I searched for the book, and I can definitely say it’s worth getting. It’s already given me so many tips on talking to girls that you won’t find anywhere on UA-cam.
Summary: 00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair 01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care 02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection 04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair 05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all 05:57 Ignoring dental care 07:32 Wearing too much fragrance
I’d like to add regular exercise. I’m 50 and had been not so active for a while but in the past year I’ve been cycling or running daily. I’ve also decided that alcohol has no benefit to my health or finances and rid myself of that habit. Funny how I get people noticing that I look better now. I also feel better. One more addition is to have a life. So many guys around my age go to work and when they get home they crack open a brewski and hang out in front of the television or scroll endlessly. Not much engagement in the outside world or with personal interests. That in and of itself is a real game changer.
None of that is related to grooming. It's just a healthy lifestyle that everybody should practice, not just to not make them look older but for their own sake.
@@WhiteWolfeHU Nobody's fault but your own buddy. Even if you have a few friends who are home bodies, no gf/wife and no pets, that still doesn't mean you can't go out by yourself and do recreational activities.
@@467076If you do those basic things (along with not using drugs and drinking minimally) you don’t have to rely on some of the smoke & mirrors techniques that she’s suggesting.
Started Tooth Whitening Thursday by following your advice. The dentist gave me a kit to use for two weeks. Already seeing results. Thank you for the great advice you give to men!
I have been practicing dentistry for 30 years. I have never seen any whitening product permanently damage enamel. She mentioned this as a concern for whitening products. I disagree.
Good stuff....73...5' 8" 170 lbs...grooming is paramount....smell good , look good....wear the right clothes ....and smile alot...have a sense of humor even at your expence.....smile alot , even when you don't feel like it
It depends though. Sometimes smiling makes a man look like a simpleton or a weirdo. A lot of women prefer that serious, expressionless, Clint Eastwood face.
Smiling when you don't feel like it means you are faking emotions to please others. That's such an unhealthy way to live. You're much better off being authentic, and if you're not happy, trying to understand why and what you can do about it.
Great list Courtney! Additions to take to next level: botox for wrinkles, energy based devices (lasers like fraxel) for skin resurfacing, sculptra for facial volume loss. Nightly Retin-a for smooth complexion and keeping acne at bay. And if you're not doing regular heavy weight training and regular meditation, you're missing out on a lot of benefits from both.
Facial hair - I keep mine neat, closely cropped, on my own effort. When I go to the hair salon, my stylist always puts her touch on my beard, doing a little bit of extra trimming. Eyebrow, nose and ear hair is something that my stylist is picky about. She always gives attention to this. I do some on my own, but again she is really attentive to this. Nails - I have a reminder on my google calendar to trim my nails every Sunday evening. I had been dying my hair and beard, but after listening to a couple other UA-camrs on this, and talking to my stylist, I have let my hair and beard go gray. My beard is now completely gray. I do use an eye cream around my eyes for wrinkles, and an occasional use of moisturizing cream on my face and neck. For volume in my hair, I use a product called HIMS. It does give extra volume. Teeth - I brush at least twice a day, sometimes 3 times a day. My mouth feels better when I keep my teeth clean. I also use a waterpik. Fragrance - I found a cologne that I have had compliments on. Currently, I am wearing Mont Blanc Explorer. My hair stylist is always complimenting me on my cologne. She says, "You really smell good!".
My father in law is 75, doesn’t worry about any of this crap. Has women falling all over him. He says it’s because they know he’s harmless, and can’t chamber a round!!!😂😂😂😂
Diet is another one that can age you extremely quickly. Avoid processed foods, sugar, cut down on alcohol consumption, intermittent fast, and eat a lot of meat.
Use an electric toothbrush. They are timed for 2 minutes. Brush at least twice a day. Don't forget to brush your tongue, roof of your mouth, and your gums.
So, I have a bald head, by choice. I'm looking to start growing my hair out for the winter. I do need to get my eyebrows done. I've been told that I could pass for 40, been told that I look like I'm 70 and been called 50. I'm currently 33. I do need to get back to the dentist. My biggest issues are my hands. Dry, sensitive skin runs in the family; my hands have gotten dried up to the point that they're cracked up and bleeding. I do put lotion on my hands before I go to bed. What I'm looking for is a moisturizer that I can put on my hands but also dries instantaneously, but no such luck yet.
2:20 is a really good advice. After Corona and in some areas of work where you use a lot of soap and hand sanitizer, having some kind of remedy for that, your future self will thank you. Not only by looks, but most importantly, less discomfort
Hands are so important! But also the other way around: I used to work in retail, so hands are something i saw a lot on top of the counter and it's such an easy way to making someone smile to compliment them whey you see they took care of their nails. Great conversation starter as well, women love to talk about the color of their nailpolish :)
I'll add more. Alcohol! Yep, that alcohol will make you look decades older than your actual age. I don't drink; I'm allergic to alcohol, and it tastes gross! And the Dad Bod. Sorry, the Dad Bod is not a trend or a style choice; it's just being lazy and not caring about your health. If you look like you need to start wearing a training bra and your butt looks like it could win a twerk contest, then it's time to work it work it-work off, that is.
When I was a young man, I had an oldsters give a great piece of advice in the form of a trope. "A man's reputation should precede him into a room. Not his smell."
@@SKRooU2I literally have to wear a glove and a sleeve when I go out during the day because I'm more susceptible to skin cancer now at least for 9 months anyway
I think exercise is very important. I just turned 57 and I wasn't exercising regularly for a while. I started going to the gym 3-5 times per week earlier this year. Apart from improving my overall shape, I find that it has made my face look younger because it's now a bit thinner and toned, and I have more energy. However, I also recognize that, if taken to extremes, this can make a guy look much older. Some of these super athletic older guys do look ancient! But then it becomes a personal choice; cute-looking or ripped.
We should all be doing this but drinking plenty of water (not coffee, not soda, not alcohol) is also an important practice for overall health but water also keeps our skin looking refreshed. Think about it; we use water to clean our skin when we shower so why would not continue to put water in our body to clean in internally as well?
This is so cool….Im 72 and the funny thing is, I did all the things you suggested this morning before I saw this video. Unfortunately for me, I spent many hours in the sun playing sports in the 60’s and 70’s before sunscreen and my skin has suffered for it but I do go to the dermatologist regularly. Also, with the exception of a few crowns, I have all my teeth and go to the dentist twice a year. One of the best complements I have ever received was “ you smell good” and I wasn’t wearing any fragrance.😃Very nice video from a beautiful young lady! Thanks!
Unfortunately using strong alcohol is considered by many men as masculine but over time it is the main reason that mens faces look older! Also being a little overweight, if it put more fat on your face, will make you look younger. Courtney? Would you recommend botox for men?
Not true. As a dentist I've never seen problems associated with whitening. Whitening toothpaste is especially weak. Professional whitening done properly can have a remarkable effect on your appearance.
Best way to look after your skin (other than not frying it in the hot sun like a strip of bacon ) is to have regular long hot bathes with epsom salts. This will properly hydrate your skin in amazing ways helping you to look young and healthy. Remember get your head down in the water so to flood your ears with hot water. This solve any ear wax issues. Thanks
1. Lip balms are actually drying to your lips if they're petroleum based. Dry lips means you're dehydrated, just get a high quality water bottle & keep water with you at all times, make it a habit to drink regularly. If you really need a boost just rub a dab of coconut oil on, let it sit for 20s then wipe off the excess. 2. Sunscreens have a lot of poorly studied chemicals in them with extremely long names & not much track record of human use. Most likely a lot of them have subtle side effects, much like the endocrine disrupting chemicals that used to be in them. I wouldn't go slathering on the sunscreen everyday. Just wear clothing that protects from the sun when it's sunny & save the sunscreen for areas you can't adequately protect with typical clothing styles or a hat. Backs of hands/arms, back of neck, nose/lower face, etc. Same is true of many lotions, be careful what you're spreading over the largest organ on your body, your skin. Most of this stuff is of questionable value compared to just staying hydrated & protecting from the sun with clothing. 3. A thicker/larger, but well shaped beard actually makes you look better as you age. Over 50 it does a lot to hide many signs of aging. This is one of the main advantages older man have vs older women when it comes to looking good. I say let some grey go into your beard over 50, but if it goes all grey, consider partially dying it & leaving some grey as an accent. 4. Avoid spraying "fragrance" directly on your skin. Put it on your clothing instead. Reduces skin absorption considerably. 5. Sleep. High quality sleep is actually the #1 factor for the scientifically measurable aging markers. 6. Diet. A lot people get bloated & stretched out from poor diet as they age. Keep your diet under control, keep the inflammatory foods down & lean toward anti-inflammatory foods more as you age like fish & vegetables. Cut down on carbs & saturated fats. This makes a huge difference in your appearance, esp when you cut back on carbs & excess salt, you will stop retaining loads of water & stop looking puffy. 7. Exercise/posture. How you sit, stand, & move communicates far more about your age than anything else (and controls how old you feel more than anything else). Doing posture training & exercising through a full range of motion will make you feel & act much younger than your age. This is one of the most neglected factors for people as they age. Even if they get exercise, they tend to settle into doing certain exercises certain ways through a limited range of motion instead of reducing volume/weight & using the full range of motion. This is really the most important thing, if you feel & move like you're 30 when you're 50, people really notice, even if they don't call it out. 8. Quit smoking & minimize drinking. One beer here there won't hurt much, but I suggest not buying any cheap alcohol anymore. If you can get a case of cheap or a six pack of higher end bottles, get the higher end bottles & space them out. Same goes for wine & liquor. Get the good stuff & drink less of it. Preferably make it a rare treat or quit entirely.
Yeah sunscreen is out for me. Your skin needs the vitamin D, and you have a greater chance of skin cancer from all of the chemicals you're slathering all over your body. Just be smart about how long you are in direct sunlight.
Courtney, as a 70 year old man who has worked with high end digital color for 41 years, I have utilized everything on your list for decades. Bravo Courtney, you my dear are one Very Intelligent Woman. Take Care Courtney.
In my experience in life, the only time women allow you to talk to them is when you are spending money on them, so these little comments are my way of speaking my mind to a general audience. It's really kind of a catharsis of years of emotion. As a woman yourself, naturally you wouldn't understand.
I agree. And what's with all the ass kissing of her in these comments? Putting her on a pedestal as some angel. These guys probably ass kiss all women then wonder why they don't get dates! And if you disagree with her then you "hate women"?? Another turnoff to women. Agreeing with them all the time. Don't be such a wussy ❤
These are are valid points, but one thing is also true: regular exercise will do wonders to anyone’s skin and overall well-being. This will add youth to your life.
Get your teeth sorted if they’re not as good as they were. I had worn teeth due to years of grinding in my sleep. Some were chipped and didn’t look good. I had veneers fitted on my top front teeth. I didn’t go for the Turkey look, I was in my late 50’s and didn’t want to blind people so had them matched to my natural colour at my local dentist. Wasn’t cheap but the best money I’ve spent in a long time.
00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair and being too short. 01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care and being out of shape. 02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection and being broke. 04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair and still being broke. 05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all and not being ambitious. 05:57 Ignoring dental care and being goofy. 07:32 Wearing too much fragrance and socks.
All of these are things women notice about women. If they notice it about men, it will be ignored if he drives a Mercedes or other expensive car. If he wears an expensive suit. If he eats in nicer restaurants. Women care nothing for anything as long as the man is long in cash.
Courtney! I don't have time at this moment to watch your video- I will later- but I saw the headline and had to laugh. I don't need grooming to look older! :) And hey- I thought for men looking older was an advantage! :)
Hey, great tips...quick question I am always in a dilemma regarding hair products, doctors are against using any hair products and the cosmetic shops are not helpful when it comes to side effects against such products....long story short how and which products can i trust against side effects or which might suit my skin type ?
@@texturebyte acne and pimples are mainly depending on your age. Teenagers and people in their 20's have the most problems with those. Let me tell you exactly the best advice. Use the Neutrogena Hydro Boost cleanser gel. You can get either the kind with a light papaya scent. read on the back for ingredients. Or if you have super sensitive skin you can buy the fragrance free kind. Take just a small pea size amount in your hand and lather up each side of your face, then wash it off then take the Neutrogena Hydro Boost whipped body balm or gel (you can buy it in a tube or pump) use a small amount and put it all over your face , forehead and neck. Use the cleanser only in the morning and the balm' or gel 2 or 3 times per day. .I'm 57 and women tell me I only look early 30's. So it works. !! Another thing to do is drink alot of fluids to stay hydrated to reduce wrinkles plus no smoking and alcohol as they dehydrate the skin.
Good evening, Miss Courtney! I would love to see you go down the "Fitness and Health" path. So, one vote for "yes". And, to the mature gentlemen in the audience, if I may add a comment (or two). I am 57 and half way to 58. I started using a skin care program after I turned 50. I really wish that I would have started before that....but I did not. All I can say there is - if you have not already started thinking about this, please do. And, take action on these thoughts. I started with "Alpha" (aka, Tiege Hanley, aka Aaron). It was so simple and so easy. Practically idiot-proof. For full transparency, I no longer use that product, but that is because it really burned my eyes. That is very likely a "me-problem". The results - while I was using it - were nothing short of miraculous. So, if you are suffering from "analysis to paralysis" (due to the 1,000 of choices out there) then take advantage of the discount that this wonderful woman is making available. I say with confidence - and personal experience with this product - that you will not regret this decision. Look forward to your future videos, Miss Courtney. You are a treasure-trove of information. Keep on, keeping on!
I was always clean, even as a kid. My father took the time to show me how to clip my finger nails, my toe nails, brush my teeth 🪥 properly and to floss. I learned how to do it all over again, to include clipping my nose and ear hair at Officer Candidates School in the Marines. I have also been moisturizing, with facial lotion that has an SPF 25, for years now. Staying fit, being well read, and extremely confident, supremely humble, and staying on top of personal hygiene, has served me well. I’m am waving 👋 off the ladies left and right. Not bad for a 55 year old stud. Right? 😊
"Wearing too much fragrance". I was in line for lunch Friday, standing next to a woman I know, and said wow, that's great perfume you are wearing. She says, "I'm not wearing perfume". Dude behind her says, it's me. He was 5-6 ft. away. He hasn't seen this one. It was nice though..."Savage' ". Use half as much. I always have my hair stylist trim my Eyebrows when she cuts my hair. A few stragglers on my ears too. If you have showing nose hair or ear hair, it's fine. Just look for women with the same look. Same for dirty finger nails. Come on Guys, that's the easy stuff. Get it right, everyday, not just for a date. I fully agree, if you have facial hair, keep it well trimmed. Doesn't need to be short, but short is easier to keep well coifed.
Been happily married forever. I worked with my hands. My wife said strong beat up hands show you’re a man and she feel in love with me for that. So not all women want a man with manicured hands
I am glad I am growing old gracefully. I am 63 and believe me, growing old isn't for sissy. So to sum it up, I am who I am and yes, I try to take care of myself, but man, when you are getting older, you just accept the fact that it is what it is
@@dang75790 Drive an E-type Jaguar with a slick mahagony wheel, no power steering, and a non-synchro manual without gloves on and you'll see who is soft.
Speaking as someone who lost their hair in their late 20’s, if you’re going bald and not considering treatment, embrace it! You’re likely to look better with a shaved head than hanging on to the remains and hoping no one notices.
Something I noticed that has transformed my chances with women is just asking them multiple questions at a time. They will see that as effort and pursuing you. Also me getting rid of selfies and having my family or friends take pictures of me on dating apps works a lot better than weird selfie angles. Also let them know you are emotional mature to go get help in therapy and you don't get too down on yourself. Double, triple text if she enjoys you talking to her. I juts try to use a 3mm on my beard trimmer and shave the neck so I have no neck beard.
Never heard of fragrance making you old. Many young women and men wear fragrance more than older individuals! I get compliments all the time wearing fragrance 2-3 spays max.
This! I suffered from balding from 18-25. It created endless anxiety and sadness. And then one day I finally shaved it and immediately was released from all of this. Balding is significantly worse than being bald!
Hey Courtney I'm surprised you didn't mention not working out or being (very) overweight on this list. I know you're usually big on us working out (and yourself too).
If one uses their toothbrush to brush their tongue everyday, one will not have any color on their tongue except pink and a toothbrush works much better than a tongue scraper.
Here is a guy's perspective on what makes women unattractive: Fake eyelashes that look like spiders sitting on your eyelids, weird shaped eyebrows that don't look natural at all (when and why did that fad start?), makes you look like Groucho Marx, getting carried away with the mascara in the outer corner of your eyes trying to make your eyes look Asian (like goofball Taylor Swift always does), it just screams immaturity. Women whom look great with long hair and then decide to chop it off (why???), too much makeup in general. I hope this advice helps.
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I don’t find it mandatory to be required to have a beard or mustache before you graduate high school while shaving every other day can be annoying
"Oh well, a touch of grey, kinda suits you anyway."
- Jerry Garcia, Touch of Grey
@@BH6242KCh that also signals that a younger adult man has stress....like me
I’ve recently discovered the dangers of fragrances, What’s the best natural non toxic fragrances for men?
It’s insane that people aren’t talking more about books like Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish.
I searched for the book, and I can definitely say it’s worth getting. It’s already given me so many tips on talking to girls that you won’t find anywhere on UA-cam.
Summary:
00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair
01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care
02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection
04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair
05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all
05:57 Ignoring dental care
07:32 Wearing too much fragrance
thanks
Also 3:18-4:23 Tiege Hanley Sponsor Ad
@@vissuddhi54😂 Just take a shower and brush your teeth, bro. I am disappointed that it's one of those videos again...
Remember folks, none of this applies to men, only to Chads, good-looking to begin with.
@@abel4776 Stop being bitter. Out of 4 billion women on Earth, I'm sure 1 will find you attractive.
A fat wallet will negate all these sins
FACT
It's true!
Whoever said money can’t buy you love??
Had no $$$$…
Billetera mata galán....
Amen
I’d like to add regular exercise. I’m 50 and had been not so active for a while but in the past year I’ve been cycling or running daily. I’ve also decided that alcohol has no benefit to my health or finances and rid myself of that habit. Funny how I get people noticing that I look better now. I also feel better. One more addition is to have a life. So many guys around my age go to work and when they get home they crack open a brewski and hang out in front of the television or scroll endlessly. Not much engagement in the outside world or with personal interests. That in and of itself is a real game changer.
Lift HEAVY weights, to avoid brittle bones.
None of that is related to grooming. It's just a healthy lifestyle that everybody should practice, not just to not make them look older but for their own sake.
Not just 50s. Work then go home and do nothing… that’s my entire life lol.
@@WhiteWolfeHU
Nobody's fault but your own buddy. Even if you have a few friends who are home bodies, no gf/wife and no pets, that still doesn't mean you can't go out by yourself and do recreational activities.
@@WhiteWolfeHU Then stop moaning and do something about it.
The biggest mistake for an old man is trying to be someone they are not. A real man accepts who they are and moves on.
Praise to Courtney for always knowing how to throw a cute and classy outfit on and dispensing helpful advice without being negative/judgmental.
There's three more l would add to this.
1. Not getting enough sleep.
2. Not drinking enough water.
3. Smoking
Good tips but I don't know if sleeping, water and smoking are part of grooming standards lol although they do affect it.
Smoke cigars and be alpha males. 😂
@@467076If you do those basic things (along with not using drugs and drinking minimally) you don’t have to rely on some of the smoke & mirrors techniques that she’s suggesting.
@@467076 True. Exercising gives me insomnia, but I'm in shape.
@@Varonno smoke cigars and drink whiskey.
Started Tooth Whitening Thursday by following your advice. The dentist gave me a kit to use for two weeks. Already seeing results. Thank you for the great advice you give to men!
Whitening paste is cheap, on Amazon.
@@DDD11239 I use whitening toothpaste as well.
I have been practicing dentistry for 30 years. I have never seen any whitening product permanently damage enamel. She mentioned this as a concern for whitening products. I disagree.
Good stuff....73...5' 8" 170 lbs...grooming is paramount....smell good , look good....wear the right clothes ....and smile alot...have a sense of humor even at your expence.....smile alot , even when you don't feel like it
It depends though. Sometimes smiling makes a man look like a simpleton or a weirdo. A lot of women prefer that serious, expressionless, Clint Eastwood face.
Smiling when you don't feel like it means you are faking emotions to please others. That's such an unhealthy way to live. You're much better off being authentic, and if you're not happy, trying to understand why and what you can do about it.
Meanwhile you probably look like Quasimodo!!
@@MichaelRei99 That's so rude you know this person lives with their mom.
I’ve looked tired, old and worn out since I was 14.
Great list Courtney! Additions to take to next level: botox for wrinkles, energy based devices (lasers like fraxel) for skin resurfacing, sculptra for facial volume loss. Nightly Retin-a for smooth complexion and keeping acne at bay. And if you're not doing regular heavy weight training and regular meditation, you're missing out on a lot of benefits from both.
Listen up because Courtney Ryan speaks for ALL women!
1.Overgrown hair, un groom facial hair 2. Dirty nails, dry hands 3. Not moisturizing skin 4. Neglecting eyebrows, hair in ears, nose. 5.Using the wrong hair products 6. Ignoring dental care. 7. Wearing too much fragrance
Facial hair - I keep mine neat, closely cropped, on my own effort. When I go to the hair salon, my stylist always puts her touch on my beard, doing a little bit of extra trimming.
Eyebrow, nose and ear hair is something that my stylist is picky about. She always gives attention to this. I do some on my own, but again she is really attentive to this.
Nails - I have a reminder on my google calendar to trim my nails every Sunday evening.
I had been dying my hair and beard, but after listening to a couple other UA-camrs on this, and talking to my stylist, I have let my hair and beard go gray. My beard is now completely gray.
I do use an eye cream around my eyes for wrinkles, and an occasional use of moisturizing cream on my face and neck.
For volume in my hair, I use a product called HIMS. It does give extra volume.
Teeth - I brush at least twice a day, sometimes 3 times a day. My mouth feels better when I keep my teeth clean. I also use a waterpik.
Fragrance - I found a cologne that I have had compliments on. Currently, I am wearing Mont Blanc Explorer. My hair stylist is always complimenting me on my cologne. She says, "You really smell good!".
You are a man? You go to a hair salon?😂😂😂.
@dang75790 I am all man and secure in my own skin. A lot of men go to stylists. Women like a well-groomed man.
@@bryansipes3601I am secure in my own skin and certainly wouldn’t go to these lengths to impress others.
I follow this advice to a T and women fall all over me. It's annoying! BTW I'm 91.
My father in law is 75, doesn’t worry about any of this crap.
Has women falling all over him.
He says it’s because they know he’s harmless, and can’t chamber a round!!!😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
men don't listen to this. Be yourself and be happy.
she's not old enough to experience a real man. Sounds like she wants a boy who lives with his mom, or is a mommy and daddy trust fund baby.
Yes, please. A video about the anti-aging topic would be very interesting.
Diet is another one that can age you extremely quickly. Avoid processed foods, sugar, cut down on alcohol consumption, intermittent fast, and eat a lot of meat.
The Lion’s Diet!!!🤣💪💪🤙
My wife is ready to burn my cargo shorts in the backyard. She hates them so much!
same lol.
Cargo shorts are good. Just press them.
Stay strong brother.
Her opinion is factually correct.
I'm a divorce lawyer...... please get in contact.
You nailed it Courtney aging is terrible and good You are helping people to fight it.
Use an electric toothbrush. They are timed for 2 minutes. Brush at least twice a day. Don't forget to brush your tongue, roof of your mouth, and your gums.
So, I have a bald head, by choice. I'm looking to start growing my hair out for the winter.
I do need to get my eyebrows done.
I've been told that I could pass for 40, been told that I look like I'm 70 and been called 50. I'm currently 33.
I do need to get back to the dentist.
My biggest issues are my hands. Dry, sensitive skin runs in the family; my hands have gotten dried up to the point that they're cracked up and bleeding. I do put lotion on my hands before I go to bed. What I'm looking for is a moisturizer that I can put on my hands but also dries instantaneously, but no such luck yet.
Courtney Ryan - my go-to fashion consultant; you never fail to give us guys great fashion advice!
🥰 you’re so kind!
2:20 is a really good advice. After Corona and in some areas of work where you use a lot of soap and hand sanitizer, having some kind of remedy for that, your future self will thank you. Not only by looks, but most importantly, less discomfort
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Self-care is self-respect too. That’s got to be worth something.
The problems remain the same to me regardless.
I’m NOT maintaining a beard or mustache for anyone and I don’t need to look like my dad or my brother
I live in the UK - we look bland and older because of the lack of sun.
That’s one reason I left England.
Hands are so important! But also the other way around: I used to work in retail, so hands are something i saw a lot on top of the counter and it's such an easy way to making someone smile to compliment them whey you see they took care of their nails. Great conversation starter as well, women love to talk about the color of their nailpolish :)
I'll add more. Alcohol! Yep, that alcohol will make you look decades older than your actual age. I don't drink; I'm allergic to alcohol, and it tastes gross! And the Dad Bod. Sorry, the Dad Bod is not a trend or a style choice; it's just being lazy and not caring about your health. If you look like you need to start wearing a training bra and your butt looks like it could win a twerk contest, then it's time to work it work it-work off, that is.
To be honest all my alcoholic friends still look like teens 🤣
@@bobthegamer1880 I think you meant they STILL ACT like teens, not that they look like teens.
@@bobthegamer1880 Why are you friends with them? You should surround yourself with those who will greatly benefit your life.
Simp.😅
My younger brother has to have his beer. I drink occasionally. I look 10 years younger than him.
When I was a young man, I had an oldsters give a great piece of advice in the form of a trope. "A man's reputation should precede him into a room. Not his smell."
Will I have second degree burn scars on my right hand so it's always going to look rough
wear a Michael Jackson glove
@@SKRooU2I literally have to wear a glove and a sleeve when I go out during the day because I'm more susceptible to skin cancer now at least for 9 months anyway
I think exercise is very important. I just turned 57 and I wasn't exercising regularly for a while. I started going to the gym 3-5 times per week earlier this year. Apart from improving my overall shape, I find that it has made my face look younger because it's now a bit thinner and toned, and I have more energy. However, I also recognize that, if taken to extremes, this can make a guy look much older. Some of these super athletic older guys do look ancient! But then it becomes a personal choice; cute-looking or ripped.
We should all be doing this but drinking plenty of water (not coffee, not soda, not alcohol) is also an important practice for overall health but water also keeps our skin looking refreshed. Think about it; we use water to clean our skin when we shower so why would not continue to put water in our body to clean in internally as well?
Appreciate your tips
Maintaing my appearance makes me feel good
If a guy followed this advice, he could forget about a leading role in a Clint Eastwood cowboy movie
This is so cool….Im 72 and the funny thing is, I did all the things you suggested this morning before I saw this video. Unfortunately for me, I spent many hours in the sun playing sports in the 60’s and 70’s before sunscreen and my skin has suffered for it but I do go to the dermatologist regularly. Also, with the exception of a few crowns, I have all my teeth and go to the dentist twice a year. One of the best complements I have ever received was “ you smell good” and I wasn’t wearing any fragrance.😃Very nice video from a beautiful young lady! Thanks!
*It’s interesting how small grooming choices can have such a big impact on appearance.*
With chest hair shaving isn't a good idea, but you can take some of the bulk out with a clipper and guard so it doesn't look shaved.
I buzz my whole body. Pisses me off that so many men don’t have hair growing out all over their bodies. I’m strickened. 🙄
I find driving an older cheap model car is a grave mistake on a first date. If its a coffee date walk her to her car and park yours at back of lot.
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Unfortunately using strong alcohol is considered by many men as masculine but over time it is the main reason that mens faces look older! Also being a little overweight, if it put more fat on your face, will make you look younger. Courtney? Would you recommend botox for men?
EVERYTHING YOU said about dental hygiene.. yup.
my smile has shouldered the burden of my personality for FAR too long.
Yes.. would love to see more content about aging/longevity hacks please
My dentist said use ‘regular’ toothpaste. Do not use whitening if you care about your teeth.
It destroys teeth. Plus, guys? Making your teeth really white? Is gay😂
Not true. As a dentist I've never seen problems associated with whitening. Whitening toothpaste is especially weak. Professional whitening done properly can have a remarkable effect on your appearance.
@@FrankKuntz-ow1ll 😂 good luck
Subscribed and Thumbs up because Courtney has Epic taste ! Thank you CR !
Windshields lock UV rays. That is why most auto tinting glasses do not work on a vehicle
Best way to look after your skin (other than not frying it in the hot sun like a strip of bacon ) is to have regular long hot bathes with epsom salts. This will properly hydrate your skin in amazing ways helping you to look young and healthy. Remember get your head down in the water so to flood your ears with hot water. This solve any ear wax issues. Thanks
1. Lip balms are actually drying to your lips if they're petroleum based. Dry lips means you're dehydrated, just get a high quality water bottle & keep water with you at all times, make it a habit to drink regularly. If you really need a boost just rub a dab of coconut oil on, let it sit for 20s then wipe off the excess.
2. Sunscreens have a lot of poorly studied chemicals in them with extremely long names & not much track record of human use. Most likely a lot of them have subtle side effects, much like the endocrine disrupting chemicals that used to be in them. I wouldn't go slathering on the sunscreen everyday. Just wear clothing that protects from the sun when it's sunny & save the sunscreen for areas you can't adequately protect with typical clothing styles or a hat. Backs of hands/arms, back of neck, nose/lower face, etc. Same is true of many lotions, be careful what you're spreading over the largest organ on your body, your skin. Most of this stuff is of questionable value compared to just staying hydrated & protecting from the sun with clothing.
3. A thicker/larger, but well shaped beard actually makes you look better as you age. Over 50 it does a lot to hide many signs of aging. This is one of the main advantages older man have vs older women when it comes to looking good. I say let some grey go into your beard over 50, but if it goes all grey, consider partially dying it & leaving some grey as an accent.
4. Avoid spraying "fragrance" directly on your skin. Put it on your clothing instead. Reduces skin absorption considerably.
5. Sleep. High quality sleep is actually the #1 factor for the scientifically measurable aging markers.
6. Diet. A lot people get bloated & stretched out from poor diet as they age. Keep your diet under control, keep the inflammatory foods down & lean toward anti-inflammatory foods more as you age like fish & vegetables. Cut down on carbs & saturated fats. This makes a huge difference in your appearance, esp when you cut back on carbs & excess salt, you will stop retaining loads of water & stop looking puffy.
7. Exercise/posture. How you sit, stand, & move communicates far more about your age than anything else (and controls how old you feel more than anything else). Doing posture training & exercising through a full range of motion will make you feel & act much younger than your age. This is one of the most neglected factors for people as they age. Even if they get exercise, they tend to settle into doing certain exercises certain ways through a limited range of motion instead of reducing volume/weight & using the full range of motion. This is really the most important thing, if you feel & move like you're 30 when you're 50, people really notice, even if they don't call it out.
8. Quit smoking & minimize drinking. One beer here there won't hurt much, but I suggest not buying any cheap alcohol anymore. If you can get a case of cheap or a six pack of higher end bottles, get the higher end bottles & space them out. Same goes for wine & liquor. Get the good stuff & drink less of it. Preferably make it a rare treat or quit entirely.
Yeah sunscreen is out for me. Your skin needs the vitamin D, and you have a greater chance of skin cancer from all of the chemicals you're slathering all over your body. Just be smart about how long you are in direct sunlight.
Bravo, Courtney! I follow most of your points, but am inspired to follow them all. Very convincing, thorough presentation, easily understood.
Courtney, as a 70 year old man who has worked with high end digital color for 41 years, I have utilized everything on your list for decades. Bravo Courtney, you my dear are one Very Intelligent Woman. Take Care Courtney.
Pretty straightforward, basic self care. Good overview. I would love to hear your thoughts on welness & other topics.
I no longer care what women think.
20 comments on her videos kinda say otherwise. Why keep taking in her content if you hate women so much and don’t care what they think?
In my experience in life, the only time women allow you to talk to them is when you are spending money on them, so these little comments are my way of speaking my mind to a general audience. It's really kind of a catharsis of years of emotion. As a woman yourself, naturally you wouldn't understand.
I agree bro ! In these days
I agree. And what's with all the ass kissing of her in these comments? Putting her on a pedestal as some angel. These guys probably ass kiss all women then wonder why they don't get dates! And if you disagree with her then you "hate women"?? Another turnoff to women. Agreeing with them all the time. Don't be such a wussy ❤
Courtney, I just realized cottage cheese isn’t actually cheese. It just a Curd to me
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wait i didnt get it explain pls
I salute you. That was glorious.
Get out
@@trollflix a Curd is a cheese, & also sounds like the word Occurred. It’s a pun
These are are valid points, but one thing is also true: regular exercise will do wonders to anyone’s skin and overall well-being. This will add youth to your life.
Get your teeth sorted if they’re not as good as they were. I had worn teeth due to years of grinding in my sleep. Some were chipped and didn’t look good. I had veneers fitted on my top front teeth. I didn’t go for the Turkey look, I was in my late 50’s and didn’t want to blind people so had them matched to my natural colour at my local dentist. Wasn’t cheap but the best money I’ve spent in a long time.
I'd recommend against teeth whitening. One of the main reasons people notice dentures is because they look unnaturally white.
00:38 Overgrown or unkempt facial hair and being too short.
01:07 Ignoring nail and hand care and being out of shape.
02:21 Not moisturizing or using sun protection and being broke.
04:24 Neglecting eyebrows, nose and ear hair and still being broke.
05:20 Using the wrong hair products or non at all and not being ambitious.
05:57 Ignoring dental care and being goofy.
07:32 Wearing too much fragrance and socks.
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I'm 38 and people think I'm mid 20s. I eat healthy, and train regularly. Keeping the facial hair low is also a prime factor.
You sound like a homosexual 😂
@dang75790 So what if I am? You have a problem with that?
@@WeaponryFitness22 nope. 😂
@@WeaponryFitness22It’s disgusting.
All of these are things women notice about women. If they notice it about men, it will be ignored if he drives a Mercedes or other expensive car. If he wears an expensive suit. If he eats in nicer restaurants. Women care nothing for anything as long as the man is long in cash.
Courtney! I don't have time at this moment to watch your video- I will later- but I saw the headline and had to laugh. I don't need grooming to look older! :) And hey- I thought for men looking older was an advantage! :)
Really enjoyed that post. Would love to hear more about diet and wellness. 😊
Oh wow, that was a sneeky one however; Very Good !
Oh boy, I'm nervous about this one. I hope I don't check 7 out of the 7 boxes. Hesitantly pushing play now...
TY Courtney. There are 3 things I will be adding.
Hey, great tips...quick question I am always in a dilemma regarding hair products, doctors are against using any hair products and the cosmetic shops are not helpful when it comes to side effects against such products....long story short how and which products can i trust against side effects or which might suit my skin type ?
fragrance free Hydro Boost Neutrogena is top rated. the ones with Hyaluronic acid helps your skin retain water and moisture.
@@SKRooU2 ohk, thnx buddy should i worry about acne or pimples in general ?
@@texturebyte acne and pimples are mainly depending on your age. Teenagers and people in their 20's have the most problems with those. Let me tell you exactly the best advice. Use the Neutrogena Hydro Boost cleanser gel. You can get either the kind with a light papaya scent. read on the back for ingredients. Or if you have super sensitive skin you can buy the fragrance free kind. Take just a small pea size amount in your hand and lather up each side of your face, then wash it off then take the Neutrogena Hydro Boost whipped body balm or gel (you can buy it in a tube or pump) use a small amount and put it all over your face , forehead and neck. Use the cleanser only in the morning and the balm' or gel 2 or 3 times per day. .I'm 57 and women tell me I only look early 30's. So it works. !! Another thing to do is drink alot of fluids to stay hydrated to reduce wrinkles plus no smoking and alcohol as they dehydrate the skin.
As a guy who decided at about 45yrs that western woman were a waste of space, I enjoy making myself look good to me
Thank you for these valuable tips. From a man's perspective, if you could not tell us every thought or feeling you have in every moment.
You are an angel, thanks for making these informational videos.
Good evening, Miss Courtney! I would love to see you go down the "Fitness and Health" path. So, one vote for "yes".
And, to the mature gentlemen in the audience, if I may add a comment (or two). I am 57 and half way to 58. I started using a skin care program after I turned 50. I really wish that I would have started before that....but I did not. All I can say there is - if you have not already started thinking about this, please do. And, take action on these thoughts. I started with "Alpha" (aka, Tiege Hanley, aka Aaron). It was so simple and so easy. Practically idiot-proof. For full transparency, I no longer use that product, but that is because it really burned my eyes. That is very likely a "me-problem". The results - while I was using it - were nothing short of miraculous. So, if you are suffering from "analysis to paralysis" (due to the 1,000 of choices out there) then take advantage of the discount that this wonderful woman is making available. I say with confidence - and personal experience with this product - that you will not regret this decision.
Look forward to your future videos, Miss Courtney. You are a treasure-trove of information. Keep on, keeping on!
I was always clean, even as a kid. My father took the time to show me how to clip my finger nails, my toe nails, brush my teeth 🪥 properly and to floss. I learned how to do it all over again, to include clipping my nose and ear hair at Officer Candidates School in the Marines. I have also been moisturizing, with facial lotion that has an SPF 25, for years now. Staying fit, being well read, and extremely confident, supremely humble, and staying on top of personal hygiene, has served me well.
I’m am waving 👋 off the ladies left and right. Not bad for a 55 year old stud. Right? 😊
"Wearing too much fragrance". I was in line for lunch Friday, standing next to a woman I know, and said wow, that's great perfume you are wearing. She says, "I'm not wearing perfume". Dude behind her says, it's me. He was 5-6 ft. away. He hasn't seen this one. It was nice though..."Savage' ". Use half as much.
I always have my hair stylist trim my Eyebrows when she cuts my hair. A few stragglers on my ears too.
If you have showing nose hair or ear hair, it's fine. Just look for women with the same look. Same for dirty finger nails. Come on Guys, that's the easy stuff. Get it right, everyday, not just for a date.
I fully agree, if you have facial hair, keep it well trimmed. Doesn't need to be short, but short is easier to keep well coifed.
Been happily married forever. I worked with my hands. My wife said strong beat up hands show you’re a man and she feel in love with me for that. So not all women want a man with manicured hands
I am glad I am growing old gracefully. I am 63 and believe me, growing old isn't for sissy. So to sum it up, I am who I am and yes, I try to take care of myself, but man, when you are getting older, you just accept the fact that it is what it is
You mentioned driving gloves. Driving Gloves are a great and underappreciated accessory!
I agree!!!
Yikes. Men are so soft anymore. Just isn't funny anymore. Driving gloves? Really! 😂😂
@@dang75790 Drive an E-type Jaguar with a slick mahagony wheel, no power steering, and a non-synchro manual without gloves on and you'll see who is soft.
Loved the SpongeBob reference, I'll have to watch the "I NEED IT!!!" scene after this 😂
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Courtney , appreciate you holding us fellas down.
Speaking as someone who lost their hair in their late 20’s, if you’re going bald and not considering treatment, embrace it! You’re likely to look better with a shaved head than hanging on to the remains and hoping no one notices.
All 7 are Spot on Courtney! If done with passion like fine wine we get better with age :)
No comb over. Trim nose hair. Trim or wax ear hairs. Trim eyebrows. Whiten teeth. Use sunscreen. Those things don't cost a lot.
Great advice and brilliantly explained 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Something I noticed that has transformed my chances with women is just asking them multiple questions at a time. They will see that as effort and pursuing you. Also me getting rid of selfies and having my family or friends take pictures of me on dating apps works a lot better than weird selfie angles. Also let them know you are emotional mature to go get help in therapy and you don't get too down on yourself. Double, triple text if she enjoys you talking to her. I juts try to use a 3mm on my beard trimmer and shave the neck so I have no neck beard.
Omg hahah, so funny you're making a reference to the pinky episode
I appreciate your content. Keep it up😊
Never heard of fragrance making you old. Many young women and men wear fragrance more than older individuals! I get compliments all the time wearing fragrance 2-3 spays max.
I’m a roofer and have hands that just ladder all types of tights !!! Help !!!!!!
Hey, Courtney and everyone.
Has anyone noticed how as women become more masculine they want men to look more feminine?
If you’re balding, shave your head. Experience speaking
This! I suffered from balding from 18-25. It created endless anxiety and sadness.
And then one day I finally shaved it and immediately was released from all of this.
Balding is significantly worse than being bald!
I keep it high and tight, but not going to shave it yet. I'd then appear sick.
@@dysfunctionalstevesame, been shaving my head since I was 25. Bald looks 100x better than balding.
@@evanjohnson8682 Gain weight.
True. I've been balding since I was 15. I look much better (and younger) with it shaved down. Plus it is easy to DIY and saves money.
You are right on all the line!
without a filter? my girl is the best thing I ever saw...if she's good? im good
Thank you for your tips!
Good advice from miss Courtney.
Products aren't the answer....... It's a great diet, drinking lots of water (only), and more than enough sleep which are really the key factors.
Courtney your advice is very sound it's good to see someone giving it in such a productive and useful way 👍👍💯💯
Aww I’m so glad 🥰
Hey Courtney I'm surprised you didn't mention not working out or being (very) overweight on this list. I know you're usually big on us working out (and yourself too).
this format really suits me
If one uses their toothbrush to brush their tongue everyday, one will not have any color on their tongue except pink and a toothbrush works much better than a tongue scraper.
So should I get rid of my fanny packs and Velcro shoes?
Here is a guy's perspective on what makes women unattractive: Fake eyelashes that look like spiders sitting on your eyelids, weird shaped eyebrows that don't look natural at all (when and why did that fad start?), makes you look like Groucho Marx, getting carried away with the mascara in the outer corner of your eyes trying to make your eyes look Asian (like goofball Taylor Swift always does), it just screams immaturity. Women whom look great with long hair and then decide to chop it off (why???), too much makeup in general. I hope this advice helps.