Summary: 00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair 01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care 02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection 04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair 05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all 05:57 Ignoring dental care 07:32 Wearing too much fragrance
@@467076If you do those basic things (along with not using drugs and drinking minimally) you don’t have to rely on some of the smoke & mirrors techniques that she’s suggesting.
I’d like to add regular exercise. I’m 50 and had been not so active for a while but in the past year I’ve been cycling or running daily. I’ve also decided that alcohol has no benefit to my health or finances and rid myself of that habit. Funny how I get people noticing that I look better now. I also feel better. One more addition is to have a life. So many guys around my age go to work and when they get home they crack open a brewski and hang out in front of the television or scroll endlessly. Not much engagement in the outside world or with personal interests. That in and of itself is a real game changer.
None of that is related to grooming. It's just a healthy lifestyle that everybody should practice, not just to not make them look older but for their own sake.
Started Tooth Whitening Thursday by following your advice. The dentist gave me a kit to use for two weeks. Already seeing results. Thank you for the great advice you give to men!
I'll add more. Alcohol! Yep, that alcohol will make you look decades older than your actual age. I don't drink; I'm allergic to alcohol, and it tastes gross! And the Dad Bod. Sorry, the Dad Bod is not a trend or a style choice; it's just being lazy and not caring about your health. If you look like you need to start wearing a training bra and your butt looks like it could win a twerk contest, then it's time to work it work it-work off, that is.
Hands are so important! But also the other way around: I used to work in retail, so hands are something i saw a lot on top of the counter and it's such an easy way to making someone smile to compliment them whey you see they took care of their nails. Great conversation starter as well, women love to talk about the color of their nailpolish :)
This! I suffered from balding from 18-25. It created endless anxiety and sadness. And then one day I finally shaved it and immediately was released from all of this. Balding is significantly worse than being bald!
Good job, Courtney ❤! I'm thankful to have hair still on my head and I have been embracing the salt and pepper 🧂 🌶 look and I will be 38 years old next month
2:20 is a really good advice. After Corona and in some areas of work where you use a lot of soap and hand sanitizer, having some kind of remedy for that, your future self will thank you. Not only by looks, but most importantly, less discomfort
Courtney! I don't have time at this moment to watch your video- I will later- but I saw the headline and had to laugh. I don't need grooming to look older! :) And hey- I thought for men looking older was an advantage! :)
Important Things: 0:35 First Thing ÷ Overgrown Or Unkempt Facial Hair; 1:04 Second Thing ÷ Ignoring Hand And Nail Care; 2:20 Third Thing ÷ Not Moisturizing Or Using Sun Protection; 4:23 Fourth Thing ÷ Neglecting Your Eyebrows, Nose, And Ear Hair; 5:19 Fifth Thing ÷ Using The Wrong Hair Products Or None At All; 5:56 Sixth Thing ÷ Ignoring Dental Care; 7:30 Seventh Thing ÷ Wearing Too Much Fragrance; and 8:35 To summarize all the told here. Additional things would of been these: Eighth Thing ÷ Not Doing Exercises On Daily Bases; Ninth Thing ÷ Not Eating Properly (eating too much unhealthy food to be precise); Tenth Thing ÷ Don't Knowing To Say Word NO To Things That Are Bad For Us. What you have told there Courtney about men, that can also apply to women as well (and also additional things that I have mentioned). As for me you can make the videos of anti-aging and longevity, and also about wellness. From all the told we can summarize to just one thing. And that is not taking care of yourself (either physically, or mentally), generally (since all these thing do come to one thing: Not doing a self-care). In Balkan peninsula we say one thing that goes like this: "Cleanliness is half of health."
What's funny is that men in their 20s usually want to look older, whereas men who are 40+ do everything to try to look younger. This is especially true when it comes to facial hair. Younger guys will grow out their beard while older guys usually prefer the clean shaven look. This "grass is greener" mentality is such an interesting thing to observe.
1. Lip balms are actually drying to your lips if they're petroleum based. Dry lips means you're dehydrated, just get a high quality water bottle & keep water with you at all times, make it a habit to drink regularly. If you really need a boost just rub a dab of coconut oil on, let it sit for 20s then wipe off the excess. 2. Sunscreens have a lot of poorly studied chemicals in them with extremely long names & not much track record of human use. Most likely a lot of them have subtle side effects, much like the endocrine disrupting chemicals that used to be in them. I wouldn't go slathering on the sunscreen everyday. Just wear clothing that protects from the sun when it's sunny & save the sunscreen for areas you can't adequately protect with typical clothing styles or a hat. Backs of hands/arms, back of neck, nose/lower face, etc. Same is true of many lotions, be careful what you're spreading over the largest organ on your body, your skin. Most of this stuff is of questionable value compared to just staying hydrated & protecting from the sun with clothing. 3. A thicker/larger, but well shaped beard actually makes you look better as you age. Over 50 it does a lot to hide many signs of aging. This is one of the main advantages older man have vs older women when it comes to looking good. I say let some grey go into your beard over 50, but if it goes all grey, consider partially dying it & leaving some grey as an accent. 4. Avoid spraying "fragrance" directly on your skin. Put it on your clothing instead. Reduces skin absorption considerably. 5. Sleep. High quality sleep is actually the #1 factor for the scientifically measurable aging markers. 6. Diet. A lot people get bloated & stretched out from poor diet as they age. Keep your diet under control, keep the inflammatory foods down & lean toward anti-inflammatory foods more as you age like fish & vegetables. Cut down on carbs & saturated fats. This makes a huge difference in your appearance, esp when you cut back on carbs & excess salt, you will stop retaining loads of water & stop looking puffy. 7. Exercise/posture. How you sit, stand, & move communicates far more about your age than anything else (and controls how old you feel more than anything else). Doing posture training & exercising through a full range of motion will make you feel & act much younger than your age. This is one of the most neglected factors for people as they age. Even if they get exercise, they tend to settle into doing certain exercises certain ways through a limited range of motion instead of reducing volume/weight & using the full range of motion. This is really the most important thing, if you feel & move like you're 30 when you're 50, people really notice, even if they don't call it out. 8. Quit smoking & minimize drinking. One beer here there won't hurt much, but I suggest not buying any cheap alcohol anymore. If you can get a case of cheap or a six pack of higher end bottles, get the higher end bottles & space them out. Same goes for wine & liquor. Get the good stuff & drink less of it. Preferably make it a rare treat or quit entirely.
We should all be doing this but drinking plenty of water (not coffee, not soda, not alcohol) is also an important practice for overall health but water also keeps our skin looking refreshed. Think about it; we use water to clean our skin when we shower so why would not continue to put water in our body to clean in internally as well?
Can you imagine how long my day would take if I incorporated everything Courtney recommends into my "daily routine"? My boss: "Why are you late AGAIN?!" Me: "Well, Courtney Ryan said..."
Hey Courtney! You mentioned about some fragrances that could damage your healt...do you have any recomedations on other fragrance that I can look for that wont damage my health? Thanks for beign the big sister that we all need. 🥰
So, I have a bald head, by choice. I'm looking to start growing my hair out for the winter. I do need to get my eyebrows done. I've been told that I could pass for 40, been told that I look like I'm 70 and been called 50. I'm currently 33. I do need to get back to the dentist. My biggest issues are my hands. Dry, sensitive skin runs in the family; my hands have gotten dried up to the point that they're cracked up and bleeding. I do put lotion on my hands before I go to bed. What I'm looking for is a moisturizer that I can put on my hands but also dries instantaneously, but no such luck yet.
Couple more tips i found helpful if your looking to feel more fresh and sharp: 1. Beard oil if you have facial hair and want to not look dull or unkempt 2. Facial toner. Really helps with balancing redness and blotchy skin. 3. single blade razors. Really avoids ingrown hair/razor burn on your skin and just makes for a sharper/cleaner shave.
I was always clean, even as a kid. My father took the time to show me how to clip my finger nails, my toe nails, brush my teeth 🪥 properly and to floss. I learned how to do it all over again, to include clipping my nose and ear hair at Officer Candidates School in the Marines. I have also been moisturizing, with facial lotion that has an SPF 25, for years now. Staying fit, being well read, and extremely confident, supremely humble, and staying on top of personal hygiene, has served me well. I’m am waving 👋 off the ladies left and right. Not bad for a 55 year old stud. Right? 😊
Hey Courtney I'm surprised you didn't mention not working out or being (very) overweight on this list. I know you're usually big on us working out (and yourself too).
Unfortunately using strong alcohol is considered by many men as masculine but over time it is the main reason that mens faces look older! Also being a little overweight, if it put more fat on your face, will make you look younger. Courtney? Would you recommend botox for men?
Something I noticed that has transformed my chances with women is just asking them multiple questions at a time. They will see that as effort and pursuing you. Also me getting rid of selfies and having my family or friends take pictures of me on dating apps works a lot better than weird selfie angles. Also let them know you are emotional mature to go get help in therapy and you don't get too down on yourself. Double, triple text if she enjoys you talking to her. I juts try to use a 3mm on my beard trimmer and shave the neck so I have no neck beard.
Never heard of fragrance making you old. Many young women and men wear fragrance more than older individuals! I get compliments all the time wearing fragrance 2-3 spays max.
Perhaps ask your hubby to take us through his routine? It feels like it’s complicated and time consuming each morning/night but it’s probably not. We’ve no excuse if we can see the process for ourselves!
Some of us have natural sunblock built in and I have oily skin. I was very lucky to never have needed braces for my teeth. So in North America, this list is useless. I do not care how white my teeth are, but I do care about their health.
Courtney, as a 70 year old man who has worked with high end digital color for 41 years, I have utilized everything on your list for decades. Bravo Courtney, you my dear are one Very Intelligent Woman. Take Care Courtney.
Female influencers: In order for us, women, to like you, men, you only have to: - be in a good shape (unlike for women, just eating properly is not enough for men - few to no women like skinny guys, so you should spend some time in a gym or do other comparable physical activities on a regular basis), - be well dressed (missing the tiniest details you may be not aware of may likely make you look like an idiot, so follow current trends), - keep kempt haircut, facial hair, body hair and nails, clean skin (you need to use a gazillion different tubes and bottles otherwise you're not doing enough), - use SPF and hand lotion every day (otherwise you'll look too old ergo unattractive for us even earlier), - use different toothpastes in the morning and in the evening, - floss after every meal, - be well-read and constantly widen your knowledge in various areas, - have some hobbies/passions, - have decent social circle you keep in touch with regularly (otherwise you may likely be considered as a weirdo who has no close friends), - have good sense of humor (this also requires some time and effort in order to be kept at a decent level), - don't neglect 8h of sleep to function and look properly and of course, by default - you can't be anything else than a financially stable (having a 9-to-5 job is the bare minimum) independent (little to no assistance from parents/relatives) guy who's solely responsible for arranging decent residential conditions for future family (if you think you deserve to create one). The universe: You have 24 hours a day to meet all the above requirements, good luck 🙃 P.S. No hate towards Courtney, her pieces of advice are usually indeed useful, but when you as a guy feel you are expected to be good at so many areas simultaneously, it's overwhelming
@@evanaltman9286 except that the author of this video is apparently happily married and overall promotes healthy relationship tips (throughout the years I tried watching content of different "experts" on dating and relationships of both genders from different countries, so I believe I can tell) But the amount of "you should do this" and "you should do that" seems really beyond human possibilities, and any of the spheres apparently is too important to be neglected 🤷♂️
The woman I was with in my last serious relationship always said she preferred me with a kind of scruffy 5 oclock shadow instead of clean shaven. She turned out to lie about a lot of things lol but usually people assume I'm in my late 20s instead of late 30s so I dont know if that is why.
I know the right side examples with grooming were supposed to be the favorable ones but they look domesticated to me. Left side looks better. Also everyone probably needs more sunlight exposure than they get, not less.
"Wearing too much fragrance". I was in line for lunch Friday, standing next to a woman I know, and said wow, that's great perfume you are wearing. She says, "I'm not wearing perfume". Dude behind her says, it's me. He was 5-6 ft. away. He hasn't seen this one. It was nice though..."Savage' ". Use half as much. I always have my hair stylist trim my Eyebrows when she cuts my hair. A few stragglers on my ears too. If you have showing nose hair or ear hair, it's fine. Just look for women with the same look. Same for dirty finger nails. Come on Guys, that's the easy stuff. Get it right, everyday, not just for a date. I fully agree, if you have facial hair, keep it well trimmed. Doesn't need to be short, but short is easier to keep well coifed.
Fellas....I use JERGENS Ultra Healing lotion. Doesn't smell like lavender or simply feminine at all. It's not greasy like some I've used before. I do HVAC so know this works well. FYI....NAIR should come with a Danger sign! On FIRE...OMG 👏😳🥵
True story: I've had a zip-up top for many years and have always wondered if it makes me look 'hip' or just older. Anyway, took my 6 year old grandson to the movies. He brought his top in case it was cold inside. He did put his top on and I commented it was good to see he wore it. His reply was: It's good to see you wore your grandad cardigan! 🤨 Now I know: not hip. Old. 😅
Ive worked for 20 years in construction, handling blocks daily, so I've always used a hand cream called Neutrogenia, it's recommended by Norwegian fishermen so I don't feel emasculated using it , ha ha
In my experience in life, the only time women allow you to talk to them is when you are spending money on them, so these little comments are my way of speaking my mind to a general audience. It's really kind of a catharsis of years of emotion. As a woman yourself, naturally you wouldn't understand.
I just got a basic package from Tiege Hanley. Hope it will iron out some lines on my face/forehead or at least not let new ones appear for the next 10 years. Btw, is the exfoliating scrub for the face or entire body?
I don't wear cologne, but I use deoderant. I found a brand that has no aluminum or parabens in it. It is Tom's of Maine, the same folks that make that great toothpaste.
Appreciate your content and you are a great presenter and this is an educational video. I think that beauty products are a very profitable industry and it would be very good for the brand you mentioned if men started having habits more like females when it comes to beauty product consumption. My grandfather didn’t use much moisturizer, he turned out alright 😊 good bar of soap and clean towel, shave and get haircuts and your golden boys
Awesome videos from Mrs Ryan on Men and Women in relationships and love the dress. Mature Men would just do what's best for them and others without fear of judgement. I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin but she's exactly right about Women and Men both in and out of relationships. Women do need to know what a Man wants in a relationship with her but also how to listen to a Man, communicate with each other in a healthy manner and engage in mutually beneficial sexual and romantic relations. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
Do not forget working out not smoking not enough sleep limiting alcohol taking care of feet. Callases are not sexy. Epson salts and a foot machine to soak in are great. Keeping normal doctor's appointments things can change in your 50's and they can help you Body hair, if you have it groom it. brush it out and sometimes use conditioner, it helps. Over 50 one problem, from my 20's my dentist said I was going to most likely need to replace my teeth due to it looked like i was following my mother's side of the family. So, at 46 I got new teeth, hurt like hell, but worth it now at 52. Both my parents had diabetes, but me nowhere in sight for that. Heart issues, well I am still well below normal.
@@SKRooU2I literally have to wear a glove and a sleeve when I go out during the day because I'm more susceptible to skin cancer now at least for 9 months anyway
Hey, great tips...quick question I am always in a dilemma regarding hair products, doctors are against using any hair products and the cosmetic shops are not helpful when it comes to side effects against such products....long story short how and which products can i trust against side effects or which might suit my skin type ?
@@texturebyte acne and pimples are mainly depending on your age. Teenagers and people in their 20's have the most problems with those. Let me tell you exactly the best advice. Use the Neutrogena Hydro Boost cleanser gel. You can get either the kind with a light papaya scent. read on the back for ingredients. Or if you have super sensitive skin you can buy the fragrance free kind. Take just a small pea size amount in your hand and lather up each side of your face, then wash it off then take the Neutrogena Hydro Boost whipped body balm or gel (you can buy it in a tube or pump) use a small amount and put it all over your face , forehead and neck. Use the cleanser only in the morning and the balm' or gel 2 or 3 times per day. .I'm 57 and women tell me I only look early 30's. So it works. !! Another thing to do is drink alot of fluids to stay hydrated to reduce wrinkles plus no smoking and alcohol as they dehydrate the skin.
@@CourtneyRyanwhy? Im ugly I know it. Women have always told me that. Only ever having one date in 50 years. I have been trying since I turned 40 to find a woman to just go out for dinner. No expectations just company for dinner. 10 years and I’m still going to my birthday dinner alone
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I don’t find it mandatory to be required to have a beard or mustache before you graduate high school while shaving every other day can be annoying
"Oh well, a touch of grey, kinda suits you anyway."
- Jerry Garcia, Touch of Grey
@@BH6242KCh that also signals that a younger adult man has stress....like me
I’ve recently discovered the dangers of fragrances, What’s the best natural non toxic fragrances for men?
Summary:
00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair
01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care
02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection
04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair
05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all
05:57 Ignoring dental care
07:32 Wearing too much fragrance
thanks
Also 3:18-4:23 Tiege Hanley Sponsor Ad
@@Abc999-s7f😂 Just take a shower and brush your teeth, bro. I am disappointed that it's one of those videos again...
Remember folks, none of this applies to men, only to Chads, good-looking to begin with.
@@abel4776 Stop being bitter. Out of 4 billion women on Earth, I'm sure 1 will find you attractive.
There's three more l would add to this.
1. Not getting enough sleep.
2. Not drinking enough water.
3. Smoking
Good tips but I don't know if sleeping, water and smoking are part of grooming standards lol although they do affect it.
Smoke cigars and be alpha males. 😂
@@467076If you do those basic things (along with not using drugs and drinking minimally) you don’t have to rely on some of the smoke & mirrors techniques that she’s suggesting.
@@467076 True. Exercising gives me insomnia, but I'm in shape.
@@ApparitionOO smoke cigars and drink whiskey.
I’d like to add regular exercise. I’m 50 and had been not so active for a while but in the past year I’ve been cycling or running daily. I’ve also decided that alcohol has no benefit to my health or finances and rid myself of that habit. Funny how I get people noticing that I look better now. I also feel better. One more addition is to have a life. So many guys around my age go to work and when they get home they crack open a brewski and hang out in front of the television or scroll endlessly. Not much engagement in the outside world or with personal interests. That in and of itself is a real game changer.
Lift HEAVY weights, to avoid brittle bones.
None of that is related to grooming. It's just a healthy lifestyle that everybody should practice, not just to not make them look older but for their own sake.
Started Tooth Whitening Thursday by following your advice. The dentist gave me a kit to use for two weeks. Already seeing results. Thank you for the great advice you give to men!
Whitening paste is cheap, on Amazon.
@@DDD11239 I use whitening toothpaste as well.
Courtney, I just realized cottage cheese isn’t actually cheese. It just a Curd to me
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wait i didnt get it explain pls
I salute you. That was glorious.
Get out
@@trollflix a Curd is a cheese, & also sounds like the word Occurred. It’s a pun
I'll add more. Alcohol! Yep, that alcohol will make you look decades older than your actual age. I don't drink; I'm allergic to alcohol, and it tastes gross! And the Dad Bod. Sorry, the Dad Bod is not a trend or a style choice; it's just being lazy and not caring about your health. If you look like you need to start wearing a training bra and your butt looks like it could win a twerk contest, then it's time to work it work it-work off, that is.
To be honest all my alcoholic friends still look like teens 🤣
@@bobthegamer1880 I think you meant they STILL ACT like teens, not that they look like teens.
@@bobthegamer1880 Why are you friends with them? You should surround yourself with those who will greatly benefit your life.
Simp.😅
My younger brother has to have his beer. I drink occasionally. I look 10 years younger than him.
Courtney Ryan - my go-to fashion consultant; you never fail to give us guys great fashion advice!
🥰 you’re so kind!
You nailed it Courtney aging is terrible and good You are helping people to fight it.
My wife is ready to burn my cargo shorts in the backyard. She hates them so much!
same lol.
Cargo shorts are good. Just press them.
Stay strong brother.
Her opinion is factually correct.
EVERYTHING YOU said about dental hygiene.. yup.
my smile has shouldered the burden of my personality for FAR too long.
Yes.. would love to see more content about aging/longevity hacks please
Yes, please. A video about the anti-aging topic would be very interesting.
Hands are so important! But also the other way around: I used to work in retail, so hands are something i saw a lot on top of the counter and it's such an easy way to making someone smile to compliment them whey you see they took care of their nails. Great conversation starter as well, women love to talk about the color of their nailpolish :)
Praise to Courtney for always knowing how to throw a cute and classy outfit on and dispensing helpful advice without being negative/judgmental.
If you’re balding, shave your head. Experience speaking
This! I suffered from balding from 18-25. It created endless anxiety and sadness.
And then one day I finally shaved it and immediately was released from all of this.
Balding is significantly worse than being bald!
I keep it high and tight, but not going to shave it yet. I'd then appear sick.
@@dysfunctionalstevesame, been shaving my head since I was 25. Bald looks 100x better than balding.
@@evanjohnson8682 Gain weight.
True. I've been balding since I was 15. I look much better (and younger) with it shaved down. Plus it is easy to DIY and saves money.
I knew this was a tiege commercial from the title
Good job, Courtney ❤! I'm thankful to have hair still on my head and I have been embracing the salt and pepper 🧂 🌶 look and I will be 38 years old next month
Love it! Have a great Sunday, John! 🥰
@@CourtneyRyan Likewise to you, Courtney! Enjoy your Sunday! 😘
You are an angel, thanks for making these informational videos.
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio
Writings from Ancient Stoics have a greater effect.
2:20 is a really good advice. After Corona and in some areas of work where you use a lot of soap and hand sanitizer, having some kind of remedy for that, your future self will thank you. Not only by looks, but most importantly, less discomfort
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Loved the SpongeBob reference, I'll have to watch the "I NEED IT!!!" scene after this 😂
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Courtney your advice is very sound it's good to see someone giving it in such a productive and useful way 👍👍💯💯
Aww I’m so glad 🥰
Courtney! I don't have time at this moment to watch your video- I will later- but I saw the headline and had to laugh. I don't need grooming to look older! :) And hey- I thought for men looking older was an advantage! :)
Important Things: 0:35 First Thing ÷ Overgrown Or Unkempt Facial Hair; 1:04 Second Thing ÷ Ignoring Hand And Nail Care; 2:20 Third Thing ÷ Not Moisturizing Or Using Sun Protection; 4:23 Fourth Thing ÷ Neglecting Your Eyebrows, Nose, And Ear Hair; 5:19 Fifth Thing ÷ Using The Wrong Hair Products Or None At All; 5:56 Sixth Thing ÷ Ignoring Dental Care; 7:30 Seventh Thing ÷ Wearing Too Much Fragrance; and 8:35 To summarize all the told here.
Additional things would of been these: Eighth Thing ÷ Not Doing Exercises On Daily Bases; Ninth Thing ÷ Not Eating Properly (eating too much unhealthy food to be precise); Tenth Thing ÷ Don't Knowing To Say Word NO To Things That Are Bad For Us.
What you have told there Courtney about men, that can also apply to women as well (and also additional things that I have mentioned). As for me you can make the videos of anti-aging and longevity, and also about wellness.
From all the told we can summarize to just one thing. And that is not taking care of yourself (either physically, or mentally), generally (since all these thing do come to one thing: Not doing a self-care).
In Balkan peninsula we say one thing that goes like this: "Cleanliness is half of health."
My dentist said use ‘regular’ toothpaste. Do not use whitening if you care about your teeth.
It destroys teeth. Plus, guys? Making your teeth really white? Is gay😂
You mentioned driving gloves. Driving Gloves are a great and underappreciated accessory!
I agree!!!
What's funny is that men in their 20s usually want to look older, whereas men who are 40+ do everything to try to look younger. This is especially true when it comes to facial hair. Younger guys will grow out their beard while older guys usually prefer the clean shaven look. This "grass is greener" mentality is such an interesting thing to observe.
I just dye my beard. I look way younger when dyed.
I was blessed with good genetics but I also try and take care of myself as well.
Oh boy, I'm nervous about this one. I hope I don't check 7 out of the 7 boxes. Hesitantly pushing play now...
1. Lip balms are actually drying to your lips if they're petroleum based. Dry lips means you're dehydrated, just get a high quality water bottle & keep water with you at all times, make it a habit to drink regularly. If you really need a boost just rub a dab of coconut oil on, let it sit for 20s then wipe off the excess.
2. Sunscreens have a lot of poorly studied chemicals in them with extremely long names & not much track record of human use. Most likely a lot of them have subtle side effects, much like the endocrine disrupting chemicals that used to be in them. I wouldn't go slathering on the sunscreen everyday. Just wear clothing that protects from the sun when it's sunny & save the sunscreen for areas you can't adequately protect with typical clothing styles or a hat. Backs of hands/arms, back of neck, nose/lower face, etc. Same is true of many lotions, be careful what you're spreading over the largest organ on your body, your skin. Most of this stuff is of questionable value compared to just staying hydrated & protecting from the sun with clothing.
3. A thicker/larger, but well shaped beard actually makes you look better as you age. Over 50 it does a lot to hide many signs of aging. This is one of the main advantages older man have vs older women when it comes to looking good. I say let some grey go into your beard over 50, but if it goes all grey, consider partially dying it & leaving some grey as an accent.
4. Avoid spraying "fragrance" directly on your skin. Put it on your clothing instead. Reduces skin absorption considerably.
5. Sleep. High quality sleep is actually the #1 factor for the scientifically measurable aging markers.
6. Diet. A lot people get bloated & stretched out from poor diet as they age. Keep your diet under control, keep the inflammatory foods down & lean toward anti-inflammatory foods more as you age like fish & vegetables. Cut down on carbs & saturated fats. This makes a huge difference in your appearance, esp when you cut back on carbs & excess salt, you will stop retaining loads of water & stop looking puffy.
7. Exercise/posture. How you sit, stand, & move communicates far more about your age than anything else (and controls how old you feel more than anything else). Doing posture training & exercising through a full range of motion will make you feel & act much younger than your age. This is one of the most neglected factors for people as they age. Even if they get exercise, they tend to settle into doing certain exercises certain ways through a limited range of motion instead of reducing volume/weight & using the full range of motion. This is really the most important thing, if you feel & move like you're 30 when you're 50, people really notice, even if they don't call it out.
8. Quit smoking & minimize drinking. One beer here there won't hurt much, but I suggest not buying any cheap alcohol anymore. If you can get a case of cheap or a six pack of higher end bottles, get the higher end bottles & space them out. Same goes for wine & liquor. Get the good stuff & drink less of it. Preferably make it a rare treat or quit entirely.
Courtney , appreciate you holding us fellas down.
Hi Coach..perfectly balanced advice as always. You’re the best. ❤
We should all be doing this but drinking plenty of water (not coffee, not soda, not alcohol) is also an important practice for overall health but water also keeps our skin looking refreshed. Think about it; we use water to clean our skin when we shower so why would not continue to put water in our body to clean in internally as well?
Can you imagine how long my day would take if I incorporated everything Courtney recommends into my "daily routine"? My boss: "Why are you late AGAIN?!" Me: "Well, Courtney Ryan said..."
Wake up earlier?
Hey Courtney! You mentioned about some fragrances that could damage your healt...do you have any recomedations on other fragrance that I can look for that wont damage my health? Thanks for beign the big sister that we all need. 🥰
So, I have a bald head, by choice. I'm looking to start growing my hair out for the winter.
I do need to get my eyebrows done.
I've been told that I could pass for 40, been told that I look like I'm 70 and been called 50. I'm currently 33.
I do need to get back to the dentist.
My biggest issues are my hands. Dry, sensitive skin runs in the family; my hands have gotten dried up to the point that they're cracked up and bleeding. I do put lotion on my hands before I go to bed. What I'm looking for is a moisturizer that I can put on my hands but also dries instantaneously, but no such luck yet.
Couple more tips i found helpful if your looking to feel more fresh and sharp:
1. Beard oil if you have facial hair and want to not look dull or unkempt
2. Facial toner. Really helps with balancing redness and blotchy skin.
3. single blade razors. Really avoids ingrown hair/razor burn on your skin and just makes for a sharper/cleaner shave.
Why are men so weak or seem like homosexuals today😂 what you just wrote? Are you gay😂
I was always clean, even as a kid. My father took the time to show me how to clip my finger nails, my toe nails, brush my teeth 🪥 properly and to floss. I learned how to do it all over again, to include clipping my nose and ear hair at Officer Candidates School in the Marines. I have also been moisturizing, with facial lotion that has an SPF 25, for years now. Staying fit, being well read, and extremely confident, supremely humble, and staying on top of personal hygiene, has served me well.
I’m am waving 👋 off the ladies left and right. Not bad for a 55 year old stud. Right? 😊
Hey Courtney I'm surprised you didn't mention not working out or being (very) overweight on this list. I know you're usually big on us working out (and yourself too).
this format really suits me
I appreciate your content. Keep it up😊
I'm 38 and people think I'm mid 20s. I eat healthy, and train regularly. Keeping the facial hair low is also a prime factor.
Unfortunately using strong alcohol is considered by many men as masculine but over time it is the main reason that mens faces look older! Also being a little overweight, if it put more fat on your face, will make you look younger. Courtney? Would you recommend botox for men?
Something I noticed that has transformed my chances with women is just asking them multiple questions at a time. They will see that as effort and pursuing you. Also me getting rid of selfies and having my family or friends take pictures of me on dating apps works a lot better than weird selfie angles. Also let them know you are emotional mature to go get help in therapy and you don't get too down on yourself. Double, triple text if she enjoys you talking to her. I juts try to use a 3mm on my beard trimmer and shave the neck so I have no neck beard.
Courtney, what do you think of guys who don’t wear any fragrance at all?
Thank you for sharing!
Never heard of fragrance making you old. Many young women and men wear fragrance more than older individuals! I get compliments all the time wearing fragrance 2-3 spays max.
Good advice from miss Courtney.
I am also very into the longevity stuff, I have been following David Sinclair to stop my ageing. I am 31 years old by the way.
Perhaps ask your hubby to take us through his routine? It feels like it’s complicated and time consuming each morning/night but it’s probably not. We’ve no excuse if we can see the process for ourselves!
Some of us have natural sunblock built in and I have oily skin. I was very lucky to never have needed braces for my teeth. So in North America, this list is useless. I do not care how white my teeth are, but I do care about their health.
The problems remain the same to me regardless.
I’m NOT maintaining a beard or mustache for anyone and I don’t need to look like my dad or my brother
Courtney, as a 70 year old man who has worked with high end digital color for 41 years, I have utilized everything on your list for decades. Bravo Courtney, you my dear are one Very Intelligent Woman. Take Care Courtney.
Lol referencing Spongebob 😆 "I NEED IT!!"
Maybe you could do a video on clean colognes you like a recommend
Courtney back guys ❤️
Knew by the title of the video alone that the sponsor was going to be Tiege Hanley 😂
Thank u for this .
Female influencers: In order for us, women, to like you, men, you only have to:
- be in a good shape (unlike for women, just eating properly is not enough for men - few to no women like skinny guys, so you should spend some time in a gym or do other comparable physical activities on a regular basis),
- be well dressed (missing the tiniest details you may be not aware of may likely make you look like an idiot, so follow current trends),
- keep kempt haircut, facial hair, body hair and nails, clean skin (you need to use a gazillion different tubes and bottles otherwise you're not doing enough),
- use SPF and hand lotion every day (otherwise you'll look too old ergo unattractive for us even earlier),
- use different toothpastes in the morning and in the evening,
- floss after every meal,
- be well-read and constantly widen your knowledge in various areas,
- have some hobbies/passions,
- have decent social circle you keep in touch with regularly (otherwise you may likely be considered as a weirdo who has no close friends),
- have good sense of humor (this also requires some time and effort in order to be kept at a decent level),
- don't neglect 8h of sleep to function and look properly
and of course, by default
- you can't be anything else than a financially stable (having a 9-to-5 job is the bare minimum) independent (little to no assistance from parents/relatives) guy who's solely responsible for arranging decent residential conditions for future family (if you think you deserve to create one).
The universe: You have 24 hours a day to meet all the above requirements, good luck 🙃
P.S. No hate towards Courtney, her pieces of advice are usually indeed useful, but when you as a guy feel you are expected to be good at so many areas simultaneously, it's overwhelming
and the reward isn't even worth it
But you have to accept women as they are. Fake everything and an even worse attitude.
@@txdang2009 unfortunately, most of the time - yes
Don't take dating advice from single women/women who don't date
@@evanaltman9286 except that the author of this video is apparently happily married and overall promotes healthy relationship tips (throughout the years I tried watching content of different "experts" on dating and relationships of both genders from different countries, so I believe I can tell)
But the amount of "you should do this" and "you should do that" seems really beyond human possibilities, and any of the spheres apparently is too important to be neglected 🤷♂️
*It’s interesting how small grooming choices can have such a big impact on appearance.*
If your hair is thinning, just shave it off
Or speak to a dermatologist, get on topical DHT blockers, minoxidil or possibly even finasteride...
Shave it and find freedom
Good video,thank you
The woman I was with in my last serious relationship always said she preferred me with a kind of scruffy 5 oclock shadow instead of clean shaven. She turned out to lie about a lot of things lol but usually people assume I'm in my late 20s instead of late 30s so I dont know if that is why.
Love that sweater on you
Hey Courtney Would be great to see you do some reaction vids to Orion Taraban’s stuff…
I know the right side examples with grooming were supposed to be the favorable ones but they look domesticated to me. Left side looks better.
Also everyone probably needs more sunlight exposure than they get, not less.
I have scars on my face. My beard grows in patchy because of it. If I shave it highlights the scars.
"Wearing too much fragrance". I was in line for lunch Friday, standing next to a woman I know, and said wow, that's great perfume you are wearing. She says, "I'm not wearing perfume". Dude behind her says, it's me. He was 5-6 ft. away. He hasn't seen this one. It was nice though..."Savage' ". Use half as much.
I always have my hair stylist trim my Eyebrows when she cuts my hair. A few stragglers on my ears too.
If you have showing nose hair or ear hair, it's fine. Just look for women with the same look. Same for dirty finger nails. Come on Guys, that's the easy stuff. Get it right, everyday, not just for a date.
I fully agree, if you have facial hair, keep it well trimmed. Doesn't need to be short, but short is easier to keep well coifed.
Fellas....I use JERGENS Ultra Healing lotion. Doesn't smell like lavender or simply feminine at all. It's not greasy like some I've used before. I do HVAC so know this works well. FYI....NAIR should come with a Danger sign! On FIRE...OMG 👏😳🥵
True story: I've had a zip-up top for many years and have always wondered if it makes me look 'hip' or just older. Anyway, took my 6 year old grandson to the movies. He brought his top in case it was cold inside. He did put his top on and I commented it was good to see he wore it. His reply was: It's good to see you wore your grandad cardigan! 🤨 Now I know: not hip. Old. 😅
Love ur vids courtney ❤
She's not lying.
Don‘t sexualize me, you got to take me how i am!
I'm 38. The first time I've watched such a video. What's happening...
Ive worked for 20 years in construction, handling blocks daily, so I've always used a hand cream called Neutrogenia, it's recommended by Norwegian fishermen so I don't feel emasculated using it , ha ha
Mrs. Ryan should start referring herself as the Big Sis (Sister) of the internet haha.
i can't believe no one on youtube is talking about magnetic aura from Talesio
What fragrance brands are you avoiding now and which ones are you using after learning about phlathates?
I no longer care what women think.
20 comments on her videos kinda say otherwise. Why keep taking in her content if you hate women so much and don’t care what they think?
In my experience in life, the only time women allow you to talk to them is when you are spending money on them, so these little comments are my way of speaking my mind to a general audience. It's really kind of a catharsis of years of emotion. As a woman yourself, naturally you wouldn't understand.
I just got a basic package from Tiege Hanley. Hope it will iron out some lines on my face/forehead or at least not let new ones appear for the next 10 years. Btw, is the exfoliating scrub for the face or entire body?
I feel like "too much fragrance" today is basically any fragrance. I associate perfume/cologne with old people.
I don't wear cologne, but I use deoderant. I found a brand that has no aluminum or parabens in it. It is Tom's of Maine, the same folks that make that great toothpaste.
My immediate thought: All the scruffy-bearded me pulling gorgeous women.
Courtney, can I try Tiege without committing to a subscription???
Amazon.
My anti-aging plan will be to eventually order The Substance and create a better younger me 😁
you got a new sub!
Nutrition, Activity, Rest.
Are there any updates you would make to your fragrance recommendations?
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life. i recommend everyone reading this to read it
really liked this video
awesome video
Appreciate your content and you are a great presenter and this is an educational video. I think that beauty products are a very profitable industry and it would be very good for the brand you mentioned if men started having habits more like females when it comes to beauty product consumption. My grandfather didn’t use much moisturizer, he turned out alright 😊 good bar of soap and clean towel, shave and get haircuts and your golden boys
Aging isn't always a privilege. Witness those with Alzheimers or those who can't control their bowels.
Women don’t want to age- aging is a blessing. This video is idiotic
Awesome videos from Mrs Ryan on Men and Women in relationships and love the dress. Mature Men would just do what's best for them and others without fear of judgement. I'm a 24 year old Christian virgin but she's exactly right about Women and Men both in and out of relationships. Women do need to know what a Man wants in a relationship with her but also how to listen to a Man, communicate with each other in a healthy manner and engage in mutually beneficial sexual and romantic relations. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a
Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't.
I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict.
Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers.
Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years
ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word.
Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant
Good job, ma'am.
Do not forget working out
not smoking
not enough sleep
limiting alcohol
taking care of feet. Callases are not sexy. Epson salts and a foot machine to soak in are great.
Keeping normal doctor's appointments things can change in your 50's and they can help you
Body hair, if you have it groom it. brush it out and sometimes use conditioner, it helps.
Over 50 one problem, from my 20's my dentist said I was going to most likely need to replace my teeth due to it looked like i was following my mother's side of the family. So, at 46 I got new teeth, hurt like hell, but worth it now at 52. Both my parents had diabetes, but me nowhere in sight for that. Heart issues, well I am still well below normal.
4:36 balls?
Will I have second degree burn scars on my right hand so it's always going to look rough
wear a Michael Jackson glove
@@SKRooU2I literally have to wear a glove and a sleeve when I go out during the day because I'm more susceptible to skin cancer now at least for 9 months anyway
Hey, great tips...quick question I am always in a dilemma regarding hair products, doctors are against using any hair products and the cosmetic shops are not helpful when it comes to side effects against such products....long story short how and which products can i trust against side effects or which might suit my skin type ?
fragrance free Hydro Boost Neutrogena is top rated. the ones with Hyaluronic acid helps your skin retain water and moisture.
@@SKRooU2 ohk, thnx buddy should i worry about acne or pimples in general ?
@@texturebyte acne and pimples are mainly depending on your age. Teenagers and people in their 20's have the most problems with those. Let me tell you exactly the best advice. Use the Neutrogena Hydro Boost cleanser gel. You can get either the kind with a light papaya scent. read on the back for ingredients. Or if you have super sensitive skin you can buy the fragrance free kind. Take just a small pea size amount in your hand and lather up each side of your face, then wash it off then take the Neutrogena Hydro Boost whipped body balm or gel (you can buy it in a tube or pump) use a small amount and put it all over your face , forehead and neck. Use the cleanser only in the morning and the balm' or gel 2 or 3 times per day. .I'm 57 and women tell me I only look early 30's. So it works. !! Another thing to do is drink alot of fluids to stay hydrated to reduce wrinkles plus no smoking and alcohol as they dehydrate the skin.
From reacting to Alpha M to sponsoring his products
Ok I’m 50 I’ve had one date and that was 28 years ago. Im ugly and I know that. I’m not wealthy. I can’t even say hi without being called a creep.
Don’t talk about yourself like that 😢 hugs
@@CourtneyRyanwhy? Im ugly I know it. Women have always told me that. Only ever having one date in 50 years.
I have been trying since I turned 40 to find a woman to just go out for dinner. No expectations just company for dinner. 10 years and I’m still going to my birthday dinner alone
If you lost your V card (to a woman who actually enjoyed it, and for free), at least she found you attractive. Also, start lifting heavy weights.
See what you done ?@@CourtneyRyan