I HAD A MISSED MISCARRIAGE | MY EXPERIENCE | MEDICAL ABORTION

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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
  • Hey everyone,
    I had a missed miscarriage at 7w and found out at my 12w check-up. Its has been the most devastating experience I've been through. Watching videos of other women has helped me so much and I simply wish to do the same with this video. Let's normalize talking about it.
    WE ARE NOT ALONE.
    Thank you for watching!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @xJRK1NGx
    @xJRK1NGx 2 роки тому +2

    I am amazed and humbled by your transparency. It is so powerful that you shared your experience allowing others, who may suffer alone, to heal knowing a community exists. Your emotion, strength, and insight are invaluable, thank you for highlighting areas our healthcare system & insurance companies need to urgently address to properly protect our future mothers. My heart goes out to you and your fiancée, you know we will always be here for you both.

  • @yismelrosario
    @yismelrosario 2 роки тому +1

    Sending you all the love and prayers. The strength that it takes to open up and share this with the world is unmeasurable. Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍

  • @chan44736
    @chan44736 Рік тому +1

    I lost my baby boy at 20wks due to fibloids,I miss him so much,praying to God for a successful operation and may God open my womb again 🙏

  • @mariarosario8340
    @mariarosario8340 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your experience 💞You are so strong 🥰💞 still praying for you and Teddy

  • @Kim_K22
    @Kim_K22 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for your raw transparency.. ❤ I am also going through this exact same thing with my very first pregnancy for a baby that we have prayed for, for years 😔 most devastating feeling ever. I am so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼💔

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  8 місяців тому

      Oh dear... I'm so sorry you're going through this. There's nothing I can say to make you feel better. Allow yourself to feel everything and talk about it with other women that have or are going through it.

  • @too1508
    @too1508 Рік тому +3

    With miscarriages it’s usually a genetic, chromosomal, etc issue I think. Meaning that there’s nothing that you could’ve done to prevent it. Ofcourse things like smoking and what not can cause issues but in cases you’re not and everything is relatively normal the miscarriage was going to happen regardless. And I hear they tend to happen in the first trimester the most. Don’t beat yourself up about it. It’s a loss, your feelings are valid, give yourself time to mourn. You may not get fully over it ever but you learn to cope with the pain eventually 🌈 keep your head up and cry when you need to it helps. And remember, if you want it still, your time to be a mother is still possible.

  • @Callmenaturee
    @Callmenaturee 6 місяців тому

    Yes this just happened to me today the peace you brought my heart made me cope with this 💗I questioned God even how people who mistreat kids have kids and someone like me wouldn’t hurt a fly can’t have a health baby it’s devastating, it’s so weird but I’ll say the peace u gave brought so much understanding 😩🙏🏾.

  • @andreathompson4874
    @andreathompson4874 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing ❤️ currently going through this right now and I must say, our healthcare system has to do BETTER when things like this happen. They need to prepare us better what what to expect instead of just telling us our "options".

  • @sheredabiggins673
    @sheredabiggins673 2 роки тому +2

    You sound alot like me with my first Miscarriage questioning why with no closure I choose a to have a D&C the next time it happened because you can get genetic testing done to answer some of those questions you have. Finding out why my baby passed gave me closure. I hope you are healing and wish you the best.

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you went through this. I send you baby dust

  • @ohnanachi
    @ohnanachi 2 роки тому +2

    Sending you lots of love mama ❤️❤️ Thank you for being so strong and for sharing your story.

  • @missld6856
    @missld6856 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. I just found out at my 11 week 1 day ultrasound last week that our baby had no heart beat and baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. We had a strong heart beat at 7 weeks so we were unprepared to hear this news. Now I’m waiting to miscarrry naturally I started spotting 3 days ago so waiting for it to come. Considering taking the pill when I see doc today.to get the process going. So sad to say the least. But will be trying again soon. Thanks again for sharing your story❤️

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  2 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a very devastating situation that I don't wish on anyone. May God give you strength to overcome this unbearable pain. Sending you baby dust

  • @erikadelrosario6457
    @erikadelrosario6457 2 роки тому

    Love you so much! you are helping so many women going through the same experience. Thank you for sharing. Always here for you ❤️

  • @qinisomagalela9741
    @qinisomagalela9741 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing. Just went through the same thing this week and currently going through the medical management. Hope that it works because I couldn’t do this again

  • @blissfulreyes4382
    @blissfulreyes4382 2 роки тому

    You are strong, brave, & beautiful. God will bless you again when the time is right. This video will help many other women. Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @nicoleperez7043
    @nicoleperez7043 2 роки тому

    My love,
    Im so sorry for you loss ❤️ sending prayers to you and your family. Stay strong 🥰

  • @elviaesgb
    @elviaesgb 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much. I’m going through this right now and I have no idea what comes next 😞

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  8 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry.... what helps me it's to talk about with other women that have experienced the same thing. I have joined groups on pregnancy apps and it's helped me a lot.

  • @nb2055
    @nb2055 Рік тому

    I’m going through the same thing but different circumstances.
    My baby has many medical deformities so I have no option but to terminate. Such a painful thing to go through I wish it was different 😭I’m sorry my baby

  • @darilmurfitt6512
    @darilmurfitt6512 Рік тому

    I know it’s been a year but thank you for sharing your story. ❤

  • @jacquelinejacobson6789
    @jacquelinejacobson6789 Рік тому

    So sorry how you were treated! You also should have had a full ultrasound when you first went to OB.

  • @simransami6927
    @simransami6927 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this. I am going through it right now.

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  Рік тому +1

      I'm deeply sorry that you had to experience such a traumatic experience. God is always by your side and He will bless you with your rainbow baby. Sending baby dust

    • @simransami6927
      @simransami6927 Рік тому

      @@elainerosario5957 thank you

  • @guadalupelinares
    @guadalupelinares 2 роки тому +3

    😭😭😭😭😭
    Que triste, mi sobrino nieto.
    Cuando los niños vienen con defectos congénitos suelen abortarse solos, Dios en su misericordia nos creó tan perfectos que no prosperan los embarazos de bebés con daños geneticos. Sólo una minoría logra sobrevivir.
    Dios te bendiga y te guarde.
    Es muy difícil emocional y mentalmente.

    • @elainerosario5957
      @elainerosario5957  2 роки тому +1

      Amén tía. Dios tiene el control. Orando por un niñ@ sanito para mandártelo para RD 💋💋

    • @guadalupelinares
      @guadalupelinares 2 роки тому +1

      @@elainerosario5957 así será en el nombre de Jesús

    • @marisoldiaz104
      @marisoldiaz104 Рік тому

      @@elainerosario5957Thank you for the video. I was 19 weeks. I had to go thru labor and see the baby and have a D and C surgery in order to get the placenta out. It all happenin a blink of an eye. It’s so hard after after being far enough in weeks .

  • @Becky3000
    @Becky3000 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing. This video was very helpful. 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @Callmenaturee
    @Callmenaturee 6 місяців тому

    Definitely not period cramps felt so bad like contractions like so much pain like lord Jesus I can never forget that pain !😩🙏🏾

  • @ThelifeofCharquishia
    @ThelifeofCharquishia Рік тому

    Sending ❤ your way I’m going through this alone too

  • @Killadoll
    @Killadoll 2 роки тому

    God bless you beautiful you are so strong! sending you so much love 🤍🙏

  • @ThelifeofCharquishia
    @ThelifeofCharquishia Рік тому

    I didn’t take anything it just happened while I was at work this really hurts and when you don’t have anyone it hurts worse.

  • @abbeyna01
    @abbeyna01 Рік тому +1

    God owes us a lot of explanations. I have so many questions

    • @keepingupwithdiamond1414
      @keepingupwithdiamond1414 Рік тому

      God don’t owe you anything your never even suppose too question god everything happens for a reason

    • @DiligentThroat
      @DiligentThroat Рік тому

      @@keepingupwithdiamond1414so don’t question women then. Tf?

  • @ThelifeofCharquishia
    @ThelifeofCharquishia Рік тому

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @desmund6019
    @desmund6019 2 роки тому

    Great! keep it coming :D!

    • @wtfucculent
      @wtfucculent 2 роки тому

      Did you really say "great" after she just talked about something so sad

  • @ashapaharsingh818
    @ashapaharsingh818 Рік тому

    I am coming through this right now