Why You Should Never SIMP for Women that Are Not Attracted to You

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • In this video, I discuss why you should never simp for women who aren't attracted to you.
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  • @staygrompy9197
    @staygrompy9197 6 місяців тому +94

    Even simping for a woman that is attracted to you is a bad idea. She will start taking you for granted and taking advantage of your unconditional loyalty

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +19

      Yeah, very true! I agree with you.

    • @anton_c8gur
      @anton_c8gur 6 місяців тому +4

      if you approached directly she already lost attraction

    • @Scalerlord
      @Scalerlord 6 місяців тому +7

      ​@@anton_c8gurNot true.But in general the girl has to be attracted to you more than you are attracted to her.Otherwise you wont be masculine in that relationship

    • @BrianChristian-up7tk
      @BrianChristian-up7tk 4 місяці тому

      I dunno, but I just love how Danny Devito is the universal definition of what the most unattractive male is supposed to look like.

  • @TwistedLullabies
    @TwistedLullabies 6 місяців тому +67

    If a girl isn't showing interest witnin the first few seconds, give up. Physical attraction cannot be negotiated

    • @k1mura92
      @k1mura92 6 місяців тому +18

      I love it when black pill concepts gets condensed down to short oneliners like this. "Physical attraction cannot be negotiated" is so elegant, so true - it is beautiful.

  • @user-wp1nf1zj7h
    @user-wp1nf1zj7h 6 місяців тому +67

    Women decide everything in 13 milliseconds.
    "Winning" a woman over is a fairytail

    • @ronloc3309
      @ronloc3309 5 місяців тому +5

      And yet every piece of film in history will try their hardest to push that narrative because average people like being delusional

    • @Fogwell94
      @Fogwell94 Місяць тому

      It gives hope. And it's a good thing, it makes the economy more forward lol

  • @GamingSkeptic
    @GamingSkeptic 6 місяців тому +32

    There was a girl I used to give a ride to school back in college. After about a week, I asked her out to the movies but she said she was busy so I stopped giving her rides. When she called I told her I was busy. After 2 attempts she just stopped asking and she blocked me on Instagram.

    • @davidrr8724
      @davidrr8724 6 місяців тому +5

      Same here! We are basically neighbors so the fact of giving her rides doesn't bother me, i spend basically the same amount of gasoline, but idk if she's using me anyway. She shows me mild interest and throw me indirects through WhatsApp status, i'm a JBW HTN so i really hope that she's into me, but idk if i'm blinded or something.

    • @ulizez89
      @ulizez89 5 місяців тому

      ​@@davidrr8724 Just ask her out and find out, best way to deal with crushes. Either things go well or they go badly and goodbye crush and goodbye simping!

  • @1whospeaks
    @1whospeaks 5 місяців тому +7

    My rule is if a dude treats random girls better than his friend, or worse, his own mother, there's no point. They are beyond saving.

  • @BPR779
    @BPR779 6 місяців тому +47

    Had a friend who used to tell stuff about me and clown me to my face in front of a girl who never liked him she used to mock his height in front of his face he still kept trying to get with her with no luck. To be honest most men dont have true friends because once a girl comes along they switch up very quick seen this happen plenty of times.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +13

      Yeah, this is very true in a lot of cases. There are definitely guys out there that will talk you up to a girl you are attracted to but most guys won't. I will be making a video on this.

    • @wink941
      @wink941 6 місяців тому +20

      rehab made a vid about this too, i found its true more for friends who are desperate for women, i've never seen any of my good looking friends throw me under the bus, even the other way around, one of them set me up with a friend of his, most dudes who mocked me(seriously-) were the ones who didn't have a chance with the girl in the first place.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +21

      @@wink941 TRUTH. It's typically the guys who have no options or very little options that will try and talk you down in front of a girl.

    • @univuniveral9713
      @univuniveral9713 6 місяців тому +9

      I see it everyday. Even when the friend has gotten the girl, he keeps trying to emasculate me, teaching me how to be a man, for instance how to knot a tie which I had taught him.

    • @chadfox6030
      @chadfox6030 6 місяців тому

      Facts 💯 especially the simpy dudes in the United snakes 🐍🤦🏿🙄 most dues in the US are pathetic simps never to be trusted . I found this out the hard way. A woman doesn’t even have to be a super attractive woman, it can be an average or even below, and there will be a dude or dudes in the group who will start simping and cracking corny jokes 🤦🏿

  • @miguelg51
    @miguelg51 6 місяців тому +16

    Spot on brother.
    Attraction is not a choice, so men should understand if the girl is not physically attracted to you, thus she will not be sexually interested in you. Many guys think favors, gifts, physical objects, expensive dinners, over validation, will result in nothing but a waste of your time= simping.
    I personally do 0 attention/validation to these modern females, specifically if there is nothing in return, a one way street relationship is unhealthy and humiliating. It happens what I do is whenever one these women ask for something or a favor, absolutely not, then I say what can you reciprocate me with; 99% of the time: no response, which is a win for myself: my dignity, my precious time, and my strong value as a man.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +2

      Thanks man!

    • @cerdic6586
      @cerdic6586 5 місяців тому

      But attraction can change. There are plenty of examples of men persisting in pursuing a woman until she changes her mind.

  • @sdasdgfdgd2931
    @sdasdgfdgd2931 6 місяців тому +15

    Driving 12 hours for a woman, that isn't even attracted to you is crazy.

    • @rodrigoherrera3962
      @rodrigoherrera3962 5 місяців тому

      As a man without car.. i dont even left the city

  • @sirninjaraiden
    @sirninjaraiden 6 місяців тому +9

    "Narutwo" lol

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon 6 місяців тому +9

    No attention for low interest women. You’ll respect yourself for it

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +1

      Agreed Leon! Hope you're doing well.

  • @العهدالجديد-ن9خ
    @العهدالجديد-ن9خ 6 місяців тому +14

    It buffles me that only 14% of adult males in United States are 6 ft or above and most people you know are tall and 6 ft

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies 6 місяців тому

      @@cmdrmonkey Not really. I graduated school in May and the males there weren't that tall

    • @ronaldlugo9967
      @ronaldlugo9967 6 місяців тому

      The numbers don't take into account that those men below 6 feet are boomers that you don't even see when going outside, so millennials & zoomers are taller than 5'10"

    • @Account-vx1gf
      @Account-vx1gf 6 місяців тому +3

      I really depends on where you live and the quality of food depending on the states.

    • @neox9369
      @neox9369 2 місяці тому

      @@Account-vx1gf 98% of Americans eat poison from the womb and their parents consumed garbage before their conception, it’s just genetics.

  • @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell
    @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell 6 місяців тому +27

    No woman is attracted to me. Over.

    • @user-gl5cj6tg5i
      @user-gl5cj6tg5i 6 місяців тому +14

      the good thing abt being sub5 is you dont have to worry abt none of this shit...your at peace

    • @Facecel_
      @Facecel_ 6 місяців тому +2

      Same😂

  • @Arejen03
    @Arejen03 6 місяців тому +8

    I've been there once in my late teens, i learned to never do this again no free attention no free help

  • @basedgamer6624
    @basedgamer6624 6 місяців тому +5

    Been there back in highschool I was simping over this Indian girl, she even tried to get me to do her homework once thank god I said no. Fast forward asked her to prom and she said no. Glad she did, it made me become a better person.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +1

      Good for you for not doing her homework!

  • @StanDaMan4487
    @StanDaMan4487 6 місяців тому +8

    The future for oofy doofy Betabuxx Deluxe

    • @Trynottoblink
      @Trynottoblink 3 місяці тому +1

      Always nice to see a fellow Rehab Room subscriber in the wild

  • @jrd3675
    @jrd3675 6 місяців тому +4

    This happens WAY too often.

    • @unisangalaxystudio
      @unisangalaxystudio 6 місяців тому +2

      This story was extremely familiar it happened to me not that extreme but something to the effect, am done changing western woman even tho I only ask out 2 girls one was japanese girl that was decade ago the other last month the western woman....I stay miserable and suffer alone like I did 2015 to 2023

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +3

      Agreed!

  • @thelight3270
    @thelight3270 6 місяців тому +12

    A guide for how to dress in a corporate workplace would be so helpful

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +5

      Yeah, that's a solid suggestion!

  • @crawler561
    @crawler561 6 місяців тому +11

    It seems these are oneitis symptoms. But to be honest as much as I can relate to the emotional pain of these 2 guys lets be real the first guy whom you named Bob had some girls in his roster in his past. He forgot the common sense instantly after he met the latina girl is just a misfortune.
    Your second bro was a failed normie (chubby) like your first bro. Both had the potential to reach high tier normie land to actually have increased chances in dating.
    But in my opinion these instances of severe simp actions are almost solely applicable to guys who had ZERO success for many many years. And simping is just a symptom for lack of intimacy.
    And this is also why I don't like the crap advice " Just get to know women in social circles brooo". The mental damage of such rejections in social circles is so painful that there should be a warning text like in advertisements for medical substances.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +8

      Great points man! I will be making a video about social circle/"preselection" soon and the pros and cons of it.

  • @DavidW-ng5zv
    @DavidW-ng5zv Місяць тому

    I've just had a oneitis situation where I dated this girl over the last two months. At the beginning she was very attracted to me (easy to hook up with, physically affectionate, easy to meet up with, etc) and then I started to simp for her and ignored her red flags. I bought a small gift for her, readily available, etc.
    The other day she messaged me to say "You're a nice guy, but after Sunday i think we want different things from a relationship and so I can't see this being more than friends." It was brutal. For context, we went to the beach on Sunday and then went back to hers to f*ck.
    Big lesson learned.

  • @nananyantakyi1549
    @nananyantakyi1549 6 місяців тому +3

    Damn, the first dude was a simp..Hopefully he looks back at those moments and cringe..

  • @willclouded
    @willclouded 6 місяців тому +3

    One other problem is Women may have some interest but get turned off with the smallest thing by getting to know each other.

  • @Gabriella_Macy
    @Gabriella_Macy 6 місяців тому +8

    At the end of the day.. you could be the most handsome tall guy in the room but if she doesn’t see you has her type she’s not going to take you seriously. The best thing to do is to move on

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +8

      I somewhat agree with you. If she finds you very attractive, you don't have to her typical type.

  • @chaosdimension6433
    @chaosdimension6433 6 місяців тому +2

    ascended is like the optimistic DVDR

  • @JamFlava1
    @JamFlava1 6 місяців тому +2

    I never simped for a women….They simped for me for some reason wanted my attention but still didn’t care…Probably because i don’t come off as desperate and pathetic like those other guys who praise them like a dog….

  • @Account-vx1gf
    @Account-vx1gf 6 місяців тому +1

    Let’s just say Bob wasn’t so nice and jolly anymore

  • @cerdic6586
    @cerdic6586 5 місяців тому +1

    We have simps to blame for a generation of entitled and narcissistic young women

  • @springheeljak145
    @springheeljak145 6 місяців тому +2

    Danny married his looksmatch and is living his best life, leave him alone!

  • @lightyagami7734
    @lightyagami7734 6 місяців тому +5

    Naru2 😂

  • @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell
    @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell 6 місяців тому

    I busted after a stacy keeps making eye contact with me every time we pass by. Maybe she just wants to show disgust.

  • @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell
    @Kpop_stole_foids_fromcurrycell 6 місяців тому +4

    How can you tell a woman is interested in you?

    • @tbrown4080
      @tbrown4080 6 місяців тому +2

      She will give you attention, subtle signals and say things that you have to pick up on but if she tries to leave or has to do something game over. Always check for body language too smiles and such.

    • @chuckcollins2349
      @chuckcollins2349 6 місяців тому +1

      She'll make it easy,its not rocket science.

    • @bricksblood200
      @bricksblood200 6 місяців тому

      She put so much attention in you.

    • @geekiepooh
      @geekiepooh 6 місяців тому

      ​@chuckcollins2349
      Yup, it is. What do men do when they like a woman? They help do things for her, compliment her, treat her. Sacrifice going out with friends to be with her. Women can do the same for a man they like.

    • @bricksblood200
      @bricksblood200 6 місяців тому

      @@geekiepooh exactly, they are same like us, the difference is they are more picky.

  • @dave-oh3549
    @dave-oh3549 5 місяців тому

    Yeah, I realised I simped for a girl recently, not doing it again.

  • @intelligentdonut6770
    @intelligentdonut6770 6 місяців тому +2

    I feel bad for that BBCcel in this story. I hope he realized his worth and went to Poland to BBCmax. I’ve never done favors for girls even if I liked them. The most I might have done with give them the extra pencil I had in my bookbag.

    • @ascended266
      @ascended266  6 місяців тому +3

      Yeah, he actually never went abroad. I should let him know about Poland.

    • @JiggerjoggernoHGer
      @JiggerjoggernoHGer 6 місяців тому +1

      Poland ? Do you want him to get gtaV’d?

    • @Johnny78674
      @Johnny78674 6 місяців тому

      @@JiggerjoggernoHGer Yeah lol, he should go to Brazil, Caribbean or Africa.

    • @intelligentdonut6770
      @intelligentdonut6770 6 місяців тому

      @@JiggerjoggernoHGerno but maybe he will have that “bad boy” effect. And run dark triad bbc game there. Is Poland even dangerous? Maybe he should go to Germany instead bc they eat BBC for breakfast over there.

    • @intelligentdonut6770
      @intelligentdonut6770 6 місяців тому

      @@JiggerjoggernoHGeroh I don’t know much about the safety of Poland. Maybe he should try Germany instead.

  • @your_engineer9492
    @your_engineer9492 5 місяців тому

    I don't know why but even though i am quite harsh with women, they still are nice to me. 😂

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon 6 місяців тому

    Shoes and handbags is how gold diggers get chumps who aren’t rich

  • @user-gl5cj6tg5i
    @user-gl5cj6tg5i 6 місяців тому +1

    An average guy problem. Women will simp for chad...and sub5 will not get a chance to simp at all

    • @tonyadams8812
      @tonyadams8812 6 місяців тому

      ''Women will simp for chad'' 💯
      This is why if a female doesn't treat me like a Chad or her favourite male celebrity that she would f@ck on the 1st date, I move on.
      My one regret about females is that I didn't have my current mindset 10-20 years ago.

  • @cccycling5835
    @cccycling5835 2 місяці тому

    Kyiv Ukraine I’d recognize those drone shots anywhere

  • @univuniveral9713
    @univuniveral9713 6 місяців тому

    You call the friend Bob or Bab? I heard Bab.

  • @nicholasrodriguez4990
    @nicholasrodriguez4990 6 місяців тому +2

    The way you pronounced Naruto was terrible and hilarious 😂😂 it’s pronounced NAR-RUU-TOE

  • @schmumlauf
    @schmumlauf Місяць тому

    Do you have any female friends?

  • @SuperSlickFoe
    @SuperSlickFoe 6 місяців тому

    HOW DARE YOU MISSPELL NARUTO

  • @omaarrrabdul9483
    @omaarrrabdul9483 6 місяців тому

    Could you make a video on your very first experience after lookxmaxxinf?