High self esteem comes from accepting yourself fully and completely. Independent of any external circumstances in your life. This is harder than it sounds.
And it's the dummies that makes it hard. There's always those whose low self esteem's only mission is to bring everyone down to its level. When you truly learn to turn the other cheek for those people, you start to accept yourself as you should.
Well said man, I couldn't have said it better myself. That is very true, it is much easier said than done. If I had anything to add, it would be that this *is* the reason so many people struggle with depression now a days, learning how to address your past properly and forgiving yourself is definitely up there on the list of hardest things everyone deals with.
Authentic Self Guide so hard 🤦🏿♂️ I look so happy on the outside man but emotionally ima mess . I put it all out on UA-cam , because ion want anybody to know, i gotta be strong for my friends who are going through worse
1. Failure does not make you unworthy of happiness 2. Offer yourself as much compassion as you would a dear friend 3. Don’t deny the responsibility for what you do now 4. You need to learn a healthy, enlightened selfishness 5. No matter what everything will be ok
"Listen to the voices in your head that hold you back, thank them for doing their best to protect you from change and let them know that you can handle it from here" Love the way you said that Charlie!
The Demented Man32 you shouldn’t agree with everything that someone says. At that point, you’re justifying statements that you might have disagreed with if the ideas presented had come from someone else.
@@teaisfortired-6467 I don't think its right to say "you shouldn't agree with everything that someone says". I'd say "you shouldn't necessarily have to agree with everything that someone says". Because sometimes you do meet people who you share almost every opinion on a topic with.
this is absolutely true. Man when i was feeling low it was because my self esteem was low and it triggered anxiety. When the self esteem went up anxiety went away.
I know this is a joke, but this is far from therapy and a therapist can get alot deeper and help you get better and lasting results and see problems you never even realized you had.
First step tell yourself that you’re worthy. Second write down some affirmations and meditate. As time goes on engage in whatever action in life that you want to take with a new reborn self-confidence.
Take action...do something that will build that self belief and that self confidence... challenge yourself. Think about something that will make you proud of happy if you did it now. Go do it. Over and over again
You were the first one that introduced me to The six Pillars of Self-esteem by Nathaniel Branden, a book that changed my life. For that, I'm forever grateful. The six pillars are: 1.The Practice of Living Consciously 2.The Practice of Self-Acceptance 3.The Practice of Self-ResponsibiIity 4.The Practice of Self-Assertiveness 5.The Practice of Living Purposefully 6.The Practice of Personal Integrity Thanks again for keep educating me in a fun and entertaining way Charlie & Ben :)
I would love to see more videos about accepting and being happy about being alone. For me, I enjoy being alone and honestly I don't feel lonely because I embrace my precious time with myself by doing hobbies I love such as playing piano, painting, tea drinking, bow and arrow, camping and so much more. Embrace bring alone. It's quiet and you can spend a lot of time truly getting to know yourself and what you truly want out of life. And the conversations I do have with people are amazing. Each conversation you have with a stranger is precious and unique. Just the other day I was getting work done on my car and had a 20 minute conversation with the owner there about the education system. Did I know much about the subject? Nope but you said what he believed, I said what I believed and we questioned each other with joy. This happens all the time. Again, you are alone not lonely.
*Self-esteem comes within* - Understanding your human worth and that nothing or no one can take it away from you, if you don't let it/them Self-query: asking yourself what, why, how and being honest with aswers
@Abe. That’s intriguing. I’ve always found nihilism to drive me to feed my curiosity for knowledge. Even in the end if it’s only subjective. Asking questions and seeking out the answers through reading books and reflecting on the material that I read was always my way of overcoming nihilism. I take it you’re an extrovert, so you must overcome it’s downfalls be engaging in conversations and profound debates with others.
Charlie, I think Howard’s line “My father never met a problem he couldn’t solve with a belt,” also bears significance, because at that time, Tony realizes that his dad had it even harder than he did, and was just doing what he thought was better than what he himself got (the belt, repeatedly). I find this to be a very conscious viewpoint: bigger-picture.
Literally every single sentence this guy says is worth pausing the video and thinking about. His videos are really worth your time unlike other unpractical videos on the same topic.!!
Your discussion of Steve’s change in mindset is great and enlightening. Lots of people complained about Steve not being the same “I can do this all day” guy, but that feels like stagnant character journey. I thought Endgame hinted at how Steve moved on when he confronted his old self and was like “I knooOOW”
This was an amazing breakdown. I really really loved and related so hard to Thor's storyline... doing all the things you mentioned in his story arc and even Nebula's really really helped me these last two years, so I can attest that these things are sound advice! Loved this video, thanks so much for helping us all gain in our self-esteem! ♡
Wow... After this video I had to rethink my whole life from where I was then, to where I am now. Really puts a smile on my face! I'm saving this vid in my special playlists
This is one of the most amazing, beautiful videos I have seen on Self - Esteem. Maybe the best yet. It is a deep, real analysis, that avoids clichés and catchphrases like "believe in yourself", "you can do it", "believe everything is possible" ...mindsets that may generate harsher and more negative feelings towards oneself. The way you exposed all of your ideas through EndGame was amazing, super clear, and made me like that movie even more!! (didn't think that could be possible) Thank you!! Beautiful work
The lesson on "Everything is going to be ok" is actually something Ive been integrating into my own life to help with my anger issues. The question to ask yourself of "How will this situation matter 5 years from now?" has helped a ton with keeping myself controlled where I can make a calm, logical decision on a dilemma.
Charlie, I just want to say thank you. I'm a painfully shy individual lol, but your videos remind me to get out of my own head and relax and have fun. I'm not who I want to be yet, but I'm not who I was either, and I owe that partly to your videos. Thank you so much 🤗 Keep it up!
Very, very good video. Gave me goosebumps the realization that in you have to have faith that in the grand scheme of things everything will turn out fine.
Dont forget the understated lesson taught by Banner. By accepting the things we are most often ashamed/afraid of in ourselves (our id if you will). We learn from our shortcomings and grow exponentially because of it.
This is such a creative way to combine the topic of confidence and one of the best action movies ever! You guys did such a great job on this one! One of my top favorites for sure.
This is such a phenomenal video among many on this channel. All of these applied to and resonated with me but the one that hurt the most and I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to fully realize this is Thor’s/the first one but specifically: “he knows all the right things to say but he can’t get himself to feel those things.”
I know one day I can afford CU program but for now I can only thank you for these youtube videos. I learn many things from these informative videos . Thanks for making these videos and helping us. genuinely appreciate your works and never stop making these videos
"Who we are supposed to be" does not exist,we are enough, we are wonderful and it's ok to make mistakes. We are worthy of forgiveness and love. It's ok to review our past and learn for it but not dwelling on it, failure is an opportunity :)
Thank you for sharing this video with us! I was really moved ,and at several points of the video, had to blink back some tears. The things you said in this video, especially the part about allowing ourselves forgiveness, really made me think that from now on, things can get better.
Thanks for this video C on C. I;'m at a low point in my life due to Failure and it really helps to know that I'm still worthy of love and happiness despite all of my mistakes.
I always watch these videos and I always say to myself: I’m gonna be like that. And then after a nights sleep, I completely forget that mindset. Which is sad.
I really needed this at this moment of my life. Thank you for clearly explaining all the key aspects of self-esteem. I never imagined it could all come from the last avengers movie. I hope this video gets more views and is shared with others who will need it as well. Thank you so much
I wasn't brave or confident. But I discovered great ability in thinking for myself...And inert skill. I became a hero. Now, nobody, family especially, no one knows me, or cares about what it cost me.
Charisma on Command, thank you so much. I’ve just recently come out of a tremendous emotional breakdown and I berate myself as I usually would in its fallout. This is exactly what I needed to have some clarity and peace with myself 🙏 🙏 This ought to be mental health on command
Man, you've NO IDEA for how many YEARS I've been searching for a way to finally not feel GUILT for my past mistakes. I've rationalised my decisions a billion times over and over again in the way I truely believe is logically right, and even then my feelings wouldn't leave me be. But following point nr. 1 & 2 from the video FINALLY let me get some goddamn peace-of-mind from my feelings for my past mistakes xD! THANK YOU!!!
Y'know I just finished Endgame for the first time. (I know I'm late) BUT just after I finished watching this your video about Self-Esteem referencing Avengers Endgame goes LIVE - MAN WHAT A COINCIDENCE :D
It's sad, I have done all of these pitfalls to myself in the past. It is hard to break the habit, but I do try to practice these mindsets now. Great video.
This video is amazing. I went through some major changes in my life and personality in the last year, and I think I've used most of the methods in the video, but it remindes me of how important it was to me, and how believing I can change changed me and my live even though everyone told me I couldn't
I like this video. Dont get me wrong, all of Charisma on Command's videos are great. But this, this is a video addressing the psychological part of our brains that is much *much* harder to talk about and train. That's what I love about it, Charisma on Command has already addressed every part of our brain that might sometimes come easy to train, but nothing like this before, this is the part of our brain we should have control over before anything else, it's the reason so many have depression now a days.
I can really relate to Captain America's lesson of learning a healthy enlightened selfishness. Often times I find myself going through great lengths to help others, but I don't do the same for myself. Its ok to be selfish, just don't let it consume you in a negative way. There's nothing wrong with putting yourself first from time to time, especially when it comes to things that you really want in life.
I'm glad for finding this channel, it helped me alot through my years as a high school student. I have to say that self acceptance is a key factor for improvement while balancing to not let arrogance kick in. Thank you for making these videos, peace
High self esteem comes from accepting yourself fully and completely. Independent of any external circumstances in your life. This is harder than it sounds.
Yeah it's hard to completely accept yourself especially your flaws.
And it's the dummies that makes it hard. There's always those whose low self esteem's only mission is to bring everyone down to its level. When you truly learn to turn the other cheek for those people, you start to accept yourself as you should.
Well said man, I couldn't have said it better myself. That is very true, it is much easier said than done. If I had anything to add, it would be that this *is* the reason so many people struggle with depression now a days, learning how to address your past properly and forgiving yourself is definitely up there on the list of hardest things everyone deals with.
Authentic Self Guide so hard 🤦🏿♂️ I look so happy on the outside man but emotionally ima mess . I put it all out on UA-cam , because ion want anybody to know, i gotta be strong for my friends who are going through worse
Exactly! Too many people are dependent of opinions of others
1. Failure does not make you unworthy of happiness
2. Offer yourself as much compassion as you would a dear friend
3. Don’t deny the responsibility for what you do now
4. You need to learn a healthy, enlightened selfishness
5. No matter what everything will be ok
1. Don't be like Thor
2. Be like Black Widow
3. Be like Nebula/don't be like Nebula
4. Don't be like Captain America
5. Be like Tony
Great advice!
He goes more in depth into these reasons, explaining what exactly they mean and how you can achieve them.
*I would like you to be there on all 73 self-help channels that I have subscribed to*
I never saw the real world issues in the marvel movies until now.
Okay, this guy really knows what he's talking about.
Right? He's one of my favourite youtubers. Sick profile picture, btw! 👊👊
He wouldn't have 3mil sub if he doesn't.
"Listen to the voices in your head that hold you back, thank them for doing their best to protect you from change and let them know that you can handle it from here" Love the way you said that Charlie!
💯
#2 is a rule in Jordan Peterson's book: "Treat yourself like someone you're responsible for looking after"
I don't agree with everything Jordan Peterson says but I do like this tenet
@@YerbateraMaddy y not?
The Demented Man32 you shouldn’t agree with everything that someone says. At that point, you’re justifying statements that you might have disagreed with if the ideas presented had come from someone else.
@@teaisfortired-6467 I don't think its right to say "you shouldn't agree with everything that someone says". I'd say "you shouldn't necessarily have to agree with everything that someone says".
Because sometimes you do meet people who you share almost every opinion on a topic with.
@@Steve_305 jordan’s “ideas” are echoes, check out the roots of what he chirps; Jung & Nietzsche pretty much.
this is absolutely true. Man when i was feeling low it was because my self esteem was low and it triggered anxiety. When the self esteem went up anxiety went away.
Also Tony’s goodbye message ends with “everything is gonna go exactly how it’s supposed to”
“best friend brain” is just... literally breathtaking i was like “wow”
great video as always
Who need therapy when you have this guy?! Much love from Sweden
Haha, well said!!
Sweden??? Oooooh das tuff
I know this is a joke, but this is far from therapy and a therapist can get alot deeper and help you get better and lasting results and see problems you never even realized you had.
Everyone need it. Therapy is the best way to get self-knowleadge. Without this, lives get extremely harder
"Start being selfish."
Oh hell yes.
GodfallTM Ayn Rand anyone
selfless people should act more selfish and vice versa
@@2du2 Howard Roark laughed, and we should too
Easier said than done. :(
HELL YES.
*Self-confidence takes time. Believe in yourself, its a great place to start.*
And I say HEY! What a wonder kind of day...
@@grahamstrondak7040 haha 😂 you got it my friend
First step tell yourself that you’re worthy. Second write down some affirmations and meditate. As time goes on engage in whatever action in life that you want to take with a new reborn self-confidence.
Take action...do something that will build that self belief and that self confidence... challenge yourself. Think about something that will make you proud of happy if you did it now. Go do it. Over and over again
@@etiennev.6331 That's it!
You were the first one that introduced me to The six Pillars of Self-esteem by Nathaniel Branden, a book that changed my life. For that, I'm forever grateful.
The six pillars are:
1.The Practice of Living Consciously
2.The Practice of Self-Acceptance
3.The Practice of Self-ResponsibiIity
4.The Practice of Self-Assertiveness
5.The Practice of Living Purposefully
6.The Practice of Personal Integrity
Thanks again for keep educating me in a fun and entertaining way Charlie & Ben :)
@Ezhil Abhinandan You can find the a bit shorther audiobook here on youtube, which is plenty enough.
"Positive selfishness" is called owning your needs and desires. It's not just doing what you want. It's taking responsibility for it.
This channel is like a life saver for these teenage mood swings and social anxiety
This may be the best review of 'Endgame' out there.
Its not a review of endgame though, its a review of the characters
@@kevinc.cucumber3697 More like a psychoanalysis, but yes
I would love to see more videos about accepting and being happy about being alone. For me, I enjoy being alone and honestly I don't feel lonely because I embrace my precious time with myself by doing hobbies I love such as playing piano, painting, tea drinking, bow and arrow, camping and so much more. Embrace bring alone. It's quiet and you can spend a lot of time truly getting to know yourself and what you truly want out of life. And the conversations I do have with people are amazing. Each conversation you have with a stranger is precious and unique. Just the other day I was getting work done on my car and had a 20 minute conversation with the owner there about the education system. Did I know much about the subject? Nope but you said what he believed, I said what I believed and we questioned each other with joy. This happens all the time. Again, you are alone not lonely.
"Failure does not make you unworthy of happiness or love."
Depression: hold my beer.
😇 it is truly hard, but, better days Are possible...
@ Chris Kerr God keep you, dear! 🙂
@akshay satish Alright so is cancer then.. Thanks
Anxiety: "Are you sure it doesn't? Like, really sure? Does objective certainty even exist?! _AAAAaaaaaaaaa~!!"_
Once your mindset changes, everything on the outside will change along with it.
*Self-esteem comes within*
- Understanding your human worth and that nothing or no one can take it away from you, if you don't let it/them
Self-query: asking yourself what, why, how and being honest with aswers
I've found that nihilism made me more outgoing
@Abe. That’s intriguing. I’ve always found nihilism to drive me to feed my curiosity for knowledge. Even in the end if it’s only subjective. Asking questions and seeking out the answers through reading books and reflecting on the material that I read was always my way of overcoming nihilism. I take it you’re an extrovert, so you must overcome it’s downfalls be engaging in conversations and profound debates with others.
“Understand why you did what you did lead to forgiveness”
simple, but powerful...
When I heard that line " I love you 3000" memories crashed back with smile on my face.
sameeee
i smiled sadly
*Nothing outside of you can make you whole.*
What you seek is within, manifest it.
actually, what's outside of you can make you great...
but also, it can start from within
How did I know to expect you here? The guy that comments on every UA-cam video ever.
wow you're everywhere
Spot on. I totally agree, one's success and failure depends on your attitude and one's ability to adapt and learn from them.
From my experience what helped me the most was understanding and accepting myself, befriending my inner self.
Charlie, I think Howard’s line “My father never met a problem he couldn’t solve with a belt,” also bears significance, because at that time, Tony realizes that his dad had it even harder than he did, and was just doing what he thought was better than what he himself got (the belt, repeatedly). I find this to be a very conscious viewpoint: bigger-picture.
Literally every single sentence this guy says is worth pausing the video and thinking about. His videos are really worth your time unlike other unpractical videos on the same topic.!!
The quote and you're explanation of the mother's advice was a knee slapper for sure. I literally hit myself out of shock
Just wanted to say that because of your channel, I’ve become a much more confident person. Thank you for making these videos.
Your discussion of Steve’s change in mindset is great and enlightening.
Lots of people complained about Steve not being the same “I can do this all day” guy, but that feels like stagnant character journey. I thought Endgame hinted at how Steve moved on when he confronted his old self and was like “I knooOOW”
There was one picture I saw of Thor holding Mjolnir in that one scene from Endgame and the caption said: Even in depression you're worthy.
Charisma on Command is one of the most under-rated channels on UA-cam.
Four minutes and I'm literally crying a river. Thank you very much for this video.
I love how one lesson gradually blends from one character to the next and how you narrated it all so smoothly! 👌👌
This was an amazing breakdown. I really really loved and related so hard to Thor's storyline... doing all the things you mentioned in his story arc and even Nebula's really really helped me these last two years, so I can attest that these things are sound advice! Loved this video, thanks so much for helping us all gain in our self-esteem! ♡
Feelings are like waves; they come and they go. It is worth understanding that especially about the bad feelings you might have
Wow... After this video I had to rethink my whole life from where I was then, to where I am now. Really puts a smile on my face!
I'm saving this vid in my special playlists
This is undoubtedly one of your best work
This is one of the most amazing, beautiful videos I have seen on Self - Esteem. Maybe the best yet. It is a deep, real analysis, that avoids clichés and catchphrases like "believe in yourself", "you can do it", "believe everything is possible" ...mindsets that may generate harsher and more negative feelings towards oneself. The way you exposed all of your ideas through EndGame was amazing, super clear, and made me like that movie even more!! (didn't think that could be possible) Thank you!! Beautiful work
Loved treat yourself life your best friend
and enlighten selfishness Topnotch video on self-confidence
The lesson on "Everything is going to be ok" is actually something Ive been integrating into my own life to help with my anger issues. The question to ask yourself of "How will this situation matter 5 years from now?" has helped a ton with keeping myself controlled where I can make a calm, logical decision on a dilemma.
Really like how this video focuses on inward -> out. So many other speeches/motivators focus on outward-> in (i.e. fake it til you make it).
Real self esteem comes from full acceptance of who you are and to fully trust in your own abilities. Once this is managed everything is possible.
I love your channel and tips. As a small UA-camr/entertainer, I really needed this one.
Charles Sevilleja salamat, Kakampi! Yeah, I do plan on it once I get back to the Philippines.
That can popping sound was much appreciated and also very fitting. Popping open the explanation in a sense.
Charlie, I just want to say thank you. I'm a painfully shy individual lol, but your videos remind me to get out of my own head and relax and have fun. I'm not who I want to be yet, but I'm not who I was either, and I owe that partly to your videos. Thank you so much 🤗 Keep it up!
Very, very good video. Gave me goosebumps the realization that in you have to have faith that in the grand scheme of things everything will turn out fine.
This is *THE BEST* video on this channel.
It's new and much needed in everyone's lives. Some more than others.
*THANK YOU*
Dont forget the understated lesson taught by Banner. By accepting the things we are most often ashamed/afraid of in ourselves (our id if you will). We learn from our shortcomings and grow exponentially because of it.
Wherever you vision yourself being is where you will end up.
We're all gonna die. So no matter what we do it doesn't matter. Each and everyone of us will meet our end. Doesn't matter who you are
Abe or look at it this way. We’re all gonna die. So why not make the most out of this life as long as we’re here?
@@ImperiaGin I just have one question: Does the future already exist or no?
Your transitions between topics are impeccable!
Work on your inner world and continuesly level up your mind and your outer world will follow
Too true! Inner game work comes from within, as the name implies!
Inner world and external world are a mirror of each other
*_Tony Stark_* is the embodiment of HIGH self-esteem!
Often times he's actually a depressed man who drinks too much
Tony Stark has high self-respect.. his esteem often fluctuates, its not so easy to identify this.
@@ImperiaGin Depressed man who drinks alot? Don't know where that came from.
@@therealjesus1317 from the HQ
@@MichelLedig Last time I checked Tony was never depressed only upset about what happened.
This is such a creative way to combine the topic of confidence and one of the best action movies ever! You guys did such a great job on this one! One of my top favorites for sure.
#5 sums up what i understand of Taoism. Really refreshing to be reminding ourselves of that, given where we are right now
One of your best videos by far. As someone who went through a similar crisis, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Earned my subscription easily.
*guy gives 5 excellent tips on how to feel better about yourself*
Depression: I am inevitable
All we now need are the infinity stones :)
Hey I just wanted to suggest you do a breakdown on Zendaya. I saw an interview where she came of as very charismatic but I can’t quite pinpoint how.
This is such a phenomenal video among many on this channel. All of these applied to and resonated with me but the one that hurt the most and I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to fully realize this is Thor’s/the first one but specifically: “he knows all the right things to say but he can’t get himself to feel those things.”
Didn't expect to cry while watching this.
I know one day I can afford CU program but for now I can only thank you for these youtube videos. I learn many things from these informative videos . Thanks for making these videos and helping us.
genuinely appreciate your works and never stop making these videos
I love that this movie's story writing bears the capability to have this sort of video be built off of it as a platform.
Been holding back my tears ever since this video started. Thanks for this
"Who we are supposed to be" does not exist,we are enough, we are wonderful and it's ok to make mistakes. We are worthy of forgiveness and love. It's ok to review our past and learn for it but not dwelling on it, failure is an opportunity :)
This video helped me get out of my 7 year depression, My self esteem had risen and I was ready to get life together......
....then 2020 happened
This one of the best and most important videos I have ever seen on youtube, sharing this with everyone I know right now.
Thank you for sharing this video with us! I was really moved ,and at several points of the video, had to blink back some tears. The things you said in this video, especially the part about allowing ourselves forgiveness, really made me think that from now on, things can get better.
Wow! I am SO not into the Avenger movies, but this was AMAZING!! Thank you for all the enlightened insights! i might even watch the movie!
Oh my god, this is a real deep analysis of these characters. What you said about cap is amazing
Self-esteem is earned through pursuing your goals and practicing your values and beliefs despite the approval or disapproval of others.
You hit the right spot !! 🙏🤙👍
This video hit home. I had not realized how much I needed to watch that.
Thank you for this. I needed it 💚 We are worthy of love and forgiveness. We are good. We can do it.
Thanks for this video C on C. I;'m at a low point in my life due to Failure and it really helps to know that I'm still worthy of love and happiness despite all of my mistakes.
I really needed that “should” bit.
I always watch these videos and I always say to myself: I’m gonna be like that. And then after a nights sleep, I completely forget that mindset. Which is sad.
Do a video on Lucifer bloody MORNINGSTAR!
YESS OML
Agreed! He always has personality struggles and it would be great to analyze it
Yes please
Also very charismatical, and it cant be all looks because there are plenty pretty assholes out there..
Yes!!
Thank you Charlie and Ben! I have watched for years and have only grown to appreciate your work as time goes on!
#2 is a GAME CHANGER. Thank you
This channel is such a gem. Great video, as always.
This is the best Charisma on Command video I've ever seen. Thank you.
This one is perfect. I needed this today.
had broken with my GF, i'm trying to work on myself. This clips do help to drive in the right direction
Watching this video was like uncloging the chakras...
Out of all the videos i eagerly watch from this channel this one really clicked
This just might be my favorite video from you. Phenomenal.
John Slattery as Tony father is prefect casting
eating healthy and exercise helps with confidence as well
This video was exactly what I need to move into the next chapter of my life, thanks
I really needed this at this moment of my life. Thank you for clearly explaining all the key aspects of self-esteem. I never imagined it could all come from the last avengers movie. I hope this video gets more views and is shared with others who will need it as well. Thank you so much
I wasn't brave or confident. But I discovered great ability in thinking for myself...And inert skill. I became a hero. Now, nobody, family especially, no one knows me, or cares about what it cost me.
Charisma on Command, thank you so much. I’ve just recently come out of a tremendous emotional breakdown and I berate myself as I usually would in its fallout. This is exactly what I needed to have some clarity and peace with myself 🙏 🙏
This ought to be mental health on command
I see myself in thor so much, this movie hit me right in the feels lol.
Mentally ofc lol.. nobody can match up to that beautiful man
Man, you've NO IDEA for how many YEARS I've been searching for a way to finally not feel GUILT for my past mistakes.
I've rationalised my decisions a billion times over and over again in the way I truely believe is logically right, and even then my feelings wouldn't leave me be.
But following point nr. 1 & 2 from the video FINALLY let me get some goddamn peace-of-mind from my feelings for my past mistakes xD!
THANK YOU!!!
Y'know I just finished Endgame for the first time. (I know I'm late) BUT just after I finished watching this your video about Self-Esteem referencing Avengers Endgame goes LIVE - MAN WHAT A COINCIDENCE :D
It's sad, I have done all of these pitfalls to myself in the past. It is hard to break the habit, but I do try to practice these mindsets now. Great video.
Your vids are getting deeper these days... nice one
This video is amazing. I went through some major changes in my life and personality in the last year, and I think I've used most of the methods in the video, but it remindes me of how important it was to me, and how believing I can change changed me and my live even though everyone told me I couldn't
This is a phenomenal video. It's so easy to beat up on ourselves. But We ARE worthy of understanding, forgiveness, and love.
I like this video. Dont get me wrong, all of Charisma on Command's videos are great. But this, this is a video addressing the psychological part of our brains that is much *much* harder to talk about and train. That's what I love about it, Charisma on Command has already addressed every part of our brain that might sometimes come easy to train, but nothing like this before, this is the part of our brain we should have control over before anything else, it's the reason so many have depression now a days.
He has gotten so good that his efforts seem effortless in these videos
I can really relate to Captain America's lesson of learning a healthy enlightened selfishness. Often times I find myself going through great lengths to help others, but I don't do the same for myself. Its ok to be selfish, just don't let it consume you in a negative way. There's nothing wrong with putting yourself first from time to time, especially when it comes to things that you really want in life.
You're the king of extracting life lessons from entertaining fiction
I'm glad for finding this channel, it helped me alot through my years as a high school student. I have to say that self acceptance is a key factor for improvement while balancing to not let arrogance kick in. Thank you for making these videos, peace