1. Pause before you react 2. Don't take it personally 3. Change expectations 4. Repeat a mantra 5. Meditate 6. Think of yourself as a Coach 7. Have empathy Useful tips/reminders, thank you❣️
It’s a tough one, but I need to get better with my patience. Sometimes I get mad and feel guilty the little human just wants to be around me and learn.
So grateful to hear your advice. You've been a huge help. As a 37 year old first time Dad, now a 39 year old with an 19 month year old toddler, who's also a little clone of yourself.....Yeah...I called my parents and apologized for always being a class clown and kind of a dick. I get it now. I'm trying so hard, but it's hard to work 40 hours a week, have a side hustle, be a good husband, dad and still maintain peaceful time for yourself. But I'm always willing to work on it. I do want to say, Dual Parenting wasn't as prevalent as it is today. My dad worked 10-12 hours a day, and my mom took care of us. Today, we both work 40 hours a week and more at times, and are both cleaning diapers, giving baths, cooking, cleaning. It's rewarding when her face lights up but other times i'm cursing my dad out, "Lucky B@$t$%!!!" LOL. Thanks again!!!
Hi! I have 5 young children, my oldest is 9 and my youngest is 2. It gets overwhelming but its only because I have little to no patience. After viewing this video, I will put these tips in effect immediately. Thanks for sharing
@@serenapalmer1220 yes, it worked. But I also started praying for patience in addition to these steps. Not only did this help me with my children, but also in the work place and in every day situations. Stay strong sis
I needed this. My family of 4 just became a family of 7. We took in my sister in laws kids. She never paid any attention to them, as a result they are all out of hand most the time. (7, 4, and 2 years old, added to my 4 and 1 year old). So glad I found this video. Can’t wait to try these approaches. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Yes, I have twins. A Boy and a Girl. And they are always on the go. Playing,Getting into things when I'm trying to cleaning,Up out of there bed playing in the room when it's time for bed. Always something. Sure this is expected from 4 year olds lol these steps helped realize that communication for them is not there yet. And helped me calm myself down when things get crazy! Thank you so much...will be watching more!
Sure hope I can incorporate a bit of this as a Type A who demands excellence with anyone working for me...including my kids. Helping my 10 year old w match is very difficult as a biomedical engr. My 12 year old gets it. My 10 year old...horrible in math. Been a very challenging situation that I must become better at. Your tips are helpful
Man i feel like complete garbage when i get mad at my little boy. I alway apologize to him after i lose my temper and promise him ill never hurt him wirh my hands and that i love him. But i know that anger is the worst trait you can pass down. I have been meditating and recently became fully sober. But when he does stuff on purpose and then laughs it off its hard to control my emotions. We are all trying our best but i still feel like a piece of shit. I love that little guy so much.
My 11 year old daughter is always in the mode that no body wants to be friends with her. She starts crying if I ask my other daughter to come along for a walk, she is like why is she coming okkkay if you are going I will not go, you go…you go..let me stay home and she is upset and starts to cry.
1. Pause before you react
2. Don't take it personally
3. Change expectations
4. Repeat a mantra
5. Meditate
6. Think of yourself as a Coach
7. Have empathy
Useful tips/reminders, thank you❣️
It’s a tough one, but I need to get better with my patience. Sometimes I get mad and feel guilty the little human just wants to be around me and learn.
I feel the same way
It’s crazy ain’t it
So grateful to hear your advice. You've been a huge help. As a 37 year old first time Dad, now a 39 year old with an 19 month year old toddler, who's also a little clone of yourself.....Yeah...I called my parents and apologized for always being a class clown and kind of a dick. I get it now. I'm trying so hard, but it's hard to work 40 hours a week, have a side hustle, be a good husband, dad and still maintain peaceful time for yourself. But I'm always willing to work on it.
I do want to say, Dual Parenting wasn't as prevalent as it is today. My dad worked 10-12 hours a day, and my mom took care of us. Today, we both work 40 hours a week and more at times, and are both cleaning diapers, giving baths, cooking, cleaning. It's rewarding when her face lights up but other times i'm cursing my dad out, "Lucky B@$t$%!!!" LOL. Thanks again!!!
You hit the nail on the head my man 😂😂😂
Patience is my weakness
Patience is a tough one for most of us. It takes a lot of practice. I'm still practicing all the time :)
Hi! I have 5 young children, my oldest is 9 and my youngest is 2. It gets overwhelming but its only because I have little to no patience. After viewing this video, I will put these tips in effect immediately. Thanks for sharing
Did it work?
@@serenapalmer1220 yes, it worked. But I also started praying for patience in addition to these steps. Not only did this help me with my children, but also in the work place and in every day situations. Stay strong sis
As a mom I’m grateful I came across this tonight. I needed this !
He teaches so well man lol
I needed this. My family of 4 just became a family of 7. We took in my sister in laws kids. She never paid any attention to them, as a result they are all out of hand most the time. (7, 4, and 2 years old, added to my 4 and 1 year old). So glad I found this video. Can’t wait to try these approaches. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I am so impatient as well. Will be trying these tips with my daughter
Yes, I have twins. A Boy and a Girl. And they are always on the go. Playing,Getting into things when I'm trying to cleaning,Up out of there bed playing in the room when it's time for bed. Always something. Sure this is expected from 4 year olds lol these steps helped realize that communication for them is not there yet. And helped me calm myself down when things get crazy! Thank you so much...will be watching more!
Sure hope I can incorporate a bit of this as a Type A who demands excellence with anyone working for me...including my kids. Helping my 10 year old w match is very difficult as a biomedical engr. My 12 year old gets it. My 10 year old...horrible in math. Been a very challenging situation that I must become better at. Your tips are helpful
Thanks for this video! It's much needed! Keep up the good work!
These are great! Thank you🫶🏽
Thanks! I will definetely try to use your tips!
Patience feels like a life long practice :)
Love your video my bro! 👏🏽👏🏽😂 Very funny. Thanks for the info
Having 4 children I find patience hard at times this video was very helpful and I look forward to putting some of your tips into practice namaste 😄🙏🏻
This is exactly what I needed today! 👍
Man i feel like complete garbage when i get mad at my little boy. I alway apologize to him after i lose my temper and promise him ill never hurt him wirh my hands and that i love him. But i know that anger is the worst trait you can pass down. I have been meditating and recently became fully sober. But when he does stuff on purpose and then laughs it off its hard to control my emotions. We are all trying our best but i still feel like a piece of shit. I love that little guy so much.
Ps you tube is such a joke. They said my post wasnt respectful. I wouldn't apologize to them and i would use my hands hahahaha.
Great video thank you
Thanks for the tips!
The best video I ever seen and learned from ...great job
Wow, thanks!
My 11 year old daughter is always in the mode that no body wants to be friends with her. She starts crying if I ask my other daughter to come along for a walk, she is like why is she coming okkkay if you are going I will not go, you go…you go..let me stay home and she is upset and starts to cry.
Great video
Try having patience while your women yells at you for no reason
Modern women are the source of most problems. To busy fixing everything around them and spend no time fixing themselves
Your also a very liberal personality but some of your advice is great, some not so much...
But I liked most of this one
Keep politics out of this, has nothing to do with anything.. Bottom line, work on your patience.
I see what Frosty is saying. Not everyone is with the maturas and meditation but most of it is good advice.