Side note* They do have woman’s only AA meetings and men’s only AA meetings here, but I would say a good 85% of the meetings here are men and women. Forgot to say that in the video!!! Love y’all! 💯
I believe it's a habit. An insidious, harmful, difficult habit but a habit nonetheless. I was heavily addicted to crack and meth over 10 years ago. Tore my life to shambles. Getting off those substances was hard for sure, but once I got some space from them I just decided I was happier without them than with them. No daily battle, no need for meetings or anything to 'maintain recovery' whatever the heck that means. I just moved on. Anyone can! The recovery society doesn't want people to know this because they won't get their dollars in the basket. It's about money and control. Best of luck to you on your journey! P.S. I had to let the 'addict' label go. If I didn't I'd probably be still on drugs. I'm a human being that formed and broke a bad habit. Straight up.
I like this point of view brother and it’s not talked about much!!! I have mixed feelings about calling myself an alcoholic and kind of keeping that mindset because of what you said. Thanks for being truthful!!! You don’t hear this enough!!!! 🙏
Most people actually are immature when they start with the excessive drinking and partying, but when all your friends move on and you find yourself unable to, that’s when you know it’s a disease.
They say it's also 'arrested development' and we mentally stay stuck in the age where our drinking took over (eg. early 20's). There's definitely something to the 'not wanting to grow up' thing though, I was very much a Peter Pan of alcohol! I became a weird Russell Brand/Heath Ledger's Joker character when I was drunk.
My alcoholism is just a recurring nightmare. Drink mself to sickness or im practically forced to get help, and i think ive mentally given up. If i wasnt in a program that tests often id be drunk now, thats the reality. If it couldve just killed me in my sleep in the past i wouldve been okay with that, because being sober is probably the hardest thing to do. I had 100 something days without alcohol and it still pulled me back, now i have 2 weeks but i dont care about the days because ive relapsed already in my head
In Australia, they have an alternative to AA called SMART Recovery - it seems to also be in the US. It's free and is run by trained people. I attend one session a week and find it helpful.
They have that here too. Yeah not for me ever. Therapist worked just fine. If u struggle with mental health as mine it’s best to find one human. Not so many opinions
My brother tried SMART here in US. Unfortunately it didnt work for him, but neither did AA or counseling. Unfortunately the only thing that works for some of us is being given a death sentence. That worked for him. @Slayer-7373
Alcoholism runs in my family, im prone to addiction of any substance and i believe thats a major factor. I have so much respect for you, you’re being accountable in such a public way. You’re the real deal bro, and i wish nothing but greatness for you. Even though im out of addiction myself, listening to your videos has helped my mindset a lot. Love you bro
It also runs in my family brother, it seems to affect so many when it does. Also thank man that is really awesome of you to say. I set out on this channel with a mission and that was to help others and myself. It’s done just that, reading comments like these lift me up and show that humanity still has hope. Much love my friend, be easy 🙏💯
Thank you Caesar!!!! Like I said we are all in this together we are on a journey. This community just gets more and more awesome. God bless 🙏 my friend!
Hey man! I listened to this, this morning on my way to take my kids to school. I had to do a video about this topic today and discuss it as well. I have never talked about this before and feel like this is a very important discussion to have. Thank you for bringing this up! Just wanted you to know that you inspired me to make a video on this today! Great work! Hope you are doing well! God bless😊😊😊
What’s up LD?? That’s awesome man I will keep an eye out!! Definitely a discussion that’s important to have and you’ve inspired me many times brother. Keep up the great work man, god bless 🙏. Looking forward to your video.
@Slayer-7373 everything is going well man. Thank you! Been super busy the last two weeks with my kids sports and the farm, but all good. Man, when I listened to your video this morning, I had to talk about this. It's uploading right now. It's been uploading for about 5 hours now..... I can't wait to get my high-speed internet!!!! Thanks again for the inspiration brother!! God bless 😊 🙌 🙏 ❤️
This is definitely a disease. I've observed it both in myself and people around me. The way people are in complete denial about the harm they're causing to themselves is horrible to watch. The creeps at AA make my stomach turn. This is why we need women's groups. I've also heard that women feel like they can't freely talk about the SA they've experienced in mixed groups. Not saying it doesn't happen to men, but what are the odds?
100% it is ILAA, the people who have been through it or have seen it know that. It’s something we can’t really even explain, it’s like I’ve said before the second I drink it switches something on and I keep going even when I know I’m destroying myself. It’s scary! Also same, it’s too bad that people like that end up there and ruin other’s experiences for good. It’s sick and seems more common than what people wanna talk about. Thanks for this comment ILAA, much love as always! 🙏
Chronic alcohol use affects the physiology of your brain (and your nervous system) making it very difficult and dangerous to stop without medical treatment. People that tell you to "just stop drinking" don't understand how difficult it is to stop.
Absolutely Paul they don’t and that’s the only reason they even say it to us like that. Because they don’t understand it whatsoever. Us alcoholics who have been through it tho completely understand one another and never judge. Thanks for this comment brother! 🙏
Alcoholism is definitely a disease! Addiction is a disease! I hate people who think it's just something we could just stop doing. I'm a full-blown addict. I get addicted to anything. And yeah, I have over a year sober off of Alcohol but I've been hiding the other crap I've been doing. I have not been sober I've been sober from Alcohol but a few weeks ago I almost over dosed, and now I'm just literally realizing all I did was replace my Addiction from one thing to another. I've been struggling really bad to stay away from everything, and honestly, I went right back to it a day after I almost died. Addiction is most definitely a disease, and I hate myself. Honestly, the world would be better if I wasn't here, but for whatever reason, here I sit still on this place we call earth but I think it's hell.
Agreed Stacy!! I’m the same way, I can get addicted to anything and I need to really watch myself. I really mean anything, it’s a constant battle, but Stacy I’ll say this don’t give up. Don’t ever give up or stop fighting. Maybe you’re right, this is hell? I know there is a heaven out there tho and I believe it’s the devils mission to keep us away from god and heaven. To stay in these Fallen state. Keep pushing forward Stacy!! I believe in you, keep me updated! 🙏🖤
@Slayer-7373 thanks I really appreciate it. like really means a lot that you actually seem to care about people, and you take the time to respond. I'm just really not sure what to do anymore i don't wanna go to rehab but i think that may be my next step...i just don't wanna do that because i feel like it's a waste of time but anyway✌️❤️
My daughter works at the morgue and it is absolutely a DISEASE that is the cause of a lot deaths!!!!! That person needs to “grow up” and do their research! ❤
@@Slayer-7373 they make up all these terms to make us feel like a victim … no we just drank to avoid doing something … I drink lemon water now for my liver
I definitely believe that alcoholism is a disease. It's the cycle of addiction and the way it changes your mental chemistry that aids in people to continue drinking even when they know it's killing them. So it's not simply immaturity. Being predisposed to addiction is what makes the difference between a person who can drink a glass of wine with dinner and stop, and another who needs to keep that buzz or that state of drunkenness going. Also, I think it's fine to have a blended AA meeting. I also think it's fine to have options for people to meet with only their gender. That way if someone is feeling particularly vulnerable, they have options! I also think that attendees and counselors alike should try to be observant of the others in the meetings and support (and I suppose sadly sometimes protect) one another. I like your ideas for new videos! Keep them coming! Have a great day ❤😊
Hey Amanda!!! Awesome comment like always!!! I 100% agree it is a disease, it’s hard for people who don’t have it to understand. Like you said the difference is when we drink we CANNOT stop even tho we know it’s killing us. Also 100% agree with you on the AA stuff as well, certain precautions could prevent a lot of this stuff from happening. Much love Amanda!!! Hope you are well 🙏🖤
@Slayer-7373 much love right back! My life as of late is full of stressors, but I'm alive and breathing, and I'm sober. So I know that this is just a moment!! And I'm enjoying the little things within it. I hope you're doing well as well, Slayer!! ❤️💖
@@amandaflaherty7528 awe I’m sorry Amanda, you will get through it I know you will. Like you said we have to try to focus on the positives in our lives and be thankful. Sending prayers and positivity your way. 🙏🖤
At times it’s a cultural thing. In mine we hug and kiss on the cheek all, I just think when someone is weak and vulnerable you should be there as a friend. Nothing weird…just kindness if something more develops well we’re all adults but no pressure. Thanks slayer love this type of dialogue. Hope you’re doing well as always.
100% spot on micru, could not say it better myself. And the thanks goes to you !!!l I hope you’re doing great as well. Much love ! You always have the best comments! 🙏
Hey thanks Julian!! You’ve been showing love and support for some time now man and i appreciate that. I’m extremely excited for the livestreams as well, they are going to be a lot of fun!!! Much love! 🙏
Hi Slayer! Interesting topic! Crazy to me how some actually don’t understand or think that alcoholism is a disease??? As if some people would actually choose it for themselves? 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ Thanks again.
Hey 👋! Right?? I know trust me it makes no sense to me at all, but people are ignorant to addiction sometimes. Thank you 🙏!!! Always appreciate your comments.
Just gotta stop doing it, I'm in no position to preach as my maximum dry-spell was 115 days, currently on day 28. I have sworn off alcohol for life after having drinks with a significant male relative, who whilst drunk tried to hit me with a pint glass, I don't want to be associated with this stuff anymore. I think I shared this before on here. Quite sad really because behind the 'frat' party image of alcohol in the US or the cozy British Pub over here, behind the sweet deception is a very destructive substance. No good can come of it whatosever.
You’re right tho brother, we do have to just stop. 28 days is awesome!!! You actually have around the same max time that I do. We are super close in sobriety time as well, we are on this journey together my friend, also it really is sad!!! There is so much delusion around alcohol it’s insane. Same as you I’ve had some really bad experiences and I just don’t wanna be associated anymore with it. Let’s keep kicking this things a%%!!! Thanks again man.
I dont necessarily look at alcolism as a disease, but i look at it as a vice that people use due to their shitty upbringing. All those negative emotions deep inside alcohol is not medicine though it temporarily is but therapy is where its at.
Absolutely. All energy drinks are. I was pounding 2-3 Monster Zero drinks every single day. I have an addictive personality so for me it’s either all or nothing. I quit drinking them one day and never looked back. Saved $6/day and I’m sure my heart is thanking me
To me, I classify it as a mental disorder. I prefer to refer to all addiction as the same. There are some addictions that do not show as much unmanageable behavior but they are everywhere. Yes, we do make those choices but this is what I have to say to those who do not understand: it feels like a knife is being held to your throat. It feels like you are going to die if you don't. And most of the time you want to be dead. It is living hell. What would you're choice be? My experience is that im choosing one hell or another. What, as a "healthy" drinker was your first experience with alcohol? No. I did not select to be this way. I wanted to love and thrive the way I see my fellow humans do. "Choice" as if do you like an apple or an orange gets tossed around inappropriately.
“One hell or another” wow POWERFUL and accurate word brother especially when you’re struggling. I agree with everything you said man, your comments have been amazing. Thank you 🙏
Those who have not experienced an addiction like this can easily look from the outside and say it is a simple choice. I can understand that. I wish so badly for my loved ones to understand what we go through but I would never wish this affliction on them. One of the worst parts of it is how it makes others see us. The way I have acted towards people I care about is the most traumatic part of it. Every morning I wake up having to remind myself. It is a combination of not knowing what it's like and fear of it. I think those of us who survive addiction are the most badass a human can ba.
@@blde_grypr absolutely blde, don’t even get me started, alcohol ruins your character I mean it completely ruins it, there are people out there that to this day really think I am the way I acted when heavily drinking, it’s just not true. Actually beating this addiction is HUGE and it does make you a badass! 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 Thank you so much Slayer. It really means a lot to hear back and to know you actually read my comment. It is so terrifying to look at what I have done. And to want them to understand is a whole other level of guilt because we don't want them to feel this pain 0in the first place. I love my ex so deeply and I literally cry everyday over how much I miss her but I'm glad she got away from me too. She deserves a better man. It is that level of dichotomy that rips my heart to pieces. What happened with your ex is obviously terrible as well thank you for sharing.
@@blde_grypr you don’t have to thank me brother, we are in this together. We understand one another. I have the same exact feelings about my ex even tho she’s with my brother. SO MUCH REGRET, but we can’t live in that. It will literally eat you alive, all we can do is try our best in the moment and that’s a real hard pill to swallow that I’m still trying to figure out how to do. Stay safe my friend, stay strong!! 🙏
Slay I grew up around many. Parents in “”Marriage Encounter” back in the 80’s. Weirdo men… I can’t remember anything just a guy screaming at me. AA wasn’t and will Never be for me
There are some women only meetings and men only meetings in Melbourne Australia (also heaps of co-ed meetings too). I thought it was like that everywhere
There are women’s only and men’s only meetings here as well, but most of the meetings I’d say a good 80-85% are men and women. Thanks for the comment and shout-out to Australia! That’s awesome.
Interesting. My husband had severe anxiety, panic disorder and depression for his entire life. He was under psychiatric treatment. Alcohol was a normal thing in his family growing up. Not necessarily abuse but frequent wine at meals etc. somewhere in his mind alcohol became his go to for anxiety relief. He wouldn’t hear that drinking with the mental health meds caused the meds to not work as effectively. It was a vicious cycle. He was an alcoholic and died of cirrhosis in August. It was an awful death. The end stages of liver disease are terrible. Is it a disease? I don’t know. I think there are many factors. His mental health issues for sure contributed and were a disease. His alcoholism lead to liver disease.
I’m deeply sorry to hear that my friend, but these types of comments need to be heard!!! Alcoholism is no joke whatsoever at all. Once you start to use it just to cope with life is when things start to go downhill and they go downhill fast!!! R.I.P to your husband, I hope he found the peace he was looking for through the bottle. Much love and god bless 🙏
I've always struggled with this concept too! While I certainly believe there is a genetic compont to alcoholism..... "You shall not bow down to them (anything, anyone that comes before God) or serve them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me". Deuteronomy 5:9 It's not something airborne that you "catch". We arent born with this condition. Therfore, I believe its a product of our "STINKIN' THINKIN'! we become discontent, depressed, bored, sad, angry, hurt and lost. We desire escape. We choose to take that drink. We have power over it. We can say NO. I am 67 and recovering alcoholic and smoke. I have end stage lung disease. I chose to smoke cigarettes because I wanted to "belong" to that cool group of teenagers. Later drank for the same reason. Now I live with a disease that requires oxygen concentrator and likely will die from Emphysema. My stupid choice that I can't put down.
Great way of putting it rons mom. Life is a series of choices and those choices dictate where you end up. Even tho I do believe it’s a disease I understand that there is definitely some choice involved. Nobody held a gun to me and told me I must be an alcoholic, but once it’s got you it’s got you. Prayers go out to you!!!!! You’re super sweet and wish nothing but the best for you. 🙏🖤
in NZ they put women and men in rehab together. what ends happening is relationships start . i personally think women should be with women in recovery as men should. AA meetings should be the same . it’s not appropriate in my mind as people are broken and should feel safe in their personal recovery. it’s f up
I’ve seen it happen first hand brother, trust me I understand. They need a better system. Much love tho to you always good to hear from you my friend!! 🙏
I’ve enjoyed my journey so far at AA, but the difference is I’m taking it more serious than I have in the past. It’s like they say “it works if you work it”. God bless my friend and thank you! 🙏
It's 12 made up steps random steps... Could have easily been 12 different steps made up random steps and everyone will be saying the same thing.... You're ridiculous
True, me and my peeps even did meth and I know it's stupid, but most of them grew outta that, and me and a few others didn't. Mostly, the ones of us with "broken" homes lives growing up. But yeah, I see it in me and them. We can't be content sober. We never learned to love life. I even just graduated college and always kept a job. I'm kinda doing the best of my junkie friends bc I hate the sickness of it and try to fight it more, but it's actually killing us 💀
“We never learned how to love life” powerful words brother and once you’re wrapped into your addiction it makes it that much harder. What a wild road it’s been. Much love brotha, hope you’re doing well
There’s two aspects to this alcoholism one the body has the allergy that progresses over the years 2 the obsession progresses over the years of drinking so it has to do with the body and mine, but you have no control over it when you put the first drink into your body and the obsession in mind you lose control over that always leads back to the first drink, that’s what makes an alcoholic
Some information for y’all: In the religion of Islam,both alcohol and gambling is banned and the reason being is that the evil in them are greater than their benefit. “Say, “In them (wine and gambling) is great sin and [yet, some] benefit for people. But their sin is greater than their benefit.” (Quran 2/219). Alcohol was banned in stages, and eventually banned completely.
You can escape it brother, trust me you can. You can do anything you want in this life, don’t sell yourself short. It’s about taking small steps, don’t rush yourself take baby steps to getting your life back and escaping that prison. Prayers go out to your brother, I believe in you!!!! Don’t give up!!! 🙏
Thanks for your kind words man , I'll do my best to get sober small steps like you said brother , I love your chanel you are helping alcoholics all over the world. Thank-you
I've been in recovery 32 years now. This is one thing I did to change my brain, to fool my brain so I wouldn't give my time and energy to thinking about alcohol. I reprogrammed my brain the alcohol is not an option, that it's not a choice. It no longer exists as part of my life. I tricked my brain and over time it became part of my natural thought process. I always found other things to do. Changed all ppl in my life, etc. Start going to AA every day for 90 days, get a sponsor. Love yourself more than alcohol or drugs loves you. Things will change, promise. I'll pray for you.
@@LisaLou4sho beautiful advice that I will 100% be taking, thank you for the wisdom. When people like you speak I LISTEN! Y’all found a way out. I appreciate that more than you know. Also thank you for the prayers!!! Nothing more powerful 🙏
Yea I agree popcorn, there are definitely more dudes who want the mixed groups than women. Which I guess is no surprise but still. Much love popcorn boxing!!! 🙏
Yes 1,000% it’s a disease, nature vs nurture take your pick. 8 out of us 9 cousins are either addicts or alcoholics. Same with my aunts & uncle. Same on the paternal side as well. I have stories that would leave your jaw open. U can’t make my family’s chaos up ! I got out!!
The concern over calling it ‘alcohol use disorder’ or a ‘disease’ is that maybe people will start using it as an excuse to live off welfare. If you can get it officially recognised as a mental health condition you may be able to do that.
Yo I also had delirium couple of times but one of them was so bad so devilish i had voices calling me names i saw animals all over the walls closed my eyes and was in a cartoonish blissful forrest but on day 3 no sleep i saw a bunch of flies around me and i felt like someone was looking at me so i turned my head and i saw him for a split second he wore a colourful tshirt he was darkish brown his face looked like pigish but human like you see some old people looking like degenerated and when i saw him i decided to go get help i was given sleeping pills and slept it of if you wanna hear the full story comment back cause there is so much more
Wilddd man, I can relate to a lot of this though. Dt’s are only understandable by those who have been through them. I’d love to hear more of the story!!! I’m all ears.
@@Slayer-7373So it started with me waking up with huge hangover after binge then as time went on i had insomnia and before you know hallucinations started aggresive name calling i went outside to store and i could smell the worse of smells like from hell then when a crow flew past me and it crowed i heard it as hrrrrr demon like then i went in when night came i could see 5 cats in the other room looking at me we dont have cats btw then animals everywhere creatures and when i looked at the shelf across the room from the bed i saw 2 mini dudes chilling on chairs then i looked in other room and there was chairs with pillows that turned into a creature he was wrighting and he said come closer sent shivers down my spine, i had layed next to a window and heard 3 knocks which i think was real then as time passed day 3 morning like 6,7 or 8:00 i started getting some devilish visions all i remember seeing was metal big chains , bubbles like soup burning, and when i tried to sleep it was like i was taught about hell like i saw a hellish train and reading some devilish book then voices became so strong they knew everything that i was thinking and commenting about it all i remember she said "haha who is talking to you?" Obviously with a lot of name calling from different voices and then like a devil voice deep one told them something i cant remember what now then my grandparents where watching tv in other room and when i closed my eyes i could see what they where watching by the sound then i kept laying there looking like i was dying that when i started seeing the flies everywhere they werent flies just black dots flying like flies and that when i turned my head and saw him for a split second he was trying to see if i was dead that when i had a panic attack and went to get help also on the way back after they gave me pills my heart was racing out of my chest i had to walk real slow. I also had other times not as intence with me being half asleep and demons come touch hold my hands and i had a kitten at the time he was sleeping next to me and the demon turned into my kitten but it was see through but felt like real thing but when i said your a demon it made a noise "huuh" like suprised . Other times i also talked with a ghost girl when i was in bed i heard footsteps walking up to my bed but wasnt scared of that. Yeah that my story but what is the most disturbing that i never stopped seeing those black dots i see them everyday a couple times a day
Yeah, definitely addiction is a disease. It is caused by a number of factors such as trauma. Having an addiction isn't a choice, just like what you like and don't like isn't a choice, being hungry or having a poor appetite isn't a choice, but whether or not you use _is_ a choice - "Living with a hunger pain, that feeling of emptiness all the time isn't worth it so you may as well use because without it life ain't worth it" - at least that's the rationale of the addict. Using would be like treating the symptom of the disease (self medicating). Instead, we need to actually cure the underlying cause of the disease, whatever it may be for the individual. The cure would be connection amongst other things. We need to make a life that's actually worth being present/sober for.
Uck, I would not feel comfortable in meetings with older predatory dudes like that -- I think there should be an option for women-only, men-only, and co-ed if people would like.
@@Micru866 right? I feel like it would be just like getting on a bus, you have no idea who any of these people are. I totally think there should be groups for women only! Just like how we can request a female doctor or nurse, etc
If you’re an alcoholic you will not be able to stop yourself, usually if you ask the question it means you might have a problem. Keep me updated my friend!!
@@Slayer-7373 im glad i stopped when i did 35 yrs ago,it was killn me in a bad way too.gotta see what it does to the body after a 50 or 60 yr addiction,and its not pretty green lips green tongue yellow skin phew
@@Slayer-7373 many thanks 35 yrs sober its nothen,gettn the knoledge is the key to long term sober life,its a trigger effect in the brain that processes,mood and the uphoriia of the escape or feeling of gotta be the center of the crowd,truth,have a great day
Its like a disease but its not. You chose to start an you csn choose to stop. You cant choose to start or stop cancer. So techinally there really is a diffrence. I can understand why people would call it a disease but truth is there is a big diffrence between disease and addiction an dependance. Calling alcoholism a disease is kind of like calling cancer a addiction. Doesent really make sense.
AA is helpful to some people! Avoid the needy guy who asks for a ride home across town! He may be an escaped vivisectionist! The females should be careful. It is called being 13th Stepped!
Side note* They do have woman’s only AA meetings and men’s only AA meetings here, but I would say a good 85% of the meetings here are men and women. Forgot to say that in the video!!! Love y’all! 💯
I believe it's a habit. An insidious, harmful, difficult habit but a habit nonetheless. I was heavily addicted to crack and meth over 10 years ago. Tore my life to shambles. Getting off those substances was hard for sure, but once I got some space from them I just decided I was happier without them than with them. No daily battle, no need for meetings or anything to 'maintain recovery' whatever the heck that means. I just moved on. Anyone can! The recovery society doesn't want people to know this because they won't get their dollars in the basket. It's about money and control. Best of luck to you on your journey!
P.S. I had to let the 'addict' label go. If I didn't I'd probably be still on drugs. I'm a human being that formed and broke a bad habit. Straight up.
I like this point of view brother and it’s not talked about much!!! I have mixed feelings about calling myself an alcoholic and kind of keeping that mindset because of what you said. Thanks for being truthful!!! You don’t hear this enough!!!! 🙏
Most people actually are immature when they start with the excessive drinking and partying, but when all your friends move on and you find yourself unable to, that’s when you know it’s a disease.
Exactly grace, well put.
Thank you as always 🙏🖤
They say it's also 'arrested development' and we mentally stay stuck in the age where our drinking took over (eg. early 20's). There's definitely something to the 'not wanting to grow up' thing though, I was very much a Peter Pan of alcohol! I became a weird Russell Brand/Heath Ledger's Joker character when I was drunk.
@@archangel_josh I can definitely relate josh lol.
Dis- ease = not at ease ... Its a very broad term that makes grown men fold like a cheap lawn chair😅😅😅
Absolutely lol.
Totally agree slayer. Predator s (men or women) could possibly be drawn to aa meetings
As unfortunate as that is it does happen. People need to be careful. Thanks angela!! It’s always nice seeing your comments. 🙏
Your channel is helping so many people! Total blessing!❤❤❤
@@Mmoose712 awe, I really hope so. Thanks so much 🙏🖤
Many people dont understand alcoholism and that adds to our shame.
You’re right Michelle, trust me I understand. Much love🙏
My alcoholism is just a recurring nightmare. Drink mself to sickness or im practically forced to get help, and i think ive mentally given up. If i wasnt in a program that tests often id be drunk now, thats the reality. If it couldve just killed me in my sleep in the past i wouldve been okay with that, because being sober is probably the hardest thing to do. I had 100 something days without alcohol and it still pulled me back, now i have 2 weeks but i dont care about the days because ive relapsed already in my head
Don’t give up brother, don’t ever stop trying. Prayers and luck to you 🙏 please keep me updated.
In Australia, they have an alternative to AA called SMART Recovery - it seems to also be in the US. It's free and is run by trained people. I attend one session a week and find it helpful.
I will have to look into this brother, thanks for the info! 💯
They have that here too. Yeah not for me ever. Therapist worked just fine. If u struggle with mental health as mine it’s best to find one human. Not so many opinions
My brother tried SMART here in US. Unfortunately it didnt work for him, but neither did AA or counseling. Unfortunately the only thing that works for some of us is being given a death sentence. That worked for him. @Slayer-7373
Alcoholism runs in my family, im prone to addiction of any substance and i believe thats a major factor. I have so much respect for you, you’re being accountable in such a public way. You’re the real deal bro, and i wish nothing but greatness for you. Even though im out of addiction myself, listening to your videos has helped my mindset a lot. Love you bro
It also runs in my family brother, it seems to affect so many when it does. Also thank man that is really awesome of you to say. I set out on this channel with a mission and that was to help others and myself. It’s done just that, reading comments like these lift me up and show that humanity still has hope. Much love my friend, be easy 🙏💯
@@Slayer-7373 keep doing what you do man, im here for the journey. One of the few forces for good in the world
@@ciscodisco9155 🙏💪🙌🏻
Yet another great video! Thanks for keeping all of us together in this
Thank you Caesar!!!! Like I said we are all in this together we are on a journey. This community just gets more and more awesome. God bless 🙏 my friend!
Hey man! I listened to this, this morning on my way to take my kids to school. I had to do a video about this topic today and discuss it as well. I have never talked about this before and feel like this is a very important discussion to have. Thank you for bringing this up! Just wanted you to know that you inspired me to make a video on this today! Great work! Hope you are doing well! God bless😊😊😊
What’s up LD?? That’s awesome man I will keep an eye out!! Definitely a discussion that’s important to have and you’ve inspired me many times brother.
Keep up the great work man, god bless 🙏. Looking forward to your video.
Hope all is well with you too brother. 🙏
This is super cool shout-out to both of you guys!
@Slayer-7373 everything is going well man. Thank you! Been super busy the last two weeks with my kids sports and the farm, but all good. Man, when I listened to your video this morning, I had to talk about this. It's uploading right now. It's been uploading for about 5 hours now..... I can't wait to get my high-speed internet!!!! Thanks again for the inspiration brother!! God bless 😊 🙌 🙏 ❤️
@@jeff67788 Thank you brother!!!! Hope all is well!!! God bless
You are a good dude. Keep up the good fight. Praying for you and all struggling.
I appreciate that Derek, thank you man. 🙏prayers out to you as well!
This is definitely a disease. I've observed it both in myself and people around me. The way people are in complete denial about the harm they're causing to themselves is horrible to watch.
The creeps at AA make my stomach turn. This is why we need women's groups. I've also heard that women feel like they can't freely talk about the SA they've experienced in mixed groups. Not saying it doesn't happen to men, but what are the odds?
100% it is ILAA, the people who have been through it or have seen it know that. It’s something we can’t really even explain, it’s like I’ve said before the second I drink it switches something on and I keep going even when I know I’m destroying myself. It’s scary!
Also same, it’s too bad that people like that end up there and ruin other’s experiences for good. It’s sick and seems more common than what people wanna talk about.
Thanks for this comment ILAA, much love as always! 🙏
Chronic alcohol use affects the physiology of your brain (and your nervous system) making it very difficult and dangerous to stop without medical treatment. People that tell you to "just stop drinking" don't understand how difficult it is to stop.
Absolutely Paul they don’t and that’s the only reason they even say it to us like that. Because they don’t understand it whatsoever. Us alcoholics who have been through it tho completely understand one another and never judge. Thanks for this comment brother! 🙏
So does chronic ongoing verbal, physical & psychological abuse by a parent. I’m 51 & still messed up.
Tell those people it’s like eating a box of x lax & not going to the br
Alcoholism is definitely a disease! Addiction is a disease! I hate people who think it's just something we could just stop doing. I'm a full-blown addict. I get addicted to anything. And yeah, I have over a year sober off of Alcohol but I've been hiding the other crap I've been doing. I have not been sober I've been sober from Alcohol but a few weeks ago I almost over dosed, and now I'm just literally realizing all I did was replace my Addiction from one thing to another. I've been struggling really bad to stay away from everything, and honestly, I went right back to it a day after I almost died. Addiction is most definitely a disease, and I hate myself. Honestly, the world would be better if I wasn't here, but for whatever reason, here I sit still on this place we call earth but I think it's hell.
Agreed Stacy!! I’m the same way, I can get addicted to anything and I need to really watch myself. I really mean anything, it’s a constant battle, but Stacy I’ll say this don’t give up. Don’t ever give up or stop fighting. Maybe you’re right, this is hell? I know there is a heaven out there tho and I believe it’s the devils mission to keep us away from god and heaven. To stay in these Fallen state.
Keep pushing forward Stacy!! I believe in you, keep me updated! 🙏🖤
@Slayer-7373 thanks I really appreciate it. like really means a lot that you actually seem to care about people, and you take the time to respond. I'm just really not sure what to do anymore i don't wanna go to rehab but i think that may be my next step...i just don't wanna do that because i feel like it's a waste of time but anyway✌️❤️
I agree 💯👍
Share and let’s help this man get the subs up!!!! He’s on a mission. He’s dedicated. Let’s go!
Lmao I have like 15 emails I should subscribe on each one never thought of it thank you I have to many from live games in the past years ago
Hey thank you so much Bryan!!!! God bless brother! Let’s go! 💪💪
@@jesusgallegos3537 you don’t have to my friend but that is extremely nice of you!! God bless!
Y’all are awesome!
@@Slayer-7373 dude I just did
My daughter works at the morgue and it is absolutely a DISEASE that is the cause of a lot deaths!!!!! That person needs to “grow up” and do their research! ❤
Absolutely Rita!!!! Trust me I’m right there with you. 🙏
Alcohol is disgusting it’s a cope to escape something but people don’t admit it
I agree.
@@Slayer-7373 they make up all these terms to make us feel like a victim … no we just drank to avoid doing something … I drink lemon water now for my liver
I definitely believe that alcoholism is a disease. It's the cycle of addiction and the way it changes your mental chemistry that aids in people to continue drinking even when they know it's killing them. So it's not simply immaturity. Being predisposed to addiction is what makes the difference between a person who can drink a glass of wine with dinner and stop, and another who needs to keep that buzz or that state of drunkenness going. Also, I think it's fine to have a blended AA meeting. I also think it's fine to have options for people to meet with only their gender. That way if someone is feeling particularly vulnerable, they have options! I also think that attendees and counselors alike should try to be observant of the others in the meetings and support (and I suppose sadly sometimes protect) one another. I like your ideas for new videos! Keep them coming! Have a great day ❤😊
Hey Amanda!!! Awesome comment like always!!! I 100% agree it is a disease, it’s hard for people who don’t have it to understand. Like you said the difference is when we drink we CANNOT stop even tho we know it’s killing us.
Also 100% agree with you on the AA stuff as well, certain precautions could prevent a lot of this stuff from happening.
Much love Amanda!!! Hope you are well 🙏🖤
@Slayer-7373 much love right back! My life as of late is full of stressors, but I'm alive and breathing, and I'm sober. So I know that this is just a moment!! And I'm enjoying the little things within it. I hope you're doing well as well, Slayer!! ❤️💖
@@amandaflaherty7528 awe I’m sorry Amanda, you will get through it I know you will. Like you said we have to try to focus on the positives in our lives and be thankful. Sending prayers and positivity your way. 🙏🖤
@@Slayer-7373 ahhh thank you!! ❤️❤️😊
At times it’s a cultural thing. In mine we hug and kiss on the cheek all, I just think when someone is weak and vulnerable you should be there as a friend. Nothing weird…just kindness if something more develops well we’re all adults but no pressure. Thanks slayer love this type of dialogue. Hope you’re doing well as always.
100% spot on micru, could not say it better myself.
And the thanks goes to you !!!l I hope you’re doing great as well. Much love ! You always have the best comments! 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 🫶 I am hope the same for you my friend.
@@Micru866 😁always bring a smile to my face!!
Slayer.. thanks man.
Hey! Thank you brother! 🙏
Good video man, keep them up. Looking forward to the livestreams.
Hey thanks Julian!! You’ve been showing love and support for some time now man and i appreciate that. I’m extremely excited for the livestreams as well, they are going to be a lot of fun!!! Much love! 🙏
Hi Slayer! Interesting topic! Crazy to me how some actually don’t understand or think that alcoholism is a disease??? As if some people would actually choose it for themselves? 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ Thanks again.
Hey 👋! Right?? I know trust me it makes no sense to me at all, but people are ignorant to addiction sometimes. Thank you 🙏!!! Always appreciate your comments.
I’ve never got why people question it.
You’re the best slayer! 💪
Nah, you are the best Jeff!!! Thanks brother!! 🙏
U look great! Love seeing u healthy and doing well! ❤
Awe, thank you tally that’s really sweet of you to say. 🙏🖤
Dude I love that you're doing this. So good!!! Thanks for your thoughts and commentary :)
😁hey thanks so much Anna!!! Same goes to you, keep up the good work 💯!
Just gotta stop doing it, I'm in no position to preach as my maximum dry-spell was 115 days, currently on day 28. I have sworn off alcohol for life after having drinks with a significant male relative, who whilst drunk tried to hit me with a pint glass, I don't want to be associated with this stuff anymore. I think I shared this before on here.
Quite sad really because behind the 'frat' party image of alcohol in the US or the cozy British Pub over here, behind the sweet deception is a very destructive substance. No good can come of it whatosever.
You’re right tho brother, we do have to just stop. 28 days is awesome!!! You actually have around the same max time that I do. We are super close in sobriety time as well, we are on this journey together my friend, also it really is sad!!! There is so much delusion around alcohol it’s insane. Same as you I’ve had some really bad experiences and I just don’t wanna be associated anymore with it. Let’s keep kicking this things a%%!!!
Thanks again man.
keep doing you slayer. love your vids
Thanks brother, I appreciate that man. 🙏
Thumbs Up 👍 and shared out!❤
Thank you as always !!!!! Much love 🙏
Whoever wrote that article must have never been in our shoes before
100% agreed jimmy.
Thanks for your comment brother
I dont necessarily look at alcolism as a disease, but i look at it as a vice that people use due to their shitty upbringing. All those negative emotions deep inside alcohol is not medicine though it temporarily is but therapy is where its at.
I can definitely see that Brady, great point actually.
It's a PANDEMIC!! LOL 😆
- - - Keep em coming man!!!
Very true Craig!!! 🤣🤣
It's a disease.. no doubt! great video!
Hey thanks Doug!!! I appreciate that brother 🙏
Red Bull is addictive
Absolutely. All energy drinks are. I was pounding 2-3 Monster Zero drinks every single day. I have an addictive personality so for me it’s either all or nothing. I quit drinking them one day and never looked back. Saved $6/day and I’m sure my heart is thanking me
Very addictive!!!
Not to get off topic but I just read Post Malone couldn’t stop as well.
I had no idea.
I’ve seen that Kristen!! 🙏hopefully he stays clean.
@@Slayer-7373 right?!!!
To me, I classify it as a mental disorder. I prefer to refer to all addiction as the same. There are some addictions that do not show as much unmanageable behavior but they are everywhere.
Yes, we do make those choices but this is what I have to say to those who do not understand: it feels like a knife is being held to your throat. It feels like you are going to die if you don't. And most of the time you want to be dead. It is living hell. What would you're choice be? My experience is that im choosing one hell or another. What, as a "healthy" drinker was your first experience with alcohol? No. I did not select to be this way. I wanted to love and thrive the way I see my fellow humans do. "Choice" as if do you like an apple or an orange gets tossed around inappropriately.
“One hell or another” wow POWERFUL and accurate word brother especially when you’re struggling. I agree with everything you said man, your comments have been amazing. Thank you 🙏
Those who have not experienced an addiction like this can easily look from the outside and say it is a simple choice. I can understand that. I wish so badly for my loved ones to understand what we go through but I would never wish this affliction on them. One of the worst parts of it is how it makes others see us. The way I have acted towards people I care about is the most traumatic part of it. Every morning I wake up having to remind myself. It is a combination of not knowing what it's like and fear of it. I think those of us who survive addiction are the most badass a human can ba.
@@blde_grypr absolutely blde, don’t even get me started, alcohol ruins your character I mean it completely ruins it, there are people out there that to this day really think I am the way I acted when heavily drinking, it’s just not true. Actually beating this addiction is HUGE and it does make you a badass! 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 Thank you so much Slayer. It really means a lot to hear back and to know you actually read my comment.
It is so terrifying to look at what I have done. And to want them to understand is a whole other level of guilt because we don't want them to feel this pain 0in the first place. I love my ex so deeply and I literally cry everyday over how much I miss her but I'm glad she got away from me too. She deserves a better man. It is that level of dichotomy that rips my heart to pieces. What happened with your ex is obviously terrible as well thank you for sharing.
@@blde_grypr you don’t have to thank me brother, we are in this together. We understand one another. I have the same exact feelings about my ex even tho she’s with my brother. SO MUCH REGRET, but we can’t live in that. It will literally eat you alive, all we can do is try our best in the moment and that’s a real hard pill to swallow that I’m still trying to figure out how to do.
Stay safe my friend, stay strong!! 🙏
Slay I grew up around many.
Parents in “”Marriage Encounter” back in the 80’s.
Weirdo men… I can’t remember anything just a guy screaming at me.
AA wasn’t and will
Never be for me
I’m sorry you had to go through that kristen and that’s totally understandable. Nothing wrong with that at all. 🙏
There are some women only meetings and men only meetings in Melbourne Australia (also heaps of co-ed meetings too). I thought it was like that everywhere
There are women’s only and men’s only meetings here as well, but most of the meetings I’d say a good 80-85% are men and women. Thanks for the comment and shout-out to Australia! That’s awesome.
Women definitely have to be careful in AA.
Agreed unfortunately.
Interesting. My husband had severe anxiety, panic disorder and depression for his entire life. He was under psychiatric treatment. Alcohol was a normal thing in his family growing up. Not necessarily abuse but frequent wine at meals etc. somewhere in his mind alcohol became his go to for anxiety relief. He wouldn’t hear that drinking with the mental health meds caused the meds to not work as effectively. It was a vicious cycle. He was an alcoholic and died of cirrhosis in August. It was an awful death. The end stages of liver disease are terrible. Is it a disease? I don’t know. I think there are many factors. His mental health issues for sure contributed and were a disease. His alcoholism lead to liver disease.
I’m deeply sorry to hear that my friend, but these types of comments need to be heard!!! Alcoholism is no joke whatsoever at all. Once you start to use it just to cope with life is when things start to go downhill and they go downhill fast!!! R.I.P to your husband, I hope he found the peace he was looking for through the bottle.
Much love and god bless 🙏
Everything is but a symptom of a larger problem.
I am so deeply sorry at the loss of your husband. I’m sorry
Cool vid, man.
Thanks my friend, as always I appreciate your comments and honesty. 🙏💯
I've always struggled with this concept too! While I certainly believe there is a genetic compont to alcoholism.....
"You shall not bow down to them (anything, anyone that comes before God) or serve them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me". Deuteronomy 5:9
It's not something airborne that you "catch". We arent born with this condition. Therfore, I believe its a product of our "STINKIN' THINKIN'! we become discontent, depressed, bored, sad, angry, hurt and lost. We desire escape. We choose to take that drink. We have power over it. We can say NO.
I am 67 and recovering alcoholic and smoke. I have end stage lung disease. I chose to smoke cigarettes because I wanted to "belong" to that cool group of teenagers. Later drank for the same reason. Now I live with a disease that requires oxygen concentrator and likely will die from Emphysema. My stupid choice that I can't put down.
Great way of putting it rons mom.
Life is a series of choices and those choices dictate where you end up. Even tho I do believe it’s a disease I understand that there is definitely some choice involved. Nobody held a gun to me and told me I must be an alcoholic, but once it’s got you it’s got you.
Prayers go out to you!!!!! You’re super sweet and wish nothing but the best for you. 🙏🖤
Love your humor!
❤❤❤praying for healing Ron's mom! I have COPD too! It's a total pain
@@Mmoose712 same goes to you!!! 🙏
in NZ they put women and men in rehab together. what ends happening is relationships start . i personally think women should be with women in recovery as men should. AA meetings should be the same . it’s not appropriate in my mind as people are broken and should feel safe in their personal recovery. it’s f up
I’ve seen it happen first hand brother, trust me I understand. They need a better system. Much love tho to you always good to hear from you my friend!! 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 thankyou . it’s like they like making $ out of it . just not right at all . she is back drinking.
23 years ago u couldn’t date for a year get a complete new haircut, move anything big including hang out with someone of the opposite sex in rehab
AA is legit. There are always nay sayers. If your goal is to quit drinking it’s one of the best options. Good luck in your recovery journey.
I’ve enjoyed my journey so far at AA, but the difference is I’m taking it more serious than I have in the past. It’s like they say “it works if you work it”. God bless my friend and thank you! 🙏
It's 12 made up steps random steps... Could have easily been 12 different steps made up random steps and everyone will be saying the same thing.... You're ridiculous
True, me and my peeps even did meth and I know it's stupid, but most of them grew outta that, and me and a few others didn't. Mostly, the ones of us with "broken" homes lives growing up. But yeah, I see it in me and them. We can't be content sober. We never learned to love life. I even just graduated college and always kept a job. I'm kinda doing the best of my junkie friends bc I hate the sickness of it and try to fight it more, but it's actually killing us 💀
“We never learned how to love life” powerful words brother and once you’re wrapped into your addiction it makes it that much harder. What a wild road it’s been. Much love brotha, hope you’re doing well
There’s two aspects to this alcoholism one the body has the allergy that progresses over the years 2 the obsession progresses over the years of drinking so it has to do with the body and mine, but you have no control over it when you put the first drink into your body and the obsession in mind you lose control over that always leads back to the first drink, that’s what makes an alcoholic
Spot on Richard!!!
Thanks for the comment and feedback brother 🙏
That's what I've been saying bro live stream as in group meetings
Trust me bro once I hit 1K subs I will be! It’s gonna be super cool. 🙏
@@Slayer-7373can’t wait!
@@caesar349 💪💯
Some information for y’all: In the religion of Islam,both alcohol and gambling is banned and the reason being is that the evil in them are greater than their benefit. “Say, “In them (wine and gambling) is great sin and [yet, some] benefit for people. But their sin is greater than their benefit.” (Quran 2/219). Alcohol was banned in stages, and eventually banned completely.
Thank you for this information my friend!!! Bless 🙏
Im suffering so bad with it now i cant escape it
You can escape it brother, trust me you can. You can do anything you want in this life, don’t sell yourself short. It’s about taking small steps, don’t rush yourself take baby steps to getting your life back and escaping that prison. Prayers go out to your brother, I believe in you!!!! Don’t give up!!! 🙏
Thanks for your kind words man , I'll do my best to get sober small steps like you said brother , I love your chanel you are helping alcoholics all over the world. Thank-you
@@johnfeehan7502 of course brother, anytime. That’s why I made this channel, we help one another here. Take it easy man 🙏
I've been in recovery 32 years now. This is one thing I did to change my brain, to fool my brain so I wouldn't give my time and energy to thinking about alcohol. I reprogrammed my brain the alcohol is not an option, that it's not a choice. It no longer exists as part of my life. I tricked my brain and over time it became part of my natural thought process. I always found other things to do. Changed all ppl in my life, etc. Start going to AA every day for 90 days, get a sponsor. Love yourself more than alcohol or drugs loves you. Things will change, promise. I'll pray for you.
@@LisaLou4sho beautiful advice that I will 100% be taking, thank you for the wisdom. When people like you speak I LISTEN! Y’all found a way out. I appreciate that more than you know.
Also thank you for the prayers!!! Nothing more powerful 🙏
10:52 maybe you could have some women only groups but I think men will want a mixed group. They probably want a female shoulder to cry on.
Yea I agree popcorn, there are definitely more dudes who want the mixed groups than women. Which I guess is no surprise but still. Much love popcorn boxing!!! 🙏
Yes 1,000% it’s a disease, nature vs nurture take your pick. 8 out of us 9 cousins are either addicts or alcoholics. Same with my aunts & uncle. Same on the paternal side as well. I have stories that would leave your jaw open.
U can’t make my family’s chaos up ! I got out!!
Agreed Kristen!! 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 ♥️
The concern over calling it ‘alcohol use disorder’ or a ‘disease’ is that maybe people will start using it as an excuse to live off welfare. If you can get it officially recognised as a mental health condition you may be able to do that.
Never thought of this till now, wow that would be disastrous lol could you imagine???
Thanks popcorn 🙏
@@Slayer-7373 disastrous for the tax payer and the addict. They have a free income and time on their hands to drink.
@@Redsnapper123 yup exactly…
Yo I also had delirium couple of times but one of them was so bad so devilish i had voices calling me names i saw animals all over the walls closed my eyes and was in a cartoonish blissful forrest but on day 3 no sleep i saw a bunch of flies around me and i felt like someone was looking at me so i turned my head and i saw him for a split second he wore a colourful tshirt he was darkish brown his face looked like pigish but human like you see some old people looking like degenerated and when i saw him i decided to go get help i was given sleeping pills and slept it of if you wanna hear the full story comment back cause there is so much more
Wilddd man, I can relate to a lot of this though. Dt’s are only understandable by those who have been through them. I’d love to hear more of the story!!! I’m all ears.
@@Slayer-7373So it started with me waking up with huge hangover after binge then as time went on i had insomnia and before you know hallucinations started aggresive name calling i went outside to store and i could smell the worse of smells like from hell then when a crow flew past me and it crowed i heard it as hrrrrr demon like then i went in when night came i could see 5 cats in the other room looking at me we dont have cats btw then animals everywhere creatures and when i looked at the shelf across the room from the bed i saw 2 mini dudes chilling on chairs then i looked in other room and there was chairs with pillows that turned into a creature he was wrighting and he said come closer sent shivers down my spine, i had layed next to a window and heard 3 knocks which i think was real then as time passed day 3 morning like 6,7 or 8:00 i started getting some devilish visions all i remember seeing was metal big chains , bubbles like soup burning, and when i tried to sleep it was like i was taught about hell like i saw a hellish train and reading some devilish book then voices became so strong they knew everything that i was thinking and commenting about it all i remember she said "haha who is talking to you?" Obviously with a lot of name calling from different voices and then like a devil voice deep one told them something i cant remember what now then my grandparents where watching tv in other room and when i closed my eyes i could see what they where watching by the sound then i kept laying there looking like i was dying that when i started seeing the flies everywhere they werent flies just black dots flying like flies and that when i turned my head and saw him for a split second he was trying to see if i was dead that when i had a panic attack and went to get help also on the way back after they gave me pills my heart was racing out of my chest i had to walk real slow.
I also had other times not as intence with me being half asleep and demons come touch hold my hands and i had a kitten at the time he was sleeping next to me and the demon turned into my kitten but it was see through but felt like real thing but when i said your a demon it made a noise "huuh" like suprised . Other times i also talked with a ghost girl when i was in bed i heard footsteps walking up to my bed but wasnt scared of that. Yeah that my story but what is the most disturbing that i never stopped seeing those black dots i see them everyday a couple times a day
@@WyzszaKalibracjaPerspektyw woahhhh, that is absolutely insane brother!!!
Yeah, definitely addiction is a disease. It is caused by a number of factors such as trauma. Having an addiction isn't a choice, just like what you like and don't like isn't a choice, being hungry or having a poor appetite isn't a choice, but whether or not you use _is_ a choice -
"Living with a hunger pain, that feeling of emptiness all the time isn't worth it so you may as well use because without it life ain't worth it" - at least that's the rationale of the addict.
Using would be like treating the symptom of the disease (self medicating). Instead, we need to actually cure the underlying cause of the disease, whatever it may be for the individual. The cure would be connection amongst other things. We need to make a life that's actually worth being present/sober for.
Fantastic way of putting it. Thanks my friend 🙏
Uck, I would not feel comfortable in meetings with older predatory dudes like that -- I think there should be an option for women-only, men-only, and co-ed if people would like.
I agree with you. This is why o avoid those meetings. As a gal 😉/
@@Micru866 right? I feel like it would be just like getting on a bus, you have no idea who any of these people are. I totally think there should be groups for women only! Just like how we can request a female doctor or nurse, etc
@@stepha3003 right just like when I get a massage I prefer a women masseuse. It’s not that the risk goes away but it lowers the risk.
Agreed stepha!! 💯
Also thanks for the comment!!! 🙏🖤
What’s the difference between a hard drinker and an alcoholic?
If you’re an alcoholic you will not be able to stop yourself, usually if you ask the question it means you might have a problem. Keep me updated my friend!!
Xx all my love you and everyone ❤🎉
Love ya seg!!!! Thanks for always showing love and being an awesome person!!!! 🙏🖤
Wow
I know right?
@@Slayer-7373 im glad i stopped when i did 35 yrs ago,it was killn me in a bad way too.gotta see what it does to the body after a 50 or 60 yr addiction,and its not pretty green lips green tongue yellow skin phew
@@steveconnolly7129 good on you my friend, good on you. That’s not an easy thing to do, I know all too well.
@@Slayer-7373 many thanks 35 yrs sober its nothen,gettn the knoledge is the key to long term sober life,its a trigger effect in the brain that processes,mood and the uphoriia of the escape or feeling of gotta be the center of the crowd,truth,have a great day
@@steveconnolly7129 thank you for this wisdom my friend!! You have a great day as well.
Awww i love you slayer your so dignified xx even more respect to you
Id love that dudes number
Awe seg thank you so much 🖤. Your comments really do always bring a smile to my face, 🙏
No I don’t think men & women should be split up in AA meeting but in that situation that man should be banned from going to the aa meeting with her
100% agreed!
So also, we're imprisoning ppl that are sick when all the did was posses a substance.
Yea the laws are insane brother, trust me I know.
Predators are the reason some people drink. Like me
😓I’m very sorry to hear this.
@@Slayer-7373 Thanks 🙏
It becomes a disease
Absolutely it does. 💯
Cope … you drink to escape something it’s a nasty taste
It absolutely does. At some unknown point a switch is flipped and the disease kicks in.
@@caesar349 nah you just cant handle your issues sober respectfully
@@VicDamoneJr82I wish it were that simple and easy, respectfully.
Its like a disease but its not. You chose to start an you csn choose to stop. You cant choose to start or stop cancer. So techinally there really is a diffrence. I can understand why people would call it a disease but truth is there is a big diffrence between disease and addiction an dependance. Calling alcoholism a disease is kind of like calling cancer a addiction. Doesent really make sense.
Interesting my friend.
3 weeks 😂 wait a lil longer before you think you can give advice on shit you’re struggling with
Just sharing my thoughts friend. I’ll have 3 months in no time! God bless 🙏
Sobriety time is absolutely irrelevant. It’s a one day at a time program.
AA is helpful to some people! Avoid the needy guy who asks for a ride home across town! He may be an escaped vivisectionist! The females should be careful. It is called being 13th Stepped!
Yes! 13th stepped!
Slayer Stfu im drunk right now! i love yur channel i love what yur doing. But dude yu cant speak for everybody
Stay safe my friend!!!