10 Signs You Might Be A Simp And How You Can Fix It
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- Опубліковано 24 лип 2024
- In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. talks about the 10 signs that might indicate a man is a simp. He talks about what men can do to not be simps.
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The worst Simp is a man giving up his freedom over a woman
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So marriage?
He worships woman
@@matthewdancz9152 Marriage is a lazy woman's hustle and a poor man's game. Don't get married. 💯
@@RudolphManor Bachelor🤔
Dude we all got played at one point... We all had a little sump in us... These days, I think a man makes his move, tell her what's on his mind and fall back. I let her show her worth. Guys fall back...And there's a whole world out there. Always the most high over the woman.
Facts brother. Some get understanding early on some get it later in life some may never get it.
so true...you got to get burnt or simped once to learn a lesson.
Thanks W Spivey thought I was the only one too admit it on here but i learned, some bothers go they whole lives being Simps
very true
Speak for yourself
Great advice. I'm no simp. Just a good guy with manners and respect. Been through enough to realize that even the most beautiful women can be simply not worth it, if their personalities don't match my qualifications.
Appreciate the input!
Keep it 1000
Beauty fades but good morals and loyalty don’t.
Apparently I’m a simp wit masculine energy😭😭😭
@@Extinguish_You're an alpha Simp.
I used to be that guy that, put women on a pedestal without allowing her to earn that spot.
Thus, heartbreaks and headaches followed. Then went through a stage where I stopped being that nice and became the guy who had "all the hoes" and was sleeping around.
Then became the guy that valued himself and others, and gave respect to others when it is earned.
It happens bro.
And change is good. I'm glad you got to share your experience.
isnt that right
That's awesome G. Being a simp doesn't work well for us in anything. But neither does sleeping with a bunch of women. It's the same insucurties being played out in a different way.
Didn't even read the message, just saw your profile Tee 🙌 "Lets GO Canes"
I just simped so bad today .... learn from your mistakes brethren’s . I texted a girl paragraphs, that’s a big no no lol. Things will get better for you
😂😂😂😂😂
Its okay if you are just getting straight to the point which is why you should be texting her anyways. No point in texting her every opportunity, unless you are trying to be her emotional tampon. Now thats just straight up simping!
Go watch some AMS brother
@@Sigurdbjornsen agree 💯 ya a girl I talk to sometimes we hit the usual paragraph If it’s like a story or something long we saying. 1-2 times convo went deep
I was once a SIMPle man
Ain't gonna lie, those 80s, and 90s R&B songs and being raised by women gave me all the simp training I needed to successfully play myself. Now, I'm born again!
Man, you and another youtuber who commented this same exact comment has this brotha thinking deep!
1. Submissive position
2. Overvalueing a woman before they earn it
3. "Nice guy" using niceness to manipulate
4. Not accepting Friendzone
5. Defends women No Matter
6. Spending too much on women's approval
7. Giving giving and giving
8. Let's woman walk all over you
9. Prioritise others desire before yours
10. Constantly spending money on woman
You're only a simp if you cater to a BITCH who doesn't deserve it or didn't earn it
Can you add catching feelings for a chick you only met for a week like how the fuck that even happened
Please explain number 5
Man, all these was me back in the day. As I got older, I realized my fatal mating mistake. Never again!!
Numbers 4,5 &7 are big signs of a simp.
The day you will start believing in yourself , you will love everything about yourself , be it good or bad .
just accept yourself , and respect your uniqueness , because you are amazing and there are 7 billion people in the world and no one's like you and i think that's a great reason to feel confident.
Oh man. The when OG lectures you about not being a simp, you better listen!
Listen up !
You bet.
@@TheStyleOG Well dressed
a true player a mack daddy 80s era
@@speedytypermananswers5551 amen bro
If a man is still a simp once he hits a certain age group there's probably no changing him !
🤜🏾🤛🏾
Probably right but I always had faith that guys could change if they really wanted to. But sometimes it feel like you're 100% right
Usually I won't answer, but no cap if you acknowledge that you are a simp then that's the beginning of change. People can change if they CHOOSE to.
You aren't gonna change cause you choose not too
These fools on the internet will call you a SIMP just for being interested in a girl🤦🏽♂️
They sure will ! Lol
AGGIE,
FAX, BRUH, FAX! FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!
even just for looking at a girl lmao 🤣 🙄
There is a difference between thirsty and interested comments. It's a doggy dog world.
They call you a simp just for going on a date with a girl lol
Two things: #1: Don’t treat her like a queen while remaining as a peasant. She’s not entitled to be a Queen, she has to earn it. Takes a strong King to lead things to set the tone.
#2: If you treat her like a celebrity, she’ll treat you like a fan.
Bingo! 👌🏿🤣
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Well said
Very true
When I was young I was a one because I didn't know better. Now IDK love me or leave me
Don't forget u social media guys when u r constantly leaving thirsty comments and compliments at women on IG and Facebook simps
Well..
Captain save a ‘ho meets Major Sucker, I’m with ya Bro
Worst part is they will leave those thirsty comments and a very good majority of the time those IG women dont respond back and they know what men like just to get men to "Like" their posts. It's a business.
@@TheStyleOG Good question...what if you got your regular IG rotation? Got to keep checking in on that hotness, lol. (But yeah, thirsty comments are pointless, she don't care.)
I browse all the time. But I don’t comment. Just window shopping
Video title is Hil-Arious but much needed. It's a simp Pandemic going on right now lmao.. Salute Jeff
Pandemic! Lol
Lil Dude From Across da Street what you said!!
Lil Dude from across da street.. Give me dolla lol
EPIDEMIC 😷
Lmao
Lowkey this guy is saving some dudes lives
Highkey
Lol i use to be a simp, i was a simp for one week a then my homie schooled me on women who come out to a bar or club and will sit and wait on a simp to buy them a drink and believe me their are a whole lot of them!
Low key this dude is a simp
Saving these dudes some money, anyway.
This should be on trending. These Gen Z kids are clueless.
Because most parents are clueless..
Where do you think we got it from OG
Fam on this day and age a gentleman is a simp. Why? The social standards for women and women have changed. Why ? Because of feminism.
I am a Gen Z kid 😂
@Eugene Kendrick Simp was used before 1973.
One simple definition of a SIMP (I was one myself) "Giving people regardless of gender validation and expecting favors in return." You may consider yourself being kind and nice, but it only puts you as a push-over. Learning the principle of doing things for yourself and not allow others with great assertion, people will respect you more.
Great input Larry !
Most young men like myself unfortunately don’t have father figures to teach them this kind of game, #salute OG
Salute Jason !
Rule #1 M.O.B she don’t wanna be saved young grasshopper🙏🏾
Rule 2#if it dont make dollars, it dont make sence.
Even if guys had a dad around doesn't mean he will not be a simp.
I watched my parents relationship, I could definitely tell my dad is an alpha
This is why am
Single it’s hard to find someone that won’t actually uses you
You are so correct. So blessed to hv the wife I have.
I agree anyone will do it just give them one fxcking opportunity!
Thank you for commenting on this disturbing trend of labeling everything simping. I especially appreciate that you've commented on what is being a simp is NOT. Respect yourself, respect those who deserve it, and be the genuine you (i.e., don't become an a-hole to avoid becoming a simp)
You got it Kwami!
You sound like a REAL man Kwami.
His definition of a Simp is wrong… Putting women on pedestals and being chivalrous towards them is a Simp…. A lot of men want to hear that it’s OK to be chivalrous towards women and respect them and kiss their ass and put them on pedestals and give them more value than they deserve… In other words a lot of men like being Simps
Thank you for explaining what a simp isn’t. Being a decent human being and a gentleman to everyone doesn’t make you a simp for sure. Thumbs up as always Style OG. 🥰🤗
Salute Doll !
Absolutely wrong… Women need to earn your respect… Going into the game and putting them on a pedestal and giving them respect and being chivalrous towards them means you are a Simp… You’re the little bitch and trust me women realize that a mile away… This guy has it all wrong because he wants you to feel good about being an idiot
@@Rachmanfan4life No bro it's not that extreme I am a decent human being. Do I pay for dinner dates or text or have many friends that I orbit? Of course not being balanced is a part of life.
You tell em OG.
Sad to see the younger generations being Simps!
Focus on finance, physical and mental health the way to go.
Appreciate the feedback!
Simps have been around since the dawn of time. With social media you can see it, that’s the only difference between then and now.
CyborgNS6NL 🔥🔥💯
Lol ! He is too cool!💯💯
Yuss
Sign #11 you're a simp: calling styles OG a simp
Ha !
Simp
As always OG that was on point. I have seen so many guys make those mistakes.
Thanks Kenneth !
Jacket and shirt on point💯, real talk!
Thanks Lindell !
I’d only have thought that a blue shirt like that could only be worn to the office. How wrong I was. I’ll have to try it casually 👍🏾
Solid advice brother! I am guilty of some Simping 🤬 I need to rewatch and rethink and relearn!
Salute
Salute Jack !
🌹hard video, but so very true. I paid attention to: not putting others before yourself, draw boundaries/set limits, be (kind, compassionate, and generous) not a push-over. I hear that. Good video.
I enjoyed this talk; the simple clarifying of what manhood should look and feel like is something I learned early on in my teens. I think 'sucka' is the word that I recall clearly; I never ever saw that as an advantage or strength. I still walk away at the first sign of disrespect, and never look back; knowing my value and self worth always created far more opps than losses. There's a movie here Jeff; love the channel, continue to stand strong my brother. Salute!!
You are spot on and keeping it real! I had a friend who was a kind of a simp.. I didn't know that type of man had a name I just didn't like them. He would ask me a few times after a while if I wanted to date. I always said no but he would be there for me when I broke up with a guy to be like a stand in. I feel bad but he let me do it. He didn't really say no. I did grow up and apologized and we went our separate ways
I really commend you Jeff. I love the way you think, your mannerisms and the way you carry yourself in general. Keep up the good work.
Thanks Lady !
So glad you brought this out, it is the motivation not just the actions which make you simp material.
Indeed!
Finally someone speaks knowledge & truth!!!
Hey Jeff!! SIMPIN' IS PIMPIN' Appreciate the definition and clarification! Never heard of that terminology but certainly got schooled 2day!! SALUTE!!🤗🤗
Salute Danna !
Thank you for the content The Style O.G. and I look forward to more quality production. What I have taken from this video is to not be a victim of "Quid Pro Quo". The reason I ask a woman what she thinks of her fitness level is because, right off the bat- she's telling me whether or not our next date will be somewhere fun or somewhere informational-ie: "the hospital, to find whether her high blood pressure will make me go next" as I am also a fitness trainer in training. Have a wonderful day guys and remember, Diamond is the #1 Lifestyle in the World!
damn bro, that jacket looks amazing!
Thanks!
Exactly
Yes that's a Style OG jacket. No Simp would ever rock that...
I’m late for class but the “Teacha” is still teaching.. Salute 👊🏽
Salute CJ!
Yeah I've definitely been simping... I'm just gonna chill out for a while and be single
you can always change at least you're honest.. just work on the things that make you look better and stuff like that and also be more confident then eventually they'll chase you. Trust me...respect. 'Ohiorichkid insta'
Well, that's that on that
Better stay single until the right woman comes along than be a simp.
Yeah same
I think most guys’ve been there.... I did a girls project once.,.... smdh
When I was younger I was definitely guilty of a few of thee mistakes. I think this and your recent ‘kind not nice’ related videos are great but miss an important detail. A huge lack of confidence which is often based on a rough childhood leads to low self esteem. This underlies their behaviour (not including the manipulative ‘kind’ guy, he’s just an asshole). These guys need help to realise their self worth and to stop behaving in a self detrimental way. Keep up the great work. And that jacket is fantastic.
Appreciate it Michael !
Many men learn how to date. And not be a simpleton.
@@mostmost1 Simp is NOT short for Simpleton.
@@benzemamumba it is where im from. jst slang for a dummy. not that complex.
Thank you for clearing this up for me. I've been a simp for a very very long time and never even knew it!
Happy to help!
Solid advice and your delivery of “you’re simping my brother” just leaves me laughing haha
Ha !
For the guys out there don’t be confused as being a simp if you’re married. Haha 🤣 it’s give and take give and take. Over all, great points O.G. And salute 😉
Salute Clifton ! The wife more than likely earned the pedestal
Her place is beside me on the staircase.
Allan Claridge lol...
Right Im married and I understand what you said.I had to change some of the things about myself because it's a relationship and some things are supposed to be done by both sides totally understand what you mean
This is the game an ol’head laid on me when I was in middle school in the 80’s, and the same I’m passing to my sons. Good stuff, SOG!
Salute!
This video was very educational.1:44-1:51 i needed to hear that.A very wise man, respectable and well spoken.Looking forward to watching your other videos.
Thanks Monique!
Wise words from the og always dropping gems. And got my cologne game up. Salute
Salute Ameen !
Thanks Jeff Dog!!!! You always come with the 🔥🔥🔥
O.G. my guy! I've been following your channel for a few years. Great content. I love how you broke this down. Many people don't know what a simp actually is and it's highly overused these days. I hate to hear a dude being called a simp just for being a gentleman. This is the most mature and reasonable breakdown. Good stuff.
Salute Aaron!
Absolutely! I agree. I like the way this was said as well. There’s nothing wrong with protecting yourself emotionally and still being respectful. Glad he broke it down the way he did.
Great retort to being called a simp Style O.G. You make too much sense for today’s crazy world. Love your videos. Stay safe my friend. You are the best.
Thanks Lincoln!
This was helpful my brother. I've been so blessed to have someone in my life that patiently allowed me to learn this.
Glad it was helpful!
As a woman, I agree with everything said. Women can also apply much of what's been said here.
Appreciate the feedback!
I love your perspective on this topic OG! You’re right the term simp has been around for a while. Recently there’s been too many angry hurt brothers sitting behind their keyboards that label being respectful to women as being a simp when in fact you’re not putting them on a pedestal when you first meet them, which is what they do and get hurt. Being a gentleman and being a simp are two different things in my opinion. Thanks for the video! Salute!!
Salute Isaiah !
Brotha YOU hit the nail on the head!!!! I know a lot of cats that smoke cigars wit and when women come around, DA SIMP'S come out these cats and I find myself blazing out. I'm glad I had OG's that taught me how to recognize SIMPs and stay away from them. SIMP's can be bad for ya health❤🖤💚.100%
Dropping jewels, educating the masses, salute OG!
Salute!
I love this.. im a barber and menswear stylist and I meet a lot of wonderful men that get pushed over and played by women that don't mean them any good. It's sad to see the good guys (and girls) get messed over in this life. I try to the best of my abilities to provide some guidance on the matter to some of the guys but i can only provide a (good) woman's prospective and what you said is true- lead with personality- a good woman wants you and loves when you show up as the best version of yourself... it is not required that you show up as the richest version or the flashiest version... if you have those things (riches and flashiness) cool but that's just icing, it's not the cake. It's nice to find a well balanced, non misogynistic space to direct the guys to for the (good) man's perspective. Unfortunately, everyone doesn't have a space like this in their life to receive that guidance-so this is a great resource. Thank you for being present. Respect 🙏🏾 💕✨️
Respect!
You sound like a good soul
@@nathanieldavis5231 thank you! Enjoy your day
Sometimes people call a person a simp when you let her go especially when she's a gold digger!!!Thank OG
You hit all these principles on point. Everyone should apply this To every day life. At work dealing with employees, bosses, and coworkers. Family members. Networking.
Salute!
Thanks for the words of recognition and realization my brother. Blessings
Any time!
I literally hollered when I saw the title, OG! Great topic! You know, this might have gone to a completely different level had it had some female input! A collab of some kind, maybe? 🤔
Keeping it real Style OG. Respect ✊🏿
Great Tips OG. A great takeaway taking care of yourself first. One of the major flaws of a guy who simp is that he’ll try and try to please women and will never fully experience feeling confident with themselves. Confidence is key, women will appreciate a guy who has their stuff together, is able to express their thoughts and ideas, and is not trying to seek approval.
Salute Oscar!
It’s a lot of simps on social media most of them haven’t grown up cause they have always been simps and will stay that way keep giving them the knowledge salute 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Preach it brother Jeff. Great words of wisdom. " You can be my Wingman anytime " 😎👍🙏👌
Salute Paul !
That's real talk. Value yourself above all then you can consider someone else.
Salute Allan !
WOW..haven't ever heard of this word. Thanks for the definition and clarification!! Great content. I guess i can actually say I've came across some Simps in my time!! Humm the friend zone!! Thanks for sharing bro❤💯
Thank you Mr. O.G This is the Best UA-cam Video available! I use this to
Love that shirt and jacket combo - very summery!
Thanks Ryan !
Great content as always thanks🌷👍. It's so simple just don't let the woman take advantage of you. Then the focus should be on developing yourself, not to impress women.
Thanks Abbas !
All facts. We learn from experience. Great contact
Excellent advice. A real eye opener.
Great video OG this was one of the best videos you have done. Jam packed with some true game!
Thanks Mali !
Insightful analogy my brother, when Jeff start doing a show on simping that means you really a simp.
Thanks Gary !
Your hitting the nail straight on the head buddy! Keep up the great work! God bless you
Thanks Kimball!
You’re wearing that Etro blazer, one of my favorite brands, keep doing what you do. I hope younger guys are paying attention....50+ admirer👏🏾
I appreciate that!
Thank you! You’re the brother I never had 🙏 losin that simp game and gaining that pimp game.
No problem!
FACTS OG! All ya gotta do is be the best YOU and the women will come effortlessly. Also, don’t fall victim to the recategorizing of Alpha man to “cave man”! Take charge dammitt
For real !
Alpha means dominance, women love that
There's a difference between dominance and being an a**hole
One is leadership and masculinity, the other is being a bad boy
THANKYOU...VERY well Explained!
Another good one brother! Would love to see you do a video on understanding and choosing “your type”. I think as men we are taught to go after the woman you want even when she’s not necessarily “your type”. You always bring a intellectual perspective. Like you said, some of the other video bloggers tend to be more misogynistic on these topics. You definitely deliver an OG perspective.
Great suggestion!
Good video.
I was raised wrong influenced by my narcissist mom and got into simping without knowing it. I'm glad I'm breaking that personality and changing my character right.
I'm like 9/10 non simp now! Lol...
Thanks, Man. Things have changed for me since I decided I ain't gonna be that sucker no more. Hell yeah, it made me a whole lot more attractive.
When you realize you slightly “simpish” 💀😂
Spot on...I used to be like that...I will tell u this....you will learn....peace brutha...never ,ever stop working on you.
Salute!
Brother STYLES FACTS. EVERY THING YOU SAID WAS ON POINT. I've found myself in the PASSED constantly giving but no more.
Salute David !
Sweet blazer Jeff...TIGHT!!
My grandmother always said, "Close your mouth, you look simple!" 😂 😂😂
Thanks Stephen!
Exactly
I'm an old guy who defines a "simp" as a woman in a man's body.
That’s a transtestical😂
Once again always on point.
Salute O.G. ✊🏾
Salute Jairus !
Good presentation ,well balanced my brother. The advice you give is really Bushido ,the way of the warrior, from the ancient Samurai. Honor over life.
Hahaha i seen this title and i had to click. I laughed my ass off soon as i read it. By the way that suit fire! Salute brother!
Thanks Steven !
I just wish he added a tie lol
Yes my brother ! We used to call them "tricks " 👌❤
Ha !
Facts
That too, lol...
Still do!
We still do in Cleveland and I'm 40 years old
WoW the hits keep coming!!!!
O.G another AWESOME episode, I bow down my O.G no simping for me. From London SALUTE 👍🇬🇧🇳🇬😎
Salute!
A real old school gem this younger generation needs to hear. Simpin also leads to fighting over women which there is more of going on than ever. Plenty to go around...no need for static.
Appreciate the input Marcus !
What if simpin is in my dna?
My daddy & grandaddy were simps,
Am i doomed to a life of helping girls I barley know move furniture on my days off and giving their cars a jump?
Hilarious!
LMAO. LMAO. I don’t know if there’s been any peer reviewed research on sipping as an hereditary condition instead of a mere evolutionary psychological phenomenon. It might me time to change the paradigm and use a different scholarly framework to fully understand simping. 🧐🤔...
You're only a simp if you're doing something to expect something in return when it comes to girls you desire
They'll walk all over you if they sense they have the power to push you over, be careful out there
My maternal grandpa and 2 of my uncles were simps. Almost no simps on my dad's side except maybe 1 of his uncles. Simping might be genetic but it's rare in my dad side of the family they're more pimping 😆
Man keep kickin’ that ish. I appreciate your perspective homie. You kinda spittin’ some ism for’em. Hope they get it.
Salute Sheen !
One of your best video OG. Being a considerate gentleman is not simping. Salute
Salute!
This is a much needed video. Some of these cats on UA-cam act like if you have any damn compassion for the female gender makes you a simp!! SMH
They have the game twisted !
Sad to say I was the kind of guy who constantly found himself in relationships where I wasnt getting what I was giving and there were women around me who would use what extra I had because I gave them access. This video was a bitter pill to swallow but I needed to watch it.
I hope you’ve woken up king!
@@teamchang4894 sounds like has.
Awesome! Let her prove her worth consistently that’s in words, actions body language and her heart. This paints a complete picture
Strength and Honor, Courage and Virtue brother. Study Bushido.
@@nathanieldavis5231 funny you mention that cause I was thinking of buying a book to read about that
Well said brother! The word simp is used alot on the internet. I liked your explanation. I agree a man you should always be a gentlemen, but not a door mat.
Great Video! Speaking facts!!
Thanks Chris !
Hell yeah just the vid for my friends
Ha !
When your kind, people think your trying to be nice so you might as well be cold hearted
All Facts! This channel keeps getting better and better.
Appreciate the feedback!
Good afternoon Jeff style O.G happy Thursday. Thanks for this video and letting others know what is a "simp"; now I believe all men have a "simp" inside them to a degree, but as you spoke on this video it's not hard to not be a "sucka simp". Unfortunately there us guys who go into a "simp" situation for a season and then there are the rest of guys that last for a lifetime as "simp". As an early 90's PSA commercial would say "it's ok to be a 'simp' while on your way to be a 'pimp". SALUTE
Ha! Salute George