Narcissists need you STUCK ON STUPID ~ Don't say YES, just SMILE 😎

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  • @dougr6269
    @dougr6269 10 місяців тому +2

    Earlier today I was thinking about all the stuff I went through with this one narcissist in my life, I saw it as a whole, some of them partner with another narcissist in the family, a friend, whomever, I saw how cunning he was, how evil it was, I went into a downward spiral that lasted a long time, I turned on myself but something kept me safe, sane and gave me strength and yet I kept staying around these people, I was clueless. Earlier today I was thinking about that and at the end of it I said to myself, I have peace now and then later I just happened to watch this video. Bless you Jesse. ❤

  • @antroneb1
    @antroneb1 Рік тому +7

    There’s dumb asses with crowns out there trying to take you down for speaking truth. Don’t stop!

  • @salettamyers8845
    @salettamyers8845 Рік тому +13

    I have found it helpful to have a piece of paper titled "You better never forget" if I catch myself ruminating- the things you write down on it is the best throat punch ever to shake that dirt off & start praising Father above for giving you another day to have a heart that can forgive but sometimes needs a reminder that you are alive & well cause He alone saved you from the grave the narc & all the flying monkeys dug for you! Praise Father for sending you a Coach that can wake you up after all the mind fudgery & say Not today saten, not today💪👊👊

    • @shereebarends1997
      @shereebarends1997 Рік тому +1

      True the coach is divine Providence if there ever was reason to tell myself to shake that shit off and take a walk on the beach.

    • @djnquire
      @djnquire 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for sharing

  • @Denise-tt1hq
    @Denise-tt1hq Рік тому +5

    God knows how much I appreciate your honesty.Most people don't understand that the Truth is basically what God is.❤And in a big way truth is Holiness.

  • @Truthteller1s
    @Truthteller1s Рік тому +25

    Chico got me smiling!!

    • @oregonwildboy
      @oregonwildboy Рік тому +2

      Same, I escaped Oregon and have sadly figured out I'm dealing with a more covert version of toxic now in my new home state.

    • @lailalien4663
      @lailalien4663 Рік тому +1

      😂

    • @starr1356
      @starr1356 Рік тому +1

      @@oregonwildboy You know the game and this time you make the rules! Stay strong and keep smiling!😀

  • @Vixindamix
    @Vixindamix Рік тому +2

    Last time I smiled I got chin checked by the mufka… he can’t stand when I smirk at his bullshit

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому +3

    "THE NARC WIFE EXPERIENCE" Yup, thats a heavy price.. That really resonated with the 12 years of my life. NO more!
    Thanks Chico

  • @DewBee_Devine_Spirituality
    @DewBee_Devine_Spirituality 10 місяців тому +1

    TY for the healing work you share.😊 ~Love and Light~Blessings ❤

  • @enjoylife4life
    @enjoylife4life Рік тому +1

    😅 allow them to think they are breaking up with you. Absolutely amazing. Definitely a good one.

  • @LeadsometoHeavendragafewtohell

    And listen to this man he know what's up

  • @williamjackson2034
    @williamjackson2034 Рік тому +3

    Your grey hair looks greateristic. I never die mine and am inspired to continue not to do so. Thank You for the great directions and work you do J.

  • @lynanndensmore6487
    @lynanndensmore6487 Рік тому +5

    Hi. Before he disappeared he gave me a shark tooth necklace and I finally threw it away and I am feeling better because I am not thinking of him like I was. Thank you and you have got me smiling ☺

  • @Areyousurrraboutthat
    @Areyousurrraboutthat Рік тому +3

    God is so mysterious

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +5

    I love the way u hv created this segment of some truths from Warriors
    Tht are on the other side❤ its healing

  • @goddontmakemistake
    @goddontmakemistake Рік тому +3

    Chico got me smiling. Thank you beloved God bless you Peace

  • @SherylRobertson-p9x
    @SherylRobertson-p9x 11 місяців тому

    Chico Got Me Smiling, Staying OUT of the Harem.

  • @dynahmaranatha2954
    @dynahmaranatha2954 Рік тому +7

    THANK YOU.... When I'm overwhelmed with all that comes with this crap and I try to talk to my family, somehow it always goes sideways, because they just want it to stop. They are tired of seeing you hurt and seen the destruction and watching life's being snuffed out.. they can't understand it because they didn't live it but they just want it to stop. The only reason I would be talkin to them about it is because I'm trying to tell them how I am making it stop and I just want to hear them tell me that I did something right and that I'm strong. I always stayed who I am, no matter what and I just want them to tell me that I am something special, especially because of what I endured..... So thank you again ‼️💪

    • @salettamyers8845
      @salettamyers8845 Рік тому +4

      I remember telling my sister I'm grateful she doesn't know how it feels cause we all have different paths we must walk- you got this Ms.Sunshine! Smile & try asking them how their day is & make it a goal that you know who you are inside, A beautiful warrior that has trampled snakes & slayed dragons & nobody knows but us💪👊👊

    • @CaliCoast805_lovin_life
      @CaliCoast805_lovin_life Рік тому +1

      YOU ARE ENOUGH❣️❣️

  • @starr1356
    @starr1356 Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smiling!! 5 Mississippis....Shake it off! 😀❤👍

  • @chartydurrant744
    @chartydurrant744 Рік тому

    we totally hear you! We TOTALLY revere you! We WINCE BUCKLE BUT DO NOT BEND. Thank you!

  • @brendalhunt9720
    @brendalhunt9720 Рік тому +2

    I’m finally laughing at the things he said in this video after the discard, I couldn’t do it I couldn’t laugh. That was hilarious he’s hilarious

  • @Scorpio200
    @Scorpio200 Рік тому +3

    Haven't listened to you in a quite a few months .. just been busy with other things.. but one of the profound things that you said that stuck out to me was if you're not somehow able to heal and you get stuck in the rumination which happens to me you'll miss finding your tribe and possibly even miss out on finding your person in that tribe !!that hit me!!! because as we age literally all that's out there is the bottom of the chip bag people with a plethora Abyss of unhealed wounds takers emotionally retarded individuals unable to self-reflect .... but when you're awakened you see it so fast that's the one thing I'm thankful for knowing what I know now but I don't want to miss out either😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @saroyaking8757
    @saroyaking8757 Рік тому +1

    Chico got me smiling...

  • @brianmccullough213
    @brianmccullough213 Рік тому +3

    Chico got me smiling

  • @JosephtheDreamer-h3r
    @JosephtheDreamer-h3r Рік тому +2

    They want you riding on that short bus forever. What what ???

  • @nicoller4042
    @nicoller4042 Рік тому +5

    This soul tie is a real thing. Been one year since i cut contact with her/it👹 and i still think of her. And i am one that never let them abuse me. Immediately when i saw the red flags, i left. In a way to cut it when its still the love bombing stage, leaves it feel like unfinished business because i mostly had the great moments.
    She contacted me after 1 year of me walking away and just a day in contact with this demonic energy made me feel heavy. Very heavy. I blocked her for good. This demon can fuck up even the strongest if you allow it, even a little, in your energy field. Stay away. Light wins 🎉🎉🎉

  • @dynahmaranatha2954
    @dynahmaranatha2954 Рік тому +4

    I've came to the point that I don't care anymore what happens with him or the flying monkeys... I don't care if the move their best life now ‼️😂 it doesn't matter to me because I know the truth and I know that I'm free from the lies and the demons. So they can live it up or not... I simply don't care. It's on them and it doesn't belong to me.... Anymore ‼️☝️☺️

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 Рік тому +4

    Damnnnn!! All I need to stay is YOU ROCK!! Hit the like button!!! And I been smiling for 3 yrs , blew the bridge up❤️

  • @onlyonce1707
    @onlyonce1707 Рік тому +2

    You're right - you are trying to teach how to play solitaire!

  • @aSpeakerOfTheTruth
    @aSpeakerOfTheTruth Рік тому +1

    😂lol@ narc-wife experience! That strengthened me!

  • @sarashappyhives1828
    @sarashappyhives1828 Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smiling! 😊 What What!

  • @maryadame44
    @maryadame44 Рік тому

    No, Chico got me crying because I realized what I have to do.

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +2

    Jst a touch on the elbow frm a warrior a look it is diff & healing
    Iv been out & abt this weekend
    Listening to music
    Dancing
    I discovered this when myself ex Narc departed
    I was never allowed to freely express my self by dancing freely by my self with others jst totally lost in it
    Then going home & thanking the good lord for friends & fun ❤

  • @serenaison2460
    @serenaison2460 Рік тому +2

    Thanks sport😅

  • @SilentFigure1
    @SilentFigure1 Рік тому +2

    Chico gots me smilin

  • @enjoylife4life
    @enjoylife4life Рік тому +1

    You are bringing the heat. Lol I love the information.

  • @JeanBean-zt3ry
    @JeanBean-zt3ry 8 місяців тому

    Chico got me smiling! And laughing, and sometimes crying like a baby.. but it’s all good…im learning how to yield this new weapon I have which is my new awareness -with responsibility. And to do it intelligently and as peacefully as possible. Freedom is SWEET!😌
    I keep getting flashes of the Narcs deception and brutality , the manipulation and disrespect. And on other days I’ll remember when I escaped by the Grace of God with my life and my sanity. I’m trying to get back my new new feelings. I hadn’t had those for a little minute….. but I don’t give up and I know I am walking the walk. I’m a wounded warrior but I thank God EVERY DAY for you Jesse. You talked me through it all and I was able to do it the Warrior way and I’m going to pass it forward . I’m thinking of ways to teach the young people about this before they have to get their asses handed to them like we did … we will see where that goes. But I have some ideas. I love all of you warriors and pray for you every day!!!🙏❤

  • @KimCleesattle-hp6mz
    @KimCleesattle-hp6mz Рік тому +1

    So BlessedTo foundThisChannel💯💜 5:48

  • @glendavandenack2667
    @glendavandenack2667 Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smilin'

  • @danawhite8862
    @danawhite8862 Рік тому +1

    Every man in his life time needs to thank his faults. As no man thoroughly understands a truth until he has first contended against it. That was Emerson's essay's on compensation.
    And I thought yes. Thanks Chico for making me smile!

  • @CaliCoast805_lovin_life
    @CaliCoast805_lovin_life Рік тому +5

    Chico got me smilin' 😁🤣 Thank you so much Jessie! LET'S LOVE FROM HEALED HEARTS WARRIORS❣️❣️💜😀💯🔥💪

  • @bisquts1
    @bisquts1 Рік тому +3

    Chico, I am smiling. I do understand that I still have a long way to go. Some days I feel like I can stand tall. There are other days, not so much. I am realizing this may be a problem I’ll work hard on for a long long time. After all, I stayed for 41 years. That doesn’t mean I am going to curl up on my couch. It means I have to build my armor stronger. Learn to trust myself. Learn to make better choices. I understand that I have a giving heart. This is new territory for me so I proceed with caution. Peace and love ❤

  • @williamjackson2034
    @williamjackson2034 Рік тому +4

    Chico be having me smiling a hole lot. He equally be having me with the serious concentration look on my face. Chico helps dissolve the fog on a path that is already narrow. Thank You Chico.

  • @manessaland4267
    @manessaland4267 5 місяців тому

    CHICO GOT ME SMILING😊❤

  • @tyreewilliams7954
    @tyreewilliams7954 Рік тому +1

    Chico got me smiling 💯💯

  • @elanaseger2868
    @elanaseger2868 Рік тому +1

    You are awesome and funny! Love you for your Honest dialog. You make me laugh, so needed daily… tv should be your next venue. Don’t change!. Thank you…Blessings

  • @dianechriske530
    @dianechriske530 Рік тому +2

    Thank you , had a good cry Good bless you 💕

  • @kimlarsen5098
    @kimlarsen5098 Рік тому +1

    Chico made me smile, love it.

  • @AshleyJax
    @AshleyJax 9 місяців тому

    Absolutely spiritual warfare

  • @tmrsfitz1967
    @tmrsfitz1967 Рік тому +2

    Hampster wheel 🙏🏽🙌💯💜

  • @secretebalance
    @secretebalance Рік тому +1

    chico got me smiling

  • @melaniejennings2169
    @melaniejennings2169 Рік тому +2

    Cheeo got me smiling 😃 ❤❤❤

  • @badkarma888
    @badkarma888 Рік тому +1

    Thanks bro ...

  • @ornellarose6378
    @ornellarose6378 Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smiling!!!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @cindy9032
    @cindy9032 9 місяців тому

    Jesse....words of wisdom....and even from those warriors who wrote in...
    I believe I am healed...but, I will always keep my head on a swivel...
    Thanks...

  • @divineone66
    @divineone66 Рік тому

    Kudos to facing your fears, the sword fight was pretty funny too, I was smiling along with you and could feel the exhilaration 🎉🎉🎉

  • @shereebarends1997
    @shereebarends1997 Рік тому

    Chico I. M following what and how you say because there. S this authenticity to your expressions that can only come from real experience. Thank you for reminding us that this is an unlearning process and that we can get stuck and cling onto our old ways and never heal at all. Thanks for the giggles and Linda Linda listen...

  • @ProphetessLaTasha
    @ProphetessLaTasha Рік тому +1

    Mustard see lol

  • @judygregg1852
    @judygregg1852 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much!!! ❤

  • @ShirleneFloyd
    @ShirleneFloyd Рік тому

    Mr. Chico got mmmeee smiling like😊

  • @dianechriske530
    @dianechriske530 Рік тому +2

    Smoking 👍

  • @Jesica-kk8dd
    @Jesica-kk8dd 25 днів тому

    Chico got me cheezin

  • @RonicaTravis-ok9cf
    @RonicaTravis-ok9cf Рік тому +2

    Golden Nuggets Chico...Great Message

  • @KarenMazzola-q5r
    @KarenMazzola-q5r Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smiling 🙂
    Solid

  • @lesleyellenmomberger4548
    @lesleyellenmomberger4548 11 місяців тому

    Chico got me smiling 😃 😊 🙂

  • @DianaMartinez-ro6pg
    @DianaMartinez-ro6pg Рік тому +2

    Chico got me smiling ☺

  • @divineone66
    @divineone66 Рік тому

    Yesterday and today I was given the opportunity to see what yuor speaking. It felt really great❤

  • @LetNarcGo
    @LetNarcGo 11 місяців тому

    Chico got me smiling 😅

  • @awetephrem
    @awetephrem Рік тому +1

    You got me smiling😊Thank you😊

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +1

    Had to hide my smile
    Then i thought
    No its
    Truth
    But bunny be gone 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maryjames1852
    @maryjames1852 Рік тому

    Chico got me smiling! Thank you my friend.

  • @aaaalltheway9805
    @aaaalltheway9805 Рік тому +1

    We don’t Indeed xx thank you

  • @CarlyFaith15
    @CarlyFaith15 Рік тому +4

    Man Jesse, I was hanging onto every word of your story. And then you said, I gave him the stare. And, I puffed out my chest and said out loud, not the Care Bear stare!!!! 😅 Oops, my bad.

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +1

    Jesse u look differentwith ur hair back
    I do hv wild curls
    Its encouraging to see diff styles for thi warrior
    Thank u lots of hello to ur office gals who take good care of u & the tribe❤

  • @elanaseger2868
    @elanaseger2868 Рік тому

    Chico got me smiling!!!!❤

  • @laedeobroni
    @laedeobroni Рік тому +2

    Wow, you're the third person who told me that
    Yeah, I feel their energy
    There pull .....
    Yup, Yup, Yup
    1 of the 48 laws of Power-Robert Greene
    Says : Don't be the smartest person in the room because people will not like you, let them seem smarter ....
    I beg to differ.... if I'm the smartest person in the room.... I'm in the wrong room-Laede Obroni
    💞

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +1

    Chico got me smiling 😊 always does 😁🙏💖

  • @Ca2rie59
    @Ca2rie59 Рік тому +1

    Chico I’m getting there….

  • @Tracy77420
    @Tracy77420 Рік тому +1

    Chico got me smiling! 💜🙏✌

  • @salettamyers8845
    @salettamyers8845 Рік тому +3

    Chico got me smiling💪👊👊 Thanks Coach!

  • @j.m1928
    @j.m1928 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for an “ah ha” tonight

  • @nancysmith9665
    @nancysmith9665 4 місяці тому

    Narc husband experience too lol

  • @dannymurillo1
    @dannymurillo1 Рік тому +1

    🙏🏻

  • @tabathahardison2481
    @tabathahardison2481 Рік тому +1

    I'm laughing 😂😂😂

  • @HighFancyLove
    @HighFancyLove Рік тому +3

    Chico got me smiling ❤

  • @SgtPepper396
    @SgtPepper396 Рік тому +1

    Namaste’ ✌️💙😎

  • @KimCleesattle-hp6mz
    @KimCleesattle-hp6mz Рік тому +1

    2:30 4:55

  • @KimCleesattle-hp6mz
    @KimCleesattle-hp6mz Рік тому +1

    0:14

  • @SilentFigure1
    @SilentFigure1 Рік тому +1

    Still have not joined my bad. I will really working on it not a lot but...
    I really appreciate the Friday nite 30 minute session going to listen twice.
    T.y. got kicked off Twitter again for truth.

  • @LeadsometoHeavendragafewtohell

    😁😅🤣🤪 watch what happens next I can change my mood with in sec look if u fill a bad filling watch something that make u laughter it help guys ill let yall know how to start ur healing

  • @Milky-l5n
    @Milky-l5n Рік тому +2

    H E L P kids

  • @joannespiritu07
    @joannespiritu07 Рік тому +1

    😊

  • @amandaredeagle9572
    @amandaredeagle9572 11 місяців тому

    I’m struggling good ppl. I have no family and a codependency on a covert narcissist. I’m in therapy, but currently stuck with this person financially even though I work my ass off. Plz pray for me.

  • @childofchrist7625
    @childofchrist7625 Рік тому +1

  • @julieraymond6870
    @julieraymond6870 Рік тому +1

    At war for my daughter I see she doesn't 😢😢😢

  • @TartarianTreasures
    @TartarianTreasures Рік тому +1

    Would u like a pendant ? Made by me ? Which stone? I have more labradorite coming ...A gift for the tactics and validation im finally gaining! ❤🎉 lmk 🎉

  • @Scorpio200
    @Scorpio200 Рік тому +1

    And how do you know I'm on the couch all the time I've been stuck on the couch and in the bed for the past 3 years😂😂😂😂😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @jesusfirst-xr6ub
    @jesusfirst-xr6ub Рік тому +2

    🔥👍👍

  • @cynthiahughes5504
    @cynthiahughes5504 9 місяців тому

    Hey you took high road I'm proud you...wish my narcissist would of defended me instead or belittledme by say I deserved it ..I left bar walked home ..he stayed..😢😢

  • @Imgoodthanks-h1u
    @Imgoodthanks-h1u Рік тому +1

    😅

  • @SLS64
    @SLS64 Рік тому +1

    😊😊😊😊😊😊