How I Forgave my Parents and Why You Should | MUST WATCH (PARENTS TOO)
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After explaining my childhood, many of you guys were saying I should've never forgave them. I explain my childhood more.
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Apologize to your mom before it’s to late
Yea fr people wait until you’re dead to apologize
@UC6ncfssAJVsxTMhSBCisAeg fax then they wish they spent more time with you and cry and give you flowers when you’re dead but not when you alive
@@seanslaughter4020 they don’t even notice you exist until your death
@@assaultflex7622 freaking fax then they’ll forget you at death
@@seanslaughter4020 ong but moms are different bro they always worry about you where ever you are
I really respect you for being so open but even more for being able to think they way you do.
Thanks man
Bro you speak so many facts are you human your mom is beautiful btw
Thanks
@@xNEPTUNE no thank you bro you done helped me out so much
Editing on a molly was difficult!!!! Lol
🤣🤣🤣 LSD is a different ball game
damn
@@wokhardtwizard9086 nah ketamine is bruh😭😂😂😂
@@michaelewarihue6918 Ight now u a certified Fien💀💀💀
@@billy_casanova 😂😂😂
In a society where forgiveness is almost seen as weak and taboo. This was a FRESH breath of air. You really woke up today and choose facts
Aye there’s no handbook on how to be a perfect parent. They might make mistakes like we all do but if they have good intent in them it’s all good. Even tho it might take time to realize it. You learn from your parents mistakes and hope you don’t repeat them. You take the positive attributes from them and the ppl around you. Stay safe and take care g.
What I take away from this is that you must deal with the cards that are dealt to you in life and make best of your situation.
Yeah man. U don’t pick your parents or your siblings
Yes.
You were lucky to have both of your parents. No one is perfect.
You're going through a dark night of the soul. It's a darkness you have and you continue to feed. I've been there, but I think I keep evolving to better adapt to each situation.
My dad was just like yours. I was living in constant fear and survival mode. Didn't know if my family would still be alive when I came home from school... I thought my dad would kill them. Your words are wise beyond measure and I felt every word.
Brandon,my dad manipulated my mom when they were dating and after they got married he stopped loving her,he hit her,he pulled her hair,and made fun of her in public,bro ever since I heard about that which was 3 years ago,last time I visited my dad,I confronted him bout it and he tried insult my mom and singed on him,of course I made a horrible decision and my mother ,ever since they got divorced, she told herself, i need to the best i can for these two kids my brother and me. I hate for what my dad and I try to control my anger and my mother said that I need to control it or I'll become like my father,I love my father but I hate him for what he did,but,hes still my dad and I love my mom for providing me and my brother with what we need and I want to be successful biologist and give my mother a big house and she'll have grandchildren, living a better life than the time she was with my dad.this video touched my heart brandon, thank you
you are so strong bro i wish you the best💯
hope you get your life together bro
I wish you the best bro
You’ll be great king keep ya head up
Facts... No one need to b speaking on your parents, they care but they didn't showed it in the best of ways. The greatest thing is to know that they care.
Good for u g 💯. I’m 19, it’s a lot things I could talk about that my Popz did to me growin up. Eventually it comes to a point where ur tired of being angry. However, I’ll never forget what dat guy put me through, we cool now, but it’s like it effects me to this day n that lets kno that I will do better with my own kids. Through this whole time I learned that u gotta becareful wit kids cuz they don’t forget that molds them whether it’s for the good or the bad only them can determine that. No 🧢
This stuff is almost too interesting to watch, seeing what experiences you pushed through and how you learned from it.
From what I’ve heard it sounds like ur dad really loves y’all but his masculinity doesn’t let him show it in an affectionate way. Just how some people were raised. Don’t listen to these bums speakin down on your family cuz only u know G.
It’s hard to forgive my mom because she changes up every week/day. I never know what I’m gonna get with her. I’ve lost all respect for them.
I’m late but just know that there’s a difference between forgiveness and enabling. What I mean is that you can forgive but you are not obligated to still be around someone that’s abusing you and is refusing to stop the behaviors. You still have a right to a peaceful life and having your rights respected. If someone is unwilling to respect your boundaries then it may even mean excommunication temporarily or God forbid permanently.
I respect everything what your say, because we love our mom's, we only have 1, nobody can't replace them, love your mom's people 🙏🏽❤
A lot of people back in that era put us 90s kids through a lot I’m noticing it’s like we all reraising ourselves
Unless you experience what Brandon experienced you won't understand that in perilous times like that good times also come to fruition although when it's a too dark of a past the bad memories always overshadow the good times
yeah man
Foreal man people can’t relate towards that type of love that’s tough love😢respect Brandon all love 💙💯🤝
GoodMoring Everybody!!! dark Knight rises🔥
Dropped this at the perfect time. Thank you for this 💛
No prob.
Brandon you the goat i wish i could talk to you and stuff i been into a lot of shit to you're one of my biggest inspiration you're the realest man ever bro thanks for helping people we are spiritual beings having a human experience our souls want to feel pain a soul want to suffer because it's life love you Brandon.
U can talk to me thru these comments. What’s up
@@xNEPTUNE ok my name is ofir I'm from Israel I'm 17 when I lived in a pretty nagetiv house my mom and my dad used to fight a lot when I was little and my brother was a very depressed kid he got abused at school everyday and I used to get beaten every day by him since I was a baby and he bodybuilder big asf I got beaten by till I was 12 when I was 12 I used to go crazy I beaten my own mom and almost killed her like 10 times I was very suicidal and dark I used to think about murder and death all the time police came to my house almost every week because I used to raise a knife at my brother everyday and choking my mother every week because I was so dark because of my life I used to stay at my 24 hours a day and one time I didn't got out of my house for 2 years and I used to see souls and I could even talk to them sometimes and I was a very powerful spirituality and I didn't know that then I found it my spirituality and my life changed till December 21st I got depressed at stupid shit and tried to kill my self 3 times since the 21st and helped with the video that you uploaded about your childhood and I found out that me and you are very similar when I'm getting emotional I start to punch my chest too just because of life now I understand that pain and violence are life and everything is beautiful no matter what it is thank you Brandon you don't even know how much you helped me.
And now me and my brother are good friends and I live with. my dad and brother lives with my mom and her boyfriend i forgive everyone because shit ain't worth it without the pain i been too I wouldn't been spiritual and spirituality I my purpose i want only to help and heal people that's who I'm I'm very smart old men even take advice from me but I'm not doing nothing with it I want to open a UA-cam channel and stuff but I have no motivation
@@xNEPTUNE that's it
(6:03) that was so blunt😭💀
You are making this world a better place . My soul evolves each time I watch these enlightening spiritual videos . love and respect for ya Brandon .
Truly appreciate these type of videos
Brandon these story times are inspiring thank u for being an open book to us your supporters 💯🤟
Very inspirational man, how you can go from being abused and coming from nothing but trauma and now you are a big youtuber doing good for yourself. And your parents are inspirational too having issues with each other, fighting eachother and your dad going to jail and your mum not working and now your dad is a business man making millions and your mom doing good and being a nurse now. You became my favourite UA-camr after watching this and your last video 💪🏾❤️.
You are inspirational. Keep up the good content.
I get what u mean, my dad was the one who was providing for my family while mama stayed home and took care of me and the siblings. I used to get beatings when younger over anything but they did that out of love cause it made me who I am today.
Getting beaten causes serious trauma. Even if they "did that out of love" It's not right at all and you have a right to be upset about that.
@@GenesisDoesGacha I never stressed about it, they always treated me with love if u exclude the beatings I took as a young kid. As the oldest brother, I had a lot of responsibility.
@@am2382 They were still hitting you and even if you never stressed about it that doesn't mean it was not traumatic
@SleeplessJay Nah obviously I got hit with a belt if I did something wrong, my parents were never hitting me for no reason at all lmao. I ain't traumatized about nothing cause I did misbehave a lot as a child and I mostly blame myself for those times.
@SleeplessJay Jesus Christ bruh he was talking about a belt
Much respect and appreciate your openness about your story man!
Thank you for sharing your story!!! I'm sure it wasn't easy, but you chose to let us in!!! Love you bro, don't know you! But I love you! You are truly what this world needs Brandon Rashad, never change
Im glad you are comfortable sharing things like this, it shows a great deal of maturity you being open and honest about your life. It will get better bro as long as you keep moving forward day by day try to fix those strained relationships and most importantly you gotta forgive yourself for the mistakes you made. Good luck brother 🙏
Thank you so much for opening up about your story big bro. I forgave my father for being an alcoholic
Man listening to him is gold af
Bro I love your videos yo, their always getting me deep!!!💯🤔👌
My dad’s basically a celebrity in my town and it seems he cares way more about his work than me (his youngest son) it feels like my siblings got more love and affection and even tough love but I’ll forgive him cuz he’s older. Also I agree on the kids thing, I don’t want to scar them. If I get kids I’ll probably adopt them cuz then they’ll already be scarred 😂
Mad respect 🙌
It’s crazy how I can google your name now and see you on the internet, been watching u since D&B Ent , much love🤞🏽❤️
Respect bruh 💜
Who remember when Dead Swim was Punkstar
Hahaha
I do lol 😂 I’m just happy he put a music video out for it
@@xNEPTUNE Brandon I think your dad resembles me a lot, lol I’m super dark and I’m 6’2 and I’m a bit of a big guy too. And I’m very prideful too. I would like to hear more about dad since I’m kind of like him, they only difference is I’m bald like saitama lol 😂
The force is strong in you
U gotta look at the good and the bad of a person. Good video bro
Damnnn Brandon yo parents some bosses foreal dawg 🔥🔥🐐🐐🌹🌹
Pls stay away from the drugs, led are here for u Bro, let’s make the change together. U got this goat🙏❤️
Ay u got better as a artist... N ay just talk to us we here♥️💯
My mom was pretty shitty but I forgave her. We get along okay now that I'm older but I know that you can't squeeze blood out of a turnip...my mom is the turnip. Forgiving someone, frees your soul. It's a gift to yourself. I will say, though, it's okay to keep your distance when you need to. Boundaries are a good thing.
STATE, COUNTRY , Boundaries.
Yep
Nice video Brandon
Damn Brandon you can do better man stay strong 💪
Bruh no one is perfect forgiveness is very important to grow and yo bro be careful with the drugs it’s very harmful love form Saudi Arabia.
Brandon a real dark knight 😤🤟..that aint an easy thing to do
Respect 💯
Respect Bro Awsome vid & Facts Go After your Goals 2 Be The Best Version of yourself Peace
My Father was hella complicated too, but the Love that he gave us & the sacrifices he made are priceless. We are all walking contradictions. Take the good from your parents & forgive them for their un-evolved issues. Bless up Brandon!!
i love your videos and honesty
Your music has improved a lot wow 👏🏾 👏🏾
Man bless u and your parents homie hope u guys are bless more and more 🙏❤mY God bless u guys
thanks for sharing the beautiful forgiving story
Had to. Lol
Too many ppl were talking shit about my parents so I had to make them understand that u have to forgive your parents.
@@xNEPTUNE my mother is strong typical narcissist. i was the scapegoat my brother always been her golden child , you know what i mean? i had a very very hard child hood and so on in my teenager time. she abused me by saying she wanted me to be perfect. i spent 40 years to forgive her and myself. now i have 2 amazing kids, i went through lots of issues in my own life , one thing my mother thought me is that i can do the opposite to make myself a better mother . my son is getting a good scholarship to a very awesome school in the US, my daughter is doing well in mid school. and i never learned english at school, i started learning english when i was 42 by only myself,from scratch. now i kinda speak natively . i think i have all the right to be proud of myself. another one thing is that , no matter what, i believe she loved me, i believe she tried to give me the best, and obviously she made me a very a strong person a good mother lol god bless everybody, god bless you . thank you for 댓글. . . i speak korean , japanese, chinese and english, i think FORGIVE is not the word when we talk about our parents, istead of forgive i think APPRECIATE would be better . 채널 번창하세요 and pls forgive my english grammar mistakes if i make any lol i love my parents very much , have a nice day
my mother is so beautiful too i’m the opposite lol
You are so rich in so many ways. No judgment zone. Live your Reality. You deserve the best.
You’re great person bro, we all have our problems but most of us don’t talk openly about it.
Wow I didn’t even know the stuff that was happening bro but dark knight gang fo life bro keep doing yo shit man you a real one......💪🏾💪🏾
definitely dropping a like👏... all the way from SOUTH AFRICA!❗
Gotta show ya parents love because ever tho they may make mistakes they did the best they could everybody not built to raise kids I swear salute to the parents that give they all
My mom always did everything for me, my dad never did anything for me. He always did drugs while my mom was providing for me and my brothers and sister with her $600 every month.
Yo Dad ballin 🏀🏀
Yea that gon take some time but I’ll hear u out🥴🤦🏾
Your mom is beautiful fr and you definitely look like your mom
I love you man. Not even in a romantic way but moreso just as the person you are!!
I fw you bro 💪💯
Brandon u a boss too bro a humble boss
I connect on deep with you B
The SNL actor Darrell Hammond has a documentary on Netflix. It's crazy what his parents did to him. I recommend you give it a watch.
I respect u a lot now Brandon
Man Brandon, I would've never guessed that you had to go through that as a child based on how positive and turnt you are in your videos. I'm so glad you delivered these words because now it's making me think about rekindling my relationship with my father.
Second the power out and my phone about to go dead
4:50 Damn dude, that's some serious paper...
Brandon Rashad is not speaking facts. He’s speaking the truth. It’s not easy taking molly and you’re still able to express your feelings the way Brandon is.
I smoke a lot of marijuana to escape my pain. I’m 21, and as wise as I am I too suffer from having a horrible childhood. Everytime I roll a blunt just to make the pain go away, I learn something new about myself.
I got 72 subscribers who don’t know this side of me. Every gaming stream I’ve done, every reaction video I’m high asf. I roll a the biggest blunt possible the bigger the blunt, the better the pain goes away.
You’re gonna have to eventually deal with it bro
Bro i really hope you get better
I live in Lancaster CA LOL that's crazy.
They really made some beautiful Truth's.
Man, our experiences with our dads are the complete opposite, but they're both bad nontheless.
Mine never hit me nor my brother or mother, the problem with him is he never provided, i had a bad anemia when i was a kid and he didn't seem to care, just smoked his hash, watched tv and slept for like 12 hours a day, while my mother who had asthma, a heart condition, high blood pressure, stomach disease... worked mopping other people's floors and washing their clothes while coughing the whole time and could barely even walk, and she uses to hear all kinds of insults from the people she worked for, and all of this just to buy me medicine and provide for me and my brother (and for my dad too because he's a queen and don't want to work). your last couple videos made my cry bro and stirred all types of negative emotions in me from hatred to regret to shame to resentment...
When u say ur dad was doing his best, that's where i felt the difference between us, because my dad didn't even do his worst, he did nothing, and i can never forgive him for that, i hate the feeling that are always in my heart but i just hate him and will never forgive him, so i'm gonna live with it.
I got to the point where I don't hate my biological mom but I'm not going to forgive her she brought this on herself and that's how it's going to be.
Bro man you past is tough mine is kinda weird but yours is way worse I mean like my dad left when I was 4 and I had a few trust issues and now my past has caused me a lot of pain like right now I have really bad anxiety and depression but I try to fight my demons and stay positive bro I’m ranting anyway good luck in yo path bro dark night gang for life
That's crazy how u guys been through so much yet still accomplished ur goals except ur two brothers which is surprising to me bc I felt like accomplishing goals ran through ur family bloodline. But i do have a question, do any of u in your family besides ur 2 brothers still talk about the past to each other or do u guys just ignore it? And also which sibling are u closest with?
They loved each other deeply, they just couldn't get along. Lots of relationship's are like that.
Unfortunately.
I jad just saw a fb post by someone I knew who had a kid & her sons father basically demanded him & now he is probably going to jail & scarred him...smh.....this is a important topic bc its helps in the end to move on the positive way.....
Ur parents sounds dope n ure mom story is like mines my dad upidoop having fun round town
Your dad sound like mine 😭 when he said you weak stiff arm him 😂 my dad ong
you need to do some jesse lee peterson reactions
“ I’m high as fuck off the molly right now “ omfg 😂
I relate to your story to a degree your inspiration men I just started standing up for myself only thing I got to say seems your justify your dad saying he’s a good person ect gotta be honest men people like him are evil and your dad didn’t help you learn how to be a man you did that yourself just my look on it what he did is cause you to grow up in anxiety and fear
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Brandon u should react to freestyle god koh freestyles on adin ross stream i think u would like it bru
dang it’s late lol
i fully get u now, i just hope if i get fucked over in the future i have ur maturity to not hold grudges
Im glad i started watching you brandon i love your videos 🖤
I did not expect Brandon to be on prescriptions. Damn bro.
I’m not on prescriptions lol
@@xNEPTUNE Didn’t you say that you were using molly?
@LC Well I’m sorry Doctor LC.
BRANDON: *THAT BOY PHIL MAKES $500 A MONTH
ME: DAMN BRANDON! WHY YOU SHADING ME?! YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW ME!
The demon inside me wont let me forgive nobody so forgiving my parents is out the window
You don't have to forgive anybody
@@GenesisDoesGacha ik, i felt like stating my opinion
@@phillymademir794 That is totally fine. I agree with your opinion too. I just wasn't sure if you knew that or not
Das coo but why not forgive em , just forgive em and never talk to them again , ion know how y’all can dislike ppl like celebrities n shii that u don’t even know and ain’t did nun tah u individually but when it comes to family or friends y’all HATE EM , I dislike my families ways but I don’t hate them , it don’t matter what they did. If u don’t like them , don’t speak to em simple at the end , you they child , n if you’re an adult , you’re living your own life now 💯 don’t focus on the past, that makes u less accomplished
@@trapvibereactions615 There are parents who try to kill their own children. And even if it isn't the case with this person, you have no idea what happened nor how it affected them. Stop invalidating them they don't owe their parents forgiveness at all
can you show us your football highlights
I always thought your house was a apartment
naa man. 4 bedroom 3 bathroom house
Be careful with those drugs bro
Yeah I know lol
@@xNEPTUNE u laugh that shit off not knowing it can be ur downfall. u think u know until that shits gets you ur not above it
I could kinda relate to ur story, just a little bit
My use to be stepdad use to say u don’t know sh...
And my mom started saying it
I’m was verbal abuse and alcohol involved almost all very weekend, so he use to go to clubs, the rest of us will be at home sleep, when he cane home I use to be scared cause he would start arguments, and they will fuss and fight til sunrise, it should be pictures thrown on the floor.
Sometimes we didn’t even go to school, cause we wouldn’t get enough sleep.
I us to cry at school, after the night before they use to tell me I don’t know nothing. One day I went to a counselor and wrote a note to my mom, and told her how I felt, and started crying, it was 4 pages long. But I threw it away, I was fearful of her reaction
One time my use to be stepdad broke the door down, cause when he will go outside, she will lock the door, or when he will go in the bathroom, we will sneak in the car and go to family house , at that time school was my escape place I’m a pretty happy person, but at that time I wasn’t happy at all.
I use to put on a mask. Same with my mom, when she lost her job, he got frustrated cause he had to pay the bills, one time he told my mom don’t ask me for sh.
I was supposed to be sleep, I started crying for her
He use to lie on me, I would tell him stuff, he use to add words that I didn’t even say, and my mom thought something was wrong with me mentally.
My mom use to be suicidal, when they were on alcohol they will start fussing, and he will say something very hurtful to my mom, like that’s why u couldn’t get a w close relationship with ur mom, now she’s dead or that’s why ur kids don’t know shi
And she will be driving and start speeding up and say imma run us in the river, and I used to be so scared, I’m the oldest, my little sister was like 5 or 6, and she didn’t know what was going on. And sometimes he will say that’s y ur kids don’t know shi, mom use to pull me or my sisters hair, and say stop embarrassing me, he think y’all don’t know nothing, and she use to cry.
But they’re divorced, and we’re happy now, and at peace, but I still kinda think about it, and start crying, cause those were the worst years of my life, I was suicidal also, and I use to visit my dad, they household was so peaceful, he’s married, it was my safe place 2, but I don’t too much visit my dad like that.
My mom was in that toxic relationship for like 6 in a half years. He turned the gas off on us, the water off, cause my mom kicked him out for good.
It was off and on, and I was confused, I was pike I thought y’all was done, I got so disappointed when I seen his face. He use to call my mom out her name, she was a wonderful wife, they marriage didn’t even last a year. And I’m also fearful for the future cause I don’t want me and my sister to have a relationship like that, I always have my guard up
And my mom use to tell me to call the police when they use to fuss and the next day, I use to ask her, we’re u serious?
And she use to say, it’s all good, and act like nothing happed.
We couldn’t even smile anymore, everyone around us was happy, with their families.
But now thank God we got a peace and happiness and I don’t ever want to go through that again
I been through a lot, I’m 16 now, so that was a lot a teenager could handle, had to grow up fast, learned a lot of lessons.
Brandon if u don't mind me asking r u Hispanic? Because ur mom do give me Latina vibes or is she a light skinned black woman?