Rachel, I've appreciated your channel over the years as we go through chronic pain with my wife and two of our children. This video popped up on my feed this morning. I am so sorry for your loss and grief. My wife suffered a similar miscarriage over 22 years ago...and she still grieves and describes the pain she experiences through it. Press on, and may God continue to give you grace and peace. I resonate with your comments about not comparing or categorizing someone's pain. That was the most painful part for us..."well intentioned" people that were so quick to "speak away" the problem with cliche responses and even cliched use of scripture. So hurtful. Press on!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m sorry to hear of the loss your family experienced. It is such a heartbreaking thing! You certainly aren’t alone. 🙏🏻
Rachel, Thank you for sharing this, and everything else. You are an inspiration in many ways, and you have helped me and others. My heart goes out to you. Thank you! God Bless you! ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss Rachel. Thank you for being so brave and real to share with us. Certainly you will encourage so many others dealing with similar. What an amazing testimony you have shared and what great hope you have! So good to have a great support system of cheerleaders and comforters. Praying for God to bless you with children. He is so good! Unfortunately I have felt the same feeling like I am just too blessed and it makes me think that those really good things won't happen to me. He just keeps working good things though 😊
Didn't watch this video but wanted to say thank you because you influenced me a lot with your video s. especially recently with turning me on to cathleen King. Thank you for sharing your journey❤
Rachel you are an amazing, kind, beautiful, and caring person. I'm so glad I found your channel. I know you've helped numerous people by sharing your story through all the triumphs and hardships. You are extremely brave to do so. I'm so very sorry for your loss. My mom recently passed away from cancer and I have lost my sister and dad from cancer as well. It has been very difficult but I am finding God, and your channel is also very therapeutic to watch. Thank you for all of your content, and God bless you and your family.
Dear Sweet Rachael, You and Jake have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your baby. Sending you a huge hug, love, and prayers always. You have been an incredible inspiration in my own healing journey. Our stories (including miscarriages) are so similar. You are an amazingly classy Christian lady. You handled that ignorant, rude comment with such grace. Rooting for you always. ❤
Everything has a purpose❤.... Currently going through somewhat same situation.. Where it has been years of no change... But we need to keep faith....i saw one of your video.. You were saying the same thing.. So please don't feel bad or disheartened... Got has definitely protected you from something which could have been more worse... ❤ Don't worry you'll be pregnant again.. Just let jesus take the control... ❤Lots of love and strength from INDIA
Adopt? Please please don’t pass this down (or possibly even worse). It’s a beautiful way to still have a family/kiddos. I’m saying this as a child of a chronically ill parent, and now live with an even worse medical outlook and quality of life… Being a human is painful enough in the best of circumstances, let alone genetic and epigenetic risk factors, which compound and change (eg MS turning into ME/CFS, ADHD into Autism, HSD into vascular problems, etc). And all eggs are already formed at birth. There are so many children out there who need good homes… and adoption agencies love stable married couples. Please consider. ❤
Thank you for your comment. If you watch until the end you’ll see that I’m not concerned about passing down chronic illnesses. I believe my children will have a much better chance at being healthy than most. ❤️ I don’t consider myself to be chronically ill anymore. Almost all children and adults are chronically ill today. It is more rare to be healthy than it is to be sick. With the right nutrition and nervous system regulation tools, I believe my future children will be healthy. All the best. 🫶🏻
Eggs/gametes are formed when the mother is still in utero. And so many kids in the foster system needing homes. No amount of changes during adult life will affect the genetic code for chiari, hyper mobility, autoimmune. It’s already formed in the gamete. There are so many children out there who are not getting their needs met and need homes. You could be an amazing parent and safe place for then to grow up healthy. Even in the best of circumstances life is guaranteed suffering, nonexistence is peace. That’s what I want for my potential children the biggest gift I can give is not bringing new humans into this world just to inevitably feel pain. Don’t need them to be biologically related to love and be a family. My parents had similar thinking to yours, my dad has MS. For my whole life I was terrified of MS, but honestly with severe ME/CFS, ASD, etc (all traits my parents have but stronger in me as times have changed), ME/CFS has a worse quality of life than what they were concerned about. I wouldn’t wish this suffering (or even the potential of it) on anyone.
I'm so sorry for your loss Rachael. May the little angel rest in peace. You are such a beautiful soul. I don't have a speck of a doubt that it's so absolutely possible for you to have children. And Jake and you will be the most amazing parents ♡ As someone who is in a chronic health situation similar to yours a few years back, I am aware how many lives you have massively changed for the better, maybe even saved. Mine is one of them. This is not the same and never meant to be, and yet I feel like saying: you have gifted so many people life already. And I am eternally grateful to you. Thank you for sharing so candidly. You are an inspiration, in grief, in joy, in pain, in hope.. so much love to you!
Thank you so much for your kind words. Your comment made a challenging day much brighter for me. ❤ I hope you are doing well and that you continue to see healing! Sending love your way.
I am praying for your heart, the Lord knows the desires of your heart and I will be praying that he blesses you with more children. You already showed so much more love for your little one then many parents out there. You are a mother now and always will be, you carried your sweet baby, life was inside of you by the hand of God and I believe he will give you more children who will rise up and call you blessed.
I’ve never suggested brain retraining fixes all problems in life. It does, however make us more resilient and able to handle difficult things in life when they come. Everything I’ve learned these past few years made me much better prepared to handle grief and loss and I’m very grateful for that. This comment was hurtful, but I am still hoping all the best for you.
A very unpleasant comment which was clearly designed to hurt. Brain retraining targets components to ME/CFS and related illness. It's not a magic cape. I'm very sorry for your loss Rachel and I hope that one day your dream of becoming a mum will come true. My mum experienced a miscarriage a few years before me. But I did eventually come along and we had a beautiful mother-son relationship which still continues, now nine years after her passing.
I’m not exactly sure what you mean, but the way I’m eating is a huge reason I was able to get pregnant and have found so much healing. Animal-based is very pro-fertility. Please be careful before making assumptions. There is no way to know exactly why a loss happens for anyone, but I will continue to take care of my body in the best way I know how.
Rachel, I've appreciated your channel over the years as we go through chronic pain with my wife and two of our children. This video popped up on my feed this morning. I am so sorry for your loss and grief. My wife suffered a similar miscarriage over 22 years ago...and she still grieves and describes the pain she experiences through it. Press on, and may God continue to give you grace and peace. I resonate with your comments about not comparing or categorizing someone's pain. That was the most painful part for us..."well intentioned" people that were so quick to "speak away" the problem with cliche responses and even cliched use of scripture. So hurtful. Press on!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m sorry to hear of the loss your family experienced. It is such a heartbreaking thing! You certainly aren’t alone. 🙏🏻
Rachel,
Thank you for sharing this, and everything else. You are an inspiration in many ways, and you have helped me and others. My heart goes out to you. Thank you!
God Bless you! ❤
I cried throughout your video. So many things I wanted to say to you and give you hugs
This was a beautiful share Rachel. Condolences to you and your family. Hang onto that faith of yours! God's blessings are with you dear!
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss Rachel. Thank you for being so brave and real to share with us. Certainly you will encourage so many others dealing with similar. What an amazing testimony you have shared and what great hope you have! So good to have a great support system of cheerleaders and comforters. Praying for God to bless you with children. He is so good! Unfortunately I have felt the same feeling like I am just too blessed and it makes me think that those really good things won't happen to me. He just keeps working good things though 😊
Didn't watch this video but wanted to say thank you because you influenced me a lot with your video s. especially recently with turning me on to cathleen King. Thank you for sharing your journey❤
Rachael, What a courageous and heartfelt video. Thank you for sharing your experience!!
Rachel you are an amazing, kind, beautiful, and caring person. I'm so glad I found your channel. I know you've helped numerous people by sharing your story through all the triumphs and hardships. You are extremely brave to do so. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
My mom recently passed away from cancer and I have lost my sister and dad from cancer as well. It has been very difficult but I am finding God, and your channel is also very therapeutic to watch.
Thank you for all of your content, and God bless you and your family.
Dear Sweet Rachael, You and Jake have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your baby. Sending you a huge hug, love, and prayers always. You have been an incredible inspiration in my own healing journey. Our stories (including miscarriages) are so similar. You are an amazingly classy Christian lady. You handled that ignorant, rude comment with such grace. Rooting for you always. ❤
Thank you so much for your kind words. It means a lot! Sending love ❤
REAL STRONG QUEEN HERE ! MAY YOU HAVE ALL THE BLESSINGS YOU HEART DESIRES IN THIS WORLD AND THE NEXT !
Thank you so much! ❤
I'm so sorry, that breaks my heart. I hope that you will be able to have your dream so very soon.
You're so strong, Rachel! ❤
Your baby is at peace now 🙏 Thank you for sharing your experience. Please ignore the weird comments too
Thank you for your kind words!!
Sending strength, peace and healing to you and your partner. God bless.
Thank you so much, that means a lot!
Rachael you give me a lot of hope and thanks for that ❤.
So glad you're here ❤
I‘m just here to give you and Jake a big hug 🫂.
Thank you Emily ❤️❤️
Everything has a purpose❤.... Currently going through somewhat same situation.. Where it has been years of no change... But we need to keep faith....i saw one of your video.. You were saying the same thing.. So please don't feel bad or disheartened... Got has definitely protected you from something which could have been more worse... ❤ Don't worry you'll be pregnant again.. Just let jesus take the control... ❤Lots of love and strength from INDIA
Adopt? Please please don’t pass this down (or possibly even worse). It’s a beautiful way to still have a family/kiddos.
I’m saying this as a child of a chronically ill parent, and now live with an even worse medical outlook and quality of life…
Being a human is painful enough in the best of circumstances, let alone genetic and epigenetic risk factors, which compound and change (eg MS turning into ME/CFS, ADHD into Autism, HSD into vascular problems, etc). And all eggs are already formed at birth. There are so many children out there who need good homes… and adoption agencies love stable married couples. Please consider. ❤
Thank you for your comment. If you watch until the end you’ll see that I’m not concerned about passing down chronic illnesses. I believe my children will have a much better chance at being healthy than most. ❤️ I don’t consider myself to be chronically ill anymore.
Almost all children and adults are chronically ill today. It is more rare to be healthy than it is to be sick. With the right nutrition and nervous system regulation tools, I believe my future children will be healthy. All the best. 🫶🏻
Eggs/gametes are formed when the mother is still in utero. And so many kids in the foster system needing homes. No amount of changes during adult life will affect the genetic code for chiari, hyper mobility, autoimmune. It’s already formed in the gamete.
There are so many children out there who are not getting their needs met and need homes.
You could be an amazing parent and safe place for then to grow up healthy.
Even in the best of circumstances life is guaranteed suffering, nonexistence is peace.
That’s what I want for my potential children the biggest gift I can give is not bringing new humans into this world just to inevitably feel pain.
Don’t need them to be biologically related to love and be a family.
My parents had similar thinking to yours, my dad has MS. For my whole life I was terrified of MS, but honestly with severe ME/CFS, ASD, etc (all traits my parents have but stronger in me as times have changed), ME/CFS has a worse quality of life than what they were concerned about.
I wouldn’t wish this suffering (or even the potential of it) on anyone.
Where are you Rachael, we misssed you!
How is ur pots now
I'm so sorry for your loss Rachael. May the little angel rest in peace. You are such a beautiful soul. I don't have a speck of a doubt that it's so absolutely possible for you to have children. And Jake and you will be the most amazing parents ♡
As someone who is in a chronic health situation similar to yours a few years back, I am aware how many lives you have massively changed for the better, maybe even saved. Mine is one of them. This is not the same and never meant to be, and yet I feel like saying: you have gifted so many people life already. And I am eternally grateful to you.
Thank you for sharing so candidly. You are an inspiration, in grief, in joy, in pain, in hope.. so much love to you!
Thank you so much for your kind words. Your comment made a challenging day much brighter for me. ❤ I hope you are doing well and that you continue to see healing! Sending love your way.
@@HealingWithRachael I'm so glad to hear that ♡ Thank you Rachael.
Very very good mem
im so sorry for your loss
Thank you. ❤️
I am praying for your heart, the Lord knows the desires of your heart and I will be praying that he blesses you with more children. You already showed so much more love for your little one then many parents out there. You are a mother now and always will be, you carried your sweet baby, life was inside of you by the hand of God and I believe he will give you more children who will rise up and call you blessed.
Thank you for your beautiful words and encouragement ❤
Should have done more brain training.
I’ve never suggested brain retraining fixes all problems in life. It does, however make us more resilient and able to handle difficult things in life when they come. Everything I’ve learned these past few years made me much better prepared to handle grief and loss and I’m very grateful for that.
This comment was hurtful, but I am still hoping all the best for you.
@MegaLeoben this comment is not ok. There is no need for unnecessary cruelty when someone is sharing vulnerably their suffering
why be so evil
A very unpleasant comment which was clearly designed to hurt. Brain retraining targets components to ME/CFS and related illness. It's not a magic cape.
I'm very sorry for your loss Rachel and I hope that one day your dream of becoming a mum will come true.
My mum experienced a miscarriage a few years before me. But I did eventually come along and we had a beautiful mother-son relationship which still continues, now nine years after her passing.
What kind of weirdo trolls about this kind of thing GTFO
yes. eat a more well balanced diet while carrying a baby and then u can go back to your preferred diet afterward
I’m not exactly sure what you mean, but the way I’m eating is a huge reason I was able to get pregnant and have found so much healing. Animal-based is very pro-fertility. Please be careful before making assumptions. There is no way to know exactly why a loss happens for anyone, but I will continue to take care of my body in the best way I know how.