I feel your pain after loosing my daughter in April at 21 weeks and also feeling so guilty for not enjoying the pregnancy and things I could have done differently. In therapy I have since learned the importance of feeling guilty amidst trauma and crisis. It feels “better” to feel guilty instead of feeling helpless or at the mercy of the universe. Guilt in this context can help to fell in control or regain control again. Learning that has helped me a lot. Like you mentioned everyone telling me it is not my fault didn’t change how I felt, but acknowledging that feeling guilty was a part of it all and a step in the process did. I never post anything on here but I resonated deeply with some things you said after quitely following your journey, that I felt the urge to share this with you. I hope you find more resources to help you get through this grief! Just one day at a time!
I know it feels shitty. When I had my loses It comforted me to know what's ment to be will be, and that I couldnt change what I couldn't control. Sending big hugs! Lots of love! I'm new to your channel. And you've become like a friend that chats to me and It is so helpful as a mumma ❤
Oh my lovely I'm so sorry for your loss i had a miscarriage in July 2017 at 6 weeks pregnant nothing in this world can erase the pain we go through after a loss. I felt like a failure and felt so low that I had to have my depression medication dosage increased. But 4 months later found out was expecting my rainbow baby had so many problems though with the pregnancy bleeding and hypermisis gravadium (severe sickness) they thought my waters broke at 22 weeks I'd never been so scared 😢 but thank the lord it was a false alarm I now have a very beautiful 5 year old daughter I will be praying for you and your family 🙏 ❤ xxxx
Same here Megan, I don’t need a reply from you you’re going through enough so don’t worry about us, we support you and hope our words help you in some way. I’ve just caught up with your part 2, Megan I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience which I’m sure will help other ladies in your position. I personally suffered with extreme contractions when I miscarried and I’m relieved you didn’t go through that along with all the severe blood loss. Take one day at a time for now, just focus on today and take your time to get through this at your own comfortable speed, the walking and healthy eating is a really good start and you should be proud of yourself for pushing yourself towards this each day. After my 10 week miscarriage I also wanted to give up but I don’t have any live children yet and being 41 giving up for me isn’t an option, I’ve since had 3 more chemicals I just pray my baby will one day stick, it’s just so scary to not know the future. I only want one 🙏🏼 I’ve been watching your pregnancy journey for some time now and you’ve actually started to feel like a friend, so please look upon this message as full support and care, and a virtual hug too, you are not alone xxx ❤️🌹
Praying for you.❤ I experienced two miscarriages and one was a surprise that started on the toilet, and it was like labor to me with cramps. I understand your burial concept, but I was just in shock when it happened to me to think of burials both times. 😢😢 I still miss them😇. ❤Take Care.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I know how hard it is to talk about to even the people closest to you. You are in a vortex and it takes time to come out of it. I hope and pray that you will find something that helps to ease your heart ❤️. I'm sending you so many hugs.
Erica you have been through so much, I am so sorry for your loss and I am sure you will have the healing time you need to come to terms with this tragic loss . There is light at the end of the tunnel with your loving family they will Get you through this xxx
Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing this experience. I know the appointment with the resident doctors was painful and awkward but know they will carry the memory with them for the rest of their lives. Inevitably they will encounter someone in the future in similar circumstances and they will draw on that experience to offer them grace, respect, and comfort. Hang in there.
I had my first misscarriage in 2022 that resulted in a DnC. Then i got pregnant my second cycle and had a healthy baby in 2023. i got pregnant again in feb 2024 which im experiencing my second misscarriage right now... This experience is not something i would wish on my worst enemy.. its a feeling of pure hatred that im devistated to feel for a second time... i hope youre feeling better today than you were 5 months ago
I feel this so much, the day we found out what we were having, i did that sneak peak at exactly 6 weeks, it took a while to get the results, i started spotting 😢it’s like i went from being in heaven to taken immediately to hell again. It happened so fast i passed out and was taken by ambulance, to the hospital. As they were taking me out and as i was in that ambulance, i was just like wishing i would die but not if that makes since. I was humiliated broken and just wanted to escape where i was, back to the happy moments. My husband asked what i wanted to do as far as trying again, and i just cried and cried and cried, that Cinderella song just came to me, i kid you not, and i told him about it, and said, you know what?, i feel like if i give up, then all these years of trying would be wasted and I’d feel like we came this FAR just to come this FAR, was not gonna be good for me, i wanted to continue and not give up. I’ve been criticized by my sisters of being selfish for trying again after 2 losses and putting the family through such a scare passing out n all. It broke me into pieces. Here i am tho back to ttc again, because it’s my dream to have a baby with my husband and have to believe it will all work out as hard as it is, i felt like if i gave up, i would always look back and wonder WHAT IF??? What if you did keep dreaming n trying, would it of happened? I know everyone is dif so this is just how i felt, trying again helps me.😢and one day i hope it’s all worth it💜
My Heart Goes Out to You... I had Pergonal miscarriages with my fertility doctor... My Dearest Daughter is an IVF Baby...I miscarried her twin...it took a month...My Obstetricians were afraid I was going to miscarry her... My water broke at 36 weeks...I had a prolapsed cord which is an Obstetrics Emergency...I had an Emergency C Section to save her life...She is My Miracle Baby... Sending you lots of caring thoughts&hugs...
You are still in my prayers, it's been a little over a year since I miscarried my twins at 12 weeks. There are still moments where I can't stop the tears and it's ok. Sending prayers and hugs your way
Im so sorry for your loss. Please know that none of it was your fault. In fact, you were probably feeling stressed and anxious because the miscarriage had already happened and your body was sad. I cried hearing your story. I pray to God to restore your health, physically, mentally and emotionally ❤
I broke down when you said you collected the rests .......... im so sorry my dear. I'm really sorry. I understand.... I had one loss too.im truly sorry to hear that lovely 😢
I was going through the same situation 1 yr ago …… I can feel ur pain ….. I just want to get pregnant again desperately….lots n lots of love to u 💕💕💕….
I feel like you were pregnant with twins 👼🏻👼🏻 I also feel that once you’ve grieved for these sweet little ones, you’ll be ready to conceive again & a little girl will come to you around July 2024 🎀🤰🏻(pregnancy around July, not born in July)
Just want to share my sweet boys name here , Michael ❤ we lost him as a stillborn at 22 weeks gestation after my water broke and found out I have an incompetent cervix
I feel your pain after loosing my daughter in April at 21 weeks and also feeling so guilty for not enjoying the pregnancy and things I could have done differently. In therapy I have since learned the importance of feeling guilty amidst trauma and crisis. It feels “better” to feel guilty instead of feeling helpless or at the mercy of the universe. Guilt in this context can help to fell in control or regain control again. Learning that has helped me a lot. Like you mentioned everyone telling me it is not my fault didn’t change how I felt, but acknowledging that feeling guilty was a part of it all and a step in the process did.
I never post anything on here but I resonated deeply with some things you said after quitely following your journey, that I felt the urge to share this with you.
I hope you find more resources to help you get through this grief! Just one day at a time!
Sweet lady, thankyou for being brave to share your story. I pray for peace over your broken heart❤️❤️
I thank you for sharing your experience with your loss 😢 you are so brave for doing so ❤ Sending all the love and 🙏 to you and your family x
I know it feels shitty. When I had my loses It comforted me to know what's ment to be will be, and that I couldnt change what I couldn't control. Sending big hugs! Lots of love! I'm new to your channel. And you've become like a friend that chats to me and It is so helpful as a mumma ❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I can relate as just experienced a miscarriage almost 2 weeks ago
Oh my lovely I'm so sorry for your loss i had a miscarriage in July 2017 at 6 weeks pregnant nothing in this world can erase the pain we go through after a loss. I felt like a failure and felt so low that I had to have my depression medication dosage increased. But 4 months later found out was expecting my rainbow baby had so many problems though with the pregnancy bleeding and hypermisis gravadium (severe sickness) they thought my waters broke at 22 weeks I'd never been so scared 😢 but thank the lord it was a false alarm I now have a very beautiful 5 year old daughter
I will be praying for you and your family 🙏 ❤ xxxx
Take care of yourself and family! Will always watch your videos. Sending hugs and hugs to you from Minnesota
Same here Megan, I don’t need a reply from you you’re going through enough so don’t worry about us, we support you and hope our words help you in some way.
I’ve just caught up with your part 2, Megan I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience which I’m sure will help other ladies in your position. I personally suffered with extreme contractions when I miscarried and I’m relieved you didn’t go through that along with all the severe blood loss.
Take one day at a time for now, just focus on today and take your time to get through this at your own comfortable speed, the walking and healthy eating is a really good start and you should be proud of yourself for pushing yourself towards this each day.
After my 10 week miscarriage I also wanted to give up but I don’t have any live children yet and being 41 giving up for me isn’t an option, I’ve since had 3 more chemicals I just pray my baby will one day stick, it’s just so scary to not know the future. I only want one 🙏🏼
I’ve been watching your pregnancy journey for some time now and you’ve actually started to feel like a friend, so please look upon this message as full support and care, and a virtual hug too, you are not alone xxx ❤️🌹
Praying for you.❤ I experienced two miscarriages and one was a surprise that started on the toilet, and it was like labor to me with cramps. I understand your burial concept, but I was just in shock when it happened to me to think of burials both times. 😢😢 I still miss them😇. ❤Take Care.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I know how hard it is to talk about to even the people closest to you. You are in a vortex and it takes time to come out of it. I hope and pray that you will find something that helps to ease your heart ❤️. I'm sending you so many hugs.
Erica you have been through so much, I am so sorry for your loss and I am sure you will have the healing time you need to come to terms with this tragic loss . There is light at the end of the tunnel with your loving family they will
Get you through this xxx
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Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing this experience. I know the appointment with the resident doctors was painful and awkward but know they will carry the memory with them for the rest of their lives. Inevitably they will encounter
someone in the future in similar circumstances and they will draw on that experience to offer them grace, respect, and comfort. Hang in there.
I had my first misscarriage in 2022 that resulted in a DnC. Then i got pregnant my second cycle and had a healthy baby in 2023. i got pregnant again in feb 2024 which im experiencing my second misscarriage right now... This experience is not something i would wish on my worst enemy.. its a feeling of pure hatred that im devistated to feel for a second time... i hope youre feeling better today than you were 5 months ago
I feel this so much, the day we found out what we were having, i did that sneak peak at exactly 6 weeks, it took a while to get the results, i started spotting 😢it’s like i went from being in heaven to taken immediately to hell again. It happened so fast i passed out and was taken by ambulance, to the hospital. As they were taking me out and as i was in that ambulance, i was just like wishing i would die but not if that makes since. I was humiliated broken and just wanted to escape where i was, back to the happy moments. My husband asked what i wanted to do as far as trying again, and i just cried and cried and cried, that Cinderella song just came to me, i kid you not, and i told him about it, and said, you know what?, i feel like if i give up, then all these years of trying would be wasted and I’d feel like we came this FAR just to come this FAR, was not gonna be good for me, i wanted to continue and not give up. I’ve been criticized by my sisters of being selfish for trying again after 2 losses and putting the family through such a scare passing out n all. It broke me into pieces. Here i am tho back to ttc again, because it’s my dream to have a baby with my husband and have to believe it will all work out as hard as it is, i felt like if i gave up, i would always look back and wonder WHAT IF??? What if you did keep dreaming n trying, would it of happened? I know everyone is dif so this is just how i felt, trying again helps me.😢and one day i hope it’s all worth it💜
My Heart Goes Out to You...
I had Pergonal miscarriages with my fertility doctor...
My Dearest Daughter is an IVF Baby...I
miscarried her twin...it took a month...My Obstetricians were afraid I was going to miscarry her...
My water broke at 36 weeks...I had a prolapsed cord which is an Obstetrics Emergency...I had an Emergency C Section to save her life...She is My Miracle Baby...
Sending you lots of caring thoughts&hugs...
You are still in my prayers, it's been a little over a year since I miscarried my twins at 12 weeks. There are still moments where I can't stop the tears and it's ok. Sending prayers and hugs your way
Im so sorry for your loss. Please know that none of it was your fault. In fact, you were probably feeling stressed and anxious because the miscarriage had already happened and your body was sad. I cried hearing your story. I pray to God to restore your health, physically, mentally and emotionally ❤
I broke down when you said you collected the rests
.......... im so sorry my dear. I'm really sorry. I understand.... I had one loss too.im truly sorry to hear that lovely 😢
The song that reminds me to my angel baby is Airplanes by Paramore......
Sending you a big hug from Texas
Sending you so much love ❤
Hey, as far as I'm concerned I don't need a reply, if my comment helped you in any way then that's good enough, you take care of yourself, big hugs xx
You are sooooo incredible ❤
I was going through the same situation 1 yr ago …… I can feel ur pain ….. I just want to get pregnant again desperately….lots n lots of love to u 💕💕💕….
I didn’t write my comment for thanks babe. Don’t even think you need to respond. Sending so so so much love your way ❤
I feel like you were pregnant with twins 👼🏻👼🏻
I also feel that once you’ve grieved for these sweet little ones, you’ll be ready to conceive again & a little girl will come to you around July 2024 🎀🤰🏻(pregnancy around July, not born in July)
Just want to share my sweet boys name here , Michael ❤ we lost him as a stillborn at 22 weeks gestation after my water broke and found out I have an incompetent cervix
I understand about that I had to remove my twins from the toilet
Just try one more time. They say rainbow babies come after a miscarriage. Just one more try and give it your best...
This was my fourth miscarriage in a row this year. I just can’t anymore. I just.. can’t.