I do this to myself alot without even knowing it. I learned that the reason why I do it is because I feel that deep down, I'm afraid to fail. Only way to get over this is to get out there and do it anyway.
This is super confusing to me: Why do I have TWO amazingly attractive girlfriends even though I am the unprettiest UA-camr EVER? Good night dear brian tobias the amazing man
@@jurjenbavelaar1558 100% agree. That is my motto this year. For my example, I haven't felt confident in a lot of things since I was 17. I am now 25 (yes, I know, self sabotage). But, I have never left my comfort zone. This can be in relation to women, talking to strangers at a bar or sports game, in investing, saying what I really feel at work, etc. If I give it a whole year, I am sure something positive will come about because of it
Love the animations. Sometimes we self sabotage ourselves because the person we want to become does not align with who we are right now so there is an internal struggle
I was afraid to fail. I didnt know it until I actually started doing things. But I used to fear failure, fear that even if I would give my all I will actually fail. That is so wrong. I'm stronger than that, you too. Give your best. Whatever. Fear is a waste of time. Work more on your happiness and your dreams. With much love. Mina
I recall reading somewhere that the biggest regret people had when they where older where not the decisions they regretted doing at that time but the decisions they never acted on.
Life is about living and taking risks and some will work out and some won't but in the end it was a learning experience that helps make us stronger either way!
For the 2% that read this, I hope you accomplish your dreams and make them better than you imagine. My dream is to become a successful youtuber one day
My Self Sabotage/ Fears: • I fear targeting my ambitions because just as the dogs in the Pavlovian experiment would salivate at the sound of a ringing bell- I would *panic* anytime something good would happen to me and fear it being taken away. Like there’s a curse that the inevitable would always be somber; or a hidden motive was behind someone doing something nice for me • I chose to partake in long distance relationships and it’s become a pattern. I have that sense of security they’ll fall for me before allowing my sexual urges to take over. I grew up in a devout Christian household and I’ve felt that suppressing my sexuality only made it worse. I deliberately chose people out of my reach because I’ve also been raped 😕 so it makes me feel like I’ve got more sense of control of not being touched even when Physical Touch is my highest love language though that was violated in the past and I get conflicted • I revel in self deprecation jokes too far • I’m scared that getting fit will make me relapse my bulimia • and my worst self sabotage is knowing what’s bad for me I go ahead and do them regardless of what my brain is screaming at me to do WELL THEN. Just dropped my baggage online. 😐 anyone do what i do?
Embrace fear!!! You’re always going to be afraid, and when you feel afraid and uncomfortable that means you need to do it... This famous theatre artist (forget their name) throws up before going on stage because they are fearful of performing, but they go on stage and perform anyways and do an outstanding job. But, if you fail keep going because guess what, you got an outcome! Rather try and fail then not try at all, that’s the truest failure...
@ɮօʊռċɛ օʄʄ it's as real as it gets. Not acknowledging it is a big mistake, so take your edgy lines out of here. People watch this channel to identify and address their problems...
this is BRILLIANT! I always figured fear of failure was the thing freezing, but I fail all the time and It's just a normal thing to me. It's actually when I'm doing good that I stop myself, I can't put into words how accurate this fits my situation. Thanks a lot for making this video, I'll get to working on improving these associations!
I take my failures and dwell on them, it’s hard for me not to tell myself stuff while I see myself failing and my co workers doing better. I try to do affirmations, have positive attitude, and do everything to focus on here and now but it helps only to a certain degree. This video is exactly what I needed, a compass TY. You da best
Work as hard as you can. Try to achieve the most amazing thing you can imagine yourself doing. You probably won't reach it but getting pretty close to that is already crazy good.
our subconscious mind is 30,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind, A lot of us have so many limiting beliefs because of our programming and conditioning since we were babies. But here is something powerful, we can actually rewire our brains and shed those limiting beliefs, There is so much hidden potential within us that we just need to take time to explore
I don't think it's that strong...maybe the deepest level of the unconscious mind but its simply a matter of plowing through your fears and taking action in sprite of them and making new distinctions
I love this channel and alot of the messages help me. I found recently that I don't watch episodes because I'm afraid to change. Just by watching this video I learned I'm self sabotaging by not watching more videos. Thank you, good luck to all on your personal development.
If there are barriers preventing you from making progress, the first step is to identify what those barriers are and why they exist. Only then can you surmount them. This video does a fine job identifying one of the most common barriers that I've experienced. Great job!
I feel like this is something a lot of people do without even realizing then just blame themselves and get stuck in a never ending cycle or rut of failure and "self-sabotaging" behaviors! It's hard to break but with a mindset shift it's totally doable and gets easier over time!
I've done this the last 15 years. I know exactly what to do. Instead of cutting my wrists, like many do, I deliberately fail at acheiving things in life. It's like the depression makes me think I don't deserve a harmonic mind. It hurt myself all the time by doing this to myself. The difficult part is to actually do something about it, I am my own worst sabotaging "friend". Important subject, thanks for bringing this up! I love your channel btw, I have learned many other things from you. Such as the how "not to give a f**ck" video. Keep on the good work! (The difference between you and Jordan Peterson is that Jordan is a narcissistic. There is something fishy about him)
Thanks Charlie! This is a video I needed right now! Thank you so much for all the incredible work you guys do! You guys have transformed my life for the better!
Damn no lie I did what this vid present of going from self sabotage to improving yourself during winter break. Nice I gave myself positive beliefs on my own.🙌🏼
I did this exercise around my false notion that popularity was synonymous with a shallow life style. I refocused the idea of building popularity as a way to expose my band to a wider audience, record labels and other bands in our genre that would want us to open for them. Popularity could lead to financial stability in regards to my career in music. Now I can apply this method to any other false notions preventing me from being my best self. Thank you.
I really appreciate this video. Due to the fact that the host looks very similar to someone I used to know who was a very unhappy person, and took his own life. However charisma on command is very healthy & holds valuable information in self value.
I do this with romantic relationships. As a young adult, I 'ran away' from mom and dad to be with a boyfriend. But I received the same treatment (criticism), so I would 'run back home'. My mom instilled in me that a young, beautiful, girl, living in Manhattan, would be raped and/or murdered. Now they are both deceased and I am happily living on my own, in the house, where I helped them retire (Las Vegas). I haven't had a relationship since 2005. YIKES! My limiting beliefs about men and romance seem so real. Ooooh. Maybe I am 'proving' to my dead mother that I CAN do it. Thank you so much Charlie. I've been working on this for sooo long. And in 1 video, you inspired me to uncover the compulsion to stay single. It wasn't the man thing. It was the capability thing. You're a genius. I always look forward to every Monday with you.
Great animation bro! I agree heartily with you bro, we self-sabotage due to feeling sick of our own failures and stupidity at some point in our life. Kudos for making this video bro, thanks for addressing this topic. Good job on this one. 🙏
Love this. Perfectly timed too. I’ve been delaying and procrastinating applying to jobs. I need a cover letter and to fix my Indeed profile. Will not be hanging out with my friends tomorrow until I finish those two things. Thank you CoC!!!! Keep it up, bro. You’ve been such a support system, you wouldn’t believe it. Much love and prosperity to you, your family, and those reading this. - Alex
The biggest believe, the one I think it all boils down to, is "I don't deserve this." BUT yes: you are good enough, you can allow yourself to be happy!
I usually don't comment on UA-cam, but damn this video is amazing. From the content to its animation and the music connected to it. Keep up the great work Charlie👍
With all things holding you back, it’s great if you have somebody who will listen to you and help you to analyse your issues and make according adjustments. Writing in general is also a great way to tackle problems since it’s the manifestation of thoughts.
I recognized zeino animatin style and characters design instantly and have to say, it was a good choice... You should let him do some cameo style voice over as well as he has a unique voice profile... Nice video
I have an another technique, when ever I am tensed or afraid I go completely dumb, then to solve this I think about my self as excited I constantly tell to myself that I am excited rather than afraid. This brings back the normal state of my brain
It’s true, mental associations can either bring you down or satisfy your inner motives. It’s important to have a positive mindset. And to whoever is reading this, I hope you’ll succeed too.
Thank you for this video bro. Does asking myself questions about what belief i have consistently will show me what belief i have and what can i do now to change it.
I applied to be the Police Chief of my City, with absolutely no law enforcement experience. Shoot for the stars, never limit yourself. They should be calling me for an interview any day now.
I do this to myself a lot and i think the reason is because i am afraid of what people think of me. for 2019 i am gonna change this. this video was very useful, thank you
Headspace is like 90% off for students, btw. I think it's also ~50% off for nonstudents right now. Meditation is wonderful and I suggest you all find someone to help guide you through doing it properly for a long while before you do it on your own.
Great video, the animations are getting better and better! I'm not sure if it's the most appropriate music to put in the background, but still it filled the void and gave a certain pace to the explanation (you spoke really quickly!) Besides, the content is highly valuable. Thank you for your work, cheers to everyone involved in the making of the video =)
I have pondered on this topic recently, and I have come to the conclusion that my mental inhibitor is my fear of getting stuck. I decide to write something and then stop because I am afraid I will get writer's block. I will not get stuck as long as I continue to learn, and try. Great topic. B#
@@Ariel-uo4gy, I can't argue with that definition. But the only way to not accomplish your goal is to quit trying to reach it. You're not defeated until you accept defeat.
This reminds me of two questions: 1) Why do many of us get stuck in their mind with their greatest failures and drown themselves in misery? 2) Why can some people just stop taking drugs overnight, while others were already clean and force themselves to drink and smoke again after an operation that required them to be clean? Yes, these are extreme examples, but it could translate to bad habits, like excessive gaming/surfing, wasting time, compulsive eating of sweets etc.
this is exactly the truth. right now im studying for an exam for entry to a law school. i know thats my success i want to pass that exam but deep down im afraid that if i pass the test everything is going to change and i have get out of my comfort zone. im trying my best to pass it but a little part of me is happy if im going to fail
A lot of fantastic points! I do this all the time and it has bumped me out of many many great opportunities in life. Always thought I wasn't worth it, Im not good enough, No one will work with me, Oh Im being a bother if I XXXXXX etc... How wrong I was! (And you are too!) In the words of Edna Mode (The Incredibles) GET OUT THERE, FIGHT! WIN!
If I am comfortable then I know I’m not trying hard enough. I wanna earn my way through songwriting and performance into the music industry. I’ve never felt ready to walk out on stage or post a video an I suspect I never will,, but I’ll continue doing them both until I’m not able anymore.. love the video !
I feel like I am undeserving of relationships and love and I don't fight for what I really want because of anxiety and feeling I'm not ready for better things
@@jaiminsharma therapy sounds amazing and ive wanted it for a while now but it requires money i unfortunately dont have, ive looked into other options but i do prefer the face to face therapy along with someone more specialized in specific things
@@robbie_azure Sorry to hear that bud... Why don't you read a book called "Breaking the habit of being yourself" it's groundbreaking... And also I found affordable therapy online.... From Alpha.m channel... Can't remember it's name... But it's like 55 buck per month...
@@robbie_azure Just to let you know Robbie... There are people willing to accept you unconditionally (yes) I have met such people... I also had beliefs like yours.. and history of childhood sexual abuse... If no one has ever told you this let me tell you that you matter... And you deserve to be loved as you are... We all do... You will find them once you see your worth...
for me seemed just an excuse for the advertising message in the end format also is not helping. seeing the guy talking was really different in the mass of flash animated self improvement videos.
Great video and topic to cover. thank you. I totally concur with you. Everything starts in the mind and one manifests what they think about most of the time.
Today once again I screwed up the best date of my life to keep myself safe. But this video and others alike gives hope that one day people will be free :)
I do this to myself alot without even knowing it. I learned that the reason why I do it is because I feel that deep down, I'm afraid to fail. Only way to get over this is to get out there and do it anyway.
This is super confusing to me: Why do I have TWO amazingly attractive girlfriends even though I am the unprettiest UA-camr EVER? Good night dear brian tobias the amazing man
👍🏼
How about you look at it like this. If you don't leave your comfort zone, you are FAILING yourself regardless.
AxxL how do you have two girlfriends wtf? Are you cheating?
@@jurjenbavelaar1558 100% agree. That is my motto this year. For my example, I haven't felt confident in a lot of things since I was 17. I am now 25 (yes, I know, self sabotage). But, I have never left my comfort zone. This can be in relation to women, talking to strangers at a bar or sports game, in investing, saying what I really feel at work, etc. If I give it a whole year, I am sure something positive will come about because of it
"Everything you want is just outside your comfort zone." - Robert Allen
Neel Shukla google him
Love the animations. Sometimes we self sabotage ourselves because the person we want to become does not align with who we are right now so there is an internal struggle
The animation is inspired from Kurzgesagt
@@mihaimarcu4435 I actually thought this was a Kurzgesagt video at first.
How do you get through that
@@mihaimarcu4435 Hahaha ,I thought why the heck would they coop with this channel....Well said though!
Kurzgesagt just recently released some animation related stuff so other people can use their animation style
I was afraid to fail. I didnt know it until I actually started doing things. But I used to fear failure, fear that even if I would give my all I will actually fail. That is so wrong. I'm stronger than that, you too. Give your best. Whatever. Fear is a waste of time. Work more on your happiness and your dreams. With much love. Mina
*Do you really want to look back on your life and see how wonderful it could have been had you not been afraid to live it? %*
Damn... that is actually tough..
I recall reading somewhere that the biggest regret people had when they where older where not the decisions they regretted doing at that time but the decisions they never acted on.
@@Existinginthespace Exactly! :)
Life is about living and taking risks and some will work out and some won't but in the end it was a learning experience that helps make us stronger either way!
@@Existinginthespace Isn't that paradoxical though? Coz every decision that you make is made by not acting on some alternative decision.
For the 2% that read this, I hope you accomplish your dreams and make them better than you imagine. My dream is to become a successful youtuber one day
Robin Mackay thanks bro
I subscribed to your channel in support
Robin Mackay dont filma dead guy then😂
Thanks, but I dont hope my dreams come true, I make sure my dream comes true.
hopefully one day i will copypaste this comment under one of your 1 million viewed videos.👍
Having a negative self talk will sabotage your own success.
very true
Facts!
It took about 6 or 8 months of daily incantations and the negative self talk was gone.
My Self Sabotage/ Fears:
• I fear targeting my ambitions because just as the dogs in the Pavlovian experiment would salivate at the sound of a ringing bell- I would *panic* anytime something good would happen to me and fear it being taken away. Like there’s a curse that the inevitable would always be somber; or a hidden motive was behind someone doing something nice for me
• I chose to partake in long distance relationships and it’s become a pattern. I have that sense of security they’ll fall for me before allowing my sexual urges to take over. I grew up in a devout Christian household and I’ve felt that suppressing my sexuality only made it worse. I deliberately chose people out of my reach because I’ve also been raped 😕 so it makes me feel like I’ve got more sense of control of not being touched even when Physical Touch is my highest love language though that was violated in the past and I get conflicted
• I revel in self deprecation jokes too far
• I’m scared that getting fit will make me relapse my bulimia
• and my worst self sabotage is knowing what’s bad for me I go ahead and do them regardless of what my brain is screaming at me to do
WELL THEN. Just dropped my baggage online. 😐 anyone do what i do?
So, this was 3 years ago, I don't think I'm eligible to give any advice since I'm here with the same problem. But I hope you've gotten better now.
How are you now Alex 😺 ?
Embrace fear!!! You’re always going to be afraid, and when you feel afraid and uncomfortable that means you need to do it... This famous theatre artist (forget their name) throws up before going on stage because they are fearful of performing, but they go on stage and perform anyways and do an outstanding job. But, if you fail keep going because guess what, you got an outcome! Rather try and fail then not try at all, that’s the truest failure...
@ɮօʊռċɛ օʄʄ it's as real as it gets. Not acknowledging it is a big mistake, so take your edgy lines out of here. People watch this channel to identify and address their problems...
Eminem would throw up before performing, imagine if that would have stopped him..
@@RickyConnelley mom's spaghetti?
Isnt this the Kurzgesagt art style?
Elodyne When I saw it I immediatly thought it was a Kurzgesagt video.😂
Probably paid for their online animation course
yeah :O
Nhah its just similar, Kurzgesagt does a more strokey style :)
More like a mix with infographics
I am sabotaging myself right now by watching a UA-cam video, lmao
this is BRILLIANT! I always figured fear of failure was the thing freezing, but I fail all the time and It's just a normal thing to me. It's actually when I'm doing good that I stop myself, I can't put into words how accurate this fits my situation. Thanks a lot for making this video, I'll get to working on improving these associations!
I love the animation!!! How creative and helpful. Thank you Charlie 🙏🏼
~ Awesome! Glad you're digging it.:-)
"A thousand fewer dollars to spend on myself every month" damn bro, I wish I had that much disposable income
Every fear is somehow trying to protect us! Being compassionate with it is super valuable!
I take my failures and dwell on them, it’s hard for me not to tell myself stuff while I see myself failing and my co workers doing better. I try to do affirmations, have positive attitude, and do everything to focus on here and now but it helps only to a certain degree. This video is exactly what I needed, a compass TY. You da best
Work as hard as you can. Try to achieve the most amazing thing you can imagine yourself doing. You probably won't reach it but getting pretty close to that is already crazy good.
✋🏼👊🏼😀❤️ I used to let fear run my life. Meditation really helped out in my situation. Much appreciation and love.
bro, I got the same feeling that my life is controlled by fear instead of inspiration and positive light stress. any other tips?
Stepping out of your comfort zone on a regular basis is one of the best things you can do to help make you stronger!!
our subconscious mind is 30,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind, A lot of us have so many limiting beliefs because of our programming and conditioning since we were babies. But here is something powerful, we can actually rewire our brains and shed those limiting beliefs, There is so much hidden potential within us that we just need to take time to explore
I don't think it's that strong...maybe the deepest level of the unconscious mind but its simply a matter of plowing through your fears and taking action in sprite of them and making new distinctions
How can we rewire?
I literally couldn't hand in one of my assignment deadlines today due to lack of work on it...
This was well timed :P ty dude
You're totally right man. The problem definitely is our belief system. That changed, everything changes automatically
I couldn't agree more. Negative self talk is so detrimental to personal and professional development!
I love this channel and alot of the messages help me. I found recently that I don't watch episodes because I'm afraid to change. Just by watching this video I learned I'm self sabotaging by not watching more videos.
Thank you, good luck to all on your personal development.
One of the most eye-opening and practical video I have ever seen. Thanks!
*Really well broken down brotherhood. Self sabotaging is to protect us, but in a bad way*
Thank you man!
Winny out... _for now_ 😉
If there are barriers preventing you from making progress, the first step is to identify what those barriers are and why they exist. Only then can you surmount them.
This video does a fine job identifying one of the most common barriers that I've experienced. Great job!
I feel like this is something a lot of people do without even realizing then just blame themselves and get stuck in a never ending cycle or rut of failure and "self-sabotaging" behaviors! It's hard to break but with a mindset shift it's totally doable and gets easier over time!
I've done this the last 15 years. I know exactly what to do. Instead of cutting my wrists, like many do, I deliberately fail at acheiving things in life. It's like the depression makes me think I don't deserve a harmonic mind. It hurt myself all the time by doing this to myself. The difficult part is to actually do something about it, I am my own worst sabotaging "friend". Important subject, thanks for bringing this up! I love your channel btw, I have learned many other things from you. Such as the how "not to give a f**ck" video. Keep on the good work! (The difference between you and Jordan Peterson is that Jordan is a narcissistic. There is something fishy about him)
Thanks Charlie! This is a video I needed right now! Thank you so much for all the incredible work you guys do! You guys have transformed my life for the better!
~ Glad to know you're getting value from our content!
Damn no lie I did what this vid present of going from self sabotage to improving yourself during winter break. Nice I gave myself positive beliefs on my own.🙌🏼
I did this exercise around my false notion that popularity was synonymous with a shallow life style. I refocused the idea of building popularity as a way to expose my band to a wider audience, record labels and other bands in our genre that would want us to open for them. Popularity could lead to financial stability in regards to my career in music. Now I can apply this method to any other false notions preventing me from being my best self. Thank you.
I love the animation diversification on this channel. It keeps getting better and better! Thanks, for the amazing and useful content!
~ Glad you're digging it!
THANK YOU. This and the comment section has helped a lot. Just what I needed. I had really been struggling and feeling misserable. Thank youu!!!
This video couldn't be posted at a better time. Thank you.
This video is worth gold.
I really appreciate this video.
Due to the fact that the host looks
very similar to someone I used to know who was a very unhappy person, and took his own life.
However charisma on command is very healthy & holds valuable information in self value.
Single handedly the best channel on youtube to improve my life.
I do this with romantic relationships. As a young adult, I 'ran away' from mom and dad to be with a boyfriend. But I received the same treatment (criticism), so I would 'run back home'. My mom instilled in me that a young, beautiful, girl, living in Manhattan, would be raped and/or murdered. Now they are both deceased and I am happily living on my own, in the house, where I helped them retire (Las Vegas). I haven't had a relationship since 2005. YIKES! My limiting beliefs about men and romance seem so real. Ooooh. Maybe I am 'proving' to my dead mother that I CAN do it. Thank you so much Charlie. I've been working on this for sooo long. And in 1 video, you inspired me to uncover the compulsion to stay single. It wasn't the man thing. It was the capability thing. You're a genius. I always look forward to every Monday with you.
Great animation bro! I agree heartily with you bro, we self-sabotage due to feeling sick of our own failures and stupidity at some point in our life. Kudos for making this video bro, thanks for addressing this topic. Good job on this one. 🙏
~ Glad you liked it, Anri!
Love this. Perfectly timed too. I’ve been delaying and procrastinating applying to jobs. I need a cover letter and to fix my Indeed profile. Will not be hanging out with my friends tomorrow until I finish those two things. Thank you CoC!!!! Keep it up, bro. You’ve been such a support system, you wouldn’t believe it. Much love and prosperity to you, your family, and those reading this.
- Alex
~ Glad you found this video helpful, Alex! Best of luck with the job search. :-)
Bravery isnt not being scared. Bravery is being scared and doing it anyway. Get out there and chase your dreams!
The biggest believe, the one I think it all boils down to, is "I don't deserve this." BUT yes: you are good enough, you can allow yourself to be happy!
Difficult to listen to this with the music of Carmen racing along in the background. Choose something with a slower pace.
I usually don't comment on UA-cam, but damn this video is amazing. From the content to its animation and the music connected to it. Keep up the great work Charlie👍
~ Glad to hear you liked it!
With all things holding you back, it’s great if you have somebody who will listen to you and help you to analyse your issues and make according adjustments. Writing in general is also a great way to tackle problems since it’s the manifestation of thoughts.
Spend time alone it helps you to know you and build your character but be careful of beast within.
I recognized zeino animatin style and characters design instantly and have to say, it was a good choice...
You should let him do some cameo style voice over as well as he has a unique voice profile...
Nice video
I have an another technique, when ever I am tensed or afraid I go completely dumb, then to solve this I think about my self as excited I constantly tell to myself that I am excited rather than afraid. This brings back the normal state of my brain
Anyone else think Charlie is the perfect example for this channel???
association .
Counter examples.
More to give.
Really enjoyed these animations. I like that you include a mixture of talking-to-the-camera-videos and this. 👍
~ Glad you're enjoying the videos!
Perfectly summed up ! Great content Charlie.
Your beliefs create your reality.
Thank you, lightbulb moment just happened here in my brain! Simple explanation, love it! 🙏💡
Still love what you’re doing with the animations. Keep up the good work.
Did I just find the best channel on UA-cam?? I think I did!
It’s true, mental associations can either bring you down or satisfy your inner motives. It’s important to have a positive mindset. And to whoever is reading this, I hope you’ll succeed too.
It is so important to be aware of this cause I do this every day
Thank you for this video bro. Does asking myself questions about what belief i have consistently will show me what belief i have and what can i do now to change it.
I applied to be the Police Chief of my City, with absolutely no law enforcement experience.
Shoot for the stars, never limit yourself. They should be calling me for an interview any day now.
Im very interested to know if anything happened.
I comment rarely but this video is very well made! The animations are awesome, keep up the good work!
~ Appreciate your comment! Glad you're liking the video. :-)
You have a very pleasant voice to listen to.
Good content and animations, but man: the background music is VERY poorly picked. Kinda destroyed this video for me.
Enea Francesco same. Couldn't even concentrate on what he was saying
Yes, the music was very distracting.
Yay subtitles and mute!
I do this to myself a lot and i think the reason is because i am afraid of what people think of me.
for 2019 i am gonna change this. this video was very useful, thank you
~ Awesome!
Headspace is like 90% off for students, btw. I think it's also ~50% off for nonstudents right now. Meditation is wonderful and I suggest you all find someone to help guide you through doing it properly for a long while before you do it on your own.
Thank you. I need to be constantly reminded of this.
Great video, the animations are getting better and better!
I'm not sure if it's the most appropriate music to put in the background, but still it filled the void and gave a certain pace to the explanation (you spoke really quickly!)
Besides, the content is highly valuable.
Thank you for your work, cheers to everyone involved in the making of the video =)
This really helped me I'm using this method every time I feel like I'm sabotaging myself
I have pondered on this topic recently, and I have come to the conclusion that my mental inhibitor is my fear of getting stuck.
I decide to write something and then stop because I am afraid I will get writer's block.
I will not get stuck as long as I continue to learn, and try.
Great topic. B#
Failure only happens to those who try
At least they tried.
If you try you may failure, if you don't failure is guaranteed.
If you don't try, you can't fail and why try at all if it's all for nothing?
Nonsense. Setbacks happen to everyone - they're sometimes unpleasant, but not important. Failure only happens to those who quit trying.
emdoub call it what you want but to me failure is not accomplishing your goal
@@Ariel-uo4gy, I can't argue with that definition. But the only way to not accomplish your goal is to quit trying to reach it. You're not defeated until you accept defeat.
This reminds me of two questions:
1) Why do many of us get stuck in their mind with their greatest failures and drown themselves in misery?
2) Why can some people just stop taking drugs overnight, while others were already clean and force themselves to drink and smoke again after an operation that required them to be clean? Yes, these are extreme examples, but it could translate to bad habits, like excessive gaming/surfing, wasting time, compulsive eating of sweets etc.
this is exactly the truth. right now im studying for an exam for entry to a law school. i know thats my success i want to pass that exam but deep down im afraid that if i pass the test everything is going to change and i have get out of my comfort zone. im trying my best to pass it but a little part of me is happy if im going to fail
I just went to a concert on my own in my hometown and i have social anxiety, i am proud of myself😁
Thank you for making this.
New format for 2019? Great points as usual!
This is wonderful. Thank you.
Great video but the music makes it so distracting
Its kinda ironic that to be happy you need to put effort while its so easy to feel miserable
A lot of fantastic points! I do this all the time and it has bumped me out of many many great opportunities in life. Always thought I wasn't worth it, Im not good enough, No one will work with me, Oh Im being a bother if I XXXXXX etc...
How wrong I was! (And you are too!) In the words of Edna Mode (The Incredibles) GET OUT THERE, FIGHT! WIN!
Now this song is stuck in my head
I love your videos and emails. Keep them coming please.
~ Glad you're loving them, Kimberly! We'll definitely keep them coming. :-)
BOTW is pretty good
Wow great video - thanks for helping!
If I am comfortable then I know I’m not trying hard enough. I wanna earn my way through songwriting and performance into the music industry. I’ve never felt ready to walk out on stage or post a video an I suspect I never will,, but I’ll continue doing them both until I’m not able anymore.. love the video !
I feel like I am undeserving of relationships and love and I don't fight for what I really want because of anxiety and feeling I'm not ready for better things
Feeling unlovable may come from childhood trauma as well... Or shame can cause it... Have you tried therapy?
@@jaiminsharma therapy sounds amazing and ive wanted it for a while now but it requires money i unfortunately dont have, ive looked into other options but i do prefer the face to face therapy along with someone more specialized in specific things
@@robbie_azure Sorry to hear that bud... Why don't you read a book called "Breaking the habit of being yourself" it's groundbreaking... And also I found affordable therapy online.... From Alpha.m channel... Can't remember it's name... But it's like 55 buck per month...
@@jaiminsharma thanks for the recommendation ill look into both
@@robbie_azure Just to let you know Robbie... There are people willing to accept you unconditionally (yes) I have met such people... I also had beliefs like yours.. and history of childhood sexual abuse... If no one has ever told you this let me tell you that you matter... And you deserve to be loved as you are... We all do... You will find them once you see your worth...
Love the f1 podium music in the background
for me seemed just an excuse for the advertising message in the end
format also is not helping. seeing the guy talking was really different in the mass of flash animated self improvement videos.
I self consciously do this all the time for multiple reason, one of them is I don't have belief or hope.
Dreamers fail if they aren't prepared, always be prepared for the right moment, so open your eyes.
Yes Theory is a great youtube channel empowering this idea.
Great video and topic to cover. thank you. I totally concur with you. Everything starts in the mind and one manifests what they think about most of the time.
Perfect timing charlie
that background music is giving me a headache. peaceout.
I thought i was the only one, so annoying.
@Cindy C. You hate classical?
What if one day you're forced to listen to crap music? Think of this as practice. Focus on signal, not noise.
@Cindy C. Thanks for letting me know.
i bet u watched it anyways lol peace
i like DP’s new blue color palette for Josuke
I think the most important thing for me about this video is that I actually believe that this will work.
Today once again I screwed up the best date of my life to keep myself safe. But this video and others alike gives hope that one day people will be free :)
Great video...but the background track is loud and distracting
I absolutely love these animated videos
FIRST UR A HUGE INSPIRATION BRO KEEP DOING U MAN AND UPLOAD MORE PLS
good job
@@josefine527 haha ty
I tried the simple habit app and I love it