Wish getting your dream girl was easy? You'll LOVE my quick masterclass because lays it all out for you! 🔥 Watch it free here 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/ 💭 P.S. Which sign she's thinking about you surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments!
Guys just remember just because she likes you today doesn’t mean she will tomorrow. Women constantly switch up. I’ve learned not to get emotionally invested. Understand that it’s just your turn and soon enough it’ll be another guys turn. Girls these days have rosters. Once u comprehend all this it’s much harder to be disappointed
Hi, a little older man who went through a divorce awhile back. Listened to video about a year ago. I finally found a lady that does 90% of the time. You was right about time, getting a good women finally. Thank you.
The way you teach is so amazing, keep it up and teach others how to do it like you!! Your smile , eyes, and the way you show how much your love your husband gives is so amazing!!!
I have not had the opportunity to meet many women in person. I recently met a special woman in a zoom scripture class who was mirring and agreeing with my comments frequently. I privately messaged her to meet in person. She really liked that idea and we spent hours talking before I walked her to her car and asked for her phone number. I'm planning how l want to do the second date now. I never thought of meeting someone in zoom meetings. Thank you for your valuable advice Melannie!
I have noticed many of these things. Thank you for confirming them. My mistake was expecting the girl to act crazy in love for me because if I don't see that I have the fear she will leave me for the man who does drive her crazy, now I understand not every lady will act this way
This girl I know follows me around strategically at gatherings etc... how hard she is trying is very much making me fall for her, I have not ever made a move on her but for years she persists... feeling loved makes me want to love her back
Let her make the first move. By waiting for so long, she already knows you either lack confidence or just really not attracted to her. The latter will make her want you, but if you give in to her now, she'll confirm the former. That's my take, but I'm not an expert. I hope she really does like you and has the guts to approach you.
Hi Coach I'm a young man very shy to girls I have a girl I used to tex her but I feed her with baby stuff text I'm confused about if she likes me or not sure needs some tips from you coach. Felix Kauru..
The cat walk. The thing that happened to me was, we were in church, and she was sitting with her friends in the pew right in front of me. I was sitting with friends right behind her. Whenever we stood, she would pull her jeans up as most people would. However, a few times, she did the hip shake. Not real obvious, but enough to catch my attention. We are not doing much yet because she is going through her divorce. Settlement coming soon. She is 60, and I'm 68. Neither of us look our age! Am I reading that right?
No one is thinking about me constantly…haha…went on a few dates…saying that they’ve never met a guy like me…I’m one of a kind…but days have gone by and no text or phone call…then one of them said that she’s not ready for any long term relationship and not to go in without expectations…the other said she has no time…so WTH?
the women you are encountering do not have a high level of physical attraction to you. They have an abundance of options and you were likely not at the top (goes both ways) think of it as a play the opening act is strong physical attraction between the couple, then being on the same wavelength/personality/etc it all matters. If a woman TRULY wants to be with a man close to nothing will get in her way. Best of luck man and you’ll find a good one soon!!!
@@wolfxman69 I emailed Courtney Ryan once just to see if she would respond since she told someone else in the comments to email her for more direct help and she never answered me. Sooooo…. 🤷🏼♂️
wolfxman69.........What does it mean? It means you are getting the red stop signs instead of the green go signs. It means you should move on to your next dates.
If a man is too eager or pleasing it can drive women away. They don't want someone controlling them but they also don't want someone they can control. It should be a 50/50 relationship, and if one begins to dominate the other yes the time that can turn out to be a toxic relationship. It should be a neutral and mutual decision between the two. Not a pulling away from each other.
Compliment a woman on her hair, her outfit, her sense of style, her sense of humor, her intelligence and she will thank you. Tell her that her charisma, gives her such a young look, and you will be upgraded in her world. Chances are 100 %, nobody ever told her that. It is like 100 compliments packaged in a short phrase.
There is this girl in my college class that I have a crush on. The 1st day of classes, I checked her out from where I was sitting and paid attention to where she sat. On the 2nd day of class, I introduced myself to her in the hallway next to the class and we talked really well and asked each other good questions. She was reasonably comfortable during the conversation. After, I followed her and sat where she sits. It was absolutely a great 1st time conversation both during class and in the hallway. At the end of class, I asked her: "Do you take the bus to go home" and she replied "I drive" and then she left. Next day's class, I arrived first and was sitting where she usually sat and she came sit next to me. I asked her few friendly questions and she responded well but asked me only one question this time. Next week's class, I arrived first and she sat next to me again and I said hello and ask her how was her weekend. She said it was good, but she didn't ask me any back. That day, the class ended early due to technical problems. I said to her sarcastically: "Well this class was too short". She smiled and said: "Yeah" NOTE: This is the 3rd class already and she hasn’t had a conversation with anybody else in the class except with me. WHAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? WHAT IS IT ABOUT HER OR MAYBE IT IS ME? WHY DID SHE SAT NEXT TO ME BUT SAID LESS 2ND AND 3RD DAY WHEN I TRY TO INITIATE A CONVERSATION? CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN?
@@Swing_Monkey This is what happened since then. We have shared 4 to 5 same classes together and anytime I sat at that spot we usually sit, she came sit next to me again. She did it today as well. In the first 2 days after my last comment, her behaviour was still a bit reserved when We had conversations. But in the past 2 days, her behaviour changed. This means we talked and asked each other questions back and fourth and had great conversations. When I compliment her about her shirt, she liked it. She was comfortable and quite smiley during them. She even show me a picture of an actor she met when I ask her if she knew that actor. Last week, I asked her if we could go to the library together to work and just hangout. Then, she said "For sure" and showed me her schedule and said wednesday this week, we can go if she doesn't have work. Today, in class, I checked to confirm if we will still go to the library on wednesday and she said she has midterm exams, work and visiting a University this week (She is very busy). I asked her about next week and her scehdule etc. and she said she doesn't know yet. When class ended, I compliment her saying "You look amazing." Then she left. (Personally, last week, I felt great about it when she said we could go on wednesday and was engaged during the conversations and she sat next to me everytime.😍🤗 Today when she said being very busy with school stuffs, I felt sad inside). TODAY, I AM CONFUSED.😏
@@jos8475 Don't be sad, sometimes people are just busy. But it sounds like things are going great between you two, so I wish you luck in anything you try with her.
@@jos8475 dont be so nice man. Her spending time w you will happen or it wont, but constantly asking her will only push her away. Shes gotta be into the convo more than you if she’s truly interested in YOU
*When a girl can’t stop thinking about you, her actions will speak louder than words. She’ll find subtle ways to make herself available, like texting you at random times or showing up at places you frequent. It’s not always direct, but these small signals are often clear indicators of her interest!*
THINKING. Which sign she's thinking about me surprised me the most? Following me around. I suppose if it were done in a "cute" way, it wouldn't seem creepy or anything like that. If the feeling is mutual, her following me around would actually go over pretty well. Thanks for another good video. God bless you Coach Melannie. 🙏
Wow I'm really glad that I found this video and your channel. These signs definitely mean that a gorgeous female at work is totally crushing on me! (Not like I didn't know already) but I am glad that this video does confirm a lot. Thank you!
Yes make more vids, I'll watch them all, because you are so interesting and fun that I look forward to all you have to say, you are a wealth of valuable tips.
These signs seem great for someone we've already met face-to-face, but what about someone we've only met on-line and not in person? Besides ghosting, catfishing, breadcrumbs, etc., what can we look for?
The foot thing probably goes for guys too- when im into a woman in a social situation, i will position myself facing her & inevitable my feet point in their direction
Coach Melannie, This is all good before marriage, but how do I win the heart of my wife back when we are separated and live 100 miles apart? I did this to my self with anger issues. She wants a divorce. Has the paperwork. But said she would give me a chance. Just a small one to see that I am fully surrounded to Jesus moment by moment each day. And that we can be friends. I did reach out to a Psychologist to help me with my anger issues. Help me win her back?
Ladies trying to make that connection with their crush..yes..I know a girl she drives her crush to work every day..she's even bought his lunch few times
I had a girl at work following me around, working by me even though she supposed to be on the other side of the building, sitting near me all the time at break, and rejected me but still does it. I can even sit in different spots and she chooses to still sit by me and not talk.
One woman at work i believe is intrested in me. All this started quite recently with long eye contact. I have crush on that woman very much. After that i liked some of her facebook pictures where her friends commented that she is pretty. After that at work she constantly looked at me when she was far away, that is, all the time, said "hi" to me first time ever. After work she stayed for a coffee with me for an easily over one hour, we talked of our job, first time ever we even talked. She just suddenly came to the cafe. There was only us. She also told that she is living alone in her own house and how she was sick before and stuff like that. Even told how she is very busy! After that one hour coffee i smoked cigar at outside (long time) maybe 15 minutes and she waited in her own car and immediately when i started to go she did too. But she avoided eye contact when she was near. I know she is bullied badly in the past and that might be having an effect . But i want to heal her with love. This is happened several times now in a shorter version though, because we don't usually have much time. What all this means and what to do?
I think its awesome how there are people like Melannie out there who help people find true love. It can be very difficult and intimidating to know how to approach someone these days no matter what kind of invironment your in, you find someone your attracted to and you just freeze up and don’t know what to say to them, it should be as easy to walk up to them and just say hi to them, but its not, so, thank you Melannie!
I don´t know how our ancestors came together without all of this "science" BS. The best is, live your life and stop believing that you´re only complete with a partner.
Me and you would be best friend if we met irl😂😂🤣🤣 We're stuck in this bubble where if you don't have a partner you are a loser treating it like a necessity
Nah ! I quit the cat and mouse mind games years ago. Sure, I was lonely for a while but now that I've tossed the emotional roller coaster aside, I'm much happier being alone.
There’s this girl at my job I’ve known for 5 years now. I’ve always liked her but have had trouble trying to figure out if she likes me. Some of these signs have shown up before. For example, most the time she won’t ever say anything to me. It’s like I don’t exist. Then out of nowhere she will start talking to me out of the blue and she will hang onto my every word. Then come the next day, she’s back to looking through me and never saying a word again for months. Is this normal?
So, this morning I noticed that she wrote me late last night so when I looked on the phone at 6:25 am and she says, "Yes!" And I didn't even say anything. But then I said, "Good morning !" But she never responded! I feel like I need to back off...that she's not interested, or thinks I am creepy or something. So hard to figure a woman out!
There is a gal, that did some pretty nice things for me. From just randomly starting converstaions with me, to helping me with my work, and even gave me really good advice. I fumbled it though. She got too close and It freaked me out. Now she doesn't talk to me as much. Learn from me fellas, dont let your anxiety get in the way. 😢
The one I was after liked looking and eye contact. She will even make sure we pass each other but when we do she always turns her head. I think it’s games
How about talking about how and where to pick up a nice women iv been out of the dating scene for a long time now, I love your videos thank you so much
Great advice, as always. I appreciate how passionate you are for your listeners. And its great coming from a Christian standpoint. You also have a wonderful voice. Thank you!
my coworker is pretty but she is always awkward around me I noticed she mirrors my behaviors and facial expressions and I had asked her if she could take my equipment to the office and she did, and the past week she has been around me working with me a lot.
currently in a fwb with a girl, she don't really use milk herself but buys me milk for when I go so I can have cereal and asks me if I want anything from the shop when she knows I'm going around
Melanie, she waited for me for an hour and I couldn't get out of my vehicle. But once again I couldn't really tell that it was her, because what she was wearing, and she changed her hair style. I am used to her wearing her uniform, no sun glasses, 2 months ago she had short hair. I had to get close to get close to her to see her face. But then she just got in her car. And stupid me leaves, I pray that I get another chance.
Hi Coach Melannie!! The most surprising sign is: She admits casually in a conversation that she has been thinking about you. We focus so much on the thing she brings up to the conversation the we missed that she remember or relate that thing with us. It is surprising as where are pointing her feet. I have a question about that sign. What is the first thing she wants to know? The name of a band or a movie he likes. The food he likes to eat. The things he uses on daily basis. The things he want to buy or to do. Thanks for all your advices. ---------- Yeah, I also think you sound like Mario.
I love your content. I’ve watched your gym video a few times as well. I really like my gym crush but it’s so nerve racking. I also get stiff and shy around her lol
This female I am very fond of said; "It is good to see you," but she sees me each week, on time. How can this be true. Yes, this is the first time she said this, BUT I say this each week. Is she mirroring me? By accident? Or did something change.
Good morning, Melanin, listening to your video on thinking about her, been thinking about a girl, that I meet in the apartment l am living in. She work in the front desk in the apartment office, For no reason I just constantly thinking about her. She is a high value woman, attractive and beautiful. I am also a Christian man. Be watching your videos on UA-cam. Thank you. I want her in life.
A woman on my insta messaged me recently saying she made a delivery to my old address, only thing I left that address 6 years ago . 😂 Think it's safe to say she was thinking about me.
Yeah she’s now desperate ! She’s going through everyone she friendzoned over the years because her life is now a train wreck, and she needs a savior ... $$$
80s kid , yes she played the field to long , and likely she hit the wall, and now is lowering her standards, in short, she wrecked her life and needs big papa to clean it all up
@@thomasgardner5872 I did go on a date with her about 10 years ago, but I didn't pursue her after the date and I didn't really hear that much from her after. So for the last decade she has just been orbiting on my social media. Ha Lately she has been dm ing around once every couple weeks and watches all my stories. I don't follow her anymore and I don't watch her stories, so she's just following me solely. Ha
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💭 P.S. Which sign she's thinking about you surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments!
Thinking
Coach melanie I have a question for you why is it harder to find a good woman in your 40s. But it easy to find a woman in my 20s
Melannie now u r fat. B exercise regularly. Love you
Hie do you mind not to make to long explaining more stuff about yourself or others but instead just go straight to the point?
@@226B-p1c who u talking to
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Bless your soul
thank you
5 minutes to start the video, jeez...
Awesome thanks
I wish this video had time stamps
Guys just remember just because she likes you today doesn’t mean she will tomorrow. Women constantly switch up. I’ve learned not to get emotionally invested. Understand that it’s just your turn and soon enough it’ll be another guys turn. Girls these days have rosters. Once u comprehend all this it’s much harder to be disappointed
I learnt the hard way
So did I.
We all did. Thats the only way we learn@@RandomColosseum
I watched from the sidelines. Thank you men for your sacrifice!
Want to support a real nice lady who helps others. Enjoy your video's. Have the best day Melannie
Wow, thank you so much! I'm so happy you're enjoying my videos. I really appreciate your support! God bless! 😊 🙏
@@CoachMelannie Thinking : widower and old , been a long time
THINKING*how about she's thinking about U even when she's ghosting or friend zoning you :)
A familiar pain my friend
How do one link the above topic to a shy personality
I feel yah😔
Focus on yourself and your goals and make your self better
she's probably shy
1/randomly approach you /near you
2/ask a lot of question
3/remember thing about you
4/I saw that and I thought of you
5/feet pointing at you
Hi, a little older man who went through a divorce awhile back. Listened to video about a year ago. I finally found a lady that does 90% of the time. You was right about time, getting a good women finally. Thank you.
You still together
The way you teach is so amazing, keep it up and teach others how to do it like you!! Your smile , eyes, and the way you show how much your love your husband gives is so amazing!!!
I have not had the opportunity to meet many women in person.
I recently met a special woman in a zoom scripture class who was mirring and agreeing with my comments frequently.
I privately messaged her to meet in person.
She really liked that idea and we spent hours talking before I walked her to her car and asked for her phone number.
I'm planning how l want to do the second date now.
I never thought of meeting someone in zoom meetings.
Thank you for your valuable advice Melannie!
Whatever VooDoo this is, kinda tends to be rather entertaining 😂
When a girl wants money she's definitely thinking about you. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That might be true of toxic women. A high quality woman has her own money.
@@CoachMelannie
Even so called high quality women will want a man to spend his money on them.
Amen brotha lol “high quality” woman want security too
If you have to buy a woman's love it's not worth having.
I just want cuddles 😩
Hey coach! Please don't be upset. Some love don't last forever. My opinion again.
I admit Coach Melannie I wouldn’t know how to approach.
Thanks!
Thank YOU! I'm so glad you liked it 😀
@@CoachMelannie Welcome
I don't want a woman who will not meet me halfway , I'm tired of jumping thru hoops of fire
I experienced this before. Random message out of nowhere. Follow me and give me something to eat without asking nothing. Its definitely true
I have noticed many of these things. Thank you for confirming them. My mistake was expecting the girl to act crazy in love for me because if I don't see that I have the fear she will leave me for the man who does drive her crazy, now I understand not every lady will act this way
This girl I know follows me around strategically at gatherings etc... how hard she is trying is very much making me fall for her, I have not ever made a move on her but for years she persists... feeling loved makes me want to love her back
Let her make the first move. By waiting for so long, she already knows you either lack confidence or just really not attracted to her. The latter will make her want you, but if you give in to her now, she'll confirm the former. That's my take, but I'm not an expert. I hope she really does like you and has the guts to approach you.
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Evening Coach Melinne...Just viewed your video on dating over 50...your totally Right about the financial thing.. Thank you
IT'S AWESOME
Hi Coach I'm a young man very shy to girls
I have a girl I used to tex her but I feed her with baby stuff text I'm confused about if she likes me or not sure needs some tips from you coach.
Felix Kauru..
Giving mixed signals is a mind game.
Love the bloopers funny
Blessed
The cat walk. The thing that happened to me was, we were in church, and she was sitting with her friends in the pew right in front of me. I was sitting with friends right behind her. Whenever we stood, she would pull her jeans up as most people would. However, a few times, she did the hip shake. Not real obvious, but enough to catch my attention. We are not doing much yet because she is going through her divorce. Settlement coming soon. She is 60, and I'm 68. Neither of us look our age! Am I reading that right?
She did all these. It's a complicated situation Melanie. But I know she cares about me.
No one is thinking about me constantly…haha…went on a few dates…saying that they’ve never met a guy like me…I’m one of a kind…but days have gone by and no text or phone call…then one of them said that she’s not ready for any long term relationship and not to go in without expectations…the other said she has no time…so WTH?
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
@@CoachMelannie I did and no response from you…how about getting one in here? Much appreciated…thank you !
the women you are encountering do not have a high level of physical attraction to you. They have an abundance of options and you were likely not at the top (goes both ways) think of it as a play the opening act is strong physical attraction between the couple, then being on the same wavelength/personality/etc it all matters. If a woman TRULY wants to be with a man close to nothing will get in her way. Best of luck man and you’ll find a good one soon!!!
@@wolfxman69 I emailed Courtney Ryan once just to see if she would respond since she told someone else in the comments to email her for more direct help and she never answered me. Sooooo…. 🤷🏼♂️
wolfxman69.........What does it mean? It means you are getting the red stop signs instead of the green go signs. It means you should move on to your next dates.
Playing hard to get is a mind game.
If a man is too eager or pleasing it can drive women away. They don't want someone controlling them but they also don't want someone they can control. It should be a 50/50 relationship, and if one begins to dominate the other yes the time that can turn out to be a toxic relationship. It should be a neutral and mutual decision between the two. Not a pulling away from each other.
Thinking. I’d great to get the signs/indications to better know that you’re on the right path to true love
Thank you
For the videos
Keep making videos
My friend
From new Braunfels Texas
All your videos you showed that your enthusiastic. Your energy never runs out.
Women are mad
My friend tells me, to be careful so my radar is to be cautious. She is very important to me! Thinking she is a high quality woman!
Compliment a woman on her hair, her outfit, her sense of style, her sense of humor, her intelligence and she will thank you. Tell her that her charisma, gives her such a young look, and you will be upgraded in her world. Chances are 100 %, nobody ever told her that. It is like 100 compliments packaged in a short phrase.
There is this girl in my college class that I have a crush on. The 1st day of classes, I checked her out from where I was sitting and paid attention to where she sat. On the 2nd day of class, I introduced myself to her in the hallway next to the class and we talked really well and asked each other good questions. She was reasonably comfortable during the conversation. After, I followed her and sat where she sits. It was absolutely a great 1st time conversation both during class and in the hallway. At the end of class, I asked her: "Do you take the bus to go home" and she replied "I drive" and then she left. Next day's class, I arrived first and was sitting where she usually sat and she came sit next to me. I asked her few friendly questions and she responded well but asked me only one question this time. Next week's class, I arrived first and she sat next to me again and I said hello and ask her how was her weekend. She said it was good, but she didn't ask me any back. That day, the class ended early due to technical problems. I said to her sarcastically: "Well this class was too short". She smiled and said: "Yeah" NOTE: This is the 3rd class already and she hasn’t had a conversation with anybody else in the class except with me.
WHAT DOES ALL THIS MEAN? WHAT IS IT ABOUT HER OR MAYBE IT IS ME? WHY DID SHE SAT NEXT TO ME BUT SAID LESS 2ND AND 3RD DAY WHEN I TRY TO INITIATE A CONVERSATION? CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN?
It seems to me like she's nervous and is trying to act confident around you
(Update me if anything happens, I'm intrigued.)
@@Swing_Monkey This is what happened since then. We have shared 4 to 5 same classes together and anytime I sat at that spot we usually sit, she came sit next to me again. She did it today as well. In the first 2 days after my last comment, her behaviour was still a bit reserved when We had conversations. But in the past 2 days, her behaviour changed. This means we talked and asked each other questions back and fourth and had great conversations. When I compliment her about her shirt, she liked it. She was comfortable and quite smiley during them. She even show me a picture of an actor she met when I ask her if she knew that actor.
Last week, I asked her if we could go to the library together to work and just hangout. Then, she said "For sure" and showed me her schedule and said wednesday this week, we can go if she doesn't have work.
Today, in class, I checked to confirm if we will still go to the library on wednesday and she said she has midterm exams, work and visiting a University this week (She is very busy). I asked her about next week and her scehdule etc. and she said she doesn't know yet. When class ended, I compliment her saying "You look amazing." Then she left.
(Personally, last week, I felt great about it when she said we could go on wednesday and was engaged during the conversations and she sat next to me everytime.😍🤗
Today when she said being very busy with school stuffs, I felt sad inside).
TODAY, I AM CONFUSED.😏
@@jos8475 Don't be sad, sometimes people are just busy. But it sounds like things are going great between you two, so I wish you luck in anything you try with her.
@@jos8475 dont be so nice man. Her spending time w you will happen or it wont, but constantly asking her will only push her away. Shes gotta be into the convo more than you if she’s truly interested in YOU
Don't dog her so much .You sit in another place if she goes where you're sitting at then she what you're friend ship .
Thinking. What if I’m the one telling her, “I’ve thought of you….”?
*When a girl can’t stop thinking about you, her actions will speak louder than words. She’ll find subtle ways to make herself available, like texting you at random times or showing up at places you frequent. It’s not always direct, but these small signals are often clear indicators of her interest!*
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Thanks for sharing this with us.
It helps when you have a great personality like yours. 👍
THINKING. Which sign she's thinking about me surprised me the most? Following me around. I suppose if it were done in a "cute" way, it wouldn't seem creepy or anything like that. If the feeling is mutual, her following me around would actually go over pretty well. Thanks for another good video. God bless you Coach Melannie. 🙏
Thank you! Have a great weekend! God bless 🙏
@@CoachMelannie
yes more videos please .
From Ethiopia 🇪🇹 Melanie
I am learning from your video
Thank you!!
Ymceh
Easy to pick up but hard to get rid of !
I really appreciate your down to earth approach. Thank you.
Love from Florida.
“Thinking” great video topic 👍
Wow I'm really glad that I found this video and your channel. These signs definitely mean that a gorgeous female at work is totally crushing on me! (Not like I didn't know already) but I am glad that this video does confirm a lot. Thank you!
Very informative, she never thinks about me 😂
I couldn’t pay for your academy Coach Melannie I just don’t have the money.
Melanie, there's absolutely something about you that caught my eye 😉
I know about having my foot asleep Melannie.
Yes make more vids, I'll watch them all, because you are so interesting and fun that I look forward to all you have to say, you are a wealth of valuable tips.
Thank you for this video, watching you helped with my morning wood.
Really? My vulgar comment gets a high five? I think we might get along :) Well, I mean, only if you live thunderstorms.
Nice informative videos to help woman and men to better understand one another
These signs seem great for someone we've already met face-to-face, but what about someone we've only met on-line and not in person? Besides ghosting, catfishing, breadcrumbs, etc., what can we look for?
My favorite book is To Kill A Mockingbird and my favorite movie is JFK Coach Melannie.
The foot thing probably goes for guys too- when im into a woman in a social situation, i will position myself facing her & inevitable my feet point in their direction
Coach Melannie,
This is all good before marriage, but how do I win the heart of my wife back when we are separated and live 100 miles apart? I did this to my self with anger issues. She wants a divorce. Has the paperwork. But said she would give me a chance. Just a small one to see that I am fully surrounded to Jesus moment by moment each day. And that we can be friends. I did reach out to a Psychologist to help me with my anger issues. Help me win her back?
Great video
Thinking! It was very helpful! I really enjoyed it
Lovely advice, facetious, and informative. I understand they speak more with their body.
Ladies trying to make that connection with their crush..yes..I know a girl she drives her crush to work every day..she's even bought his lunch few times
I had a girl at work following me around, working by me even though she supposed to be on the other side of the building, sitting near me all the time at break, and rejected me but still does it. I can even sit in different spots and she chooses to still sit by me and not talk.
One woman at work i believe is intrested in me. All this started quite recently with long eye contact. I have crush on that woman very much. After that i liked some of her facebook pictures where her friends commented that she is pretty. After that at work she constantly looked at me when she was far away, that is, all the time, said "hi" to me first time ever. After work she stayed for a coffee with me for an easily over one hour, we talked of our job, first time ever we even talked. She just suddenly came to the cafe. There was only us. She also told that she is living alone in her own house and how she was sick before and stuff like that. Even told how she is very busy! After that one hour coffee i smoked cigar at outside (long time) maybe 15 minutes and she waited in her own car and immediately when i started to go she did too. But she avoided eye contact when she was near. I know she is bullied badly in the past and that might be having an effect . But i want to heal her with love. This is happened several times now in a shorter version though, because we don't usually have much time. What all this means and what to do?
I think its awesome how there are people like Melannie out there who help people find true love. It can be very difficult and intimidating to know how to approach someone these days no matter what kind of invironment your in, you find someone your attracted to and you just freeze up and don’t know what to say to them, it should be as easy to walk up to them and just say hi to them, but its not, so, thank you Melannie!
This is a pretty good video. I love your enthusiasm in this video do a video on how to know if girls actually like you/flirt you
I actually want you to do a video on why do girls act moody/ and don’t give eye contact all of a sudden
@Aulugh Moses I just need help normal help
Thanks for showing us the other side of the world, we appreciate
Random calls can also mean she wants attention, validation, or help.
I don´t know how our ancestors came together without all of this "science" BS. The best is, live your life and stop believing that you´re only complete with a partner.
Me and you would be best friend if we met irl😂😂🤣🤣
We're stuck in this bubble where if you don't have a partner you are a loser treating it like a necessity
There were simply less options and no guarantee of tomorrow, that's all 😂
Nah ! I quit the cat and mouse mind games years ago. Sure, I was lonely for a while but now that I've tossed the emotional roller coaster aside, I'm much happier being alone.
Great topic, great video! Thanks Coach!
My pleasure!
@@CoachMelannie
be well take care and happy new year to you .
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There’s this girl at my job I’ve known for 5 years now. I’ve always liked her but have had trouble trying to figure out if she likes me. Some of these signs have shown up before.
For example, most the time she won’t ever say anything to me. It’s like I don’t exist. Then out of nowhere she will start talking to me out of the blue and she will hang onto my every word. Then come the next day, she’s back to looking through me and never saying a word again for months.
Is this normal?
So, this morning I noticed that she wrote me late last night so when I looked on the phone at 6:25 am and she says, "Yes!" And I didn't even say anything. But then I said, "Good morning !" But she never responded! I feel like I need to back off...that she's not interested, or thinks I am creepy or something. So hard to figure a woman out!
I had a group chat today with a girl I like and another guy the girl ask me for some advice today
U deserve a million subscribers!i like ur facial expression,hw u speak etc nd it will b amazing dating u😀
There is a gal, that did some pretty nice things for me. From just randomly starting converstaions with me, to helping me with my work, and even gave me really good advice. I fumbled it though. She got too close and It freaked me out. Now she doesn't talk to me as much. Learn from me fellas, dont let your anxiety get in the way. 😢
What if a married woman with kids feels this way about you???
The one I was after liked looking and eye contact. She will even make sure we pass each other but when we do she always turns her head. I think it’s games
How about talking about how and where to pick up a nice women iv been out of the dating scene for a long time now, I love your videos thank you so much
Thinking! This’s a great video. I’ll have to keep these in mind when I’m with my girl
I wanted to watch this as a woman because i wanted to know if it was that obvious 😅 and oh man i feel like you're talking about me. 😂
Thinking 🤔 How to make her feel safe!
Thank you coach Melanie..i like your voice...
What about if she has a boyfriend and has done a lot of these and works with you ?.
Great advice, as always. I appreciate how passionate you are for your listeners. And its great coming from a Christian standpoint. You also have a wonderful voice. Thank you!
I really enjoyed the video, coach Melannie!
So,
*THINKING*
What if you have a good feeling that someone is interested in you but you can't be sure because they are on the shy side?
my coworker is pretty but she is always awkward around me I noticed she mirrors my behaviors and facial expressions and I had asked her if she could take my equipment to the office and she did, and the past week she has been around me working with me a lot.
Love your videos Coach Melannie!🔥😎 The Best!!! God bless you and your family.
@BOXERex y
currently in a fwb with a girl, she don't really use milk herself but buys me milk for when I go so I can have cereal and asks me if I want anything from the shop when she knows I'm going around
I’m looking for a loving lasting relationship Coach Melannie.
Very useful video! Thank you
How's about if she watches my Instagram reels 12 times?
Melanie, she waited for me for an hour and I couldn't get out of my vehicle. But once again I couldn't really tell that it was her, because what she was wearing, and she changed her hair style. I am used to her wearing her uniform, no sun glasses, 2 months ago she had short hair. I had to get close to get close to her to see her face. But then she just got in her car. And stupid me leaves, I pray that I get another chance.
If a guy is in her presence, of course she will be thinking of him. How else would anyone detect the woman's foot positioning?
I asked her out, she said yes I just have to get her number to arrange to go out.
How do I know if she's thinking about me or my fro?
Ask someone else to ask her.
Hi Coach Melannie!!
The most surprising sign is: She admits casually in a conversation that she has been thinking about you.
We focus so much on the thing she brings up to the conversation the we missed that she remember or relate that thing with us. It is surprising as where are pointing her feet.
I have a question about that sign.
What is the first thing she wants to know?
The name of a band or a movie he likes.
The food he likes to eat.
The things he uses on daily basis.
The things he want to buy or to do.
Thanks for all your advices.
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Yeah, I also think you sound like Mario.
I had this happen to me recently with an attractive older co-worker; still unsure weather or not she was trying to flirt or not 😂
My feet is point towards my bathtub (yh you are right. That’s where I’m seated). Am I thinking about my bathtub? Hmm
I love your content. I’ve watched your gym video a few times as well. I really like my gym crush but it’s so nerve racking. I also get stiff and shy around her lol
I understand. These videos will help. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-W_e1sSY8-UDYrC3VBdGUNS.html
Wooow a storm of talking 😃😉😁😁♥️♥️♥️
This female I am very fond of said; "It is good to see you," but she sees me each week, on time. How can this be true. Yes, this is the first time she said this, BUT I say this each week. Is she mirroring me? By accident? Or did something change.
Thank you, I wish I could talk to someone as smart as you!!!
Good morning, Melanin, listening to your video on thinking about her, been thinking about a girl, that I meet in the apartment l am living in. She work in the front desk in the apartment office,
For no reason I just constantly thinking about her.
She is a high value woman, attractive and beautiful.
I am also a Christian man. Be watching your videos on UA-cam.
Thank you. I want her in life.
A woman on my insta messaged me recently saying she made a delivery to my old address, only thing I left that address 6 years ago . 😂
Think it's safe to say she was thinking about me.
I would say she was!
Yeah she’s now desperate ! She’s going through everyone she friendzoned over the years because her life is now a train wreck, and she needs a savior ... $$$
@@thomasgardner5872 facts!!!! I was also thinking that she has just ran out of guys to date
80s kid , yes she played the field to long , and likely she hit the wall, and now is lowering her standards, in short, she wrecked her life and needs big papa to clean it all up
@@thomasgardner5872 I did go on a date with her about 10 years ago, but I didn't pursue her after the date and I didn't really hear that much from her after. So for the last decade she has just been orbiting on my social media. Ha
Lately she has been dm ing around once every couple weeks and watches all my stories. I don't follow her anymore and I don't watch her stories, so she's just following me solely. Ha