How to Cope With a Female Bully Boss
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How to Cope With a Female Bully Boss
Sometimes 'mean girls' who cruelly judge and ridicule their peers grow up to be bosses who bully. What's a woman to do when her boss is making her life miserable? Rachel Simmons, author of Odd Girl Out has good advice for anyone coping with a female boss who is a bully. - Навчання та стиль
I much prefer a male boss. Women can be so conniving and manipulative.
***** I'm sorry to hear that. Are you still working for that horrible boss?
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Females bosses are the worst; take my word for it; then again there are some men bosses who are like women. This advice is useless if she has it out for you as a boss/supervisor. Two roads to go down, a) you fight fire with fire in a conservative way within the workplace b) you quit. If you choose route (a) be prepared, have facts, explain situations and there may be "down days" but always have your guard ready, which can be exhausting so get plenty of rest.
The only toxic male boss I ever had was the kind of guy who would yell at someone and would continue the bully behavior until the employee pushed back. If you stood your ground, and basically said "I know what I'm doing. I know how to do my job" he would actually back off. You could earn his respect that way, and the bully behaviors would stop. But... with female bosses I've had the behavior is very subtle and toxic and schoolyard-playground-quality "mean girls" - and it doesn't stop when you confront them. They just adopt some other tactic that might not be as obvious. Building a workplace clique and then excluding you from it is an obvious clue.
I hate working under women and I will quit
I never thought I'd hate women but I do
Never had this issue with a male boss.
The fact that women prefer to work for men than to other women says it all.
Glad that you haven't - I've had both (a bully male boss and females too).
Woman are nice, outside of the workplace. However, given a bit of power then they are crazy
Women show aggression by gossip, innuendo and character assassination.
No way would I tell a bully boss that I feel embarrassed or humiliated. That would only make their day better and keep me an easy target. Bad advice here.
Exactly. That’s only ok to say if you’re quitting and walking out the door.
Not if you use it to your advantage. Flip it around to something say likeeee, emotional abuse/distress, anxiety, PTSD maybe 🤔?……….
Yes this is terrible advice. If your boss, male or female, is a bully, and/or your workplace is toxic, RUN very fast.
Its very true, especially withholding of information, misrepresenting what happened and isolating people.
never trust the HR department they are on your bosses side I swear they are!!!!
Agreed
Of corse, they are there to protect your boss and company. They do not work for you
Unless you talk to the right person
That's why a whole team of HR got fired in this company I worked for because of the favoritism
I had a female supervisor and she was very very NASTY and I believe that she was possessed by demons. She was very jealous,verbally abusive and she made me feel very isolated. I ended up leaving that job and from what I understand,she hasn't changed at and she has been in trouble a lot and she has a bad reputation. When I left that job, not only did I get a better position and more pay but I actually have a boss that is PROFESSIONAL. I said all that to say that if you have an office bully, just find yourself another job and then quit the one you have now. People will eventually realize that their behavior will cause people to leave them alone and/or not want to be bothered. I know one thing, that female has very low self esteem and the way she treated me was out of jealousy because she was intimidated by me. When you have a supervisor or a boss like that, usually they are trying to over compensate for what they lack. And when they see a person who naturally has what they don't have or what they want, they attack. I mean, think about it; the reason why people attack you is because they really are scared and intimidated by not only what you can do but by what you can become. If your in that situation, just know that you're not alone and God is on your side.
LTAries88 ur right I’m going through what u went through now and I can’t leave my job I get paid alot of money
LTAries88 Thank you so much for this because I'm a man who's dealt with this myself form both genders.
LTAries88 i just read this and it made my day
LTAries88 I think my boss is related to my boss - she's the exact same way!
LTAries88 Most of the female supervisors can be bitches some never check in with you at work to see if your working or not and just have others help you out for the supervisor which is a crummy job to be in. You almost feel like your in a Mean Girls scene.
I'm a woman- i also much prefer a male boss. This is why-
If a guy is a boss and he's a complete ass, he tends to behave that way towards everyone, and even though some people might get it worse, the frustration will still be experienced by pretty much everyone in the office at some point.
However, if you have a woman as a boss and she's a complete bitch, she tends to target very specific people and be very two faced- which causes the victims to feel isolated and seems to be far more hurtful.
birdwithabrokenwing im going through this right now applying all over,the place so i can leave I cant even sleep well because I have anxiety from it
You totally described my current situation
I had a female boss who would focus her assholiness on only certain workers at a time. It was like a game of tag! She was very condescending and talked to you like you were the dumbest thing shed ever laid eyes on. I transferred out of her department after 4 years of being made to know she was my boss! She is now terrorizing another department.
Agreed. I had a few raging male bosses, but then everyone knew to stay away from them. They could also be reasoned out of their rage. My bad female bosses (they're not all bad) have been controlling, passive aggressive, sarcastic, conniving, belittling, two-faced, backstabbing, snotty, defensive, and gaslighting. It is very difficult to address that kind of behavior.
Give me a male boss. Women prioritize conformity and rule following, not productivity and wok flow.
Yes, that is true ... I hate it so much! I had been working both with male and female boss... This is extremely accurate!
Yes, the flow of your wok is very important and men are excellent at that from what I've heard. Long live the stir fry!
There's a female office manager at work. She's not *my* manager, but she tries to act like she is. The other day, she said something really rude to me in front of other workers, then she went to her office. I went to her office and put her in her place so bad, she nearly crapped herself in her chair.
Great that you did! I believe that is the key to a passive aggressive or aggressive person period, do not allow them to get away with bad behavior get with them immediately.
Good job 👍
I had a run in with a receptionist at my work, she isn’t a manager but I think she is just in charge of reception. She said I must sign in, and I said there is no requirement for me to do that, when my manager came she actually backed me up and said there is no requirement. It was basically this woman on a huge power trip!
Forza223 Bowe I had that same thing happen and the rat told the white-knight pansy owner who fired me. The white-knight joiners are the weakest dudes on the planet.
If you're a man, you got lucky with that. You could have earned yourself some serious false accusations.
I have a very emotional and manipulating female boss. She never encourages or appreciates me. I feel so stressful, depressed, and tired, but I couldn't quit my job because I live alone so I have to financially independent. She bullied me through text, called me almost every hour, blame me for every single things, she even yelled at me in front of others, she make alliance with others and she tell many worse things about me behind my back, sometimes she really good at me in front of others, she has unstable mood, but she always really friendly with men.. Well, I really really hate her.. :(
Hope you found another job.
I wouldn’t put up with it, tell her how she is making you feel and what steps can we improve this?
True.This is also happen to me. Female managers somehow like to bully other women yet being so friendly and attention seeking towards men.
If she's friendly with men and is mean to her fellow woman then she's seeking attention from men could possibly be a side slot
I have a women boss who is a bully. By watching this it has shown me more than I realized was happening to me.
Be valuable and you can walk away from any job. Its shocking that these women can get employment let alone become the boss.
They will put an act in the interview process
Going through this now. Began with me speaking in private to her about respect and now she is turning it up several notches. Been looking for a new job, waiting to leave!
Mariah G I hope that you’ve found a better job by now!
Yeah this will be my 2nd time speaking to this woman in private about her actions. At first I was looking for a new job, and then I looked around the office and realized that many people “quit”, they don’t get “fired” which means people are backing down, which makes the office a revolving door, yet management never changes. I will not be bullied out of my workplace, I will leave when I am ready to leave (as long as I don’t get fired), but I won’t allow her to run me off like everyone else.
I have used the phrase "I felt" with the bully and the mediator separately and was told by both, no one can make you feel anything, that comes from you. It was very dismissive and seemed to provide an out for the bad behaviour I was experiencing
so....the bully always wins
There is one winning move and I find it to be soooo sweet. Act incredibly happy and it will eat your controlling female boss up. She hates her life and she wants you to be miserable like her but I'm telling you if you can pull off a performance of acting incredibly happy you will see the palpable change in your boss and she seethes in impotent vitriol. I'm testing this out and it's working so far...want to see if I can get her to misstep.
I used to have a female boss, who was very missable and strict and didn’t seem human at times.
Yep
These days you are more than likely to have a female manager, but why do so many of them SUCK?? It seems they are petty and calculating and try to find ways make your miserable out of sheer vindictiveness. I've heard many female friends say that they would MUCH rather work for a man, simply for these very reasons. As for going to HR, if you're in a hostile work environment, I'm highly skeptical that they do anything except circle the wagons and find a way to cover their own ass before trying to screw you over.
I'm a feminist but I have to agree with you 100%. I want women to do better. Toxic femininity exists. If I ever find myself in the boss role, I promise I will never be a Karen.
@@storyvi9530 , yeah when you have a power, you will show your true corlor, but I hope I am wrong .
@@vovanminh999 Not afraid to show my true colours.
My bully boss would talk about you behind your back to other staff. I found this disgusting so what I did was say when the boss was in ear shot what I thought of grown women that did this. "There's no excuse for talking in a negative way about a co-worker behind their back to other staff, this is actually a form of bullying & a breach of our workplace OHS policy" Needless to say she was a lot more cautious and kept her mouth shut.
Thank you ladies! I'm a male and this definitely helps understand and cope regarding some "toxic" female bosses I've had.
None of these strategies work. Find another place to work.
My boss who is a controlling woman had an employee who outbitched her and played the HR game for years before she finally quit. My boss is shaken up about it and seems to be erratic in her decision making based on her last employee and I don't think she realizes that I as a man do not have even half the power my female predecessor had in terms of HR complaints.
Call HR and bring documented proof and they will have to explain, just keep doin that, Fight at all costs.
Usually co-workers will stay away from you, because they do not want to go down with you, your co-worker does not sign your check ,when everyone avoids you look somewhere else to work.
I was bullied at my workplace by a female manager for two years and this video has made me feel so much better about myself. She made me feel insignificant, and I would often cry after completing my shifts, just from the trauma she inflicted.She eventually left after a new manager wouldn't put up with her ways any longer. Although she was gone, the scars were there, and I left the organisation. Sadly, I think I would have thoroughly enjoyed my job if it wasn't for her.
I like this! However it’s the same old thing the victims at the end always have to leave, and that psycho-bully is allowed to move to the next victim! What is needed is legislation includes psychological harassment and bulling in the work place in the Health and Safety Act, and then you have some grounds to challenge the bully and the agencies that endorse that kind of behaviour.
Strongly agree
Thats the worst part is that the victim leaves a they move onto some other poor cow usually its the old hags picking on attractive women in there 20s n 30s ive noticed
@@leebassett9623 yea it’s happening to me now
I don't want you to feel that all women are like this. It's really sad that in a system where you take care of people, your coworkers treat you horribly. I'm a woman and I don't go talking about people behind their back, or do anything to jeopardize their job. I'm not like that; I have a life, and I care about people. I have humility. If people keep treating you like this to the point where you can't treat your patients 100% for fear of your job, then maybe you should get out.
if you're a nurse, I get it because I am one. they eat each other for breakfast and almost always female bosses.
I've complained to HR about my manager and HR told my manager I called them complaining, my manager then called me in the office just to indirectly threaten to fire me if it happens again.
First thing you need to realize is you can't complain to anyone in the office or Human Resources (management working for management) -- they are likely friendly with your dragon lady boss. First thing you need to do ... get your resume in order and get out while you still have a modicum of dignity and self worth.
None of this works. It's a very passive approach.
I can't believe I'm going through this here!!!!
Awesome video! I can totally relate to these bad situations unfortunately. Thank you so much for posting
I have come across this over and over again within the last 7-8 years. It has progressively gotten worse. Have had to change my job many times. I have just changed yet again at it is very present at the new place. This time I have decided to ride it out as it doesn’t help to leave anymore - THEY ( The narcissist manager) are everywhere now. All I can do to keep sane is write everything down. Also I have talked with the other manager so he knows that I am not the “crazy” one. He sees I am a sane and sound person. He even agreed she is “off”. So it’s helpful to explain to other manager. Maybe not always though. This problem is going to get worse. My personal opinion is this is all because of social media it is turning people into terrible narcissists.
My boss cannot even speak English properly. She screams and shouts at her employees. She doesn't have people skills. When I was a supervisor at my previous job, I would never talk to people that way. Management sides with their own where I work as a result it is a toxic work environment as a result, we have a high turn over rate and there always job openings.
I went through exactly the same experience. The only difference was I got married and then pregnant, and this female boss was sooo jealous and started bulling me like hell. The HR clearly took her side.
As sorry that you went through that experience. Glad that this video helped a bit. Hope things are better where you are currently at.
At my current job I have a female boss who told me not to ask coworkers questions and only her. That said, when I go to her she gets upset that I am asking her questions and speaks to me in a degrading way for asking her things that she expects me to already know. Anyone in this situation?
Why do you have a job? Aren't you supposed to be trying to hit bottom?
@@slappy8941 ?
Yes marla been there before. The best solution is ask your co-workers questions that you don't know when your female boss isn't within any proximity of you and above all else do not ever engage with your female boss what she's essentially doing is keeping tabs on you so she can spread her cancer.
@@ragethegreat Small setting :(
@@marlasinger1276 try asking during your lunch break or after work if possible.
Thanks for watching and chiming in! :) The more people stand up and make a statement the more awareness we will have to make change.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that experience. I think this is a much bigger problem that most people realize. Thanks for watching.
as guy that has had many female bosses one thing that has helped me a lot is the "just because I am nice and a gentleman don't allowed yourself to think that I am or want to be your friend" attitude. is one of those things that I don't ever tell them yet they figure it out with in a couple of days and it helps to keep the pistons firing on all cylinders.
that's good advice, but I have found after having many female bosses that they don't harass the men as much.
So sorry that you turned in your notice! That is so not fair is it? But you are EXACTLY RIGHT...Your sanity is more important than your pride! Hopefully your family is very supportive of your decision and hopefully your next job will be completely rewarding! Good luck!
Confront the bully boss.. honestly and do so in front of others.. by confront I don't mean "go off" on them.. I mean if they told you things and switch it around.. you let them know that.. also NEVER go into a room alone with them if you don't trust them.. it will always be their word against your word.. and they most likely WILL change your words around.. ALWAYS have a witness and demand it.. tell them no you need a second person with you.
Her boss is the Director of IT AND the office manager. She did nothing at the time even though the behavior was very hostile, very strange. Afterwords I went to the head of HR. He said because he wasn't there he couldn't do anything and the Director/office manager was laying low until I told her how I felt. You saw it!" I said, so she told me she'd have a word with her. She told me she thought I handled the situation very well. I believe this boss of mine is a seriously disturbed woman.
The culprit in my case was HR...just got fired last Friday.
Cynthia Emerson sorry to hear it!
Only thing you can do with a horrible boss, is monitor the situation and hope it improves. If not, then it’s time to call for a meeting with her/him and tell them how you feel, it might not go well. In my case it didn’t, and she became very defensive. Sometimes it’s better to find another job
This is the best video I've seen on youtube. Thank you. I feel a lot better about it what has been happening in the last 3 years of my life now.
I worked at a school district where the biggest bully was the HR manager. Most abusive, toxic, manipulative person I've ever encountered. She's still there and has left a swath of damage over the decades.
CONFRONTATION WILL BE DIFFICULT AND OFTEN BEHAVIOUR GETS WORSE!!!!🧐
@pitbullexpress, absolutely. I suffered for a long time and in the end, this bully got me fired! Statis show majority of targets will leave or be fired. I was a fantastic employee & she hated me for it. Bullies will do everything to get rid of you so why wait! Get out before you're pushed out, a determined bully will ruin your emotional health and your career, that's the whole idea, that's what they want so it's no good asking them, bullies don't live by the same ethics as normal people do.
I loved this video, thanks a lot. Will you post more video about the same topic? Thanks in advance and for your great guest.
They don’t just not grow out of it they become better at it..
Woman-on-woman bullying, as women have officially become 50% of the workforce for the first time. In a Workplace Bullying Institute survey, female bullies target other women 71% of the time. Additionally, female bullies more frequently engaged in under-the-radar behaviors such as sabotage (53.7% of female vs. 39.9% of male bullies) and abuse of authority (50.2% vs. 44.7%), as compared to the more observable form of verbal abuse engaged in by more male (57.5%) than female bullies (47.1%).
give a man power we'll tolerate his nonsense but give a woman power then we're all finished
Insightful and useful information. Thank you.
Once again, great topic and tips. I love the energy of these characters.
What is the point of confronting if the person won't change?
I have experienced this as an intern. I don't think I learned even one thing from the six-month internship, except what I don't want to be. She would keep critical info from me, constantly comment on what I was eating (even told me I need to eat more and took pics of me eating), and brought me into her office to ask me if I was abused as a child. Still to this day, if I run into her, she looks me up and down and talks down to me as if I am still her intern.
exactly whats happening to me im new at this new job and some of the girls there are rude and with hold information that they should have told me during the training so i have to rely on them which is prob what they want aka control so anywho im quiting soon
I transferred to another building. Was glad to get rid of the evil witch. Best move I made. There was no talking to her.
Thanks ladies. Excellent video and information. I have a female bully boss. She is conniving and manipulative.
Same☹️☹️🥺🥺🥺
Do you feel that this has help the situation? Have you been at this workplace long? Do you feel that maybe she has it "in" for you? How long has it been since you first started saying this statement loud enough for her to hear?
So glad that you liked it! Thanks for watching and commenting! :)
To be fair HR won t do anything, I work in HR and my female boss is exactly like this… leave. Don t look back, there are choices
What if a female employee acts like she's in control because she's in with the boss, and is mean and nasty too you, and constantly gossips about you and tries to throw you under the bus with the boss? Thnks
Had that happen to me. Two nasty people to watch out for. I left because I was always waiting for the next sarcastic comment to come my way. I can't stand bullies.
Been there...it gets pretty bad.
Thank you for this video
WOW! That is crossing boundaries! Does sound like you have found a way for her to respect you. However, it is probably much easier when she in no longer your boss.
Why did they need a green screen with this video?
Yes it is a shame. Not ever leader is a GOOD leader. Some have been given the position/title and like you said, can not handle it. Others do great! (Parenting is the same way) Some "followers" are only followers b/c they are new or have not worked up to that role, YET. But usually great employees will eventually be at least a good leader. Thanks for chiming in. :)
I had a manager that black mailed me. I was being harassed by a fifty year old man and she said that if I went to corporate that she and all the managers would lie to corporate and tell them that I never reported them. She fired me months later with the Proprietor even knowing. Is it a bad idea to go to corporate now?
Totally hear what you are saying! What do you do to protect yourself?
I'm dealing with a bully boss and co workers, I'm a targeted person so they do job sabotage crimes daily
That is so sickening! Hostile work Environment/ Harassment. My current Boss is Nuts. Ms. Jackyl/Ms. Hyde. Pay a compliment one minute and threaten the next.
To get rid of one manager they made another woman my boss--a woman that, over the last 20 years, seven or eight people who worked under her or had a run in with her would tell me (unsolicited) to watch out for her and not trust her. For some reason she believes because she's now MY boss she has the right to be nasty and bullying. She's also very stupid and had a most spectacular meltdown on Tuesday, bullying me, yelling at me and generally showing how stupid she is all in front of her own boss.
That is true. Lots of people do work from home but not necessarily making "it rich" though.
WOW! That is a tough situation to be in and no one should have to put up with it. In this economy, it seems to be a bigger problem than most people think. Thanks for your recommendation, it will be passed along.
I just wish if u would make a whole series about this topic. I was harassed like hell in two jobs. Especially after I got pregnant. The HR would seldom take the side of an employee in relation to a boss! I know it would be easier to leave the job, but I hate to feel weak &incapable of facing troubles.On top from what I experienced;as soon as the boss turns her back to an employee, the rest of the coworkers would find it easier to also turn their back to the same employee trying to avoid troubles
Thanks for commenting of this with some good sound advice! :)
God Bless you all!!! Please document, document,and document!! The dates,times,and the conversations!! Also, If you have 'friendly' co-workers that are willingly to write a witness statement,but remain anonoymous you have just won your case possibly if it goes to court!!
What goes around, really does come around!! PLEASE do not keep your log@the job,keep it at your house in a safe place. David took Goliath down and JESUS will help you!!
The Law was made for the lawless!!! Find an Lawyer,quick!!!
this is so true im 21 and the ladies i worked with wur 48-60 but they acted worse than 5th graders toward me
Mine's not a bully, but she isn't very patient or understanding. Too bad she overheard me telling a dypraxic coworker "she doesn't really understand the difficulties with learning disabilities, so you'll have to be patient and excuse her for however she reacts to the innocent mistakes you make."
Answer: You don't work for a female boss. No matter how much money, don't validate the insanity of the times we are living in.
This is very true. If someone is trying to bully you at work you need to address it with a HR. I had an ignorant immigrant supervisor. My HR did nothing. I felt so uncomfortable and upset all the time. So I had to resign.
Are companies with distributed workforces (employees work from home or in coworking spaces around the country or the globe) less likely to experience this? Is it more common in hierarchical organizations than in flatter, less hierarchical organizations (I would assume the answer to that question is yes).
Sounds like you were in a good position b/c you had witnesses. That is always a good situation to be in to back your story/complaint.
i don't like the "i felt that..." method. i used it and they will 100% tell you "this is YOUR interpretation of things and that has no meaning in the workplace". plus they will have no trouble interpreting things from their point of view while you are blocked out. they're very sneaky. record, write down and never be alone with them. point blank period.
That is tough! How long have you been there?
So...I've been working w a bully. HR did not help me...I resigned my job. Looking for a now
What can I do when I don't have a human resources dept. and I don't have allies at work because they all quit... sadly it's only me and her and I can't afford to quit cold turkey. Can I report her behavior to someone higher than her outside of the company?
I made similar experiences.. But I'm so glad to know I'm not alone.
As a female, I believe teamwork is most important than just giving orders. It is important to hear what others have to say and be professional while providing a friendly environment. I don´t understand why other female bosses are jerks for no reason. That´s not how you earn respect or run a business.
Excellent
I’ve worked for both men and women. I am positive that men and women can be bullies in the workplace. It’s not a male or female thing. It’s an ego thing.
Not a gender thing. A sociopath is a sociopath.
It's a gender thing. Male bosses treat everyone equally, women target/pick their battles. And they LIE, all the time.
Female bosses tend to be more sociopathic and narcissistic than men.
@@sacreed1 as a female I have to say this is laughable. Most male bosses I've had don't treat women equally.
@@H.K.Firebelly Lol, at least I don't see male bosses withholding information, mete out the silent treatment and being passive aggressive. Also I don't think they target a particular gender to bully.
@@footballophileinaeternum5344 I've had male bosses who do all of those things. Treating men and women differently isn't necessarilly the same thing as bullying.
I had one that, like the video mentioned, she would give me wrong directions and then deny it. I came back with 'oh, I misunderstood, I will start taking notes from now on'. Which was my way of saying - OK, I am going to start recording your crap! From then on, I would repeat her directives back to her. I found my own passive-aggressive way to combat her passive-aggressive ways. Of course, she had other tactics, I would just wait for the opportune moment to passive-aggressively call her out.
awesome video
I'm at the point where I'm afraid to come into work. I want to bring this up to my Supervisor but I'm worried it'll make things worse. I don't know what to do. I'm trying to perform better at work with hopes she'll leave me alone. But I don't think so.
MorningGlory11 Thank you.
Author Janae Marie no she never will. record it with your cell phone take time to write it down. also. make a case with the EOC
Since she and I work in the same industry and I do run into her from time to time, how can I let her know my boundaries now and get her to respect me and not keep treating me like her intern from 2yrs ago?
Being strong enough not "to take it anymore" is character. Hope that you have some strong leads and current employment opportunities.
Once worked for a mean, man hating, masculine lesbian boss. Had she been a man, I would have beat the crap out of her.(100%) Got so bad I considered a capital crime, but lucky for me I left before I went through with my idea.
How did they get hired in the first place???? is beyond me????
The write ups are filled with fabricated slander against a hard working employee who just simply try to speak up for themselves where that mean boss so quick to label them as someone with a bad attitude.
When u do an exit interview and if u do have complaints, the best thing is to write I decline to respond. If u write everything is fine, everything u write can and will be used against u in court.
What if I was in the middle of speaking to the HR director and the person I'm having a hard time with comes barging in telling me I shouldn't be going around telling others what problem I'm dealing with even tho it's wrong! The HR never even stood up for me. They appear to all be on one "team" can I go straight to the CEO?
Bad advice. I can't believe your reply....
the power they have is real and very scary,,i tried to stand up to my young female boss and her cronies,my life was hell for 6 months,i got written up for everything,she put me back on probation which revoked all my rights and seniority,no overtime,no xmas business and promoted all her loyal workers to some kind of supervisor position,everyday she called me in and asked me if i think she should let me go today and make me answer why i should stay
zoose21 omg I think I have the same boss as you! especially being on probation - my boss told me that no one likes me and I cried infront of her & she gave 0 fucks yet turns our everyone did like me and she just said that to be mean and belittle my mistakes on the job
I’m currently in that situation and I have voice recordings and I’m relying on this job to support myself financially. I really can’t afford to expose her, I’ve only been here 2 months and i don’t wanna look like the person who just got here and acted like a spoilt brat. She mentally manipulates me. I will send you the voice recording and my statement if you could please give me some advice