5 Social Skills SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF
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I want to share with you 5 secrets that will get people to LIKE you. WITHOUT people pleasing, being fake, or feeling manipulative. Just like learning makes IQ smart - learning these make your EQ smart. Despite what some say, charisma and likability are learnable skills. the problem? No one teaches you this stuff - so no wonder so many people struggle in this area. Rather you want to use these next dates to increase the chances of a second one, everyday life improves interactions with whoever you meet, at work climbing the ladder makes more money, and incorporating just one or two of these tips can make all the difference. Literally, dozens of tips, re-frame, and techniques, but I want to share with you five of my personal favorite.
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Also, stop trying to force a “connection” with everyone! Be kind and genuine. If you’re desperately trying to find something in common, it’s really obvious and not attractive. Especially to anyone who has read the book that all of this advice came from.
book name?
@@Pbcvl how to win friends & influence people
Yess!! Find your own peeps 🧡
@@dream-nz9yb omg this book it's amazing
This guy teaching how to get people addicted to you and to like you and im in 20 seconds in the video and I hate him and hate his mouth and his teeth and his eyes are annoying 😫😫😫😫🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ this guy in the video is not attractive asf and I’m blocking him bye
Drawing attention to similarities between you and the other person is a big one for strengthening connection. Also, having your own hobbies/fun things you enjoy doing, and then talking about those things makes you so much more interesting of a person to talk with. You come off energized and like you are actually awake in life, not just going through the motions of work/eat/sleep.
Interesing point.
Being authentic is always the best thing to do in any scenario
Lol maybe 8/10 times 🤷♂️ gl tho
Until you realise nobody likes who you really are. Then what
@@loadapishfuck their opinion on me, care only about what God thinks of me
@@loadapishit isnt possible that nobody like who you REALLY are unless you are just an ahole, maybe your reputation is damaged, we like what is desired. Change spaces, an undervalued item can be a fan favorite in another market. Talk to people who values you and the rest will follow.
@@loadapish8 billion people and no one likes you?
Needed this! I started noticing the past month that I don’t make much eye contact I look past someone or around the room. It was because I was more anxious. I’m now aware and have been trying to look at the eyes more . The only way I noticed this in myself was bc I was talking to someone who wouldn’t make eye contact and then it hit me I was the same .
Great video as always!! Thanks for the help 🤗
I have been trying to find a mentor for quite sometime now and man did you hit on everything I need to hear! thank you man.
First time watching you Clark, and I must say that you are a great storyteller! Love how you talk about examples happening in your real life or something that you came across which captures our interest, to then later on connect that with a social skill. Keep it up brodie👊
Our experience with tip number 4 really resonates with me, and I can relate to the struggle of accepting compliments and the realization that my "humility" was, in a way, a form of backward arrogance. It's interesting how sometimes what we perceive as humility can actually be a mask for insecurity or a fear of vulnerability. When I started forcing myself to accept compliments genuinely and simply say "thank you," I, too, felt exposed and vulnerable. It made me confront my ego and the discomfort of being seen and appreciated for my strengths. However, just like you, I recognized that this discomfort indicated an area for personal growth, much like a form of shadow work.
GREAT CONTENT! THANKS, CLARK!
This is so helpful for me personally, but also for my next story. There’s been something missing with one of my characters and your first tip is perfect! 😊
Another great video! Can’t wait for the next one
True talk, you seem real to me and relatable. It's one of the reasons I like ya.
I had an appraisal today with the head boss, made lots of eye contact while engaging the other interviewer. Nailed it !
the biggest thing in communicating is sometimes having a goal to reach through the conversation good video:)
Good advice here. Having good social skills are definitely a must have in life and I know so many people that would benefit from this. A lot of people don’t even know that information like this is out there!
Very empowering content, thank you!
It's basically about the dream life of people with social anxiety. Thanks for spreading those tips!
I really like the 1st tip. I have a lot of anxiety around talking with people at work when it comes to confronting them about work issues. My thoughts take over, and I chicken out of communicating what is important to me. Thanks, Clark, for putting it in perspective for me 😊👍
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Really helpful, thanks! Might incorporate this video into my English classes. 😍
thank you for all the information, you are really helping a lot of people🙏
These videos are so good. Great information.
Another good tip is active listening in conversation. For instance when someone talks about something they like even though you may not be on the same page, mention it in your response and ask intentional questions about the subject that point to the interest and the person your talking it. It shows you really care what they are talking about and want to know more about them rather than saying “that’s cool and than moving on to another subject.”
Also be sensitive to the conversation. Share the conversation. Don’t take over and do most the talking. Don’t dominate the conversation. Make it fair, share some of your thought and also leave room for them to share there thoughts. And most importantly ask questions. If they don’t ask back on your thoughts than I highly recommend you make room in your response with your thoughts so than you don’t feel drained. Not everyone has these social skills or awareness so don’t be a stranger to advocate for yourself by including your thoughts in your response just in case you talk to someone who lacks that social grace.
Regarding tip number 4. I used to be one of those people; in many ways I still am. But at one point I realized that my "humility" was being a sort of backwards arrogance: i found myself having a much harder time grappling with my ego when I started forcing myself to just... Accept the compliments. I realized that just accepting, and genuinely just saying "thank You" was making me feel vulnerable and somewhat "exposed", so I started forcing myself to doing it more and more. I though "Wow, if it is feeling so hard to do, then it must mean learning how to do it it's good for me.". Kinda like a shadow work thing, If that makes sense
I've always had problems with keeping eye contact. But then someone told me "Look at their eye color, notice if there's a difference between the eyes". It gives the mind something to do, it's not just staring... Works for me :)
I’m going to try this! Thanks for sharing
Vinnie Jones, of all people said, that if you look at one eye and not both of them, it makes it easier.
I quite like that first one. I'm guilty of spending way too much time in my head, and as a result, it does take me away from the social aspect. I'll try to remember this.
This was great, thanks!
Solitude, self love is the key to many love 😊❤️
Very very very good video!!!
Clark. MY MAN always on point inspired by you. GAVIN FROM SOUTH AFRICA
“The eyes chico, they never lie”
You sure about that? 🌺
Always fun informative videos to watch! Love it! Also.....your eye contact lol.
Loving your vibes...❤thanx again for another winner 🏆 🥇 🏅 👏 😉🙏🏻💯 💙
Great video!
Thanks for sharing us this video. It really helps out a lot in self improvement.
Nice advice bud!
Great informative video
Great vid thanks.
Excellent video
Really good job
Everytime I watch your videos I leave having learned something.
It doesn't matter if they like you or not...you do need them to respect you for sure
Have a great week clark
This is awesome! 😊
Bro got the vibe subscribed ✅
Just " don't care "; it's refreshing and the freedom you feel makes you standout.
Also exercise and drink coffee. My confidence has been sky-rocketing ever since!
U deliver great content - glad I found u.
Plus you’re easy to look at 😉
Glad to see you still have the Mustang :)
Your content is a 10/10 awesome 👍👍
It took me forever! To get used to taking compliments.
I was always - yea thanks but it can still look better…..etc.
Just say thank you. Return it with a likewise compliment. Extra brownie points.
The art of caring less remains priceless.
This is great!
Clark’s voice is so comforting
thank you for your tips i agree with you
Be KIND & GENEROUS. Everything will follow❤😊
Clark, you don't need to mess up twice. Most people will not notice if you mess up once, unless it's really bad. If I mess up and mention it when I come off stage, usually people will say, "really, I did notice."
Yaayy Clark new vdo...❤
I absolutely adore your videos 🤍🤍
Also when someone complements you you can tag on thank you for noticing (blank). And boomerang it back to them. This is what worked for me
Do you have a podcast? I would defenitly listen to you for hours
Dude you're so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have me cracking up at every other words you say you are something else I love it 🕺🕺🎉🎉🎉
6:50 is so spot on.
You keep bringing up hollow earth in your videos and it's one of my friend's special observation. And he is truly one of the most interesting person I know 😂
Never thought i'd see Superman open a UA-cam channel!
Thank you...
cool video, but as a non-native what I'm really grateful for it's the phrase "snooze fest" 😁 thx man
I’ve never been able to maintain eye contact. It has held me back all my life and has prohibited me from forming relationships.
This is great
Thank you
Nice video👍
I really love, "mess up twice."
You had me at "borderline drinking problem"
Thank You for this information
like 👍👍
not saying it everything was groundbreaking and new to hear but i agreed with all points
Great advice! Also, I can't put my finger on it but this guy reminds me of some celebrity
Genius person
Be real to win the heart not just the game ❤
I agree, Apple Store staff are very polite and friendly im a way your willingness to buy something increases
Eye contact is a tough one for me. I need to do it more beucase I get a ton of anxiety with eye contact. Need to get over it.
Great video man ~~~!!! Enjoyed watching this !
Man your perspective 😊❤just woww
Lol 😂 ‘ Just so you know I have a borderline drinking problem’
I love how you occasionally throw funny scenarios.
Here are 5 secrets to enhance your social skills and make yourself more attractive to others. These techniques will help you to connect with people in a genuine way, without resorting to manipulation or insincerity. Charisma and likability are skills that can be learned, just like any other skill. Unfortunately, most people are not taught these skills, which is why so many struggle in this area. By incorporating these tips into your daily life, you can improve your interactions with everyone you meet and even climb the ladder at work. While there are dozens of tips and techniques,
Hello nice guy am listening your lecture
.# the thing is am cooking my launch to tomorrow on work or job this great hunting much stuff
Man i love how literally going into public has become not only overly complicated, but a legit market for coaching 😂
lol I had the same thought
I think you meant 'uninteresed' in the small talk section. Disinterested refers to not having a vested interest in a matter, like a judge should be disinterested in the court case, letting justice be served fairly. Just helping out your great content!
Nothing you say makes sense to me. All tips given, I hate when people do those things to me. I need to watch more of these videos it seems ;D
Good vid
As an alien lifeform trying to pass as human, this was really helpful
My mom used to say learn to laugh at yourself. So if you have an embarrassing moment most times I just laugh with every one else. I don't feel they are judging me. More like saying ooh my! I've done that before.
Was with ya till you said that’s why celebrities share personal vulnerabilities. I see all celebrities as fake and figured they knew sharing vulnerability was a way to connect but that for them there is some sort of motive, agenda or manipulative programming going on. Perhaps I need therapy…or perhaps I’m right 🤓
You love Hollow Earth!!!!
Unfortunately eye contact for Autistics and neurodivergent individuals is a major difficulty- I can *do* it but then all my focus goes into dealing with the eye contact and I have almost no ability to process what the individual is saying. Autistic culture, like the d/Deaf culture, has a whole different swathe of social and interactive cues.
Love u friend ❤
This guy's a genius
thanks
Thanks, Clark 👍
Thank you Ben Affleck. Loved you as Bruce Wayne.
you addicted us to you . its true 👍