but also, if you tend to wear a lot of black clothes, get a black one. the necklines of shirts is often larger than the binder's, and you can sometimes see the binder's neckline, and it's usually less visible if it's the same color as your shirt. idk if im clear lol but if it's black, it's more likely to pass as your shirt or just as a tank top you'd be wearing underneath, but a skin-colored is more likely to get people wondering "wtf are you wearing under that?"
I totally agree but also if you tend to wear shirts with wider necklines then I'd recommend a white tank binder because it just looks like an undershirt
There is totally next year and next decade, and it will almost certainly be so much better then. All the trans people I know are doing so much better later.
guys please don't slouch 🙏 I've been slouching most of my life bc of dysphoria and i was just insecure and turned out i also have some genetic spine disease. my jaw and neck hurts so bad almost every day, it's getting harder for me to do any physical activity even walking so please take care of yourself 🙏🙏🙏
THIS COMMENT!!! It causes spine problems and nerves getting stuck WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT TO HAVE. Also imo the shrimp posture is always less attractive than straight one
@@EthicalBiohazard for me having a spine issues helps with binder questions. my innocent friend who didn't really know how being queer works told me that she was afraid to talk about it cause she thought i was wearing binder due to spine issues 😭
Thank you about the tip of pulling away your own attention from my chest rather than desperately trying to bind it even if it kills you. On some days its just impossible to hide my chest and the idea of taking a different route of distracting yourself from it is an idea that Ive never thought of before.
A friend of mine started using transtape. He loves it for around the house, and it makes showering so much easier. He still wears at least a sports bra in public, but without the tape the bra isn't enough. He said the combo of the tape and the binder (from forthem, he loves it) is the most gender euphoria he's ever felt. I'll have to ask him about the adhesive on the tape. He has skin issues, so I guess it isn't that bad if he wears it a week at a time. He does take breaks though Update: he said his skin irritation is minimal as long as he uses oil to remove it. He also has been letting his skin rest a few days before putting new tape. He isn’t sure how much of a difference that makes since he’s only been using it for about a month
Could you possibly ask him what kind he uses? The one I use isn’t amazing but I don’t rly want to stop cuz it makes me feel comfy in my body (though it’s physically uncomfy) so it would be great if I could find a better kind:)
@@annafilou Different people can have different reasons,but for both my friend and me (I’ve started using the tape too) body dysphoria. It can really mess with your head. Personally showering is the worst. When it gets really bad I can struggle to force myself to shower. Plus no bra, no binder, yet still no bounce feels amazing! Some people bind not just to pass, but for personal comfort. I like the way my body feels when I’m wearing the tape better than without
@@elizabeth0711 the brand is transtape. I started using too :) We both use the 5 inch tape but I have been cutting the thickness in half and using more pieces. I would definitely recommend looking up different application methods. There are plenty of videos on youtube of people showing how they apply their tape. The number and sizes of the pieces you use and the placement can effect how it feels. I think I finally figured out the pattern that works best for me. I had to remove an application the same day one time because of how uncomfortable and itchy my skin was. I had never had that problem before at the time, so I didn’t think it was the adhesive or an allergy. I think I just pulled too tight during application, so it was pulling my skin too much. I just waited a few days and tried again without pulling as tight. I haven’t had any issues since
something that helped me recently: a necklace! I have one with an adjustable leather strap with a large tooth, and having that be a little bit longer actually does that "taking away attention" thing really well
A really useful thing for me (Trans boy, very much a minor, no T, no op, no binder, all improvised) Is wearing a tank top underneath you shirt and tucking it TIGHT into your waistline, if you get it to lay right it can pull taut and not only hide a lot of the shape of the pointy mfing honkers but also kinda flatten them out if they aren’t already compressed. And for those wondering about heat, it is noticeably hotter and more humid but so long as you aren’t running a marathon in full sun you should be fine, note that I am from a southern state in America, so other countries may have hotter summers or weaker people idk
“Weaker people” is so funny 💀 yeah no it gets probably about as hot as the southern US here in South Africa, but it gets fucking cold in winter so usually I’m wearing so many layers that I can get away with not wearing a binder at all
i truly hope you know how incredibly strong you are for recognizing you weren't happy in your previous relationship, paid attention to your ex's (transphobic) red flags, and leaving while still doing your best to hold your head high and know that you deserve SO MUCH BETTER! i was in a situation like that in high school and felt so low about myself that i forced myself to stay in it and semi-closeted for way way WAY longer than i ever should've. thank you for you being so open and true to yourself, and thank you for being such a blessing in so many people's lives ❤
You have to be VERY careful to never let slouching become part of your daily routine. It's surprisingly common for transmasculine people to end up with some kind of spinal issue due to the poor posture from hiding their chests this way
@@irisolympiaif you do please include some for curly hair! I can only ever find the same haircut for curly hair (in all fairness the one i have) but i would love to change it up
Ive been trans since i was a kid, but i decided to just ignore it because i knew people wouldnt understand as i was just a kid. Now that im older, ive cut my hair, use binders and dress "masculine". Ive come out to my whole family, even though they dont understand and areant as supportive im still happy. This also really helps me for when i need chest binder breaks and i still wanna hide my chest. I cant be openly trans where i live because its a transphobic community. But i sometimes get called a guy by people who dont know me. Which makes me happy, and im gonna go on testerone in a year or 2. Thank you for this video
thank you so much, im a 16yo tgirl who started diy hrt a few months ago and am gonna have to start binding around my family because they're transphobic and i have no knowledge of binders so this is extremely helpful
Ty, as a minor this is so helpful. ALSO, I FEEL THE SLOUCHING PART. I do it subconsciously and honestly have no clue when I'm slouching or not, simply because of my chest. Mainly due to my voice which already makes me self conscious, because I feel like people can automatically tell that I'm not a bio male. Word of advice guys, don't worry about how your voice sounds! Especially if you're still under 18, it's hard to ignore/deal with, Ik. But it'll be okay, promise, just try to distract yourself or do something that you like. So that you aren't as worried about your voice, which I know is easier said than done but you've got this! ✨
Here is what I did to get a binder incase it helps anyone. I told my family i was planning on doing some cosplays that needed to have a flatter shape because they were male characters and I showed them pictures of said character so they got me them and then after I got them I said that I can't do them this year because of the cost of the other things that I would need. If this helps give anyone ideas or anything I'm glad I could help.
im just gonna share a little tip i have, as a person that binds by wearing multiple sports bras because my parents cannot know i’m enby (theyre unsupportive) when getting new shirts i pay attention to how loose they are around the the neck and shoulders. often times my shirts slip and slide and it’s very easy to see i’m not wearing only one bra so it’s important for that area of my shirt to be firm and not move. be safe guys!
trans tape has been my lifeline this summer, i recommend urbasics so so highly it’s the only tape i’ve tried that doesn’t give me any blistering at all (and i have super sensitive skin), no redness just remove it in the shower under warm water and you’re set. it’s so comfy and breathable and soooo much nicer than a binder especially in the heat
Thanks for the rec! I like transtape but every time I remove it it leaves blisters so I’ve stayed away from that the whole summer. Urbasics isn’t cheap tho :’)…
I’m a 40ddd and I feel you so bad. It’s hell trying to find any compression tops or binders because it just doesn’t fit right, the chest ends up too tight and my ribs and far too loose, like I could fit a whole ass first into the rib area
I get you! Even though i'm nowhere near a DDD, I'm still pretty big! I'm a 40D, and i'm not exactly a thin person (i'm overweight), so it's very difficult for me to hide my chest most of the time! I tried two different binders, but it's nearly impossible for me to pull them over my head and chest! I struggle with them, even though one has a zipper in the front, and it's very uncomfortable for me to wear them for more than like 20 minutes and actually make me feel like i'm short of breath. So i think those are definitely not gonna work, and i won't be buying others! I guess maybe i'll just try and go with a bralette and sports bras under big t shirts 😅
@@AirGoddess1087 are you sure it’s not too small size? Because sure it’s uncomfortable as hell to wear to but it should go over your head fine and you should still be able to breathe
I don't really identify as queer, but I've always hated the functionality of "feminine" looking bras and like to be a bit more ambiguous with my styling choices. Thanks for the vid, love your style, and I'll possibly try a couple suggestions to get some summertime confidence! Always hated summer styles for this reason.
Thank you for the tips! I like my chest to look flat but I tend to get uncomfortable with any compression on my chest, even regular bras feel too constricting. What helps me the most is layers, which is tricky in summer. I like to wear lightweight button up shirts over tank tops or bralettes. They are nice to wear in the summer as long as they are breathable fabric and they also are good to keep the sun off your skin. I also got some overall shorts recently and I love to wear them in summer because it adds an extra layer to cover my chest without being too hot. When I do wear a binder I wear my old one that's kind of stretched out so it's more comfortable.
my gender is basically girl/boy with a hint of enby, and i have no idea what that falls umder but i genuinely do not care about labeling my gender even though i love presenting feminine, i want to bring out my masculine side more (and even if im presenting very fem, i still want a flat chest). i very much need this video (hopefully one day i can get a hysterectomy and top surgery otherwise i will lose my mind)
just an important note: non-binary doesn't mean just having no gender. it's an umbrella term for anyone who isn't 100% male and only male 100% of the time, or 100% female and only female 100% of the time. having no gender, being male but only sometimes, being male AND female, your gender changing, and anything else are ALL non-binary identities!
So I’m a trans woman who is currently working on growing breasts through HRT! I can’t relate to this video much, but it’s nice to see what other people do for gender affirmation. Thanks for sharing!
I can't use binders and never really liked any bras, even if they're very loose, because it makes me feel like I can't breathe. But I tried tape now (I can't buy proper trans tape here, so it's just normal sports tape, but many people use it for that too) and it's really good? I was worried for sensory issues too, but I feel it much less than bras or anything. It can be a bit itchy because of the glue, but maybe proper trans tape would be different. I don't thnk there's any dangers or health risks, as long as you take it off with oil or cream. After wearing it some time it also goes off easier. For me it's fine as long as I don't wear it longer than like 8-9 days. My skin gets a bit irritated by taking it off but that's gone after a bit. It also helps to put cream on before putting the tape on...just not everywhere bc then the tape doesn't stick.
I don’t have enough chest to need a binder (sometimes yay, sometimes sad). You bet I’m gonna watch the vid and drop a comment, they’re a really good resource and super cool!
im not even trans i just absoulutley hate having visible boobs idk why😭and always wanted want my chest to be smaller even when its already kind of small your videos are so helpful xx
As a non-binary teenager who gets their first binders tomorrow I'm so thankful for this video! It helped me so much with my body dysmorphia today, especially because I see that I'm not alone! Even in a transphobic and homophobic town i started to feel more comfortable with my identity! Still working on the confidence but your videos help me so much 🖤
i have a lot of sensory issues and i do want to hype up trans tape, its my favorite binding method! it takes some time to perfect (i have a larger chest as well) but its the most comfortable for me from a sensory perspective, like i literally forget that its there!
I am transfem, however the video was interesting, and the thing at the end, wearing things that just make you happy, even if it isn't gender euphoria does still rly help, as just being in a better mood abt sth makes dysphoria way less, that's sth i realised recently as i was rly stressed over sth irl and for 2 days my dysphoria got worse than it had been in more than 3 years (currently 2 years on hrt, overall i'm really happy with my body/the changes, just external stuff influenced my mental health and the dysphoria that was still there felt like it was "zoomed in")
OMG I HAVE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLYBON ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS!! Hi iris!! Your first binder video was really helpful to me because I'm just starting to get my chest and it gives me super dysphoria, so THANK YOU OMG YOU SAVED MY SANITY
mix of ketchup mustard and bbq sauce for fries!!! needed this video i’ve been having a lot of dysphoria n ur my comfort youtuber tbh. hope you are doing well and sending all the love!!! 🍟❤️
I unfortunately am not allowed to get a binder, and I’m struggling with telling my parents and friends. Thank you for these tips, I really appreciate it :)
I have a skin issue that disallows me from wearing clothes that create friction - thanks so much for some tips without binders! The cut off actually disguises my chest :D
When I was younger, I felt really insecure because I started growing my chest at 8-9 and I thought I had to look like teenage girls on youtube with a big chest (I didn't know what trans was then) but now as a transmasc it's hard to ask my mom to buy compressive sports bras because when I was young I refused to wear them. I told her it was for sports and she agreed to buy me some!!
i call mine "the boys". my biggest tip for binding is to go actually look at people's naked chests and internalize the idea that a vast majority of chests on people whose nipples aren't illegal on youtube are rounded outward more than most think. my next tip is: learn some upper body yoga and do them habitually (pretend it's your a video game character and that's your idol animation!) im a fat person with c-cups (d on my period), and my most recent breakthrough in comfortable binding is the humble ribbed a-frame undershirt. i wear them tucked into my pants under my shirts. theres something about the stretch fabric linking my stomach and chest together. in combination with my own associations with that specific type of shirt and buch/masc identity. like there's something so euphoric about being part of a clothing tradition that my grand-dad's grand-dad would understand. (light undershirts were standard parts of men's underwear for a long time until laundry and clothing were made so very convenient.) and while it may be counter-intuitive- adding a plant-based layer inbetween my skin and the plastic clothing gives the sweat somewhere to collect and evaporate which keeps me cooler longer. instead of when i would wear anything else (including just a shirt) because the sweat would be trapped underneith the polyester/acrylic/lycra/spandex/microplastic/ fabric and just make me wet and hot(derogatory) all day. also shirts that are stiff in the front are fantastic to help with that resting-to-drop-off transition at the top of your chest. whether that's a thick blocky graphic, a large patch or applique, or a pressed button up, it can help smooth over that area.
bro my sibling literally came into the room at the end just to ask me what the song was!! entranced bc it was so pretty gahhh. also tysm for this video
As someone who wears trans tape a lot (usually to exercise + move) and has a lot of sensory issues I would definitely recommend, just make sure you buy baby oil and read the instructions thoroughly many many times - also cover the sensitive areas of your chest because the tape can damage them if not properly covered
A binding method that I use without a binder! :D Get a tank top bra, preferably with adjustable straps! Put it on, fold it in half, and adjust to your liking! In my opinion, it’s very comfortable and easy to wear, and hides my chest pretty alright! Even if you’d like, try a size lower than your size! Not sure if it would be comfortable as I haven’t tried, but I’d love to hear! :D
Another good binder option is Tomscout, it’s made in my country which is known for being pretty hot and humid (30 Celsius average temp) so it’s good for summer weather. I was kind of disappointed because I thought my chest would be completely flat as a board, but ig with my size that’s just not realistic. It’s a pretty comfy binder and the fabric is nice and breathable
I'm a cis woman, having 0 issue with my chest, but this video was interesting regardless. A great hug to all trans, non-binary and genderfluid people out there!
I have to mention that binding tape also exists and can be used, even for bigger chests. It's less restrictive/hot than a binder and easier to hide under clothes. It's not as flat as a binder but leaves your chest looking much more like pecs. Your mileage may vary, of course. I find it makes wearing tank/muscle tops so much easier for me because the feeling of bras and binders drew my attention to my chest way too much.
After also having my initial discomfort with a gc2b binder, Shapeshifters was my upgrade. Liked the customizeability of the size/cut and options for zipper placement (I put it on the side to I could unzip it without anything showing, as I also wear it like a shirt with nothing over/under it).
The algorithm was on its top game with showing me this video. ❤ I super appreciate the way the side by side examples were set up and how this covered specific ways that different articles were for sensory issues and why it helps with better shaping.
For anybody consdering transtape: The perks for me are very good- I can bike to college and go swimming without worrying, I can sleep in it, I don't have to take daily breaks, I can be shirtless around the house and be more comfortable about it, and for me its more comftorble although the only binder I've ever tried is homemade so take that with a grain of salt. I live in the UK so recommendation for anybody like me who is outside of the US is to buy normal old kinesthetics tape and just use it like trans tape (shipping costs an arm and a leg and I've heard people say iunbranded works better idk tho since I haven't personally haven't used any yet). Abit of a warning, i would say it binds about as well as a compressive sports bra the main thing is does it reshapes your chest to make then look a bit more like pecks, and since it moves the tissue to the side it also makes it appear flatter than it is. I would say it probably won't really work too well if you have a large chest however if for whatever reason you don' want to use a traditional binder and you dot like using sports bras, I would 100% recommend giving it a try. My only issue is I wish it was a bit easier to use and i wish i didn't basically have to pay monthly for it. I personally want to get a binder of some sort to wear as an alternative for winter so i don't have to constantly spend as much money.
yo this is awesome! I don't bind for sensory reasons (or bra) so the distracting tip is going to be super helpful! any tips on styling or whatever in a way to alleviate hip/leg (?thigh?) dysphoria perchance
Have you ever tried binding tape? Bras and binders were too much for me but binding tape feels much better when I apply it correctly. Also, for the pants: you can't minimise hips so instead try to create a straight line from hip to ankle (or hip to knee for shorts). Think wide, straight-cut pants. Your curves will be swallowed up.
I’ve been putting two sports bras. The first one normal and the second one turned around. It works pretty well and my chest is not that noticeable. My parents and friends probably would accept me if I actually asked for a binder, so this works well.
Kinetology(?) tape is great too and cheaper than transtape. I personally use that and i never had issues with it. I think there are also some biodegradable versions but its more expensive.
Thank you so much for the tips, I’m kind of agender myself so this comes as really helpful ❤ I also love your hair, it’s very similar to mine, but yours is the correct version ✨
This is incredibly helpful! I can't safely wear a binder (connective tissue disorder makes my ribs dislocate too easily, even some sports bras do the same thing so I have to be very careful) and binding with tape, while more comfortable, is expensive and I get friction blisters so easily even if I do everything right. So seeing different ideas for disguising my chest is very helpful!
Instead of slouching i wear things that create a barrier between someone's eyes and a side view of my chest. (e.g. Unzipped zip up sweatshirts) and i also cross my arms (usually not hugging the bottom of my chesticles) and that makes it seem smaller in most outfits. (plus i wear a lot of oversized shirts with stiff fabric so that helps with making my chest seem flatter when i cross my arms)
Thank you so much for the tips!! As a closted enby this means a lot to me!! I already do a lot of styling to make myself more comfortable and I hadnt thought about minimizing the way the fabric lays around the side-boob area- thanks again
today, I (minor, very pre-t) dressed way more masc. with my binder on, and my family noticed it. I havent come out (they have an idea im trans; my sister knows outright and I have the genderfluid flag in my room), but I still felt happy, even though they kept mentioning how I shouldn't wear a binder at all. They were passive aggressive, but at least gave me advice on losing my chest fat (or chesticles). I plan to work out to at least minimize my chest as much as I naturally can XD I love them. Either way I felt so damn good, presenting as a boy!
Great video! Love the tips! I've hated my chest since puberty due to assault and have always been interested in, yet intimidated by, finding a good binder. Currently i just have a few sports bras that are super comfy and somewhat reducing. But they're old and i can't even read the brand name so soon I have to do some shopping. I love the zipper one the most. So easy to get on and off and looks comfy as heck.
Your tips are amazing thank you so much for them!!!! I do have a question, sorry if its annoying but I dont really have anyone else in real life to ask about this. Basically I had a rib injury a while ago (2 years) and I haven't been able to bind since as my rib is now very sensitive to stuff like pressure, but I was wondering if it would be good to eventually try binding again? I am facing problems in my new work and school because of my appearance being fem and my name being masc.
Recently I read welcome to st hells had a binder tip was the front panel for a binder in a normal vest top because Lewis found normal binders uncomfy and I'm definitely going to try it with my old one that's too small now
Idk if this is just me but transtape hurts my skin really bad, so, if you are trying it for the first time, test it on your arm or smt with a small piece to make sure it won’t irritate your skin (It hurt for weeks after bcuz it messed up my skin so bad i couldn’t wear a binder for a while lmao)
Tips for trans tape! Spend the money to get good tape, ive used cheap and expensive tape, the cheap stuff always blisters, and hurts. Wider tape will last longer bc you don't have to use as many strips if you use more than one of smaller tape Make sure the stuff anchoring the tape to your skin is not stretched, that can cause blisters as well
actually i can wear a binder in the summer but my parents found it and burned it... so i couldn't wear some clothes that i didn't feel comfortable in without binder so i had to find ways to hide my chest so this video is very helpful
when it comes to sensory things. i am a person who doesn't like to feel restricted alot or sticky; it overstimulates me so i struggle with finding a binding method that i feel comfy with, its usually just sports bras for me. and wearing the trans tape was not the issue for me it was the taking it off part. because it is so so sticky and you have to rub your skin raw to get it off, for a couple days too. the trans guy supply was better for me than the trans tape brand but that is just my personal opinion from my experience.
Thankfully I’m comfortable in both my binder and sports bra and even with a normal bra that doesn’t hide my chest cus I’m so comfortable in my body and identity I don’t always mind. But I am still very happy to watch this video and get tips and more ideas If needed, thank you!
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fries dipped in a chocolate shake is the best combo
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I'm going with honey mustard, my favourite :)
I saw someone refer to them as chesticles and I think that's amazing
s3rl reference
I do that :3
S3RL
Shoulder Boulders reference
Chestnuts 😂
A little tip for binders, get the closest color to your skin tone so you can wear clothes that are more seethrough like white tshirts.
this!!
but also, if you tend to wear a lot of black clothes, get a black one. the necklines of shirts is often larger than the binder's, and you can sometimes see the binder's neckline, and it's usually less visible if it's the same color as your shirt. idk if im clear lol but if it's black, it's more likely to pass as your shirt or just as a tank top you'd be wearing underneath, but a skin-colored is more likely to get people wondering "wtf are you wearing under that?"
I have a bright red binder and it's the best for white t shirts
I totally agree but also if you tend to wear shirts with wider necklines then I'd recommend a white tank binder because it just looks like an undershirt
im so confused on which colours based on this comment and the replies 😭 do i just get them all
Can't safely wear a binder out, I've been nervous about my mental health during the school year but I think this will help. Thank you so so much 🫶
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There is totally next year and next decade, and it will almost certainly be so much better then. All the trans people I know are doing so much better later.
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guys please don't slouch 🙏 I've been slouching most of my life bc of dysphoria and i was just insecure and turned out i also have some genetic spine disease. my jaw and neck hurts so bad almost every day, it's getting harder for me to do any physical activity even walking so please take care of yourself 🙏🙏🙏
hope you'll be ok 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@totyazina_ ty 🙏
THIS COMMENT!!! It causes spine problems and nerves getting stuck WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT TO HAVE. Also imo the shrimp posture is always less attractive than straight one
I cant get binder either😰😔
@@EthicalBiohazard for me having a spine issues helps with binder questions. my innocent friend who didn't really know how being queer works told me that she was afraid to talk about it cause she thought i was wearing binder due to spine issues 😭
Thank you about the tip of pulling away your own attention from my chest rather than desperately trying to bind it even if it kills you.
On some days its just impossible to hide my chest and the idea of taking a different route of distracting yourself from it is an idea that Ive never thought of before.
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A friend of mine started using transtape. He loves it for around the house, and it makes showering so much easier. He still wears at least a sports bra in public, but without the tape the bra isn't enough. He said the combo of the tape and the binder (from forthem, he loves it) is the most gender euphoria he's ever felt. I'll have to ask him about the adhesive on the tape. He has skin issues, so I guess it isn't that bad if he wears it a week at a time. He does take breaks though
Update: he said his skin irritation is minimal as long as he uses oil to remove it. He also has been letting his skin rest a few days before putting new tape. He isn’t sure how much of a difference that makes since he’s only been using it for about a month
thanks for sharing!!
Question: why would someone bind at home / around the house?
Could you possibly ask him what kind he uses? The one I use isn’t amazing but I don’t rly want to stop cuz it makes me feel comfy in my body (though it’s physically uncomfy) so it would be great if I could find a better kind:)
@@annafilou Different people can have different reasons,but for both my friend and me (I’ve started using the tape too) body dysphoria. It can really mess with your head. Personally showering is the worst. When it gets really bad I can struggle to force myself to shower. Plus no bra, no binder, yet still no bounce feels amazing! Some people bind not just to pass, but for personal comfort. I like the way my body feels when I’m wearing the tape better than without
@@elizabeth0711 the brand is transtape. I started using too :) We both use the 5 inch tape but I have been cutting the thickness in half and using more pieces. I would definitely recommend looking up different application methods. There are plenty of videos on youtube of people showing how they apply their tape. The number and sizes of the pieces you use and the placement can effect how it feels. I think I finally figured out the pattern that works best for me.
I had to remove an application the same day one time because of how uncomfortable and itchy my skin was. I had never had that problem before at the time, so I didn’t think it was the adhesive or an allergy. I think I just pulled too tight during application, so it was pulling my skin too much. I just waited a few days and tried again without pulling as tight. I haven’t had any issues since
I’m mainly actually watching this for my boyfriend. I’de love to have ideas on how to support his dysphoria and I also just love these videos
By support his dysphoria I meant help him with it. Wanted to make that clear lol
Awe that's so sweet
something that helped me recently: a necklace! I have one with an adjustable leather strap with a large tooth, and having that be a little bit longer actually does that "taking away attention" thing really well
ooo noted!
A really useful thing for me (Trans boy, very much a minor, no T, no op, no binder, all improvised) Is wearing a tank top underneath you shirt and tucking it TIGHT into your waistline, if you get it to lay right it can pull taut and not only hide a lot of the shape of the pointy mfing honkers but also kinda flatten them out if they aren’t already compressed. And for those wondering about heat, it is noticeably hotter and more humid but so long as you aren’t running a marathon in full sun you should be fine, note that I am from a southern state in America, so other countries may have hotter summers or weaker people idk
thank u for sharing!! 💌
“Weaker people” is so funny 💀 yeah no it gets probably about as hot as the southern US here in South Africa, but it gets fucking cold in winter so usually I’m wearing so many layers that I can get away with not wearing a binder at all
And tank top under the skirt and other top cloths it or atleast was verry normal for all cis men before. Also protect the overtop from sweet
i truly hope you know how incredibly strong you are for recognizing you weren't happy in your previous relationship, paid attention to your ex's (transphobic) red flags, and leaving while still doing your best to hold your head high and know that you deserve SO MUCH BETTER! i was in a situation like that in high school and felt so low about myself that i forced myself to stay in it and semi-closeted for way way WAY longer than i ever should've. thank you for you being so open and true to yourself, and thank you for being such a blessing in so many people's lives ❤
thank you ❤️ i feel like myself again
@@irisolympia i'm so happy to hear that!!! 🥰
We even got a slouching tutorial to hide the chest lol
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You have to be VERY careful to never let slouching become part of your daily routine. It's surprisingly common for transmasculine people to end up with some kind of spinal issue due to the poor posture from hiding their chests this way
@@acespades2387 ye I got scoliosis lmao
Yeah, don’t do that. My neck and shoulders are fucked up from slouching most of my life
@@lyeondoe4990 lmao same
That’s actually really useful for the heat wave my city is currently in, so thanks for the tips iris!
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Can you please do a video on different non-binary haircuts or haircuts that could give non-binary people gender euphoria?
ooo this is a good idea!!
This is such a good idea, I would love to see something like this!
The wolf cut and mullet styles these days feel very gender 💅
PLS
@@irisolympiaif you do please include some for curly hair! I can only ever find the same haircut for curly hair (in all fairness the one i have) but i would love to change it up
Ive been trans since i was a kid, but i decided to just ignore it because i knew people wouldnt understand as i was just a kid. Now that im older, ive cut my hair, use binders and dress "masculine".
Ive come out to my whole family, even though they dont understand and areant as supportive im still happy. This also really helps me for when i need chest binder breaks and i still wanna hide my chest. I cant be openly trans where i live because its a transphobic community. But i sometimes get called a guy by people who dont know me. Which makes me happy, and im gonna go on testerone in a year or 2.
Thank you for this video
thank you so much, im a 16yo tgirl who started diy hrt a few months ago and am gonna have to start binding around my family because they're transphobic and i have no knowledge of binders so this is extremely helpful
stopp your voice is actually so beautiful WHAT
hehe thank u!
Ty, as a minor this is so helpful. ALSO, I FEEL THE SLOUCHING PART. I do it subconsciously and honestly have no clue when I'm slouching or not, simply because of my chest. Mainly due to my voice which already makes me self conscious, because I feel like people can automatically tell that I'm not a bio male. Word of advice guys, don't worry about how your voice sounds! Especially if you're still under 18, it's hard to ignore/deal with, Ik. But it'll be okay, promise, just try to distract yourself or do something that you like. So that you aren't as worried about your voice, which I know is easier said than done but you've got this! ✨
Here is what I did to get a binder incase it helps anyone.
I told my family i was planning on doing some cosplays that needed to have a flatter shape because they were male characters and I showed them pictures of said character so they got me them and then after I got them I said that I can't do them this year because of the cost of the other things that I would need.
If this helps give anyone ideas or anything I'm glad I could help.
oh my god i did this exact same thing to get my first binder lmao. great minds think alike fr
im just gonna share a little tip i have, as a person that binds by wearing multiple sports bras because my parents cannot know i’m enby (theyre unsupportive) when getting new shirts i pay attention to how loose they are around the the neck and shoulders. often times my shirts slip and slide and it’s very easy to see i’m not wearing only one bra so it’s important for that area of my shirt to be firm and not move. be safe guys!
trans tape has been my lifeline this summer, i recommend urbasics so so highly it’s the only tape i’ve tried that doesn’t give me any blistering at all (and i have super sensitive skin), no redness just remove it in the shower under warm water and you’re set. it’s so comfy and breathable and soooo much nicer than a binder especially in the heat
Thanks for the rec! I like transtape but every time I remove it it leaves blisters so I’ve stayed away from that the whole summer. Urbasics isn’t cheap tho :’)…
Ty!! I'm a 26DDD (yes 26!!) and it's literally the most awkward size ever. I feel like I have such limited options when it comes to hiding my chest 😭
I’m a 40ddd and I feel you so bad. It’s hell trying to find any compression tops or binders because it just doesn’t fit right, the chest ends up too tight and my ribs and far too loose, like I could fit a whole ass first into the rib area
I get you! Even though i'm nowhere near a DDD, I'm still pretty big! I'm a 40D, and i'm not exactly a thin person (i'm overweight), so it's very difficult for me to hide my chest most of the time! I tried two different binders, but it's nearly impossible for me to pull them over my head and chest! I struggle with them, even though one has a zipper in the front, and it's very uncomfortable for me to wear them for more than like 20 minutes and actually make me feel like i'm short of breath. So i think those are definitely not gonna work, and i won't be buying others! I guess maybe i'll just try and go with a bralette and sports bras under big t shirts 😅
@@AirGoddess1087 are you sure it’s not too small size? Because sure it’s uncomfortable as hell to wear to but it should go over your head fine and you should still be able to breathe
as a 34H its fr so hard to bind because the way im built lol
Mood, 38 DD ;;-;; yeh sure im also not exactly thin but ah man i want top surgery so bad that way i can be the bear i was made to be u-u
I don't really identify as queer, but I've always hated the functionality of "feminine" looking bras and like to be a bit more ambiguous with my styling choices. Thanks for the vid, love your style, and I'll possibly try a couple suggestions to get some summertime confidence! Always hated summer styles for this reason.
I don’t hate feminine looks, I just think my boobs get in the way sometimes wearing those bras😂
@@Sirawxy RIGHT???? 👀
As someone studying personal stylist in a country where summer is the 80% of the year. I like this!
Thank you for the tips! I like my chest to look flat but I tend to get uncomfortable with any compression on my chest, even regular bras feel too constricting. What helps me the most is layers, which is tricky in summer. I like to wear lightweight button up shirts over tank tops or bralettes. They are nice to wear in the summer as long as they are breathable fabric and they also are good to keep the sun off your skin. I also got some overall shorts recently and I love to wear them in summer because it adds an extra layer to cover my chest without being too hot. When I do wear a binder I wear my old one that's kind of stretched out so it's more comfortable.
my gender is basically girl/boy with a hint of enby, and i have no idea what that falls umder but i genuinely do not care about labeling my gender
even though i love presenting feminine, i want to bring out my masculine side more (and even if im presenting very fem, i still want a flat chest). i very much need this video
(hopefully one day i can get a hysterectomy and top surgery otherwise i will lose my mind)
real!!!
just an important note: non-binary doesn't mean just having no gender. it's an umbrella term for anyone who isn't 100% male and only male 100% of the time, or 100% female and only female 100% of the time.
having no gender, being male but only sometimes, being male AND female, your gender changing, and anything else are ALL non-binary identities!
the second you mentioned the slouch, I felt called out 😂
Thank you for this! I’m a cis woman but I don’t have much of an attachment to my chest and would rather squish them down and not worry about them
i'm so glad i found ur channel, covering actual topics i struggle w, of which nobody in my life is even fully aware/supportive
So I’m a trans woman who is currently working on growing breasts through HRT! I can’t relate to this video much, but it’s nice to see what other people do for gender affirmation. Thanks for sharing!
If they won't love you no matter where your transition may end up, they don't truly love you🎉
I can't use binders and never really liked any bras, even if they're very loose, because it makes me feel like I can't breathe. But I tried tape now (I can't buy proper trans tape here, so it's just normal sports tape, but many people use it for that too) and it's really good?
I was worried for sensory issues too, but I feel it much less than bras or anything. It can be a bit itchy because of the glue, but maybe proper trans tape would be different.
I don't thnk there's any dangers or health risks, as long as you take it off with oil or cream. After wearing it some time it also goes off easier. For me it's fine as long as I don't wear it longer than like 8-9 days.
My skin gets a bit irritated by taking it off but that's gone after a bit. It also helps to put cream on before putting the tape on...just not everywhere bc then the tape doesn't stick.
i’m not trans (i’m a demigirl) but sometimes i wanna embrace my inner adam sandler so this is very helpful!!
demigirl is in the enby & trans umbrella, so you're trans
@@Hann551 ohh thank you!!
commenting to boost bc iris said we should lol
🫡 thank you for ur service
@@irisolympia lol yw
yessss, they r so underrated
I don’t have enough chest to need a binder (sometimes yay, sometimes sad). You bet I’m gonna watch the vid and drop a comment, they’re a really good resource and super cool!
I've been straightening my back these days even though I really want to slouch 😔
You are stopping long term back hurt!!! (I would know)
@@Starl1ng.real, I have neck and shoulder pain constantly and ik it’s because I slouch😭
im not even trans i just absoulutley hate having visible boobs idk why😭and always wanted want my chest to be smaller even when its already kind of small your videos are so helpful xx
As a non-binary teenager who gets their first binders tomorrow I'm so thankful for this video! It helped me so much with my body dysmorphia today, especially because I see that I'm not alone! Even in a transphobic and homophobic town i started to feel more comfortable with my identity! Still working on the confidence but your videos help me so much 🖤
Loved the video, especially the tip about cutting up your shirts is great, I always forget that I can diy my clothing
i have a lot of sensory issues and i do want to hype up trans tape, its my favorite binding method! it takes some time to perfect (i have a larger chest as well) but its the most comfortable for me from a sensory perspective, like i literally forget that its there!
I am transfem, however the video was interesting, and the thing at the end, wearing things that just make you happy, even if it isn't gender euphoria does still rly help, as just being in a better mood abt sth makes dysphoria way less, that's sth i realised recently as i was rly stressed over sth irl and for 2 days my dysphoria got worse than it had been in more than 3 years (currently 2 years on hrt, overall i'm really happy with my body/the changes, just external stuff influenced my mental health and the dysphoria that was still there felt like it was "zoomed in")
OMG I HAVE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLYBON ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS!! Hi iris!! Your first binder video was really helpful to me because I'm just starting to get my chest and it gives me super dysphoria, so THANK YOU OMG YOU SAVED MY SANITY
yayyy thanks for watching!
mix of ketchup mustard and bbq sauce for fries!!! needed this video i’ve been having a lot of dysphoria n ur my comfort youtuber tbh. hope you are doing well and sending all the love!!! 🍟❤️
🥹❤️ thx for watching
I unfortunately am not allowed to get a binder, and I’m struggling with telling my parents and friends. Thank you for these tips, I really appreciate it :)
Try asking for a TomboyX compression bra and saying that it'll help compress your chest so your boobs don't make your back hurt
i dont have much dysphoria(enby, btw), but it(yk what) has been bugging me SO MUCH these past few years and i appriciate this so much!!!!
Your singing is beautiful 😭❤
thank u!
This is.. exactly what I needed, I'm shocked that YT knew because this isn't usually the content I watch lol. Thank you for this!! New sub
thanks for watching!! ❤️
I have a skin issue that disallows me from wearing clothes that create friction - thanks so much for some tips without binders! The cut off actually disguises my chest :D
shoulder pads hide chest size too! this works great for me cause 1. i already have broad shoulders and 2. i wear lots of 80s & 90s stuff
although i do not have body dysmorphia, i am she/her, this is really interesting and i will definitely be watching more of their videos ✨✨
watching these makes me happy you are so good at explaining this stuff also... i luv ur hair... it not fair i want it
When I was younger, I felt really insecure because I started growing my chest at 8-9 and I thought I had to look like teenage girls on youtube with a big chest (I didn't know what trans was then) but now as a transmasc it's hard to ask my mom to buy compressive sports bras because when I was young I refused to wear them. I told her it was for sports and she agreed to buy me some!!
i call mine "the boys".
my biggest tip for binding is to go actually look at people's naked chests and internalize the idea that a vast majority of chests on people whose nipples aren't illegal on youtube are rounded outward more than most think.
my next tip is: learn some upper body yoga and do them habitually (pretend it's your a video game character and that's your idol animation!)
im a fat person with c-cups (d on my period), and my most recent breakthrough in comfortable binding is the humble ribbed a-frame undershirt. i wear them tucked into my pants under my shirts. theres something about the stretch fabric linking my stomach and chest together. in combination with my own associations with that specific type of shirt and buch/masc identity. like there's something so euphoric about being part of a clothing tradition that my grand-dad's grand-dad would understand. (light undershirts were standard parts of men's underwear for a long time until laundry and clothing were made so very convenient.)
and while it may be counter-intuitive- adding a plant-based layer inbetween my skin and the plastic clothing gives the sweat somewhere to collect and evaporate which keeps me cooler longer. instead of when i would wear anything else (including just a shirt) because the sweat would be trapped underneith the polyester/acrylic/lycra/spandex/microplastic/ fabric and just make me wet and hot(derogatory) all day.
also shirts that are stiff in the front are fantastic to help with that resting-to-drop-off transition at the top of your chest. whether that's a thick blocky graphic, a large patch or applique, or a pressed button up, it can help smooth over that area.
bro my sibling literally came into the room at the end just to ask me what the song was!! entranced bc it was so pretty gahhh. also tysm for this video
ngl youre my comfort person rn
they're so pretty omg
This ia gonna be so useful
love hearing your singing! I always rock out to your end song too, would love to hear a full version if it exists ☺️
i love the realness and just overall honesty of this video! thanks so much!!!🥺🥺💝
now THIS is what i want to agorythm to show me; thank you so much Iris
no but like, why are you so prettyyyyy???? N THANK YOU!!!
i love your hair sm bro 😭
As someone who wears trans tape a lot (usually to exercise + move) and has a lot of sensory issues I would definitely recommend, just make sure you buy baby oil and read the instructions thoroughly many many times - also cover the sensitive areas of your chest because the tape can damage them if not properly covered
A binding method that I use without a binder! :D
Get a tank top bra, preferably with adjustable straps! Put it on, fold it in half, and adjust to your liking! In my opinion, it’s very comfortable and easy to wear, and hides my chest pretty alright! Even if you’d like, try a size lower than your size! Not sure if it would be comfortable as I haven’t tried, but I’d love to hear! :D
Another good binder option is Tomscout, it’s made in my country which is known for being pretty hot and humid (30 Celsius average temp) so it’s good for summer weather. I was kind of disappointed because I thought my chest would be completely flat as a board, but ig with my size that’s just not realistic. It’s a pretty comfy binder and the fabric is nice and breathable
Always appriciate your advice in these videos 🙏
I'm a cis woman, having 0 issue with my chest, but this video was interesting regardless.
A great hug to all trans, non-binary and genderfluid people out there!
I have to mention that binding tape also exists and can be used, even for bigger chests. It's less restrictive/hot than a binder and easier to hide under clothes. It's not as flat as a binder but leaves your chest looking much more like pecs. Your mileage may vary, of course. I find it makes wearing tank/muscle tops so much easier for me because the feeling of bras and binders drew my attention to my chest way too much.
After also having my initial discomfort with a gc2b binder, Shapeshifters was my upgrade. Liked the customizeability of the size/cut and options for zipper placement (I put it on the side to I could unzip it without anything showing, as I also wear it like a shirt with nothing over/under it).
I can recommend Transtape if binders or even sportbras feel uncomfortable on your ribs , because it doesn’t give tension on your ribs
The algorithm was on its top game with showing me this video. ❤ I super appreciate the way the side by side examples were set up and how this covered specific ways that different articles were for sensory issues and why it helps with better shaping.
For anybody consdering transtape: The perks for me are very good- I can bike to college and go swimming without worrying, I can sleep in it, I don't have to take daily breaks, I can be shirtless around the house and be more comfortable about it, and for me its more comftorble although the only binder I've ever tried is homemade so take that with a grain of salt. I live in the UK so recommendation for anybody like me who is outside of the US is to buy normal old kinesthetics tape and just use it like trans tape (shipping costs an arm and a leg and I've heard people say iunbranded works better idk tho since I haven't personally haven't used any yet). Abit of a warning, i would say it binds about as well as a compressive sports bra the main thing is does it reshapes your chest to make then look a bit more like pecks, and since it moves the tissue to the side it also makes it appear flatter than it is. I would say it probably won't really work too well if you have a large chest however if for whatever reason you don' want to use a traditional binder and you dot like using sports bras, I would 100% recommend giving it a try. My only issue is I wish it was a bit easier to use and i wish i didn't basically have to pay monthly for it. I personally want to get a binder of some sort to wear as an alternative for winter so i don't have to constantly spend as much money.
yo this is awesome! I don't bind for sensory reasons (or bra) so the distracting tip is going to be super helpful! any tips on styling or whatever in a way to alleviate hip/leg (?thigh?) dysphoria perchance
I have pretty narrow hips, so I don't experience this often, but I recommend sticking to veryyyy baggy jeans
Have you ever tried binding tape? Bras and binders were too much for me but binding tape feels much better when I apply it correctly.
Also, for the pants: you can't minimise hips so instead try to create a straight line from hip to ankle (or hip to knee for shorts). Think wide, straight-cut pants. Your curves will be swallowed up.
I’ve been putting two sports bras. The first one normal and the second one turned around. It works pretty well and my chest is not that noticeable. My parents and friends probably would accept me if I actually asked for a binder, so this works well.
Kinetology(?) tape is great too and cheaper than transtape. I personally use that and i never had issues with it. I think there are also some biodegradable versions but its more expensive.
Thank you so much for the tips, I’m kind of agender myself so this comes as really helpful ❤ I also love your hair, it’s very similar to mine, but yours is the correct version ✨
this helped a ton!!! thank you so much iris! :D
This is incredibly helpful! I can't safely wear a binder (connective tissue disorder makes my ribs dislocate too easily, even some sports bras do the same thing so I have to be very careful)
and binding with tape, while more comfortable, is expensive and I get friction blisters so easily even if I do everything right.
So seeing different ideas for disguising my chest is very helpful!
Me during summer with my dysphoria hoodies and tracksuits 🔥 🔥 🔥 🥵
omg this right before school season TYYYY IRISSS💕💕‼️‼️
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Instead of slouching i wear things that create a barrier between someone's eyes and a side view of my chest. (e.g. Unzipped zip up sweatshirts) and i also cross my arms (usually not hugging the bottom of my chesticles) and that makes it seem smaller in most outfits. (plus i wear a lot of oversized shirts with stiff fabric so that helps with making my chest seem flatter when i cross my arms)
Okay speaking of binders my actual favourite binder is CB01 print edition. It's comfortable and binds well and the pattern is fun to wear :)
Thank you so much for the tips!! As a closted enby this means a lot to me!! I already do a lot of styling to make myself more comfortable and I hadnt thought about minimizing the way the fabric lays around the side-boob area- thanks again
today, I (minor, very pre-t) dressed way more masc. with my binder on, and my family noticed it. I havent come out (they have an idea im trans; my sister knows outright and I have the genderfluid flag in my room), but I still felt happy, even though they kept mentioning how I shouldn't wear a binder at all. They were passive aggressive, but at least gave me advice on losing my chest fat (or chesticles). I plan to work out to at least minimize my chest as much as I naturally can XD I love them. Either way I felt so damn good, presenting as a boy!
Great video! Love the tips! I've hated my chest since puberty due to assault and have always been interested in, yet intimidated by, finding a good binder. Currently i just have a few sports bras that are super comfy and somewhat reducing. But they're old and i can't even read the brand name so soon I have to do some shopping. I love the zipper one the most. So easy to get on and off and looks comfy as heck.
Your tips are amazing thank you so much for them!!!!
I do have a question, sorry if its annoying but I dont really have anyone else in real life to ask about this.
Basically I had a rib injury a while ago (2 years) and I haven't been able to bind since as my rib is now very sensitive to stuff like pressure, but I was wondering if it would be good to eventually try binding again?
I am facing problems in my new work and school because of my appearance being fem and my name being masc.
Recently I read welcome to st hells had a binder tip was the front panel for a binder in a normal vest top because Lewis found normal binders uncomfy and I'm definitely going to try it with my old one that's too small now
I'm unsure about your comment, but please don't wear a binder that's much too small.
@@JustAHarmlessSoph no yeah that's why it's just sitting in my draw and I might use it for this hack because it only requires half a binder
Idk if this is just me but transtape hurts my skin really bad, so, if you are trying it for the first time, test it on your arm or smt with a small piece to make sure it won’t irritate your skin (It hurt for weeks after bcuz it messed up my skin so bad i couldn’t wear a binder for a while lmao)
i love your videos you're a life saver iris 😢
Tips for trans tape!
Spend the money to get good tape, ive used cheap and expensive tape, the cheap stuff always blisters, and hurts.
Wider tape will last longer bc you don't have to use as many strips if you use more than one of smaller tape
Make sure the stuff anchoring the tape to your skin is not stretched, that can cause blisters as well
thanks for the video vvv helpfulllll, i like using trans tape or a binder but they can get uncomfy after a while
You are good at singing!
actually i can wear a binder in the summer but my parents found it and burned it... so i couldn't wear some clothes that i didn't feel comfortable in without binder so i had to find ways to hide my chest so this video is very helpful
This is my acc that my parents don’t know of and they said they would kick me out if I was trans and this is so helpful thank you so much ❤
when it comes to sensory things. i am a person who doesn't like to feel restricted alot or sticky; it overstimulates me so i struggle with finding a binding method that i feel comfy with, its usually just sports bras for me. and wearing the trans tape was not the issue for me it was the taking it off part. because it is so so sticky and you have to rub your skin raw to get it off, for a couple days too. the trans guy supply was better for me than the trans tape brand but that is just my personal opinion from my experience.
yess this definitely resonates. I really like the forthem binder because it basically feels like a sports bra but slightlyy more compressive!
NOBODY IS TALKING ABOUT TYE SONG?!? SO GOOD
Thank you really, I send your video to my friend and brother that's gonna really help both of them ^^
Im so exciteddddddddd :3
Thankfully I’m comfortable in both my binder and sports bra and even with a normal bra that doesn’t hide my chest cus I’m so comfortable in my body and identity I don’t always mind.
But I am still very happy to watch this video and get tips and more ideas If needed, thank you!
I never saw fhis kind of advice this is SO helpful omg thank youuu!!
As a lesbian perfectly fine with my chest, don’t know why I’m watching this lmaoo,, good luck to the rest of y’all