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  • @vnomik
    @vnomik 4 роки тому +18

    00:00 intro
    01:15 patience (5 things to remember)
    01:59 their brains are still developing
    03:25 repeat constantly
    04:06 realistic expectations
    05:24 don't take it personally
    06:03 get down to their level (5 specific techniques)
    06:57 use simple words
    07:57 provide options
    09:35 tell them what to do, instead of what not to do
    10:33 positive reinforcement

    • @dimitrimachin1281
      @dimitrimachin1281 9 місяців тому

      1. Patience (5 Things To Remember)
      2. Their Brains Are Still Developing
      3. Repeat Constantly
      4. Realistic Expectations
      5. Don’t Take It Personally
      6. Get Down To Their Level (5 Specific Techniques)
      7. Use Simple Words
      8. Provide Options
      9. Tell Them What To Do, Instead Of What Not To Do
      10. Positive Reinforcement

  • @nmenego1971
    @nmenego1971 3 роки тому +9

    We're expecting our first kid early next year. This is really helpful advice, and I'm surprised it does not have more views than it has! Thanks for this!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 роки тому

      We agree! Please share and that helps us get more views :)

  • @shemelleschernet1670
    @shemelleschernet1670 2 роки тому +3

    It so great! It works for my littles. Also I am very interested to learn more from Dad University to help my society.

  • @r4h_
    @r4h_ 4 роки тому +4

    This is amazing advice. Thank you so much. I recently discovered your videos and now I can't stop watching them. Extremely helpful information here. You've made me realize that as a father, I'm not putting in as much effort as I can or should be. I wish my own parents were able to give me this helpful advice but I feel as though they themselves struggled with these very same things when they were raising me. I can't tell you how helpful these videos are for me and my family. Please keep posting new videos. You have elevated me from being a good father to an AMAZING father. And I can't thank you enough.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому

      So glad that you are finding value from the videos. We are happy to have you as part of the community. We need fathers like you who are putting in the effort. It is powerful so thank you!

  • @nitolarioza
    @nitolarioza Рік тому +1

    Every kid and parent situation is diff. Just always make it fun

  • @NLuvMy
    @NLuvMy Рік тому

    Love the simplicity of explanation...just came across your videos..going thru few challenges and glad I heard some tips

  • @holyddogg7
    @holyddogg7 2 роки тому +1

    My 2nd video really appreciate it them and you taking the time to share

  • @tukimamurrell
    @tukimamurrell Рік тому +1

    Thank you for these reminders

  • @gentianamulgeci
    @gentianamulgeci Рік тому

    Thank you for your brilliant ideas ! I really need them now

  • @LaibaHfz-he4nm
    @LaibaHfz-he4nm Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing these are really helpful points 👍🏻

  • @ryanjourney1321
    @ryanjourney1321 4 роки тому +3

    Absolutely love the advice and love your videos!

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  4 роки тому

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  • @Lenath-xy5bm
    @Lenath-xy5bm 2 роки тому +1

    Best video ever. Thank you so much

  • @felisamoniquette2641
    @felisamoniquette2641 4 місяці тому

    My almost three year old grandson seems so hard headed. He is speech delayed however so maybe he doesn’t understand? It’s so frustrating for all of us. He is really bright however and can point to anything we ask, he just can’t say the words. We will try some of these techniques. Thank you. 👍🏼😊

  • @jeffreycyr1977
    @jeffreycyr1977 Рік тому +4

    My daughter just turned 2 and man she’s smart and very strong willed. She won’t hold my hand and wants to run in a public place. If I try and grab her hand she will fall to the ground and it’s embarrassing. I have to pick her up as she screams and yells while all other parts with young kids just walk hand and hand with no issues. She very very strong willed. Hellp

    • @desert_hunter83
      @desert_hunter83 Рік тому

      I can totally relate to this!!!
      Definitely the hardest part about taking them places is this behavior 😤

  • @deepaktelegisiddeshi2892
    @deepaktelegisiddeshi2892 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your suggestions 👍

  • @TalibanTone110
    @TalibanTone110 4 місяці тому

    Thanks

  • @iamwhoyousayiam6773
    @iamwhoyousayiam6773 2 роки тому +1

    Great video thanks

  • @jans724
    @jans724 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video!!

  • @Method5440
    @Method5440 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for making This a lot

  • @juliafru7522
    @juliafru7522 2 роки тому +1

    very helpful video. on a side note though, one doesn't always have the time to give the child options, there times when they'll just have to do as mom/dad says period. when it's time for them to face the real world out there, like school for instance, more often than not they will have to obey without necessarily being given options. I think balance is key here: sometimes you do let them choose so they can learn to be in control, other times they still need to listen and do as asked.

  • @eyeswideshutentertainment8408
    @eyeswideshutentertainment8408 5 місяців тому

    Great clip

  • @christineaird5884
    @christineaird5884 Рік тому +9

    My daughter runs towards the cats dish , picks it up , smiles at me then tosses the food all over and laughs. Where to start

  • @davidnelson8097
    @davidnelson8097 Рік тому

    Love it ,true😮

  • @jeanettemeyran6489
    @jeanettemeyran6489 3 місяці тому

    I HAVE the same situation with my 4 yr old grandson. He is also speech delayed so I wonder if he understands. I believe he does but is testing mer. Whatever I say or ask the majority of the time his answer is NO! HE turns his back ,folds his arms , and frowns with a NO. Moat times I ignore him while other times I lose my patience & force him to do what I ask. it ends up with him in tears.When he does cooperate I praise & thank him but I don't agree with options all the time. What have you tried?

  • @nicodemusharding2310
    @nicodemusharding2310 3 роки тому +1

    It's not about winning or losing but you will lose, if you not patient

  • @lesliechavez7600
    @lesliechavez7600 Рік тому +3

    How to get my toddler to eat her food? She doesn't want to eat most of her meals in a day

  • @andreavazquez1872
    @andreavazquez1872 2 роки тому

    Yes I’m having trouble with my 4 year old son he’s been saying so much bad words and I don’t know how to control it !! And his behavior too

  • @parrisbrown5253
    @parrisbrown5253 2 роки тому

    I’m struggling with my toddlers been trying to repeat and getting down to their level it’s like they ignore me been putting in corner too but that’s just escalated the issue so please help

  • @keylimetea
    @keylimetea 3 роки тому +1

    What if they bite other kids?

  • @maryannville
    @maryannville Рік тому

    My son likes to scream a screechy, loud scream, and he will not stop. It only happens once in a while, but it makes everyone else in the room say no, stop screaming. How can I handle this other than asking him to speak quietly, which does not work at all.

    • @etheledhrin7098
      @etheledhrin7098 Рік тому

      I have this problem as well - what I do is give him another sound to make instead. It’s a sound he likes to make (sounds like “mmNAH!”), so when he gets in scream mode I remind him of the other sound. It doesn’t always work, but a lot of times it does. I also sometimes remind him to hush by saying, “quiet,” or “sing if you’re happy.”
      Saying “no screaming” or “don’t scream” isn’t great because he hears the word scream and keeps it in his mind.

  • @thenarrowlife2018
    @thenarrowlife2018 Рік тому +1

    I am having such a hard time with my toddler she doesn’t listen to a word that I say at all.

  • @rachelanncanada7459
    @rachelanncanada7459 2 роки тому

    Yes my toddler never listen to me or anybody else what would I do to make her listen to me or to anybody ?

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 роки тому

      Try the things in the video over and over and over and over. Stick with it even if it's 100 times.

  • @emaali9311
    @emaali9311 2 роки тому

    What can I do to stop my son crying for everything. He doesn't listen any words if I tell it nicely or rudely. He always say no.im really really struggling with him.i lose my temper .when he cry for everything. I don't have any one alse to look after him as he stay with me 24/7 and being annoying all day I lose my temper sometimes. And one thing I don't like it he don't use his normal voice at all.he always use really annoying voice sounds. His 3 years 2 months old How can I stop please help me

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  2 роки тому +1

      You need a break. Find another parent and watch their child in exchange for your own time off.

  • @paulakoyoc.feldtart240
    @paulakoyoc.feldtart240 9 місяців тому

    I need so bad to be patience with my kids, and I also suffer of migraines and get frustated so fast. 😬

  • @kevinhkp
    @kevinhkp 3 роки тому

    Providing options only worked for one month for my son. So what else can I do?

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 роки тому

      How old is he?

    • @kevinhkp
      @kevinhkp 3 роки тому +1

      @@DadUniversity he is 3 and a half year old now. If neither options aren't what he like he would either ignore me or just said no.

    • @DadUniversity
      @DadUniversity  3 роки тому +1

      Stick with it. He is going to begin being more defiant. Part of that is wanting to be in control. He is going to be pushing boundaries and your buttons to see and learn how things work...and how far he can go. If you are inclined, you may want to consider my Parenting Program.

  • @shanellerandall9443
    @shanellerandall9443 Рік тому

    ...i have 2 toddlers

  • @brittcreech4985
    @brittcreech4985 10 місяців тому

    I wish he would just get to the point

  • @Sonya-c5x
    @Sonya-c5x 22 дні тому

    What the crap!!
    Daddy won’t let you have the cookie, I would be mad too’.
    Maybe explain to the child why daddy doesn’t want you to have the cookie. Instead of making daddy the villain.

  • @RegimentJoker
    @RegimentJoker 4 місяці тому

    Dude get to the point omg