Are Men More Shallow Than Women? | Asmongold Reacts
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The woman who said that she really liked the guy , but she wanted to "leave her options open " shows exactly how good one side has it VS the other regarding dating on average .
most men don't have options, lmao
That's just tinder brain talking
I choose not to date women cause it would take to much of my time. Ide rather play WoW or some other game on my free time rather then going on dates ect ect ect. Idk I never had the issue of not being able to get the women I like. Cause I don't have unreal standards that no women could meet.
@@Mikesusendsadasdc Is this just depressed millennial brain rot posting?
The primary issue, I think, is that, at least in the society of US/Canada, it's been established in the social consciousness that men generally have to be the ones to approach. Even if that's gradually changing, it's still very much the case for now, so men are always going to seem more invisible for that reason, on average. This in turn creates the expectation from women that they can just sit back and let things happen. A lot of men will also sit back and let things happen because I think, fundamentally, both men and women are generally pretty scared about making the first move. The difference is that a lot more women will still have something happen to them at the end of the day; again, we're talking about averages here. This also creates a desperation aspect for a lot of men that manifests in ways such as being much more likely to openly comment on a woman sexually than a woman would to a man. This is probably, at least in part, why women tend to get a lot more sexual attention on social media than men do. It's a very imbalanced situation that's been systemically created through our cultural evolution. I guess it wasn't as big of a deal when men were generally the only ones who could work and make money but, now that we've evolved in a legal sense, it's probably crucial that we also evolve in a social sense in this way. The problem is that legal changes are a lot quicker and easier to make than social ones. We're now seeing the fallout of the imbalance between the legal and social changes of gender dynamics in our society, with an ever-increasing digital world.
The only other crucial way to make this a lot better is to fix dating apps so that they're not a nearly monopolized money scheme with an algorithm that prioritizes the most popular profiles and leaves the rest in the dust. If online dating apps weren't artificially made to be highly imbalanced for men, we could probably circumvent the need for the aforementioned social change to some extent.
The girl who declined the guy she already had immediate commonalities with because she “wanted to keep her options open” is a perfect example of how dating apps and social media have contributed to the toxic decline of social interaction. 50 years ago the two of them would have likely hit it off but she’s been deluded into thinking there might just be someone out there who is a little more perfect than he was so why not keep rolling the dice to see if she hits the 0.00001% roll.
Yeah, reminds me of(I think it was an experiment) an experiment where scientists gave people 3 options for ice cream flavors, and gave another group, (or the same group later on) 50+ options. Most people who had 3 ice cream flavor options felt happier about their decision, as opposed to people who had 50 options. It’s like some form of FOMO(Fear Of Missing Out) or like you said, this idea that “what if these other options are better?” A sense of regretting their option. Social media and dating apps are the main reason dating is a joke today, there’s too many options for most women, and the most attractive men
@@SirAuron777 Barry Schwartz: The paradox of choice, it's an interesting read and there's a TED talk as well
I'd stay in the 0.01 % while laughing and gaming on how they are proving me Right 😂
Fucking this!!! Exactly this!!!
She's doing him a great favor, she doesn't seems like a stable partner
She's right about men pretty much building society to get some. My husband quit smoking back in the day before we were dating because he overheard me say I dislike smokers. And then when we started dating he got a much better paying job so he could take me out more. Now I'm no 9/10 but I make the man warm dinner and drive him to his Warhammer sessions. It's a good life.
Touch your tshirt and tell him Know what this is made of? Wife material. XD
Based
If it doesn't work out please give your husband my number
Real one. Hope yall stay together for a long as possible 💪
Congratulations.
Asmon not skipping paid promos and even reacting to them is so wholesome for some reason.
teaching people the habit of generating advertising revenue
One time (drunk) I asked my buddy, a big girl chaser, why he loves the big girls so much. He said "I don't love big girls.. the big girls love me. I love anyone that love me." Makes sense, he's a wise one.
big girls work harder for it and it can be refreshing.
I've got a friend who only likes big girls, and I mean BIG. Like 350lb+ Met his current girlfriend on a hookup site specifically for that demographic. Been together for 4 years.
I asked my mate the same thing but he said big girls need love too
All I'm saying, is a big girl never sent me home hungry. 😂😂😂
I don't mind some chubbiness, I actually prefer it but 250 lbs + is too much 😂
Cracks me tf up when these girls reject 4 guys in a row then the handsome guy they’ve been waiting on come along and rejects the shit out of them
they could literally have their "dream partner" who checks all the boxes infront of them and would hit the button because there could be a guy who also checks every box but wears a nicer shirt lmao
@@fuctshytup it’s even worse when they ask a very specific question then act like the answer is the other persons ENTIRE personality and all they have to offer. Maybe it’s just the editing or the competition side of this but they all seems sooo quick to judge
@@WDB662 Yeah, "never judge a book for its cover" as the saying goes.
@@WDB662i will be honest. As someone who has never had a problem getting dates even with the hottest girl in the room, and who is now married to a 10 who gets constantly told by all the other moms how hot I am?
It doesn't matter what the answer is. If you're a chad, the answer is really interesting and a good answer even when you say something utterly stupid.
Sometimes I wonder if I am as funny as people think, or if the women are just laughing at my jokes bc they think I am hot and the men dont want to look humorless when everyone else is laughing.
Literally how it happens in real life in a microcosm.
"It's not about the hair, it's about what the hair represents."
Phrased perfectly.
It's how you wear it, not what it is.
Kinda ought to have been a call back re guy rejected for wearing his long, and what *that* represents...
Nope. It can represents anything, it is purely subjective.
Wash it
Nah, 🥦 head is disturbing
"What do you do for fun?"
"I play video games."
"There's more to life than video games."
What.
Why are you saying what, while you are on UA-cam?
@@sidcomegys4154 If you actually missed the context behind this quote in the video, then fuck me, you're on you're own, I ain't touching that.
To be fair she is right, there's also repairing the console when it red rings
@@redacted8008 🙃
nothing beats a drink and gaming after work on a weekend winter night
"Can we hug?"
*Gives hug and whispers in ear*
"It's over for you"
"omae wa mou shindeiru"
@@-weaponized6493 NANI!!!
This needs more likes lol
Hahahaha
"Hail HYDRA!"
I miss when colored haired women were the hot emo chicks from the early 2000s
Agreed, tattoos too, only looks good on scenechicks.
What's wild is when i was a wee lad only guys would do the crazy dye and it would be like one dude and he was usually the wild card of the school or friends, My buddy it was always neon green. I still remember his name which I shall not post. We had these shoes that had grind plates on them n he would grind rails at school dude was a fantastic artist could paint,sculpt, draw I learned a lot from him. We all listened to DK, Rancid and other old punk bands. Now the green hair means the person is probably insane it doesn't mean dudes prob good at BMX or boarding. and that makes me sad.
The 2000s were the last era of humankind
See that was the problem. They were attractive and different, and then the rest of society noticed and copied it. Every popular trend just gets adapted by the wider public and turned to shit.
Same brother same...
She's rejecting him for having the same hobbies as her because they're too dorky. The cognitive dissonance is mind boggling.
she buttoned him because she wanted to see who else was there
Yea original comment has some cognitive dissonance going on himself lmao
So many women do this and it's fkin infuriating. Like here's a dude that u vibe with and clearly are compatible, and they be like "nah, I want a dude who I have nothing in common with"
It's just textbook hypergamy -- women insisting on only dating up. Which is also why dating is so messed up (women insist on only dating up, men don't want to date down).
@magistersolis.3750 strangely enough, not always true. My wife and I don't exactly share hardly any interests at all and been together almost 20 years. Now... the thing we do share interest in is the well-being of the other person. Which sounds super lame/cringe, but it truly is why we've stayed together and still love each other so much all these years later. We don't have any mutual hobbies, but we care for one another and just live each day trying to make each other happy. When we had kids, they were simply added into that equation.
Lol, we have so few mutual interests that my wife and I struggle to even find a show or movie that we'll both enjoy. But we both make a conscious effort to do things for the other person, simply because we care for them. That's something which I think is lost on most people and why relationships don't last as long anymore. Everyone gives up so quickly instead of actually making a commitment and putting in the hard work. It's a shame because of how much people end up missing out on.
"Settle down, Sage" is the insult I never realised I needed. I'm putting that in my "Break glass incase of emergency" insult box.
"Do you have a six-pack?"
"Absolutely."
"Can I feel it?"
"I'm afraid not."
"Why not?"
"It's at home in my refrigerator. _[presses button]_ "
LMAO
😐
haha I have a 12 pack lol
Genius
Henry Cavil is into Warhammer, the witcher, world of warcraft. It isnt about the games or the nerd shit. He is 6'2 built with shredded abs.
And a chiseled jawline and good eye area. Let’s not forget how important the face is, it’s the first thing someone looks at
Probably another thing what would happen is that said Girls try to change the dude and his hobbys
You forgot the T Rex arms.
This thread needs to chill. We get it yall got a man crush on Henry.
Pal you realize that shoe is being sarcastic right?
Overweight Girl: "I'm a teacher that likes cosplay"
Overweight Guy: "Omg I'm a teacher and love cosplay too 😊"
*girl hits button*
Girl: "I'm just tryna keep my options open"
??????????
They like saying "Stay in your lane"
But they don't like doing "Stay in your lane"
she wants to keep her options open to get a lot of cats in the future it seems.
And the funniest thing is that the guy looked better and seemed to have a better personality than the girl, yet the girl declines.
He was too similar. She sees other teachers all the time. She might not want to date one. I think that's what she meant but she's a girl, can't just be simple and direct.
I really dont know how shoe on head is like this much of a genius she is brilliant.
7:25 I mean, he probably got the 7.8% while standing next to the low-status car because by _having_ a car, you already are hitting a certain baseline. Put him at a bus stop, and see how many numbers he gets.
If it's a city it doesn't matter
This woman actually asked him what he likes, he answered video games, and she rejected him because "there's more to life than video games."
What. YOU ASKED WHAT HE LIKES TO DO, NOT WHAT HE LIVES FOR. HOLY HELL
Anything that might compete with her for his attention has to go.
Ehhh shell die alone most likely
Your first response should never be videogames. Do I play videogames? Of course. But I always lead with my other hobbies.
to be fair, tons of gamers can't control their habits. It's an obsession and a very un-healthy one because of the amount of time you are sitting. I really don't blame her. When video games is the first thing that comes out of someone's mouth, that shows that they prefer this solitude hobby. It would be the same if someone said they like to watch television. That usually means they probably spend a ton of time there. So yes, walk away.
@down-the-rabbit-hole it goes both ways. I work out 5 days a week, can run 5 miles in about 2 hours, and play in a band. That's the 1%, trust most ppl have abysmal hobbies and jobs. That one is beyond me. So she can be like that but society is headed exactly for that. Most ppl if they had to run 5 miles would only be able to do it on threat of death or great reward.
a lot of these rejectors are insecure, trying to reject early, before they can be rejected themselves.
Almost all of them.
This women at my college told me that she stopped being attracted to a dude because he went to the hospital multiple times. I asked her what sense does that make.
She said "I don't know... something must be wrong with him"
That is actually hilarious.
Theres a joke there.
@@solarydays The point is if you are "off" for a period of time she can leave easily for perceived weakness. Even if it's a temporary thing.
I am going to let you guys have fun with that shit.
@@solarydays Ah, so we are going with the "most people" have no empathy route.
Hah
HAHAHAHA
we deserve to fail as a species.
@@RandomAnnon it is a joke but I'm not laughing
@@solarydays well all of that selection has come to, the actual people with intelligence are making programs that will either replace all of are interactions or kill all of us....divine poetry on our species
As a dude who has had a WELL above average experience with women at a young age, I learned a lot and my mindset changed a lot as I got older. Once I hit my 30's any woman that I seriously invested my time into and pulled the whole, "grass is greener on the other side" strat and then came crawling back later, didn't even get a reply. Not worth the time or effort. I came to terms with the fact that I'd never be in a relationship again and I was fine with that. I was very happy staying single for the rest of my life. That changed when my best friend of 17 years confessed her love to me. Someone I fully trusted and respected on every level. I've never been happier. She has full knowledge of my past experiences. I've always been honest with her. Patience is a virtue boys. You will be rewarded most for your personal and interpersonal integrity.
24:46 flamingos are actually naturally white and get their pink color from the food they eat. Flamingos are pink cause they eat the shrimp. And the shrimp are pink from eating algae that contains carotenoid pigments. For anyone who didnt know 👍🏽👍🏽
I knew
G
So, do girls with pink hair also eat lot of shrimp? I don't care, as long as they eat my shrimp.
I am pink because i eat flamingos, who eat pink shrimp, who eat algae that has pink flecks or something.
Flamingo tasty
@@josephwilliams1915ApexChad
This "show" is bs since %90 of them will just immediately hit the the button because they think the other person will hit it first and they don't want to be the one to be rejected.
Yeah I don’t like that show at all is just “avoid getting embarrassed so press the button first” lol
I think that's the whole idea.
Yeah
But most of the time pressing the button is the more embarrassing action.
At one point I think they did an episode where pressing the button excuses yourself instead of the other person and it was much better.
Not as spicy or dramatic though.
A survey I heard about years ago struck me as fascinating.
Apparently both men and women were asked about qualities they looked for in a partner and a top answer among both genders was "A good sense of humour."
What's fascinating is that when they were asked to explain that a bit more, most men said "Someone who laughs at my jokes" and most women said "Someone who makes me laugh"
Can confirm, both people being able to see the humor in things can turn some of the worst situations into easy going lighthearted discussions. 😂
Nice
eh....they just feel like that is what they should say. In a survey, neither is likely to say money, big package, big butt or big breast. Even if it is a survey....sometimes people cant evne admit that stuff to themselves. They want to at least feel they are not that shallow.
@wesleyglenn5787 You're so cynical. Sad.
@@wesleyglenn5787 Oh, they definitely answered those things as well. This was just among the top answers. Maybe people feel like they should say it, but I also think it's very true.
When a woman asks what you do for fun it really means "what do you do that isnt fun in your spare time, no fun zone unless its things i like"
The problem with these games is that both parties are "scared to be rejected". Is almost a race to who hits the button first to avoid being rejected, "shallowness" is just an excuse.
That could be easily fixed by making the person who presses the button leave, and if 3 people press the button on someone in a row then that person leaves.
@kadenk9298 Yeah they should definitely consider implementing a rule like that
@@keeferChiefer Not bad.
It's kind of the prisoners dilemma
And also since it's a show people are also worried about having their choices judged by the viewers.
Man, when they know no one will ever know about, have waaaaaay lower standards hence an old saying "a hole is a hole" 😂
Woman: "Just because I'm plus sized (obese) it doesn't mean I have to settle for anything less than a 6ft 3 muscular gymrat with five BMWs and a mansion. I know my worth."
Also woman: "That guy rejected me just for being plus sized. How shallow REEEEEEE!!"
As funny and accurate as that is, I've never once seen a person like that IRL. It's only on media. I feel like these people do not actually exist or they do is such miniscule numbers that your chances of finding someone like that in public is slim to none.
double standards an infidelity, with women is predominant, as they have more options and they are more susceptible to foreign cultural influence, like the feminist revolution that ruined our entire society.
@@t-yoonit Well its simple people not like this wont be using shows and apps
@@t-yoonit the numbers disagree witcha
Your comment made me spit out my coffee. That's hilarious! 😂😂
Wasn't it Chappelle that said " Men only buy houses and cars because women want them - If a man could f a woman in a cardboard box, he wouldn't own anything. " ?
I'm not sure about that, I kind of like living in a house with roof and stuff, but maybe that's just me.
Yes, he did. Katt has some similar jokes as well.
@@wushibahe’s exaggerating obviously
@@paste5004 I'm oblivious to the obvious, but know the unknown.
Chris Rock
5:54 "thin" - Americans are you also equating "thin" with a natural healthy bodyweight? Thin in English means skinny, underweight. It doesn't mean in good wheels, it doesn't mean fit, healthy, strong or active looking. It means thin, close to malnourished, needs to eat better, etc.
He meant non obese. This shouldn't be too complicated.
The only women I like are so shallow they're 2D.
1D women are the way to go brother.
@@RDV333 Bro's dating lines.
@@A_Random_Ghost If a girl isn't a pixel I'm not dating 😂
I prefer 4D women
your damn right.
What most men ask for is for a woman who isn't fat. But that's apparently too much to ask for and makes you shallow for not wanting a woman who weighs more than you do.
Bro, be real. Most men want a stacked OF model, but they're more willing to settle than women are because men's options are more limited. That's the only difference.
with you on that one, even asmongold is under the delusion that we want super hot chicks, i just want a normal avarage not fat girl she can even be overweight a bit but not a dwarfplanet.
@christianalanwilson434 No, they fantasize about that at the very most. And those who do are typically younger males who are still teenaged or in their earlier 20s.
Men realize very quickly that they aren't going to get a "stacked OF model" or whatever they truly desire without money or being a 10/10 Calvin Klein underwear model, and so they grow out of that and as you say, settle for lesser. They're still going to have some standards regardless and won't *aim* to settle for somebody who is fat.
Most men don't want a woman who is overweight to obese. If they do, then they have a fetish, and it's that simple. And that's fine if you want to fetishize obesity, but it isn't a normal desire.
I don't really know what you're referencing by stacked, anyway. The most successful OF women are not fat women. That isn't to say that there isn't a single fat chick on OF who does make good money, but she does so only because she's satisfying a niche market of chubby chasers.
Most men are perfectly fine with a chick who is average so long as she isn't overweight. A woman between the weight of 120 to 140 pounds isn't going to become prettier at 180+, but a woman who is 180+ will get more attractive the closer she gets to 120 or so.
@@carbagehealth Yeah and they think that because there are 10 other guys willing to give her that. That's like complaining about LEGO being so elitist and expensive when people keep pumping money into it and don't give a damn about other's opinions. Men are to blame just as much, but both partners not being socially inept helps a lot.
Also who tf is forcing men to date fat people? Lmao. It's a person's right to be entitled on that opinion, so when a fat person gets rejected and they call it fat-shaming, but cares about their opinion? There's no "society telling you you have to be together with fat women". Wtf
If you yourself ain’t fat, it’s fair. But if you’re a fat yourself, it’s hypocrisy.
The girl that connected with the other teacher is that classic example of the women going from floor to floor for the perfect man and eventually ending up on an empty floor because they weren't satisfied with any of the options provided thinking that they could always get something better.
It's called hypergamy
@@2wheelpleb359exactly idk what he mad at women for… biology and evolution for 1000’s of years ?! Womp womp
You're right. What happens is in a dating app, the top 20% of blokes skim the cream of the crop, taking 80% of the women and occasionally "dumpster dive" in their words, so gross women end up thinking they can get hot guys involved in a relationship, instead of even thinking about someone at their level. Zach hits this on the head when that substitute teacher "kept her options open"
Yeah, it is evolution, except they're not making babies anymore, they're just rutting.
@guiseppeperceval4930 it's not 20%, it's 4.5% from the data of millions of people
That button game is explicitly created in a way that brings out the worst from these people. If pressing the button removed the one who pressed it, we'd see a lot more effort to connect with the other person.
"Theres a certain strand of autistic girl that will listen to you talk about your passion for hours" Shots fucking fired, my guy.
When I hear women reject a guy they supposedly like to "keep their options open" that just reads to me as: "I'm definitely going to cheat."
Or she has someone in mind already that she's working on... Am I misunderstanding your comment? If a guy is rejected by a female saying "No, sorry, I'd like to keep my options open", then that means there is a another guy who she's more interested in... And if she started dating you, that option would be closed off to her. Or it means she's just not interested in you. That's how it reads to me... Not that she's definitely going to cheat; she's probably not going to cheat if she finds a man who is satisfying to her.
@@quinndirks5653 reread my comment. I'm talking about women that reject men they say they will date, men that they themselves see nothing wrong with and you see in this video she says that she wanted to date the guy, but she would rather keep her options open. She even tried to date him later in the episode and got rejected, rightfully so. It's not just being picky, it's being shallow. Women like that would have no issue cheating, I'm speaking from experience here. Not saying all women, but I know the type for sure.
Yup
All of it is just a show, and obviously all know there is a camera recording all of it. She wasn't talking to him, but the whole male audience watching. Most of the people there only wanted 15 seconds of fame, which is why she tried to play hard to get in an attempt to get more interest after the show.
Just as a human I would never date anyone who willingly enter a show like this, because that by definition is desperate. It's almost like they've been asking random people on the street if they would accept 50$ to embarass themselves infront of a camera. It wouldn't take long before you had a show in this day and age, and it wouldn't surprise me if it even was true.
"You can't really just put men and women into boxes..." True. They tend to put up a fight as soon as you try, plus finding boxes that big and durable isn't easy..
And that's where hatchets become incredibly useful
Mr beast did it
@@labeskimo yeah, to a supposed friend. what a guy.
Women want men that are a little bit older than them because a woman's position is the foundation for what she finds attractive. You must be taller than her at least, make as much money as her at least, be educated as her at least. Men's standards have little to do with their own position.
I like that the chick who said “there’s more to life than video games”, also said her hobby was having a “large aquarium” lol
There's more to life than sitting in your house feeding your fish.
What the fuck you even do with an aquarium? I mean I get it can be relaxing looking at it but like ... how is that a hobby? Every once in a while I clean it and overall make sure what ever is inside doesn't die ...
@@plasant8408 alright gramps, lets get you back to bed
there is nothing wrong with being an average aquarium enjoyer
Sound cool tho
“Dating is about meeting multiple people” no it isn’t.
No. It. Is. Not.
"It's about exploring your options." How about exploring the option right in front of you for starters?
You could say it is about meeting multiple people in a sense that the more people you meet (generally, not in a romantic sense) the bigger the chance is to find someone you really click with. It's alot easier to talk to a stranger in a group than one on one.
@@DD_Vandal Interesting. I would’ve thought most people would find 1 on 1 conversations easier. I definitely do
Have another like
@@DD_Vandal I think this used to work before algorithms and dating apps were invented, but now I'm not so sure. Cultural trends and social-economic shifts has injected a tad bit paranoia into the conversation, along with 1,000s of years of systematic and opportunistic abuse on all levels of society. It feels like society is trying to solve a Rubik cube where all of the colors are the same, but you just feel like you missed something.
Imagine being able to make money as a "professional cuddler."
Women truly live life on Recruit difficulty.
There is a job that is literally cat cuddler at rescue centres. Dream job 😂 seen guys doing it too.
honestly wonder if the "emoji translator" actually was a real job. if so, one guy lucked out and got an EZ mode job
I don’t think she’s making any money for “cuddling” unless she’s getting paid for “other services”
@@dreamerlotus Rethinking my career in IT rn lmao
yeah nothing like cuddling with a loser
This is basically a reject the other person BEFORE you get rejected kind of things
I've been obese, overweight, average, fit and now I'm almost shredded. 6' 1". Women never looked at me the way they do now. It's night and day. Never let a woman tell you that men are the shallow ones, especially the women that are adamant about a dude's height.
We're proud of you, King
@@antiasset Don't get me wrong. I fully understand it. A woman is gonna like a dude with muscles and low bf the same way we like a beautiful woman with a fit body, large breasts and butt. It is the hypocrisy that gets me. Just admit you are not above physical attraction.
Guarantee, you'd have a tougher time at any fitness level if you were only a few inches shorter.
@@JohnSmith-b6nAbsolutely
@antiasset "I'm in a different culture and things are different"
Yes
Edit: dude removed his reply saying he's 5'9" and Australian and things are different there.
The issue is with all these "relationship game show" things you have a massive confirmation bias of like 70% of the guys being normal-ass dudes while 70% of the women are quite narcissistic. Most normal-ass women would not opt to be on a show like this.
I actually almost auditioned for the show but the producers never showed up for our casting interview so I never went back, in hindsight I definitely would have regretted it if I made it on though😅
I mean, reality checks out. Maybe not 70%, but 40% is very realistic...
They aren't narcissists. Stop using buzzwords. They're self-centered and think that they're 10s, that's not narcissistic it's just crazy, just because they they show one or two of those traits does not make them actually narcissists, And I think that it's ridiculous that people are using that word so much
Definition of narcissist:
Psychology
selfishness, involving a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and a need for admiration, as characterizing a personality type.
Psychoanalysis
self-centeredness arising from failure to distinguish the self from external objects, either in very young babies or as a feature of mental disorder.
@@JustAmenty They are narcissists. The definition of the word literally describes what personality 3rd-4th wave feminists have. Old wave feminists even say how these women are down right awful.
Selection bias, not confirmation bias
They aren't hitting the button for the reason they are saying. They are hitting the button because they don't want the button hit on them...all about insecurity.
It's a dopamine button, self validating their "worth". Like rats hitting the morphine button in one of those tests.
Yeah it's actually a shit show to use because people make things up on the spot and don't actually give any real data
Literally demonstrated 2 minutes into this video.
The second his eye contact drops from her to the button, she stops what she's saying in order to hit the button first.
Requirements for women to be attractive and wanted: Not obese.
Requirements for men to be attractive and wanted: Comment character limit exceeded.
Bro for the win here.
Well done.
You're not wrong.
You can be attractiva and wanted if they dont even know what they want, cant predict someone that dont think.
for men: maxed all stats lmfao
Man this Is false
its like those medieval scenes "quick clown make us laugh" "the poor guy does something forcibly to make the king laugh" "it was not funny , off with his head"
THATS how these women see themselves. and personally i will NEVER allow someone like that the ego boost.
The word you're looking for is Jester
100 right by the way
@@brettmmontague ty
Oh, you're funny? Name 10 jokes.
I'm not funny in a "tell me a knock knock joke" way. I can just make light of situations to relieve stress for myself and people around me. And having seen some pretty traumatic shit in my life, I've kinda front loaded that skill with an insane amount of experience.
@@col2650 Recite the 1000 most funny jokes in human history.
The girl who said she wants a guy taller than 5'7" and then immediately buzzed the guy who was 5'9"... that was a clever trick. Pretend that the bar is set low, to get the guy to be honest about his height. Then since he isn't above 6', reject him
Why don't they think about shoulder width , height isn't even that important in terms of alpha traits, imagine a skinny tall guy or a stocky shorter guy
@@SeanLives I mean, I get what you're saying, but you just unironically said "alpha"...
Honestly i think it was the bad mustache more than height
@theperfectbeing she literally referenced it again though. "It's more about the leg to body proportion" or something like that. She never saw him standing, and rejected him because of that
Just say 6ft only. 😂
1:07:29 "You know what animals are pink? Poisonous frog." I'm dieing 😂
Women who want men "who know what they want" usually don't know what they want themselves and need a man to tell them what they want. Speaking from my experience
Women want to be submissive to a cause, if the man shows purpose & vision they agree with.
I'm going to try that the next time someone wants to be my friend. "Nice to meet you. From now on, you're going to love helping me take over this town with the sheer power of ice cream!"
That quickly discover that what they want isn't them.
Yeah, opposites attract. You want someone to compliment your shortcomings and visa versa.
@@solarydaysI forget which study, but it mentioned that the highest rated sexual fantasy for men AND women was having the female being dominant.
I think most men find confidence/decisiveness in women attractive so long as it doesn't detract from their masculinity. Like, I can't think of a guy who wouldn't want a significant other who doesn't take 50min to decide their outfit or can quickly decide what they want to do for dinner
4:49 I like the way he put that. Women get more opportunities to be shallow and not be demonized publicly over it.
yup and the moment a woman gets criticized you have society rushing in to defend them. A man gets judged, ok. A woman gets judged, "actually men can just be as bad". They are constantly handled with kid gloves. How care they grow?
that teacher cosplayer girl threw away the one, and doesn't even realize it.
Classic example of those creatures not knowing what they actually want
Dont worry, her cats will be endless
Yep, she was not getting better than that.
Timestamp?
When they say “men are shallow” the translation is “men have always been and will always be slightly more visual”
"There's more to life than video games"
And there is more to life than Bridgerton and TikTok. jfc
There is more to life than Cosmo and brand handbags
And yet they’re on Instagram uploading 20 stories a day filled with useless word vomit and mirror selfies
@@carbagehealthBruh, why are you being so close minded? How else are they supposed to learn about the joys of polyamory and cheating without their favorite shows?? 😂
@@carbagehealth Most them only half watch the show and doomscroll while texting their friends about some kind of drama.
THANK YOU!!
"His handshake wasn't firm" Girl he did that to avoid breaking your little hands, I soften it for women every time.
You don't have to soften your handshake? You can just avoid squeezing harder than necessary. Like a robotic hand could do.
@@Gillsing You know firm handshake is not the same for everyone right ? I never squeeze hands...
I was thinking the same thing
Don't soften it for women.
Lmao I don't
Proof that IRL is pay to win
You'd think history would be a clear indicator of this
Are you surprised in some way about that?🤨
I purchased the "large" one handed hammer.
It definitely attracted my wife.
More like pay to live, winning is bonus level.
Bruh
31:24 Your generation is what my generation would classify as gay.
We're all assholes. I don't know why people always try to make a competition of it.
I'm not
So we can justify our actions by claiming others are worse.
It's not a competition, just a game of current standards. Back in the day men had more leveradge on average while dating, so they were "shallow".
Now women have more advantages, but somehow they are "not shallow" when they have the same behaviours.
Because men bad or women bad (the answer depends on which one you are)
Didnt see "all"@@simonsei1262
About Astrology, i think it's hilarious, because when people ask I'll tell them I'm whatever sign I feel like saying at the time. When they eventually question me about it, I'll fold and tell them I'm actually a scorpio or gemini and admit to thinking signs are a bit ridiculous. Obviously that makes more sense because telling small lies or being secretive are certainly gemini/scorpio traits. That just makes it funnier to me because I'm actually a Leo.
So convoluted... I love it xD
@bossked1563 I'm glad someone finally responded to this so I can finish my joke. I'm actually a Taurus, lol.
@@pattycake520 rofl
@@pattycake520such a taurus thing to do
im stealing this tactic for sure
The craziest one, "I rejected him because all he complemented me on was my physical appearance." They haven't even talked at all, Literally wanting the Impossible.
13:13 "why would you contact them after?"
Thinking that a breakup means that you automatically never talk again is toxic. Like Asmon, I've only had one bad breakup. The rest still contact me if they want and I do the same. Actually, the bad breakup was because one of my exes (who is married and doesn't live anywhere near me) contacted me to catch up on what was going on in our lives. We were friends before dating, didn't mesh up as well as we thought, and split. They're still a friend. Some of y'all need to learn how to handle rejection better.
I heard of a study that says only 25% of men prefer big boobs. 50% prefer medium boobs while the last 25% prefer small boobs.
100% *BOOBIGE*
Yeah there is a difference between attractive and just fat
Bell curve 😂
@@cmbaz1140😂😂😂😂
Ever heard about normal distribution?
the cosplay girl who rejected the comicon dude left me truly baffled.
Typical "He's actually ticking almost all my boxes but maybe someone even better comes along" attitude. It's an inability to commit, to settle for something or someone. Plenty of women spend their entire 20s and early 30s doing this (because they can, most have PLENTY of options), then cry about how nobody wants them any more once they start losing attractiveness. They could've had any of those men, likely for a long time or even their entire lives, but they instead chose to play stupid games.
And as wel all know .... play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@@rogthepirate4593 typical mindset: "im hot because I get attention, I will always be hot I wont hit the wall, nope not me"... "wait, why are people not offering me drinks anymore?!"
@@rogthepirate4593 Plenty of men do this as well, pass over women they have a genuine connection with in search of someone they deem hot enough
@@KingJerbearit’s a 1 to 10 ratio in how common though, might as well not even bring it up. We know men can do it too but woman do it all the time
@@KingJerbeardude you mean the guys in the top5% in attractiveness have options you me and all the other not
Astrology is racism/sexism with extra steps. Replacing their sign with their race/gender and suddenly they start sounding like their grandfather 😂
It reminds me of the office bit where they wear labels on their heads without knowing what the label says. I'm Stanley and mine just says "black"
plus astrology back in the day was very respected they used it for many things and also for travel at sea now its about your personality traits the disrespect to teh ancestors is crazy
IT IS NOT RACIST! RACISM IS WHEN YOU SHOW BIAS OR DISCRIMINATION OR HATE TOWARDS A ETHNIC OR CULTURE GROUP! STOP TRYING TO CHANGE THE DEFINITION OF A WORD!
@@The..Truth-Hurts shuuushhh
@@The..Truth-Hurts thats cool..
But did u know that Darth Vaders helmet got inspiration from traditional samurai helmets
A big factor from their superficial "judgement" centers around the flaw of the show. Whoever hits the button first gets to stay on the show and gets more screen time. It would make much more sense, and Charlie has made this point clear too, if the person who hits the button is the one who leaves. If they want to stay on camera, that's more incentive to actually get to know the other person and look past their own pettiness and make up some reason, that they might not even believe at that moment, just to stay in the seat.
The modern dating sphere is honestly the greatest enigma of our time. It has never been easier to find companionship because of the internet, social media, and dating apps. But, at the same time, it has never been more impossible to find companionship because those same things created bizarre social metas that hyperinfluence people into having unrealistic desires and expectations.
Its mostly has to do with the cost of living crisis. to get a house you need like 1 mill which at a 100k a year salary is gonna take you 10 years with a mortgage.
@@Jcdlf7 and that's if you make 100k a year after taxes lol
@Jcdlf7 You don't need a million dollars to buy a house. I just bought one. As a single, 30 year old with no kids, I find it pretty manageable to live well on a six figure income. But that's just my situation.
@@LPDarkSoulsHD you must not live in Canada lol. Happy for you though, I like seeing my fellow millenials find success in this crap situation.
No, it's because we allowed ♀the same deal as ♂
Civilization's constant peak mistake.
this show is just about crazy people power tripping on rejecting everyone they see in half a second
Alot of women don't want/like men with gaming as a hobby because the games are competition in matters of attention.
Kind of right? I'd say it's because they make an equivalent between playing video games and negligence.
Stacys see anything besides them that a man wants to spend time (and money) on as a red flag. So unless they share or respect your hobbies, stay the f away.
All women need attention and yeah games take away from they. But that’s a good thing because I would rather play game then look at women FACTS
Maybe if they are online multi-player. I play single player all the time and I have the power of the pause button if my GF needs something
@@LordFlames as if women are happy with you just loking at them, nope, they demand attention by doing what they want, either by going to shop, to buy things and food for them, and guess what, they expect you to pay for everything too.
The only thing I can take away from the button game, if anything, is that people are so insecure that they try to reject each other before they get rejected. It's a game with pre-selected people, in an environment where the first rejected basically get's hurt the least, and none of it is in a natural dating environment.
By illustration only, the fact that saying a fat women is fat is now regarded as toxic behaviour ... explains a large portion of this problem between the sexes.
Funny how no one has ever championed fat men as being beautiful.
Reminds me of that article that had a title something like "plus size women refuse to date fat men"
There ain't no plus size men, and there ain't no fat women I guess.
@@christianalanwilson434 true actually, even if he had muscles as well, doubt he would ever been seen as pretty
It's not just that. It's calling out women for their flaws at all, is not socially acceptable.
When a woman does it they call it standards. When men do it it’s called shallow. A woman will tell a man to lower their standards, they’ll never tell another woman the same thing
I'd go a step farther and say they hype their friends up to unrealistic levels about their looks and values. Ever listen to a group of women discuss how a woman should go about dealing with a hot guy who's clearly not interested in them long term, it's absolute insanity.
55:27 “I don’t play second chances.”
Straight up, don’t let yourself be someone else’s back up plan
51:50 - Wow Asmon really understands the whole game, what a chad
all the girls allready ''chose'' to skip the guy before handshaking, by just looking at them. but to avoid looking shallow, they had to stick around long enough to nitpick ANY potential ''flaw'' as the main reason.
Best part about the furry was that he laughed when the buzzer was hit. That's someone that's down to earth and he's just having a good time.
Bro was there just to be on the show
😂 I feel like I’d do the same, just to see what’d happen
The girls rejecting guys because of one piece of clothing thing is so common, I've seen it happen in real time it's fkn insane
I think it’s an insecurity thing to show off to other girls. “I can reject someone based of their watch cause so many men want me”
They are just generating a random excuse when they say stuff like this
Dude, you're being played the fool.
It has nothing to do with "one piece of clothing".
That is a perfect example of "She is just not that into you." and she is looking for any excuse to tap out.
It’s not the clothing, it’s their looks or height
It's like the android/iPhone thing but less stupid at least
I know she's joking but taking the "ideal women ideas" as men's preference in dating while in dating she has to be a girl and alive(optional) 1:05
99% of rejections are based on looks. i think people on those shows especially delude themselves into thinking theres more reasons
It’s actually tied to a lot of evolutionary phycology. I only think it’s shallow if it’s about fashion.
Main difference is men are shamed for being shallow while women are celebrated for it.
Luckily... as a man, you can ignore that 🤣
Incorrect but you can think that if it makes you feel better.
@@VindensSaganah it’s very true. Grow up
@@VindensSaga you are the one that believes what you believe to feel better, not the the guy stating uncomfortable truths
@@VindensSaga Incorrect but you can think that if it makes you feel better
I had a similar moment when I was at a gathering, a woman asked me what do I enjoy doing in my spare time and I told her that I like to chillax and play games or watch anime, don't think the anime part registered to her because the games part bothered her and told me that I should stop wasting my time and do other things, there is more to life than video games.
I asked her out of interest, "So what do you do in your free time?" and she told me that she enjoys going to parties, going out in the countryside and wine tasting. I just told her that there is more to life than alcohol and getting black out wasted at parties, you are just leaving yourself vulnerable and you won't remember what happened the next day.
People have different enjoyments, people should stop belittling others enjoyment just to make themselves feel better about themselves.
Exactlybar hopping is not a hobby.
@@abbynormalz I feel like the women around my age think they are all wine connoisseurs. I dunno why but wine tasting has gotten popular for some reason, majority of them have wine tasting in their bio.
Wine tasting is actually fun. Have a go, you might meet some interesting people, see some wonderful sights, appreciate the dedication and expertise in making a fine drop.
There really aren’t enough perfect 10s for either gender, and I don’t get why someone who's a 5 thinks they deserve a guy who's over six feet tall, makes six figures, has more than six inches, and is handsome and kind. Like, with billions of women out there, why would those guys settle for you? It’s wild how out of touch some people’s expectations are. At least men can fantasize about it, knowing it’s nearly impossible, but most women in the west actually think they're special enough to make it happen for some reason.
Well, obviously. It's literally impossible to be a 10. And the answer to your other question is an inflated ego perpetrated usually by suiters, the difference being that women from the "west"(specifically the US) have started to actually believe what they're being told, forgetting their part of the societal agreement between men and women.
In other words: men have the responsibility of courting, while women have the responsibility of not letting it go to their heads.
shoe calling me a slut for painting my warhammer minis made me feel things ive never felt before
Bro same
It’s called human nature. We strive to be better than ourselves in our subconscious, but we forget over time, we are animals as well.
Asmongold does a lot of "not all" in this video. Yes, studies like the one Shoe referred to assume you know that the results are not for ALL men or ALL women.
Man goes out clubbing thinking I hope I score tonight, women go out clubbing thinking do I want to score tonight. Initially the power is with the ladies.
Imagine if a guy was like "I can see the beauty in you, but for the next year, you'll have to come with me to the gym whenever I go and make you into that person."
7% is a crazy percentage, that means you ask around 14 women for their number randomly and at least 1 gives it to you regardless if you look like your are rich or not. Most men are at around 1% or less, with the freaking expensive car ! That's crazy !
I'd immediately take the 7%
yea, id like to know how the dude looke
id like to know how the women looks
@@mech0pBro had to be incredibly attractive to hit that number, 7% is insane even for rich and attractive men
It's always a numbers game bro. And rich guy was 27%
Another slam dunk brother I’ll keep coming back for that 5star opinion and delivery of yours
Women judge women far harsher than men judge woman.
Nah, it’s about equal from my experience.
@@LittleSparklingStars I disagree, women just don't verbalize how hard they're judging other women because it makes them look bad.
@@lightworker2956 True, if you are close to some women, the amount of toxic waste they talk about other women is absurd, tbh women judge other women, even a lot harsher than they judge men
This just literally depends on the people. You can't make blanket statements like that.
@@LittleSparklingStars then you have little experience.
Just say that.
They always wanna weigh their options, but never weigh themselves
The dude who measured that ogres girth by hugging her is my personal hero
I feel like most of these fell into two categories
- Less attractive person rejects more attractive person first, out of fear of rejection
-More attractive person rejects less attractive person
“He plays concord” is a HILARIOUS insult 😂
If a guy is with a fat chick, it's for a few reasons. 1. He doesn't have any other options. 2. He started the relationship when she was slimmer, and either she or both of them gained weight. 3. His mom is/was overweight, and he chooses based on that. I guarantee you that if a man had the choice between 2 women who were equally into him and had all the same qualities apart from weigh, he'd choose the healthy chick.
Yes but that guys still attracted to that girl. In the case of women it never happens, theres no attraction so the guy has to provide for her or in the case of ethnic girls st least must be white with blue eyes
The bus driver should have said he has a corner office and drives a 400k company vehicle.
And gets paid to travel around
“What do you do in your free time?”
“I like playing video games in my free time”
“There’s more to life than video games 💁♀️”
damn she really liked the guy, had nearly the same job and had the same hobby but she wanted to keep her option open lmfao
Well, that's how you blow your shot.
“It’s not about the hair, it’s what the hair represents.”
So true in my case.
This is the 6th video within just the last 24 hours. The undeniable king of content strikes again. Also probs to the editors for putting in the work.
Grandfather Nurgle is most pleased
"I'm really am the worst aren't I? I love this"
Nah nigga, you da BEST
Every time a woman asks how tall you are ask how fat they are. If they say you're being shallow so are they. At least we can start on equal footing.
Height isnt changeable, fat is
@@scottwall8419 indeed
Instant button if this is the first question😂
@@scottwall8419 right, it’s not even equal footing
Not even slightly comparable
That Asian guy who was hugging blindfolded had the 1000IQ plan. I look up to him lol