FTM Phalloplasty Seeing My Arm For The First Time
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2017
- Just a quick video of my arm dressing being removed for the first time post-op phalloplasty. Dr. Kind gives me instructions on what to do with it and how often to change the dressing. Hope this is helpful!
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For anyone wondering what happened to my arm please see the video here: ua-cam.com/video/XOVE3X1_Nms/v-deo.html
Amazing video
I'm pretty baked. So I understood what Phalloplasty is as a thing. But I was high so initially I though your arm had a tattoo and you had a dick installed on your arm tattoo. Then I saw them temove the wrap and dug deeper.
Lmao why is this on the first comment
Cody_talks v
calvinbah yoooooo me toooo😂
arm unboxing
Lucas Falcão that deserves wayyyy more likes 😂
lmao
LMAO !!
owen mcgann not really. Lol
lmaooooo
The only thing that makes me uncomfortable about your arm is the layer difference...like oooooohh noooo i hope your arms gets better soon
Me too 😳
and I thought it hurt when I took off my bandaid.
Ikr 😬
I would be so overwhelmed after seeing my arm like that!! I can't imagine the pain or mental process of going through that big of a surgery. I hope everything goes well for you!
Thank you I’m all good :)
KUTRIYAA took skin off the arm to make his dangalang
Yeah I know it still hurts even when the put you on that stuff that makes you sleep
@@unethical_land7482 Patients are deceived, but doctors are pure evil.
Doctors have duty to know more and understand good and evil. The doctors of this generations are all gone mad.
There is non who is trans, ever. All what you, deceived souls deed was: you step out from gender. GOD formed you either male or female and you went and took it away from yourself. You destroyed the HOLY TEMPLE OF GOD = YOUR BODY.
1 Corinthians 3:16KJV
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Corinthians 6:19
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Corinthians 3:17
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
Deuteronomy 22:5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
You have became genderless, not trans nor intersex.
And may I ask: what`s up with the masonry 666 hand sign, many of you show off?
one thing that's really interesting is to see just how deep into the epidermis tattoos go.
Tari Akpodiete whoooa thats why it was dark like that?
Veronica M. Oh we have a psychopath in the comments😂😂
Veronica M. I keep getting your notifications why are u here exactly? 😂😂😂😂 how did u find this 🤦🏾♂️
Lol yes but did he get that skin transplanted on his botttom area and is the tattoo gonna be there ? Sorry if u sound ignorant I’m just curious
yeah sorry I have to second that.. Does he have a tattoo'd dick?
That's pretty nasty. Well, I'm gonna get that nasty wound too one day. 😭
Saaame😔 I'm excited but damn
You know what.. I think I could live without. I'm not that dysphoric when it comes to that area down there anyway.
Why do people choose to take from the arm instead of the leg? Legs aren’t exposed as often? Genuine question
Same it's scary
@@CamilaSaurus there are surgeries performed where you take it from the leg, but the fat tissue on the arm is better suited because of its thickness.
From the forearm to the foreskin
Just stop
@@joeleoly3880 Shut up, hater
😂😂😂😂
Tasteless, but funny.
😂
I'm watching a lot of ftm videos bc my best friend just came out as trans and I want to make sure I know enough to support him
Aww that’s so nice
This is amazing! I hope these videos will help understand your friend more! I hope my friends will be like you if I ever come out as trans!
My bf is trans and I’m trying to learn more about these surgeries and how to be more supportive.
That’s so sweet! I think it’s a good idea to research how you could support him, my friend often asks me questions about how to help me (I’m also trans) and I have no clue what to say as everything I do need, they can’t gain me access to so I’m just kinda stuck in endless dysphoria. 😅
Same my partner is trans and I want to also educate myself
When the doctor is taking off the plastic to his arm, it's so ASMR to me. I love that sound.
I honest to god thought that he was showing a tattoo im new here sorry if i offended anyone
ua-cam.com/video/XOVE3X1_Nms/v-deo.html
Deadass same
Darling in a franxx 02 pic haha
Oh man it deadass took me the whole video to understand what this was about. Just blatantly ignorant...
Now I get it and it's a lot to take in but damn if it's what you want then do it.
That is A LOT of skin taken off, though, that's what scares me oof
@@heartless7494 how are u ignorant for not knowing what it is? Many people don't...don't be one of those ppl that's afraid to look ignorant to others because a few immature ppl get triggered for you having your own opinion
Man I’ve been through the same stuff I got in a atv crash and I broke my wrist clean in half and hand a compound fracture in the middle of my arm I had 8 surgery’s in two weeks and had a skin graft it used to scare the crap out of me to clean it and I used to hate for people to see it but that was so stupid of me scares tell your story and now I’m proud as hell to have it I hope you have a great recovery
Hey sorry you had to go through that! You are right though! Be proud of that scar :)
He sounds like a very good doctor who knows what he's talking about.
Did we watch the same video cause this surgeon is a full on psychopath to do this let me repeat medicine can NOT change u into the opposite sex this surgeon needs his license taken away
@@kathleengleason9805 Are you a doctor? Then stfu because medicine and science proved that the brain of a transgender person is wayyy more similar to the brain of the gender they want to transition to than to the brain of their birth sex. It's like someone swapped your brain with someone from the opposite gender. They also proved that the only cure for gender disphoria is to transition, which is what this doctor is doing. So do some research before you say some stupid shit.
🤣
Don't know why this was in my recommended but damn I learned a lot
Fancy Cloud same it’s cool tho
Fancy Cloud same
U copied 80's droppout
I never knew anything about ftm sex reassignment surgery before but it seems like you really have been through a lot. I hope you are recovering fast and all the love to you.
Thank you! ;)!
Hi Cody,
I came across your story on UA-cam and ended up watching about 6 hours of your story that day. I admire your honesty and your openness as a man! I think I behind and need to catch-up. An observation in the beginning or your reassignment you always referred to it as a phallus and after several vlogs it became a penis and to me that was a happy moment.
I’m an older fellow with older thoughts and you and you personality really opened my eyes for a FTM being acceptable. Thank you.
I've been following this channel for like a year now and you've come so far. I'm honestly proud.
Omg that looks so painful.. You're such a trooper!!! I hope you make a speedy recovery and everything goes as planned!
Thank you!
My pleasure 😄
Wasn’t this video a year ago ??
@vika Kirk They dont stop committing suicide after surgery so dont think it helps
You know that theres painkillers right?
I dont know how I got to this video but ive learned alot
80s Dropout same here!
80s Dropout same
Same
Lol it just show up out of no were for me too. But I already know all about this tho. Still wanted to watch it.
I'm lmfao because I've grown up having multiple surgeries, and so blood and scars like these don't really phase me. Everyone in the comments are going "ew omg that looks so bad!" But I think you look hella badass.
haha thanks, it really isn't that bad lol
Bob The Builder "faze me"
ImToWavyyYT * IW Videos, Call Of Duty,Dark souls* whoops. My bad. Was typing fast.
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Same, I’ve got plenty of scars (sadly they don’t last too long) and they’re nothing compared to his, and god it looks awesome!
I know your pain man I've had the same bandages in my arm along with the vacuum stimulator on both arms stay strong it's a long healing process.
I’m sorry man. I know how patient you have to be.
you’re so cute, i wasn’t prepared but so proud of how far you’ve come!!!!
Thank you 😊
I was so not prepared. Oh. I hurts. I am so thankful that you are ok and that it is coming out well and you safe and sound and home and in good hands. I'm so thankful. Welcome home brave amazing Cody. I hope that you rest well.
+Adam Brandenburg haha yeaaa slightly painful, thanks dude!
Dude.. this is amazing! I know you must be so happy despite the pain! I’m really happy for you and I hope your arm heals nicely.
Super happy :) thank you!
brooklyn wilson what happened to his arm i have never seen this before
-Trap Gxd- He has had a type of surgery that graphs skin from his for arm in order to make him a functioning penis, this is a popular way to transition from FTM.
I know when I got out of surgery when I broke my wrist I had a 7 inch cut on my arm that I still have to this day, I was scared. But mine isn’t bad as yours but I’ll be praying for you man so you can heal as much as possible :)
Thank you :)
Looks like a black out quarter sleeve tattoo lol. Looks cool.
the way the Doc pulled your skin away from the skin graft when removing that tape thing made me cringe...I can't even imagine how painful that must have been...makes me run away
+TacoBurrito haha yeaaaa that definitely did not feel good! He was not gentle at all haha
TacoBurrito he was so rough
I didn't know what this surgery was , and I defiantly would have never guessed that he was transgender
Sometimes it's better to just get it over with because some patients will tap out or even pass out from pain. From what I hear as well it's less painful just ripping it rather than peeling
Morgan Williams same! I am impressed I'll say that much.
I hope you get better soon! I have so many friends who have mentioned wanting to have this done. This makes me happy to see someone changing their life for the better and overcoming the obstacles to get this far. 😍
Thank you! I am much better, here is an update video: ua-cam.com/video/XOVE3X1_Nms/v-deo.html
This was recommended but I learned a lot from it
Thanks for watching :)
This was on my recommendations however I learned so much, I hope for a speedy and healthy recovery for you
Thank you :)
Cody, I only recently found your channel, but all I can say is that you are an amazing man and I wish you the best going forwards. I am sorry for the hateful comments you have received, and I commend your patience with those who don't understand. It warms my heart to see how far you've come and how far you're going to go. I don't know if you'll see this. I just want you to know you've got people in your corner. :)
Aw seriously thank you this means so much! ❤️❤️
My God this looks like it hurts so bad wish u a speedy recovery love thank you for sharing your journey with us
I don’t typically comment on UA-cam videos but I’m super duper happy you found comfort with your identity and were able to transition into it. ❤️ I’m not trans myself but having many trans friends and seeing them finally feel comfortable and confident in themselves by changing up the way they dress/cutting their hair differently/getting on T makes me happy and I hope one day they’re able to make the changes they want to feel more comfortable in their own skin.
Thank you so much for being such an awesome support!
@@Codytalks11 Have they taken only skin from ur arm?
Thank you for informing me on what this looks like hope you have had a good day
Thanks :)
This was so helpful in helping me imagine what getting bottom surgery will actually be like and the recovery and also just that it's real this was a great video thank you for sharing this with us
Good for you to put this video up young lady, it has shown clearly the effects and how to treat after procedure. Hope you heal well. 💓
Not a lady.
Sorry for asking but HOW THE HECK DID THAT HAPPEN???
Edit: Just saw your pinned comment and realized im stupid AF.
I wish you a nice recovery.
haha thank you :)
Wompa Gompa lol nothing better to do
I didn't even know something like this existed until now that's crazy
what is it?
People never learn and you believe in a heaven I think only hell
I'm so happy you did what you got to do :) whatever makes you happy man
Thank you ❤️❤️
Hi sisters! Hi
Wo-man. She's still a woman, just looks like a man.
Sorry to hear that! I really hope that you’re arm is feeling a lot better! 🙏🏻♥️
This was so cool to see ! Learned a lot :-) wishing you the best ! Congratulations !!
Thank you :)
Such an inspiration ! Praying you get where you need to be ! Just do you don’t listen to what people have to say !
Thank you!
Beautiful, i wish you good recovery
Thank you :)
I hope you have a speedy recovery!!
Thanks for sharing this experience it really helps a lot more people learn about this great job
Your smile is the cutest 😭😊😍.
Aw thanks :)
L. productions yours isn't just letting you know
Operator_six savage
His tattoo “better feel pain than nothing” is it an ironic, don’t you think?
Marcliiin Zaldi it's also a lyric too three days grace pain
christian figueredo I know!!! I was looking the tattoo and those words were matching with the situation
It's like RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN on your wedding DAY!
christian figueredo its from stubborn love by the lumineers
DiabeticDyl4n 😂😂😂😂😂 damn it, you beat me to it.
I hope your arm gets better
Thanks it did!
@@Codytalks11 yayyyyy its better what happend
I'll get phalloplasty in a few years and I came here for information. I'm not scared at all, I'm mostly excited on see how it goes!
Yay good luck on your phallo journey!
Doesnt look badly at all my man, looks like its heeling up real nicely :)
+Aleksandar S thanks!!
Oh jeez, that looks painful! I cried just while getting the stitches pulled out of my foot after my surgery, and there were only like 15 stitches. You're very strong, keep up the good work my dude!
Ah stitches suck! Thank you!!
Hope you recover well ♥️
Thank you ❤️
Awesome video hope for an amazing recovery
I just kept reading your arm as He was squeezing the hell out of it..."better to feel pain than nothing at all". Oh ouch! In spite of everything, you really look and sound great Cody. Keep up the good work❤️
+Cinder Lock haha right? Ironic my arm says that 😂 thank you!!
Cody_talks Just popping in to say I love that song and band, and you are even more awesome for having that tattoo 👍
I was listening to them all day and then ran across this video in my recommended. Kismet lol
3 types of arthritis and a fracture in the lower back says different. I wish I could live with out pain.
It really looks good I am impressed. How does your arm feel? I have thought been thinking now it would be great but first top surgery is a must asap. I just had my gender changed officially so its all in the works. Your post are very inspiring. I look forward to your videos. Wishing a quick recovery
Thanks! My arm feels much better now but it throbbed like crazy for awhile. It is still probably the most painful part of this surgery to me. Congrats on the gender change!
IDK how I came across your video but I'm glad I did. 1st I have to say your arm looks great. I don't know your whole story yet cuz this is the first video I came across. But I had skin graft in my wrist back in 1972 I was 10 yrs old when I fell off a swing and my bone popped out of my skin. I was very lucky that they saved my hand, due to infection and stuff. Back then medicine wasn't like it is today. So I had to have my wrist sown to my side of my waist for 2 week's and being 10yrs old it was hard to do. But my wrist is crooked due to so many surgeries and cast after cast. I had a cast on for 6 months. Then braces etc etc. Yes I went threw alot. 9 surgeries total. I hate the way mine looks. I wish mine looked as half as nice as yours. I look forward to seeing your videos to find out more. New sub here for life.. take care 👍
I am sorry you had to go through having a skin graft as well! :( That sounds super intense especially for a 10 year old!
Cody_talks .. Thanks. I've been seeing a few of your videos after I saw the first one and had to see more. I'm happy for you, all that had to be hard on you also. A lot of pain inside and out. But your happy now 👍 thanks for taking your time to reply back 😁
God, how do you not have a total “wtf have I done to myself” moment after seeing this?
God bless you bro, I hope you get better!!! 👊
Thank you!
Speedy recovery mate
Thanks! I am all recovered now :)
Wooow!! Qué pasada, espero que te recuperes y estés genial. Eres un valiente!!!
Thanks for getting people to reality check. Showing the video you should have seen before you would do that surgery. Take care and try to be your best.
Wait a second... I don't know how I got here but I was like "it's just an arm injury" well the comment section said otherwise so I said oh lemme Google it. Damn... What ever makes you happy lol. Must be very strong to go through that.
Thank you lol :)
This man arm looks like Deku’s when he uses One for All
Lil Vacuum Cleaner DETROITTTTUUUUU SMASHHHHHHHH
Lil Vacuum Cleaner Bruh chill 😂 😂
Lil Vacuum Cleaner DAMN THATS FUCKED UP 😂 😂
Detroit smash
XDDDDDD
Yo this shit was gnarly have no idea how it came into my recommended but congratulations on the switch man ❤️🤘
Thanks :)
All the best with the next phase of ur life Cody!
Thank you :)
I first read the thumbnail and was soo confused and then read the title and was like "ooohhh, awesome!"
Honestly looks awesome for what it is man props
Thanks!
Wow that's a lot to go through but it will be worth it in the end. Wish you all the best for the future.
Thank you! Definitely worth it :)
I randomly found your vlogs on your transition and like listening to you experience everything. This video made me feel a bit uneasy, which was a somewhat new feeling for me. I've been on the internet for a long time and watched all kinds of gore out of curiosity without such an effect.
I plan on leaving my, uh, body parts for a transplant so some ftm or a disfigured soldier would not have to go through this.
Veronica M. It's been done before
Sometimes it doesn't work and doctors actually suggest to use your own skin because your body could reject it.
don't do that for this people
Truly amazing the human body is. You are brave for getting through this. I applaud you
Thank you!
Hope the recovery is quick
This really brought tears to my eyes. You have been through a lot.
I'm so back and forth on whether I want phalloplasty. I have a lot of bottom dysphoria, but I have kind of a thing about scars. If I can't tattoo over the scar once it's healed up, I dunno if I could do it.
You're a braver man than I.
If I were trans I'd probably be too scared to have the procedure done. It seems like a rough recovery process but I bet it'll be worth it in the end. Kudos, dude.
Definitely rough but worth it! Thanks man :)
Braver woman
Dr kind sounds very kind and helpful
Such an inspirational channel i struggle every day being mtf and wondering if ill ever be strong enough for surgery because our really scares me but i know i want it so badly so i can finally be happy with who i am
I wish for happiness for you. Be strong, you can do it!
Finally good things happening to good people like this guy
But he isnt a guy. At all. Now she can say she is, but err no. I dont see why she did this. Just to make herself a man because why not? I just cant see the logic. What you see below is what you are, maybe some chemical imbalances, but she directly forced some to do this, so if she felt like a man, she could've just pumped estrogen in, instead of amplifying the imbalance with testosterone. Sorry, but you cant become a man even if you look like one.
Stargun5502 who do you think you are? You are truly a disgusting human being to have the nerve to be this disrespectful. You may have your own opinions, but keep them to yourself. No one gives a shit about your negativity, because that will definitely break someone. If it is NOT about you, your body, ANYTHING, then keep all your negative shit to yourself. HE is fucking happy. And HE will do as he pleases to become who HE wants to be. He does NOT need your approval. You simply dont have to watch. But you took your precious time, to watch, & comment. And possibly even be subscribed. You are disgusting.
Stargun5502 But taking estrogen wouldn't have changed anything. It doesn't change how you feel or what you are. He could have stayed as he was but he wouldn't have been happy. Like ever... As someone who isn't in the same situation you just don't understand... It was his decision and he has to live with it. As long as he isn't hurting anyone and making himself feel better, where's the problem?
Chrisstina 47 He has a point.
Chrisstina 47 So me feeling like a dog and getting surgeries to become a dog is perfectly normal and acceptable? Gtfo shitter.
I know this video is very old but it was recommended so I watched it. Quite interesting. But I have a question and I'm extremely sorry if I offend you in any way, but I've never been more curious in my life. So: Do you have morning wood?
I don’t! Haha good question but I can’t get an erection until stage 2 surgery.
Cody_talks
Thank you for answering 😊
Peter_Panda i'm screaming.
@@ChaMartte same
You’re such a sweetheart, get well soon luv !!! 💙
I hope you have a good recovery 😀
II'm really hesitant to get bottom surgery because your arm post op (which looks great btw) is as thin as my arm is currently, so I am really worried about how tiny and thin my already tiny arms will be.
+Alex Creed hmm well you might be a good candidate for ALT?
Thank you for replying! I've thought about that, and I definitely may go that way, although it seems that using that site produces a much thicker penis than I'd generally like, but I will probably end up doing ALT. My former comment was more of me getting my thoughts out if that makes any sense? Again, thank you and good luck with your recovery!
+Alex Creed makes sense! :) and yea that is why I didn't go with ALT but never know 🤷🏻♂️ thanks and good luck to you too!
it doesnt necessarily need to come from the arm, it can come from the leg as well , and possible other places but i dont know much about it tbh.
Alex Creed don t do it
I want a phalloplasty but the thought of any part of my body being so scarred makes me uncomfortable. I guess it's self-esteem but I don't want people staring at me. I don't know, it's hard to explain. I have every intention of getting bottom surgery but the donor sites gross me out, I think I'm gonna do the side/back one
Yo! Luckily there are options of donor sites, however there are things to consider when choosing one. I went for the arm because the sensation is better considering the nerve is a sensory nerve whereas the side/back nerve is a motor nerve and the sensation may not be so good. It all depends on preference, when the time comes I am sure you will decide what is right for you!
I want all the surgeries but I'd scratch my scars and stitches all day
The Young Advocate this is really normal to feel that and squirmish of getting my breasts removed even. All I want is an operation that will just take out my female parts pretty much. But gettin that. Skin relocated doesn't mean the other area will heal it will never look the same again but you can get some killer tattoos!
The Young Advocate u can always cover the area with tattoos as well if u wanted :)
Cody_talks you are incredibly gracious and polite.
Cody! Somehow your dr mentioning put your arms in the air brought me to "Word Up" XD.
But anyways just wanted to give you a HUGE thanks for your recommendation for talking to Dr. Chen for my stricture. He was super thorough, the consultation was available by phone. Their billing department has been super fast about insurance stuff and I'm scheduled for surgery with him October 4th. I cannot thank you enough for the recommendation! Thank you!
I hope your arm feels better soon! That is a gnarly wound, but it looks on the mend! Take care brotha!
Hey!!! so glad you get to have Chen repair your stricture!! Best of luck on the 4th and tell him Hi for me!! :)
Thanks for the luck, I'm going to need it. It's kind of gotten bad.... I'll tell him you said hello! :)
This is an incredibly intimate and personal thing you've shown us -- not many people would have the courage to do so. Thank you for using this opportunity to educate others
thank you for watching :)
Id really love to see phalloplasty surgery be revamped somehow. Currently it leaves such a large scar from the skin graft and the penis itself from what I've seen doesn't look as natural as many vaginoplasty counterparts. Hopefully in some years with new technology and procedures phalloplasties will be more realistic and leave less scarring
They have advanced a lot but yes it would be nice if things kept advancing
Cody_talks they surely will :) new innovations in medicine are happening every day and I'm excited to see what options the future holds for those looking for phalloplasties and similar ftm surgeries. Thanks for the response and I hope your recovery has been smooth, I only stumbled upon this video today without realizing it's over a year old haha
what is phalloplasty
Newspaper 101 most commonly a phalloplasty is a surgery to construct a penis, like in the case of this video. A skin graft is taken from the arm or torso to creat the shaft and head of the penis and the urethra is redirected into the new penis so that it's basically a fully functioning and regular penis. It's pretty rad
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You are a very nice person, I think I might subscribe.
Thanks :)
Omg looks so painful god bless you ouch!!! Keep staying strong!!!
That is gnarly! Scars are pretty cool. Looks like dark ink
Wow! I hope I don't come off as rude for saying this but that honestly looks cool! Hope you are doing well now! 💞
Thanks :) I am.
Prayers that your journey goes all up Hill from here!
Thank you ❤️❤️
You are very strong to say that is your arm and for the future I hope it gets better I believe man
Thanks :)
@@Codytalks11 Brother in no time you'll be riding bikes, exercising, showing off the scar to chicks gaining laid points trust :)
From. Dominican Republic we hope you feel better 👍
Thank you!
Get better soon and stay strong
ik this isnt really relevant but you have such a nice smile :,)
Aw thanks! :)
Wow ....good luck to u in ur life Cody....
In the name of science. Respect for you to show us my guy
Damn, I’d probably panic seeing my arm like that, and probably ask a bunch of questions like “Is this normal, am I gonna be ok, am I gonna lose my arm??”
Hope your arm gets better!
- I’m so confused on what’s going on I seen this in my recommended.... but other than that I hope you get well soon and the recovery is well 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Holy shit I didn't know they did this for a phalloplasty, that looks freaking painful!! you have my respect, you're very brave.
Thank you :)