LIFE AS AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE IN 1960s ~ INTERRACIAL LOVE STORY ❤️

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  • @juliajowers
    @juliajowers 2 роки тому +1289

    God made man and man made slaves and hatred. I'm married to a white man and I'm black and we've been married for 47years and still love one another dearly. We've been blessed with 3 children and 7 grandchildren. God is good!

    • @natly3123
      @natly3123 2 роки тому

      And it’s ironic that the people 👼 😇 who sing * marching to Zion- new heaven n new earth * are the biggest racist .. so which heaven they going to ? The White one?😤😤

    • @anthonylockridge3587
      @anthonylockridge3587 2 роки тому +41

      Congratulations

    • @muntungchichi7703
      @muntungchichi7703 2 роки тому +48

      He good all the time for those who put their trust in him.

    • @kisakyeolivia3411
      @kisakyeolivia3411 2 роки тому +20

      Wow
      That's true love, heavenly made.
      Interracial marriages have issues most of the times

    • @christinatejuosho5088
      @christinatejuosho5088 2 роки тому +14

      Amen

  • @denises9680
    @denises9680 2 роки тому +343

    My parents went through the same thing. Met in 1956. My father is Ghanaian mother French. The stories they told me growing up will live with me for the rest of my life. They went through hell. BUT they made it. Their love allowed them to see a good future and that's what kept them strong together. My parents were like warriors. Nothing and nobody could break them up. They fought to be together and made it through all the abuse and hardship and I for one am very proud of them. My parents always paid for things in cash never borrowed and the life they gave my siblings and myself hasn't gone unnoticed. My father has passed now but what he taught my mother about his culture and country she has carried on. I am soo proud of my parents and even prouder of my mother for the woman she is. She's been through a lot and has come through it. She's my hero 😘 this couple are the definition of the past and future as are my parents and we need more of this generation teaching the younger generation of how lucky they are to have the life they have today. God bless them and of course my parents 🙏🙏😘😘

    • @charlesbeausoleiljr6042
      @charlesbeausoleiljr6042 2 роки тому +11

      Glad you managed to experience an example of true love through your parents marriage. Hopefully you could use their example to find true for yourself.

    • @denises9680
      @denises9680 2 роки тому +11

      @@charlesbeausoleiljr6042 thank you Charles and yes I did manage to find true love through my parents experience infact I found a man that is the double of my father in terms of the way my father treated my mother and was a father to his children! Every girl growing up who has that good father in her life will always look for a man just like her father and thanks to God I found mine 🙏😘

    • @sofiaereg3197
      @sofiaereg3197 2 роки тому +1

      Look

    • @charlesbeausoleiljr6042
      @charlesbeausoleiljr6042 2 роки тому +4

      @@denises9680 Wish you well, have an amazing life !!

    • @michellesibille8281
      @michellesibille8281 2 роки тому +3

      Happy for them, they stood married together.

  • @jeannebrooks6003
    @jeannebrooks6003 2 роки тому +161

    Interracially married for 49 years, two kids together, three stepsons for me, 15 grandchildren of all variations of skin tones!

    • @shadykatie100
      @shadykatie100 2 роки тому +11

      Me too! Married 24 years with 3 daughters together.

    • @jesusisnotgod4265
      @jesusisnotgod4265 2 роки тому

      White people will be a minority if this type of relationship continue.

    • @jeannebrooks6003
      @jeannebrooks6003 2 роки тому

      @@jesusisnotgod4265 are you for real? You must be “one of those”! Go suck eggs and talk to your mentally deficient friends bc this person isn’t listening. 🖐🏻

    • @jeannebrooks6003
      @jeannebrooks6003 2 роки тому

      @@jesusisnotgod4265 oh, by the way, white people are ALREADY the minority worldwide…have you stopped to check out population of Anglo-Europeans compared to the combined populations of Africa, South and Central America, Asia, South Pacific, India, and the Arabian Middle East?

    • @garyrichardson7592
      @garyrichardson7592 2 роки тому +2

      That is good for you I'm married to a black woman like me a black man. Eight kids. 35 years of marriage. 28 grandkids. It's not about the color. Black people do not know who they are we are the real Jews that the Bible talks about. Deuteronomy verse 7 and 3. I didn't write that it's in the Bible. Do not give your sons and daughters to the gentile they will lead you away from me. The 12 tribes do not supposed to marry outside of the 12 tribes. I'm pretty sure your preacher didn't tell you this. Good luck. God said when I come I'm going to separate the Nations and judge them so separation is coming according to your nation. Don't get mad at the messenger pick up the Bible and argue with it

  • @phyllisferguson3889
    @phyllisferguson3889 2 роки тому +389

    Wow. I was amazed how well you talked about the racism that exist and how well you handled it on those days. Enjoy life. Congratulations to both of you.

    • @brendawilson1625
      @brendawilson1625 2 роки тому +7

      Both their postures tells their Love for each other, they are leaning into each other and not away from each other🙏❤️😊 Congratulations 🎉🎊❤️🙏

    • @francisa2328
      @francisa2328 2 роки тому +3

      @@brendawilson1625This is really lovely.

    • @johnniewebster7288
      @johnniewebster7288 2 роки тому +6

      I congratulate both of you for loving each other from your heart and not because of what people say or think . beauty comes from the end side out not the outside

    • @veabarksdale5252
      @veabarksdale5252 2 роки тому +3

      God bless you and your family 🙏🏿✝️😇

    • @SaraA942
      @SaraA942 2 роки тому +5

      @@brendawilson1625 yes and she is still blushing. Amazing. They are still in Love

  • @williamachriston6442
    @williamachriston6442 2 роки тому +59

    I’m 19 watching this and tears started coming out. It’s like hope that once you find the love of your life, it can last as long as you want it no matter what. I loved it.

  • @cherylharewood6125
    @cherylharewood6125 2 роки тому +168

    Beautiful to see any couple still tenderly touching and looking at each other after decades of marriage. GOD'S CONTINUED BLESSINGS on them and their marriage now and forevermore. Thank you for sharing.

    • @aarondigby9859
      @aarondigby9859 2 роки тому

      Did she say she went back to Asheville NC to visit or celebrate from Montgomery Al.

  • @phylliscinque2247
    @phylliscinque2247 2 роки тому +218

    Your story is what I call true love that truly stood the test of time! May God bless you two to have many more wonderful years together! Congrats

  • @TheDrewsoccer
    @TheDrewsoccer 2 роки тому +51

    She is still very attractive

    • @dorisdaniel3065
      @dorisdaniel3065 2 роки тому +6

      You took it right out of my mind. she's so beautiful.

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 2 роки тому +192

    So much wisdom and greatness in this couple! I love the eloquence in Arbury 💯

    • @georgiadavis7598
      @georgiadavis7598 2 роки тому +1

      Very very well said!

    • @georgiadavis7598
      @georgiadavis7598 2 роки тому +2

      They really know what life should be, hat's off to you sir. Huge lesson for many to hear & know!!! May the LORD continue to Bless your union!

  • @Ma1nguy
    @Ma1nguy 2 роки тому +67

    My former pastor Black and his wife White found each other at a children's Christian camp where they were counselors during the Summer in the 1960s in California. They got married in 1966 he was 26 and his wife 23. I was 18 then and drove my family to the wedding. I went to their 50th wedding anniversary in 2016. In 2022 he turned 83 and his wife 80. 4 adult children and 13 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. Still together after all these years

  • @denysereyes6029
    @denysereyes6029 2 роки тому +61

    I love how she's blushing when he's speaking about her😍😘

  • @Yassss-rj9zf
    @Yassss-rj9zf 2 роки тому +60

    My aunt and uncle were married in the late 50’s. They didn’t care what anyone thought, they married and loved each other until last year.

    • @shelbyvan
      @shelbyvan 2 роки тому +9

      What happened last year?

    • @momtheebayerandcrew
      @momtheebayerandcrew 2 роки тому +8

      @@shelbyvan I was going to ask the same thing?

    • @Yassss-rj9zf
      @Yassss-rj9zf 2 роки тому +14

      They ended up passing away…within months of each other.

    • @shelbyvan
      @shelbyvan 2 роки тому +13

      @@Yassss-rj9zf oh no. Sorry to read that. A lot of times when people love and live with each other for so long they don’t want to be without the other

    • @Yassss-rj9zf
      @Yassss-rj9zf 2 роки тому +11

      @@shelbyvan That’s EXACTLY what happened😢

  • @irmamartinez2483
    @irmamartinez2483 2 роки тому +88

    I love that he has a sense of balance and judging on individual instead of a group, without selling himself out. He lovingly fell in love with this beautiful woman based on her, not her color of her skin and same for her, but not being oblivious to the obvious, protective and caring and still living a full life. God bless this couple!

    • @aceboogie1376
      @aceboogie1376 2 роки тому +1

      Dont kid yourself, i guaran-fuckin-tee you he hates white Americans as a group, but learned to love them individuals, such that he married one.
      He owes them nothing; they owe him everything.

  • @WAMOEMinistries
    @WAMOEMinistries 2 роки тому +52

    This is an awesome story! To God be the glory. In the midst of adversity, He kept you two together. May He continue to bless you with good health, happiness, strength and the vitality of life.

  • @deirdreyearwood3383
    @deirdreyearwood3383 2 роки тому +84

    Thank you Arbury for the telling of your story so eloquently. These are the true life and love stories that are missing from today's world. Their love is still shining through in this interview setting. My deepest condolences on the loss of Arbury and thank God that you found each other in this life time ❤

    • @paulettemorgan9959
      @paulettemorgan9959 2 роки тому +6

      Very heart warming story.Love you both.

    • @clarenehunte9520
      @clarenehunte9520 2 роки тому +13

      Oh what a beautiful couple! full of integrity.A good example for us to follow and exactly the way I feel.Love doesn't have a colour but to me hatefulness is a heavy burden to carry around. We could be doing better things to make the world a better place for all of us to live.

  • @rhondarhonda9688
    @rhondarhonda9688 2 роки тому +84

    What a powerful couple! Thank you for sharing your testament experience! A true love story. Blessed! 13/4/2022-7:30am London UK

  • @Leo_Guy4life
    @Leo_Guy4life 2 роки тому +21

    Look at the way she's holding and stroking his hands ❤

  • @keepingitrealandtruthful.5081
    @keepingitrealandtruthful.5081 2 роки тому +59

    These people are just so beautiful together you can clearly see that they're still in love with eachother after all these years. I wish happiness, joy, peace and more love for the rest of their lives.

    • @goldenlady1213
      @goldenlady1213 2 роки тому +3

      I agree with your comment!!!
      What a very beautiful couple. Still youthful and very much in love despite any trials or tribulations they've been through. Look at GOD!!!!

  • @rhondazappalewis3685
    @rhondazappalewis3685 2 роки тому +73

    As I'm single now, both of my husband's were black! I started dating black men in Minden Louisiana, I left and went to Texas and there I met my first husband, together 24 years till he passed and then married my second married 3 years. I decided I will never marry again. You can't help who you fall in love with. I'm back in Louisiana now. God bless this couple and all other who are in an interracial marriage

    • @Kingsta504
      @Kingsta504 2 роки тому +2

      I'm in Louisiana waiting on ya lol

    • @mocancer8485
      @mocancer8485 2 роки тому

      You beautiful Rhonda..God bless you for being open-minded and non shallow.

    • @johnandrea5026
      @johnandrea5026 6 місяців тому

      Hello how are you doing and happy Sunday

  • @keywordxo5378
    @keywordxo5378 2 роки тому +45

    Such bravery. Such eloquence. Such love. My respect for the two of you cannot be put into words because racism has touched my life as well.

    • @garyrichardson7592
      @garyrichardson7592 2 роки тому

      Go tell Emmett till how brave he was when they stumped his head flat as a piece of paper. God said I'm not going to forget nothing I know every grain of sand on the beach somebody's in trouble. Separation is coming

  • @roslynganga7022
    @roslynganga7022 2 роки тому +18

    So sweet, he can still make her blush.

  • @pcrummer1
    @pcrummer1 3 роки тому +41

    Wow such eloquent speakers. Love this love story. Just stumbled across this…. Thanks for sharing.

  • @kevinpennington8615
    @kevinpennington8615 2 роки тому +82

    Just goes to show you that people are just people , color doesn't matter when your in love ❤️ , falling in love with someone is a good feeling .

    • @givennyamondo8914
      @givennyamondo8914 2 роки тому +2

      You may say that again, from Zimbabwe with love.

  • @mantombimchunu8829
    @mantombimchunu8829 2 роки тому +59

    Great story of love, resilience and determination.So inspiring

  • @oraldinepoellnitz4475
    @oraldinepoellnitz4475 3 роки тому +99

    Well said, standing in one's own acceptance of themselves is the beginning 👍 of being a free individual. If you're free within outside opinions and restrictions will not victimized you 🙂 Hate and fear is binding and holds you hostage the walls that one build to keep people out of become barriers that keep them within.

    • @incontrol5848
      @incontrol5848 2 роки тому

      ..... crazy thing is, people never tell racist what that FILTH of inbreeding needs to do.... just what I should do, when they do what they want to. #NOThun I as an intellectual astute GEN X WOMAN, and I alone will indeed decide the swift and concise response.. PERIOD, but I do appreciate your OPINION of my experiences..luv. 👈🏾💯🤔

    • @claudiahernandez5582
      @claudiahernandez5582 7 місяців тому

      Buen consejo aceptarse primero uno mismo para que no te importe la opinión de los demas❤

  • @doubledigit2002
    @doubledigit2002 2 роки тому +44

    Beautiful story and a beautiful couple.

    • @kenhartman9981
      @kenhartman9981 2 роки тому +1

      Hello DeAnn how are you feeling today?

  • @maxxitee4761
    @maxxitee4761 2 роки тому +206

    Black, white, asian, mixed 🤷🏾‍♀️….same blood,same veins, same organs, same body parts no matter the colour shape or size on the outside beneath the first layers everything is exactly the same. Who can wrong The creator for adding a little variety to the outside of man like he did with everything else he created …aren’t trees different aren’t stones different aren’t birds different, aren’t fish different ? we’re simply people that are exactly the same in that we are made in God’s likeness with his spirit in us….Simply put we are a spirit in a dirt suit. if only those who exalt themselves more highly that they ought to get that through their thick skull this world would be a happy place. It’s time enough they do‼️

    • @marthawarrington7748
      @marthawarrington7748 2 роки тому +7

      So true

    • @EZINOHLONZEIZINDABA85
      @EZINOHLONZEIZINDABA85 2 роки тому +4

      If this teaching can get to people from South Africa would have been great

    • @jat6547
      @jat6547 2 роки тому +1

      However a different race...

    • @ayannilogan8415
      @ayannilogan8415 2 роки тому +4

      I pray that we get to a place that we can embrace the different and love one another . I'm so hard broken with all this hate . I'm not afraid of dying , honestly I'm afraid to live . I love everyone and when I take my last breath I pray God say a job well done .

    • @jat6547
      @jat6547 2 роки тому

      That's sweet ,,, same here...... However, in some cases, this could b a problem..

  • @shel246
    @shel246 2 роки тому +77

    beautiful story of love, courage and commitment. sad to read that Arbury passed away 28 AUGUST, 2021

    • @tamiweinert1007
      @tamiweinert1007 2 роки тому +7

      Oh, my heart... God, hold her so tight. What a beautiful man and woman and what a beautiful couple. 💗

  • @patriciabandeko3842
    @patriciabandeko3842 2 роки тому +41

    What a sweet, lovely couple

  • @robertbailey481
    @robertbailey481 2 роки тому +79

    Love has no color

    • @stefaniemccoy7377
      @stefaniemccoy7377 2 роки тому +11

      Maybe that is why God is a Spirit. Because if you created every color and pattern you would see how ignorant it would be to hate something because of the surface. He always says, judge the heart.❤️💙💚🧡💛 Pattern and color are just that, surfaces.

    • @anthonylockridge3587
      @anthonylockridge3587 2 роки тому +6

      Right

    • @Favouredandree
      @Favouredandree 2 роки тому +4

      @@stefaniemccoy7377 Amen!!!

    • @Booker-wy1ef
      @Booker-wy1ef 3 місяці тому

      Because Love is Blind.

  • @elohgenesis875
    @elohgenesis875 3 роки тому +26

    Thank you fot sharing

    • @batcgray
      @batcgray 2 роки тому +5

      Love your story!!! Any children and grsndchildren!!!

    • @abaaba3257
      @abaaba3257 2 роки тому +2

      🙏

  • @patmckinley9966
    @patmckinley9966 2 роки тому +30

    God bless these brave faith-filled folks. God is good!

  • @susiewelchman8658
    @susiewelchman8658 Рік тому +5

    Well said Jack❤ ! We are human beings made in the image of God ! Not the colour of our skin ! And I love how you Jack made that decisive decision to love people you are both a inspiration and a light shining brightly for the Lord ! And I thank God for what you have shared , thank you God Bless you xxxx

  • @lisabrown-warren966
    @lisabrown-warren966 2 роки тому +35

    My parents were married in the 50s... Dad was from Ohio and Mom is from England. God Bless you both....❤

  • @discerningtruth6848
    @discerningtruth6848 2 роки тому +17

    They're absolutely beautiful couple..especially stood up against adversity.

  • @donniereidjr
    @donniereidjr 2 роки тому +12

    You're a beautiful couple. Im so glad you found each other and had the wonderful opportunity to teach people how to adjust their hearts and learn to embrace true love; even when it's diverse!

  • @ayannilogan8415
    @ayannilogan8415 2 роки тому +27

    I'm crying tears of joy . God bless you both

  • @marqueztramon
    @marqueztramon 2 роки тому +13

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful story about interracial marriage love and respect for you both.

  • @cathyosullivan718
    @cathyosullivan718 2 роки тому +7

    They sound like such a sweet couple; they are both so soft spoken. They were so brave too!

  • @nghinyekamunhuphillipus7942
    @nghinyekamunhuphillipus7942 2 роки тому +18

    A 100% Salute (for this couple)

  • @Lmasso1
    @Lmasso1 2 роки тому +13

    She's so giddy and smile and tickled and happy and still have that feeling she had way back when that is so nice

  • @deefeliz4610
    @deefeliz4610 2 роки тому +22

    God Bless Their Family, Beautiful People ! Proud of them for what they did for Love 💜 🕊️

  • @mdeleon1708
    @mdeleon1708 2 роки тому +2

    This man is so candid and extremely articulate, I could listen to him talk all day.

  • @agyos
    @agyos 2 роки тому +7

    Beautifully recounted. Thank you for your honesty, and your courage to help begin the transformation we so need in this world.

  • @shaunaprenga3364
    @shaunaprenga3364 2 роки тому +19

    Such a lovely couple. God bless them and their story 🙏 ❤️

  • @pamelastates5600
    @pamelastates5600 2 роки тому +9

    Love is love !!! ❤️ I was lucky enough to see this on prime tv here in Canada 🇨🇦. May God continue to bless y’all , LOVE& LIGHT 💛🌻 sending Love&Prayers for your family . ❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🇨🇦

  • @dolsiemercado3140
    @dolsiemercado3140 2 роки тому +6

    It is nice to hear they are still together. It wasn’t easy for them. 🙌🙌🙌

  • @jurrisaddler8427
    @jurrisaddler8427 2 роки тому +12

    I’m so glad I saw this video and so happy you shared your video. I was born in Cleveland Ohio a very segregated city, the only thing I ever heard occasionally from my father was the white man this or the white man that. I went to an integrated school by virtual of location never really had a problem with white people, in fact I tended to have both black and white friends. I never really saw color as a problem. I must admit that I was a little naive in certain situations, but learned from those experiences. I have been married to a white woman since 2000, we had dated for 3 years prior, I’m comfortable and happy.

    • @cle-chi
      @cle-chi 9 місяців тому

      O H I O

  • @healingpower4832
    @healingpower4832 2 роки тому +19

    Congratulations! May God continue to bless y’all. And thanks for stand for each other in the good times and the bad.❤️has no color just love. True love will stand the test of time.

  • @anandshakti1
    @anandshakti1 2 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful way to handle ignorance - kind, straightforward, honest- really appreciate seeing this couple and hearing this man's words. Thank-you for the sharing.

  • @apostleharrietlocklear8138
    @apostleharrietlocklear8138 2 роки тому +4

    Beautiful Story and Very Inspiring. ThankYou for
    Sharing

  • @flordeamapolita
    @flordeamapolita 2 роки тому +5

    They radiate love. This is a relationship goal to aspire to. They speak so lovingly and respectfully about each other.

  • @nondumisof
    @nondumisof 2 роки тому +22

    What a lovely story.

  • @pockahantiss
    @pockahantiss 2 роки тому +15

    Y'all celebrated in one of the most diverse cities! My hometown of Chicago! That makes me so proud! ❤️❤️❤️ I love a good love story! It makes me feel all "mushy!"🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @colinthomas6888
    @colinthomas6888 2 роки тому +20

    God bless you may God gives you both long life... Lady you are a true human bean

  • @thrshwll1526
    @thrshwll1526 2 роки тому +22

    They should have their own UA-cam channel . Very interesting

    • @sassycat6487
      @sassycat6487 2 роки тому +3

      They both have since passed away, unfortunately.

    • @thrshwll1526
      @thrshwll1526 2 роки тому +2

      @@sassycat6487 sorry to hear that. 😢 😭

  • @chrisc9869
    @chrisc9869 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for being a interracial dating pioneer. As a white man who loves my dark skin queens, I most say this is very nice to see and also love is what it is.

  • @christinafernandez623
    @christinafernandez623 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for sharing love always wins God-bless you both 😘 ❤️ 🙏🌷🌷🥰🥰

  • @obeng-akrofipriscilla6385
    @obeng-akrofipriscilla6385 3 роки тому +22

    I love your story

  • @tonisoles6680
    @tonisoles6680 2 роки тому +27

    You go after any race you feel attracted too, just as longest the other partner is treating you with respect and right.🤗🙂

  • @cindyclairemistretta-dwyer3313
    @cindyclairemistretta-dwyer3313 2 роки тому +37

    This is a beautiful story for a precious couple. I appreciate y'all telling your story I enjoyed it. Love as We know and this is proof has nothing to do with a person's skin color. This is REAL LOVE.
    I also appreciated how you handled racism because you're right we're all not the same I have love for all people of all color and that's the way my family raised us. And we care about others just as Jesus said love thy neighbor as thyself and it's in my blood to love. I love people and love animals. I try to do anything I can to help everyone. Even though I don't have anything. I only have very little to give but I can give my time and help. I really appreciate that Sir and I have respect for someone like you and your wife because of the love you have for one another and for people. I am just really sorry about how people of color were treated back then I thought it was horrific it hurt me to the core it was got wrenching and I am sorry that it even happened and to know that some people today still have that hate in them they truly don't know the meaning of love. I truly enjoyed this LOVE STORY and those were some precious little pictures of you both. Y'all look really good today. I love your wife's name and accent. I was still trying to figure out. I kept leaning towards German. ??
    Well it's beautiful. I always loved that song Aubrey. In New Orleans our news anchor name is Aubrey. born and raised there but I'm not into New Orleans I'm outside of New Orleans but I love the name Jack that name got really popular with the Titanic too. Well this was a really nice story and the love story was really touching and I'm going to share this thank you for sharing

  • @ivykaneshiro7554
    @ivykaneshiro7554 2 роки тому +3

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏both your intuition for “LOVE “is so well respected.❤️❤️good vibes with heartwarming true love as all human beings should be…perfect massage, Arbury….stay safe and carry on your strong sole🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @Dontstartnothing
    @Dontstartnothing Рік тому

    I could listen to Mr Aubrey voice all day! It has such a comforting tambour. Thank you for sharing this Neo😊

  • @kaylou813
    @kaylou813 2 роки тому +4

    I really enjoy your love story. Literally, I couldn't stop smiling when you talk about when you first met. You're right Mr. Gullebeaux, if people had a problem, it's their problem. God made you both just fine. Beautiful story.

  • @rochellefletcherdavis1559
    @rochellefletcherdavis1559 2 роки тому +8

    We have to stop hate on one another talking about racism and think about God greatest gift which is love as we are watching this beautiful couple loving n living their best life and showing us how love is powerful and have no boundaries...I would love to see more of this kind of living
    I'm. not married yet but my husband will be a white husband..Bless the Lord

  • @indranidasgupta8982
    @indranidasgupta8982 2 роки тому +1

    An amazing video and an amazing couple. I respect this gentleman so much! His words brought me to tears.

  • @deenaperez6599
    @deenaperez6599 2 роки тому +2

    I'm white and my husband is from Mexico. I'm also from the south and in Hickory North Carolina . In 1994 me and my husband went to a restaurant that you know I thought everyone ate at because I'd seen it full all the time. When my husband and I walked in and sat down you could literally hear their silverware falling and hitting their plates. Now I'm a blond haired green eyed and at the time I was kinda small but with a really great figure so I had never had to endure any racism growing up. But we were young and in love my family absolutely loved him too. That was 28 years ago and we've been thru so much racism it does cloud your mind but 3 children and 4 grandchildren later I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm so happy neither one of you gave up and stayed true to y'alls self. God bless you both

  • @bestyross4549
    @bestyross4549 2 роки тому +14

    You were a beautiful couple then and you're still beautiful couple now! Congratulations on 62 years of marriage!!

  • @heidirougier4113
    @heidirougier4113 2 роки тому +8

    Self love,self awareness, and failure to burden oneself with useless negativity….

  • @princerajuforall
    @princerajuforall 2 роки тому +22

    You Both are one of the Best Models to all interracial couples&marriages. Actually I don't like to call "interracial" bcz God made us all. We don't call our own children interracial for their little differnences, do we? God also don't consider us differently by our skin color. The problem lies in ourselves. Some arrogant, pride, baostful people think ungodly. They see all black or white.
    My request to them is.. Pls do see others with our inner eye(spiritual eye)and not with outer eye(worldly eye). Outer eye sees all differences like complexion, beauty, height, weight, literate or illiterate, rich or poor, smart&brilliant etc. So many interracial people marry but some of them last for a lifetime. It's not about first attraction. It's all about true love, faithfulness, sincerity, caring, understanding, forgiving, working out your personal relationship healthily and constructively to be in the marriage. In Western countries people tend to bore of their marriage after 2/5/10 yrs. Then they start to search for other partner. That's why their children are also following parents' path. It in their blood.

  • @dilkycorteling2586
    @dilkycorteling2586 2 роки тому +10

    God choose you as the change agents in this world... May God continue to be with you both. Yes you were special as God had a hand.

  • @bethf9749
    @bethf9749 2 роки тому +2

    So beautifully expressed, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy you found each other! Sir, your way of thinking is exactly mine, my prayer is more folks would do the same, less automatic judgement & hate, more get to know a person & then treat them like our own family. God bless you both.

  • @isabellrc
    @isabellrc 2 роки тому +2

    This is a very well thoughtful, introspective video. I will be sharing!

  • @Shirleyowens383
    @Shirleyowens383 2 роки тому +5

    Mann you spoke for me, All of my thoughts 💁🏾

  • @harryjohnson8605
    @harryjohnson8605 2 роки тому +5

    This is a beautiful couple. Love is acceptance of all races. Glad they stayed together. This man loves his wife and she loves her husband

  • @diane9247
    @diane9247 2 роки тому +4

    "I knew...these people will kill you." The ice cold truth. The bravery this took in those days and in that place is breathtaking. This gentleman has wonderful insights about race relations. 💐

  • @suzyerichsen6184
    @suzyerichsen6184 2 роки тому +2

    Bless you two. It's 2022 now and how far we have come. I'm glad you two decided to follow through with your love. Yes you are special and have changed the world.

  • @melissareavis1917
    @melissareavis1917 2 роки тому +4

    As a biracial women, I delt with racism from my mom's side of the family, im 53 yrs old now i was born in 1969 my mom is white my dad black, my mom's mother was full Italian and her dad was white back in those day's mixing race's was unheard of so my mom's family disowned her so she choose me and went on with her life with her black baby i was an only child

  • @ChrissieSM
    @ChrissieSM 2 роки тому +28

    What puzzled me is that people don't discriminate against dogs and accept all kinds of breeds, and yet are intolerant of people of different colours!

    • @lindabell3
      @lindabell3 2 роки тому +4

      Why would you compare a black person with a dogs Dogs are not human . This is what’s wrong with the gentiles comparing animals to black people smh. Why not to different people

    • @Mo-yd8xc
      @Mo-yd8xc 2 роки тому

      ​@@lindabell3 what Chris said made no sense.

    • @kristingallo2158
      @kristingallo2158 2 роки тому

      This isn't true, dogs fight and tear each other up all the time.

    • @anonymousperson1771
      @anonymousperson1771 2 роки тому

      @@lindabell3 He wasn't comparing dogs and black people, he was pointing out how people will have no problem with the diversity of everything around them - like dogs, or trees, birds, cats, anything you choose - *but not other people.*

  • @NewHaitiancaveman83
    @NewHaitiancaveman83 2 роки тому +2

    Wow congratulations to you guys. You stuck together as a team and made no one else change you. You both are the strongest biracial couples I’ve ever seen and thank you for your story. Wish you both many many more years together and a long life.

  • @mixedandknot5911
    @mixedandknot5911 2 роки тому +1

    This is such an inspirational and beautiful story. I am happy that they are alive, doing well and staying together. God Bless Both of You.

  • @gwen3010
    @gwen3010 2 роки тому +11

    Bless you both!!

  • @Michelle-gy2qy
    @Michelle-gy2qy 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for paving the way..

  • @carolynkingsley4421
    @carolynkingsley4421 2 роки тому +4

    I grew up in the south too. It took a lot of courage. Congratulations. For the two of you it was the right decision. You seem very happy.

  • @Phoenix77766
    @Phoenix77766 2 роки тому +3

    This is beautiful! ❤️

  • @sandrathorpe9334
    @sandrathorpe9334 2 роки тому +6

    Its true, i had a black bf in the 60s but i wasnt allowed to marry him ..Now im in my 70s no one dared stop me this time.. I married a caribbean ,he lived near me in Sydney Australia we hv been together 4 yrs now..We still get look's but thats it ,these days its common , every second couple is mixed..God made man in his own image colour & race should not be condemmed...

  • @almawamulo787
    @almawamulo787 2 роки тому +17

    Love is a beautiful thing

    • @jesusisnotgod4265
      @jesusisnotgod4265 2 роки тому

      not for everyone

    • @space3555
      @space3555 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@jesusisnotgod4265 your comment is proof that people will argue with literally anything on the internet

  • @lonnieg2
    @lonnieg2 2 роки тому +11

    Love is love. It's what two people want. Ask anybody what they love,they will fine love.
    Hate is yourself and all those who hate themselves.
    Watch hate groups. Then watch love group. There is a different. Let it be known, love is given, Hate is force. Respect is what has destroyed people. Love you both.

  • @cindysemblante4411
    @cindysemblante4411 2 роки тому +7

    I love this couple, they articulate their memories so well, that I felt a part of their story. I’m delighted they never allowed fear to take them over in those hateful moments with closed minded people, who hated them due to their being a mixed race couple. I can’t imagine being treated so poorly by whites people and establishments. Amazing he was able to deal with each individual he met on a person to person basis and had the grace not to hate the white race as a whole. He is an incredible man and they are a remarkable couple together

  • @greatnation4328
    @greatnation4328 2 роки тому +4

    This is a truly inspiring story about the oneness and agreement in 💑marriage.
    The obvious intimacy existing several decades on, is beautiful to watch.

  • @ksk881
    @ksk881 2 роки тому +4

    What a lovely couple and a lovely story. God bless you both as you continue to live and celebrate your life together.

  • @dalegrays8053
    @dalegrays8053 10 місяців тому +1

    Still Beautiful both of You😅😅Awesome!

  • @nomfundomolefe5881
    @nomfundomolefe5881 2 роки тому +2

    So beautiful... A story well told by the couple ❤️

  • @adpmurphy
    @adpmurphy 2 роки тому +4

    I’m a white male and interracially married with two wonderful Kids. My point is, it doesn’t matter about the race of the woman, for I strongly believe, and this is strictly a woman thing, they all NAG the same and that’s nothing to do with race it’s just what they do.

  • @sharonkaysnowton
    @sharonkaysnowton 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. I am sooooo happy you made it!!! Marriage for any couple is not easy, and doesn't always last. So glad your marriage lasted. Be blessed.

  • @yasmingrell9702
    @yasmingrell9702 2 роки тому +1

    This gentleman wise and profound beyond racism .... his words apply not only race .... I enjoyed listening to this couple so much God bless them both .... humanity would be so much better off if we had people like this gentleman

  • @gaylesallee9635
    @gaylesallee9635 2 роки тому +1

    The Light will always cover the dark!! It,s Love pure and simple love covers everything. This couple is the face of love the face of Light. They even loved the people that hated them and never let it affect their lives.God Bless Them. They taught us a lesson today. God Bless Them!!

  • @almaznegus5067
    @almaznegus5067 2 роки тому +12

    What a beautiful soul long live!

  • @marthawarrington7748
    @marthawarrington7748 2 роки тому +26

    Wise council sir. We need more like . Hate only destroys the indwho hates

  • @marycoleman6963
    @marycoleman6963 2 роки тому +1

    Lovely story!! We should all be so lucky. Thanks for sharing.