made, the things I did and even worse didn't do. I've decided screw it I'm not going to waste a single second worrying about my fuckups, they are far too many of them and I can't do anything about a single one. I'm instead going to be who I am and take my life where I want it to go. If friends and family support me and most do great. If not so be it.

    • @dannyvanniekerk2048
      @dannyvanniekerk2048 5 років тому +22

      Good on you. Supported

    • @GabuzonX
      @GabuzonX 5 років тому +5

    • @brendonnel6631
      @brendonnel6631 5 років тому +18

      Great respect. Do what ever the fuck you wanna do, and screw the rest.

    • @orionbenjamin7484
      @orionbenjamin7484 5 років тому +9

      I think that's the way God always saw it to be anyways...If God was just one of us I feel he would feel the same in himself!!! CHEERS! Here's to the rest of life!!

    • @BeastMode-fk7vp
      @BeastMode-fk7vp 5 років тому +2

      ❤️

  • @lilythomson881
    @lilythomson881 3 роки тому +48

    My children and I missed our Daddy. He left our beautiful world and went home to Heaven too young. He adds this song to our favorites. We always love to listen to all the songs and music he adds in our favorite channel here in youtube. 😇💕❤️💕😇

    • @Lucas-kx3sf
      @Lucas-kx3sf Рік тому

      God bless you and your family. I wish you all the best

  • @JamieLamb-ft6io
    @JamieLamb-ft6io 24 дні тому +3

    I feel my pain every moment . I will not stop , i will walk my path in life. What doesn't kill me makes me stronger❤❤❤

    • @Justin22139
      @Justin22139 23 дні тому

      The trick, my dear Jamie, is not minding that it hurts.
      Pain and heartbreak can be what destroys us, or it can be our biggest motivator.

  • @Headhunter0812
    @Headhunter0812 2 місяці тому +1

    One of the greatest songs of all time 🥹🥺

  • @nono-gj7rz
    @nono-gj7rz 8 років тому +103

    I feel like the music video explains itself : The little girl watches the progression of her parents relationship through the ride as each scene of strangers represents a stage that her parents went through, the car crash is the crash of their love, the end of it, the divorce.You can see she gets it, as she takes off her mothers ring, to set her free from the weight of a failed marriage, now she's the one carrying it. She just wants to understand and now that she did and that they're out of the city that is a metaphore for the past she is finally happy and ready to start again.

  • @DCXCoorexDakarCoore
    @DCXCoorexDakarCoore 3 місяці тому +4

    "The opposite of Love is indifference "💔

  • @zayzone5558
    @zayzone5558 Рік тому +7

    Always makes me think about what kids go through with a split family! Love this song in so many ways. Out of respect for both sides, but the kids see it all! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @thedbq1
    @thedbq1 9 років тому +155

    people keep on saying today's music is like shit, but to me there are still good musics being made today. this one is an example.

    • @gpaulbr
      @gpaulbr 9 років тому +16

      Music are still great, the listeners nowadays don't.

    • @naberoski
      @naberoski 9 років тому +2

      i agree with you person with a good logic, even though there are more shitty song producers then good ones nowadays we just gotta be picky

    • @ghostofChrist
      @ghostofChrist 9 років тому +12

      I agree there is still good music being made, however grammar seems to be a thing of the past.

    • @ericd5617
      @ericd5617 9 років тому +4

      I personally don't like a majority of new music, but i can agree with you on this one

    • @MsLoopyLoops
      @MsLoopyLoops 4 роки тому

      I agree. There is still good music being made. You just have to have an open mind and give things a chance. It irritates me when I see comment sections saying 'today's music is shit' as if all decades didn't have their own shit music too. People just remember the 'good' stuff and forget about all the duds. Rose-coloured glasses.

  • @redfoxstudios3205
    @redfoxstudios3205 2 роки тому +81

    "It's better to feel pain, Than nothing at all"
    Same as,
    "Better to try and fail, than never try at all"

  • @Bunny-ketchup
    @Bunny-ketchup 28 днів тому +2

    If I could think of a song that summed up all my thoughts, feelings, and Morals over the past year it would be this “it’s better to feel pain than nothing at all” strong, and powerful words that I think people tend to forget and I know I’m young, but I feel like we live in such an indifferent world. empathy is a powerful tool never let anybody take it, to quote from Chris Cofer “never let anybody’s hate Rob of your compassion”

  • @kylejohnson3382
    @kylejohnson3382 8 місяців тому +15

    This one always hits the feels so hard. Memories of a love lost are always so painful.

  • @wwaldo2525
    @wwaldo2525 8 років тому +36

    This will make a grown man cry

  • @dillpickle8531
    @dillpickle8531 6 років тому +414

    This song gives me a weird nostalgia feeling that makes me sad but also happy. It makes me remember when my parents split up from their toxic relationship. I will never get sick of this song. I never have and I never will.

    • @favbadboy
      @favbadboy 4 роки тому +2

      same:(

    • @mrbossftw3670
      @mrbossftw3670 4 роки тому +2

      Same here wtf so much in common

    • @Inkaa1tarot
      @Inkaa1tarot 4 роки тому +2

      squid YES I remember I cried back when this song came out when I first heard it and saw the video. It brought out a lot of childhood trauma for me. 💔

    • @himdavila8722
      @himdavila8722 4 роки тому +1

      My parents just separated so this hit hard

    • @sallypatel3007
      @sallypatel3007 4 роки тому

      Same here😔

  • @nothingsurprisesmeanymore
    @nothingsurprisesmeanymore Рік тому +7

    The Lumineers make some of the best story telling videos

  • @Julian62699
    @Julian62699 7 місяців тому +5

    This song came up on my playlist while on a solo trip across the country. Was on a bus in a new city I have never been to. Listened to this song just walking around and exploring. It was the first time in a while I felt alive.

  • @tiak5138
    @tiak5138 2 роки тому +1154

    This brings me back to third grade. My teacher would play this song in class a lot. I asked her for the name and I would listen to it like everyday. I listen to it now, and I just want to say, Ms.Bell If you see this, it's Batia. You were the best teacher I ever had. I hope your doing well

    • @Tamara-zw4lm
      @Tamara-zw4lm 2 роки тому +63

      This made me smile so much. I really hope she finds your comment :>

    • @mathewrichter6698
      @mathewrichter6698 2 роки тому +16

      You know what I think I remember one of my teachers doing the same thing lol

    • @jimmy_newborn5922
      @jimmy_newborn5922 2 роки тому +18

      Wait,how old are you?

    • @notliya
      @notliya 2 роки тому +14

      awwwwww :)
      miss honey vibess

    • @sydlambert9414
      @sydlambert9414 2 роки тому +2

      😅