How Instagram Changed Women Forever | Asmongold Reacts
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“Instagram is a Pokédex for girls.” Bruh 💀
gotta catch em all
That's the only reason I have insta and Twitter tho, otherwise they are literally useless apps...
😂
Remember there are guys that do the height surgery. There's nothing you can do about down there. Also girls have it way easier. Tall, short, skinny, fat, big honkers, small. There are almost even amount of guys that are into them all. Polls have been done. Different from girls who all like the same type of guy for the most part
A Pokédex that will ruin most girls bruh
I never met a man who thought, "I want to hook up with someone that looks like a suprised catfish"
If I was drinking, you'd have made me spit out my drink 😄
As a former fisherman who was often away from shore for way too long...
the thing is, the guys will hook up with them, but like some redpill dudes say, they will be entered into the "sleeper" catagories.
She is mroe "useful" for carnal desire than active Wive/Girlfriend relationship...
@@Letgoit2 Well, I don't know about all that. You get a big 'un to take you hook, line and sinker, you gotta reel 'em in, get 'em in your net and hold 'em up to show all your friends so tha... oh... wait... you're talking about girls. Ok, nevermind...
It makes you wonder who actually digs these woman doesn't it. Ugh, it's like, revolting. Changing your appearance, to me, is the biggest turn off, the most unattractive bullshit. I feel like it tells a lot about a person. Superficiality and insecurity is massively unattractive
I think that social media made us all more miserable. Men and Women alike.
deliberately so. there are so many interviews with early devs about this. and the funding comes from the usual places...
@@simonschneider5913say where coward
@@GokuSolosAnime If you type out BRs full name your comment gets deleted by youtube. They are so mask off as to who runs this crap nowadays.
@@GokuSolosAnime your mom
@@Benji_The_Ghoul 😂🤣😐
Social media is the most impressionable and toxic to women under 30. Anything that brings attention is validated. Being a part of something everybody in their echo chamber wants or likes is all that matters.
Kind of an indictment on those women that seeing your pictures get liked is such an addiction.
Men enjoy attention as well, there is nothing wrong with enjoying attention.
@@Bonesawisready926I assure you men would be the same if they received the same amount of simping
I think this goes for all Gen-Z and youngest Millennial. I'm an old Millennial, don't browse on those platform for myself. Only running it for business.
I would argue that in a lot of cases it’s even more toxic to women over 30. There is a huge anti-aging epidemic going on especially in women online because influencers make women over the age of 25 feel like waking corpses. No joke, I saw an 8 year old on instagram applying retinol to her face.
There was a short period of time in the 80s and 90s where punk rockers didn’t hide their acne, didn’t wear expensive outfits, and would just look like some random guys got on stage and rocked out. It was fantastic. It was real antiestablishmentism. I miss the days when being authentic was cooler than being fake.
They also didn't use auto tune, their voices were imperfect, instruments not fully tuned. The imperfections made it all feel real.
@@Vaguer_Weevilda mmm mop da hmm na na nina!
OH the lies.
Right, it makes me think about thé skating community. In the 90- 20 all the skaters did not give a f about clothes, they had holes in their jeans. Skaters nowadays are on Instagram trying to sell their brand. Kids on Park are in brand New clothes but nobody IS skating lol they just want dumb consumers...
What bands are you referring to? I’m always looking for new music.
The thing is, women aren't doing this for men. Most men find that kind of plastic surgery unattractive. They do it for other women. It's become a sort of status symbol.
But they have no problem blaming men for beauty standards do they? You're right, it's a problem between women, so they should stop talking to men about it and deal with the problem internally.
@@Bonesawisready926well, to be fair, they do actually need our input because we decide what is attractive.
@@neondystopian Except men near universally prefer natural looking women to plastic looking women. You also cannot force anyone to get surgery but they still find a way to blame us.
@@Bonesawisready926 They always find a way. "There's not enough CEOs of "... THEN START YOUR OWN COMPANY!
"We need more x in stem." Did you want to go to stem fields? Did your friends want to go there? No? Then what's the problem?
@@Bonesawisready926 There was a study about this a while ago, and the men in the study had to choose which they found more attractive in a list of women some were natural and others were 'edited', but they didn't know that. Turns out, almost all of them chose the edited versions. Pretty much all of them chose the plastic boobs girls also. What most men think is 'natural' its just well made plastic surgery and in the end I think people just like things that look pretty, artificial or not. Also, completely unrelated...wtf is a BBL called that when I haven't seen nor heard a single person here in Brazil do this thing, this is not even available here and the clinics here.
Yo thanks for making your videos long and interesting to hear. I’m a truck driver that can’t actually watch the videos only listen and mainly have videos on auto play so I don’t gotta touch the phone. You do a pretty good job of explaining what’s going on. The only thing I can ask is to say the title of the videos your reacting too. Thanks man keep you the good videos!
Shout out to yall truck drivers, literally the backbone of this country
@@hxperantWhat country? UA-cam is international and truck drivers exist everywhere.
Be safe out there on the road brother
@@BertyBertssonDoesn't matter the country they are in as they are the backbone of this world, applies everywhere except for island countries
@BertyBertsson I assumed US, But I'd bet any country with truck drivers relies on them heavily.
When a product is free, YOU are the product.
what about when you got a free copy of rollercoaster tycoon with your cereal
@@SonGoku5363The cereal maker is betting the added sales of cereal will offset the cost of the disc. You were the product.
Trueee
@@KevinJDildonik The true winner was kellogs
What about the free bag of strange powder that the local homeless man gave to me?
Instagram deleted my account yesterday. Apparently I didn’t follow their community guidelines closely enough. I didn’t even fight it. Good riddance.
oh man i should go look to see if i still have mine. i stopped using it nearly 2 years ago and it changed my life so much that i just stopped using all social media outside the cesspool YT comments. but thats mainly for entertainment LOL
I have one but haven't touched it in over a year. YT comments and Discord are the closest I get to social media these days. The shit has rotted most women's brains at this point.
Are you really copying the top comment from the original video? Have an original thought, please.
@@r.8902 how did I change your life? I’m just curious as I’ve deleted a month ago
That happened to me earlier this year 😅I feel the same. We're better off without it.
Calling instagram a Pokedex for girls is so bold and true.
Dating apps,
the new Pokedex
Worked with a young woman, early 20s, who was getting botox, lip fillers, stupid bleached hair, etc... she showed us her DL at some point and said she never wanted to be that girl again. My buddy and I looked at the photo, then at each other, later on we had a whole conversation about how much hotter she was. Body dysmorphia is a helluva drug. She was a seemingly smart and well educated person too.
DL?
@@Subsistence69 drivers license
@@Akintich ah
However crazy this sounds as a Gen Z who grew up with Instagram and every other social media in school from age 11 in school, we never had the space to ‘find ourselves’ and get to grips with the world and DO real things. Explore real places. Make mistakes and learn. We just found other people. And what they’re doing. Relentless comparisons. Depleted self esteem. Depleted self worth. Unrealistic expectations of what life should be. Then after a while what they’re doing is fake. So is all of it.
That was your choice to engage with social media.
Yeah man those 11 year old kids sure have a lot of agency and wherewithal to be making those kinds of decisions for themselves 🙄
@@Bonesawisready926 I never said it wasn’t my choice to engage. I made an uneducated decision as a CHILD to engage, the period where your frontal lobe, personality etc are still forming. I am absolutely accountable for not knowing the dangers and choosing to engage. No one knew the dangers at the time. It was new.
I’m not playing victim to my current self, I’m now an adult that is able to use it as I see fit with the understanding of the harm of using certain sites.
@@allyjaylou I think it is important to take into account when the person grew up.
When I was in elementary 6th grade slide phones just came out. So I had alot of time to just hang around with friends and be dumb kids.
From your comment, I assume you did not have that or had very little of that. You grew up in a time when all this SNS was already there. Sure, it was your choice but is it really a choice when a child has to make the decision? I am not going to call you a victim, but still.
@@Bonesawisready926 Bro have you seen all the parents handing their literal baby an iPad? Babies are being hooked on TikTok while they're still on the bottle.
I would argue plastic surgery is a net positive simply for the fact it makes it extremely easy to pick out the normal girls from the crazies.
Yeah, they weed themselves out. Same as the co-opped 4b and all that.
This is an excellent point lol. Getting stuff done is fine if the goal is to not have it be noticeable, but if you take it to the point that it can be instantly spotted then yeah it helps out guys' crazy detection radar.
Thats delusional. You just dont notice the good plastic surgeries.
crazy is infectious.
until it’s really good and not noticeable
I don't take photos of myself because I am not a narcissist. You have a mirror, you know what you look like. Current cultures obsessions about showing the world how you look after you take a dump is upsetting..
I’m a 47 year old with a lot of past experiences that would have faded away without my journal and photo albums. Dont let others narcissism dictate your behavior, your life exp are important and should be documented for self growth and to reminisce when you grow old like me. 😃
Well taking photos of yourself on a trip is not really narcissistic.
Edit- Tbh wtf does taking photos of yourself have to do with any of this.
The number of people with their own face, nothing else, as their lock screen is insane.
@@ericwaln2056 C'mon now, Eric...
I doubt you've a journal and photo albums consisting only of bathroom selfies and plates of food... 🤣🤣
I'm only joking, I completely agree with your sentiment as a 40 year old myself.
My man is a man of culture with that 2B profile pic.
The secret to enjoying social media is to keep it limited to people that you actually know or have met
Literally 😂
i find it funny that we have to remember that, because tbh that was the real intention when social media came into existence but it sadly shifted into what it is now
That worked until algorithms started ramming shit down your throat.
A part of the 18.1% of plastic surgeries being patients aged 13-19 is removing skin lesions and other stuff that either goes wrong during puberty, or was postponed to later teens because there was a chance it would fix itself or it becomes safer to fix once the facial shape changes of puberty are over.
I had an underbite that would cost me my molars (ability to chew food) by 30 and had to get a $50,000 upper jaw surgery which was paid for by Medicaid at 18 years old once my bones stopped growing at the end of puberty. It took over a year to fully recover and gain feeling back in my face from the nerves they bruised and honestly I cannot understand why someone would go through that just for cosmetics even though its more common than having an actual medical reason for it like in my case. 0/10 would not want to eat from a syringe again.
@@puffyvalcano3736 Lmao about the same, i broke my jaw hard at 17 and was legit the only fcker in the whole hospital wing here for medical reason, every one else just didnt like the shape of their face.
I like to call it the "popular girl effect". Pre social media, most girls/women in a school, neighborhood, or community mostly emulated the most popular group of girls/women. But now the popular girl is social media and it has gone worldwide. The more potential attention and validation they can receive, the further they'll go. That's why you have teenage girls wanting to start an onlyfans as soon as they turn 18
The only reason why a woman would start and onlyfans is money, nobody ia doing that for validation or attention
@@user-kt4wz1fr4y don´t underestimate the hunger for empathy and attention, we´re humans after all.
@@user-kt4wz1fr4y not necessarily. If you can make a lot of money on OF that means you're hot/in demand, which is something you can flaunt to other women
@@user-kt4wz1fr4yexactly, dude is trying to find a deeper meaning to something as simple as people want money😂
@@user-kt4wz1fr4y he doesn't know
I like natural looking people who are capable of showing emotion on their face
I like anime girls.
Nice Anime Girls 😎
@@youtubeenjoyer1743you’re just lost
@@kojoefante your just completely incorrect and straight-up wrong.
You are crazy.
I think they are just abusing depressed women with money without caring about them or long term damages 😭 and now even men
They serve mammon.
Oh no, they are literally abusing women. How could they pay money for their services
I love how sexy women in games are harmful to real women, setting unachievable standards so they must be remove and then instagram is like it's free real estate and not one activist is saying anything against it
I know of two german female youtubers (they are neither activists nor radical in their beliefs in any way) who have spoken up against plastic surgery. They have also had surgery themselves and know what they are talking about. They have never blamed men or video games. After all, women do it for themselves.
Pretty much why feminism is a joke, it's used by the beauty industry as a way to promote plastic surgery, expensive clothing, and overall vapid consumerism under the guise of "empowerment". And that's the light version of it, if you don't want to go conspiracy theory mode...
Man, after seeing that hot pixel in my video game,
I just can't date anyone who isn't 100% perfect looking anime waifu
-Say's no man ever. . .
Okay maybe anime dudes would
@@Interdacted tbf anime dudes are mostly talking about girl attitude vs the anime girl attitude , who are a lot more passive and willing to listen, I mean older 90s anime aren't exactly attractive to begin with but they still love them for who they are cause of their characteristic
@@minisculex3 I like Serial Experiment Lain, in a way it reminds me now adays
Just a heads-up about taking your own picture with a camera:
What we see in the mirror is merely our reflection. But no matter how symmetrical we might think our faces are, we don't actually look like our reflection. Not only that, but mirrors only allow us to see ourselves from a fixed angle. Turning your head around doesn't really change that - the focus is still placed towards your eyes. However, other people can see what we ACTUALLY look like, from all sorts of angles.
Because we are only used to our reflection, whenever we see a photo of us, or see ourselves moving in a video, we always tend to get this feeling that we look weird somehow. However, to other people looking at the same photo or video of ourselves, we'll come across as normal. This is why it's always best to ask someone else to judge if you look bad in a photo, and why you'll sometimes come across situations where everyone will say they love this particular photo of you, even though you think you look HIDEOUS in it.
This is the main reason why people tend to not like photos and pictures of themselves. The selfie cameras on phones help this by mirroring the image. That is why it's a lot easier to take a picture of yourself that you like using the selfie camera, but why you'll cringe whenever you see your photo in the class yearbook. Camera lens does play a part in it somewhat, but that's stepping into professional photography. Depending on the lens that you use (and the lighting), you are able to change how attractive someone gets perceived. But this is only a minor reason. In fact, lighting plays a much bigger role than the actual camera lens does most of the time.
The way you look in the mirror is actually closer to how you look to other people that know you.
Other people filter out the same asymmetries in our face that we filter out after just 3 months of knowing us. They filter out the imperfections, the little ugly things that bother us in pictures.
This can be proven, just look at a friend/partner in the mirror, youll see how they actually look, and how they themselves see themselves in pictures.
But normally, your mirror self is closer to how you look than pictures are. Pictures are also heavily distorted due to lens-distortion. Just taking selfies from further away will already make you look miles better and closer to how you look in the mirror, because mirror us is seen by two lenses, not one heavily distorted one.
What does it mean when you hate how you look in selfies but think you look amazing in the yearbook photos?
@@kinghash29 Probably means you're using a bad selfie camera or don't like the way you look in general, but yearbook camera was able to get a nice one of you.
I realized when I was young that social media is just one big echo chamber. New ideas are not wanted, people just want to hear what they already believe...
I miss youtube echo chambers back in 03,
at least we spent time spamming music to listen to,
instead of hate towards the opposite echo chamber.
lol
It's like I think we're being trained to have a war mentality against all the different groups of people we dun understand or like.
@@Interdacted try watching someone besides asmongold. He's a drama king
@@Loki- I got into Lord Wojak lol
I was fairly comfortable with how I looked. I've never had any surgery done. I've had an instagram account for less than a year then I recently considered getting it. I do think even passively seeing all those perfected images of people can affect your self-image. I can only imagine how much worse it would have been if I were younger and more impressionable.
Mental weakness is all that is.
@@Bonesawisready926 My point was that I am a person with a healthy amount of self esteem and I was effected by it in a short time span. I can't imagine what it does to people who already had insincerities.
plastic surgeries for girls are like steroids for guys. I know of nobody who decided to get either not because of insecurities and jealousness caused by social media
@@cersela Yes. People can call it "weakness" all they want. Normal healthy humans aren't built for this much social pressure. Never was.
@@HebiNoMe It's pressure they put on themselves. It's their own perception that others are more beautiful than themselves. They are victim of their own beauty standards, which stems from their own insecurities about themselves, while those they try to imitate are in the same boat.
As a guy who works out, I can say that's not enough. The buff body just becomes your new normality, and you find a new quality of yours to be insecure about.
I agree, body dismorphia evolve with us
i only work out so i can eat more
i don't even care about being buff or how I'm seen
I just literally want to eat more without my body betraying me in the future and failing me, including my heart
It’s weird tbh, people tell me i look huge, but i still feel very small. Would never do roids, but it’s interesting forsure
Working out is always better than not working out though. The other thing guys need is confidence which is not as straightforward to obtain.
Fr, ive gotten to the point where i receive compliments when i go to the pool for my daily laps. The thing is that im still thinking about how bad my face is.... i even joke about the gym needing a face machine so i can look better. That also affects my mental health because i think im not good enough for anyone, so i just stay away. Then i get social anxiety when someone wants to talk to me bc im used to feeling so small that any interaction feels like im in the way. Idk if i deviated and just spilled but i dont agree with asmon. "Just working out" is not enough.
"Im not like most girls" -most girls
* all girls
@@natediaz1863 Honestly 🤦♂️. I thought my ex was different from other girls because she hated most of the stupid things they do like astrology and magic rocks. Then she wanted to destroy her face with plastic surgery because she hated her nose. She always looked at social media to see her old highschool classmates become Instagram models, which made her jealous.
@@professor0reo700 imagine looking up to instagram models
@@natediaz1863* most girls. My partner doesn't use social media. She doesn't watch movies or tv shows. She lives in reality instead of on the internet. Most of the photos on her phone is of our kids. She has like 2 or 3 selfies that are like 5 years old or older. She hates tattoos and she doesn't wear make up most of the time. When she does it's a very small amount. She would never do anything like plastic surgery. She think it's stupid and make you look like a clown. She doesn't believe in astrology or magic shit. She's too smart for that stuff.
We've been living together for over 10 years so I know.
@@BertyBertsson fine. 99.999% of girls. You happy bro?
how ugly do you have to _feel_ in order to get any of these things done to you..
I mean like you said, it's a feel. Emotions are pretty arbitrary and depend on what your monkey brain is thinking it needs to survive at the moment
how short do you have to be to get rods added to your legs to give you a few inches? it's all insecurities people build up in their mind and cant stop thinking about it.
i got a hair transplant when i was 20, i’m 25 now and i shave my head because i like how it suits me. my point is people make stupid decisions and alter their body which means their future self will have to pay for it.
Uglyness is only partly subjective though. Some men and women are objectively hideous but they have to understand that botox will not help in any way.
When your entire life revolves around your looks... It's pretty easy
I'm a girl, was bullied significantly for a "flaw" (wider forehead) by a group of older girls who I didn't even know and it crushed my self esteem. Over the years I considered getting cosmetic surgery to lower my hairline and so on, but ultimately I've settled on no. I have been using photoshop professionally for many years, so I've taken photos and lowered the hairline/tried to decrease the size of my forehead but my face never looks right proportionally. Something looks off even if I just lower it an inch.
I had cosmetic surgery on my lip when I was a baby. At this point the only thing I'm interested in getting cosmetic procedures to fix is my teeth, but that's mostly health related with a hint of cosmetic.
I don't need much work aside from that, my skin is acne prone but okay, my body isn't even that bad yea I would like a flatter/more toned stomach but if an inch of lower stomach fat is the turn off I think it says more about the other person than it says about me, my face isn't awful, and considering altering my forehead would mess up my facial proportion I don't even think that it's anything to feel insecure about anymore. If I hate it I can just get bangs, problem solved.
It's upsetting that many girls my age don't see all of the stuff on social media for what it is, or simply cannot see it for themselves without somebody having to go to a length to prove it to them. I can't say it a lot but I'm actually quite lucky I guess.
This is really dependent on who is surrounding you and the fact that your “flaw” probably isn’t that prominent. You felt insecure about your forehead due to those who bullied you a long while back, but currently the people around you don’t seem to care so it’s easy for you not to care as well. However, if your “flaw” was more glaring to the standards around you, you might still long to get work done. Standards vary a lot depending on where you live, how attractive your friends are, where you hang, your profession, etc. It’s not that many girls “can’t see” that social media is smoke and mirrors. It’s that they live different lives than you. They might long to work in sales or entertainment where the standards are higher or have a terrible mother who calls them ugly. It might say much more about the people who judge you, but if that person is someone you respected, it’s harder to ignore.
i know you didnt ask for a tip but here it goes, maybe helps any other who reads this. If you ever feel like something is off in you just ignore it and pretent you are the madafkin brad pitt or angelina jolie. sometimes people will believe what you believe and having confidence is key. also most importantly, there is all kinds of beaty and just becouse you dont have a perfect nose or a perfect jaw doesnt mean you are not beatiful /handsome
When I was in middle school/high school I was very insecure about my body because of how skinny I was, and my appearance because I lacked confidence in myself. after I graduated I started working out, stopped using social media, stopped comparing myself to others, and started focusing on improving myself instead of looking for a girl to date and I can say ever since I started doing that I've gained more confidence in myself than I thought possible. I feel like I can stand on anything, and I am proud of who I am now. Just improve yourself and forget about what others say/think. You can come a long way.
Common W
I remember setting up a date with some girl in college through social media. I was always honest with my appearance online, so I naively expected the same from others. You can guess where this is going... she practically catfished me. She did not look AT ALL like her photos. Fair enough since, in retrospect, I know almost everyone does this. What absolutely blew me away was how she reacted when I met her at the restaurant we were going to. The first words out of her mouth were, "WOW! You look exactly like your photos!" Is that not what photos are supposed to be????? Clearly not.
At 47, I cannot even imagine how discussions and human actions like this will be when I’m 67. Scary. Keep fighting the good fight.
I'm turning 49 this year and have been on computers the majority of my life. I've watched the entire life cycle of social media and usually with culture there comes a tipping point when people get bored of things and move on, I wonder when and if that will ever happen with social media.
@@hussle2654 right? It will swing or change but man, to where? Life is awful and amazing.
@@skysix5733 yeah man, this AI revolution is gonna be a sight to behold
When you realize this isn't just a 1st world problem and even african women the Ndebele tribe who stretch their necks with rings as a symbol of maturity, age and beauty will hurt themselves, break bones purposely just to fit more rings at early ages
Maybe sexual selection should be managed by the government. Everyone gets a partner, nobody gets to chose. Suddenly all the competition stops.
Nobody is making them do this, it’s their low self esteem working against them.
Shhh stop making sense.
that's the whole point, there's no external figures demanding you to do stuff anymore. depression exists and it's massive now because everyone is their own master, and their own punisher. the false sense of freedom that we have is causing this aesthetics frenzy collapse.
@@otrotipo_otro Thats a problem with freedom in general. Dumb people need a leader, its a matter of time before they ruin their lives otherwise
It's not so simple. Society is dynamic, when societal standards/norms of beauty, behaviour, and consumption habits change you either follow the trend or get left behind. Even if you never have a social media account in your life, you are still impacted by literally everyone else who has one.
There is no such thing as low self-esteem. There is only emotional wounds rooted in childhood trauma.
I think the saddest thing about this is most of the mindset of these women (and some men) is perpetuated by other people saying they could use a noselift or facelift instead of telling you that you should be comfortable the way you are and if you want to be more attractive be nice to people and get fit, and have a healthy lifestyle. No one needs plastic in their face unless they've had an accident or birth defect and feel like they want it
The pressure is worse for men
Snapchat filters and things like that, that let you change imperfections on your face and body have done immeasurable damage
As someone who had a pilonidal cyst removed, aka ingrown hairs causing infection by my tailbone area, needed surgery and months to recover before I could sit down again without being in absolute pain. The idea of going through such a procedure for a but lift has to be one of the dumbest thing I've heard of. The pain isn't just when your sitting, I couldn't walk for weeks, I spent the first week lying down all day with a mountain of pillows under my back, which gave me terrible back pains, but it was a million times better than putting weight on the wound, I won't get started on the severe constipation from the meds...
Going through that to fix your insecurities is just extreme...
Dude ive been struggling with that for 2 years. I cant afford the surgery to remove it so i just have to pop it myself every week or so. Sometimes it gets really bad and i go to a local cheapo clinic to get it cleaned out for some 250 bucks and they give me some antibiotics that never work. I wish i could just be done with this its made my life so much worse. Especially because im a mechanic and i have to lie on my back all the time.
Imagine getting a bbl cause you're too lazy to eat properly and so squats
@@peckop1793 Taking shortcuts because one is too lazy to do it right is the American way of life. We've even started exporting it to the rest of the world.
Makeup is sort of a gateway drug too, because it shows women how effective certain changes can be. But because of the camera lens phenomenon, you get all these women who look great in a picture, but look like a Van Gogh painting up close. And the same goes for plastic surgery; even though that makes 'em look more like a Picasso.
Doing your Makeup also requires you to know exactly where the flaws in your face are. Even the smallest details, that you normally never would've noticed, can change how you need to do your makeup and become an ugly problem. If makeup didn't have a tendency to settle into fine lines, we'd probably see drastically less botox done on women
I drive Lyft and 9 out of every 10 women never look like they do in the photo when I pull up to pick them up 😂
Kim Kardashian actually worked for Paris Hilton, basically a lady in waiting, doing her errands. Another fun fact, Prince couldn't stand Kim, actually kicked her off stage because she couldn't dance. Kim was a brown nosing social climber and most of Hollyweird ignored them. It was years later that Kris married Bruce/Katelyn and they were finally accepted into polite society. The kids today don't know their history but it's not always been glitz and glamour, remember Robert Kardashian was OJ's attorney.
Instagram = the deepest pit of narcissism
I actively avoid instagram for this reason
Instagram is basically like an amp for instruments. These women were already like this and all it does is amplify it.
Clever analogy!
most of these “women” you complain about were 10 when instagram began
@@sinew1000 Who's complaining? They can live their lives the way they want.
Been wanting asmon to react to a video from this channel, I'm glad.
This app was a miracle for certain industries.
How do you sell products no one really needs.
Fear of missing out and play on a person’s insecurities.
idk why but your explanation about the phone vs mirror genuinely made me feel better
It depends on the camera but I was taught that 50mm lenses were the most accurate to the dimensions on a full frame camera. It used to be the cheapest too because it didn't have a lot of extra parts internally needed for telephoto, zoom or wide-angle. It was basic and I think that seemed boring to some people but it might be useful for portraying truthfulness in journalism or if you need something you are photographing to be as accurate as possible.
9/10 they were hotter before surgery too smdh. Perfection is a illusion we are a imperfect species we always will be. people need to learn to be content with themselves and change what can be changed naturally in a healthy manner.
95% of the time being confident about your flaw is sexier than not having it at all.
Remaining 5% is for really heavy blemishes you should take care of anyway, like serious burns, fucked up teeth or visibly broken and crooked nose.
95% of the time you actually don’t notice a procedure when it looks fine because it wasn’t botched…you just notice the fails that negatively impact the attractiveness
@@Mesjach agreed
@@gungie2468Naw, most of these chicks go to the same offices, and end up looking samey. It’s very obvious to anyone that frequents social media.
Nope it's more like 4/10. The problem with good plastic surgery is that you don't notice it.
People have forgotten how to turn off social media to do something they truly love, not in accordance with some idea they have of themselves because of self-comparison. These people aren't living enough.
I forgot what I love,
due to just doing what other's want me to do
Have you tried having a meaningful conversation with a typical social media using person? It never goes anywhere. They are literally NPCs. It's especially bad with young people; i think they are mentally stunted by social media and shitty video games.
i love how some women getting in this clownery by their choice is a social issue that should be address but 40% of young men not being able to get a gf is just their fault and they should rot alone
Women crying on IG about the unrealistic beauty standard of being slim --> "You poor thing"
Men literally experiencing utter loneliness and misery --> "Uhh, get a life incel"
Its so weird to me. Im a man, and I don't recall ever hearing about a man demanding their woman to get any surgery done to them. None whatsoever. Its literally just peer pressure/social pressure. Its sickening. Its gotta stop
I do not believe it's instagram's fault. The woman who made herself look like a lion existed before tiktok and instagram. What's really happening is that plastic surgery is becoming more affordable and more mainstream, so more and more people can afford to do frivolous procedures based on vanity. Whether they do it for instagram followers or free drinks at the bar or a better chance at movie roles or because Korea has insane beauty standards it's all the same result.
I’ve been off social media besides UA-cam for almost a year and it’s probably the best thing I’ve ever done. I’ve considered going back to insta to promote my YT but I’m afraid to go back the doom scrolling and comparisons.
Everyone has a different relationship with social media and you know what they say, everything in moderation. Staying observant on the content your watching or the time you spend on these apps is everything.
Looking back, I’m truly blessed to have grown up in an age of limited tech and social media platforms. I’m worried for the future generations tho.
Hey, I totally agree. No longer on other apps and it's literally liberating especially in the sense of comparison even if it's not intentional it happens. I still use UA-cam to keep up with current affairs. Good luck with your channel!
Get all the cosmetic surgery you want, you'll still never be able to compete with AI
Facts.
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Yeaaaa
Allen Iverson ??
I feel fine no longer having an insta/facebook/snap. Never bothered with twitter or TikTok either. So long as you have meaningful things to do in your life you won’t crave it
Yup, get a hobby. These comments are the closest I get to social media.
I love how they do all this kinda crap to step over each other but blame men on "setting beauty standards". They feel insecure by looking at other women, men have nothing to do with it.
A girl without Instagram is like a gangster without a gun. It’s rare
when i traveled to korea doctors would advertise their surgery on billboards and large screens in the subway, almost like the Dr was a rockstar, was pretty insane how much is invested into cosmetic surgery there.
These are not the behaviors of someone who would prefer living with wild bears. I suspect there's some lying happening.
What are you talking about?
@@Nersiushe is referring to the "man or bear" trend. He's making the claim that women who choose to be with a bear in the woods over a man are lying about their answer based on this video about women who don't know how to handle their insecurities.
@@talkingtakotaco8611 Oh, heard about that thought experiment.
Surprised that bear isn't the answer for everyone.
Humans can do Deliverance on you, forest bears will practically always be cool if you keep your distance.
@@NersiusIt's more about which one would potential be worse in a worst case scenario. Women are picking bears because a bear will "just" kill you, which is nothing compared to the average true crime documentary
@@Kyuupire It just reveals their narcissism more. Most men lost in the woods would be concerned with finding food and water and making a shelter, but women think grape is at the forefront of all men's minds.
54:28 lmao when you daid "i eat lean but dont do any drugs" i immediately thpught "lol youre supposed to drink lean" then i realized he was meaning like meat wise LOL
You're right about working out making structure better, overall, I went from 450lbs to 250lbs. Pure exercise and diet. 😊
It's not social media. It's society. And been present for the longest time.
What? Now 10 layers of makeup is okay? We don't even know if there's a human face under all that shit. Plastic surgeries are under the skin, makeup is above. Same side of the coin.
Truly pathetic.
I never wore makeup for this reason, also didnt want to ruin my skin. Rather be all natural, without all the extra social media shenanigans
The finesse in the ad delivery is superb.
14:22 That surgeon had both Edge and Chrome open for his video tutorials... 😄
I found out my girlfriend was a Chinese Ai bot 😭
When is the wedding?
Sounds like the title of an anime.
WTF ?!😭 explain pls I’m sorry how tf 😭😭😭
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your so ahead of the curve your basicly from the future
There was also a perception of the younger generation at the time that Facebook was for their parents, and Instagram was for younger people.
lol
The "Mother's against violent video game'
Facebook group didn't help that stereotype
This may not be a comment you expect to get but I love your long form content because I’m from the same North Austin Area and your voice actually helps me sleep. I think it’s because you remind me of the dude bro voices I used to pass out to at parties
24:00 you CANNOT turn it off even if you did, the second you close the phone, if you watch very closely at the screen, you can see it opening again just before the screen shuts down
What a synthetic society this has become.
40:58 Like that quest from Cyberpunk 2077 where you follow a woman who is supposedly cheatin' on his husband because "the kid doesn't look like her" and then you discover that she was ugly asf and she got surgeries all over her body face hair etc so that why the kid looks so different because it holds her genes and original look.
Regarding looking in the mirror and taking a picture you have to understand focal lengths and lighting. Your eyes perceive things at 50mm focal length your phone takes pictures at 35mm. So taking a picture like the one in the mirror is impossible with your phone unless you can change the lens.
Asmon is so true about the mirror to camera difference. Many times i'd be like damn i'm looking good from seeing my reflection and then I'll see a pic of me and be like, wtf is that? lol
I mean 6'3" Asmongold never considered how important height is to women when it comes to physical attractiveness.
Women prefer the man to be slightly taller. Also it's better in bed when you're of similar height. The whole tall thing is just a societal construct that someone made ya believe.
@@peckop1793 nice words small man
I think there should be a conversation about how all these social media things integrate in our lives, especially with children. It’s easy to say parents need to do better, but this is technology that’s brand new. It’s not like the invention of the wheel.
You need wheels for cars, and cars can kill people, but we don’t take away cars from everyone. We have laws and regulations surrounding it because we know how important and potentially dangerous it is behind the wheel of a car.
I think a similar approach to social media could be the answer.
Back in 2007 to 2009, people were using bebo before everyone moved to facebook. We were always able to share photos on a profile we just didn't have smartphones back then so you would have to upload the photos from a digital camera or shitphone camera to a pc.
12:24 Editor needs to make an AI Asmon freestyle over BBL Drizzy. That would be a viral clip for sure
2:14 Incorrect. It's not the camera lens. It's because we are used to looking at our reflections so when we see ourselves in pictures, where our images aren't mirrored, we look different / odd to ourselves. Ironically this is what everyone sees all the time. There's actually a name for this phenomenon and even a VSauce video about it.
Not incorrect. Look up photos for “focal length portrait comparison”. There’s a reason professional portraits are usually taken with an 85-200mm focal length. Your standard phone camera focal length is around 24mm-35mm.
Lens is also true and what you said is true
Women trying desperately to hold on to the beauty they wasted in their 20s rather than accepting facts.
Ads on the very end of the videos are S tier QOL - thx Editors !!!
That part around 48 minutes in regarding Korea and plastic surgery...reminds me of that Twilight Zone episode where there were appearance options. It was the original tv series.
Same time, "Stop looking at me."
"...unless you are rich and/or super attractive."
@@SirRivelion Exactly. More men are starting to lose sympathy for women over this too. I hope to live long enough to see the real AI bots, but pass before they turn on us. Imagine today's women competing with actual perfection you could just buy, it would give me a good laugh.
The hypocrisy of it all is what gets me
I remember when I first started using instagram I was like 15, the reason why it’s so popular among us was the filter allowed us to be creative while sharing our best moments. But now it just give us depression.
"So, that's the reality" always makes my day
crazy that instagram might just be the worst thing to happen to humanity
I don't the bubonic plague is up there bro.
Instagram is not the cause, the insecurity of people is, wanting to look like and to be someone else than themselves, it is a mental disorder that is fed by media and the society around them.
@@julicomo9815 bro it made us more immunocompetent and ended poverty, instagram just ended interpersonal realtions and mental health
Only womenity.
Lol, people were freaking out about Covid when the real societal plague is social media
When you stood up by imagine you were about to be like, 'even I got a BBL' and turn your posterior towards the camera
Honestly mewing work great cause it align your jaw to the normal rest posture. It also teach you how to normalize breath in/out without using your mouth. It depends on everyone experience.
I've practice mewing for couple of years now and i didn't snore at night when sleeping anymore. There some small change but honestly it doesn't matter that much.
Bro is looks maxing since 2010.
The og mewer.
Fr I see ppl post their pics of crazy vacations and all I can think about is how un fun that would be
Heavily disagree with guys just need to work out.. I bench 365lb.. it doesnt help me one bit that women specifically want tall dudes.. i used to be on a dating site long ago.. i was told by a woman half a foot shorter than me that i should end my life because the world doesnt need short men.. i'm 5' 8"
im 6.1" trust me they have another cop out if your tall your now missing anything
She probably said that because she knew it would hurt you the most. Sorry you had to experience that. Stay in the gym brother.
Work hard, study well, and eat and sleep plenty. 🐢
Being tall is far worse when you are ugly. I am6'4 and women get a panic attack when I am three feet behind them in line at the grocery store at broad daylight. Became quite funny though after I realized I can't change it anyway
Being tall is the genetic lottery. I’m also 5’8, have an above average/good body after years of working out and I still feel outpaces by a pencil thin kid over 6 ft - even if I have better facial features.
Ironically, girls want tall guys (something we can’t change), and guys want skinny girls (something they can change).
Should've responded with, "You're 5' 2. You're literally a child."
I hate the way social media is sold as some kind of genius tech idea by these young wizz kids. Its posting shit online in different ways, nothing amazing, simple ideas anyone would come up with, but we're supposed to see them as high intellects and trailblazing entrepeneurs?
The vast majority of applications are just delivering data to an end user or a database in different ways. The genius is more finding ways to monetize that.
@@Bonesawisready926 I was online early, and I saw the way the internet was turned into a set of phone apps as the legacy media transitioned normies over to big tech by only promoting Google, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and a few others as what the internet was through the TV shows. They did this with twitter feeds along the bottom of the news etc. When they started promoting Google, I hadn't even heard of it, and I was a massive 'net head,' I saw the way they made it 'the best' search engine. This was how it was done. It was not organic.
This right here about the camera lens 1:52 … did not know at all!
No wonder…😑
8:50 Yea but Paris I do not think boosted surgery, etc.
All these work and these women still aint gonna find a man that wants a family with her.
Theyve been programmed to think they dont want that though.
@@Janaesp12 "Programmed" say it with me, accountability is a woman's...
aaaaand here comes the incels
@@Bonesawisready926 Accountability is a great part of it. In order to be accountable you have to know they are being accountable to. If society (which includes their parents most importantly) has led them astray and/or encouraged bad choices and poor logic, then accountability comes after the error. Im not excusing it by stating the origin of the problem. Our world is fucking screwed and that is hard to accept for you and many others. Its easy to offload blame, but there is a serious fucking problem with our society and world society. We are extremely mentally ill as a species at this late date and time.
@@Janaesp12 Society or biology? I'd say both. We need to teach girls to be more self-confident and self-sufficient and not to so easily go along with the flow because of friends, fashion etc. like they so often do.
Never used Instagram and I feel like I lost nothing. Only last year I made an account that didn't use until this year just to post drawings of Pokemans done wrong for some friends.
Sometimes I feel like a caveman because of how little I understand technology and don't use it. And other times I'm grateful for it.
Pokemans
@@ACowIsHuge Yes. Pokemans. No way I'm calling what I'm doing Pokemon, haha
@@Mantosasto haha man i kinda wanna See them
I never understood the worry about balding and shit like that. I've been balding my head since I was a teenager in the 90s, growing up in that cholo life. One time I grew my hair and hated it, felt so off, and just ended up balding it again and been doing it that way to this day.
I recently looked up a chick on Instagram that I dated back in 2012, she looks completely unrecognizable now due to do all the clownish surgery she's had on her face. Shit is wild man
As a woman, Facebook and Instagram are going to be the death of natural beauty. Plastic is the new look, and everyone is trying to look the same. Unique and alternative beauty is no longer valued, instead its shoved in a box and slowly brainwashed into thinking they need to change.
Shit is wild. Nobody just chillin anymore
this is a perfect summary of the last decade or so.
especially for dating apps filters actually make no sense. If i do not like the way you look in real life , whenever we meet that will not change
When I was still using tinder, I'd just leave if that happened. That's catfishing and is morally wrong.
@@Bonesawisready926 I agree. What I mean fundamentally it's irrational
Thing about instagram is that to some degree you can choose what you see. For people who feel the effects of it feeding their depression choose to watch people who seem more real/have less curated pictures or just maybe limit it. I've used insta a lot because of I'm interested in type of alt fashion but have been kind of falling out because of my depression cause you don't really have motivation to strive for likes or looking like anything special if all feels useless enough. What you do with likes if you aren't striving to be a model or only fans person and have yourself a partner already and rarely go out anyway?
For guys too, maybe slip some actual neighbor girls to your pokedex so that when you actually date in real life you don't feel as disappointed that girls don't look like the mutated animals you see on media and magazines.
Cant wait for the heat death of the universe
You're gonna be waiting a while for that event. It will only occur in, say 1.7×10^106 years.
Can't wait for the half-life of tellerium-128 to finish in 2.2 X 10^24 years. This is about 160 trillion times longer than the universes current age.
Man can't Andromeda merge with us sooner?
We live in the greatest time in all of history bro. 😢
@@daleseb339 No, we don't and that is completely subjective anyway. You live in THIS era, what makes you think it is appropriate to assess what it is like living in all other eras you didn't exist in and then judge yours as the best?
That is the most biased thing I've ever heard.
If only most women would realize that most Men really dont care what you look like so long as you're healthy and fit and have a good personality.
A lot of men don't care about personality
They don’t care about most men, just the top 5%
@@sagetusk If they want a family they do, you're dating dudes who don't.
@@garenthal9638 That's the main reason their sob stories and insecurities don't really illicit an emotional reaction anymore. They don't get the approval and attention from a select group of men and I'm supposed to feel bad for them for that? Would people feel bad for me because Sydney Sweeney wouldn't DM me? No, you wouldn't and you shouldn't. Women's behaviors have just made me pretty indifferent to how they feel.
@@Bonesawisready926I'm talking about various colleagues and others I've met in person who have voiced they don't care how a woman is as long as she looks good
Of course it's anecdotal and it depends where u come from, and on the other side there are men who do care, but I've heard far more voice that they couldn't give a hoot whether a woman is smart/kind/funny/has hobbies
lol I wore that "I do own my own stunts" shirt and one that Said "keep staring I might do a trick"
21:20 now that's an awesome app proposal