17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK 😏

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  • 17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK // Want to know how to know if you’re attractive? These signs you’re attractive are the key. Knowing how to be attractive can feel intimidating but once you know the right skills it’s actually pretty simple. After these signs, you’ll be able to understand how to know if you’re attractive, how to be attractive to girls, and ultimately how to get a girl to like you. You’ll learn some body language, some psychology, and a bit about self-confidence. Ready to dive in? Let’s get started with 17 Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think!
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  • @CoachMelannie
    @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +180

    ARE YOU THE ATTRACTIVE GUY WHO STILL DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND? LEARN HOW YOU CAN GET THE SKILLS YOU NEED IN MY FREE MASTERCLASS 👇
    coachmelannie.com/masterclass/
    P.S. Which of these signs surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments! 💭

    • @johncimino2802
      @johncimino2802 4 роки тому +4

      Yes

    • @charlieswank8820
      @charlieswank8820 4 роки тому +1

      Yes 👍

    • @fredhamann3852
      @fredhamann3852 4 роки тому +1

      Master uragon

    • @davidthompson410
      @davidthompson410 4 роки тому +3

      @Steve A sounds like u left it way too long so she's making u pay by appearing uninterested plus maybe she's genuinely moved on from when she liked u

    • @mrpowerfull100
      @mrpowerfull100 4 роки тому +2

      You are freaking adorable.... What hair!!! Just beautiful... I think your correct on all your points.

  • @adamblair4470
    @adamblair4470 Рік тому +162

    It's tough being a guy. We have to do so many things all at once. Wisdom, discipline, respect and authority.

    • @HansensUniverseT-A
      @HansensUniverseT-A Рік тому +15

      Or you could be yourself.

    • @charli4815
      @charli4815 Рік тому +18

      and then we also need to look like Thor or Cpt Amerca

    • @AmisCorolla
      @AmisCorolla Рік тому +10

      it is not, Just buy adventure bike and live your life.

    • @thebatman7730
      @thebatman7730 Рік тому +4

      Not really. Just get your self a passion or a dream/goal and fully commit to it. That’s probably going to give you all 4 of those things without you even noticing.

    • @mtd1089
      @mtd1089 Рік тому +4

      @@charli4815 Not only LOOK like them, but ACT like them 💯

  • @stephenpenland278
    @stephenpenland278 4 роки тому +1500

    I feel like this is the perfect map to getting friend zoned.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +63

      Here are some videos about that. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XdKzj6IIcUEdcSb4HimAAe.html God bless!

    • @notthebeaver1532
      @notthebeaver1532 4 роки тому +156

      Yeah you're not wrong...😆😂🤣

    • @jonesey1981
      @jonesey1981 3 роки тому +211

      Yea they save the friend zoned guys for after they’re done experimenting. So basically you’re right where you want to be for long term relationships. Not for scoring quickly. Different animals.

    • @llcooldrockindahouse4631
      @llcooldrockindahouse4631 3 роки тому +97

      Tbh i don’t mind the friend zone and it’s not as bad as most people claim. To me the friend zone is like a sanctuary as it buys me extra time to better myself. See use the fz as personal time to get better. That’s what I use it for. I don’t use it to be miserable and incel like cuz that’s not my character. I use it to get better and make myself even more attractive.
      I mean I am attractive but I always strive for more. Also Melanie, might I add sign of attraction #18: always raise the bar for yourself. If you don’t raise the bar or challenge urself, ur never gona improve. It’s like that hamster on the wheel not going anywhere which fits with ur direction step. And also girls like it when the guy has purpose and direction. Cuz they wanna have the support and security as well.

    • @TheMan-ud2wq
      @TheMan-ud2wq 3 роки тому +134

      I didnt hear her mention money... I mean come on, these things might get someone to talk with you but its money and status that keeps a woman.

  • @xFlared
    @xFlared 3 роки тому +289

    I'm the best listener. The only issue is that no woman ever talks to me.

    • @chumadoshi6987
      @chumadoshi6987 3 роки тому +12

      Hahahaha man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... She's full of it... She knows you gat to be mean to get em chicks. Fc nice

    • @xFlared
      @xFlared 3 роки тому +40

      @@chumadoshi6987 Rule #1: Don't ask a fish on how to catch other fish.

    • @eddieolson3226
      @eddieolson3226 3 роки тому +9

      Well maybe you gotta start talking to women. If your as good as a listener as you say then work on you and what you present

    • @camronreynosa4958
      @camronreynosa4958 3 роки тому +4

      @@xFlared
      You do have to talk dude, but open with anything that can be short, concise and leaves popential for your targets input to get a convo started.

    • @waynethompson5955
      @waynethompson5955 3 роки тому

      Lol

  • @snakemont
    @snakemont Рік тому +44

    1) Look People in the Eyes
    2) Listen to People
    3) You Smile
    4) You ask Questions
    5) Dress Right
    6) You take Care of Yourself and Your Possesions
    7) HEALTH is Attractive
    8)

    • @Makta972
      @Makta972 Рік тому +3

      Yeah I stopped @ nuber 8 too, she's so boring

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 9 місяців тому

      Only made it halfway through the video?

    • @222333aaaaaa
      @222333aaaaaa 8 місяців тому

      @@Makta972damn 😢

    • @johndel2697
      @johndel2697 7 місяців тому

      Talking to ppl in real life is way better .
      But I'm sure you don't do that so that's why you here lol😂​@@Makta972

  • @kamarrawlings6285
    @kamarrawlings6285 Рік тому +5

    Women are quick to say what they want but never what they are willing to give.Relationships and partnerships are 50/50.

  • @Metalkid1500
    @Metalkid1500 Рік тому +205

    I’m a 5’1 dude so any attractive traits I may have immediately goes into the garbage disposal 😂

    • @supaflywhiteguy7635
      @supaflywhiteguy7635 Рік тому +34

      I'm a 5'10 and 3 quarters dude. I feel you brother. Women only like men 6 foot or taller

    • @alexander63736
      @alexander63736 Рік тому +84

      @@supaflywhiteguy7635 5”1 and 5”11 are nowhere near bruh

    • @ccjrdrums
      @ccjrdrums Рік тому +20

      @@supaflywhiteguy7635 that’s not true. my short friend got a gf before I did, and my cousin’s wife is taller than him.

    • @hatbpto5180
      @hatbpto5180 Рік тому +27

      My best friend was the shortest guy in our school. Somehow he got with the hottest girls.. freshman princess, sophomore princess, junior... etc. He married a really hot woman from a rich family. I don't know how he did it though. He was kind of crazy and talked a lot.

    • @Metalkid1500
      @Metalkid1500 Рік тому +9

      @@hatbpto5180 not all men are created equal sadly

  • @jonathanrose829
    @jonathanrose829 4 роки тому +317

    I already know I am attractive, It's my drool that makes me irresistible.

  • @normanaraya6534
    @normanaraya6534 4 роки тому +652

    Ok, according to your list I'm the perfect man and here I am, single, I don't get it 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +102

      Good for you! Allow yourself to be proud of that. However, I realize how frustrating it is to have so much to offer and still be alone. I help men just like you every day. As important as attraction is, it's not the whole picture. It's simply one piece. If you don't have a girlfriend it's because you are missing the other pieces. If you have any other questions about this feel free to email me (melannie@coachmelannie.com) or DM me on Instagram or Facebook!

    • @andytheindividual3862
      @andytheindividual3862 4 роки тому +202

      Dont be a simp and stand around brother get to work!!!

    • @teemoleague907
      @teemoleague907 4 роки тому +107

      Women like looks or money or your house. That's why they branch to other men.

    • @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544
      @ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544 4 роки тому +42

      @@teemoleague907 not always. Women are hypergamous by nature. She may leave because she no longer sees you as alpha. It can be money related, but also it might be because you lack ambition, and you got fat and lazy.

    • @kb-rr1wb
      @kb-rr1wb 4 роки тому +70

      If u stack that 💰 they will come👌🏾

  • @CrossXseven
    @CrossXseven 2 роки тому +188

    As a person who has severe autism I had to learn my whole life how to behave in a social environement, how my actions are received and how people react because none of these comes natural to me. Even if it is not to have a relationship, watching your videos helps me a lot to understand other people, their reactions, but also to understand myself and my self image.
    Thank You!!

    • @Impericalevidence
      @Impericalevidence 2 роки тому +20

      I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when.
      Now, many years later, I am consistently praised for my understanding and "way".
      I always say "it's more than half intentional" in a humble manner.

    • @thecompletebasquiat6872
      @thecompletebasquiat6872 2 роки тому +11

      haha, me too. I have no idea what is going on socially, and like other ASDs, I choose "earnestness" and "just be yourself" advice, which is not effective. Sure, people may "like" you, but you provide no "social titillations" that attract people beyond a "hello."

    • @Cybersword1910
      @Cybersword1910 Рік тому +2

      L

    • @VasilBelezhkov
      @VasilBelezhkov Рік тому

      +1 undiagnosed here. I know what it is... Keeping artificial eye-contact, keeping some appropriate kind of 'smile', following a conversation which is spoken (and not written)... With all the respect to the lady who did the video - it's the Neurotypical version. We'd benefit more from an 'Autistic' one.

    • @B0K1T0
      @B0K1T0 Рік тому +3

      ​@@Impericalevidence "I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when."
      I had exactly this experience, so extremely grateful I saw it through at some point, with the help of very dear friends, and even ex-girlfriends (one of whom is now diagnosed with autism herself and we uncerstand each other so well on hindsight ♥).

  • @creativethinker6691
    @creativethinker6691 3 роки тому +56

    I was attractive until genetics and my teeth started falling out

    • @Buckeye_4_Life_
      @Buckeye_4_Life_ 3 роки тому +24

      Well quit smoking crack lol

    • @LiathBahjatNorCal
      @LiathBahjatNorCal 3 роки тому +1

      @@Buckeye_4_Life_ 😂

    • @BasedMando
      @BasedMando 3 роки тому +14

      Wow, your genetics fell out? Damn, that's brutal. Are you still the same species? Or are you now, a horse 🤣🤣

    • @creativethinker6691
      @creativethinker6691 3 роки тому +4

      Had a lot of dental work done and they still fall out

    • @thetrickisirarelyrespond5945
      @thetrickisirarelyrespond5945 3 роки тому +3

      @@creativethinker6691 its because dentistry is a scam. Removing teeth fucks up the foundation of the neighboring teeth- so inevitably they start to wobble and eventually fall out. Next stop Gumsville.

  • @davidb3738
    @davidb3738 3 роки тому +38

    I am now traumatized after having a 2 year relationship with an extreme female super Narcissist. It scared all desire to date or even try again for the last few years. Trauma avoidance still I think.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 роки тому +3

      I understand and I am so very sorry! These videos will help you so much! ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Let me know if you have questions! God bless! 😀

    • @PapeAveDonDadda
      @PapeAveDonDadda 3 роки тому +1

      I know the feeling

    • @mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809
      @mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809 3 роки тому +5

      I feel that, i have avoidance trauma me too, 6 years with a narcisist girl 😒 but i have study psychology and sociology and philosophy and now im very good better than before

    • @keysoteriq2590
      @keysoteriq2590 3 роки тому

      Well narcissist won’t be with you if you’re not attractive. They do everything to gain….

  • @dejay9404
    @dejay9404 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't project you're trying to get with girls... demonstrate your happy with being yourself regardless

  • @truthseeker73able
    @truthseeker73able 3 роки тому +9

    For me it's never been about needing to attract anyone...it's about how to know she is worth it.

  • @Jefff72
    @Jefff72 3 роки тому +11

    I found that I had success when I was either working out, running, or just being active. I felt like it improved my mind where it gave me the confidence to not overdo it. In fact, I met my wife when I was running.

  • @ashtonhettich9195
    @ashtonhettich9195 Рік тому +16

    Melannie, thank you for your videos! You have helped me in getting a girlfriend-- someone I've known from undergrad, and even dated before--and she has even started talking with me about 5, 10, even 20 years down the road! Thank you again for all you do!

  • @azndrifter204
    @azndrifter204 Рік тому +4

    For those who want to skip her long intro it starts at 2:58

  • @HuanRazboinic
    @HuanRazboinic Рік тому +6

    Number one sign you're attractive: your grandma told you you're one good looking boy.

  • @reddrunners
    @reddrunners 3 роки тому +107

    This woman is beautiful inside and outside. Imagine if all women had her mindset, the world would be absolutely amazing. I just found her channel and subscribed. So grateful.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 роки тому +18

      Thank you for being so kind. I'm happy you are here! Have a great day 😀

    • @reddrunners
      @reddrunners 3 роки тому +6

      @@CoachMelannie WOW! Thanks! 😊

    • @rob7296
      @rob7296 3 роки тому +6

      She isn't real man

    • @socloseagain4298
      @socloseagain4298 2 роки тому +1

      @@rob7296 🤔🤔🤔

    • @Spydur0ne
      @Spydur0ne 2 роки тому +1

      Guys love redheads

  • @jo9354
    @jo9354 4 роки тому +39

    Love your enthusiasm Melannie! Doesn't surprise me kindness is at the top of this list. It shows you care like nothing else can. That's the whole point, right?

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +3

      So true! Thanks for watching! 😀

    • @Jen-qt6eg
      @Jen-qt6eg 3 роки тому +2

      What a wonderful world this could be, if parents taught KINDNESS instead of deceiving children with santa, tooth fairy, and Easter bunny, etc.
      1 in every 68 children are under the autistic umbrella, most from negative reactions to vaccines, and a lot go undiagnosed until late in life.

    • @Jen-qt6eg
      @Jen-qt6eg 3 роки тому +1

      @@CoachMelannie thanks for your video, KINDNESS really is the answer!

    • @adipsous
      @adipsous 3 роки тому +1

      "Kindness knows no shame." - Stevie Wonder

  • @RustyX2010
    @RustyX2010 Рік тому +3

    “A fish can’t tell a fisherman how to catch fish!”

  • @shinobimusic3247
    @shinobimusic3247 4 роки тому +7

    I don’t usually comment on UA-cam/social media but I just want to tell you all watching to always love/believe in yourself. You do not need anyone in your life to validate and/or complete you! Stay gold kings!

  • @man-yp1gb
    @man-yp1gb Рік тому +3

    Step one have a high paying job, step two look like you have a high paying job. Good looks doesn't cut it anymore.

  • @loganwilcox4037
    @loganwilcox4037 Рік тому +1

    Pro tip, if you are the exact opposite of all the things she just laid out, a lot of women will find you extremely attractive, and I have no idea why.

  • @O_MontY
    @O_MontY 3 роки тому +23

    Please make a video regarding signs she might be getting ready to file an order of protection against you

    • @clarkoption1941
      @clarkoption1941 3 роки тому

      Anyone can do it whenever, so just live a life of paranoia or get one on them first

    • @ericperez7872
      @ericperez7872 Рік тому

      😂

  • @abeyo1
    @abeyo1 3 роки тому +29

    The growth mindset was an interesting one that I've never heard of before?! I've got a dating coach so I'm planning to go over that one. Thanks for your assistance! You're so kind and beautiful 😘❤ plus I think also "wanting to learn new things." That should be on the list.

    • @HughjazzBalz
      @HughjazzBalz 3 роки тому +1

      🤟🏾👈

    • @user-zr6pl6nb6z
      @user-zr6pl6nb6z 2 роки тому

      A dating coach? Seriously? Do you think people starting relationships in previous generations had to use dating coaches? Why are we making something natural become so damned complicated?

  • @JoseGomez-cz1vc
    @JoseGomez-cz1vc Рік тому

    Wow!!
    I could tell you 100 ways you are attractive!!!
    The way you smile? The way you move your head, the way you come across the way, the way….

  • @jasonkeller6221
    @jasonkeller6221 3 роки тому +126

    I believe this stuff is important after having a job, having a vehicle and your own place, plus showering daily helps, maybe having a sense of style 😉

    • @yankee2666
      @yankee2666 3 роки тому

      No, it's that eye in the middle of your forehead.

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 3 роки тому +2

      Hierarchy of needs 😁

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 3 роки тому

      Melanie talks about that stuff actually

    • @bradmason4706
      @bradmason4706 3 роки тому +1

      Too sophisticated.

    • @briansnead4787
      @briansnead4787 3 роки тому +7

      My blow up doll doesn't care that i don't shower...

  • @donaldduck759
    @donaldduck759 Рік тому +5

    I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of a little over a year, watching this video I can see how we both developed some of the unattractive things from this video, and how they split us apart, she’s really speaking facts here boys trust her.

  • @604cpr
    @604cpr Рік тому +1

    This sounds like how to get friend zoned 101

  • @kittykitty643
    @kittykitty643 Рік тому +14

    Thank you for your reminder! Sometimes a video like this is worth watching and SO VALUABLE! Thank you for your time and effort to help men who have been affected by other situations!

    • @jwill9877
      @jwill9877 Рік тому +1

      It's worth watching so you know what not to do. These women who answered the survey questions are speaking from the perspective of the bad boy who did them wrong. Not the 80 percent of men they don't even notice. They want Chad and Tyrone to be more nice not the guy she friendzoned who was already nice. Don't listen to fish on how to catch fish. Listen to the fisherman.

    • @tebo4681
      @tebo4681 Рік тому

      Never ever listen to a woman about dating advice. never. ever. to any woman, ever. consider this your one and only warning, for your own good

  • @ghostoferlock
    @ghostoferlock 2 роки тому +5

    Hooray for chivalry. Bring on the flowers, bring on the romance, bring on the eye gazing, this could be a long list lol
    Kindness makes sense. Brings to mind a saying. 'Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind'.
    Nice that physical appearance wasn't really on the list, it should be heart that wins someone over.

  • @Therobbijamesshow
    @Therobbijamesshow 8 місяців тому

    don’t be nice (stand up for yourself) - be good and kind.

  • @luingalls
    @luingalls 3 роки тому +20

    Your list describes my husband of 18 years perfectly! They do exist. #1 on the list - he's a Christian! I wasn't one when we met but shortly after he started taking me to church (dates) I was baptized!

  • @hypermetalsonic
    @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +4

    Do the opposite of whatever women say

  • @Mike-ib7um
    @Mike-ib7um Рік тому

    I am very picky. I don't accept toxicity. It's your job to make your partner happy not miserable.

  • @maximusdecimusmeridious3784
    @maximusdecimusmeridious3784 4 роки тому +31

    She’s the ultimate hype woman haha 👏🏻

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 4 роки тому +3

      It is fantasy bro.

    • @orangeandslinky
      @orangeandslinky 3 роки тому +7

      @@beachbum4166 It's so nice to see some guys that are not simps and believes this long list of crap.

  • @Dario_Mazzella1975
    @Dario_Mazzella1975 3 роки тому +9

    Your a beautiful woman with a soothing voice. I never thought I was attractive at all but I guess I am after watching this. Thank you for the priceless advice Coach Melannie. God Bless

  • @morningstar7401
    @morningstar7401 Рік тому +3

    Don’t matter dating is pointless these days women all think their 10s and deserve a multi millionaire that’s 6’2 or taller that works out lol

  • @DSWTube
    @DSWTube Рік тому +2

    The most important thing is to have a relationship with YOURSELF first, before you think you should have a relationship with others. Look at yourself first, be with yourself. It's all about mind, body, spirit. Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

  • @gailsegal6843
    @gailsegal6843 4 роки тому +10

    Great video Melanie, From a middle aged perspective, I feel women want to be loved, respected, and taken care of (not necessarily monetarily) however, have our best friend want to enjoy doing things together. We want to compliment eachother with a respectful attitude, we want similar values, we want to put eachother first (after God, that is.) It's not as easy to find a good partner as you age because many of the good ones are already committed. Most importantly, we want to share a deep love, joy, trust, and commitment with a soul mate, therefore, grow old together as one. Many of us are in a bad relationship's but are afraid to move on, it becomes very difficult to transition the older we get because we develop disabilities, or medical issues, etc...not to mention it's hard for most people to afford to live on just one income. In my opinion, the ideal relationship is based on true love, (not based on sex), but desiring your best friend by your side, it's about sharing a similar faith, political views, laughter, responsibility, and family values....it's about putting eachother first, after God.
    What do you think?

    • @rudyfranco1009
      @rudyfranco1009 4 роки тому +5

      That is exactly how I feel as a guy. I don't understand why it is so hard to meet someone. It is getting scary the more time that goes by.

    • @gailsegal6843
      @gailsegal6843 3 роки тому +2

      @Babyface Nelson that would be nice but it's virtually impossible to find a man who wants anything other than one thing - it bothers me that it's their priority.

    • @Sommers234
      @Sommers234 Рік тому

      @Babyface Nelson That term is ridiculous and over used.
      You're putting women on a pedestal like , pick me, pick me. eff the ones who are quick to judge.

  • @lawrencejor277
    @lawrencejor277 4 роки тому +17

    She is right!!!!! I've done all 17 things and they all have worked for me and I got the girl I wanted. The problem was that she wasn't the right one 😕

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +2

      I'm sure sorry about that! Dating can be a numbers game and that does happen. However, sometimes it's because she's toxic.. Here are some videos that will help you if that's the case. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Please let me know if I can answer any questions for you! 😀 Thanks for watching!

  • @modalsoul6511
    @modalsoul6511 2 роки тому +2

    If you’re physically unattractive ( ME ) none of this matters

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  2 роки тому

      I don't think anyone is unattractive. These videos will help. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UGjAqyuVtuju_OWNkqllaD.html And these too. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk.html

  • @MarkLightGroup
    @MarkLightGroup 4 роки тому +12

    This is a great list! So much of the dating advice out there centers around channeling aloofness and "alpha" traits. While there is merit to that line of thinking in the initial attraction stages, it will only work for awhile. Then you better have substance to back it all up, like what is discussed in this video.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +4

      I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

    • @ronaldboneslinger
      @ronaldboneslinger 3 роки тому +2

      This was written by a 14 year old indian in a click farm

    • @Colleens-Corner
      @Colleens-Corner Рік тому +2

      You don’t have to be completely aloof or snobby but you don’t have to be needy either 😬

  • @candyyyybabeeee
    @candyyyybabeeee 3 роки тому +8

    Idk where I was but I literally got Galway through this video and realized this was aimed towards men 🤣🤣 I’m over here checking things off the list and then I’m like wait a minute 🥸 😂

    • @Dosbomber
      @Dosbomber 3 роки тому +1

      You might also be looking to make yourself more attractive to women... no judgement. ;)

    • @kevina1173
      @kevina1173 3 роки тому

      😂🤣😂🤣 me too!

    • @princehamdan2381
      @princehamdan2381 3 роки тому

      Greetings from Royal Kingdom Dubai Palace. I am happy to meet you today, May Allah bless you. Kindly contact me on my Royal hangout:,., princehamdans159@gmail.com

  • @rodrigorodriguez509
    @rodrigorodriguez509 Рік тому +3

    We'd probably be more interested to know how trainwreck guys always have girlfriends.

  • @billjackson8956
    @billjackson8956 4 роки тому +6

    This surely is without color meaning that love is blind and love is what we all need. Great list. To be current, all lives matter and , blindly + deftly, goes without saying.

  • @drbookie2169
    @drbookie2169 Рік тому +1

    As an atheist and vegan, its not easy finding a girl that is ok with that.

  • @larrywelchko6136
    @larrywelchko6136 3 роки тому +18

    My wife and I have been married for 26 years and we met through a mutual friend. I guess we were kind of meant for each other because when we first started dating we couldn’t stop looking at each other or keep our hands to ourselves. 3 kids later and some things have slowed a bit we are still very happy. I watched this out of curiosity

  • @aegisprotection4969
    @aegisprotection4969 2 роки тому +6

    Enjoyed the video. Happily married, myself.
    The kindness one is interesting. Before I finally found my wife, one thing that a lot of women found attractive was seeing me in violent situations.
    That I was capable of defending things but I was never mean about it.
    And women worth being with recognize that distinction.
    So much is spot on... learning how to dress nicely, keeping a clean car and clean sink. Laundry folded.
    It doesn't have to be perfect. Just look like one cares.
    An interesting one that didn't go anywhere but still led to a date, a lady I knew saw me changing a diaper of a friend's child I was watching. But that has to be natural. It's part of kindness.
    I can't count how many times I have called my wife and said: Hey. I am going to be late. It's pouring down rain and there is someone walking. Let me see if they need a ride. And my wife adores me for it.
    (Side comment: I am careful about giving rides to strangers and evaluate each situation carefully. )
    The eye contact one is.a tricky thing. Abused people don't like eye contact.
    Good video.

  • @manofapril2657
    @manofapril2657 Рік тому

    The fact that I'm watching this signify I'm attractive

  • @colepearson9497
    @colepearson9497 2 роки тому +6

    Yes, I would love to get more of your perspective on the matter! You’ve very keen insight Coach Melannie!

  • @chrisbunka
    @chrisbunka 4 роки тому +5

    Have all 17. Still single. Focusing on enjoying the journey right now.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +1

      That's why I became a coach. I want good guys to be able to have happy, healthy relationships. Please let me know if I can answer any questions. instagram.com/coachmelannie/ facebook.com/coachmelannie/ melannie@coachmelannie.com

  • @stevenvialpando8365
    @stevenvialpando8365 Рік тому +2

    17 tips to getting friend zoned 🤪

  • @lokihammerfall7781
    @lokihammerfall7781 Рік тому +5

    The unpleasant truth is that just be an Orc but an Orc with money then you are attractive to most of the women. Period.!!

  • @Gem3237
    @Gem3237 3 роки тому +5

    😍 I can agree with all this! A growth mindset is at the top of my list.

  • @talentunburied
    @talentunburied Рік тому

    L9sing job 3 years ago car accident losing Dad getting COVID added up to me feeling lousy. I still Pray. You brought qualities I'd forgotten. Thank you!

  • @janglaser6130
    @janglaser6130 4 роки тому +4

    The problem with being generous is when you meet toxic girl, which is only taking, not giving. So be careful with that one :)

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +2

      Sadly, that does happen. Here are some videos I've done on this topic if you are interested. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA.html Take care!

    • @NabichtStudios
      @NabichtStudios 4 роки тому

      Remember, you are generous for yourself and others not her. She just sees it.

    • @atalayo3o0o
      @atalayo3o0o 3 роки тому

      give twice, ask once, not getting anything, kick her out

  • @Ikeman59
    @Ikeman59 3 роки тому +14

    So nice to hear from a Christian Dating Coach. First time of watching and listening to your video. You have a gift of communicating and teaching that makes people want to get out and be who they are make a difference in their lives and other people. Looking forward in watching more of your videos. What I have noticed is that women are always smiling at me and I smile back but am hesitant to communicate more because I know that they are not Christian and will not have anything in common. Do not want to get involved and have her liking me and then hurt her feelings.

  • @JaimeJDoesStuff
    @JaimeJDoesStuff Рік тому

    women "we love when we are never criticized and men just agree with us" Yeah...we know.

  • @paulfinch7172
    @paulfinch7172 4 роки тому +25

    I've been wearing red clothing lately and my crush at work have been given me a lot of compliments.i never thought that red would suit me. Who Knew 😊

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +3

      I'm so happy about that! Way to go!!👍

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 4 роки тому +3

      Don't believe her. She is only seeking attention.

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 4 роки тому +1

      Red is more attractive to people, there are studies on it. Don't ask me why😁

    • @dallasstiles118
      @dallasstiles118 3 роки тому

      @@CoachMelannie speaking of people who are very attractive, Melanie, you dress up youtube really well😁

    • @shakarussanders9911
      @shakarussanders9911 3 роки тому

      @@dallasstiles118 Not gonna lie I clicked on because of that reason! Her look is so my type! But she's cool though 😊 I hope she's not married I don't wanna be gawking over someone's wife

  • @kabukiwookie
    @kabukiwookie 4 роки тому +8

    This video was fun. I didn't know there was a thing as a Christian Dating Coach.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +2

      I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 4 роки тому +3

      Don't get confused. Christian girls are exactly the same as all the others. They only pretend for church.

    • @orangeandslinky
      @orangeandslinky 3 роки тому

      there isn't.

  • @Tarasyoutube
    @Tarasyoutube Рік тому +1

    The smiling thing couldn't be more true, with rare exceptions.

  • @Kalel19711
    @Kalel19711 Рік тому +3

    Yes more like this please. I'm divorced and 51 and I hope that God has a" special "next someone for me, in time. God bless you Coach 😉

  • @artoheino7315
    @artoheino7315 3 роки тому +12

    Melannie, your 17 signs are absolutely spot on!! I am that person after the Dentist sorted my teeth, now with that extra confidence and good smile, I have so many ladies wanting my attention everywhere I go, even passing in the check out at the supermarket, I get that extra smile and gleam from her eyes and some nice personable comments. You are right, my age (65) does not bother the lovely ladies I meet (18-45), that is not what they care about. I love your videos, they have confirmed my life long philosophy that the great virtues of being a gentleman/chivalrous/kind/generous/happy/fun /creative/expansive/healthy/well groomed and confident are what all men should strive for. Thanks for being beautiful as well :)

  • @mikekeogh3265
    @mikekeogh3265 Рік тому +1

    yes glad to see your Christian based you won't lie or exaggerate !

    • @Ronald-n3i
      @Ronald-n3i 6 днів тому

      No, but she's judgemental and materialistic.

  • @henryleschen5141
    @henryleschen5141 3 роки тому +12

    Melanie your sincere advice and lovely delivery puts hope and encouragement right before me. Your fore-thought and Christian advice is willingly received so be sure I shall put into my day by day life plan. Thank you so much Melanie.
    Henry

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks for watching! 😀

  • @Wacko20111
    @Wacko20111 Рік тому

    Very good advice. The word "Toxic" has become so overused just like the word "dysfunctional". When works become overused that mean people have used them to label just about anything to fit that state. It's non-specific and really doesn't mean or say anything. Please be specific and identify exactly how, when, and why.

  • @taranmagee6144
    @taranmagee6144 4 роки тому +27

    Also I love how well all this useful information is presented. I definitely fall into the "clueless guy" category. It's nice to understand what women are actually looking for/interested in rather than just what society and media tell us. Keep up the good work!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +1

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

    • @johngentlemusic
      @johngentlemusic Рік тому

      Thank you for your sincere advice ma'am Melanie...I was happy to see that I naturally do some of the things on your list. I used to be an emotional fool who didn't what girl loved him and what girl didn't. But with nuggets like yours I am a more knowledgeable man and I still believe in christian dating,godly relationship and marriage. Thank you for helping us navigate through these murky waters. Thank you for bringing so much value to the table.

  • @adamgood5643
    @adamgood5643 2 роки тому +18

    Great video thank you, It's really nice to know that there are some people out here still trying to preach kindness and niceness as a way of not just being a better person but as a way to succeed. Thank you bunches 😁.

  • @benjaminmartin2677
    @benjaminmartin2677 Рік тому +2

    There’s a distinct difference between being “Kind” and being a “Nice Guy”

    • @prezboun7316
      @prezboun7316 Рік тому

      In other words, being genuine and being fake

  • @johnvonmartin7501
    @johnvonmartin7501 2 роки тому +4

    I do love the fact that dating takes challenge coz I do love problem solving. And I am a geek/ weird type. But presenting yourself as a who you are is what makes you naturally attractive.

  • @unitechbusinesssolutionslt2823
    @unitechbusinesssolutionslt2823 2 роки тому +4

    Melanie you are amazing..!!
    This gives us all confidence to realize we are doing fine and just need to polish up a bit....

  • @mohamedchafikcheurfa6887
    @mohamedchafikcheurfa6887 Рік тому +2

    Physical appearance is 80% important from other things 🤭

  • @expression883
    @expression883 3 роки тому +69

    Melanie, thank you - so grateful I found you for the first time just now, and beyond grateful for your warm, comforting, upbeat advice. You gently reminded me of things to be proud of and things I can work on. So helpful to be reminded, especially in these strange if not scary times to be dating. Thank you so much for a much-needed shot of encouragement and confidence. You're amazing, keep up your awesome work!

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  3 роки тому +9

      Thank you so much for your kind comment! It makes me so happy to know my videos are helping! God bless! 😀

    • @billybobs1705
      @billybobs1705 Рік тому

      @@CoachMelannie there could be a million reasons why someone does not want to smile or think somthing is funny.....you are a shallow boring character not to mention the fact that you claim to have better channels on this subject makes you also arrogant. 👎

  • @concepcionledezma5027
    @concepcionledezma5027 4 роки тому +40

    As a follower of Jesus, I love seeing the confirmation from you. And my wife is as crazy about me as I am about her. She's a blessing. Keep up the good work, Melannie.

  • @robfigga4473
    @robfigga4473 Рік тому +1

    Sounds like I’m gonna be single 😂😂😂

  • @Ray-li9be
    @Ray-li9be 4 роки тому +12

    Loved the video. I have the woman of my dreams but could not understand what she saw in me until I watched your video. Now I know. The 17 things you mention I have always held close to my heart. I also strive to protect and support her when she has problems (rarely). Thank you for reinforcing my beliefs ❤️

  • @josephj6521
    @josephj6521 Рік тому +4

    Physical attraction IS important. I’ve experienced women who openly weren’t interested due to looks whilst other women who think I’m hot wanted me. It IS important and always be your best.

  • @Ronald-n3i
    @Ronald-n3i 6 днів тому

    What evers happened to just accepting a person for who they are, opposed to their looks or what they have, and dont have, its not all about money or materialism, its about something far more importent that money can't buy, and that is true sincere love and compassion.

  • @merlinrayesjr4616
    @merlinrayesjr4616 4 роки тому +8

    KIndness surprised me You would think that was a given. But i was brought up treating everyone with respect especially women

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому

      Kindness does surprise some people. I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

    • @beachbum4166
      @beachbum4166 4 роки тому +2

      That is why you have failed. Women don't want respect from a man. They only want what they can't totally have. Game is the only way to them. They don't want an equal. They only desire a man that is better than them. Reality vs Hollywood man

  • @sdmackpictures
    @sdmackpictures 4 роки тому +4

    You're very beautiful and you don't need the pop filter since you're speaking away from and not directly into the mic. Love your video.

  • @jasonkeller4929
    @jasonkeller4929 2 роки тому +1

    Longterm relationship of my dreams? Subscribed! ☺️

  • @ProjectCreativityGuy96
    @ProjectCreativityGuy96 3 роки тому +7

    Guys, at the end of the day, put yourself out there, and see who likes you back! Be you, and believe in yourself most of all!!!!

  • @brianshields6374
    @brianshields6374 4 роки тому +7

    I feel like these make it sound simple. But then in practice it seems hard.

    • @mr.fettesq.7705
      @mr.fettesq.7705 4 роки тому

      There are a lot of contradicting messages from women advise givers on you tube. Just take the co census on topics they agree on. Peace

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +1

      They are simple they just take some practice. It's just a skill. Don't you think you (and your dream girl) are worth the effort? 😀

  • @3DVizzion
    @3DVizzion Рік тому +1

    Listen guys, first rule treat woman as you would treat a man, treat them differently they will shame you. Get a load of money or do everything to have an easy life. Work that body until it looks strong and attractive. And the most important let the skirts run after you, you are the prize, never ever run after a skirt whatever that girl is to you, ignore her. And you shall see you will get any girl you want. The other traits are essential for a good social life with anybody but if you think it will get you your dream girl better go to sleep and keep on dreaming.

  • @rudyfranco1009
    @rudyfranco1009 4 роки тому +4

    It has always puzzled me how total strangers will tell me their life's trial's and tribulations upon just meeting me. That seems easy to make conversation. But so much harder when trying to attract a ladies attention.

    • @deandawiz
      @deandawiz 3 роки тому

      you a scorpio?

    • @BrianCave
      @BrianCave 3 роки тому

      Been there so many times throughout my life, a few times literally an hour or two after meeting. I’m always happy to help, but far less do I get support in return. The few that do help in return are those I’m closest to, friend or spouse.

    • @Brett7777
      @Brett7777 2 роки тому +1

      I have people tell me some crap I do not want to know. Had client tell me he wants bump his wife off. People open up like crazy to me. Like they new me for 40 years. Aquarius.

  • @ayotiM
    @ayotiM 4 роки тому +6

    Where's the 17 signs in the comment section? Where are you..

    • @wolfman231
      @wolfman231 4 роки тому +1

      Long-winded is very unattractive.

    • @hueynewton8314
      @hueynewton8314 3 роки тому +1

      I thought I was thee only one thinking that.

  • @lanemorrison4145
    @lanemorrison4145 Рік тому +1

    Great advice! Spot on! Thank you dear! Some of my past (and current) problems were that I attract women with major issues - drama, alcoholics, liars, baggage, etc... I need a better vetting process...lol

  • @LolDarrellLol
    @LolDarrellLol Рік тому +3

    Since when do women know what they want?

  • @DKomnicide
    @DKomnicide Рік тому +7

    Watching this while shitting on the toilet

  • @xxxlonewolf49
    @xxxlonewolf49 Рік тому +1

    Uh...pushing your way through a problem is NOT aggression, lol.
    That's called perseverance!

  • @BruceJC75
    @BruceJC75 Місяць тому

    As George Costanza once said “I know less about women, than anyone in the world”

  • @johnfiveash6733
    @johnfiveash6733 4 роки тому +4

    Yes! Melannie a very awesome and informative video. Thank you for the inspiring video. I had a very bad day today. Your video it really uplift my spirit. Your bloopers were uplifting to me. Once again thank you for the amazing and awesome video. Keep up with the awesome work. God bless you,family, and friends. Have an awesome night. Stay well and safe.

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому

      I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

  • @vr-vik5660
    @vr-vik5660 3 роки тому +4

    I love your hair and your adorable blue eyes Melannie!!

  • @carreroarts9735
    @carreroarts9735 Рік тому +1

    Get rich get shredded... Then nothing else matters

  • @mr.irrelevant8826
    @mr.irrelevant8826 4 роки тому +4

    Wow you have completely opened my eyes👀 you ma’m have a new subscriber

    • @CoachMelannie
      @CoachMelannie  4 роки тому +1

      Welcome aboard! I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

  • @RH-xs8gz
    @RH-xs8gz 4 роки тому +4

    It’s been my experience that if you are not already physically attractive, women think things like making eye contact and smiling at them is not attractive, it’s creepy.

  • @josebrol8073
    @josebrol8073 2 роки тому +1

    It's not important physical attraction, but if you are 1oo% attractive, emotionally, physically, and socially, and spiritually you are the whole enchilada.

  • @trungmai3713
    @trungmai3713 Рік тому +3

    You guys realize you taking advice from a woman, right ? Women and men are different