Thankuuu so much I needed this recently I've heard a lot of false sayings about islam and women being less which kinda shaked my faith a little but thanks to Allah then u guys... these doubts r now all gone alhamdullilah mashallah Thankuuu. I knew the Lord is the fair so I doubted what I heard but still u kinda need evidence from quran and sunnah.and here alhamdullilah I found all the evidence about us being equal.
Men and women are different both physically and spiritually. Allah SWT gave rights to both gender in different ways. In some part women got more rights and in other parts to men to balance it out. Allah is just. Problem is our society and culture. Society and culture took away the rights of women in the name of Islam when Islam gave women the highest honour and rights. Many people now a days follow cultural version of Islam instead of the real Islam and that's the root of all problems. Everything has turned into gender war now. You can't even go to a normal comment section without someone turning it into a gender war. Muslim youth are following non Muslims and their ideology and even accepting the munafiqs instead of doing their own research. You can feel the immense hatred towards women from men that it has become frightening. Muslim young men now a days act like red pillers and incels online and in real life. Instead of following islamic ideology they prefer the dude bros that spread hatred. And women as a result start following liberal ideology instead. Look at Iran. Do you really think those women would have burned their hijab if real islamic ideology was followed by the government? No. They forced and murdered women to the point women had enough. Even men there were fed up and stood by the side of their women. Muslim youth is misguided and following the wrong people. They don't realise that by doing so, they're not only harming the image of Islam, they're harming their souls. They're bitter and angry all the time. Instead of spending time with Allah, they spend more times on hating on opposite gender. This comment will trigger people who're like this but the people who are actually Muslim in action they'd understand what I'm talking about.
There are more femcels then incels it's women who try to change the religion according to their own will mostly changing verses and interpreting their own meanings.tofay women aren't the victims men are
If one verse says men are superior and a different verse says men are not superior, the Quran contradicts itself and is wrong. The Quran says women are not equal to men. Sura 2:228 . Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status Sura 4:34 Men are managers of the affairs of women because Allah has made the one superior to the other. Sura 4:11 The share of the male shall be twice that of a female A woman's testimony isn't the equal of a man's testimony: Sura 2:282 And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her. Sura 2:282 The Prophet said, "Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said, "Yes." He said, "This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind."
I agree with everything you have said here and jazak Allahu khairan on the great video. But I think something important that you failed to mention (with all due respect) is that women in Islam must listen and obey to their husband's as long as they don't tell them to do something which is haram. Now when someone listens to this, it doesnt sit well in their mind because they think automatically of all the negative misconceptions of husbands and their wives in Islam. For example husbands beating their wives or oppressing them etc... but why must we think like this? Like the brother said, Women have the right to choose their husbands, so they should choose someone that they have no problem listening to. If the woman feels as though the man truly fears Allah and lives only for the sake of Allah, then that husband will never be oppressive and Allah will inshAllah bless that marriage, this is why woman need to be careful in who they choose for marriage. Jazak again for the presentation
The man should listen to his wife too as long as it's not haram it's mutual it goes both ways Islam is balance if your wife listens to u , you listen to her . Obeying everything your husband says is not mandatory it's the relationship you're supposed to build
@@no__jams5574 Yes, at the end of the day it's your wife and you live her, so of course your going to listen to her. The prophets wives often times advised the prophet, but at the end of the day, the decision was his to make. Allah made the man the leader of the house
@@no__jams5574 Yes, at the end of the day it's your wife and you live her, so of course your going to listen to her. The prophets wives often times advised the prophet, but at the end of the day, the decision was his to make. Allah made the man the leader of the house
Actually, BOTH parents should make decisions based on FACTS and who has researched more not based on 'Opinion' or gender. The reason we know this: the PROPHET s.a.w's Wives were all Orphans + Widows + Divorcees ALL except Ai'sha, peace be upon them, and he LISTENED to them for ADVICE and Umm Salama for the treaty of Hudaybiyyah which allowed Muslims to go on Pilgrimage etc. Ibn Malik's teacher was also a WOMAN, people like this helped FIGHT wars even in the frontlines so you can be sure they cared JUST AS MUCH about protecting their families and wanting the best for the nation......Whilst a man with PURE intentions is super important, it doesn't NEGATE the fact that decisions concerning the family should be based on FACTS and COMPETENCE not on your 'gender' LOL as NO SINGLE PERSON is competent in EVERYTHING.......... Also, you're not factoring in the Societal/Familial pressure on Women to get married before 30yrs else risk being seen as 'Leftover women' or 'Defective woman' for not being married by that age. Choosing a GOOD, healthy, COMPETENT, KIND partner is not easy at all, especially if you're more Conservative.
Narrated 'Aisha: Do you make us (women) equal to dogs and donkeys? While I used to lie in my bed, the Prophet would come and pray facing the middle of the bed. I used to consider it not good to stand in front of him in his prayers. So I used to slip away slowly and quietly from the foot of the bed till I got out of my guilt. (Sahih Bukhari 1.486, cf. Sahih Bukhari 1.490, Sahih Bukhari 1.493, Sahih Bukhari 1.498)
Thnk u so much ...u thaught very well...in our culture men are considered superior to women😔they cherry pick the ayat and interpret that in their own way...
Nothing of these happens in Afghanistan Why,,, in pakistan other religious woman are percicuted even sometimes to their own women....and honer killing of a 17 year old wife.....and continues
Because our religion Hates us along with all other religions,they will write paras on how Islam respects us but in truth it does not,Allah and God or whoever ,nature just created women to get fucked over again and again
But when u talk about equality when identicality doesn’t exist, it is subjective and one person cannot say for everyone that it is equal. For example, if I have two offspring and give one apple juice and one orange juice in the same amounts with the same amount of nutritional value, then it may seem equal, but will only be so if both like the orange juice as much as the apple juice and vice versa.
It's not about liking but what they actually need. Medicine doesn't taste sweet all the time but we've to take bitter medicine cause it's good for us. It does not matter if we dislike it.
Contracts, legal, rights..... THAT IS PAST! Today, we have OTHER SCRIPTS written by EDUCATED SCHOLARS that are SUPERIOR to those written hundreds of years ago. Conclusion, Women are of EQUAL IMPORTANCE TO SOCIETY AS MEN. We should treat women EQUALS and provide EQUAL RIGHTS. Is this TOO COMPLICATED FOR ALLAH?
She is allowed to do so... As long as she is able to maintain the rules of the religion(for eg hijab) . My mother goes on business trips too (alone) :) Peace be upon you brother /sister 😊
it has been explained thousands of time since the word used in arabic in the verse doesn't mean beating , just striking lightly (without leaving any marks , not even red , and not touch the face ) scholars have agreed that the kind of striking is with a miswak ( less than a toothbrush) it won't cause any harm , and as a muslim women it doesn't bother me , since it really won't cause aany harm , just people like to take it out of context and make islam look bad , and it's their loss , since they will regret is the day of judgment
You can search it up on youtube and hear the lecture of sir nouman ali khan. He explains it beautifully as to how men can't and must never use that verse to abuse women.
what about al-nisa 34 ? always trying to give the Quran an aesthetic toch. Why do you deny these sentences that are written clearly? Then you would come and tell me, that the man is only allowed to beat his wife using a mistake without leaving any bruises. Just ridiculous the way you soften all those verses.
Dear, you can’t understand the Quraan yourself, to do that you have to know the Arabic first then the hadith and context of ayah, you need to comine hadith and Quraan, then you can understand for what it is said to beat women. If a women is stopping her husband to not to do intercourse ( without any proper reason) then men have right to separate her bed and stop talking with her (its the first step) and if she still stops her husband to do so then men have right to beat her wife. Word ; فالضربوهن means discipline them lightly it doesn’t mean a man can beat wife too much or can kill her. Ibne abbas and several other said : beating that is not voilent Hasan basri said : beating which is not severe
Lemme get this one thing clear at first- A man can't even lightly beat his wife for any matter like giving to much sugar in tea or not cooking as per his taste or even for not wearing the hijab anymore putta her own choice. This is bcuz at the very first place in the ayat Allah mentions men to be the caretaker of women and so they can never do amything detrimental to them. Now, coming to the beating prt, a man if and only if "fears" that his wife is having an affair and such the very first thing he must do is advicing her. If that doesn't wrk and she continues to overstep her boundaries to the limit that her huabamd gets very hurt and agitated at her that he, out of impulse, like any other human being, gravs her tight and beat her lightly for that matter, Allah allows it. That is, only in case of such a rare circumstance can a man beat his wife. Otherwise it is a major sin for misusinf this ayat. Furthermore at the end of the ayat Allah mentions that He is above all the Highest. By saying so, He establishes the fact that men are not at a position of authority over women and indeed He is the Highest. Btw to add to that, He mentions in the very sam ayat that He has preferred some over the others. Buttt He says "some" here not "men" which refers to the fact that women have been preferred over men in other circumstances. And indeed Allah is the Wisest. Edit: I forgot to mention that 1st is advising, 2nd is to stop sleeping with her and 3rd is beating.
@@farhanaakhter6406 Our whole Hanafis scholars are agree on that there are so many orders in the Quran which are used to give permission.Those who knows Quranic grammer,they knows it. This verse which talks about wife beating is not an ORDER that must be followed but its a PERMISSION.If husband dont want to beat his wife,its his choice. For example in Qura 5:2 Allah says when you are out from ihraam then hunt. So we have not seen that every haji is doing hunting after out from ihram during haj time.So its a choice
"Are Women Equal to Men?" How many mosques have woman imams? How many Muslim families have the husband stay home to raise the children while the wife goes to work?
We should not be influenced by the western society and try to change ours to show that we are as good as western. The equality people should think that man (Adam) was created before Eve. She was created for companionship of Adam. Angels were asked to bow down in front of Adam not Eve. In Quran it is mentioned a couple of times that men is one grade higher than woman..... My two cents.
Thankuuu so much I needed this recently I've heard a lot of false sayings about islam and women being less which kinda shaked my faith a little but thanks to Allah then u guys... these doubts r now all gone alhamdullilah mashallah Thankuuu. I knew the Lord is the fair so I doubted what I heard but still u kinda need evidence from quran and sunnah.and here alhamdullilah I found all the evidence about us being equal.
If you think so go marry 4 husbands 😂😂 I swear they will chase you from 🕌
Men and women are different both physically and spiritually. Allah SWT gave rights to both gender in different ways. In some part women got more rights and in other parts to men to balance it out. Allah is just. Problem is our society and culture. Society and culture took away the rights of women in the name of Islam when Islam gave women the highest honour and rights. Many people now a days follow cultural version of Islam instead of the real Islam and that's the root of all problems. Everything has turned into gender war now. You can't even go to a normal comment section without someone turning it into a gender war. Muslim youth are following non Muslims and their ideology and even accepting the munafiqs instead of doing their own research. You can feel the immense hatred towards women from men that it has become frightening. Muslim young men now a days act like red pillers and incels online and in real life. Instead of following islamic ideology they prefer the dude bros that spread hatred. And women as a result start following liberal ideology instead. Look at Iran. Do you really think those women would have burned their hijab if real islamic ideology was followed by the government? No. They forced and murdered women to the point women had enough. Even men there were fed up and stood by the side of their women. Muslim youth is misguided and following the wrong people. They don't realise that by doing so, they're not only harming the image of Islam, they're harming their souls. They're bitter and angry all the time. Instead of spending time with Allah, they spend more times on hating on opposite gender. This comment will trigger people who're like this but the people who are actually Muslim in action they'd understand what I'm talking about.
There are more femcels then incels it's women who try to change the religion according to their own will mostly changing verses and interpreting their own meanings.tofay women aren't the victims men are
Thank you so much. I was in need of these answers 😭😭😭😭😭
why should such background sounds be placed in such an instructive video. Subhana'Allah and the sound sounds like coming from the church
Sir, it would be very helpful if you could give the references to what you are saying. Thank you.
What a strong speech Mashallah
SUPERB!! thanks!
I am fascinated may God bless him as all I heard till now is men is one digree superior in this world by using verse 3.34
If one verse says men are superior and a different verse says men are not superior, the Quran contradicts itself and is wrong.
The Quran says women are not equal to men.
Sura 2:228 . Wives have the same rights as the husbands have on them in accordance with the generally known principles. Of course, men are a degree above them in status
Sura 4:34 Men are managers of the affairs of women because Allah has made the one superior to the other.
Sura 4:11 The share of the male shall be twice that of a female
A woman's testimony isn't the equal of a man's testimony:
Sura 2:282 And let two men from among you bear witness to all such documents [contracts of loans without interest]. But if two men be not available, there should be one man and two women to bear witness so that if one of the women forgets (anything), the other may remind her.
Sura 2:282 The Prophet said, "Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?" The women said, "Yes." He said, "This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind."
MaShaAllah
I agree with everything you have said here and jazak Allahu khairan on the great video. But I think something important that you failed to mention (with all due respect) is that women in Islam must listen and obey to their husband's as long as they don't tell them to do something which is haram. Now when someone listens to this, it doesnt sit well in their mind because they think automatically of all the negative misconceptions of husbands and their wives in Islam. For example husbands beating their wives or oppressing them etc... but why must we think like this? Like the brother said, Women have the right to choose their husbands, so they should choose someone that they have no problem listening to. If the woman feels as though the man truly fears Allah and lives only for the sake of Allah, then that husband will never be oppressive and Allah will inshAllah bless that marriage, this is why woman need to be careful in who they choose for marriage. Jazak again for the presentation
he said it when he talked about 4: 34
The man should listen to his wife too as long as it's not haram it's mutual it goes both ways Islam is balance if your wife listens to u , you listen to her . Obeying everything your husband says is not mandatory it's the relationship you're supposed to build
@@no__jams5574 Yes, at the end of the day it's your wife and you live her, so of course your going to listen to her. The prophets wives often times advised the prophet, but at the end of the day, the decision was his to make. Allah made the man the leader of the house
@@no__jams5574 Yes, at the end of the day it's your wife and you live her, so of course your going to listen to her. The prophets wives often times advised the prophet, but at the end of the day, the decision was his to make. Allah made the man the leader of the house
Actually, BOTH parents should make decisions based on FACTS and who has researched more not based on 'Opinion' or gender. The reason we know this: the PROPHET s.a.w's Wives were all Orphans + Widows + Divorcees ALL except Ai'sha, peace be upon them, and he LISTENED to them for ADVICE and Umm Salama for the treaty of Hudaybiyyah which allowed Muslims to go on Pilgrimage etc. Ibn Malik's teacher was also a WOMAN, people like this helped FIGHT wars even in the frontlines so you can be sure they cared JUST AS MUCH about protecting their families and wanting the best for the nation......Whilst a man with PURE intentions is super important, it doesn't NEGATE the fact that decisions concerning the family should be based on FACTS and COMPETENCE not on your 'gender' LOL as NO SINGLE PERSON is competent in EVERYTHING..........
Also, you're not factoring in the Societal/Familial pressure on Women to get married before 30yrs else risk being seen as 'Leftover women' or 'Defective woman' for not being married by that age. Choosing a GOOD, healthy, COMPETENT, KIND partner is not easy at all, especially if you're more Conservative.
Excellent knowledge.
Maybe a woman should have done the talk instead of the man.
Peace
He's great too
Doesn't make any difference in the message that's conveyed🤷♀️
I'm happy that a man is promoting feminism
@@vvasima_3507 a man doesn't promote feminism. Only demonic forces promote evil.
@@smokeybirdman its not evil bro. He is speaking the truth actually.
Amazing explanation, Masha Allah. Really helpful for all those who think islam oppress's women 🌟🌟🌟🌟 actually it uplifts her status ❤️❤️
Narrated 'Aisha: Do you make us (women) equal to dogs and donkeys? While I used to lie in my bed, the Prophet would come and pray facing the middle of the bed. I used to consider it not good to stand in front of him in his prayers. So I used to slip away slowly and quietly from the foot of the bed till I got out of my guilt. (Sahih Bukhari 1.486, cf. Sahih Bukhari 1.490, Sahih Bukhari 1.493, Sahih Bukhari 1.498)
Thnk u so much ...u thaught very well...in our culture men are considered superior to women😔they cherry pick the ayat and interpret that in their own way...
"And the male is not like the female." (Quran 3:36)
Which mazhab does u follow..?
Nothing of these happens in Afghanistan Why,,, in pakistan other religious woman are percicuted even sometimes to their own women....and honer killing of a 17 year old wife.....and continues
Because our religion Hates us along with all other religions,they will write paras on how Islam respects us but in truth it does not,Allah and God or whoever ,nature just created women to get fucked over again and again
uh mentioned a 17 yr old wife.but there are many young men killed there why not mentioning them
@@saacidsahal7270 if it is because of this religion ? What good of that religion ? And this vedio about womens rights...😀 you people are so funny.
Honour killing is haram.
@@augierogers84 "Honour Killing" has nothing to do with Islam
But when u talk about equality when identicality doesn’t exist, it is subjective and one person cannot say for everyone that it is equal. For example, if I have two offspring and give one apple juice and one orange juice in the same amounts with the same amount of nutritional value, then it may seem equal, but will only be so if both like the orange juice as much as the apple juice and vice versa.
Shut up
It's not about liking but what they actually need. Medicine doesn't taste sweet all the time but we've to take bitter medicine cause it's good for us. It does not matter if we dislike it.
Contracts, legal, rights..... THAT IS PAST! Today, we have OTHER SCRIPTS written by EDUCATED SCHOLARS that are SUPERIOR to those written hundreds of years ago. Conclusion, Women are of EQUAL IMPORTANCE TO SOCIETY AS MEN. We should treat women EQUALS and provide EQUAL RIGHTS. Is this TOO COMPLICATED FOR ALLAH?
What about a woman's right to study, work and sometimes travel for her work or in order to study in foreign countries without a mahram
She is allowed to do so... As long as she is able to maintain the rules of the religion(for eg hijab) . My mother goes on business trips too (alone) :)
Peace be upon you brother /sister 😊
no problem at all in Islam. Everything you asked is allowed. Same goes for men
yes she can
In islam, she's allowed
In islam portrayed by extremists, shes not allowed. Theres the difference
@Justyna Stefania I. 🙄Poor u
Cooling detect then I found it one I lve
Quran verse 4:34??
Tafsir and hadith can explain it
it has been explained thousands of time since the word used in arabic in the verse doesn't mean beating , just striking lightly (without leaving any marks , not even red , and not touch the face ) scholars have agreed that the kind of striking is with a miswak ( less than a toothbrush) it won't cause any harm , and as a muslim women it doesn't bother me , since it really won't cause aany harm , just people like to take it out of context and make islam look bad , and it's their loss , since they will regret is the day of judgment
@@hadil7717 Yeah Sure
You can search it up on youtube and hear the lecture of sir nouman ali khan. He explains it beautifully as to how men can't and must never use that verse to abuse women.
@@farhanaakhter6406 Why dosen't Muslims wants to live in Muslim countries???
VATTAN
what about al-nisa 34 ? always trying to give the Quran an aesthetic toch. Why do you deny these sentences that are written clearly? Then you would come and tell me, that the man is only allowed to beat his wife using a mistake without leaving any bruises. Just ridiculous the way you soften all those verses.
Dear, you can’t understand the Quraan yourself, to do that you have to know the Arabic first then the hadith and context of ayah, you need to comine hadith and Quraan, then you can understand for what it is said to beat women.
If a women is stopping her husband to not to do intercourse ( without any proper reason) then men have right to separate her bed and stop talking with her (its the first step) and if she still stops her husband to do so then men have right to beat her wife.
Word ; فالضربوهن means discipline them lightly
it doesn’t mean a man can beat wife too much or can kill her.
Ibne abbas and several other said : beating that is not voilent
Hasan basri said : beating which is not severe
The verse is in order.The first thing is advising her.I dont think that a logical women will ever do something wrong after advice.
Lemme get this one thing clear at first-
A man can't even lightly beat his wife for any matter like giving to much sugar in tea or not cooking as per his taste or even for not wearing the hijab anymore putta her own choice. This is bcuz at the very first place in the ayat Allah mentions men to be the caretaker of women and so they can never do amything detrimental to them. Now, coming to the beating prt, a man if and only if "fears" that his wife is having an affair and such the very first thing he must do is advicing her. If that doesn't wrk and she continues to overstep her boundaries to the limit that her huabamd gets very hurt and agitated at her that he, out of impulse, like any other human being, gravs her tight and beat her lightly for that matter, Allah allows it. That is, only in case of such a rare circumstance can a man beat his wife. Otherwise it is a major sin for misusinf this ayat. Furthermore at the end of the ayat Allah mentions that He is above all the Highest. By saying so, He establishes the fact that men are not at a position of authority over women and indeed He is the Highest. Btw to add to that, He mentions in the very sam ayat that He has preferred some over the others. Buttt He says "some" here not "men" which refers to the fact that women have been preferred over men in other circumstances. And indeed Allah is the Wisest.
Edit: I forgot to mention that 1st is advising, 2nd is to stop sleeping with her and 3rd is beating.
@@farhanaakhter6406 Our whole Hanafis scholars are agree on that there are so many orders in the Quran which are used to give permission.Those who knows Quranic grammer,they knows it.
This verse which talks about wife beating is not an ORDER that must be followed but its a PERMISSION.If husband dont want to beat his wife,its his choice.
For example in Qura 5:2
Allah says when you are out from ihraam then hunt.
So we have not seen that every haji is doing hunting after out from ihram during haj time.So its a choice
@@muslimboyilyas775 yeah, well I agree.🙂
"Are Women Equal to Men?"
How many mosques have woman imams?
How many Muslim families have the husband stay home to raise the children while the wife goes to work?
Women and men are very different physically and mentally. But women absolutely deserve the same human rights men have.
@@orctzy2948 That doesn't answer the question.
We should not be influenced by the western society and try to change ours to show that we are as good as western. The equality people should think that man (Adam) was created before Eve. She was created for companionship of Adam. Angels were asked to bow down in front of Adam not Eve. In Quran it is mentioned a couple of times that men is one grade higher than woman..... My two cents.
Men and women are equal stop it please
@@filsanmohamed3266 You have the right to have an opinion.
@@moinuddin8395 we have the right to literally do anything you do
@SpeedyArrow_420 huh??🤦♀️
@SEHUN BTS SHINEE Yes, so Adam was created first and the Eve later to accompany him NOT the other way round!!! Use your brain to think!!!
jazakallah khairan sheikh very well spoken lecture full of knowledge and wisdom
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Equal!!!!!😂😂😂😂