Hi Leah. When I lived in the Philippines, as a child and visited while in the Navy, I had to shower multiple times per day. The heat and humidity would cause my shirt to stick to me like glue. Unless your in the mountains, the country has two seasons, hot & wet and hotter & wetter. I would choose to live in the mountains. The people have such a positive outlook, that it rubs off on you. Take care.
Great video - these points apply to women everywhere. If more guys followed these simple suggestions there would be a lot more happy guys and women! Everyone wants to be respected and appreciated and it's even more important with your partner. Never take them for granted and work every day to make your relationship better and stronger :)
Good morning Leah, it is Memorial Day here in the U S and I must admit your video is a breath of fresh news. My Filipina wife and are planning to retire back in the Philippines soon to enjoy the peace and laid back life of the country. May God continue to bless you and your husband.
Being in a good relationship is when two people love and compliment each other, lifting each up, supporting one another and always being honest and be able to talk things out especially if there is a disagreement..Hygiene is also extremely important, loyalty and integrity is the a MUST! Being open minded, humble and playful is also very important. Learn each other’s individuals needs and wants so you in tune within one another
That's a very good list Leah. I think a lot of these would be true for women too. Of all the excellent qualities you have, and there are quite a few I would say your optimistic outlook and your sense of humor are at the top of the list. I bet people like being around you both men and women. Salamat po.
Love is not complicated. It doesn't need fancy words or some kind of Science formula...the secret is a Good Heart...any woman of any culture can see this clearly....Think about this....how do blind people fall in love..? I worked at one of biggest blind center in California and here is what I learned from them...those that are married or in a relationship with another blind person fell in love with the connection they felt from the Heart..like two magnet's...all of them said the same thing.....He/She had a good Heart...
I am super confident and most people think I am not humble because of it. Yet, I don't think I am above anyone and I treat everyone with respect. Yet, most people hate my confidence. I am not arrogant but I am a go getter. So, perhaps Filipinas will not find me humble. I know culture plays a huge part in the way they view others. Yet, I am kind to everyone. I tip service workers if they do a good job. I have a great relationship with my mom, yet I disregard most of her advice.
It’s ok to be confident that is a good trait. It’s more about how you express that confidence that can be viewed as negative. You have to be carful that you don’t appear to be bragging or boasting even if you know you aren’t. It’s how others view your behaviour that can be problematic. I’ll give you an example - I was with a Filipino friend of mine at his parents house and something needed fixing. Now I was confident that I could fix it by myself since I had done it before at my house. Rather than say anything like that I went to his father and ASKED if I could take a look. Then I suggested to him that “with his help” WE could probably fix it. After “we” fixed it I thanked him for letting me “help” HIM fix it. I told him that I had learned something from him and definitely couldn’t have done it by myself. Later in front of his friends and family I spoke about how he had let me help him and he had taught me a few things and I appreciated it. Sometimes it’s how you present things. Cheers
The problem with being kind to everyone is some will see it as a weakness and try to take advantage of your kindness. Some people can make it very hard to be kind too. It can be quite difficult to smell good when you're outside sweating your butt off. Having to constantly give compliments can get exhausting, and if you do it all the time and forget one time, it's going to cause an argument. Also giving compliments all the time makes them lose the special sentiment behind them. The problem with sense of humor is without knowing and understanding the foreigners culture, their witticisms, sarcasm, how they twist words to have a different meaning etc. things may not be funny to her, like if he makes a joke about a redneck, but she doesn't know what a redneck is, it's not going to be funny.
Good video Leah...but I think that honesty is very important in a relationship, and should be included in your list...it's one of the attributes or characteristics that I look for in a loving relationship with a woman.
Leah I think what you were saying is a “real man” or gentleman knows how to treat you like a lady not just a woman. It shows respect for you and your culture.
Helo leah good evening i lkee all stories very nice. Thenks for share all vidio. Good job. Thenks for uploading video. I m form india live Mumbai City.
Loved the information. If your man finds you beautiful he sound be able to express that to Filipina. I do agree that are many ways to compliment her. And he should express that always to you. Again Gary is a very lucky man.
One thing I would like to add is that when you come from another Country and Culture, you will smell different when you sweat than the locals. It takes about two weeks of eating local food to get all of that smell off of you.
Hello there. I live in Norway and it is very cold here. Oh, I think that when I go on a trip to the Philippines, I'm going to sweat too much. It's certainly not sexy. Then I will be eternally single according to your standards. I'm going to cry now.😰😥
We Men usually call it Cologne not really perfume, perfume is a feminine for a woman. FYI, Men LOVE a pretty smelling woman with sweet smelling perfume , & I Love it when I can smell there shampoo too still from them bathing earlier.
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Women love a guy with a sense of humor Women love a guy that is kind Women love a guy who gives them Attention Women love a guy that makes them feel secure Women love a guy with a big heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️....there is no secret recipe for getting a Filipina...or really any woman....all it takes is Kindness each day of your life ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Christian Filipina dating site is a Great place to start to find a Filipina...it cost over $300 a year so it's important that Finding a Filipina is what you really want...but it's a good investment for your future Happiness
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 syempre dai. Me and Dave appreciate you and Gary so much for pushing me to make content on YT and its a big deal for me. 🥰🥰🥰 that’s why we support you guys ❤️
it's easy to turn on a woman.... the mystery is to keep her ON. 😆 - if you're too good they get bored and leave you or cheat on you, - if you're too bad they get afraid and leave you - if you're too romantic, they get used to it and eventually the magic wears out and get bored - if you're not romantic they get insecure and seek romance from another guy 😆
You forgot the magic point, the elephant in the room: "Girls want a financially stable man". By the way, what does "financially stable" mean to a Filipina? That he earns a lot or that he earns in a consistent way over time?
Just be like Fabio the king of romance and you can attract women all over the world LoL just don't get hit in the face by a goose 🦆 LoL I can't believe it's not butter LoL 🤣😆
My Pinoy wife is boring cold like a fridge ,no matter how I compliment her cooking ,and some clean mature joke,,she is more interested in watching Philippine shows on TV,I reather talk to my cat,at least I get a response.
There is no comparing western women to those exceptional women in the filipeans. Filipean women still have the values that western women don't have. Here in the uk most women are as American women & so a woman from the filipeans is pure gold.
I agree that you have to have a sense of humor. But as a foreigner you have to be careful. What is funny for us does not translate the same way to a Filipina. First let her get to know you try to explain to her if you say something but she gets offended by all misunderstands. There will be many misunderstandings with any relationship but when you're with someone that the culture is different and the language is different and things do not translate the same it becomes a little bit more difficult. My advice is let her get to know you better before you start getting with a normal sarcasm and joking like we do here in the states. Please feel free to correct me if I am wrong about this
humble /ˈhʌmbl/ adjective 1. having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's importance. "I felt very humble when meeting her" Similar: meek deferential respectful submissive self-effacing unassertive unpresuming modest unassuming self-deprecating free from vanity obsequious sycophantic servile mim resistless Opposite: proud overbearing 2. of low social, administrative, or political rank. "she came from a humble, unprivileged background"
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Hi Leah. When I lived in the Philippines, as a child and visited while in the Navy, I had to shower multiple times per day. The heat and humidity would cause my shirt to stick to me like glue. Unless your in the mountains, the country has two seasons, hot & wet and hotter & wetter. I would choose to live in the mountains. The people have such a positive outlook, that it rubs off on you. Take care.
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I overheat too! I prefer the rainy season! 😅
Great video - these points apply to women everywhere. If more guys followed these simple suggestions there would be a lot more happy guys and women! Everyone wants to be respected and appreciated and it's even more important with your partner. Never take them for granted and work every day to make your relationship better and stronger :)
Good morning Leah, it is Memorial Day here in the U S and I must admit your video is a breath of fresh news. My Filipina wife and are planning to retire back in the Philippines soon to enjoy the peace and laid back life of the country. May God continue to bless you and your husband.
Oh c'mon, 70% genetics, 20% status, 8% does he want kids, 2% personality, treatment, etc.
This is a very important video for all expats. I loved this information, as it comes directly from Filipinas.
Being in a good relationship is when two people love and compliment each other, lifting each up, supporting one another and always being honest and be able to talk things out especially if there is a disagreement..Hygiene is also extremely important, loyalty and integrity is the a MUST! Being open minded, humble and playful is also very important. Learn each other’s individuals needs and wants so you in tune within one another
That's a very good list Leah. I think a lot of these would be true for women too. Of all the excellent qualities you have, and there are quite a few I would say your optimistic outlook and your sense of humor are at the top of the list. I bet people like being around you both men and women. Salamat po.
Spot on Leah!! Great list👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
For all women: Money, security, fidelity, kindness, generosity, honesty, cleanliness.
Thank you Leah for another wonderful video . With respect , I love you and your family ! 🌺
Nice video! I would add to confident...competent. Both together are nice.
New subscriber love this channel, seriously thinking about moving in 2yrs , planning on taking a trip there next yr for a 2 month stay
Love is not complicated. It doesn't need fancy words or some kind of Science formula...the secret is a Good Heart...any woman of any culture can see this clearly....Think about this....how do blind people fall in love..? I worked at one of biggest blind center in California and here is what I learned from them...those that are married or in a relationship with another blind person fell in love with the connection they felt from the Heart..like two magnet's...all of them said the same thing.....He/She had a good Heart...
Great advice thank you 😊
I am super confident and most people think I am not humble because of it. Yet, I don't think I am above anyone and I treat everyone with respect. Yet, most people hate my confidence. I am not arrogant but I am a go getter. So, perhaps Filipinas will not find me humble. I know culture plays a huge part in the way they view others. Yet, I am kind to everyone. I tip service workers if they do a good job. I have a great relationship with my mom, yet I disregard most of her advice.
It’s ok to be confident that is a good trait. It’s more about how you express that confidence that can be viewed as negative.
You have to be carful that you don’t appear to be bragging or boasting even if you know you aren’t. It’s how others view your behaviour that can be problematic.
I’ll give you an example -
I was with a Filipino friend of mine at his parents house and something needed fixing. Now I was confident that I could fix it by myself since I had done it before at my house. Rather than say anything like that I went to his father and ASKED if I could take a look. Then I suggested to him that “with his help” WE could probably fix it. After “we” fixed it I thanked him for letting me “help” HIM fix it. I told him that I had learned something from him and definitely couldn’t have done it by myself.
Later in front of his friends and family I spoke about how he had let me help him and he had taught me a few things and I appreciated it.
Sometimes it’s how you present things.
Cheers
@@prepperjonpnw6482 wisdom. thank you
Good info leah I appreciate the info keep up the good work 😎💪
Well said!
The first date question is always "what do you do for a living" - so I think MONEY should be # 8
Thanks for the video 📹
Very good topic Leah
Learn her language, pay respects to her family, be kind and have plenty pesos !! 😅🇵🇭💯
Hello Leah ! I always look forward to your uploads.
Thank you! ❤😊
Hi glad we met u at boulevard last Saturday 😊
Nice meeting you dai, sayang we didn't get a chance to talk Kay akong mga babies energetic kaayo 😄
Hehe ok lang dai,, lge oii bibo kaau imo babies hope we see u again soon
The problem with being kind to everyone is some will see it as a weakness and try to take advantage of your kindness. Some people can make it very hard to be kind too. It can be quite difficult to smell good when you're outside sweating your butt off. Having to constantly give compliments can get exhausting, and if you do it all the time and forget one time, it's going to cause an argument. Also giving compliments all the time makes them lose the special sentiment behind them. The problem with sense of humor is without knowing and understanding the foreigners culture, their witticisms, sarcasm, how they twist words to have a different meaning etc. things may not be funny to her, like if he makes a joke about a redneck, but she doesn't know what a redneck is, it's not going to be funny.
Being humble is more important. Not feelng entitled.
@@Yamie1101 100% Agree.
a fish instructing a fisherman how to catch fish....
Great video. Keep up the great work and keep it coming
Confidence but not arrogance
Great video, thank you for all the great information, I need all the help I can get. 🙂👍👍👍🙏
Good video Leah...but I think that honesty is very important in a relationship, and should be included in your list...it's one of the attributes or characteristics that I look for in a loving relationship with a woman.
Hi,I would agree with everything you said especially about sense of humour I have found that Filipina's have a very good sense of humour.
Good video, thanks ! I agree with everything that you said, God bless 🙏!
Excellent advice, Leah! Salamat!
GOB BLESS YOU LEAH ❤
Have an amazing day and God bless you 🙏
Leah I think what you were saying is a “real man” or gentleman knows how to treat you like a lady not just a woman. It shows respect for you and your culture.
Helo leah good evening i lkee all stories very nice. Thenks for share all vidio. Good job. Thenks for uploading video. I m form india live Mumbai City.
Oh, Thanks. Appreciate it, Good evening From the Philippines. ❤
Loved the information. If your man finds you beautiful he sound be able to express that to Filipina. I do agree that are many ways to compliment her. And he should express that always to you. Again Gary is a very lucky man.
Precious, Thank You Leah!
Sweet Tips from a Real Sweet Hearted Sweetheart!
HELLO! EVERYONE MY BEAUTIFUL PHILIPPINE PEOPLE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS USA 🇵🇭👍🙏❤️
One thing I would like to add is that when you come from another Country and Culture, you will smell different when you sweat than the locals.
It takes about two weeks of eating local food to get all of that smell off of you.
I'm very simple just t-shirt and shorts but I agree smelling good is definitely appreciated...
Nice video and cute top
Leah always enjoy your videos thank you
Cute ponytails Leah
I joke around quite a bit.
I'm really 66, but I joke that I'm 33 for the second time. 🤣🤣
Leah like Pocahantas hair today, very nice !
Hello there. I live in Norway and it is very cold here. Oh, I think that when I go on a trip to the Philippines, I'm going to sweat too much. It's certainly not sexy. Then I will be eternally single according to your standards. I'm going to cry now.😰😥
We Men usually call it Cologne not really perfume, perfume is a feminine for a woman.
FYI, Men LOVE a pretty smelling woman with sweet smelling perfume , & I Love it when I can smell there shampoo too still from them bathing earlier.
Holy shit… that was painful!
How about something like, thank you for being you?
Very good info to share for everyone 😊
Thanks Steve
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Women love a guy with a sense of humor
Women love a guy that is kind
Women love a guy who gives them Attention
Women love a guy that makes them feel secure
Women love a guy with a big heart ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️....there is no secret recipe for getting a Filipina...or really any woman....all it takes is Kindness each day of your life ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Christian Filipina dating site is a Great place to start to find a Filipina...it cost over $300 a year so it's important that Finding a Filipina is what you really want...but it's a good investment for your future Happiness
Good advice
Always love to watch your vlogs. Good Content 🥰
Supportive kaayo amega ko oi🥰 Thanks for watching dai😘❤️
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673 syempre dai. Me and Dave appreciate you and Gary so much for pushing me to make content on YT and its a big deal for me. 🥰🥰🥰 that’s why we support you guys ❤️
@@ChachaTheMorenangFilipina7736 interviewhin na kita soon 😜🙂 mag ready nako question 😃😃
Step 1. Post a profile on a dating site.
There is no step 2.
I have been berated by western women for opening doors for them. Then I get pissed off. Lol
Loved it Beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kamusta, Magandang hapon Leah.
it's easy to turn on a woman.... the mystery is to keep her ON. 😆
- if you're too good they get bored and leave you or cheat on you,
- if you're too bad they get afraid and leave you
- if you're too romantic, they get used to it and eventually the magic wears out and get bored
- if you're not romantic they get insecure and seek romance from another guy
😆
Smelling good - use Tawas , it really does work
You forgot the magic point, the elephant in the room: "Girls want a financially stable man". By the way, what does "financially stable" mean to a Filipina? That he earns a lot or that he earns in a consistent way over time?
The actual question would be: which of those two types would you choose...?
Just be like Fabio the king of romance and you can attract women all over the world LoL just don't get hit in the face by a goose 🦆 LoL I can't believe it's not butter LoL 🤣😆
My Pinoy wife is boring cold like a fridge ,no matter how I compliment her cooking ,and some clean mature joke,,she is more interested in watching Philippine shows on TV,I reather talk to my cat,at least I get a response.
I agree with that when a guy smells good I really like it. Maka inlabiba😊
I have Filipinas to be very complex in nature.
Noted y’all a bunch of chasers 😊😅❤
What about Billionaire? Pirate? Rock Star? Werewolf? Malaki ti ti ko?
Money good retirement plan social security benefits and don't forget to get a vasectomy and a trust fund or prenuptial 👍
EL Guapo sent me here
Please braid my hair tomorrow. 🙂
👍👍👍
You are sweet, do you have an unmarried sister :-)
OMG you are so beautiful.
@Ron Silk ,., Don't be a simp.
There is no comparing western women to those exceptional women in the filipeans.
Filipean women still have the values that western women don't have.
Here in the uk most women are as American women & so a woman from the filipeans is pure gold.
I agree that you have to have a sense of humor. But as a foreigner you have to be careful. What is funny for us does not translate the same way to a Filipina. First let her get to know you try to explain to her if you say something but she gets offended by all misunderstands. There will be many misunderstandings with any relationship but when you're with someone that the culture is different and the language is different and things do not translate the same it becomes a little bit more difficult. My advice is let her get to know you better before you start getting with a normal sarcasm and joking like we do here in the states. Please feel free to correct me if I am wrong about this
humble
/ˈhʌmbl/
adjective
1.
having or showing a modest or low estimate of one's importance.
"I felt very humble when meeting her"
Similar:
meek
deferential
respectful
submissive
self-effacing
unassertive
unpresuming
modest
unassuming
self-deprecating
free from vanity
obsequious
sycophantic
servile
mim
resistless
Opposite:
proud
overbearing
2.
of low social, administrative, or political rank.
"she came from a humble, unprivileged background"