It's not a fetish for women of color, it's his preference. Some people are attracted to thin people, some people are attracted to older people. It is his personal preference. Akinyi is a beautiful and intelligent woman.
@@katerineella274 Your name sort of sounds like one a UA-camr's name but switched have you heard of Ella Katherine she's one who's audience is generally Gen Z females so more than likely not if you're on a page like this I just wanted to point that out.
Genuine couple ever in the show. I had chills 😍 seeing how his family welcomed her into the family. I was speechless when he took her to his late mother's grave 😢 that said it ALL. Girl you're blessed 🙌 🙏
You guys are so genuine!! You're love for each other is easy to see. I love that you both have Jesus as your savior!! Best wishes and God bless you & you're family!!!
Congrats on the wedding! You handled naysayers perfectly. Americans are unfiltered at times so you handled yourselves well. You are a good representation of Kenya brains and beauty. God bless you both.
My parents were from different countries, cultures and race. I grew up watching them adjusting and accepting. They taught me the value of acceptance, patience, flexibility and respect. Both sets of grandparents were fantastic and supportive and I feel that my life has been rich in diversity and love.
I have a little bit of advice when it comes to the questions from others. Screen the ones out that ask or say demeaning insulting things. Literally ignore them. The ones that say you can do better and talk about balding etc. I mean really? They don’t deserve any attention. That’s just uncalled for.
Right I was thinking the same thing. Some of the questions were so rude and they dont deserve to be talked to that way. They are both Awesome and kind. I love Akiny and Benjamin.
So happy to see you two! 😍 And, glad that Akinyi made it to the USA. Your love is beautiful, and genuine and I wish you both continued success and a happy relationship. Stay blessed! ❤
People are so rude! Benjamin u are a kind hearted, handsome guy don’t listen to these ugly hearted unkind people! I love watching the love between u two. I’m so happy u are finally together in the USA!! “God Bless You Both”
Good Job. Benjamin is a really good guy. Akinyi is in love. Kenyan girls are humble and loyal. I am happy for you guys. Akinyi tuwakilishe vizuri. Make your parents proud.
Be gentle with your husband, honey always works better than vinegar. It’s major adjustment getting to know each other, different cultures etc. Be open and respectable with each other, nurture each other, and keep some of your affairs private. God bless, and wish you both the best. Don’t pay any attention to onlookers, stereotypes exist everywhere. Be confident with your own love language
Presenting what? Married a white guy? What a presentation! These are two normal people who happened to fall in love period. Hope they are in love . Bless them 🙏
She is so intelligent! Listen at how great the English is too! I always thought she didn't have such a big personality love seeing you keeping it 100 definitely subscribing
@@smileyseverywhere No, English is her third language, Luo, Swahili, English, and most Kenyans are quite eloquent while speaking in English. And yeah, command in English is never a measure of intelligence
I pray God you will live together for life n love till you get old together and until death do you part. I love and appreciate you guys and I feel like I have a white American brother and a black African sister. Hello my American white brother, my black African sister. I’m your Jamaican/American sister. Love you love s! Blessings!! Blessings!!!
It really saddens me when people see color. My children's Godfather is African American,and they are Irish American. We have sadly been on the receiving end of ignorance because of the difference in our pigmentation. I tell my boys to pray for those people because they are missing out on the love when they limit themselves to a skintone.
I think it's worth noting that people of colour don't want you to "not see colour". We would rather you acknowledge there is a difference and do better at being more accomodating
The worst thing that you can ever say is that you cannot see color does that mean we don’t exist? The only way that you don’t see color is if you are color blind.
@@patiencekonney2154 THAAAAANK YOU... i read the comment and i was hmmm ma'am we have a color...its called black. Acknowledge that you see us...Please and thank you.
My husband is white but when I look at him I don't look at the color. I like his blue eyes yes. But it's the interaction between us. We are 15 years together.
Hi,Ben and Akinyi, I just love the two of you you guys are made for each other please keep its burning, Ben you are cool and understanding with your wife she is beautiful inside out. From Nigeria
Akinyi, I would say don’t pay any attention to the way people look at you and Benjamin. Love comes in all colors. The two of you just continue to be yourself and love each other. There are many prejudices in the world. I am a very fair-skinned black woman with freckles and red hair. In my lifetime, I have experienced people staring at me, from my own people to other races. I don’t pay attention to it. I am what God made me and I can’t change that. I’m proud to be who I am and if other people don’t like it, it’s their problem and not mine. You and Benjamin just keep supporting each other and live you life.
At this point I have to be psychic or something! I was just watching the 90 day video where Akinyi arrives in the U.S., and I thought “they look like they could have a couples UA-cam channel” and then this was recommended💀 Y’all are too cute
You,my dear are one smart cookie...beautiful inside and out...mature and wise...truly a genuine couple...not just a cast of characters on a tv show ... rock on,kids...
I just watched their season and I was concerned for Akinyi and her family dynamics. Good to see the both of you persevered and living your life. Congratulations and best of luck!
@@precious3546 that was something…I am from Kenya living in Canada and we never do that kind of bride price. I think it depends on family. My parents are older and never did that bride price thing…my father used to say he can never sell his daughters..
My favorite couple ever on 90 days fiancee so glad you guys are in Az am here too .hope to meet you both some day will definitely love to .stay blessed guys
We’re in love with your love. How can anyone doubt or question the truth of your love! Benjamin held his ground, going through the rigors of your family questioning his intentions for you, a man has to have the best of intentions to weather all that! I’ve never doubted his serious and noble intentions, also I’ve never been given any reason to believe the Akinyi was not into Benjamin. Great woman, intelligent, honest, respectful. You both married well. God bless and keep you both, together! I can’t wait to see the four beautiful babies! Grayson is the best big brother-to-be! He’s so great!
In Africa you don't marry like you mate in the bar. If you pay dowry a man respects you rather than if the so called marriage is free people misbehave.
Am glad you made it to the USA.welcome the family that pray together u will stay together amen 🙏🙏🙏, love your style lady, just humble your self , and be u,🤛🤛
@@andreawoodson9133 very far from the truth. I am also from a country where dowry is paid and men still disrespect their wife. Disrespect has to do with the man individually. Dowry or not if he is not a good or respectful person thats what the woman is going to get.
I don't think Akyini is trying she loves Ben. The love clearly shows in the responses, the affection between you both shows. The love is geninue. GOD bless.
Congratulations on finally reuniting despite all of the challenges of the pandemic. You have a beautiful love and Akinyi, I’m sorry you miss home so much. Perhaps over time you will come to feel like you have two homes. One in the US and one in Kenya. P.S. a video with your brother would be great! He’s funny!
I honestly had forgotten about you guys. Bc of how toxic the show has become and I don’t want to watch it anymore. Glad I found you guys. You look so happy and in love especially Akini. I’ll be back and subscribe 🥰🥰🥰
Glad y'all chose to do this!! Really sorry people feel entitled to make such negative assumptions about you both!! Your vulnerability will allow those who want to see truth, truly see what is in front of them is beautiful!! Being a lesbian couple of 18 yrs, married 15, we totally understand the stares of shame & judgement & fighting taking on those feelings. Stay strong, courageous, humble & proud!! Luv is luv 🏳️🌈☮❤🇨🇦
Who notices Benjamin is getting more handsome since akinyi got here
Truth
He has! ❤ them together
I just noticed that
This is actually true.
Looks like he lost weight maybe and no glasses. He looks good! Go Benjamin!
It's not a fetish for women of color, it's his preference. Some people are attracted to thin people, some people are attracted to older people. It is his personal preference. Akinyi is a beautiful and intelligent woman.
It appears to be fetish also
Hard to imagine anyone that wouldn't be attracted to Akini
@@katerineella274 Your name sort of sounds like one a UA-camr's name but switched have you heard of Ella Katherine she's one who's audience is generally Gen Z females so more than likely not if you're on a page like this I just wanted to point that out.
@@judahdubois379 never heard of this person.
@@katerineella274 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Benjamin has that good human being look in his face , his parents did great for raising a kind Man. happy for you guys.
Also Jeffrey Dahmer has same nice innocent looking🤔💀
I agree! He seems like a sweet soul
Are you only saying this because he is a white men? Smh black women stop acting so desperate.
yeah
@@catwomanvillain6576 🤣
Akinyi is glowing, she is in the right hands
Benjamin is glowing too.
@@itsjemmabond the word I used is glowing not growing 🙄
@@nomfundosakhimkhonta8094 I know exactly what you meant, it was a typo.
She make sure no sexual contact with her that show how much respect she have for her
Smart girl Akinyi. Very eloquent too.I love her simplicity.Don't let anybody break you two apart.
I love how eloquent she is. She is so relatable
Benjamin looks more handsome and relaxed, Akin has a natural beauty, both look happy, and as long as there's love, people's looks don't matter.
Most kenyans, especially those raised in Nairobi are eloquent 😊
@@esthermutali7270 Come on, Nairobi? 😂 😆
It’s not a fetish for a man or woman to like what they likes. He treats his wife with respect.
Please help me to connect to white man help
@@kagoyaesther5934 yo I'm white man how can I help you
Gross, both of you.
Her skin schining like silk, so pretty.
Flawless!
Genuine couple ever in the show. I had chills 😍 seeing how his family welcomed her into the family. I was speechless when he took her to his late mother's grave 😢 that said it ALL. Girl you're blessed 🙌 🙏
Its very clear that your love for each other is very genuine
BMWW goals all the way! (yes you read that correctly)
Both of you look cute together. Akinyi you are such a black beauty.
They both have great personalities.its like they were made for each other.
You guys are so genuine!! You're love for each other is easy to see. I love that you both have Jesus as your savior!! Best wishes and God bless you & you're family!!!
Congrats on the wedding! You handled naysayers perfectly. Americans are unfiltered at times so you handled yourselves well. You are a good representation of Kenya brains and beauty. God bless you both.
💯
That's the beauty of our Kenyan girl...we're truthful and very honest.
Ooh, I am bored at work and scrolling and found this. Finally she is here! I’m happy for you guys . Gods greatest blessing on your Union.
I like the way you two get along, it doesn't seem forced.
My parents were from different countries, cultures and race. I grew up watching them adjusting and accepting. They taught me the value of acceptance, patience, flexibility and respect. Both sets of grandparents were fantastic and supportive and I feel that my life has been rich in diversity and love.
Amen to that
I love the way benjamin looks at akinyi with love😍😍 God bless them
I have a little bit of advice when it comes to the questions from others. Screen the ones out that ask or say demeaning insulting things. Literally ignore them. The ones that say you can do better and talk about balding etc. I mean really?
They don’t deserve any attention. That’s just uncalled for.
yes and doing that leaves room for more interesting questions.
Right I was thinking the same thing. Some of the questions were so rude and they dont deserve to be talked to that way. They are both Awesome and kind. I love Akiny and Benjamin.
I love her!❤❤they are a great couple I love how you are putting God first in everything especially there marriage God bless ❤
Akinyi you struck gold. Benjamin a real one.I wish you guys blessings and a long life together.
That's the positive way to word it...
Benjamin using the Kenyan lingo..."Sawa"
Y'all are so beautiful together.
Genuine partnership...may God lead your steps!
One normal couple out of many crazy ones on TLC. You guys will be fine.
soo true...my kenyan blood😍
I don't know why am laughing haha
What I need just now, is a white man like Benjamin
@@carolnyakundi7092 you and me both. Where are these caucasians
I think some of the crazy couples are scripted and other crazy couples fake a lot of drama to get their own show.
So happy for you both, and your love DOES shine through! ❤️
So nice to see a couple that respects each other's culture. It seems that is the problem with most of the TLC couples.
I'M REALLY GLAD TO SEE Y'ALL SILL TOGETHER. REAL LOVE
Dowry is just a normal thing in Africa it's a culture and symbolises that you have taken a woman officially to be yours
Uko huku ,hahaha, my first time to watch them.
@@jecynekesachannel2489 I think channel ikienda viral it's recommended to almost everyone
Mko huku pia
@Moments with Treasure that's how our Africans are when they see white people all they see is a rich man
@@betyfavoured6808 but cultures are different dear but hapa walichomwa😀😀
Good girl,umetuwakilisha vizuri.especially us luos.we love you🥰🥰🥰🥰
So happy to see you two! 😍 And, glad that Akinyi made it to the USA. Your love is beautiful, and genuine and I wish you both continued success and a happy relationship. Stay blessed! ❤
Omg Akinyi’s makeup, hair, and nails got me shook! So beautiful 😍!
People are so rude! Benjamin u are a kind hearted, handsome guy don’t listen to these ugly hearted unkind people! I love watching the love between u two. I’m so happy u are finally together in the USA!! “God Bless You Both”
Good Job. Benjamin is a really good guy. Akinyi is in love. Kenyan girls are humble and loyal. I am happy for you guys. Akinyi tuwakilishe vizuri. Make your parents proud.
Hapo sasa!
Akinyi is a Nature Beauty both inside and outside.
Woooow... our people are here. Cant wait for more.!! Achieng is a comedian.. the food made my date!!
Both of you were raised by a loving family! It really shows in how you relate to each other. ❤️❤️
She is so beautiful
Be gentle with your husband, honey always works better than vinegar. It’s major adjustment getting to know each other, different cultures etc. Be open and respectable with each other, nurture each other, and keep some of your affairs private. God bless, and wish you both the best. Don’t pay any attention to onlookers, stereotypes exist everywhere. Be confident with your own love language
Happy to see you progressing,keep it up
Do you have kids to fulfill Gods promise
Am an Akinyi too glad to see our girl representing us well..all the best 🇰🇪
❤️❤️
Presenting what?
Married a white guy?
What a presentation!
These are two normal people who happened to fall in love period.
Hope they are in love .
Bless them 🙏
@@ferryfabulous7250 Representing. Read.
@@askmethings737 whatever !
She is so intelligent! Listen at how great the English is too! I always thought she didn't have such a big personality love seeing you keeping it 100 definitely subscribing
English is her first language 🤗
Remember her father had her dowry set high because of her education.
So u measure intelligence based on how good or bad someone speaks English? Shame.
This comment low-key sounds racist... Why would her English be bad?
@@smileyseverywhere No, English is her third language, Luo, Swahili, English, and most Kenyans are quite eloquent while speaking in English. And yeah, command in English is never a measure of intelligence
Why am I in love with Akinyi's personality, I mean there's a light & fire in her eyes. Benjamin is smart too.
I pray God you will live together for life n love till you get old together and until death do you part.
I love and appreciate you guys and I feel like I have a white American brother and a black African sister.
Hello my American white brother, my black African sister. I’m your Jamaican/American sister. Love you love s! Blessings!!
Blessings!!!
You both are one of my favorite couples , so wonderful & refreshing to see such love & unity ❤️❤️❤️
Benjamin look more happy to be with Akinyi😍😍
I love that Benjamin said “ Sawa , sawa” and used it correctly ❤️
What does sawa mean?
sawa sawa means o.k.
You two are awesome glad too see you two still together
I love Akinyi’s dimples 😌 Mambo vipi, Akinyi? Cute couple.💕
Yes, yes, dowry is a must and must be paid very well.... It's part of the culture in all African countries
Glad to see you two finally together in the US. ❤❤
You guys are my favorite couple! I'm glad you have a UA-cam channel so you can keep your fans updated on your life.🤗❤
thank you for supporting us!!!
Akinyi...you are very blessed indeed. God has sent you the BEST man for you! So proud of both of you.
They’re both glowing together and that’s beautiful ❤️
Nice! Finally this couple are back. Just love them.
Loved watching you guys on the show. So glad to see you happy and healthy. You always need to respect your partners culture.
You two are so genuine.
It really saddens me when people see color. My children's Godfather is African American,and they are Irish American. We have sadly been on the receiving end of ignorance because of the difference in our pigmentation. I tell my boys to pray for those people because they are missing out on the love when they limit themselves to a skintone.
Yes , love wins all the time , My bestie is married to Irish man he treats her like a princess very happy.
I think it's worth noting that people of colour don't want you to "not see colour". We would rather you acknowledge there is a difference and do better at being more accomodating
The worst thing that you can ever say is that you cannot see color does that mean we don’t exist? The only way that you don’t see color is if you are color blind.
@@patiencekonney2154 THAAAAANK YOU... i read the comment and i was hmmm ma'am we have a color...its called black. Acknowledge that you see us...Please and thank you.
Exactly
God first in everything. I wish you blessed and lovely moments for the rest of your life. God bless you
Finally have been looking for this couple❤❤❤🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Shylah me too...was thrilled when their channel popped up on my newsfeed!
BMWW goals all the way! (yes you read that correctly)
@@judahdubois379 yes I'm jealous. They look good together ❤❤
Happy to see you guys are still together and your hair looks really cute! 🌈☀️✨
Ben seemed a bit absent minded. Akiyni was right..be a bit more engaged 😊 you two are a really nice couple and thanks for the video!
haha i told him. but he was just trying to find comments to read
Maybe Benjamin is just a reserved person
I’m glad to see you two finally living together!! 💕
Thank you for sharing your lives with us. You guys look great together. Keep posting videos.
I love akinyi accent.jaber unatuwakilisha vizuri tunakupenda❤
Haki tena sana, she is raising the Kenyan flag high.
@@lifeoffavourbyj921 am sooo happy for them both.
My husband is white but when I look at him I don't look at the color. I like his blue eyes yes. But it's the interaction between us. We are 15 years together.
Exactly! My husband was Japanese and I am white. I never looked at him as different than me. I loved him. Period.
That’s beautiful
You are a joy to watch. You guys are so good together. Your shared faith is the key so many relationships lack. Make more videos! ❤️
BMWW goals all the way! (yes you read that correctly)
Nice to see you guys together. I no longer watch 90 Day Fiancé so I lost track of you. Glad you’re finally together.
Hi,Ben and Akinyi, I just love the two of you you guys are made for each other please keep its burning, Ben you are cool and understanding with your wife she is beautiful inside out. From Nigeria
Akinyi, I would say don’t pay any attention to the way people look at you and Benjamin. Love comes in all colors. The two of you just continue to be yourself and love each other. There are many prejudices in the world. I am a very fair-skinned black woman with freckles and red hair. In my lifetime, I have experienced people staring at me, from my own people to other races. I don’t pay attention to it. I am what God made me and I can’t change that. I’m proud to be who I am and if other people don’t like it, it’s their problem and not mine. You and Benjamin just keep supporting each other and live you life.
Love seeing your updates! The best to the both of you!
I'm disappointed.
Finally i get to see my favourite couple😍. Are you guys gonna get back to TLC? I miss seeing u there
I second this!! Bring them back to TLC
They’re on 90 day diaries the new season !! I just cried watching the wedding 😩😩
@@IamLa-Vonaee When does Diaries come on? I missed the wedding.
@@victorynjesus421 Sunday’s they usually upload it around 1-2 am
@@victorynjesus421it was in the latest episode from the past Sunday. Season 2 episode 6. I cried during the wedding too. So sweet
So happy you made it to America. You both are meant for each other
With the look😇Welcome to America. I love Akinyi, very matured. Love you both❤️
I see alot of growth & (maturity😅) since the TLC days. All the best guys... Akinyi, usituangushe... Tia bidii kwa hii ndoa.
At this point I have to be psychic or something! I was just watching the 90 day video where Akinyi arrives in the U.S., and I thought “they look like they could have a couples UA-cam channel” and then this was recommended💀 Y’all are too cute
You,my dear are one smart cookie...beautiful inside and out...mature and wise...truly a genuine couple...not just a cast of characters on a tv show ... rock on,kids...
i am glad to see borh of you still toghter may god always bless you
I just watched their season and I was concerned for Akinyi and her family dynamics. Good to see the both of you persevered and living your life. Congratulations and best of luck!
It shocked me how they seemed to have bullied Benjamin into paying her bride price immediately.
@@precious3546 that was something…I am from Kenya living in Canada and we never do that kind of bride price. I think it depends on family. My parents are older and never did that bride price thing…my father used to say he can never sell his daughters..
You guys have to realize TLC is just drama for views nothing is real on there so we will never know the truth about that part as well
@@ROLLWITHLIZ we really do be forgetting 😂😂
If you see her family on her single UA-cam channel you will see a beautiful, loving, kind family who loves her very much.
My favorite couple ever on 90 days fiancee so glad you guys are in Az am here too .hope to meet you both some day will definitely love to .stay blessed guys
Other sweet couples are Amy & Danny,
David & Anne
Loren & Alexis
BMWW goals all the way! (yes you read that correctly)
You’re so very well spoken Akinyi. I love watching you two and it seems you balance each other nicely
She is so beautiful 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Ooh what a lovely couple, may God bless you people. Watching you from Saudi Arabia. Happy to see married couple interact
I love you two together. So glad you guys are building a life together in the U.S
We’re in love with your love.
How can anyone doubt or question the truth of your love!
Benjamin held his ground, going through the rigors of your family questioning his intentions for you, a man has to have the best of intentions to weather all that!
I’ve never doubted his serious and noble intentions, also I’ve never been given any reason to believe the Akinyi was not into Benjamin. Great woman, intelligent, honest, respectful.
You both married well.
God bless and keep you both, together!
I can’t wait to see the four beautiful babies!
Grayson is the best big brother-to-be! He’s so great!
Love your shows guys keep it up
I’ve been watching the two of you from the start. I love watching the two of you interacting
My favs
Akinyi and Benjamin I have watched you from the beginning. I am happy to see you living together. I wish you a happy marriage life.
Beautiful .....love your hair, Akinyi🌹
Loved when you told Benjamin to answer the question because they asked him😃
Love your channel!!
That was hilarious! Yes Benjamin you answer they’re asking you ahahaha
God bless you guys I can see your love. You seem more Comfortable in who you are as individuals with each other.
In Africa you don't marry like you mate in the bar. If you pay dowry a man respects you rather than if the so called marriage is free people misbehave.
Preach.
Am glad you made it to the USA.welcome the family that pray together u will stay together amen 🙏🙏🙏, love your style lady, just humble your self , and be u,🤛🤛
That's so far from the truth.
@@andreawoodson9133 very far from the truth. I am also from a country where dowry is paid and men still disrespect their wife. Disrespect has to do with the man individually. Dowry or not if he is not a good or respectful person thats what the woman is going to get.
This is the aim of dowry
I don't think Akyini is trying she loves Ben. The love clearly shows in the responses, the affection between you both shows. The love is geninue. GOD bless.
Congratulations on finally reuniting despite all of the challenges of the pandemic. You have a beautiful love and Akinyi, I’m sorry you miss home so much. Perhaps over time you will come to feel like you have two homes. One in the US and one in Kenya. P.S. a video with your brother would be great! He’s funny!
I honestly had forgotten about you guys. Bc of how toxic the show has become and I don’t want to watch it anymore. Glad I found you guys. You look so happy and in love especially Akini. I’ll be back and subscribe 🥰🥰🥰
I like Benjamin, he is so pleasant
Benjamin is a kind hearted person who is very handsome, respectful and loving. We all love you Benjamin and Akinyi.
Benjamin has lost weight! Kudos! Looking well!
Best video of you two. Akinyi you're a great Mum just know that. Benjamin you're a good hubby everyone wishes for
Nice to see you together!! Enjoy your new life here Akinyi!😘
Glad y'all chose to do this!! Really sorry people feel entitled to make such negative assumptions about you both!! Your vulnerability will allow those who want to see truth, truly see what is in front of them is beautiful!! Being a lesbian couple of 18 yrs, married 15, we totally understand the stares of shame & judgement & fighting taking on those feelings. Stay strong, courageous, humble & proud!! Luv is luv 🏳️🌈☮❤🇨🇦
Akinyi kisungu to ing'eyo jaber
Yes very true! Nyako ma articulate mar hatari!!
Am just happy seeing you people together.