That may be the best explanation of how to forgive any narcissist I have ever seen. Learning to set boundaries is difficult when you grow up receiving more abuse when you try to set them. This isn't by accident; people raised in narcissistic families received more abuse when they said 'no' or stood up for themselves. Being patient with yourself is the most important part of it all, and I needed that reminder today.
Thank you for your comment. I think it comes down to seeing them as a specific thing with unchangeable features not like a human, and constantly choosing ourselves and our own peace of mind over getting revenge or compensation, and also learning to take it easy in general. I have to make another video on this loll
@@shahrzadkhosravie "Choosing ourselves and our own peace of mind over getting revenge or compensation, and also learning to take it easy in general." Well said again!
That may be the best explanation of how to forgive any narcissist I have ever seen.
Learning to set boundaries is difficult when you grow up receiving more abuse when you try to set them. This isn't by accident; people raised in narcissistic families received more abuse when they said 'no' or stood up for themselves.
Being patient with yourself is the most important part of it all, and I needed that reminder today.
Thank you for your comment. I think it comes down to seeing them as a specific thing with unchangeable features not like a human, and constantly choosing ourselves and our own peace of mind over getting revenge or compensation, and also learning to take it easy in general. I have to make another video on this loll
@@shahrzadkhosravie "Choosing ourselves and our own peace of mind over getting revenge or compensation, and also learning to take it easy in general."
Well said again!