Yes! With a guy, you get that initial hit of pain, then is dissipates and you're over him. But with a friend the pain seems everlasting. 10 years after breaking up with my bestie I still feel emptiness
Girl I'm right there with you! Sooooo content Netflix and Chilling by my darn self...lol The other day I got mad thinking that "this is when I would meet someone and mess this all up!" lol
I'm also 27 and I've been single pretty much all of my life. I really admire your pov on the others-getting-married-and so on thing. I think i'm gonna try to look at it the way you do. I used to really stress about it, now it's a bit better but i can't help but think that i might never end up finding someone :( I can't believe there are still women and girls who honestly believe that a guy has to care for a woman and marriage and children are the ultimate goals. Glad to see you back!!
When I tell my single friends that being single in your late 20s can actually be a really amazing thing they don't believe me and think I am saying it only because I am married but it's true. So much growth and self discovery goes on while you are on your own that makes you better prepared for love when it comes. Stay blessed.
You are such an inspiration to young women,I really hope when I am your age I am as confident and well rounded as you are.Continue being the beautiful,independent,confident and positive ray of light that you are.😍😍😍
oh my God, Shirley you have changed my life. ever since i started to watch your videos, I have learnt to love myself and appreciate people around me. my sense of style has improved a great deal
Shirley you inspire me so much, always level head and humble! I want to start my UA-cam channel soon and honestly you are my favorite! please try to upload often, I just love you channel!! God Bless you
Shirley! I have to say you're one of my biggest inspirations/ role model. You seem so soft spoken and level headed and I really admire how cool and collect you are (and your style is goals). Wish you the best!
Hey Shirely! You are amazing! I love how candid you are with us. I'm so so glad you've gotten endorsements and are working with competitive brands. I'm so inspired by you
yessss!! being single is such a joy "I will only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude" appreciate you so much for saying you like being single!!!
I know that part. people are quick to judge without knowing the issue. till now. people still gossip abt me . making stories just to make fun of me. but guess what silence is golden and live everything to God.
Yaaaaaaaass! !! You are back!! Agree so much with what you said, especially on the part of being an independent woman and what that means to oneself irrespective of what anyone thinks about the matter
OMG she’s back 😀😍😍nice to see you Shirley lol I haven’t even watched this video yet.. so excited we want to reach 1,5 mil this year let’s push teamShirley.
Yessss Shirley! It's so important for people to focus on themselves and learn themselves first before bringing someone else into the mix. The beauty of relationships is when it's meant to be, it will be. What's for you is for you :-)
You're like a super wise big sister ! Thx for the wonderful advice on relationships and dealing with pressure. Also, I'll never forget the "when people feel something is bothering them, they'll project it on confident people". That's so accurate. thx :)
Omgosh yaay Ure back again!💃🏽💃🏽I missed u so much😩 Love the advice today. I learnt a lot. Thank u😘 Love u so much Shirley❤ and girl, you're looking more gorgeous than ever!😀😻
You watch anime? 💅💅💅💅 Gurl, you on fire 🔥🔥🔥 .... I recommend "Erased" for a good thriller & "Samurai Champloo" for some good periodic-action & comedy 👍
Omg! when you said you take a nap when stressed... that's exactly what I do! I did a presentation in class on how to deal stress and my classmates laughed when I said I sleep when stressed out lol. Sleep is legit the best way to deal with stress. When I wake up, my head is clear and I can think straight and solve my problems.
I loved this Q&A !! The friendship breakup question really hit home for me as I am going through the motions of the aftermath of what happened months ago. Looking forward to your video on Friday :)
The nap thingy, OMG I thought I was alone on that. I try to take a 20 minutes nap everyday and it does help with putting my thoughts in order, relaxing, boosting energy and definitely when I'm kinda depressed (for example when the sun doesn't come out, LOOL). Keep shining Shirley, Blessings!
You dont understand how much your answer to the last question helps so much , like I feel I have to cope with alot of stress and pressure from the roles I play a part in, you outlined a clear stratergy which I am going to try but to be honest my biggest downfall is difficulty prioritising my roles and responsibilities..
I loveeee this video! You offered something very good advice for prioritizing and role conflicts. I'm certainly going to try to utilize the napping solution! We missed you Shirley! Btw. That top is super cute!!
AUNTY SHIRLEEEYYYY I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!! LIKE OH MY GOODNESS. THANK YOU FOR GRACING US WITH YOUR PRESENCE! Okay I'll watch the video now. I just had to let this out lol
😂😂😂😂love it, a nap when under pressure! Genius! I think you may actually be meditating without labelling it. Keep doing you girl and stay fabulous! ❤️❤️❤️
Love your advice about prioritizing. I'm always pulled in countless directions. My whole life is trying to find balancing these days so I needed this message. =]. You look beautiful as always.
Ooooh my days Shirley you're just suuuuch an inspiration !!!! Hey wearing the perfect shade for the day is an essential hahaha I feel ya bein single feels good
Friendship break-ups are the saddest however necessary most of the time. 💕 You've been missed, please don't go MIA on us again 🤗😘💕. I love your top and you look amazing 👌🏻.
Please don't dissapear on us again!
SisiYemmieTV tell her o
Sorry aunty! I won't. New video Friday. Thank you ma. x
SisiYemmieTV Ikr!!!! Love her style!!!
So glad you're back. You are a breath of fresh air.
SisiYemmie you're awesome too
Shirley is the embodiment of beauty on the inside and out.
*She really is! So humble and genuine*
breakup with a friend can emotionally harder than a boyfriend breakup.
Very true! xx
You're with the wrong man in that case.
Toni Gabbidon trust meeeeee been there done that over it now but its not a easy road :/
Yes! With a guy, you get that initial hit of pain, then is dissipates and you're over him. But with a friend the pain seems everlasting. 10 years after breaking up with my bestie I still feel emptiness
oh, yes.
Finally, someone that understands me when I say "I enjoy being single!"
Girl I'm right there with you! Sooooo content Netflix and Chilling by my darn self...lol The other day I got mad thinking that "this is when I would meet someone and mess this all up!" lol
Pearlie Whirlie Yesss, it's sad, but I've gotten super spoiled with being with me, & only me! My life has no unwanted STUFF! I have my own STUFF! 💕
Omg when she said I'm thinking of which color lipstick to wear ...Rofl😎
*yess! Completely agree!*
I'm also 27 and I've been single pretty much all of my life. I really admire your pov on the others-getting-married-and so on thing. I think i'm gonna try to look at it the way you do. I used to really stress about it, now it's a bit better but i can't help but think that i might never end up finding someone :(
I can't believe there are still women and girls who honestly believe that a guy has to care for a woman and marriage and children are the ultimate goals.
Glad to see you back!!
1stepcl0ser I’m 28 and only been in two... thought I was a little weird lol
When I tell my single friends that being single in your late 20s can actually be a really amazing thing they don't believe me and think I am saying it only because I am married but it's true. So much growth and self discovery goes on while you are on your own that makes you better prepared for love when it comes. Stay blessed.
Shirley is back!! Thank you Lord 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Rosanna MJ thats how I feel 😂😂 like yasss highlight of my week
Love the way you addressed the stress issue with a simple answer.
A nap is such a small thing but it does work.
You are such an inspiration to young women,I really hope when I am your age I am as confident and well rounded as you are.Continue being the beautiful,independent,confident and positive ray of light that you are.😍😍😍
When Shirley comes back on your birthday!!!! Beautiful as always
beautybarbz Happy Bday💖
Happy Belated Birthday!!!
beautybarbz happy late birthday!😂
Thank you everyone😃
Are you still friend with Barbara and Michelle? Happy to see you back, I love the natural makeup look!
Shirley we've missed you!!! Hope you're feeling refreshed, you are certainly looking radiant ❤❤❤
Love that you are back. Beautiful and genuine video as always ❤️👦🏻✨
oh my God, Shirley you have changed my life. ever since i started to watch your videos, I have learnt to love myself and appreciate people around me. my sense of style has improved a great deal
I'm mad about You, I missed you so much :( please do not disapear for such long time again, you're my favorite youtube girl, bless you Shirley ❤
at least once a week video. chat when you do makeup, advice, please make an effort. vlog a meal prep. any videos
Yessss!!!I have been binge watching your old videos Shirley...so happy you're back!!!!
Yay!!! Shirley! So good to see you in my notifications x You are so very inspiring & it's been great watching your brand grow over the years.
Shirley you inspire me so much, always level head and humble! I want to start my UA-cam channel soon and honestly you are my favorite! please try to upload often, I just love you channel!! God Bless you
Shirley you're truly an inspiration to many struggling girls who want to be independent, confident and successful. Thank you💖 #Girl love
Where is that cute shirt from? LOVED YOUR VIDEO SHIRLEY!
Berska! Thank you xx
Shirley! I have to say you're one of my biggest inspirations/ role model. You seem so soft spoken and level headed and I really admire how cool and collect you are (and your style is goals). Wish you the best!
Love this look! 😍 you look happy, relaxed and well rested and we're glad to have you back!! 🎉
Hey Shirely! You are amazing! I love how candid you are with us. I'm so so glad you've gotten endorsements and are working with competitive brands. I'm so inspired by you
yessss!! being single is such a joy "I will only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude" appreciate you so much for saying you like being single!!!
valee200 love it! I'm going to steal that and use it as my mantra.lol
Yessss! Lol i always loved this quote from ever after
Updated hair routine please!! Your hair looks amazing in this video!
I know that part. people are quick to judge without knowing the issue. till now. people still gossip abt me . making stories just to make fun of me. but guess what silence is golden and live everything to God.
Yaaaaaaaass! !! You are back!! Agree so much with what you said, especially on the part of being an independent woman and what that means to oneself irrespective of what anyone thinks about the matter
YAAAAASSSSS I LITERALLY STOPPED EVERYTHING AS SOON AS I'VE SEEN HER THUMBNAIL 😍😍😍😍🙌🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥
Hana Watanabe I do that everytime!!! trust me she got that effect on us #notificationgang
OMG she’s back 😀😍😍nice to see you Shirley lol I haven’t even watched this video yet.. so excited we want to reach 1,5 mil this year let’s push teamShirley.
Yessss Shirley! It's so important for people to focus on themselves and learn themselves first before bringing someone else into the mix. The beauty of relationships is when it's meant to be, it will be. What's for you is for you :-)
You're like a super wise big sister ! Thx for the wonderful advice on relationships and dealing with pressure. Also, I'll never forget the "when people feel something is bothering them, they'll project it on confident people". That's so accurate. thx :)
Yasss Shirley is back to slay for us o!!!I'm loving that shirt
you back...yes....watching your videos makes me wanna clean my room all over again....
love you Shirley ...
I missed you Shirley! I always enjoy your point of view on things in general, especially the serious talks :)
I've missed you so much Shirley and please don't disappear on us again. Love you💕💕
I love anime. Watching Attack on Titans now
Fran Dev wish they would come out with the new season already! ☹️☹️
me tooooooo
Pinocicci I'm on season 1 so I have a lot of catching up to do 😩
Fran Dev one piece is a good one too
season 2 is coming soon but read the manga it's really good!
u have been missed Shirley!!!!!!
Positivity just always radiates from you. Your videos always seem to be right on time for me!
Omgosh yaay Ure back again!💃🏽💃🏽I missed u so much😩
Love the advice today. I learnt a lot. Thank u😘
Love u so much Shirley❤ and girl, you're looking more gorgeous than ever!😀😻
You give the such good advice in your Chit-Chat vids. When Shirley speaks, I 👂🏾 cause you're foreva dropping knowledge
Your hair and top is so cute!! & I overall LOVE your look in the video, you look so refreshed and you're giving off carefree black girl magic vibes✨
welcome back, felt like forever since your last vid
Look up to you so much, Shirley. Nice to have you back on here! X
love your attitude and it's great to see your lovely face again :)
Welcome back, you were missed!!!!You ROCK!!!
You watch anime? 💅💅💅💅
Gurl, you on fire 🔥🔥🔥
....
I recommend "Erased" for a good thriller & "Samurai Champloo" for some good periodic-action & comedy 👍
Yasss!
I know right! When she said it I was like -_- "TOO MUCH AWESOMENESS" Seriously @_@ and Erased was amazing.Going to rewatch >_
Omg! when you said you take a nap when stressed... that's exactly what I do! I did a presentation in class on how to deal stress and my classmates laughed when I said I sleep when stressed out lol. Sleep is legit the best way to deal with stress. When I wake up, my head is clear and I can think straight and solve my problems.
shirley is giving all types of beyonce elle magazine in the thumbnail 😭😍
I loved this Q&A !! The friendship breakup question really hit home for me as I am going through the motions of the aftermath of what happened months ago. Looking forward to your video on Friday :)
Like how you explained role conflict. Very informative! Welcome back to UA-cam 😁
you look so radiant! ugh just absolutely beautiful!!!
You go Shirlz! Snaps for enjoying your singleness and feeling empowered. I hope I get to that point soon 😘
The nap thingy, OMG I thought I was alone on that. I try to take a 20 minutes nap everyday and it does help with putting my thoughts in order, relaxing, boosting energy and definitely when I'm kinda depressed (for example when the sun doesn't come out, LOOL). Keep shining Shirley, Blessings!
"hey mista are you tha one "? LOL "THE " question 😂😂
LOVE YOU♥
don't get lost again 😉😉 . you look fabulous
You are one of the most beautiful, classy and sophisticated youtubers out there! Love your videos so much!
Welcome back, we missed you! Lovely insights as usual. Also, where is the necklace from?
we live on youtube for you Shirley ,please keep posting.Love you tooo much .
Great to have you back Shirley. You look stunning as always. Much love from South Africa xx
Shirley you're so positive and well adjusted, Keep shining Queen!
You dont understand how much your answer to the last question helps so much , like I feel I have to cope with alot of stress and pressure from the roles I play a part in, you outlined a clear stratergy which I am going to try but to be honest my biggest downfall is difficulty prioritising my roles and responsibilities..
So glad you're uploading again. Loved the video and your top is so cute!
wHEN I SAW ANIME I ALMOST FREAKED OUT.
Caitlin ケイトリン ME TOO OMG
I loveeee this video! You offered something very good advice for prioritizing and role conflicts. I'm certainly going to try to utilize the napping solution! We missed you Shirley! Btw. That top is super cute!!
shirley back at it,missed uuuuuuu!!!!
if your friend hates you for telling them the truth, they were never your friend!
Serious question what team do u support when Ghana and Nigeria are playing each other
Nunana Gamed I think Nigeria lol
abodo kwase Ghanaaaaa😄
abodo kwase I'm both too
abodo kwase the real question is what Jollof rice she supports
naija for sure
AUNTY SHIRLEEEYYYY I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!! LIKE OH MY GOODNESS. THANK YOU FOR GRACING US WITH YOUR PRESENCE! Okay I'll watch the video now. I just had to let this out lol
welcome back you were truly missed
I think she changes my life💕
Alimatou Sadiya Thiam she defo change my fashion sense
😂😂😂😂love it, a nap when under pressure! Genius! I think you may actually be meditating without labelling it. Keep doing you girl and stay fabulous! ❤️❤️❤️
I usually get bored with Q&A, but these were questions I could relate to and answers were genuine and accurate. Thank you Shirley 💜💙💛
I loved this Q&A! You gave some insightful advice! I also love to take a quick nap or exercise when I have anxiety or of a huge amount of stress!
I love how you replied to the being single question
OMG I enjoyed this video so much esp when you talk about being content with being single at the moment
So excited to see you back on your channel
I made the cut 😂😁
Thank you so much for this great video and for answering my question , much love and stay bless 😚😚
Thank God you are back, I miss you so much Shirley 😙😙😙😙😙
Glad to see you back Shirley! ✨😊
Hello Shirley so glad you're back girl. Enjoy your videos
Where have you been Shirley! It's been like foreveeeeer! Hahah I clicked so fast!
Hi Shirley!! It's so nice to see you! I will be waiting for the Friday video for sure😊
Welcome back Shirley!!!
You are very inspirational! You go Shirley💁🏽 much love from The Netherlandsss❤
Love your advice about prioritizing. I'm always pulled in countless directions. My whole life is trying to find balancing these days so I needed this message. =]. You look beautiful as always.
Damn Shirley where u been guh!! lmao glad your back.... i needed you light today! xo!
Annnwww sherleyyyyyyy i missed you finally😍😍😍😍 plz don't disappear again 😞😞😞
Ooooh my days Shirley you're just suuuuch an inspiration !!!! Hey wearing the perfect shade for the day is an essential hahaha I feel ya bein single feels good
Yaaaay so happy you're back Shirley!
I've never been this early. Hi.
Hi!! xx
Shirley B. Eniang omg you actually replied. This made me so happy. I love you and keep making these amazing videos.
I missed you sooo much!! Amazing video as always. ❤❤
YYYeahh Shirley's baccckkkkk !!!!
Wooooo!!!
i missed you so much shirley! welcome back!
omds, my fave is back! I love anime too, my all time favourite is 'one punch man'. Looking gorgeous girl x
love you Shirley...beauty and brains yet so humble...you're so admirable
NOTIFICATION GANG 😍😍😍 shows how LONG IT'S BEEN SHIRLEY
sept style notification gang strronngg
Big sister Shirley, I really enjoyed this video. Keep on being humble, sophisticated and smart.
Friendship break-ups are the saddest however necessary most of the time. 💕 You've been missed, please don't go MIA on us again 🤗😘💕. I love your top and you look amazing 👌🏻.
I love that you love being single. Preach