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How to fall in love with spending time alone
Learning to fall in love with solitude dramatically transformed my relationship with myself. Before this evolution, solitude did not feel sacred but more like something to be avoided. But the more I opened up sacred space for alone time, I was able to release my need for constant company and began to fall deeply in love with my own company. These are my reflections on how to fall in love with spending time alone, cultivating a foundational joy and wholeness from within.
This is the first video of my new series ⚘ From me, to you ⚘
In this series, I'll be responding to all of your special questions and video requests. Our collective journey is important to me, so please let me know any other topics or conversations you'd like to explore together ♥ I'm so grateful for our dialogue!
I love you deeply.
Love, Saka
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Timestamps:
00:00-02:48 The journey to embracing solitude
02:48-04:17 All that you seek is already within
04:17- 06:28 Feeling the feels, getting to the root
06:28-07:19 Being open minded to the possibilities
07:19- 08:17 To notice, reflect, and receive
08:17-10:14 Finding nuggets of comfort in alone time
10:14-10:52 A nurturing place for solitude
10:52- 11:44 A loving note for your journey
#solitude #alonetime #selflove #selfdiscovery #holisticwellness
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Відео

For those struggling with negative thoughts
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If you are struggling with negative thoughts or a harsh inner voice, you are not alone. Your mind is a sacred sanctuary worthy of love and compassion. In this video, I share how I transformed my negative inner voice into a friend by embracing it with empathy and kindness. I believe that by approaching our inner dialogue with gentle, loving energy, we can begin the process of true healing. These...
For those seeking lasting confidence
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Confidence is not a final destination but rather, a home base we can always return to. It's not something that's constant-it wavers, and every human being experiences moments of doubt and insecurity. In a world dominated by destructive societal beauty standards, it’s vital to remember our innate confidence and authentic self before we were conditioned to believe we’re inadequate in some way. I ...
For those seeking their authentic selves
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Your authenticity is incredibly sacred and worthy of being expressed. To be seen and witnessed, fully, as we are, is to embrace the divine within. I've learned that releasing the weight of old stories, societal expectations, and the desire to please others guides me back to the heart of my truest form. These are my field notes on the journey back home to self. I love you deeply. Love, Saka Subs...
How to ground in the present moment
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Overwhelm in a world where we're constantly connected is undeniably real but finding pockets of peace and stillness can be simple and accessible. Here are 6 profound mindfulness rituals to help you reconnect with the present moment. Please find the links to the resources mentioned here: linktr.ee/sakaessentials I love you deeply. Love, Saka Let’s stay connected ⚘ Join my love letters: sakaessen...
Creating safe spaces for true connection
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I truly believe that liberation begins by walking in your most radical form of truth and authenticity. Sharing parts of you that are typically tucked away may reflect the deepest parts of another and in that vulnerability, we open a door to deep connection with ourselves and each other. I love you deeply. Love, Saka Let’s stay connected ⚘ Join my love letters: sakaessentials.myflodesk.com/lovel...

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @sqfsqf3847
    @sqfsqf3847 32 хвилини тому

    omg that really touches me it is my reflection these days thx 4 sharing❤

  • @capricornreform
    @capricornreform День тому

    This was such a good video.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials День тому

      @@capricornreform Thank you so much ❤️

  • @alaina_bo
    @alaina_bo 2 дні тому

    girl you're my favorite creator rn, thank you so much

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials День тому

      @@alaina_bo My heart is bursting! Thank you for this message and for sitting with me my love. You keep me pushing forward ❤️

  • @trystann599
    @trystann599 2 дні тому

    Such a beautiful truth! Loved this video, it found me exactly when I needed it 🥺 it’s okay to evolve and change is what I needed to hear

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials День тому

      @@trystann599 🥹 Thank you, I’m so happy this found you! I’m sending you love on your journey 🤍

  • @Carole-s7b
    @Carole-s7b 4 дні тому

    I’m 67. Do I like apples or does my mom like apples was so simple but sooooo eye opening. A question we all should ask ourselves. Bravo 🎉

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 2 дні тому

      @@Carole-s7b It’s truly the simplest questions that can lead us to profound realizations! Thank you so much Carole, sending you my love! 🤍🤍

  • @MashuduMugwedi
    @MashuduMugwedi 10 днів тому

    I loved your video so much, just exactly what I needed❤. Finding the real me and doing what I love and not worry about how others will think of me

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 9 днів тому

      @@MashuduMugwedi Thank you so much, I feel so full knowing this filled your cup 🤍 sending you much love on your journey beautiful!

  • @MilehsMedicine
    @MilehsMedicine 14 днів тому

    "I'm so multidimensional that I can't keep up with myself sometimes" that resonates so much, it's crazy. I appreciate that we're allowing those many dimensions to exist, not trying to minimise ourselves into something smaller than we are <3

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 14 днів тому

      @@MilehsMedicine Yes you said it perfectly 🥹 we are far too expansive to put ourselves in boxes, grateful to embrace ourselves together <3

  • @shadaemajors8524
    @shadaemajors8524 14 днів тому

    Thank you!! This really helped me feel seen and understood. It changed my prospective on “being alone” I loved all the points you made!❤️

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 14 днів тому

      @@shadaemajors8524 Eeeee, I’m so so glad 🤍 thank you, I’m wishing you fun adventures!

  • @thekhadejah.j
    @thekhadejah.j 14 днів тому

    Omg Sakari !!! We went to elementary school together it’s nice to see you’re doing well. Loved this video definitely subscribed.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 14 днів тому

      @@thekhadejah.j Ahhhh hi!! 🫶🏾 this made my day, so nice to connect with you again. I hope you’re doing well and thank you so much for joining 🩷

  • @soniadelatorre5700
    @soniadelatorre5700 14 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your words. P.s, what is your favorite type of tea/teas? 🥰

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 14 днів тому

      @@soniadelatorre5700 Thank you for sitting with me <3 oh my goodness, I have so many! My favs at the moment are ginger, nettle, rooibos (red bush), and always spearmint around my moon 🍵

  • @Esmeress
    @Esmeress 15 днів тому

    I have been having a hard time recently and it’s been making me feel worse about my boyfriend’s home situation, I feel like I’m a verison of myself I don’t really like when I know my true authentic self is someone so fun and bubbly! Thank you for sharing this<3

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 15 днів тому

      @@Esmeress I feel this deeply, certain environments/situations can so easily pull us away from the version of us that feels true and resonate. I’m sending you loving support as you make the return <3

    • @Esmeress
      @Esmeress 12 днів тому

      @@sakaessentialsThank you love <333 I love ur spirit and ur energy, I aspire to be as peaceful as they’re

  • @sakaessentials
    @sakaessentials 15 днів тому

    Hiiiii 🤍 what do you think about starting a new series called ⚘ From me, to you ⚘ where I can dedicate space to responding to all of your questions/video requests? I have a list of them l'm already working on hehe <3 Our collective journey is so important to me, so please continue to share any topics or conversations you'd like to explore together! I love you angels ♥︎

  • @zvezdavan
    @zvezdavan 16 днів тому

    thank you for this. i really needed to hear this

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@zvezdavan Of course, I’m so glad this message resonated <3

  • @chychy27
    @chychy27 16 днів тому

    i hope one day i can see my true self in all spaces

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@chychy27 You will 😊 i’m sending you so much support and love as you navigate the journey

    • @chychy27
      @chychy27 16 днів тому

      @@sakaessentials aw thank you i appreciate that very much 🫶🏾

  • @3arthstarchild
    @3arthstarchild 16 днів тому

    i just love your energy and how you express yourself 🥰

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      Thank you so much 🥹 this made my heart burst

  • @ThyKosmikTym
    @ThyKosmikTym 16 днів тому

    You know with the shadow voice, I don't and have never thought of it as something inherently "dark" or hurtful. It's just that part of you that really cares too much and sometimes we need to go "hey gurlie calm down we're good hunty" so I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with us about the shadow voice!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@ThyKosmikTym Yes! My feelings align with yours, I look at it like it’s my little worry wort that’s coming from a good place haha thank you for sharing your thoughts and sitting with me 🤍

  • @britneyt9253
    @britneyt9253 17 днів тому

    How did you clear your skin? I’m going through the same thing with my skin. I have terrible acne and it’s affecting me.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@britneyt9253 Hi love, I feel this in the depths of my soul. I’m going to make a VERY thorough video on this for you and I’ll update you once it’s up 🤍

  • @niamhaliceverity22
    @niamhaliceverity22 17 днів тому

    Just subscribed from this video alone! Adore EVERYTHING in this

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@niamhaliceverity22 Eeeek 🤍 thank you angel, so grateful you’re here!

  • @ashakiscott
    @ashakiscott 18 днів тому

    Thank you so much for making this video on shadow voice it came on up at the right time on my UA-cam because I didn’t even have the words to search for what i needed but it was this video this felt like a hug and I’m so happy you took time to talk about this because it’s so helpful ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 16 днів тому

      @@ashakiscott This experience can be really difficult to put into words so I completely understand. I am so incredibly grateful this video found you and that it helped 🥹 Sending you loving energy, I hope the space within you continues to become one of ease 🤍

  • @yuyu0091
    @yuyu0091 18 днів тому

    Thank youuuu🤍

  • @tiayashepard
    @tiayashepard 19 днів тому

    this is so beautiful! thank you for extending this healing space with us🌸

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 19 днів тому

      @@tiayashepard Thank you angel 🤍 I’m so grateful to share it with you!

  • @marisolcarlos1367
    @marisolcarlos1367 19 днів тому

    this literally changed my life within a few seconds, thank youu <3

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 19 днів тому

      @@marisolcarlos1367 My heart is overflowing hearing this, that’s what I’m here for. Thank you for leaning in <3

  • @eirawinter2107
    @eirawinter2107 20 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this video, it spoke to my heart and made me happy and relieved, I really feel closer to finding my spark again. Actually expressing gratitude and accepting help was very hard for me in the past, but since you mentioned the inner child, it feels ironic that gratitude and acceptance was something I was great at as a little girl. I was extremely curious and admired anyone that crossed my path, so I just wanted to tell you that it's really admirable of you to be able to find your true self and in turn help others. It feels like a gift, you are really cool.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 19 днів тому

      @@eirawinter2107 Wow, thank you so much for this message and your kindness. This made me so emotional, I too have had those “aha” moments when you realize all that little you embodied, that somehow got lost in the journey of life. You are on your way and I couldn’t be happier for you. Sending you all of my love and empowering energy as you ignite your spark again 🫂

  • @suthukazimemela5380
    @suthukazimemela5380 21 день тому

    You are such a beautiful human and that has nothing to do with how you look.🤎🤍✨

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 20 днів тому

      @@suthukazimemela5380 🥹 You are so kind, thank you. I’m sending you so much love 🤎✨

    • @suthukazimemela5380
      @suthukazimemela5380 20 днів тому

      Recieved😊🤍✨

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br 22 дні тому

    Sounds easy when you say it.

  • @wendyferrergonzalez3103
    @wendyferrergonzalez3103 23 дні тому

    I'm just starting that journey, it's gonna be hard and it's gonna be lonely, but it's also gonna be worth it. Thanks for making this video and sharing your experience. Sending you love from Cuba ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 22 дні тому

      @@wendyferrergonzalez3103 Yes it will be so worth it, I’m sending you so much love right back and support along your journey. You got this ❤️

  • @stargazrsk8r
    @stargazrsk8r 24 дні тому

    something that helps me be confident is remembering that confidence makes you less likely to be attacked 🙂

  • @stargazrsk8r
    @stargazrsk8r 24 дні тому

    omg i looooove ur vibe & the way it feels so safe like we are hanging out digging deep together! amazing channel & i completely relate to everything you said! this gives me the confidence to open myself up online possibly maybe. 🥹 i need to ruminate on it a little more but thank you for being vulnerable 💖

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 23 дні тому

      @@stargazrsk8r Thank you so much! 🥹 yes that’s exactly what I wanted to create for us, let’s hang and dig deep forever 🤍 eeek I’m so happy to hear this empowered you, your voice is worthy of being heard <3

  • @stargazrsk8r
    @stargazrsk8r 24 дні тому

    amazing channel!!!!!! so healing

  • @goddessjasss
    @goddessjasss 24 дні тому

    Hey soul frienddd🥹🤎, I appreciate your space/platform && the enlightenment you share that resonates w/ my spirit && soul🫶🏽!!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 24 дні тому

      @@goddessjasss Hiiiii my love 🥹 thank you so much, this filled my heart with joy. I’m so grateful I get to share this space with you! 🤎

  • @user-yx2sb2kp6g
    @user-yx2sb2kp6g 25 днів тому

    "Unbottifying the self"

  • @nancymiranda8392
    @nancymiranda8392 25 днів тому

    this gives “oh i love being a woman!” vibes and i love it

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 25 днів тому

      Yes yes yes ✨ basking in this energy every day of my existence

  • @srishbish
    @srishbish 26 днів тому

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I've struggled with this for years and it's so crippling and difficult to get through every day whilst battling my negative inner voice. These tips are super helpful, and I'm going to start applying them 🙏🏽

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 26 днів тому

      @@srishbish I see you and can completely understand, I hope each day becomes one of ease and light moving forward. I’m sending you all of my love 🤍

  • @TemiloluwaAjayi-xq2ku
    @TemiloluwaAjayi-xq2ku 26 днів тому

    I swear its not easy ...people will really hate you and it can really become toxic

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 25 днів тому

      Yes for sure! While you’re learning so much about yourself, you’re gathering even more information about those around you. It makes way for people who will fully love you for all that you are 🤍

  • @inesvitoriapenteado4199
    @inesvitoriapenteado4199 27 днів тому

    Wish you had a podcast! so lovely to listen to you while sewing.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 27 днів тому

      @@inesvitoriapenteado4199 Ah, I love this! I’m going to start a podcast in the near future 🤍

  • @christinamarief
    @christinamarief 27 днів тому

    -meet inner child -see yourself without judgement -see if you’re holding on to any stories that are not your own -listen to your body and body’s intuition -no second guessing -ask yourself questions

  • @clairesnoeij1157
    @clairesnoeij1157 27 днів тому

    Thank you for this video ❤ this is so helpful in a time were I feel a bit lost

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 27 днів тому

      @@clairesnoeij1157 Of course, I’m sending you loving and supportive energy as you return home to yourself 🤍 you got this

  • @jagraviii
    @jagraviii 27 днів тому

    OH MY GOD THIS WAS SO HELPFUL!!!!!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 27 днів тому

      @@jagraviii I am SO happy to hear this, my mission has been fulfilled 🥹

  • @Official.lyndiannex
    @Official.lyndiannex 27 днів тому

    I really really needed this today. I’m grateful i stumbled upon your video today, I feel so hopeful about this new journey of really discovering “self”. 🤍thank you.

  • @soniadelatorre5700
    @soniadelatorre5700 28 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing your mind and words with us all. My favorite part about this video is how effortlessly and clearly you gave examples of how you hold space in your mind to redirect thoughts! Keep blooming and sharing 🥰❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 27 днів тому

      @@soniadelatorre5700 Sonia 🥹 Thank you, you are such a sweet soul - this made me so happy, I’m so glad you loved it! 🤍

  • @lucyharrison7358
    @lucyharrison7358 28 днів тому

    Girl! You got me sobbing 😭 this was beautiful ✨💛🫶🏻

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 27 днів тому

      @@lucyharrison7358 🥹 Thank you so much! I’m sending you a big hug <3

  • @c3mone04
    @c3mone04 28 днів тому

    I could cry, this is exaclty what I've been searching for. Sending you so much love-- thank you !! <3

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 28 днів тому

      @@c3mone04 🥹 I’m so grateful this found you, I’m sending you love back tenfold! <3

  • @nicolecampbell1137
    @nicolecampbell1137 28 днів тому

    the message, the delivery, the visuals, all chef's kiss - really needed the reminder to be kind to my inner voice. thank you so much for sharing, sending you love and light

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 28 днів тому

      @@nicolecampbell1137 Thank you so so much 🤍 I’m over the moon that you loved it - sending it back tenfold ✨🫂

  • @wiktoriakrysiak4967
    @wiktoriakrysiak4967 28 днів тому

    I wish I would be your friend in real :) you are so friendly and kind... Thank you for being here

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 28 днів тому

      @@wiktoriakrysiak4967 This would be a dream <3 thank you, I’m so glad we’ve crossed paths here!

  • @tajahmurray8602
    @tajahmurray8602 28 днів тому

    Thank youn

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 28 днів тому

      @@tajahmurray8602 🤍 Of course, sending you love

  • @sillycrazyminion
    @sillycrazyminion 29 днів тому

    I LOVE your channel ! You give me so much peace, security and gentleness. I wish you a beautiful day <3

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 29 днів тому

      @@sillycrazyminion Thank you SO much, it fills my cup to the brim to know this 🥹 wishing you a beautiful day <3

  • @cat5797
    @cat5797 29 днів тому

    it feels good to know I'm not alone in this, and I feel really seen and loved. comforting the voice instead of shaming myself for experiencing the voice is definitely helpful

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 29 днів тому

      @@cat5797 🫂 You are so deeply felt, seen, and loved. I’m so grateful this was helpful - I’m sending you a big hug!

  • @nessaamaah
    @nessaamaah 29 днів тому

    thank you so much for sharing this, it's not easy to be this vulnerable esp on the internet :,) i've recently come across your videos but you have such a sweet, gentle presence and always share exactly what i need to hear <3 sending you so much love~~

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials 29 днів тому

      @@nessaamaah thank you so much for making this corner of the internet a safe place to share 🫂 this message felt like a warm hug, sending so much love to you <3