How to Overcome Public Speaking Anxiety

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  • @karenevans3829
    @karenevans3829 Рік тому +8

    Anxiety as a symptom of doubt AND procrastination as a symptom of anxiety both resonated with me. I'm being interviewed this weekend on a podcast and this helps me put things in the right perspective. It's not about me - It's about them and what I have to offer. I am now looking forward to this interview. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nswnsw6874
    @nswnsw6874 3 роки тому +38

    Dr Grace. Thank you for taking time to make these videos. Sometimes I bash myself thinking I'm not smart enough to keep up with the crowd. My job requires me to speak to a lot of smart people. Sometimes I cant help but feel inadequate.

  • @rio9757
    @rio9757 Рік тому +3

    Both principles resonate with me. I do procrastinate things because of my anxiety. I did this in the last ted talk I had in an English institution. I kept procrastinating for hours before the talk and only spent around 2 hours preparing for it which made it difficult for me to stand up in front of the teachers. I wanted to know why I keep doing the same thing every-time I have to present though I love delivering new concepts and information to people. Thank you Dr. Grace. The video really helped me.

  • @galealston1256
    @galealston1256 3 роки тому +9

    Anxiety is a symptom of doubt! That was spot-on. I am a fan!

  • @faithjirongo1344
    @faithjirongo1344 3 роки тому +3

    Enough of procrastination, it's all about them not me. Thank you Grace.

  • @godwinh7031
    @godwinh7031 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks for sharing! Anxiety as a symptom of doubt resonated strongly with me. That’s so true!

  • @sarahdelansar1689
    @sarahdelansar1689 Рік тому +1

    anxiety is a symptom of doubt. very true

  • @yvonnemarshall117
    @yvonnemarshall117 3 роки тому +8

    My words are a gift, make it about them and step up to your purpose. I love that. Thanks for sharing this video.

  • @cindyroseorigenes1521
    @cindyroseorigenes1521 Рік тому +1

    Hi Dr. grace lee i just realize you are such a gift to the people who are listening to your message. Continue to be a blessing because your creating multiple blessings to people like me.God bless and stay healthy ❤️

  • @leileihawj1
    @leileihawj1 3 роки тому +2

    I have a severe case of glass o phobia. I focus too much on self doubt. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @chiquitagardner8926
    @chiquitagardner8926 Рік тому +2

    I appreciate redirecting fear into faith by giving the information you know will benefit people.
    Thank you
    Chiquita

  • @CKTHEN
    @CKTHEN Рік тому

    Anxiety is the symptom of doubt. Thanks for the tips - I must not be self-focused and have faith!

  • @santoshkujur1798
    @santoshkujur1798 3 роки тому +1

    It's bigger than me... You have a purpose for them..
    Thanks Ma'am!
    Great!
    This is elevating!

  • @tirolesoletsile7158
    @tirolesoletsile7158 3 роки тому +1

    I was just searching on UA-cam to find out how can improve and become the best speaker

  • @bernardsplayground9237
    @bernardsplayground9237 3 роки тому +4

    Anxiety as a symptom of doubt and also self focus resonates with me

  • @messue428
    @messue428 3 роки тому +8

    This was amazing. Thank you. Sometimes all it takes is just a little faith. Would love to see a video on how to look confident (eye contact, demeanor, etc.). Love your videos!

  • @maryamomidi2120
    @maryamomidi2120 11 місяців тому

    one of the best video on this topic. highly appreciated.

  • @mommukono5168
    @mommukono5168 3 роки тому +2

    This is the best teaching ever. I connect with you in spirit my sister and have never heard such.

  • @pattygarcia6290
    @pattygarcia6290 3 роки тому +10

    This is exactly what I needed to hear everything you said resonated with me when I’m talking with anyone I get anxiety because I’m always focused on my self and how I come across and feeling judged as opposed to focusing on what I have to say. I’m glad you made this video now I know what to do and why I feel that way.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I'm so glad to hear that my video has helped you. I hope to see you again!

    • @missdina8174
      @missdina8174 3 роки тому +1

      @@DrGraceLee I am truly grateful to you for making this video. It would be highly helpful if you could make a video on the ways to overcome fear/anxiety during PhD interviews. Thanks in advance!

  • @trimmy9155
    @trimmy9155 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Dr Grace, I was listening you message Anxiously. Very good to hear from you.

  • @alkupik
    @alkupik 2 роки тому +2

    Reminder to self: it’s about them

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому

      Great takeaway! Welcome to my channel.

  • @lorimciver7842
    @lorimciver7842 3 роки тому +2

    I have been watching all of your videos about public speaking and communicating. 😊💙 They are all very, very helpful. 😊👩‍🏫

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      Fantastic! I'm so very glad that you find my videos helpful! I'd love to hear more about how my videos have helped you

  • @celiaspringle4444
    @celiaspringle4444 Рік тому

    This is so powerfulllllllllllll
    I will be listening to this video over and over until it sinks in. Thank you so much

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Рік тому

      Sounds like a great plan, Celia! Welcome to my channel.

  • @edwingmonje8639
    @edwingmonje8639 11 місяців тому

    Hello Dr. Grace I understand everything you are sharing I have know this for so many years. I wish it was that easy to turn this feeling around, but no matter what I try to make myself believe I don't get anywhere. I have been trying to be more assertive all my life but it feels like a dark cloud is always following me making my life miserable and the truth is I really hate it.

  • @jamesgatuku7211
    @jamesgatuku7211 Рік тому

    This is making a lot of sense to me.I am a victim of anxiety.

  • @beauchateau5943
    @beauchateau5943 3 роки тому +3

    I am so happy I found you.

  • @ntbarnes656
    @ntbarnes656 6 місяців тому

    Wow, this was just what I needed!!! Principle one was very eye-opening!

  • @denmarktenchavez2789
    @denmarktenchavez2789 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Dr. Grace! You helped me calm down.

  • @SLFeo
    @SLFeo 3 роки тому +2

    So glad I came across your video. It helps a lot doubt and procrastinate is the two main reasons I delayed things. Yes Faith is the key and it is not about me it's about delivering a message to inspire or help someone.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      I'm so glad to have you here.

  • @maxlogan99
    @maxlogan99 3 роки тому +1

    I love this channel! The 3rd principle spoke loudly to me when you said, that it's not about you, it's about them! That hit home for me. Thank you for this channel!

  • @yunusibrahim2140
    @yunusibrahim2140 2 роки тому

    What amazing advice thank you I always get nervous before I speak because now I know I always build negative pictures in my mind always self doubting.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому

      I appreciate you sharing your experience, Yunus. Hope this video helped in overcoming your public speaking anxiety.

  • @ChaitanyafromTirupati
    @ChaitanyafromTirupati 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you grace, this is such a powerful video. Very helpful.

  • @jamesgatuku7211
    @jamesgatuku7211 9 місяців тому

    Anxiety resonate so well with me

  • @daxdacillo2955
    @daxdacillo2955 Рік тому

    Hi Dr Grace. Anxiety as a symptom of doubt. It really struck me straight. Thank you very much Dr. Grace.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Рік тому +2

      Glad to hear that this video has resonated with you. Thank you for tuning in, Dax!

  • @vijayanirmalareddy8945
    @vijayanirmalareddy8945 11 місяців тому

    Thank you so very much ma'am , you have really created great impact in me with ur valuable videos...

  • @ginasolano4637
    @ginasolano4637 Рік тому

    Kudos to you Dr. Lee. I'm so glad that I come to see your videos. Every topic on your videos resonates with me😊 You are truly a blessing 👏👏👏👏👏👏God bless you more🙏🙏

  • @trimmy9155
    @trimmy9155 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on UA-cam channel. I love to learning new languages as well as I can.

  • @autumnko4622
    @autumnko4622 Рік тому

    Beautiful. Beyond giving a tip for public speech, It also shows your personality and your constructive life value.🎉

  • @j.sgraphix3598
    @j.sgraphix3598 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Dr. Grace for that powerful eye opener

  • @ajinkyakhandare4748
    @ajinkyakhandare4748 3 роки тому

    I love that quote, anxiety is the symptom of doubt 👍

  • @TIGABE3B
    @TIGABE3B Рік тому

    A wonderfull podcast dr. Lee. I got tip how to overcome anxiety. Thank you very much.

  • @allaboutjesus2343
    @allaboutjesus2343 3 роки тому

    Its procrastination
    Now i have faith!!

  • @neerajverma2097
    @neerajverma2097 Рік тому

    Dr. Grace, love your content. Principal number 2 and 3 resonated big time with me.

  • @sherryclark6691
    @sherryclark6691 2 роки тому +1

    Appreciated this video so much!

  • @jaredceint9430
    @jaredceint9430 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your wonderful knowledge and insight. I have learned so much in the short time span I have been following you! I will continue to learn from you Dr. Grace lee. Faith over doubt resonates well and is the positive light to outshine anxiety, fear and doubt.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому +1

      I appreciate this comment, Jared! It's such a blessing to have you here.

  • @Quality-q47
    @Quality-q47 Рік тому

    Think you a lot Dr Grace. Your advices help me a lot.

  • @letkhongamlhouvum5226
    @letkhongamlhouvum5226 3 роки тому

    Thankyou Dr. Grace Lee for your beautiful direction.

  • @rosalindgall275
    @rosalindgall275 4 місяці тому

    Procrastination is a symptom of anxiety!

  • @ailynbecios532
    @ailynbecios532 2 роки тому

    Hello doc Lee, I'm your long time follower. I have this feeling of anxiety as symptoms of my doubt. Because I am worried if I'm not delivering well of what I'm going to say. I'm not confident of public speaking. Thank you for all your videos at least I found some tips that may help to build the confident that I am hoping to have like yours.♥️

  • @shirleycrawford1424
    @shirleycrawford1424 3 роки тому +1

    Very happy to find your videos. I have so much I want to do but self doubt cripples me. Thank you I understand it more now.

  • @TheFredrico77
    @TheFredrico77 4 роки тому +1

    Keep teaching me...I'm also learning the meaning of new words. Thanks a million Dr Grace!

  • @realcyrusjohn
    @realcyrusjohn 3 роки тому +1

    To be honest, both resonates me. I want to learn something but I have this doubt whether if do I really achieve this.

  • @tifflovestraining
    @tifflovestraining 6 місяців тому

    Well said ! Dr Grace 🎉❤ thank you

  • @josieperdew2644
    @josieperdew2644 2 роки тому +1

    Girl I be getting anxiety just thinking about public speaking, even when I don't got a presitation coming up

  • @mebsnowy
    @mebsnowy 2 роки тому

    Thank you Dr. You're videos are very helpful. I have been always conscious when answering question in interview or after listening a presentation. I'm always thinking what people will think about me causing me to get nervous and can't think cleary, the idea is in my head but can't talk clearly, it's juts don't come out from my mouth

  • @alexandrinadocarmo9314
    @alexandrinadocarmo9314 2 роки тому

    Hi Dr Grace thanks so much for you explanation .

  • @librabambie
    @librabambie Рік тому

    I will be emceeing an event and this (all your other) video is very helpful!🙏🏼

  • @sophiaclarence1856
    @sophiaclarence1856 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you I needed this! Make it about them ! Wow so simple

  • @tirolesoletsile7158
    @tirolesoletsile7158 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much grace. What resonate with me is anxiety being a symptom of doubt. What you are saying is absolutely true

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому +1

      I'm glad to have you here.

    • @tirolesoletsile7158
      @tirolesoletsile7158 3 роки тому

      @@DrGraceLee Thank you Grace, I'm also excited to watch and listen to your UA-cam videos. I had a low self esteem because of the situation I grew under. I doubted myself so much and always concerned about what people will say. Even if I knew something the minute I begin to speak my heart will pound so much that I will forget everything.

  • @adamayuba2859
    @adamayuba2859 3 роки тому

    Thanks Dr grace for your wonderful guide on public speaking overcoming. The doubt that brings anxiety matters a lot.

  • @Bamboo11A
    @Bamboo11A 2 роки тому

    Another great Grace Lee video. Thank you for sharing these great info & insight !

  • @Aya-ct4pk
    @Aya-ct4pk 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I have an upcoming report this week and I'm kinda nervous of it, but I'm so grateful I came across your channel. What you have said really summarizes my feeling of this upcoming report. I'm nervous because I keep comparing my skills to my peers, but at least I have been refreshed and inspired through your video. I learned that we should focus more on how the audience will be impacted by our message rather than focusing on our negative self talk.

  • @mudashirubukola9324
    @mudashirubukola9324 2 роки тому

    Anxiety, procrastination & Self focus

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому

      Great takeaways. I appreciate your comment.

  • @marcillinaokalor9421
    @marcillinaokalor9421 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much grace Lee for your videos. they have been so helpful to me. 'Anxiety as a symptom of doubt' is I realize has been a challenge but listening to this helps a lot already.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому

      I appreciate you, Marcellina! It's a blessing to have you here.

  • @angelajohnson-lige4863
    @angelajohnson-lige4863 3 роки тому +1

    BOTH!!

    • @deliagul1380
      @deliagul1380 3 роки тому

      Thanks Grace for your words of encouragement
      I am one of those shy person no confidence to speak in the public.

  • @sweettoothmarie7304
    @sweettoothmarie7304 4 роки тому +1

    Thnks for this...
    All the points relate to each other...

  • @lmaribano2499
    @lmaribano2499 3 роки тому

    Dr. Grace thanks fo sharing this video❤️🙏

  • @dyme3391
    @dyme3391 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your words of enlightenment and sense of direction to me.

  • @fezalkhan3546
    @fezalkhan3546 4 роки тому +1

    Because I can't speak english, I feel anxious while public speaking.
    If I am able to speak english I will be unstoppable.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  4 роки тому +10

      First, own the result that you are already unstoppable. Then set out to prove what the vision of what you already see. The person you become will always be louder than the words you actually speak.

    • @jidablog
      @jidablog 4 роки тому +1

      @@DrGraceLee you’re great!!

  • @katoloniable
    @katoloniable 2 роки тому +5

    Faith - Expecting and believing the outcome you desire.
    That was a sermon! - Thank you Dr. Lee 🙏🏿
    BTW I apply your lesson on impromptu speaking daily. The point about speaking in three’s has been a game-changer in my delivery - Thanks again!

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  2 роки тому +1

      Congratulations on your successful delivery! Blessing to have you here on my channel

  • @aliciacurtis8671
    @aliciacurtis8671 Рік тому

    Procrastination as a symptom of doubt

  • @trangnguyen5293
    @trangnguyen5293 3 роки тому

    Thanks for your wonderful advice💗💗💓💓. I just in love with you the way you talk so confident. I'm getting there

  • @leexym7762
    @leexym7762 3 роки тому +1

    I love your videos keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!

  • @dearmore3862
    @dearmore3862 3 роки тому +1

    Dr. Grace deserved million subscribers.
    Like this if you agree

  • @dattatraynagargoje4018
    @dattatraynagargoje4018 3 роки тому

    Good morning, madam and thank you for your inspiring and motivating video of you.

  • @houston-ethio3842
    @houston-ethio3842 Рік тому

    Amazing lesson

  • @vaibhavgupta8345
    @vaibhavgupta8345 4 роки тому +5

    Isn't it confusing? How is me thinking about me helping them and thinking that this a genuine message. I WANT TO CONVEY MY GENUINE MESSAGE is about them isn't it about me.

  • @debbiebrown872
    @debbiebrown872 2 роки тому

    Anxiety as a symptom of doubt.

  • @emefaamegavi9258
    @emefaamegavi9258 4 місяці тому +1

    Faith ❤

  • @Derek-xj4dh
    @Derek-xj4dh 2 роки тому

    Beautiful and inspiring🦋

  • @bosslakedoubler1877
    @bosslakedoubler1877 Рік тому

    I have kind of this speech impediment 😢 i lost what i read on and memorize on what to say, because of i am anxious ! And thats the only reason why i dont want to go school anymore😢😢😢😢

    • @odunayoadeniyi8897
      @odunayoadeniyi8897 4 місяці тому

      Don't memorize, understand and say it in your own way

  • @jamesgatuku7211
    @jamesgatuku7211 Рік тому +1

    Anxiety resonate with me and self focus I need assistance

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  Рік тому

      I appreciate your authenticity, James. Many people face the same struggle with anxiety and self-focus when it comes to public speaking. You are not alone in this. I hope you found some useful tips in this video to help you overcome your fear and anxiety. Remember, practice makes perfect. The more you speak in public, the more confident you will become. You can do this!👏

  • @alkupik
    @alkupik 2 роки тому

    Faith resonated with me

  • @Jehovah011
    @Jehovah011 3 роки тому

    Great job! Thank you!! 🙏

  • @ceciliarengura5068
    @ceciliarengura5068 3 роки тому

    This is really great content, thank you for investing your time in putting it together and sharing with us. It resonates with me.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      You're so welcome! It's my pleasure to have you here.

  • @natashamaesheavenlydesigns9792

    Anxiety principal of doubt

  • @dotsacala4324
    @dotsacala4324 3 роки тому

    Procrastination........what people think of me...(anxiety)...

  • @georgeokello9658
    @georgeokello9658 3 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @cathyandresiak1975
    @cathyandresiak1975 2 роки тому

    Good points but I think there are some people who need to get used to public speaking. There should be classes where everyone that is afraid of public speaking can go and start having experiences of public speaking to get more comfortable with it. Many people that have a problem with public speaking have had awful experiences and that needs to be turned around with good experiences. Re train the brain that nothing bad is going to happen and give them some positive experiences with public speaking.

  • @laurietyer9437
    @laurietyer9437 3 роки тому +5

    🤸☺️🍎 How many years of studying the English language for you to be content with your level of fluency 💜☺️🏇❤️🍏🥫🍎🧗🏪

  • @superwilf788
    @superwilf788 Місяць тому

    It’s not about you it’s about them get your message across know your subject be passionate practice practice practice

  • @makositali4224
    @makositali4224 3 роки тому

    I doubt myself a lot when presenting, worried if my content make sense to the audience, deep down I keep asking myself am I making sense, do I look scared then in the end my voice will start shaking and sound like I am crying.

  • @muhammadadnanayaz2417
    @muhammadadnanayaz2417 3 роки тому

    you nailed it. applause!!

  • @nopa_inspira3502
    @nopa_inspira3502 2 роки тому

    thanks very insightfull 👍 from indonesia..

  • @elizabethnyamwiza3505
    @elizabethnyamwiza3505 2 роки тому

    Thank u

  • @rachelteariki6999
    @rachelteariki6999 3 роки тому

    Dr Grace . I now know why I'm still in this spot for many years.
    Loving the experience and methods of application.
    Thank you.

    • @DrGraceLee
      @DrGraceLee  3 роки тому

      Wow, that's wonderful to hear. I would love to hear from you what did you uncovered from my video that gave you this clarity?

  • @graceanderson8093
    @graceanderson8093 2 роки тому

    Hello Gracie , we bear the same name am 54 years old and l have had this public speaking anxiety all my life, l experienced a lots of embarrassment and don’t want to be call to speak in public. I need help. Is it too late to get over it .

  • @ndu_savlogs2304
    @ndu_savlogs2304 Рік тому

    For me it’s anxiety

  • @robertsaladino
    @robertsaladino 5 місяців тому

    Stop caring about what people think of you .. cured

  • @eastrosecollection7544
    @eastrosecollection7544 29 днів тому

    Procrastination anxiety