+@@jogriffin9347 IF you think the Bible is a man-made book its ONLY because you haven't read it. NO man could write a book that is outside of time - predicting with perfect accuracy events far into h future and events we cannot observe far into history. That is NOT the work of man - but of someone out side of time.
+Daiashanlang Kurbah Exactly so - and any denial that GOD created the human body for orals ex withing marriage is to mock God and limit His creative powers. God wrote approvingly of Oral Sex in Songs of Solomon - although in English its a bit obscure - NOT so in Hebrew and Aramaic.. As Commentator Akin notes: "Daniel Akin - verse 2 is badly translated in my judgment in virtually every English version. The problem is with the word translated “navel.” It simply does not fit the upward progression or the description. The Hebrew word is rare, occurring only three times in the Old Testament (cf. Prov 3:8; Ezek 16:4). Here the word almost certainly is a reference to the innermost sexual part of a woman, her vagina (vulva) (see Carr, Song, 157; Snaith, Song, 101). Solomon’s description makes no sense of a navel, but it beautifully expresses the sexual pleasures he continually receives from his wife. Like “a rounded bowl; it never lacks mixed wine”-she never runs dry. She is a constant source of intoxicating pleasure and sweetness. The idea of blended or “mixed” could refer to the mingling of male and female fluids in the appropriate place of a woman’s body (Snaith, Song, 103). Shulammite was an exotic garden (Song 4:12,16) and an intoxicating drink (Song 7:2) in her lovemaking. Seldom, if ever, was her husband disappointed. She was his dream lover, and amazingly, he wasn’t dreaming! The more he learned about her the more he loved and enjoyed her.. (Ibid)" The wine and wheat were to be enjoyed by the MOUTH of her lover. NO other explanation makes sense. And likewise - she has tasted of HIS fruits - about as strongly as GOD could write it in a PG 13 Book. "Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. Prob. 21:2"
@@danmoreta haha facts, me too man.. actually have a lot of chances to have sex .. but my childhood was ruff and we struggled a lot financially.. so I had other shii.. on my mind and was quite insecure, not about my looks, but about who I was as a person. It was that bad, that even when girls liked me,.. I wouldn’t act on it.
I'm a divorced man that's trying to live a Christian life. This is the first time I've listened to you. Wow, I've already learned so much! Yes, in a positive way! Thanks for your help! I look forward to learning more about life and how I can please God.
With major love and respect you I hope that you know that you cannot get remarried because that's adultery once you get divorced that's it you have to remain single if your spouse dies then and only then can you get remarried
“Trying to live a Christian life” What exactly does this mean? Does it mean faith, or just works? I would hope that good works are a result of faith here.
@@miss.l.c.minister Your position on this issue is unbiblical. Plenty of passages in the Pauline epistles do not suggest, but state explicitly that “no one is enslaved” by being tied to an unbeliever who wants to leave, or an unrepentant sinner. Have a look at 1 Corinthians 7 sometime.
Such wisdom is almost non-existent these days. I love your answers, John. I would not have even dared answer such a question so publicly, but you did it and you did it well.
@Greg Jacques Lucifer's Jizz Gargler Satan's minion, Psalms 14:1 (KJV) The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good. Flee from fornication, blasphemy, sodomy, and the other abominations your inviting to the Lord's channels. I pray that the Lost like you repent, and put your trust in Jesus Christ, he loves all his children. Stop rebelling because you know very well our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is God, devils cower in fear in his Almighty presence. 🙏
@@gmac8586 Revelation 21:8 (KJV) But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
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Oh, I weep for the youth who don't get this information. I wasn't taught about sex growing up in the church and fell into the wrong crowd in college. I had sexual experiences with absolutely no Christian guidance and it ruined how I view relationships. I was made to feel like I wasn't a man because I was physically weirded out by how casually girls committed sexual acts. Oral sex can be so much more intimate than copulation, but the world wants to tell you that it's no big deal. Thank you for tackling such a thorny subject, Christians everywhere need info and discernment like this. Thank you John Piper!
@@annereynolds66 I can use all 66 books- that has nothing to do with the fact that I spoke the truth. So it’s obviously that oral sex demon in you that’s deflecting from the issue!!!!!! The one disobeying God is you. If you consider the word, “exactly” as being arrogant and rude, then you surely can’t handle God’s word, you have bigger problems, and need to get off the Internet - and you wouldn’t be able to handle Jesus, Paul, or John the Baptist- because they actually gave up their lives for speaking, the truth . Repent or perish ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
I agree with your assessment. I don't agree with everything he says - BUT he is REAL, practical and BIBLICAL. And HONEST and gentle, and TRUTHFUL. And because he is all of these there is a lynch mob waiting for him. NO public figure is allowed those qualities. Especially a Godly pastor.
+@J6yo Bless you - we all have days like that. Casting all your cares on HIM, for he CARES for YOU. There gets to be a lot of trash on these sites and I try to keep on top of them. Some are innocent like yours - some are hooks to entangle people in false cults and bad theology. NO worries.
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Great answer Pastor. Song of Solomon 5:1 says this "I am come into my garden, my sister, my spouse: I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk: eat, O friends; drink, yea, drink abundantly, O beloved." Now there are two schools of interpreting Song of Solomon and one was just to sensuous for many Rabbis. I think the literal meaning is the correct one. If it is then go for it. Just read the whole book. Have a blessed time.
as a teenage guy (no this hasn't opened any doors that werent already open), i find it funny that "outdo each other in acts of kindness" is what made me laugh
What a wonderful response from brother John. You explained in a beautiful way how we should view this topic. I have read the word most of my life cover to cover and I agree 100% with your explanation. We had people in the past that thought sex was only for procreation and you then have, as explained in the NT, early Christians who thought they could remain faithful to CHRIST yet live sexually immoral lives. Women were a gift from GOD, children are a gift from GOD, and sex was a gift from GOD and if we keep all of those blessings within righteous guidelines GOD teaches in his word we will reap it's blessings spiritually and physically. GOD bless you brother and Thank You!
Sex is for procreation, but also for pleasure. Song of songs doesn't make much mention of childbearing, but plenty about enjoying each others bodies. Considering the Bible doesn't say anything specifically about it, we can't make an explicit judgement on it. If fondling boobs is okay according to SOS, remembering that it has no correlation to making babies, then there is no good reason to assume oral is any different. Just enjoy each other, and be respectful of your spouse. I don't think it's that hard of an answer...
You are not right, biblically it is very wrong . That some couples derive pleasure in oral sex does not mean God welcomes it. ROMAN 1: 19- end. It is changing the naturally way that God planned sex. The end essence of sex is procreation and satisfying each others sexual desire as couple not oral sex. Oral sex is sin and it can lead the doer to the lake of fire .God has a Patten to every thing in life. You must follow strictly to remain on the narrow part to heaven else you shift into the broad way to Hell fire except heaven is not your goal. Take note of the word of Jesus Christ in Mark 9:43 - 48. It is true. One hour of oral sex pleasure cannot equate suffering for all eternity don't be deceived please
Nwaiwu Immaculate , you are so wrong, the Bible does not comment on oral sex, Sodomy yes, oral sex no. You hold to your beliefs, But what my wife and I agree to in the bedroom to please each other as God has made us one is frankly not for you or anyone else to comment on as sin in our lives. Natural way? Where can we find those explicit instructions at in the Bible. You read into what you want but keep it between you and your spouse.
@Barry Midikiner pretty silly comment. God made us perfect. Time and the devil and entropy has brought on death sickness and gag reflex. That's NOT something God gave to limit sexual pleasure. Be careful of attributing the work of the Devil to God.
@@nwaiwuimmaculate7348 I note you cannot find a single verse of Scripture to support your demonic lie. Only the enemy of our souls would so blatantly contradict the teaching of Scripture. 1Cor 5 7 makes it plain that when we are not abstaining from sex to spend out time in fasting and prayer that we are to be passionate about our sexuality with our partner and enjoy the PLEASURE of sexuality. The English Bibles especially the corrupted ones like the LKV and NWT downplay the PLEASURE that is correctly used in that verse in the Aramaic Bible - the language Jesus spoke while on earth. Please stop preaching guilt and damnation on couples that follow the Biblical pattern for married sexuality of which oral sex is a wonderful Biblical part and has been since Eden. Your illiterate opinions and misuse of Scripture is far more likely to lead you to hell than having oral sex with your spouse.
@@nwaiwuimmaculate7348 Romans 1 has no application at all to marriage. Stop perverting the scriptures for your own sense of superiority. Listen to what this Godly teacher says not the demons in your head
Just stumbled on to this...can't believe this is even an issue. What married couples enjoy together is totally fine as long as it does not violate specific scripture...If however one is not comfortable, then it's not ok. Pastor John delicately said the same thing.
tom ya Your just saying that because it has some potential addictive effects of it... You can become addictive to weed but it doesn't mean you will... If you smoke weed then do it fir the Glory of God.. 1 corinthians 10:31
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As Pastor John aptly points out; oral sex is a great deal more "intimate" than say... missionary position. Scripture tells us that a man should love his wife as his own flesh. In this perspective, pleasing your wife, or visa-versa, is the most intimate communication that a married couple can express to one another. In these latter times, where greater than 50% of marriages are disolved... I would say that perhaps marital relationships could use a bit more intimacy, along with a host of other relationship-building interactions.
Hebrews 13:4 says “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled..." Love is the guiding principle in the marriage relationship. Paul wrote that the woman who loves her husband will seek to please her husband, and that man who loves his wife will seek to please his wife. The marriage bed, therefore, is undefiled where a married couple mutually consent to express their love for one another.
Adriana Morawietz How does what me and my wife do in the privacy of our bedroom have anything to do with your faith in God? My grandmother is not the standard by which I live my life. God is. And, as the apostle Paul once asked, why is my liberty judged by another person's conscience? Because your conscience may not allow you to engage in a certain activity, be sexual or otherwise, does not mean that I can't or shouldn't. That's not up to you, that's between me and my wife and God. You are not the standard by which my righteousness is measured, Christ is. My duty as a child of God is to love you and not put a stumbling block before you that would create an offense. So, how does my liberty in Christ pose a threat to your faith or create a stumbling block for you? Just because you 'feel' it is a sin for me does not make it so. Where in the Bible does God prohibit me and my wife from expressing our love for one another in the marriage bed? I want Scripture, not opinion or conjecture.
Augustine Guerrero Watch Chris LaSala's video on 'a reprobate will say; show me that in the bible' 5 min video and 'hormonal junk' by LaSala. Very good info. I wasn't judging u but speaking in general even if I answered to you. If u feel convicted is cos of God's judgement on u, not mine. Oral sex is not for born again christians as the fear of God that is given as a gift to the children of God upon being born again, doesn't allow u to do dirty stuff. Oral sex is sodomy. + it is a carnal lust of flesh. You can enjoy sex while being fruitful ofcourse but u need to have a healthy discernment also. And if u didn't know is ok. You know now.
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+@Jon Singleton Wrong - you need to read the Bible. YOU are using a 21st century dictionary to explain a BC definition. Words change meaning over time. SODOMY in the Bible is ONLY homosexual activity - it cannot be applied to marriage. Are you really that illiterate?
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GOD knows the mind of man.GOD knows everything we will think or try...thats why GOD said "the marriage bed is undefiled"..GOD already knew we would try it❤
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Obviously it's a little more complicated than that. Two people in love pleasing one another looks wholesome at face value. But I agree it is more about pleasing the flesh than it is about two people equally engaged in becoming more holy and closer to God.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God minister to me a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding on to them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay be in your life, with an evil mirror, and a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford to these motherless foundation (EKPOBA MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact where ever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Deliver them to the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2349058629827) tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
Candela Roja He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
Undefiled is referring to adultery and fornication. Look at the sentences before and after keeping the marriage bed undefiled, so its not taken out of context. It wasn’t talking about oral sex. Satan has perverted the minds of christians and they have taken what god made good and made it bad with legalistic thinking, which is evident of weak faith and unbelief. The pastor is rock solid and spirit filled.
WHY would you pray about what GOD has already given us the last word on? Need we pray about killing our neighbor? GOD is as comfortable with Oral sex as any other variety = and for many women it's their ONLY or preferred pathway to orgasms - the purpose of Godly sex in marriage.
Why the fuck do we need to pray about it when it's clear that it's wickedness? Excuse my language but it's so frustrating seeing Christians scratching their head over something that is clearly abominable and filthy.
A lot of people may not agree with me and may get offended. But the definition of sodomy is anal or oral copulation. So if a couple does have oral sex, would that not compare them to the many scriptures discussed about the sodomites in the Bible? Sodomite is one that practices sodomy. This would not only pertain to homosexuals as most people believe, but to heterosexuals and married couples alike. It is the act that is wrong. It is very important to note that we must get knowledge and understanding. Hosea 4:6 says, My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. It is very important to pray for knowledge, wisdom and understanding. 1 Cor. 6:15 says. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take members of Christ, and make them members of a harlot? God forbid. I pray God give his people strength, against the lusts of our flesh and the filthy desires of our hearts. This is not condemn anyone or bring judgement on people, but something to consider. I would not want God to bring judgment on me, call me a sodomite and end up in the pit because of acts I did because I did not have knowledge of committing sodomy. Blessings in Jesus Mighty Name.
This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy. Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong? The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon] Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well. If the definition for sodomy is accurate, there may be millions in the Christian community, pastors, church leaders, missionaries, literally practicing sodomy. This gets even worse because anyone who is committing sodomy by practicing anal or oral sex is a sodomite! The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite according to Merriam-Webster refers to anyone who actively engages in sodomy. Sodomite in the Bible refers to a male temple prostitute, one who is consecrated to the impure rites of their heathen deities. Whereby they committed every sexual abomination including sodomy. “And there were also sodomites in the land: and they did according to all the abominations of the nations which the LORD cast out before the children of Israel.” 1 Kings 14:24 The abominations which were committed by the nations which the Lord had cast out of the land ranged from incest, adultery, homosexuality, to bestiality. (See Leviticus 18:4-30) The people of God are not to be associated with these gross and degrading sexual practices. (See Deuteronomy 23:17; Ephesians 5:3) We must remember that the sodomite was a temple prostitute whose sexual acts are associated with heathen deities. We are told in scripture that these heathen deities are in reality nothing but devils or demons. (See Psalms 106:36,37; 1 Corinthians 10:20-22) This is the reason for God’s strict avoidance of these vile sexual rituals. Because anything associated with the occult will become a snare or trap for the soul. (See Exodus 23:33; Psalms 106:36; I Peter 2:11) Sexual sins such as sodomy is a tactic of the devil to ensnare people of God. “But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock (snare) before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication.” Revelation 2:14 In examining the account of how the doctrine of Balaam was used against the people of God. We discover that there was a spiritual connection associated with the sexual acts of the daughters of Moab. Baal-Peor is a Moabite god who was worshipped with obscene sexual rituals. The name means "Lord of the Opening" from Baal meaning owner/ husband and Peor coming from pa'ar meaning "open wide". Another name for Baal-Peor is Belphegor who was depicted either as a beautiful naked woman or a bearded demon with open mouth, horns, and sharply pointed nails (the open mouth being an indicator of the sexual rites used to worship him). St. Jerome reported that statues of Baal-Peor that he encountered in Syria depicted the god with a phallus in his mouth. The worship of Baal was associated with vile sexual acts, which definitely included oral sex. (See Hosea 4:12-14; 9:10)
+@@theway4201 Jeffery - your unbiblical PRUDERY and attacks on men and people of GOD obeying SCRIPTURE is truly heartbreaking. Assuming you are married - you are certainly depriving your wife of what GOD included in a GODLY marriage. 1 Cor 7:5 "This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy." Oral sex is NOT by any STRETCH of the imagination Biblical SODOMY - as Wikipedia says - the use of the term for anything BUT homosexual sex is recent - BIBLICALLY it was homosexual rape at first than expanded to homosexual anal intercourse - IT NEVER EVER was applied to heterosexual sex OR married sex - your ASSUMPTION is dangerous and BIBLICALLY destructive. " Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong?" Again - ORAL sex is NOT SODOMY - and it is fondly referenced in the SOS. - WHICH last time I looked was part of the Canon of SCRIPTURE. " The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. " Again - IF you were HONEST, you would look at its HISTORY - ONLY in the mid 70's did that definition become the norm. Before that it was limited to HOMOSEXUAL sex. DICTIONARIES ONLY reflect CURRENT meanings of words - as Wikipedia notes:" "Sodomy (/ˈsɒdəmi/) or buggery (British English) is generally anal or oral sex between people or sexual activity between a person and a non-human animal (bestiality), but it may also mean any non-procreative sexual activity.[1][2][3] " INCLUDING Marriage "Originally, the term sodomy, which is derived from the story of Sodom and Gomorrah in the Book of Genesis,[4] was commonly restricted to anal sex.[5][6]" The GAGE dictionary of 1983 states that "it is abnormal sexual relations between two males or between humans and animals." WEBSTER 1954 states: "Carnal sexual intercourse in any of several; unnatural ways usually that of one male with another." Just as the BIBLE used the word SHAMBLES as we use supermarket - so Sodomy of today was unknown to the BIBLICAL times. It's intellectually dishonest to take the deception and falsehoods you are relying upon to attack Godly men and women who take the WORD of GOD to heart and love with their entire BODY mind and spirit - what Marriage is to be in GOD's expectation, and why he uses it as a MODEL of his relationship with us as HIS bride. You do NOTHING but create false and imaginary shame, guilt, turmoil and division in the marriage of Godly people with your anti-Biblical and totally false teaching. BUT even allowing for your deliberate misdefinition - NOTHING in marriage is off limits - you CANNOT commit sodomy within marriage. The definition you mistakenly use INCLUDES MARRIED sex - so you are being HYPOCRITICAL at best; deceptive for certain, and damaging and destructive at worst. "Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon]" BUT NOT oral sex within marriage - you keep looking for that magic definition that supports your sexual perversion - IT does NOT exist. "Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well." That of course is a blatant lie. NOWHERE does it mention married couples - YOU add that deceptively. "If the definition for sodomy is accurate, " YOUR definitions is NOT accurate - BUT you never BOTHERED to check out that issue - because what you FOUND fit your perverted concept of married sex. I'll finish dealing with your utter nonsense and BIBLICAL ignorance on the issue at another time.
@@paulrobinson9318 Sorry to inform you but maybe you should read the sodomy laws that once governed our nation for hundreds of years. Laws that were based upon biblical principles and Christian values. It's shame that we are debating over whether or not oral sex is sodomy. I wonder if oral sex is something that is associated with the sexual behavior of homosexuals or Christians. I also wonder if this kind of sexual behavior is something to be identified with how we as men are suppose to love our wives. If you feel that this is what Christ meant we said that we are to love our wives as He loved the church., then brother then help yourself. I'm 66 years old and I can remember as a young man this kind of sexual behavior was considered to be gross and perverted. I guess I haven't changed with the times! Love you too my brother in Christ!!!
+Jeffery Wheeler Some thoughts about your faulty definition. YOU may or may NOT be interested - I had a couple minutes and checked some facts I had stated - At my age my memory may not be reliable but LIKE my comments to be so. If you have no interest - NO problem, - I just wanted to check my facts. YOU say sodomy laws (Oral sex is NOT sodomy in the BIBLE) - went back to the earliest BIBLICAL days of America - but so did some states killing BOTH the victim and perpetrator of rape. Cusac, Anne-Marie (March 17, 2009). Cruel and Unusual: The Culture of Punishment in America. Yale University Press. pp. 22-24. Was that also from the the BIBLE? "Ethics scholar Richard Weinmeyer writes:[8] “ During the 1950s, McCarthyism resulted in state- and nationwide witch hunts of male "homosexuals" in which the acts of oral and anal sex between consenting adult men were [treated the same as] child molestation. " MALE . . . NOT heterosexual. NOT married. "In the late 1970’s and early 1980’s the growing strength and politicization of religious extremists significantly slowed the repeal efforts. The awaking of religious political extremists led to at least two states to enact specifically anti-gay sodomy laws at the same time as they otherwise modernized their criminal codes. Kentucky enacted a homosexual-only sodomy law in 1974. Arkansas did the same in 1977 with the approval of then state Attorney General Bill Clinton." Male . . . NOT heterosexual. NOT Married. "But sodomy, as Eskridge told the Court-and also tells readers-technically isn’t about homosexuality at all. Rather, it’s about sex without procreative possibility (which can be hetero as well as homo sex). Because sodomy has come to be seen as emblematic of homosexuality, " IF you take this view - then any sex is sodomy that cannot result in a child - during pregnancy after menopause - an infertile couple - and a million other times - technically also in a woman's infertile times. Again - anti-Biblical - Abraham and Sarah appeared to have sex often whilst childless. "This pattern began to shift at the beginning of the twentieth century. Loosening morals and new patterns of urban sociability prompted officials to expand sodomy laws to include fellatio, which most states did by the 1920s. If more kinds of behavior counted as sodomy, more people could be vulnerable under the law, and so more aggressive policing ensued. Women as well as men were prosecuted for fellatio, for example, and a few states also included cunnilingus within the purview of the “crime against nature.” While sodomy arrests during these years increased tenfold as compared with the late nineteenth century, the policing of sodomy was still modest relative to other sexual offenses-adultery, fornication, prostitution and rape were the sexual crimes that most absorbed the resources of urban police forces. Moreover, until the mid twentieth century, the vast majority of sodomy arrests were for rape-like offenses: assault of a man or a woman, or sexual activity with a child (assault by definition, since children cannot legally consent). " "No sooner ()~1950) had this legal regime been put up than it began to be pulled down (in the longue durée of history, antihomosexualism may yet turn out to be something of a blip). But here, too, the story is probably not what you think: reform did not come from a nascent gay rights movement. Not at first. Rather, it was pushed by the legal community, influenced by Kinsey’s findings about what Americans actually did in bed. Some 95 percent of Americans were technically lawbreakers-a situation that, if not remedied, might lead to the same kind of disregard for law that had marked the Prohibition era (as well as blackmail and police corruption). "
How can a pure Holy God watch a man-made in his image and likeness thinking consuming bodily fluids, urine and feces have any place with the communion of Jesus Christ? 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification," (…) "That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God." Ephesians 4:17-24 "This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind, Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart: Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: "Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." One should be able to praise God in all situations and circumstances and I am convinced that this is impossible while practicing oral sex. Oral sex has to do with lust, with mutual masturbation, with the idolization of body parts and not with sanctified, conjugal love. Even married couples can defile their body through lust and concupiscence, which will darken their understanding and cause a separation in spirit, resulting in bondage and addiction to lust. Except the last section, the passages that are not from the Bible are taken from: "Oral Sex Is Sinful And Must Be Avoided In Christian Marriage" www.eternityrace.com/2017/12/oral-sex-is-sinful-and-must-be-avoided.html
I just would like to tell my testimony I went through in my life growing up as a child being molested at a young age growing up and and being involved in incest in my family members went through depression and suicidal I got into drugs and alcohol and having sex with multiple partners and doing and performing oral sex and doing things that was filthy. And doing it and being involved in it lead me down the worst path and hole I was in. And I was a shame, guilty and I didn't like myself for what has happened and what I did when I was younger I had this imagination or image or mask I put on of this world giving myself a multiple names of people and in my head I wanted to be this other race which was the word white and I didn't want to be around people of my family my own race because I blame them for what happened to me and things that I continue to do and I caused isolation and enslaved myself into this world of mine or what I wanted it to be because I didn't want to face reality. I blame my mother for having this disability I had with my leg because of it. Because I couldn't satisfy myself in sex and very low self esteem and didn't respect myself and slept with multiple partners every time anyone that left and was very disrespectful to my parents and blame them when things didn't go my way so to cover up the pain I drank did drugs and used people for my satisfaction and lust of the flesh and having 2 children in a relationship putting them in danger with men that was around and trying to protect them from the things that happened to me but I was doing the same thing and when everything was falling apart nothing was going right and really couldn't tell anyone what was going on because I didn't want them to think I was crazy or they would not understand. And I was tired of going through that over and over and I just broke down and cried out to the Lord God to help me because there was no one else to go to. And no one want to put up with me and I didn't want to put up with myself and I called upon the lord and when I prayed he came to me he was already there. He gave me love a touch that I felt like nothing before and I didn't have to pay for it I didn't have to have sex to get it and I didn't have to pretend to be someone else. He has been truth and light in my life in his word and I didn't deserve it but he didn't for me. If he had not came when he did I wouldn't be here today to tell it the things he protected and delivered me from many diseases I didn't get and keep me from so many dangers that I put myself through. I don't know all the answers and it's been a battle everyday and I thank God and praise God for all the things he has done and continue to do giving me life. Receiving love compassion kindness forgiveness and to asked and believe you do receive and for his only begotten son he became sin for are sin that knew no sin and the blood that was shed on the cross and the death crucifixion and the resurrection of Christ Jesus and for God to give him all the glory for what he has done to give us life. We go through rejection fear shame and guilt that we carry around and hide are pain until it festers like a sore does and the problem gets bigger and bigger where are actions speak louder than words and we don't know how to deal with them and I speak for myself and blame others and don't take responsibility for what I did and look at others thinking I was always the victim and not being loving, compassion to others. And I hurt a lot of people to and had to take responsibility for what I done. Also help people who is going through and tell people who help me and by God's grace and his mercy and forgiveness. We are in a fight in are minds and we don't know what someone else is going through either but we need to pray for one another and to love one another and to give God all the glory and praise. If I had not went through what I did I would not have seen the Glory of God and all he has done and continue to do. I pray for each and everyone.
This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy. Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong? The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon] Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well. If the definition for sodomy is accurate, there may be millions in the Christian community, pastors, church leaders, missionaries, literally practicing sodomy. This gets even worse because anyone who is committing sodomy by practicing anal or oral sex is a sodomite! The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite according to Merriam-Webster refers to anyone who actively engages in sodomy. Sodomite in the Bible refers to a male temple prostitute, one who is consecrated to the impure rites of their heathen deities. Whereby they committed every sexual abomination including sodomy. “And there were also sodomites in the land: and they did according to all the abominations of the nations which the LORD cast out before the children of Israel.” 1 Kings 14:24 The abominations which were committed by the nations which the Lord had cast out of the land ranged from incest, adultery, homosexuality, to bestiality. (See Leviticus 18:4-30) The people of God are not to be associated with these gross and degrading sexual practices. (See Deuteronomy 23:17; Ephesians 5:3) We must remember that the sodomite was a temple prostitute whose sexual acts are associated with heathen deities. We are told in scripture that these heathen deities are in reality nothing but devils or demons. (See Psalms 106:36,37; 1 Corinthians 10:20-22) This is the reason for God’s strict avoidance of these vile sexual rituals. Because anything associated with the occult will become a snare or trap for the soul. (See Exodus 23:33; Psalms 106:36; I Peter 2:11) Sexual sins such as sodomy is a tactic of the devil to ensnare people of God. “But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock (snare) before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication.” Revelation 2:14 In examining the account of how the doctrine of Balaam was used against the people of God. We discover that there was a spiritual connection associated with the sexual acts of the daughters of Moab. Baal-Peor is a Moabite god who was worshipped with obscene sexual rituals. The name means "Lord of the Opening" from Baal meaning owner/ husband and Peor coming from pa'ar meaning "open wide". Another name for Baal-Peor is Belphegor who was depicted either as a beautiful naked woman or a bearded demon with open mouth, horns, and sharply pointed nails (the open mouth being an indicator of the sexual rites used to worship him). St. Jerome reported that statues of Baal-Peor that he encountered in Syria depicted the god with a phallus in his mouth. The worship of Baal was associated with vile sexual acts, which definitely included oral sex. (See Hosea 4:12-14; 9:10)
Dear one, thank you for your moving testimony. It's hard to believe that we were chosen before the creation of the world to be His precious children! (Ephesians 1:4), and that, "He who started a good work in you shall be faithful to complete it." (Philippians 1:6) He remains faithful to us even if we aren't always faithful, what a Saviour! What a great and good God we serve! (II Timothy 2:13) These are difficult times we are living in. Thank God we know where we're going and that our promise of eternity is sure! Thanks again for your moving words. I pray that you and your beloveds are drawing close to God in this bizarro time!
@@kirstyi7860 thank you for your comment and prayer I just pray whoever read’s this can open up to God in prayer I just know l know there is so much more than this in our life or why we our here and to let others know someone loves us even when we don’t love ourselves
@@kristinasykes1450 So true. When we don't love ourselves it's difficult to believe that we are loved by the Creator, the Saviour and the lifter of our heads. 'Being a Mum helps me to understand the love that Christ has in a way I couldn't before. Certainly, sacrificing your child as Abraham said he would do and that God did, is a holy and amazing love.
I don't think that this is as well thought out as you think. Wasn't Judah's son slain by Jehovah for allowing his "seed" to fall to the ground because he didn't want to father a son by his brother's widow? Oral sex doesn't fulfill the procreative purpose of sex. It's a pleasure but as well designed to proliferate the human race. Oral sex is "that which is not convenient." Breast are not the same as the sex organs. Animals are governed by instincts but not men which have been redeemed. I suggest that if this is a question that you have that you should pray and seek the Lord in earnest about this. Any doubts you harbor in the spirit of your mind should leave no doubt as to this being a legitimate expression of love or lust. Having a "good conscious" before God is extremely important for your walk with the Lord. The sanctification process is "line upon line and precept upon precept" and is hindered by stinking thinking. That's what carnality is and it's where our born again new life in Christ begins to change us by the "renewing of our minds!" I am not infallible so I won't pass judgement or make a decree, but I know in my own experience that the old things I once revelled in, I don't just no longer do, but the "Law of the Spirit of Life in Jesus Christ; has made me free from the law of sin and death!" and I no longer even desire to do those things and in fact I don't even "think" about doing them. To me, the very fact that you have to ask if this is okay means it's not because God doesn't author confusion and if you question it then your conscience is trying to tell you that it's not ok.
Hey! You made a really good point with that bit on him wasting his seed. I do wanna point out the context there though- his duty was to fulfill his late brother's place as husband and to give the woman offspring. If I remember correctly, his reason for his actions was because he knew the resulting child would be considered his brother's and not his own. Therefore he had sin in that. Just wanted to make sure you had full knowlege of that passage
You are the one giving the poorly thought out response.. The reason Judah’s son was supposed to procreate with his dead bother’s wife was because his brother had not produced an heir. It was an inheritance issue, not merely a matter of spilling “seed”. If he had first given the woman a male child then he could spilled his seed during a later encounter and it would not have been sin.
please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
The way I see it, if you look at different parts of the body for their "intended use", my, or my wife's mouth, has been put there to speak scripture, to encourage others, to support, to speak words of love. I started thinking recently on this topic and it's started to not sit right with me (emphasis, me) that I would put a sexual organ in a place that is the tool for so much positivity, for my own personal gratification. The discussion continues.
So you wouldn’t kiss your wife with your tongue, you wouldn’t bite her just for being playful, you wouldn’t spank her. Because there are specific reasons for those specific body parts. With all the respect
"Awake, O north wind, And come, O south! Blow upon my garden, That its spices may flow out. Let my beloved come to his garden And eat its pleasant fruits." Songs of Solomon 4:16 "As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste." Songs of Solomon 2:3
+Ruth Keeme YOU are being deliberately DISHONEST. That definition has ONLY been in a dictionary for 40 years, as Wickipedia points out - before the social revisionism and PC correctness - the definition was EXCLUSIVE to two man unmarried. SO by that standard - you are LYING when trying to make that fit ANY Biblical definitions of SODOMY. IT never has and CANNOT apply to marriage. Such dishonesty is NOT fitting for a child of GOD, and NOT fitting to be on a Biblically based thread - "sod·om·y /ˈsädəmē/ Learn to pronounce noun sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation." DELIBERATE deception.
YOU seemingly have NOT ever read SOS 7 in an accurate translation: " (7:2) How beautiful are your sandaled feet, O nobleman’s daughter! The curves of your thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a master craftsman. 2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl- may it never lack mixed wine! Your belly is a mound of wheat, encircled by lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. 4 Your neck is like a tower made of ivory. Your eyes are the pools in Heshbon by the gate of Bath Rabbim. Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon overlooking Damascus. " "tn The noun שֹׁרֶר (shorer) is a hapax legomenon, appearing in the OT only here. There is debate whether it means “navel” or “vulva”: (1) Lys and Pope suggest that שֹׁרֶר is related to Arabic srr (“secret place, pudenda, coition, fornication”). They suggest that this is contextually supported by three factors: (a) His descriptive praise of her is in ascending order, beginning with her feet and concluding with her hair. The movement from her thighs (7:1b), to her vulva (7:2a), and then to her waist (7:2b) would fit this. (b) The descriptive comparison to a glass of wine would be grotesque if her navel were in view-her navel was moist or filled with liquid?-but appropriate if her vulva were in view. (c) The navel would be a somewhat synonymous reference to the belly which is already denoted by בִּטְנֵךְ (bitnekh, “belly”) in the following line. Because 7:1-7 does not use synonymous parallelism, the term שֹׁרֶר would have to refer to something other than the belly. "
Val O'Brien I totally agree with your comment very well said. I've Stopped subscribing to Pastor John Channel. The bible never lies, Not everyone who says Lord Lord will enter The Kingdom of Heaven.
Yes, hygiene is a problem when Scientists say that inside a single mouth's ecosystem, can be home to more than 6 billion bacteria. Some of the bacteria are comprised of pathogenic bacteria that can cause decay, gum inflammation, tooth loss & could cause infections such as Trichomanas etc. And then there is Oral Herpes which is connected & can be transferred to Genital Herpes.
Val O'Brien Giving oral sex is kissing and loving your husband. You should stop watching porn, it twists your mind. If you use your mouth only to eat and speak, then don't kiss your husband NEVER because you will be sinning. Mouth is not made for kissing, you are being lusty when you kiss.
End The World I like Chris LaSala but I don't agree with him on this one. He also thinks that Jesus is not God. Anyways, if he thinks that he is sinning for doing it, he shouldn't do it.
Many people on this comment thread didn't even listen to JP's opinion...they just want to argue. Read the bible and heed the pastor's instruction BEFORE you comment. This isn't a free-for-all discussion! If you listened carefully to his audio and want to respectfully disagree then fine- but understand that this is where Bible believers come to ask questions and get biblically sound answers.
It's sexually immoral. I know because once me and my husband stopped I stopped getting attacked by an incubus, lust was put under control, and our sex life is fine without it. Anyways the end goal of sex is to enjoy each other and to experience pleasure together. Not just one at a time. Together. I think it's beautiful gift from God.
@@nunesandrew4198 the more spiritually in tune with god you are the more you can feel them. At one point I could see there shadows. I had to ask God to hide them. Because they were scary looking. Looking human but not at the same time. So now God shield my eyes. I only feel them now.
If as a husband and wife you are honouring God in your union, then it is not a sin. If God did not intend for a married couple to love and explore EVERY part of his/her partners bodies, He would have, in no ambiguous terms, told us do. The hesitation we feel is only society-driven because too often human beings selfishly explore another body outside if that holy marital union. God made no mistake in our pleasure zones. Why then do we struggle so much with lovingly enjoying all parts of our spouses body, mind and spirit?
Are you remembering who the writer of SOS is and his recorded end? Could it be that in that are he was perverted and opened doors unintended as Adam and Eve did? Sounds like he might possibly have had a sexual addiction with all the different cultures and the varying practices could have opened both good and evil in the married bed
Its a married couplez business jesus isnt gonna judge what couples did in the bedroom ....damn they got married so they wont sin now yall want to monitor what sexual positions they do next damn...
If people feel this uneasy about Oral sex it's obvious this isn't a practice meant for them. Anything you're seriously questioning yourself about should tell you something. Some people are just too turned off by just the thought of doing it let alone having it done to them.
Riding a bicycle is uncomfortable the first time - so what? YOU learn - that;s why PAUL said that the older women were to teach the younger , , and he wasn't talking about cooking food . . .
@@paulrobinson9318 But we don't have conviction or question riding a bike over and over again if it is a right or wrong thing to do. C'mon now! Stealing is even uncomfortable the first time too and then you get used to it or even find it fun BUT it's still not right. LOL
+@@onlineversion SO you know more than the Bible? How is foreplay wrong? God MADE us to enjoy it, and to get the juices flowing . . . STEALING? Really? And why is it OK to kiss your wife anyplace but where it feels the best, where she gets the most enjoyment and where GOD designed her to feel the most pleasure? And my friend - IF you can equate the joy of oral sex with the evil of stealing - you have NONE of God's spirit in you. One is holy, the other a sin. WHY attack what GOD promotes? WHY mock God's creation? WHY deprive your wife of the fulfillment GOD made her to enjoy?
+@@onlineversion MY you are Biblically illiterate . . . "@Paul Robinson Older women teach the younger to be godly women. You're weird and a pervert!" You found that nugget where in the Bible? The passage is dealing with human relationships . . . "Older women likewise are to exhibit behavior fitting for those who are holy, not slandering, not slaves to excessive drinking, but teaching what is good. 4 In this way they will train the younger women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, fulfilling their duties at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the message of God may not be discredited. 6 Encourage younger men likewise to be self-controlled, 7 showing yourself to be an example of good works in every way. In your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and a sound message that cannot be criticized, so that any opponent will be at a loss, because he has nothing evil to say about us. 9 Slaves are to be subject to their own masters in everything, to do what is wanted and not talk back, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good faith, in order to bring credit to the teaching of God our Savior in everything. " Have you ever read ANYTHING about the culture of the day? NOPE!!! You apply your prudish KJO Baptist cult prudery to the REAL WORLD of the Palestinian era - NOT smart. TRY proving me wrong rather than being a mocker . . .
Pastor John, why didn't you add that the people should pray about it? God made man's body, so shouldn't He be the one to ask about the right way to use it? We are told to pray regarding all things...
One Of Many I think because he was reading from God's word that qualifies as consulting God on the matter. If you pray to God, He won't say anything contrary to His word, so you'll most likely just end up being lead to the same scriptures John Piper mentioned, with God saying "how do YOU feel about it, in light of what you've read?".
The Word of God and the Holy Spirit is our guide. if its not explicitly stated in the Bible ask the Holy Spirit. and He will reveal it to you . In 1Cor 3:7b.. When Paul was sharing about marriage.. he advised that its better to be single than to mary.. well was it clearly stated in the Old testament? No for sure.. but he ended up the statement by saying "The Holy Spirit is also in Him.. Meaning, The Holy Spirit Himself reveal this truth in him.. so in the same way the Holy Spirit will tell you, though its not explicitly stated in the Bible that oral sex is prohibited or not..
One Of Many Most things are clear in the bible. Like u don't need to pray to know if a women should pastor a church. It is clear in the bible what God wants and desires. You can check Wikipedia on sodomy. Even Satan is commadded to write down the truth in this fallen world.
bummer beavis No it isn't, but to many joke christians out there that even Satan is commanded to speak the truth on sodomy through wiki, so that when he claims the sodomites by his legal right, there won't b any confusion.
I found this to be a very stimulating discussion about what can be a messy subject. Everywhere I go I see men and women who probably have the same question.
Ok. Piper is being careful with his words here because He does not want to be dogmatic with something that is not specifically mentioned in Holy Scripture. And we, too must be careful what we say outside of Scripture. To play it safe, how's this? Apply the Scriptures we DO know to make your discernments, like Piper tried to do. The body is not ours, but God's so don't do oral sex if you know it's unhealthy (i don't think that's been proven yet), Do unto others what you would have them do unto you (if you don't enjoy giving oral, don't ask for it), It is better to give than to receive (have the mind of giving pleasure to your spouse instead of receiving pleasure), do everything in love, love is not rude, love is not self-seeking, and so on.. so make LOVE to your spouse in a way that is biblical. The point is, there's a lot of things we could do with this topic, but banning it as a whole is legalism. To simply say that oral sex is a sin without any scriptural backing is UNBIBLICAL and WRONG. I'm not saying Piper is Jesus, and he could possibly get this wrong. But if anyone at all can do better than what He did using the Bible as your guide, please share with us. If not, let's just let God be the judge.
Let me give you the answer you all are dreading... if you didn't feel guilty or confused about it you wouldn't have clicked the video in the first place. The mouth was designed to eat, speak and ultimately praise The most high. It is what it is.
MrRamyon74 Go ahead, MrRamyon, get after it! You make your wife's toes curl! Keep her happy! A couple that that loves and respects each other, smiles, laughs, plays, prays, and swings from the ceiling together stays together in joy and peace. May you have a blessed and joyous marriage, sir.👍
I don't think this was discussed deeply enough but I understand also that Pastor John has a love for God's word and is certainly an elder in regards to this. I think ultimately perversity should not enter into the marriage bed, marital sex isn't an excuse for perverse sexual fantasies such as whipping or torture for instance.
The first thing I would like to do is simply start with the definition of the word sodomy found in Merriam-Webster. Definition of sodomy : anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also : copulation with an animal. Merriam- Webster definition of sodomy encompasses oral sex with a member of the same or opposite sex. So really the question shouldn't be is oral sex a sin in marriage but rather is sodomy a sin in marriage. The Bible clearly condemns inordinate affection, unnatural and degrading passions in the life of a believer regardless if married or not. (See Colossians 3:5) One of the signs of a morally corrupt society that has come under the judgment of God is that they have changed the natural use into that which is against nature. (See Romans 1:26 ) The legal definition of sodomy varies from state to state, but sodomy has been broadly defined as a sexual “crime against nature”. Though the sodomy laws in this country has been ruled unconstitutional by the US Supreme Court in 2003, historically, sodomy (usually defined as oral and anal sex) was a crime in many states. Now we can truly understand why there is so much moral degradation in this country because those who are suppose to be the salt of the earth is setting around justifying sodomizing their spouse. I don't believe that we really understand how destructive this kind of support of sodomy in the marriage is. For example the marriage is suppose to be a reflection of Christ and the church and we are commanded to love our wives as Christ love the church. Is there anyone so morally corrupt that they would even suggest that oral sex or sodomy is something to be identified with Christ and the church. (See Ephesians 5:25-33) The homosexuals look in the bible and see the relationship with David and Jonathan and identify it as a homosexual relationship. Now we have believers who are practicing oral sex or sodomy and they look at the book of Solomon and guess what they are seeing oral sex. "Unto the pure all things are pure; but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled. They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate." Titus 1:15,16
Therefore, missionary style is the only allowed sexual practice? You have a very poor knowledge of women. If you would really love your wife, you would not condemn oral sex, which is for many women the only practice that satisfies them.
WHY? I doubt YOU understand the book and what it really says - because you have only read it in a sanitized version. Several chapters are depictions of oral sex and the delight it brings.
@@Latitude_ Why would we do that? Our prayer time is in the morning. Would I pray before and after missionary sex? I'm usually too exhausted after and too horny before. I think your post to be humorous, absurd and frankly anti biblical.
I believe that couple who has a strong relationship with Christ thru prayer will undoubtedly receive the answer to this issue. The Holy Spirit will stop even the thoughts of it and bring conviction if it's wrong. Since I haven't been there I cannot say from experience but that's how the Spirit works thru us. What others think?
I agree. I prayed about it and the Holy Spirit showed me the truth. Praise the Lord! It's all about the spirit behind the act. For even if you do something that seems ok such as donate money but you do it with the wrong spirit (to show off), it's bad. It looks good from the outside but your heart is in the wrong place and God can see the heart. It's the same for anything else, including sex. If you do it out of lust is bad; but if you do it out of love and inside the marriage, it's holy.
Alexey Mladenov - *I believe that couple who has a strong relationship with Christ thru prayer will undoubtedly receive the answer to this issue. The Holy Spirit will stop even the thoughts of it and bring conviction if it's wrong.* So what do you say to the couple that has a strong relationship with Christ but feels that the Holy Spirit led them to believe that oral sex is okay? There are many Christians who enjoy this during sex. Despite B Justice saying your answer makes sense, it makes none. Daughter of God sounds just as foolish as you.
Daughter of God - It doesn't matter what I think about you getting or receiving oral sex. I meant you sound foolish in saying that the Holy Spirit led you to truth. The same Holy Spirit that you claim led you to believe whatever you believe apparently led others that asked for it's guidance to the opposite conclusion. Just look at the comments. There are a bunch of Christians who think it's wrong and a lot who think it's not. At the end of the day, you all just do what you've been taught or what you want.
Child Boo You don't even know what is my position regarding this matter. How sharp you are! And not only that... you are implying that the Word of God is foolish. John 16:13: "Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come". Most of the so called "christians" are not christians, btw.
As long as you are married and not giving it to someone else. Better give it to someone u are married to and love and made a promise to God to. Juss came for the comments
+@Joel Kabuso YOU are simply lying - you are dragging up archaic, medeval catholic teaching that sperm is real little people - just another lie an superstition that develops in religions when the Bible is banned. That would also mean you must accept the 'sin of Onan" myth to oppose (mutual) masturbation and other anti-biblical myths. Pity your catholic brainwashing in anti-Biblical nonsense. The main reason GOD created Human sexuality was pleasure - else he would have made our sexual reproduction like every other mammal - with seasons and limited sexual actuality - Biblical ignorance. YOUR Biblical illiteracy is OBVIOUS - by your silly notion - having sex after menopause is sin - yet Abraham and Sarah were still cavorting at 100. GOD is in favor of frequent sexual activity - 1 Cor 7 for example - and GOD is in favor of Oral sex. Songs of Solomon is a book on the subject. ""It's not ok even if married. It's as if you are masturbating your husband off." How about just licking your wife - NO sperm lost in that - and a Biblical illustration: "SOS 7: The curves of your thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a master craftsman. 2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl - may it never lack mixed wine! Your belly is a mound of wheat, encircled by lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. " YOU are terribly confused. " Sperm is meant for procreation not to be brought out simply for sexual pleasure alone." Please read your Bible and forget the nonsense you were taught that opposes it.
"SOS 7:2 The curves of your thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a master craftsman. 2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl - may it never lack mixed wine! Your belly is a mound of wheat, encircled by lilies. "
AJG JR THANK YOUUUUUU🗣🗣🗣🗣 Like she literally said she wanted him to EAT HER GARDEN 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ She wanted to TASTE HIS GARDEN liiiiiiiiiiiiikkkkkeeeeee how are pastors skipping all of these metaphors in Song of Solomon
no you pervs, she was insecure about being black from being in the sun working because of her sisters so being a gentleman he laid on the sun himself and blocked it allowing her his shadow. Back then there were no movies so a garden was great entertainment as there was unique exotic fruit from different parts of the world in Solomon's garden that she had never eaten. The garden was a great conversational point to show his prestige and clout of unique fruits that the average even wealthy person couldn't get ahold of, so she being insecure because of the sun, laid in his shadow while he laid on the sun as of to say, we'll both be blackened by the sun then because I'm going to lay it on myself and you in my shadow while you enjoy the fruit of my garden which is symbolic for being in the covering of CHRIST YESHUA and receiving the fruit of THE HOLY GHOST of 1 Cor 5:22-23
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Etuate Lafferte No He was not speaking of food! The Pharisees as usual were focused on the wrong thing and SUCH AS (not exclusively) the disciples rubbing then eating corn on the sabbath, he wanted them to look at the real issue such as iniquity which causes sin. He wanted them to know that it's the filth that's in your heart and tumbles out of your mouth when no other Christians are around that separates you from God. It's the meanness in you that causes you to cuss people when you don't agree, it's not whether you eat corn on sabbath or pork on Wednesdays holiness is bigger than that. Wow that woman is lying to her husband...but she didn't say hi to me when I walked past her what kind of Christian is that!!! We are Focused on the wrong thing people!!!
He leído y he escuchado a muchos autores cristianos acerca de este asunto, pero es la primera vez que escucho una opinión muy sensata y muy apegada a la biblia. Definitivamente John Piper es un verdader maestro de la palabra de Dios. Gracias pastor Piper. Bendiciones.
My husband and I were married for twenty years before we stepped out of our "normal" routine. I have never felt more closer to him or had a stronger devotion, respect and love then when we began to explore uncharted territory together. I thank God for it and truly believe it is meant to be a blessing to us.
@@ashleejohnson4945 Do it, you'll get pleasure from it too. Start slowly. The enjoyment that you see him getting from it will cause you you to like it more and more.
should I point out something. Oral sex is okay between two married couples. if you think it is not then dont perform it. Like All food are made clean, but if eating certain food makes you feel dirty then dont. Same as oral sex. if a married couple considered it as a sin then it is wise not to perform it.
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Well it is so taboo which makes you want to do it or not. I feel it’s hard to worship afterwards probably because genitalia wasn’t designed to go into the mouth. It really is dirty. And if we have to ask you are you must feel some guilt about it make you feel guilty when is wrong
No oral sex did not origate with porn. Mass produced and mass distributed porn are a modem phenomena. The average man during New Testament times would have never seen porn. And yet we know that people were engaging in oral sex at the time the New Testament was written because specific Greek words exist to describe oral sex on a man and oral sex on a woman. This is behavior that probably goes right back to Adam and Eve. If you want to know where it came, the answer is it came God. Teaches to the contrary are Satanic additions to God’s word.
+ Jean Prinsloo Silly comment. God is neither glorified or NOT glorified by the position one engages for sexual activity. God gave NO instructions, no prohibitions and NO limitations of sexual position or activity between a husband and wife outside of the Songs of Solomon - where oral sex is described in a variety of ways. With all the OTHER details of dealing with poop, sexuality and family life that ARE included in the law - IF that was an issue to GOD, it would most certainly be there. It's NOT!! Your comment is silly and irrelevant. Since the Holy Spirit thought it good to include a book of erotica in Scripture - with several descriptions of oral sex - it CANNOT be an ungodly experience. "Are you glorifying God? Or are you giving in to the lust of the flesh? Be holy, for I am holy says the Lord. " WHY do you make an issue where the Bible has NONE? WHY would you elevate YOUR opinion above the revealed word of GOD on this issue - WHY would YOU define "lust of the flesh" in a very unscriptural way just to justify your personal unbiblical hangups? Lust of the flesh is OUTSIDE of marriage.
Paul Robinson .. Obviously, youhave no idea what you're talking about, nor have you read the bible or you'd be giving scripture to back yourself up, but you don't, because, you're making up garbage ~ while talking out both sides of your mouth!! Try reading the bible, then comment ..
@@LifeX2Find The ignorance of the Bible is purely on YOUR side - please THINK before posting nonsense and ignorant assertions about my knowledge of the Bible. The Bible make many references to sex -all filtered out by the KJ English Catholic prudes but NOT by the Hebrew and Aramaic the Scripture were written in -OR the NT for that matter. TRY fitting THIS into your KJO cult, puritanical, anti-Biblical view: " (7:2) How beautiful are your sandaled feet, O nobleman’s daughter! The curves of your thighs are like jewels, the work of the hands of a master craftsman. 2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl - may it never lack mixed wine! Your belly is a mound of wheat, encircled by lilies. 3 Your two breasts are like two fawns, twins of a gazelle. " OR 4:16: 16 Awake, O north wind; come, O south wind! Blow on my garden so that its fragrant spices may send out their sweet smell. May my beloved come into his garden and eat its delightful fruit! " or 2:3 " Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. "
Amen! If I had it my way, any woman who is suspected of giving oral sex to her husband (or any man) so shall she have her lips sewn together for all to see. JESUS LOVES YOU ALL SO SO MUCH!!!
God blessed mankind, saying "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the whole earth." You cannot be fruitful when engaging in oral, that is using the wrong part of the body in a no-go-zone. People, eat, drink, worship God, pray to God and communicate with your mouths. No tongue goes onto someone's genital. Flee from evil desires and live a holy life (Hebrews 12:14).
Saider M grow up mate. You can’t get your wife pregnant by kissing her breasts either...does that mean it’s forbidden. You have a religious spirit.....come out in Jesus name.
@@callees8790 Yes but kissing breasts can be a foreplay to real sexual intercourse than may be fertile. Fertility and pregnancy are praised throughout the Bible. We cannot deny it .
A woman’s breasts are meant for the pleasure of her husband for the purpose of getting both of them aroused sexually so that it will lead to sexual intercourse. Once a woman has delivered a child, her breasts also serve as a source of nourishment for her child. It is not wrong for a man to enjoy the breasts of his wife because they have both been united to become one flesh. If kissing the breasts or performing oral sex could help get the man aroused, it is definitely ok with God. Whatever is done in the marriage bed is between the couple and God. And God definitely wants us to bring sexual arousal to our spouse in order to enjoy his gift of sex to us.
I think another question would be from those who have already had sex before marriage and are already used to or expect oral sex before the act of intercourse. How then do we transform our minds and bodies to the will of God?
I just made a simple search in the dictionnary about sodomy and it’s explained as anal or oral sexual intercourse... Since it’s not practice even among animals, I stick with it as something not okay
Well said! SEX SEX SEX!!! . . The lust of the flesh is ruling this world! This whole world is driven by sex, lust, and the increasing love of money (greed). The enemies greatest weapon of choice is sex and lust. He markets it in almost everything we see and hear. Most of todays music is sex lust or money driven. Most commercials, movies and videos we watch, predominantly condone fornication, lust, and lasciviousness. Like programmed robots people follow this agenda without question. . . Those who think they are better than others look down on their sins but think theirs are acceptable. A lot of straight folks look down on Gay/Lesbians because they see their sin as wrong, but at the end of the day all wicked lust of the flesh will send you to the lake of fire. Sexual Fornication (of any kind) is a sin against your own body and the LGBTQ (rstuvwxyz) ain't no different than fornication straight folks. Their sin is worse in Yahuah's eyes because its considered an abomination, but all sexual lustful behavior without the benifit of ---> BIBLICAL MARRIAGE ordained by Yahuah is a sin which will cause you to be cut off. So again, before you go jumpin down other folks throats about their sins, take a long look into your own because all of this casual heterosexual sex is gone land you in the same boat with the rest of the sexual fornicators. . . Sex was created for MARRIAGE and PROCREATION; not lustful recreation. It was NEVER suppose to be a casual sport. We have gotten so far away from the laws of the Most High, that many of us don't even know how to have sex correctly. Now days folks are doing all kinds of acrobats, lascivious deviant acts, all in order to keep the "fornication" exciting. THAT WAS NEVER THE INTENT OF INTERCOURSE! It was created for procreation first, and secondly for intimacy between a husband and wife (to knit their souls together as one). . . The lust of the flesh today has taken over just like it did with our wicked forefathers before us. Folks are seeking after large breast, big behinds, large genitals etc. We are falling into the same behavior as those before us who sought after these same things. They went looking for those who had the largest genitals way back then. Check it out... . . It says they lusted after their lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of stallions. He said, Thou hast also committed fornication (whoredom) with the Egyptians thy neighbours, with large genitals; and hast increased thy promiscuity, to provoke me to anger (Eze 23:20 and 16:26). Smdh. We are doing the same thing these days. Our people have become so base and common in these last days. We promote and sing about liciviousness and get mad when you call them on it. . . I remember growing up "knowing" that oral sex was unclean. No one sung about it nor bragged about doin it. We all knew that it was a heathen practice. But as wickedness increases, it is now widely accepted and considered a normal practice around this dying world. Even those who claim to be awake continue to partake in this behavior because they have become accustomed and descensatized to what they are bowing down to (Baal Peor), and don't consider the Most High's concerning lascivious practices. . . 24 thousand of our forefathers were all slain for partaking in the practices of Baal Peor (lord or the opening). Yet does Israel even consider? Here we are again in these end times repeating these same lustful practices all over again. Baal Peor practices are celebrated. People brag about doing it. . . He said, I found Israel like grapes in the wilderness; I saw your fathers as the firstripe in the fig tree at her first time: but they went to Baalpeor, and separated themselves unto that SHAME; and their abominations were according as they loved. Israel joined himself unto Baalpeor: and the anger of Yahuah was kindled against Israel. 24 thousand died for bowing down to Baal Peor (Hosea 9:10 and Num 25:3-6). What have we learned from this? It seems like nothing! Our people continue to repeat the same sins over and over again. . . 1 Cor 10:6, 11 says, "These things happened to them as ----> EXAMPLES to keep us from craving evil things as they did. They were written down as warnings for us, on whom the end of the world is come. . . Men/women are lusting after the FEELING from ALL KINDS of SEXUAL ACTIVITY, but hate the purpose it was created for---> which was LIFE. They wanna have all the sex they can without the benefit of marriage and bringing forth children. He said to go forth and multiply, yet a great majority use intercourse only for pleasure and children are often just an afterthought. . . Listen! Satan is programming your minds through lascivious musical lyrics, and pornographic images in subliminal commercials and movies. Everything is about pleasure. The truth is not popular anymore. . . Timothy said, this know also, that in the (when?)---> LAST DAYS perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves. Many shall be without natural affection (gay/lesbian). They will also be despisers of those that are good (won't wanna hear this truth). They will be ---> LOVERS OF PLEASURES more than lovers of Elohiym; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such he said TURN AWAY. . . They will be ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth (Read 2 Tim 3:3-8). This lust of the flesh issue is going to cause a great majority of our people NOT to make it into the kingdom. 1 Cor 6:9 makes this very clear. It says, "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of Yahuah? -----> Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS (sexual), nor idolaters (Baal Peor worshipers), nor adulterers, nor effeminate (gays/lesbians and the rest), nor abusers of themselves with mankind etc,. NONE OF THESE SHALL SEE THE KINGDOM. So ask yourselves..... IS IT WORTH It CHILDREN OF ISRAEL???
Animals are not a suitable model for moral human behavior. Some animal engage in homosexual behavior. That does not make homosexuality moral for us. Similarly the things animals don’t do are not relevant to what is right or wrong for us.
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Sodomy is not a word from the Bible. Its a made up term used as a synonim for oral and anal sex but its not in the Bible its a definition made by society not God
God bless you for the great wisdom and brotherly love showed in this podcast What a precious and freeing teaching Thank you for your clarity, honesty and modesty in dealing with such a delicate issue. 🙏🏻👏👏👏👏
We are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God. We are being created with different body parts for different functions. The male and female parts are being created for 2 purposes, for procreation and for love and pleasure within a marriage. We as Christian's shouldn't even doubt for 1 min that oral sex is wrong. We should pray for a spirit of discernment. Our watchmen on the wall should stop sugar coating, being fearful for what people think of him.
@@sashabelle6007, it's wrong for everyone, but I'm specifically talking to Christians, cause if you're in the world, and don't have a personal relationship with Jesus, and don't read your Bible, asking God for a spirit of discernment, you might not understand
This a perfect example of why I struggle with religion. Pastors/Ministers translate a lot of things in the Bible different ways. One says such and such verse means this. Another says no that verse means something else. When a person is struggling with faith, these type of things make it even more difficult.
Remember all not some societies that have allowed oral sex have had to deal with homosexuality. Without oral sex, the man and his parts are necessary for the pleasing of the woman and the woman and her parts are necessary in the pleasing of the man. Once homosexuality enters the equation, all the other biblically condemned "alities" may enter the human experience. Let's remember that sex not only involves the natural. There's a spiritual connection as well. The connection is not based on whether the act of sex is warranted or even liked. In topics like sex (temporal act), we forget that we are spirits, which are eternal. So let's start today finding biblical ways to protect our children against the many tricks of the evil one.
It sounds like this topic has a lot of believers wound tightly. I'm not sure what conviction level individuals have and we shouldn't make light of anyone's convictions if their conscious deters them away from having oral sex with their spouse. However, a husband and wife are permitted to explore each other's bodies with their mouths in a mutually agreeable manner as they both see fit. Bringing "sin" into forms of physical intimacy, such as oral sex, causes confusion, undue stress, and even frustration when there is no Biblical restriction against this whatsoever. I mean not to disturb my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, but we are imposing restrictions in a covenant marriage that don't exist.
It's sad cause there are people on You Tube ministering the Bible and very good teachers but saying oral sex is wrong in marriage, I noticed the ones that said this are single people though? I almost started to feel it was wrong although I didn't feel convicted before, I know what I'm convicted about and the more I look at scripture and think about the fact that God said the two flesh become one and how the breasts are versitile for nursing a baby but also to satisfy your husband then it's natural that body parts can have versitile uses.
Thank you Pastor John. You've handled this issue carefully. I am always for careful discussion and confession of issues at hand that a married christian face in his life, it's for accountability as well to make sure we are doing God's will. I agree with you it is not explicitly outrightly prohibited in the Bible but it should be handled very very carefully all in love, respect, purest thoughts and God glorifying situation in the context of Godly covenant which is marriage. This is one of the sensitive topics that christians face in the modern times but a lot of legalism for other christians that's why some avoid to talk about it. I prefer exposing it to the light in order to guide myself as well in my Christian walk. It's like elephant in the room, a lot of believers do it but consider it as taboo and does not talk about it to expose to the light to align what is first and foremost glorifying to God. I do not want to be hypocritical and say I am not doing it, I will and will only do it to my husband with all respect, love, purest thoughts of marital love and intimacy as one flesh... Thank you!!! Let's be kind! Love and peace everyone!!
JP explained it out perfectly and the fact of the matter is if you're not okay with doing it, then don't do it. That's okay. If you or your wife is okay with pleasure their husband or wife in such a way, then go for it! But don't go judging other married couples for doing it just because you don't find pleasure in it. It brings me pleasure to pleasure my wife and she does for me.
+@Anchored Alliance Evangelism Nothing GOD gave his children, or suggested for them to emjoy can possibly be sinful when used within the boundaries He established - IF you think you can prove oral sex within marriage is a sin - TRY - You cannot. So you are a liar, it seems. Of course I would withdraw that IF you could prove I was wrong - BUT I know you cannot. YOU are LYING to justify your personal perversion of God's purpose for sexuality. A religious spirit - NOT a godly spirit is at the root of your rejection of God's Word. YOU want to be the arbiter of right and wrong - NOT God. Did you bother to listen to Pastor John's truly great explanation? Can you find any flaw in it based on scripture? NO! NOTHING can possibly be sin when it pleases our Heavenly Father - when He created something for us to enjoy and when He wrote about our enjoyment of it - a whole book of passionate fantasy including oral sex - its in the BIBLE you know - NOT as a sin but as a suggestion for marital extacy. Our fantastic and exquisite bodies committed to passionate marital Bliss were DESIGNED by GOD for pleasure. And ONLY Oral sex will use everything GOD built into our bodies for that pleasure. YOU think you are smarter than GOD? Really? PITY you know nothing about it. "Aramaic Bible in Plain English Do not deprive one another except when you both agree in a time which you devote to fasting and prayer, and you shall again return to pleasure, lest Satan tempt you because of the desire of your bodies." When you can prove from SCRIPTURE that there is any sin involved in following scripture properly understood and in context - by a man and wife married under the ordinance of GOD - Please let me know - YOU are the one teaching false doctrine - as Christians we get our rules for life from the scripture - NOT perverted human opinion. Like yours. Scripture - or zip it!. "@Paul Robinson dude just be quiet, you're a sin promoter. You aren't promoting righteousness at all. Save it."
@@paulrobinson9318 God never gave you perversion... you give it to yourselves. So be it. You don't know God at all... the Spirit and the scriptures bear witness against you. Seek God and His understanding. In Christ
+@@giy147 " @Paul Robinson God never gave you perversion..." NOR have I ever participated in any perversion. My actions are limited to those that line up with the Revealed Word of God. I guess you have never studied Songs of Solomon? I have a 800 page commentary on that book alone - its meaning in Hebrew - the cultural understanding of the text 3000 years ago - etc - NONE of which you seem to have a clue about!! "you give it to yourselves. So be it. " YOU are simply lying - why I do NOT know. "You don't know God at all..." Actually - I do - and have for 50 years. I have ministered in all the gifts of the spirit - I have founded a successful miracle church - and been used by God in many ways in His kingdom - Like Paul I do NOT boast - BUT will defend my relationship with GOD from the ungodly and those that do NOT follow scriptures. "The Spirit and the scriptures bear witness against you." And again you lie. I rely upon the Bible and what I teach comes FROM it - YOU on the other hand do not - you teach your false revelations as IF it was from God - when YOU can find any place in the scriptures where I am in error - Please inform me - I will be anxious to hear . . . "Seek God and His understanding. In Christ " I have - BUT from your comments I have to assume that your private revelations are more important to you that God's thoughts on any subject.
@@paulrobinson9318 Just like a Lawyer devoid of spirit left to your own understanding or that of another feeding on the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. You shouldn't assume what you don't understand.
There’s nothing wrong with dressing modestly Because it keeps me from being tempted to want to do things with someone. There’s definitely nothing wrong with sex or oral sex as long as you’re married
Yeh but who to.you could've married and so can your neighbor's wife be married but your mot married to each other but you both married so if you're married I'd be v careful.
KJV Proverbs 30:20 Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness. NLT Proverbs 30:20 An adulterous woman consumes a man, then wipes her mouth and says, “What’s wrong with that?” NIV Proverbs 30:20 “This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’
Leen Praise the Lord, also an answer to prayer ;) All good over here, bro... the Lord is moving in power. Keep watch though, for the days are evil. God bless you and stay close to Him :)
I respect you Pastor but that's a very deceptive explanation. I'm a Christian. I don't think Oral sex is okay. Thessalonians 4:3 said that it is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality, that each should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen who do not know God. Oral sex is a very dangerous sin. It is very clear in the bible. It was all started in Sodom and Gomorra that's why God punished them. And now people who makes porn video practice Oral Sex. Whether you are married or not it is immoral. The bible says that our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit so whoever destroy it will be punished by God. 1 Thessalonians 4:7 says for God did not call us to be impure but live a holy life. Verse 8, therefore he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, Who gives you His Holy Spirit. May Jesus enlighten all Christians in this matter. This is a very very complicated matter.
God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of anal sex not oral sex. If you're gonna try to tell people exactly what God thinks on his behalf, at least get your facts straight.
@Joel Kabuso You are simply lying. While that definition is true today the ONLY implication in the BIBLE is sex between men. No other possible definition exists. So your definition is false. Second you have your relationships confused. Having missionary position sex is sinful if you are not married. IF you are married and in agreement there is little to nothing you could imagine that is off limits. Certainly God would NOT declare oral sex to be sinful and give us a book dedicated to sexuality including several scenes of Oral Sex. You seem utterly ignorant of Biblical sexuality and in that void make up all kinds of silly and self imposed rules that have NOTHING to do with Godliness. Oral sex has been with us since the Garden and IF you want to look at this Biblically it's plain God endorsed it as one aspect of lovemaking. It's the most natural thing in the world. It makes no sense to enjoy caressing and kissing every part of your mares body except where it brings the greatest pleasure - pleasure designed into the Human body by a Gracious Creator.
@@jamesjet3163 the funny thing about these self defeating arguments against oral sex is their factual ignorance. The vaginas is far more sanitary than the mouth. Sperms cannot survive in the mouth. They survive in the vaginas. The risk of oral sex is the mouth contaminating the genitals and not the other way around.
Sodomy and perversion is not allowed within marriage. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
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If it violates your conscience don't do it.
Be careful not to let it only violate your conscience when you don’t feel like doing it.
If u dont feel doing it dont do it coz love is not only for sex.
Absolute Purity & Humility
So why wouldn’t violate your conscience would it be because a man-made book made you think that way ??
+@@jogriffin9347
IF you think the Bible is a man-made book its ONLY because you haven't read it. NO man could write a book that is outside of time - predicting with perfect accuracy events far into h future and events we cannot observe far into history.
That is NOT the work of man - but of someone out side of time.
How about if it violates the word of God, don't do it, instead of basing it on your selfish feelings, in the name of the Holy Spirit....
Well there you have it. Ask a mature question, get a mature answer. Pastor John has an amazing gift of teaching.
What is oral sex in luganda
Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. Prob. 21:2
+Daiashanlang Kurbah
Exactly so - and any denial that GOD created the human body for orals ex withing marriage is to mock God and limit His creative powers.
God wrote approvingly of Oral Sex in Songs of Solomon - although in English its a bit obscure - NOT so in Hebrew and Aramaic..
As Commentator Akin notes:
"Daniel Akin - verse 2 is badly translated in my judgment in virtually every English version. The problem is with the word translated “navel.” It simply does not fit the upward progression or the description. The Hebrew word is rare, occurring only three times in the Old Testament (cf. Prov 3:8; Ezek 16:4). Here the word almost certainly is a reference to the innermost sexual part of a woman, her vagina (vulva) (see Carr, Song, 157; Snaith, Song, 101). Solomon’s description makes no sense of a navel, but it beautifully expresses the sexual pleasures he continually receives from his wife. Like “a rounded bowl; it never lacks mixed wine”-she never runs dry. She is a constant source of intoxicating pleasure and sweetness. The idea of blended or “mixed” could refer to the mingling of male and female fluids in the appropriate place of a woman’s body (Snaith, Song, 103). Shulammite was an exotic garden (Song 4:12,16) and an intoxicating drink (Song 7:2) in her lovemaking. Seldom, if ever, was her husband disappointed. She was his dream lover, and amazingly, he wasn’t dreaming! The more he learned about her the more he loved and enjoyed her.. (Ibid)"
The wine and wheat were to be enjoyed by the MOUTH of her lover. NO other explanation makes sense. And likewise - she has tasted of HIS fruits - about as strongly as GOD could write it in a PG 13 Book.
"Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the LORD weighs the heart. Prob. 21:2"
Can there be a holly anal?
@@harrydawson5981 æe
A normal adult heart weighs about 289 grams. You can do it on a normal scale, no God required
@@bndfglvllddjdkfkfkf6097 No, definitely not. Leave the anus alone.
*can’t wait to have a godly marriage and enjoy my woman, and she enjoys me. Any young millennial brothers waiting till marriage here?*
YA! And people who are married can have what ever kind of sex they want!
By the grace of God, I have been preserved this long
@@nicksanders9148 yess bro.. it will be glorious
@@danmoreta haha facts, me too man.. actually have a lot of chances to have sex .. but my childhood was ruff and we struggled a lot financially.. so I had other shii.. on my mind and was quite insecure, not about my looks, but about who I was as a person. It was that bad, that even when girls liked me,.. I wouldn’t act on it.
@@nicksanders9148 only with spouse
If it wasn't for him his Mercy, I would not be alive.
Amen
Sane here.
Well no one would be.
I'm a divorced man that's trying to live a Christian life. This is the first time I've listened to you. Wow, I've already learned so much! Yes, in a positive way! Thanks for your help!
I look forward to learning more about life and how I can please God.
He has some really good videos.
I’m sorry that you got divorced, I’ll pray that you will be reunited.
With major love and respect you I hope that you know that you cannot get remarried because that's adultery once you get divorced that's it you have to remain single if your spouse dies then and only then can you get remarried
“Trying to live a Christian life”
What exactly does this mean? Does it mean faith, or just works? I would hope that good works are a result of faith here.
@@miss.l.c.minister Your position on this issue is unbiblical. Plenty of passages in the Pauline epistles do not suggest, but state explicitly that “no one is enslaved” by being tied to an unbeliever who wants to leave, or an unrepentant sinner. Have a look at 1 Corinthians 7 sometime.
Such wisdom is almost non-existent these days. I love your answers, John. I would not have even dared answer such a question so publicly, but you did it and you did it well.
Soooo true. Pastor Stephan Darby has a simular message called: sexual hooks.
How the hell did I get here from a Samsung Galaxy Note 9 review?!!!
@Greg Jacques Lucifer's Jizz Gargler LOL; imagine PornHub directing people to Pastor John's podcasts?!
Haha
@Greg Jacques Lucifer's Jizz Gargler Satan's minion, Psalms 14:1 (KJV) The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Flee from fornication, blasphemy, sodomy, and the other abominations your inviting to the Lord's channels. I pray that the Lost like you repent, and put your trust in Jesus Christ, he loves all his children. Stop rebelling because you know very well our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ is God, devils cower in fear in his Almighty presence. 🙏
@@gmac8586 Revelation 21:8 (KJV) But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Haha
He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
So true (I'm cristian)
So, one of the reasons he died on the cross is because I have oral sex ????
“Poopy Butt” 😂😂😂😂 (amen)
@@dopeydonaldtrump3744 Stop doing that gross stuff.
@@masonnix9566 No. I love it.
And it's not gross, it's beautiful.
Oh, I weep for the youth who don't get this information. I wasn't taught about sex growing up in the church and fell into the wrong crowd in college. I had sexual experiences with absolutely no Christian guidance and it ruined how I view relationships. I was made to feel like I wasn't a man because I was physically weirded out by how casually girls committed sexual acts. Oral sex can be so much more intimate than copulation, but the world wants to tell you that it's no big deal.
Thank you for tackling such a thorny subject, Christians everywhere need info and discernment like this. Thank you John Piper!
Look up sodomy
@@RLeahuexactly
You typed all that and said absolutely nothing
@@Proverbspsalmswhy do you use a the name of two Bible books yet disobey God by being rude and arrogant
@@annereynolds66 I can use all 66 books- that has nothing to do with the fact that I spoke the truth. So it’s obviously that oral sex demon in you that’s deflecting from the issue!!!!!! The one disobeying God is you. If you consider the word, “exactly” as being arrogant and rude, then you surely can’t handle God’s word, you have bigger problems, and need to get off the Internet - and you wouldn’t be able to handle Jesus, Paul, or John the Baptist- because they actually gave up their lives for speaking, the truth . Repent or perish ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
I'm not a christian, but I find Pastor John wise and relatable.
I agree with your assessment. I don't agree with everything he says - BUT he is REAL, practical and BIBLICAL. And HONEST and gentle, and TRUTHFUL.
And because he is all of these there is a lynch mob waiting for him. NO public figure is allowed those qualities. Especially a Godly pastor.
+@J6yo Bless you - we all have days like that. Casting all your cares on HIM, for he CARES for YOU.
There gets to be a lot of trash on these sites and I try to keep on top of them.
Some are innocent like yours - some are hooks to entangle people in false cults and bad theology.
NO worries.
Why aren't ?
I hope you come to know Jesus as Savior and Lord. If you seek Him, you will most definitely find Him. He is always near.
Dont u think its about time u answer Christ quickening u to Himself? Tell u what.....find out for yourself and comment on this podcast....guarrantee He is all you've been waiting for.😊
Thank you Pastor John for the way you handled a very delicate subject.
@D r I p p Are you crazy ?
Great answer Pastor. Song of Solomon 5:1 says this "I am come into my garden, my sister, my spouse: I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk: eat, O friends; drink, yea, drink abundantly, O beloved." Now there are two schools of interpreting Song of Solomon and one was just to sensuous for many Rabbis. I think the literal meaning is the correct one. If it is then go for it. Just read the whole book. Have a blessed time.
Beautiful and biblical handling of a delicate subject. Praise God for Dr. Piper‘s wisdom and sensitivity to God’s Holy Spirit.
as a teenage guy (no this hasn't opened any doors that werent already open), i find it funny that "outdo each other in acts of kindness" is what made me laugh
@@pastorstatelinesda4735
Fraud deceit and demons in all these posts spread Ll over the internet
What a wonderful response from brother John. You explained in a beautiful way how we should view this topic. I have read the word most of my life cover to cover and I agree 100% with your explanation. We had people in the past that thought sex was only for procreation and you then have, as explained in the NT, early Christians who thought they could remain faithful to CHRIST yet live sexually immoral lives. Women were a gift from GOD, children are a gift from GOD, and sex was a gift from GOD and if we keep all of those blessings within righteous guidelines GOD teaches in his word we will reap it's blessings spiritually and physically. GOD bless you brother and Thank You!
Sex is for procreation, but also for pleasure.
Song of songs doesn't make much mention of childbearing, but plenty about enjoying each others bodies. Considering the Bible doesn't say anything specifically about it, we can't make an explicit judgement on it. If fondling boobs is okay according to SOS, remembering that it has no correlation to making babies, then there is no good reason to assume oral is any different.
Just enjoy each other, and be respectful of your spouse. I don't think it's that hard of an answer...
You are not right, biblically it is very wrong . That some couples derive pleasure in oral sex does not mean God welcomes it. ROMAN 1: 19- end. It is changing the naturally way that God planned sex. The end essence of sex is procreation and satisfying each others sexual desire as couple not oral sex. Oral sex is sin and it can lead the doer to the lake of fire .God has a Patten to every thing in life. You must follow strictly to remain on the narrow part to heaven else you shift into the broad way to Hell fire except heaven is not your goal. Take note of the word of Jesus Christ in Mark 9:43 - 48. It is true. One hour of oral sex pleasure cannot equate suffering for all eternity don't be deceived please
Nwaiwu Immaculate , you are so wrong, the Bible does not comment on oral sex, Sodomy yes, oral sex no. You hold to your beliefs, But what my wife and I agree to in the bedroom to please each other as God has made us one is frankly not for you or anyone else to comment on as sin in our lives. Natural way? Where can we find those explicit instructions at in the Bible. You read into what you want but keep it between you and your spouse.
@Barry Midikiner pretty silly comment. God made us perfect. Time and the devil and entropy has brought on death sickness and gag reflex.
That's NOT something God gave to limit sexual pleasure.
Be careful of attributing the work of the Devil to God.
@@nwaiwuimmaculate7348 I note you cannot find a single verse of Scripture to support your demonic lie.
Only the enemy of our souls would so blatantly contradict the teaching of Scripture.
1Cor 5 7 makes it plain that when we are not abstaining from sex to spend out time in fasting and prayer that we are to be passionate about our sexuality with our partner and enjoy the PLEASURE of sexuality.
The English Bibles especially the corrupted ones like the LKV and NWT downplay the PLEASURE that is correctly used in that verse in the Aramaic Bible - the language Jesus spoke while on earth.
Please stop preaching guilt and damnation on couples that follow the Biblical pattern for married sexuality of which oral sex is a wonderful Biblical part and has been since Eden.
Your illiterate opinions and misuse of Scripture is far more likely to lead you to hell than having oral sex with your spouse.
@@nwaiwuimmaculate7348 Romans 1 has no application at all to marriage.
Stop perverting the scriptures for your own sense of superiority.
Listen to what this Godly teacher says not the demons in your head
Just stumbled on to this...can't believe this is even an issue. What married couples enjoy together is totally fine as long as it does not violate specific scripture...If however one is not comfortable, then it's not ok. Pastor John delicately said the same thing.
smoking weed isnt in scipture either but youre ridiculous if you try to justify its not a sin. it is an issue because its sexually immoral
tom ya Smoking weed isn't a sin...
tom ya Your just saying that because it has some potential addictive effects of it... You can become addictive to weed but it doesn't mean you will... If you smoke weed then do it fir the Glory of God.. 1 corinthians 10:31
Amen Brother.
Sam Bates well said
Pastor John made this really beautiful, so much precious insight!👍🏻
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they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
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As Pastor John aptly points out; oral sex is a great deal more "intimate" than say... missionary position.
Scripture tells us that a man should love his wife as his own flesh. In this perspective, pleasing your wife, or visa-versa, is the most intimate communication that a married couple can express to one another.
In these latter times, where greater than 50% of marriages are disolved...
I would say that perhaps marital relationships could use a bit more intimacy, along with a host of other relationship-building interactions.
Or are we interpreting in our own perception? that's the question
It is wrong.
How so? Three words cannot prove a point unless you are debating with an imbecile.
@@masonnix9566 how
@@jaeves007 Jesus never did it.
Hebrews 13:4 says “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled..." Love is the guiding principle in the marriage relationship. Paul wrote that the woman who loves her husband will seek to please her husband, and that man who loves his wife will seek to please his wife. The marriage bed, therefore, is undefiled where a married couple mutually consent to express their love for one another.
Augustine Guerrero Ask your grandma if in her time this hell lie was ok.
Adriana Morawietz How does what me and my wife do in the privacy of our bedroom have anything to do with your faith in God? My grandmother is not the standard by which I live my life. God is. And, as the apostle Paul once asked, why is my liberty judged by another person's conscience? Because your conscience may not allow you to engage in a certain activity, be sexual or otherwise, does not mean that I can't or shouldn't. That's not up to you, that's between me and my wife and God. You are not the standard by which my righteousness is measured, Christ is. My duty as a child of God is to love you and not put a stumbling block before you that would create an offense. So, how does my liberty in Christ pose a threat to your faith or create a stumbling block for you? Just because you 'feel' it is a sin for me does not make it so. Where in the Bible does God prohibit me and my wife from expressing our love for one another in the marriage bed? I want Scripture, not opinion or conjecture.
Augustine Guerrero Watch Chris LaSala's video on 'a reprobate will say; show me that in the bible' 5 min video and 'hormonal junk' by LaSala. Very good info. I wasn't judging u but speaking in general even if I answered to you. If u feel convicted is cos of God's judgement on u, not mine. Oral sex is not for born again christians as the fear of God that is given as a gift to the children of God upon being born again, doesn't allow u to do dirty stuff. Oral sex is sodomy. + it is a carnal lust of flesh. You can enjoy sex while being fruitful ofcourse but u need to have a healthy discernment also. And if u didn't know is ok. You know now.
Augustine Guerrero Also.. what sort of quality is your faith? Is maybe very good but proffesing faith must b tested and tried if its the real stuff.
Augustine Guerrero Concerning the grandmother, I wanted to show you how depraved and animalistic human get every few decades. Get smart to Satan's corruption. Many Christians are ignorant. Maybe watch OTG ministry: ' world series 1 of 5. Is about a difference between counterfeit, in name only and true christians. Very good videos. Just 4 info.
Difficult question but he handled it beautifully.
True!!!
As long as the act is monogamous, loving and they both agree to it, a married couple Can do what they want. I don't see any prohibitions in the bible.
1 Corinthians CH 7: 1-5
In Peter woman r not to lay unnatural w man so cuz men to desire ea other
Romans 1:22-27 what is prohibit in homosexusl act (unnatural act) is prohibit in hetersexual act inside marriage. Holy Spirit temple is t body
+@Jon Singleton
Wrong - you need to read the Bible.
YOU are using a 21st century dictionary to explain a BC definition. Words change meaning over time. SODOMY in the Bible is ONLY homosexual activity - it cannot be applied to marriage.
Are you really that illiterate?
+@@americangunslingerallday1474
Spent 8 minutes listening to the talk and 10 minutes reading the comments 😂
Priyadarshan Nag 😂😂😂
He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
Tofunwa Toyinbo He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
@@jesuschristsavedmylife2121 Amen
Amen
GOD knows the mind of man.GOD knows everything we will think or try...thats why GOD said "the marriage bed is undefiled"..GOD already knew we would try it❤
Yasha Jackson excellent point
Anal sex is gross ...period.
@@EdMcCornhole sex in general is gross period*
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Please go here Peniel gandode speaks or has videos on this stuff dildos have demon's in them and butt sex is wrong there are sex not condoned by God stop all these things
@Val O'Brien Nothing Is Wrong In Husband And Wife That Y Marriage Is Made To Satisfy Our Sexual Desires... Sex Outside Marriage Life Is Wrong
It’s dirty, and it’s not spiritual so it is pure flesh. It doesn’t match the holiness that procreation requires.
Obviously it's a little more complicated than that. Two people in love pleasing one another looks wholesome at face value. But I agree it is more about pleasing the flesh than it is about two people equally engaged in becoming more holy and closer to God.
@@21blevi yes also is about the full spiritual growth that god has in perspective for us.
Thanks for your interacción.
What a thoughtful, careful and gentle answer. Thank you. 😊💗
Beloved, I don't know you
in person but God knows
you. God minister to me a
revelation when I was on
your profile to see things
around you,I saw
blessings but spiritual
attacks holding on to
them,in prayers,i saw a
woman in the realm of
the spirit monitoring and
plotting delay be in your
life, with an evil mirror,
and a motive to destroy.
But as I speak to you now
her time is up, Render
hand of favour with
Anything you can afford
to these motherless
foundation (EKPOBA
MOTHERLESS
FOUNDATION) in kebbi
state nigeria before
2DAYS with faith, as I
Rise my hands towards
heaven and pray for you
they shall serve as point
of contact where ever you
are, you will receive
double portion of grace to
excel and total
restoration of
breakthrough in your life
and in the life of your
family. Deliver them to the
MD in charge of the
orphanage to get their
details on (WhatsApp or
call them now on
+2349058629827) tell him I
sent you. For it is not by
might nor by in power but
of the spirit saith the lord
(zechariah 4:6). You shall
testify to the Glory of God
in your life. God bless you....
With all due respect, this comments section is pure comedy gold.
Mmhm
Jesus loves you. May HE REVEAL HIMSELF TO YOU.
He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
Candela Roja He died on the cross for you and rose 3 days later friend if you wanna be saved REPENT YOUR SINS AND LET JESUS INTO YOUR HEART FOR THE MAN OF SON IS COMING SOON YOU DO NOT HAVE MUCH TIMES LEFT. ✝️💗😊✝️
@@jesuschristsavedmylife2121
Thank you...
Just one thing, out of curiosity
Were you being random?
Marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled
Damn skippy.
@Anchored Alliance Evangelism Christianity is of God until someone defiles it with demonic delusions like yours.
Undefiled is referring to adultery and fornication. Look at the sentences before and after keeping the marriage bed undefiled, so its not taken out of context. It wasn’t talking about oral sex. Satan has perverted the minds of christians and they have taken what god made good and made it bad with legalistic thinking, which is evident of weak faith and unbelief. The pastor is rock solid and spirit filled.
@Anchored Alliance Evangelism in marriage, it's ok
It's defiled when you step in a bed that's not yours.
Pray about this and truly the Holy Spirit will guide you in all truth...
Amen
WHY would you pray about what GOD has already given us the last word on?
Need we pray about killing our neighbor?
GOD is as comfortable with Oral sex as any other variety = and for many women it's their ONLY or preferred pathway to orgasms - the purpose of Godly sex in marriage.
Why the fuck do we need to pray about it when it's clear that it's wickedness? Excuse my language but it's so frustrating seeing Christians scratching their head over something that is clearly abominable and filthy.
@@categories5066 LOL
Topics can you quote the scripture where its considered sinful/wicked??
A lot of people may not agree with me and may get offended. But the definition of sodomy is anal or oral copulation. So if a couple does have oral sex, would that not compare them to the many scriptures discussed about the sodomites in the Bible? Sodomite is one that practices sodomy. This would not only pertain to homosexuals as most people believe, but to heterosexuals and married couples alike. It is the act that is wrong. It is very important to note that we must get knowledge and understanding. Hosea 4:6 says, My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. It is very important to pray for knowledge, wisdom and understanding. 1 Cor. 6:15 says. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take members of Christ, and make them members of a harlot? God forbid. I pray God give his people strength, against the lusts of our flesh and the filthy desires of our hearts. This is not condemn anyone or bring judgement on people, but something to consider. I would not want God to bring judgment on me, call me a sodomite and end up in the pit because of acts I did because I did not have knowledge of committing sodomy. Blessings in Jesus Mighty Name.
Thank you for this answer. I can't wait to get married to a beautiful woman and show her love like Christ shows the Church. God bless!
Amen he’ll put a very special woman in your life who you can grow with in the spirit and in the gospel. Wait patiently on the LORD.
This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy. Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong? The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon]
Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well. If the definition for sodomy is accurate, there may be millions in the Christian community, pastors, church leaders, missionaries, literally practicing sodomy. This gets even worse because anyone who is committing sodomy by practicing anal or oral sex is a sodomite!
The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite according to Merriam-Webster refers to anyone who actively engages in sodomy. Sodomite in the Bible refers to a male temple prostitute, one who is consecrated to the impure rites of their heathen deities. Whereby they committed every sexual abomination including sodomy. “And there were also sodomites in the land: and they did according to all the abominations of the nations which the LORD cast out before the children of Israel.” 1 Kings 14:24
The abominations which were committed by the nations which the Lord had cast out of the land ranged from incest, adultery, homosexuality, to bestiality. (See Leviticus 18:4-30)
The people of God are not to be associated with these gross and degrading sexual practices. (See Deuteronomy 23:17; Ephesians 5:3)
We must remember that the sodomite was a temple prostitute whose sexual acts are associated with heathen deities. We are told in scripture that these heathen deities are in reality nothing but devils or demons. (See Psalms 106:36,37; 1 Corinthians 10:20-22) This is the reason for God’s strict avoidance of these vile sexual rituals. Because anything associated with the occult will become a snare or trap for the soul. (See Exodus 23:33; Psalms 106:36; I Peter 2:11) Sexual sins such as sodomy is a tactic of the devil to ensnare people of God.
“But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock (snare) before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication.” Revelation 2:14
In examining the account of how the doctrine of Balaam was used against the people of God. We discover that there was a spiritual connection associated with the sexual acts of the daughters of Moab.
Baal-Peor is a Moabite god who was worshipped with obscene sexual rituals. The name means "Lord of the Opening" from Baal meaning owner/ husband and Peor coming from pa'ar meaning "open wide".
Another name for Baal-Peor is Belphegor who was depicted either as a beautiful naked woman or a bearded demon with open mouth, horns, and sharply pointed nails (the open mouth being an indicator of the sexual rites used to worship him). St. Jerome reported that statues of Baal-Peor that he encountered in Syria depicted the god with a phallus in his mouth.
The worship of Baal was associated with vile sexual acts, which definitely included oral sex. (See Hosea 4:12-14; 9:10)
+@@theway4201
Jeffery - your unbiblical PRUDERY and attacks on men and people of GOD obeying SCRIPTURE is truly heartbreaking. Assuming you are married - you are certainly depriving your wife of what GOD included in a GODLY marriage. 1 Cor 7:5
"This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy."
Oral sex is NOT by any STRETCH of the imagination Biblical SODOMY - as Wikipedia says - the use of the term for anything BUT homosexual sex is recent - BIBLICALLY it was homosexual rape at first than expanded to homosexual anal intercourse - IT NEVER EVER was applied to heterosexual sex OR married sex - your ASSUMPTION is dangerous and BIBLICALLY destructive.
" Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong?"
Again - ORAL sex is NOT SODOMY - and it is fondly referenced in the SOS. - WHICH last time I looked was part of the Canon of SCRIPTURE.
" The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. "
Again - IF you were HONEST, you would look at its HISTORY - ONLY in the mid 70's did that definition become the norm. Before that it was limited to HOMOSEXUAL sex.
DICTIONARIES ONLY reflect CURRENT meanings of words - as Wikipedia notes:"
"Sodomy (/ˈsɒdəmi/) or buggery (British English) is generally anal or oral sex between people or sexual activity between a person and a non-human animal (bestiality), but it may also mean any non-procreative sexual activity.[1][2][3] "
INCLUDING Marriage
"Originally, the term sodomy, which is derived from the story of Sodom and Gomorrah in the Book of Genesis,[4] was commonly restricted to anal sex.[5][6]"
The GAGE dictionary of 1983 states that "it is abnormal sexual relations between two males or between humans and animals."
WEBSTER 1954 states: "Carnal sexual intercourse in any of several; unnatural ways usually that of one male with another."
Just as the BIBLE used the word SHAMBLES as we use supermarket - so Sodomy of today was unknown to the BIBLICAL times.
It's intellectually dishonest to take the deception and falsehoods you are relying upon to attack Godly men and women who take the WORD of GOD to heart and love with their entire BODY mind and spirit - what Marriage is to be in GOD's expectation, and why he uses it as a MODEL of his relationship with us as HIS bride.
You do NOTHING but create false and imaginary shame, guilt, turmoil and division in the marriage of Godly people with your anti-Biblical and totally false teaching.
BUT even allowing for your deliberate misdefinition - NOTHING in marriage is off limits - you CANNOT commit sodomy within marriage. The definition you mistakenly use INCLUDES MARRIED sex - so you are being HYPOCRITICAL at best; deceptive for certain, and damaging and destructive at worst.
"Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon]"
BUT NOT oral sex within marriage - you keep looking for that magic definition that supports your sexual perversion - IT does NOT exist.
"Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well."
That of course is a blatant lie. NOWHERE does it mention married couples - YOU add that deceptively.
"If the definition for sodomy is accurate, "
YOUR definitions is NOT accurate - BUT you never BOTHERED to check out that issue - because what you FOUND fit your perverted concept of married sex.
I'll finish dealing with your utter nonsense and BIBLICAL ignorance on the issue at another time.
@@paulrobinson9318 Sorry to inform you but maybe you should read the sodomy laws that once governed our nation for hundreds of years. Laws that were based upon biblical principles and Christian values.
It's shame that we are debating over whether or not oral sex is sodomy. I wonder if oral sex is something that is associated with the sexual behavior of homosexuals or Christians.
I also wonder if this kind of sexual behavior is something to be identified with how we as men are suppose to love our wives. If you feel that this is what
Christ meant we said that we are to love our wives as He loved the church., then brother then help yourself.
I'm 66 years old and I can remember as a young man this kind of sexual behavior was considered to be gross and perverted. I guess I haven't changed with the times!
Love you too my brother in Christ!!!
+Jeffery Wheeler
Some thoughts about your faulty definition.
YOU may or may NOT be interested - I had a couple minutes and checked some facts I had stated - At my age my memory may not be reliable but LIKE my comments to be so.
If you have no interest - NO problem, - I just wanted to check my facts.
YOU say sodomy laws (Oral sex is NOT sodomy in the BIBLE) - went back to the earliest BIBLICAL days of America - but so did some states killing BOTH the victim and perpetrator of rape.
Cusac, Anne-Marie (March 17, 2009). Cruel and Unusual: The Culture of Punishment in America. Yale University Press. pp. 22-24.
Was that also from the the BIBLE?
"Ethics scholar Richard Weinmeyer writes:[8]
“ During the 1950s, McCarthyism resulted in state- and nationwide witch hunts of male "homosexuals" in which the acts of oral and anal sex between consenting adult men were [treated the same as] child molestation. "
MALE . . . NOT heterosexual. NOT married.
"In the late 1970’s and early 1980’s the growing strength and politicization of religious extremists significantly slowed the repeal efforts. The awaking of religious political extremists led to at least two states to enact specifically anti-gay sodomy laws at the same time as they otherwise modernized their criminal codes. Kentucky enacted a homosexual-only sodomy law in 1974. Arkansas did the same in 1977 with the approval of then state Attorney General Bill Clinton."
Male . . . NOT heterosexual. NOT Married.
"But sodomy, as Eskridge told the Court-and also tells readers-technically isn’t about homosexuality at all. Rather, it’s about sex without procreative possibility (which can be hetero as well as homo sex). Because sodomy has come to be seen as emblematic of homosexuality, "
IF you take this view - then any sex is sodomy that cannot result in a child - during pregnancy after menopause - an infertile couple - and a million other times - technically also in a woman's infertile times.
Again - anti-Biblical - Abraham and Sarah appeared to have sex often whilst childless.
"This pattern began to shift at the beginning of the twentieth century. Loosening morals and new patterns of urban sociability prompted officials to expand sodomy laws to include fellatio, which most states did by the 1920s. If more kinds of behavior counted as sodomy, more people could be vulnerable under the law, and so more aggressive policing ensued. Women as well as men were prosecuted for fellatio, for example, and a few states also included cunnilingus within the purview of the “crime against nature.” While sodomy arrests during these years increased tenfold as compared with the late nineteenth century, the policing of sodomy was still modest relative to other sexual offenses-adultery, fornication, prostitution and rape were the sexual crimes that most absorbed the resources of urban police forces. Moreover, until the mid twentieth century, the vast majority of sodomy arrests were for rape-like offenses: assault of a man or a woman, or sexual activity with a child (assault by definition, since children cannot legally consent). "
"No sooner ()~1950) had this legal regime been put up than it began to be pulled down (in the longue durée of history, antihomosexualism may yet turn out to be something of a blip). But here, too, the story is probably not what you think: reform did not come from a nascent gay rights movement. Not at first. Rather, it was pushed by the legal community, influenced by Kinsey’s findings about what Americans actually did in bed. Some 95 percent of Americans were technically lawbreakers-a situation that, if not remedied, might lead to the same kind of disregard for law that had marked the Prohibition era (as well as blackmail and police corruption). "
How can a pure Holy God watch a man-made in his image and likeness thinking consuming bodily fluids, urine and feces have any place with the communion of Jesus Christ?
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: "For this is the will of God, even your sanctification," (…) "That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God."
Ephesians 4:17-24 "This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind, Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart: Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness."
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18: "Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."
One should be able to praise God in all situations and circumstances and I am convinced that this is impossible while practicing oral sex.
Oral sex has to do with lust, with mutual masturbation, with the idolization of body parts and not with sanctified, conjugal love. Even married couples can defile their body through lust and concupiscence, which will darken their understanding and cause a separation in spirit, resulting in bondage and addiction to lust.
Except the last section, the passages that are not from the Bible are taken from:
"Oral Sex Is Sinful And Must Be Avoided In Christian Marriage"
www.eternityrace.com/2017/12/oral-sex-is-sinful-and-must-be-avoided.html
Great points. Id like to add Job 20, 12-17 and proverbs 30, 20
I just would like to tell my testimony I went through in my life growing up as a child being molested at a young age growing up and and being involved in incest in my family members went through depression and suicidal I got into drugs and alcohol and having sex with multiple partners and doing and performing oral sex and doing things that was filthy. And doing it and being involved in it lead me down the worst path and hole I was in. And I was a shame, guilty and I didn't like myself for what has happened and what I did when I was younger I had this imagination or image or mask I put on of this world giving myself a multiple names of people and in my head I wanted to be this other race which was the word white and I didn't want to be around people of my family my own race because I blame them for what happened to me and things that I continue to do and I caused isolation and enslaved myself into this world of mine or what I wanted it to be because I didn't want to face reality. I blame my mother for having this disability I had with my leg because of it. Because I couldn't satisfy myself in sex and very low self esteem and didn't respect myself and slept with multiple partners every time anyone that left and was very disrespectful to my parents and blame them when things didn't go my way so to cover up the pain I drank did drugs and used people for my satisfaction and lust of the flesh and having 2 children in a relationship putting them in danger with men that was around and trying to protect them from the things that happened to me but I was doing the same thing and when everything was falling apart nothing was going right and really couldn't tell anyone what was going on because I didn't want them to think I was crazy or they would not understand. And I was tired of going through that over and over and I just broke down and cried out to the Lord God to help me because there was no one else to go to. And no one want to put up with me and I didn't want to put up with myself and I called upon the lord and when I prayed he came to me he was already there. He gave me love a touch that I felt like nothing before and I didn't have to pay for it I didn't have to have sex to get it and I didn't have to pretend to be someone else. He has been truth and light in my life in his word and I didn't deserve it but he didn't for me. If he had not came when he did I wouldn't be here today to tell it the things he protected and delivered me from many diseases I didn't get and keep me from so many dangers that I put myself through. I don't know all the answers and it's been a battle everyday and I thank God and praise God for all the things he has done and continue to do giving me life. Receiving love compassion kindness forgiveness and to asked and believe you do receive and for his only begotten son he became sin for are sin that knew no sin and the blood that was shed on the cross and the death crucifixion and the resurrection of Christ Jesus and for God to give him all the glory for what he has done to give us life. We go through rejection fear shame and guilt that we carry around and hide are pain until it festers like a sore does and the problem gets bigger and bigger where are actions speak louder than words and we don't know how to deal with them and I speak for myself and blame others and don't take responsibility for what I did and look at others thinking I was always the victim and not being loving, compassion to others. And I hurt a lot of people to and had to take responsibility for what I done. Also help people who is going through and tell people who help me and by God's grace and his mercy and forgiveness. We are in a fight in are minds and we don't know what someone else is going through either but we need to pray for one another and to love one another and to give God all the glory and praise. If I had not went through what I did I would not have seen the Glory of God and all he has done and continue to do. I pray for each and everyone.
This is without question one of the sadness things I have ever heard a pastor of this magnitude be so weak in the area of sodomy. Has the church become so morally corrupt that we can't even discern if sodomy is wrong? The definition of sodomy according to Merriam-Webster is anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also: copulation with an animal. Fornication is translated from the Greek word porneia. Porneia covers illicit sexual intercourse: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc. … sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman [The New Testament Greek Lexicon]
Based on the definition given, sodomy involves anal or oral sex between people of the same or opposite sex; married couples as well. If the definition for sodomy is accurate, there may be millions in the Christian community, pastors, church leaders, missionaries, literally practicing sodomy. This gets even worse because anyone who is committing sodomy by practicing anal or oral sex is a sodomite!
The term “sodomite” is taken from the city of Sodom (Genesis 19:1-26). The definition of sodomite according to Merriam-Webster refers to anyone who actively engages in sodomy. Sodomite in the Bible refers to a male temple prostitute, one who is consecrated to the impure rites of their heathen deities. Whereby they committed every sexual abomination including sodomy. “And there were also sodomites in the land: and they did according to all the abominations of the nations which the LORD cast out before the children of Israel.” 1 Kings 14:24
The abominations which were committed by the nations which the Lord had cast out of the land ranged from incest, adultery, homosexuality, to bestiality. (See Leviticus 18:4-30)
The people of God are not to be associated with these gross and degrading sexual practices. (See Deuteronomy 23:17; Ephesians 5:3)
We must remember that the sodomite was a temple prostitute whose sexual acts are associated with heathen deities. We are told in scripture that these heathen deities are in reality nothing but devils or demons. (See Psalms 106:36,37; 1 Corinthians 10:20-22) This is the reason for God’s strict avoidance of these vile sexual rituals. Because anything associated with the occult will become a snare or trap for the soul. (See Exodus 23:33; Psalms 106:36; I Peter 2:11) Sexual sins such as sodomy is a tactic of the devil to ensnare people of God.
“But I have a few things against thee, because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine of Balaam, who taught Balac to cast a stumblingblock (snare) before the children of Israel, to eat things sacrificed unto idols, and to commit fornication.” Revelation 2:14
In examining the account of how the doctrine of Balaam was used against the people of God. We discover that there was a spiritual connection associated with the sexual acts of the daughters of Moab.
Baal-Peor is a Moabite god who was worshipped with obscene sexual rituals. The name means "Lord of the Opening" from Baal meaning owner/ husband and Peor coming from pa'ar meaning "open wide".
Another name for Baal-Peor is Belphegor who was depicted either as a beautiful naked woman or a bearded demon with open mouth, horns, and sharply pointed nails (the open mouth being an indicator of the sexual rites used to worship him). St. Jerome reported that statues of Baal-Peor that he encountered in Syria depicted the god with a phallus in his mouth.
The worship of Baal was associated with vile sexual acts, which definitely included oral sex. (See Hosea 4:12-14; 9:10)
Dear one, thank you for your moving testimony. It's hard to believe that we were chosen before the creation of the world to be His precious children! (Ephesians 1:4), and that, "He who started a good work in you shall be faithful to complete it." (Philippians 1:6)
He remains faithful to us even if we aren't always faithful, what a Saviour! What a great and good God we serve! (II Timothy 2:13)
These are difficult times we are living in. Thank God we know where we're going and that our promise of eternity is sure!
Thanks again for your moving words. I pray that you and your beloveds are drawing close to God in this bizarro time!
@@kirstyi7860 thank you for your comment and prayer I just pray whoever read’s this can open up to God in prayer I just know l know there is so much more than this in our life or why we our here and to let others know someone loves us even when we don’t love ourselves
@@kristinasykes1450 So true. When we don't love ourselves it's difficult to believe that we are loved by the Creator, the Saviour and the lifter of our heads. 'Being a Mum helps me to understand the love that Christ has in a way I couldn't before. Certainly, sacrificing your child as Abraham said he would do and that God did, is a holy and amazing love.
What a beautiful testimony of the power and love and grace of our Savior Jesus Christ. Thank you for sharing.
Great approach to the question . Finally let it be mutual, let it be kind . Think of your spouse more than about yourself.
I don't think that this is as well thought out as you think. Wasn't Judah's son slain by Jehovah for allowing his "seed" to fall to the ground because he didn't want to father a son by his brother's widow? Oral sex doesn't fulfill the procreative purpose of sex. It's a pleasure but as well designed to proliferate the human race. Oral sex is "that which is not convenient." Breast are not the same as the sex organs. Animals are governed by instincts but not men which have been redeemed. I suggest that if this is a question that you have that you should pray and seek the Lord in earnest about this. Any doubts you harbor in the spirit of your mind should leave no doubt as to this being a legitimate expression of love or lust. Having a "good conscious" before God is extremely important for your walk with the Lord. The sanctification process is "line upon line and precept upon precept" and is hindered by stinking thinking. That's what carnality is and it's where our born again new life in Christ begins to change us by the "renewing of our minds!" I am not infallible so I won't pass judgement or make a decree, but I know in my own experience that the old things I once revelled in, I don't just no longer do, but the "Law of the Spirit of Life in Jesus Christ; has made me free from the law of sin and death!" and I no longer even desire to do those things and in fact I don't even "think" about doing them. To me, the very fact that you have to ask if this is okay means it's not because God doesn't author confusion and if you question it then your conscience is trying to tell you that it's not ok.
Hey! You made a really good point with that bit on him wasting his seed. I do wanna point out the context there though- his duty was to fulfill his late brother's place as husband and to give the woman offspring. If I remember correctly, his reason for his actions was because he knew the resulting child would be considered his brother's and not his own. Therefore he had sin in that. Just wanted to make sure you had full knowlege of that passage
You are the one giving the poorly thought out response.. The reason Judah’s son was supposed to procreate with his dead bother’s wife was because his brother had not produced an heir. It was an inheritance issue, not merely a matter of spilling “seed”. If he had first given the woman a male child then he could spilled his seed during a later encounter and it would not have been sin.
Amen!! Preach!! This is by far the best teaching that anyones given, using scripture and God given Wisdom. 💯❤️💯
Is it allowed now or not I’m still wondering if it’s allowed 😅
please consider this: Oral sex is mentioned in the Bible it falls under sodomy. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Oral sex falls under the sin of Onan as well. In Genesis 38:8-10 Onan spilled his seed on the ground and God struck him dead on the spot. Oral sex is fruitless to God's kingdom and it directly goes against His command to "be fruitful and multiply"- Genesis 1:28. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!
😄 he says, yes, but of course, it's only allowed for married folks.
The way I see it, if you look at different parts of the body for their "intended use", my, or my wife's mouth, has been put there to speak scripture, to encourage others, to support, to speak words of love. I started thinking recently on this topic and it's started to not sit right with me (emphasis, me) that I would put a sexual organ in a place that is the tool for so much positivity, for my own personal gratification. The discussion continues.
Plus sodomites won't inherit the Kingdom of God 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. Definition of sodomy is anal and oral sex
So you wouldn’t kiss your wife with your tongue, you wouldn’t bite her just for being playful, you wouldn’t spank her. Because there are specific reasons for those specific body parts.
With all the respect
This was truly handled well, being that this is such a sensitive topic. Thank you for this.
Indeed..!
Jamal Lamy
Wow, there is no amount of Jesus and the righteousness of God in any if these comments
Your opinion, and yours alone. NOT a shred of justification for your statement.
@@justjoshin4135 Is sucking a dick sin? What if someone swalow?
"Awake, O north wind, And come, O south! Blow upon my garden, That its spices may flow out. Let my beloved come to his garden And eat its pleasant fruits." Songs of Solomon 4:16
"As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste." Songs of Solomon 2:3
sod·om·y
/ˈsädəmē/
Learn to pronounce
noun
sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation.
You nailed it! ✊🏿😎
YOU PEOPLE BETTER BE MARRIED USING THESE SCRIPTURES LIKE THIS!!!!!
😳
+Ruth Keeme
YOU are being deliberately DISHONEST.
That definition has ONLY been in a dictionary for 40 years, as Wickipedia points out - before the social revisionism and PC correctness - the definition was EXCLUSIVE to two man unmarried.
SO by that standard - you are LYING when trying to make that fit ANY Biblical definitions of SODOMY.
IT never has and CANNOT apply to marriage.
Such dishonesty is NOT fitting for a child of GOD, and NOT fitting to be on a Biblically based thread -
"sod·om·y
/ˈsädəmē/
Learn to pronounce
noun
sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation."
DELIBERATE deception.
YOU seemingly have NOT ever read SOS 7 in an accurate translation:
" (7:2) How beautiful are your sandaled feet,
O nobleman’s daughter!
The curves of your thighs are like jewels,
the work of the hands of a master craftsman.
2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl-
may it never lack mixed wine!
Your belly is a mound of wheat,
encircled by lilies.
3 Your two breasts are like two fawns,
twins of a gazelle.
4 Your neck is like a tower made of ivory.
Your eyes are the pools in Heshbon
by the gate of Bath Rabbim.
Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon
overlooking Damascus. "
"tn The noun שֹׁרֶר (shorer) is a hapax legomenon, appearing in the OT only here. There is debate whether it means “navel” or “vulva”: (1) Lys and Pope suggest that שֹׁרֶר is related to Arabic srr (“secret place, pudenda, coition, fornication”). They suggest that this is contextually supported by three factors: (a) His descriptive praise of her is in ascending order, beginning with her feet and concluding with her hair. The movement from her thighs (7:1b), to her vulva (7:2a), and then to her waist (7:2b) would fit this. (b) The descriptive comparison to a glass of wine would be grotesque if her navel were in view-her navel was moist or filled with liquid?-but appropriate if her vulva were in view. (c) The navel would be a somewhat synonymous reference to the belly which is already denoted by בִּטְנֵךְ (bitnekh, “belly”) in the following line. Because 7:1-7 does not use synonymous parallelism, the term שֹׁרֶר would have to refer to something other than the belly. "
That was a very carefully handled, yet thoroughly answered response. Thanks again JP.
Val O'Brien I totally agree with your comment very well said. I've Stopped subscribing to Pastor John Channel. The bible never lies, Not everyone who says Lord Lord will enter The Kingdom of Heaven.
Yes, hygiene is a problem when Scientists say that inside a single mouth's ecosystem, can be home to more than 6 billion bacteria.
Some of the bacteria are comprised of pathogenic bacteria that can cause decay, gum inflammation, tooth loss & could cause infections such as Trichomanas etc.
And then there is Oral Herpes which is connected & can be transferred to Genital Herpes.
I agree with all you guys just watch Chris lasala channel under "oral sex is sodomy within marriage." This pastor probably does it that's why is ok.
Val O'Brien
Giving oral sex is kissing and loving your husband. You should stop watching porn, it twists your mind. If you use your mouth only to eat and speak, then don't kiss your husband NEVER because you will be sinning. Mouth is not made for kissing, you are being lusty when you kiss.
End The World
I like Chris LaSala but I don't agree with him on this one. He also thinks that Jesus is not God. Anyways, if he thinks that he is sinning for doing it, he shouldn't do it.
Many people on this comment thread didn't even listen to JP's opinion...they just want to argue. Read the bible and heed the pastor's instruction BEFORE you comment. This isn't a free-for-all discussion! If you listened carefully to his audio and want to respectfully disagree then fine- but understand that this is where Bible believers come to ask questions and get biblically sound answers.
It's sexually immoral. I know because once me and my husband stopped I stopped getting attacked by an incubus, lust was put under control, and our sex life is fine without it. Anyways the end goal of sex is to enjoy each other and to experience pleasure together. Not just one at a time. Together. I think it's beautiful gift from God.
Same here, every time she would give me, even in marriage.... We wouldn't be able to sleep that night and be attacked demonicly... You could sense it
@@nunesandrew4198 the more spiritually in tune with god you are the more you can feel them. At one point I could see there shadows. I had to ask God to hide them. Because they were scary looking. Looking human but not at the same time. So now God shield my eyes. I only feel them now.
None of what you said is even closely rooted in the Bible.
If as a husband and wife you are honouring God in your union, then it is not a sin. If God did not intend for a married couple to love and explore EVERY part of his/her partners bodies, He would have, in no ambiguous terms, told us do.
The hesitation we feel is only society-driven because too often human beings selfishly explore another body outside if that holy marital union.
God made no mistake in our pleasure zones. Why then do we struggle so much with lovingly enjoying all parts of our spouses body, mind and spirit?
Because religion says that ANYTHING that's enjoyable is a sin. Religion is not of God. It's from Satan.
@Anchored Alliance Evangelism You're full of religious crap.
I agree like why should a husbands mouth be off limits too his wife vagina
Are you remembering who the writer of SOS is and his recorded end? Could it be that in that are he was perverted and opened doors unintended as Adam and Eve did? Sounds like he might possibly have had a sexual addiction with all the different cultures and the varying practices could have opened both good and evil in the married bed
Its a married couplez business jesus isnt gonna judge what couples did in the bedroom ....damn they got married so they wont sin now yall want to monitor what sexual positions they do next damn...
You know what? This is a great series by folks that know the scriptures. Uncomfortable topics by some, but that is that individual's hang up.
If people feel this uneasy about Oral sex it's obvious this isn't a practice meant for them. Anything you're seriously questioning yourself about should tell you something. Some people are just too turned off by just the thought of doing it let alone having it done to them.
Riding a bicycle is uncomfortable the first time - so what? YOU learn - that;s why PAUL said that the older women were to teach the younger , , and he wasn't talking about cooking food . . .
@@paulrobinson9318 But we don't have conviction or question riding a bike over and over again if it is a right or wrong thing to do. C'mon now! Stealing is even uncomfortable the first time too and then you get used to it or even find it fun BUT it's still not right. LOL
@@paulrobinson9318 Older women teach the younger to be godly women. You're weird and a pervert!
+@@onlineversion
SO you know more than the Bible?
How is foreplay wrong? God MADE us to enjoy it, and to get the juices flowing . . . STEALING? Really?
And why is it OK to kiss your wife anyplace but where it feels the best, where she gets the most enjoyment and where GOD designed her to feel the most pleasure?
And my friend - IF you can equate the joy of oral sex with the evil of stealing - you have NONE of God's spirit in you. One is holy, the other a sin.
WHY attack what GOD promotes?
WHY mock God's creation?
WHY deprive your wife of the fulfillment GOD made her to enjoy?
+@@onlineversion
MY you are Biblically illiterate . . .
"@Paul Robinson Older women teach the younger to be godly women. You're weird and a pervert!"
You found that nugget where in the Bible? The passage is dealing with human relationships . . .
"Older women likewise are to exhibit behavior fitting for those who are holy, not slandering, not slaves to excessive drinking, but teaching what is good. 4 In this way they will train the younger women to love their husbands, to love their children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, fulfilling their duties at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the message of God may not be discredited. 6 Encourage younger men likewise to be self-controlled, 7 showing yourself to be an example of good works in every way. In your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and a sound message that cannot be criticized, so that any opponent will be at a loss, because he has nothing evil to say about us. 9 Slaves are to be subject to their own masters in everything, to do what is wanted and not talk back, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good faith, in order to bring credit to the teaching of God our Savior in everything. "
Have you ever read ANYTHING about the culture of the day? NOPE!!! You apply your prudish KJO Baptist cult prudery to the REAL WORLD of the Palestinian era - NOT smart.
TRY proving me wrong rather than being a mocker . . .
Pastor John, why didn't you add that the people should pray about it? God made man's body, so shouldn't He be the one to ask about the right way to use it? We are told to pray regarding all things...
One Of Many I think because he was reading from God's word that qualifies as consulting God on the matter. If you pray to God, He won't say anything contrary to His word, so you'll most likely just end up being lead to the same scriptures John Piper mentioned, with God saying "how do YOU feel about it, in light of what you've read?".
The Word of God and the Holy Spirit is our guide. if its not explicitly stated in the Bible ask the Holy Spirit. and He will reveal it to you . In 1Cor 3:7b.. When Paul was sharing about marriage.. he advised that its better to be single than to mary.. well was it clearly stated in the Old testament? No for sure.. but he ended up the statement by saying "The Holy Spirit is also in Him.. Meaning, The Holy Spirit Himself reveal this truth in him.. so in the same way the Holy Spirit will tell you, though its not explicitly stated in the Bible that oral sex is prohibited or not..
One Of Many Most things are clear in the bible. Like u don't need to pray to know if a women should pastor a church. It is clear in the bible what God wants and desires. You can check Wikipedia on sodomy. Even Satan is commadded to write down the truth in this fallen world.
Val O'Brien Yes. Wiki calls it sodomy
bummer beavis No it isn't, but to many joke christians out there that even Satan is commanded to speak the truth on sodomy through wiki, so that when he claims the sodomites by his legal right, there won't b any confusion.
I found this to be a very stimulating discussion about what can be a messy subject. Everywhere I go I see men and women who probably have the same question.
Ok. Piper is being careful with his words here because He does not want to be dogmatic with something that is not specifically mentioned in Holy Scripture. And we, too must be careful what we say outside of Scripture. To play it safe, how's this? Apply the Scriptures we DO know to make your discernments, like Piper tried to do. The body is not ours, but God's so don't do oral sex if you know it's unhealthy (i don't think that's been proven yet), Do unto others what you would have them do unto you (if you don't enjoy giving oral, don't ask for it), It is better to give than to receive (have the mind of giving pleasure to your spouse instead of receiving pleasure), do everything in love, love is not rude, love is not self-seeking, and so on.. so make LOVE to your spouse in a way that is biblical. The point is, there's a lot of things we could do with this topic, but banning it as a whole is legalism. To simply say that oral sex is a sin without any scriptural backing is UNBIBLICAL and WRONG. I'm not saying Piper is Jesus, and he could possibly get this wrong. But if anyone at all can do better than what He did using the Bible as your guide, please share with us. If not, let's just let God be the judge.
684shilmido
Excellent measured response.
@ D- NA
In marriage your body is your spouse's . Thanks for not mixing up the temporal and the spiritual.
Beautifully illustrated. I agree with this teaching.
Let me give you the answer you all are dreading... if you didn't feel guilty or confused about it you wouldn't have clicked the video in the first place. The mouth was designed to eat, speak and ultimately praise The most high. It is what it is.
Exactly. Funny how there are no videos asking if vaginal intercourse is sinful within marriage
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HalleluYah!!!
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Only 10 more years until this is at all relevant to me lol I'm 18
What are you talking about? Young people are some of the worst offenders when it comes to this sort of thing.
Lolllllllllll good luck making it another 10 years where this doesn't concern you 😂😂😂
My wife and I do what we want for each other, it's nobody elses business period!! Our main goal is to stay married...
MrRamyon74
Go ahead, MrRamyon, get after it! You make your wife's toes curl! Keep her happy! A couple that that loves and respects each other, smiles, laughs, plays, prays, and swings from the ceiling together stays together in joy and peace. May you have a blessed and joyous marriage, sir.👍
No one made it their business...why are you so defensive?
No bodycare fuck both of you
@@nademhijaze9931
A truly ignorant response . . .
Amen!
I don't think this was discussed deeply enough but I understand also that Pastor John has a love for God's word and is certainly an elder in regards to this. I think ultimately perversity should not enter into the marriage bed, marital sex isn't an excuse for perverse sexual fantasies such as whipping or torture for instance.
The first thing I would like to do is simply start with the definition of the word sodomy found in Merriam-Webster.
Definition of sodomy
: anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex also : copulation with an animal.
Merriam- Webster definition of sodomy encompasses oral sex with a member of the same or opposite sex. So really the question shouldn't be is oral sex a sin in marriage but rather is sodomy a sin in marriage. The Bible clearly condemns inordinate affection, unnatural and degrading passions in the life of a believer regardless if married or not. (See Colossians 3:5)
One of the signs of a morally corrupt society that has come under the judgment of God is that they have changed the natural use into that which is against nature. (See Romans 1:26 )
The legal definition of sodomy varies from state to state, but sodomy has been broadly defined as a sexual “crime against nature”. Though the sodomy laws in this country has been ruled unconstitutional by the US Supreme Court in 2003, historically, sodomy (usually defined as oral and anal sex) was a crime in many states. Now we can truly understand why there is so much moral degradation in this country because those who are suppose to be the salt of the earth is setting around justifying sodomizing their spouse.
I don't believe that we really understand how destructive this kind of support of sodomy in the marriage is. For example the marriage is suppose to be a reflection of Christ and the church and we are commanded to love our wives as Christ love the church. Is there anyone so morally corrupt that they would even suggest that oral sex or sodomy is something to be identified with Christ and the church. (See Ephesians 5:25-33)
The homosexuals look in the bible and see the relationship with David and Jonathan and identify it as a homosexual relationship. Now we have believers who are practicing oral sex or sodomy and they look at the book of Solomon and guess what they are seeing oral sex. "Unto the pure all things are pure; but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled. They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate." Titus 1:15,16
Therefore, missionary style is the only allowed sexual practice? You have a very poor knowledge of women. If you would really love your wife, you would not condemn oral sex, which is for many women the only practice that satisfies them.
Be slow to go to Song of Solomon without understanding. Most people have no idea what Song of Solomon is about nor the allegorical language it uses
anonymousabyss Explain more please?
@@Latitude_ SOS has several examples of oral sex - recorded with approval - NO reason to be afraid of it.
WHY? I doubt YOU understand the book and what it really says - because you have only read it in a sanitized version. Several chapters are depictions of oral sex and the delight it brings.
Paul Robinson Makes sense if you’re married to your godly wife. Long as you pray about it before and after. Seems legit
@@Latitude_ Why would we do that?
Our prayer time is in the morning.
Would I pray before and after missionary sex?
I'm usually too exhausted after and too horny before.
I think your post to be humorous, absurd and frankly anti biblical.
I believe that couple who has a strong relationship with Christ thru prayer will undoubtedly receive the answer to this issue. The Holy Spirit will stop even the thoughts of it and bring conviction if it's wrong. Since I haven't been there I cannot say from experience but that's how the Spirit works thru us.
What others think?
Alexey Mladenov your answer is by far the ONLY 1 that makes sense! Thank you! #blessings
I agree. I prayed about it and the Holy Spirit showed me the truth. Praise the Lord! It's all about the spirit behind the act. For even if you do something that seems ok such as donate money but you do it with the wrong spirit (to show off), it's bad. It looks good from the outside but your heart is in the wrong place and God can see the heart. It's the same for anything else, including sex. If you do it out of lust is bad; but if you do it out of love and inside the marriage, it's holy.
Alexey Mladenov -
*I believe that couple who has a strong relationship with Christ thru prayer will undoubtedly receive the answer to this issue. The Holy Spirit will stop even the thoughts of it and bring conviction if it's wrong.*
So what do you say to the couple that has a strong relationship with Christ but feels that the Holy Spirit led them to believe that oral sex is okay? There are many Christians who enjoy this during sex. Despite B Justice saying your answer makes sense, it makes none. Daughter of God sounds just as foolish as you.
Daughter of God - It doesn't matter what I think about you getting or receiving oral sex. I meant you sound foolish in saying that the Holy Spirit led you to truth. The same Holy Spirit that you claim led you to believe whatever you believe apparently led others that asked for it's guidance to the opposite conclusion. Just look at the comments. There are a bunch of Christians who think it's wrong and a lot who think it's not. At the end of the day, you all just do what you've been taught or what you want.
Child Boo
You don't even know what is my position regarding this matter. How sharp you are! And not only that... you are implying that the Word of God is foolish. John 16:13: "Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come".
Most of the so called "christians" are not christians, btw.
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As long as you are married and not giving it to someone else. Better give it to someone u are married to and love and made a promise to God to. Juss came for the comments
+@Joel Kabuso
YOU are simply lying - you are dragging up archaic, medeval catholic teaching that sperm is real little people - just another lie an superstition that develops in religions when the Bible is banned.
That would also mean you must accept the 'sin of Onan" myth to oppose (mutual) masturbation and other anti-biblical myths. Pity your catholic brainwashing in anti-Biblical nonsense.
The main reason GOD created Human sexuality was pleasure - else he would have made our sexual reproduction like every other mammal - with seasons and limited sexual actuality - Biblical ignorance.
YOUR Biblical illiteracy is OBVIOUS - by your silly notion - having sex after menopause is sin - yet Abraham and Sarah were still cavorting at 100.
GOD is in favor of frequent sexual activity - 1 Cor 7 for example - and GOD is in favor of Oral sex. Songs of Solomon is a book on the subject.
""It's not ok even if married. It's as if you are masturbating your husband off."
How about just licking your wife - NO sperm lost in that - and a Biblical illustration:
"SOS 7: The curves of your thighs are like jewels,
the work of the hands of a master craftsman.
2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl -
may it never lack mixed wine!
Your belly is a mound of wheat,
encircled by lilies.
3 Your two breasts are like two fawns,
twins of a gazelle. "
YOU are terribly confused.
" Sperm is meant for procreation not to be brought out simply for sexual pleasure alone."
Please read your Bible and forget the nonsense you were taught that opposes it.
Song of Solomon. READ 🙌🏼
AJG JR you too are not getting the same message from the other guy
"SOS 7:2 The curves of your thighs are like jewels,
the work of the hands of a master craftsman.
2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl -
may it never lack mixed wine!
Your belly is a mound of wheat,
encircled by lilies. "
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Like she literally said she wanted him to EAT HER GARDEN 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She wanted to TASTE HIS GARDEN liiiiiiiiiiiiikkkkkeeeeee how are pastors skipping all of these metaphors in Song of Solomon
@@getitpaisleighchase Timidity? The Biblically illiterate prudes would gasp all the oxygen out of the air.
no you pervs, she was insecure about being black from being in the sun working because of her sisters so being a gentleman he laid on the sun himself and blocked it allowing her his shadow. Back then there were no movies so a garden was great entertainment as there was unique exotic fruit from different parts of the world in Solomon's garden that she had never eaten. The garden was a great conversational point to show his prestige and clout of unique fruits that the average even wealthy person couldn't get ahold of, so she being insecure because of the sun, laid in his shadow while he laid on the sun as of to say, we'll both be blackened by the sun then because I'm going to lay it on myself and you in my shadow while you enjoy the fruit of my garden which is symbolic for being in the covering of CHRIST YESHUA and receiving the fruit of THE HOLY GHOST of 1 Cor 5:22-23
It was really uncomfortable to hear this but the message was excellent
Rom 14:23 KJV
(23) And he that doubteth is damned if he eat, because he eateth not of faith: for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.
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Bruh.😭
No mystery. It is unnatural. Your mouth does not belong there. Marriage or not it is. Lustful and selfish.
This was the first time I have heard your podcast,that was truly a wise ,and very great answer to the question I really in enjoyed your podcast
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I suppose it's not what enters a person's mouth it's what comes out of it that defiles them
pusstongue Great response
pusstongue
You don't have to suppose the Bible says EXACTLY that and of course it's true
Marfia Thomas
Jesus was talking food not sperm!
Etuate Lafferte
No He was not speaking of food! The Pharisees as usual were focused on the wrong thing and SUCH AS (not exclusively) the disciples rubbing then eating corn on the sabbath, he wanted them to look at the real issue such as iniquity which causes sin. He wanted them to know that it's the filth that's in your heart and tumbles out of your mouth when no other Christians are around that separates you from God. It's the meanness in you that causes you to cuss people when you don't agree, it's not whether you eat corn on sabbath or pork on Wednesdays holiness is bigger than that. Wow that woman is lying to her husband...but she didn't say hi to me when I walked past her what kind of Christian is that!!! We are Focused on the wrong thing people!!!
Omg... Hilarious. Find the answer in song of Solomon 2:3
The lord will judge your bed, guys
He leído y he escuchado a muchos autores cristianos acerca de este asunto, pero es la primera vez que escucho una opinión muy sensata y muy apegada a la biblia. Definitivamente John Piper es un verdader maestro de la palabra de Dios. Gracias pastor Piper. Bendiciones.
So delicately and thoughtfully put.
My husband and I were married for twenty years before we stepped out of our "normal" routine. I have never felt more closer to him or had a stronger devotion, respect and love then when we began to explore uncharted territory together. I thank God for it and truly believe it is meant to be a blessing to us.
"normal" routine?
You better not be doing that disgusting oral sex.
@@ashleejohnson4945 Do it, you'll get pleasure from it too. Start slowly. The enjoyment that you see him getting from it will cause you you to like it more and more.
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stop posting your personal perversion on internet
@@lufasumafalu5069 thank you
should I point out something. Oral sex is okay between two married couples. if you think it is not then dont perform it. Like All food are made clean, but if eating certain food makes you feel dirty then dont. Same as oral sex. if a married couple considered it as a sin then it is wise not to perform it.
Sem sounds fair
sod·om·y
/ˈsädəmē/
Learn to pronounce
noun
sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation.
Stop teaching people lies!
That kind of sex is not okay.
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Short answer; if you and your spouse both enjoy it, yes.
If theres anyone out there that feels hopeless, I advise u to put your trust in him
Bhahahaha, tony cracked me up at the end saying that this was episode 400 and it was "epic" 😅
We have so many Protestant ministers who have become the Pope. As a matter of fact, these Protestant ministers are modern day Pharisees.
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Contex lol
If it's only "OKAY", ummmmmmmmmm, YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG!
Thank you for that, you were very specific with your words
I'm gonna have to clear my search history now haha
Well it is so taboo which makes you want to do it or not. I feel it’s hard to worship afterwards probably because genitalia wasn’t designed to go into the mouth. It really is dirty. And if we have to ask you are you must feel some guilt about it make you feel guilty when is wrong
Where did oral sex originate from anyway? I think porn pushed this type of stuff imo. I don't think it's right imo
Possibly from homosexual men -- they like oral sex.
No oral sex did not origate with porn. Mass produced and mass distributed porn are a modem phenomena. The average man during New Testament times would have never seen porn. And yet we know that people were engaging in oral sex at the time the New Testament was written because specific Greek words exist to describe oral sex on a man and oral sex on a woman. This is behavior that probably goes right back to Adam and Eve. If you want to know where it came, the answer is it came God. Teaches to the contrary are Satanic additions to God’s word.
Are you glorifying God? Or are you giving in to the lust of the flesh? Be holy, for I am holy says the Lord.
+ Jean Prinsloo
Silly comment. God is neither glorified or NOT glorified by the position one engages for sexual activity. God gave NO instructions, no prohibitions and NO limitations of sexual position or activity between a husband and wife outside of the Songs of Solomon - where oral sex is described in a variety of ways. With all the OTHER details of dealing with poop, sexuality and family life that ARE included in the law - IF that was an issue to GOD, it would most certainly be there.
It's NOT!! Your comment is silly and irrelevant.
Since the Holy Spirit thought it good to include a book of erotica in Scripture - with several descriptions of oral sex - it CANNOT be an ungodly experience.
"Are you glorifying God? Or are you giving in to the lust of the flesh? Be holy, for I am holy says the Lord. "
WHY do you make an issue where the Bible has NONE?
WHY would you elevate YOUR opinion above the revealed word of GOD on this issue - WHY would YOU define "lust of the flesh" in a very unscriptural way just to justify your personal unbiblical hangups?
Lust of the flesh is OUTSIDE of marriage.
Glorifying the lord? So are we supposed to be thinking of God while having sex?
Paul Robinson .. Obviously, youhave no idea what you're talking about, nor have you read the bible or you'd be giving scripture to back yourself up, but you don't, because, you're making up garbage ~ while talking out both sides of your mouth!! Try reading the bible, then comment ..
@@LifeX2Find The ignorance of the Bible is purely on YOUR side - please THINK before posting nonsense and ignorant assertions about my knowledge of the Bible.
The Bible make many references to sex -all filtered out by the KJ English Catholic prudes but NOT by the Hebrew and Aramaic the Scripture were written in -OR the NT for that matter.
TRY fitting THIS into your KJO cult, puritanical, anti-Biblical view:
" (7:2) How beautiful are your sandaled feet,
O nobleman’s daughter!
The curves of your thighs are like jewels,
the work of the hands of a master craftsman.
2 Your vulva is a round mixing bowl -
may it never lack mixed wine!
Your belly is a mound of wheat,
encircled by lilies.
3 Your two breasts are like two fawns,
twins of a gazelle. "
OR 4:16:
16 Awake, O north wind; come, O south wind!
Blow on my garden so that its fragrant spices may send out their sweet smell.
May my beloved come into his garden
and eat its delightful fruit! "
or 2:3
" Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest,
so is my beloved among the young men.
I delight to sit in his shade,
and his fruit is sweet to my taste. "
Amen! If I had it my way, any woman who is suspected of giving oral sex to her husband (or any man) so shall she have her lips sewn together for all to see. JESUS LOVES YOU ALL SO SO MUCH!!!
God blessed mankind, saying "Be fruitful and multiply and fill the whole earth." You cannot be fruitful when engaging in oral, that is using the wrong part of the body in a no-go-zone. People, eat, drink, worship God, pray to God and communicate with your mouths. No tongue goes onto someone's genital. Flee from evil desires and live a holy life (Hebrews 12:14).
Saider M grow up mate. You can’t get your wife pregnant by kissing her breasts either...does that mean it’s forbidden. You have a religious spirit.....come out in Jesus name.
@@callees8790 Yes it is wrong,breasts are there to feed babies not there to satisfied your own lust.
@@callees8790
Yes but kissing breasts can be a foreplay to real sexual intercourse than may be fertile.
Fertility and pregnancy are praised throughout the Bible.
We cannot deny it .
A woman’s breasts are meant for the pleasure of her husband for the purpose of getting both of them aroused sexually so that it will lead to sexual intercourse. Once a woman has delivered a child, her breasts also serve as a source of nourishment for her child. It is not wrong for a man to enjoy the breasts of his wife because they have both been united to become one flesh. If kissing the breasts or performing oral sex could help get the man aroused, it is definitely ok with God. Whatever is done in the marriage bed is between the couple and God. And God definitely wants us to bring sexual arousal to our spouse in order to enjoy his gift of sex to us.
I think another question would be from those who have already had sex before marriage and are already used to or expect oral sex before the act of intercourse. How then do we transform our minds and bodies to the will of God?
I just made a simple search in the dictionnary about sodomy and it’s explained as anal or oral sexual intercourse... Since it’s not practice even among animals, I stick with it as something not okay
Well said!
SEX SEX SEX!!!
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The lust of the flesh is ruling this world! This whole world is driven by sex, lust, and the increasing love of money (greed). The enemies greatest weapon of choice is sex and lust. He markets it in almost everything we see and hear. Most of todays music is sex lust or money driven. Most commercials, movies and videos we watch, predominantly condone fornication, lust, and lasciviousness. Like programmed robots people follow this agenda without question.
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Those who think they are better than others look down on their sins but think theirs are acceptable. A lot of straight folks look down on Gay/Lesbians because they see their sin as wrong, but at the end of the day all wicked lust of the flesh will send you to the lake of fire. Sexual Fornication (of any kind) is a sin against your own body and the LGBTQ (rstuvwxyz) ain't no different than fornication straight folks. Their sin is worse in Yahuah's eyes because its considered an abomination, but all sexual lustful behavior without the benifit of ---> BIBLICAL MARRIAGE ordained by Yahuah is a sin which will cause you to be cut off. So again, before you go jumpin down other folks throats about their sins, take a long look into your own because all of this casual heterosexual sex is gone land you in the same boat with the rest of the sexual fornicators.
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Sex was created for MARRIAGE and PROCREATION; not lustful recreation. It was NEVER suppose to be a casual sport. We have gotten so far away from the laws of the Most High, that many of us don't even know how to have sex correctly. Now days folks are doing all kinds of acrobats, lascivious deviant acts, all in order to keep the "fornication" exciting. THAT WAS NEVER THE INTENT OF INTERCOURSE! It was created for procreation first, and secondly for intimacy between a husband and wife (to knit their souls together as one).
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The lust of the flesh today has taken over just like it did with our wicked forefathers before us. Folks are seeking after large breast, big behinds, large genitals etc. We are falling into the same behavior as those before us who sought after these same things. They went looking for those who had the largest genitals way back then. Check it out...
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It says they lusted after their lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of stallions. He said, Thou hast also committed fornication (whoredom) with the Egyptians thy neighbours, with large genitals; and hast increased thy promiscuity, to provoke me to anger (Eze 23:20 and 16:26). Smdh. We are doing the same thing these days. Our people have become so base and common in these last days. We promote and sing about liciviousness and get mad when you call them on it.
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I remember growing up "knowing" that oral sex was unclean. No one sung about it nor bragged about doin it. We all knew that it was a heathen practice. But as wickedness increases, it is now widely accepted and considered a normal practice around this dying world. Even those who claim to be awake continue to partake in this behavior because they have become accustomed and descensatized to what they are bowing down to (Baal Peor), and don't consider the Most High's concerning lascivious practices.
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24 thousand of our forefathers were all slain for partaking in the practices of Baal Peor (lord or the opening). Yet does Israel even consider? Here we are again in these end times repeating these same lustful practices all over again. Baal Peor practices are celebrated. People brag about doing it.
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He said, I found Israel like grapes in the wilderness; I saw your fathers as the firstripe in the fig tree at her first time: but they went to Baalpeor, and separated themselves unto that SHAME; and their abominations were according as they loved. Israel joined himself unto Baalpeor: and the anger of Yahuah was kindled against Israel. 24 thousand died for bowing down to Baal Peor (Hosea 9:10 and Num 25:3-6). What have we learned from this? It seems like nothing! Our people continue to repeat the same sins over and over again.
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1 Cor 10:6, 11 says, "These things happened to them as ----> EXAMPLES to keep us from craving evil things as they did. They were written down as warnings for us, on whom the end of the world is come.
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Men/women are lusting after the FEELING from ALL KINDS of SEXUAL ACTIVITY, but hate the purpose it was created for---> which was LIFE. They wanna have all the sex they can without the benefit of marriage and bringing forth children. He said to go forth and multiply, yet a great majority use intercourse only for pleasure and children are often just an afterthought.
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Listen! Satan is programming your minds through lascivious musical lyrics, and pornographic images in subliminal commercials and movies. Everything is about pleasure. The truth is not popular anymore.
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Timothy said, this know also, that in the (when?)---> LAST DAYS perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves. Many shall be without natural affection (gay/lesbian). They will also be despisers of those that are good (won't wanna hear this truth). They will be ---> LOVERS OF PLEASURES more than lovers of Elohiym; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such he said TURN AWAY.
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They will be ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth (Read 2 Tim 3:3-8). This lust of the flesh issue is going to cause a great majority of our people NOT to make it into the kingdom. 1 Cor 6:9 makes this very clear. It says, "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of Yahuah? -----> Be not deceived: neither FORNICATORS (sexual), nor idolaters (Baal Peor worshipers), nor adulterers, nor effeminate (gays/lesbians and the rest), nor abusers of themselves with mankind etc,. NONE OF THESE SHALL SEE THE KINGDOM. So ask yourselves..... IS IT WORTH It CHILDREN OF ISRAEL???
Since when are we animals? you know animals eat each other, and have sex with the dead. So what do you say then?
Animals are not a suitable model for moral human behavior. Some animal engage in homosexual behavior. That does not make homosexuality moral for us. Similarly the things animals don’t do are not relevant to what is right or wrong for us.
Sex is GODS gift from him to us for a married couple,thank you for this video.
Not this kind of "sex"
This kind is from Satan.
@@masonnix9566 Explain to me how oral sex WITHIN the confines of marriage is from Satan???
@@saminates2002
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Heeelp, these are all risks, pleeease!!
Sorry, but it doesn't feel natural either. Look up the definition of sodomy.
I think you may be right, otherwise, we wouldn't feel guilty and dirty about oral sex.
Anal is not oral. Man, how do y'all not understand simple anatomy? How did you figure out to post on youtube?
@@JohnPMitten we feel guilty because we are conditioned by others to feel guilty.
Sodomy is not a word from the Bible. Its a made up term used as a synonim for oral and anal sex but its not in the Bible its a definition made by society not God
@@jarjardaze2485 have you read about Sodom and Gomorrah? Read why God decided to destroy them
God bless you for the great wisdom and brotherly love showed in this podcast
What a precious and freeing teaching
Thank you for your clarity, honesty and modesty in dealing with such a delicate issue. 🙏🏻👏👏👏👏
A true Christian will be lead by the holy spirit as to what is right from wrong.
Best answer i have ever heard to this question!
We are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God. We are being created with different body parts for different functions. The male and female parts are being created for 2 purposes, for procreation and for love and pleasure within a marriage. We as Christian's shouldn't even doubt for 1 min that oral sex is wrong. We should pray for a spirit of discernment. Our watchmen on the wall should stop sugar coating, being fearful for what people think of him.
Are you saying it's wrong. Just asking for clarity. Your statement, " We as Christian's shouldn't..." can be misunderstood.
@@sashabelle6007, it's wrong for everyone, but I'm specifically talking to Christians, cause if you're in the world, and don't have a personal relationship with Jesus, and don't read your Bible, asking God for a spirit of discernment, you might not understand
I think you meant "procreation" ?
@@katemercer1671 thanks. Yes you're right
This a perfect example of why I struggle with religion. Pastors/Ministers translate a lot of things in the Bible different ways. One says such and such verse means this. Another says no that verse means something else. When a person is struggling with faith, these type of things make it even more difficult.
Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and read the Bible for yourself. People are fallible. Stay blessed .
Gospel isnt a religion
The holy spirit doesn't confuse, seek Him
Remember all not some societies that have allowed oral sex have had to deal with homosexuality. Without oral sex, the man and his parts are necessary for the pleasing of the woman and the woman and her parts are necessary in the pleasing of the man. Once homosexuality enters the equation, all the other biblically condemned "alities" may enter the human experience. Let's remember that sex not only involves the natural. There's a spiritual connection as well. The connection is not based on whether the act of sex is warranted or even liked. In topics like sex (temporal act), we forget that we are spirits, which are eternal. So let's start today finding biblical ways to protect our children against the many tricks of the evil one.
It is evil.
It sounds like this topic has a lot of believers wound tightly. I'm not sure what conviction level individuals have and we shouldn't make light of anyone's convictions if their conscious deters them away from having oral sex with their spouse. However, a husband and wife are permitted to explore each other's bodies with their mouths in a mutually agreeable manner as they both see fit. Bringing "sin" into forms of physical intimacy, such as oral sex, causes confusion, undue stress, and even frustration when there is no Biblical restriction against this whatsoever.
I mean not to disturb my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, but we are imposing restrictions in a covenant marriage that don't exist.
Finally, someone with some common sense.
It's sad cause there are people on You Tube ministering the Bible and very good teachers but saying oral sex is wrong in marriage, I noticed the ones that said this are single people though? I almost started to feel it was wrong although I didn't feel convicted before, I know what I'm convicted about and the more I look at scripture and think about the fact that God said the two flesh become one and how the breasts are versitile for nursing a baby but also to satisfy your husband then it's natural that body parts can have versitile uses.
Yeah right! Bum-sniffing is pleasing to you? Do you lack food as to eat sperm? ewww ....how crude, base and abominable!
Isn’t that when you just talk about it?
Thank you Pastor John. You've handled this issue carefully. I am always for careful discussion and confession of issues at hand that a married christian face in his life, it's for accountability as well to make sure we are doing God's will. I agree with you it is not explicitly outrightly prohibited in the Bible but it should be handled very very carefully all in love, respect, purest thoughts and God glorifying situation in the context of Godly covenant which is marriage. This is one of the sensitive topics that christians face in the modern times but a lot of legalism for other christians that's why some avoid to talk about it. I prefer exposing it to the light in order to guide myself as well in my Christian walk. It's like elephant in the room, a lot of believers do it but consider it as taboo and does not talk about it to expose to the light to align what is first and foremost glorifying to God. I do not want to be hypocritical and say I am not doing it, I will and will only do it to my husband with all respect, love, purest thoughts of marital love and intimacy as one flesh... Thank you!!! Let's be kind! Love and peace everyone!!
Look up sodomy
JP explained it out perfectly and the fact of the matter is if you're not okay with doing it, then don't do it. That's okay. If you or your wife is okay with pleasure their husband or wife in such a way, then go for it! But don't go judging other married couples for doing it just because you don't find pleasure in it. It brings me pleasure to pleasure my wife and she does for me.
+@Anchored Alliance Evangelism
Nothing GOD gave his children, or suggested for them to emjoy can possibly be sinful when used within the boundaries He established - IF you think you can prove oral sex within marriage is a sin - TRY - You cannot.
So you are a liar, it seems. Of course I would withdraw that IF you could prove I was wrong - BUT I know you cannot.
YOU are LYING to justify your personal perversion of God's purpose for sexuality. A religious spirit - NOT a godly spirit is at the root of your rejection of God's Word. YOU want to be the arbiter of right and wrong - NOT God.
Did you bother to listen to Pastor John's truly great explanation?
Can you find any flaw in it based on scripture? NO!
NOTHING can possibly be sin when it pleases our Heavenly Father - when He created something for us to enjoy and when He wrote about our enjoyment of it - a whole book of passionate fantasy including oral sex - its in the BIBLE you know - NOT as a sin but as a suggestion for marital extacy. Our fantastic and exquisite bodies committed to passionate marital Bliss were DESIGNED by GOD for pleasure. And ONLY Oral sex will use everything GOD built into our bodies for that pleasure. YOU think you are smarter than GOD? Really?
PITY you know nothing about it.
"Aramaic Bible in Plain English
Do not deprive one another except when you both agree in a time which you devote to fasting and prayer, and you shall again return to pleasure, lest Satan tempt you because of the desire of your bodies."
When you can prove from SCRIPTURE that there is any sin involved in following scripture properly understood and in context - by a man and wife married under the ordinance of GOD - Please let me know -
YOU are the one teaching false doctrine - as Christians we get our rules for life from the scripture - NOT perverted human opinion. Like yours.
Scripture - or zip it!.
"@Paul Robinson dude just be quiet, you're a sin promoter. You aren't promoting righteousness at all. Save it."
@@paulrobinson9318 God never gave you perversion... you give it to yourselves. So be it. You don't know God at all... the Spirit and the scriptures bear witness against you. Seek God and His understanding. In Christ
@Barry Midikiner Well you make sure you do then.
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" @Paul Robinson God never gave you perversion..."
NOR have I ever participated in any perversion. My actions are limited to those that line up with the Revealed Word of God. I guess you have never studied Songs of Solomon? I have a 800 page commentary on that book alone - its meaning in Hebrew - the cultural understanding of the text 3000 years ago - etc - NONE of which you seem to have a clue about!!
"you give it to yourselves. So be it. "
YOU are simply lying - why I do NOT know.
"You don't know God at all..."
Actually - I do - and have for 50 years. I have ministered in all the gifts of the spirit - I have founded a successful miracle church - and been used by God in many ways in His kingdom - Like Paul I do NOT boast - BUT will defend my relationship with GOD from the ungodly and those that do NOT follow scriptures.
"The Spirit and the scriptures bear witness against you."
And again you lie. I rely upon the Bible and what I teach comes FROM it - YOU on the other hand do not - you teach your false revelations as IF it was from God - when YOU can find any place in the scriptures where I am in error - Please inform me - I will be anxious to hear . . .
"Seek God and His understanding. In Christ "
I have - BUT from your comments I have to assume that your private revelations are more important to you that God's thoughts on any subject.
@@paulrobinson9318 Just like a Lawyer devoid of spirit left to your own understanding or that of another feeding on the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. You shouldn't assume what you don't understand.
There’s nothing wrong with dressing modestly Because it keeps me from being tempted to want to do things with someone. There’s definitely nothing wrong with sex or oral sex as long as you’re married
Yeh but who to.you could've married and so can your neighbor's wife be married but your mot married to each other but you both married so if you're married I'd be v careful.
KJV Proverbs 30:20 Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.
NLT Proverbs 30:20 An adulterous woman consumes a man, then wipes her mouth and says, “What’s wrong with that?”
NIV Proverbs 30:20 “This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’
Hi there brother. We meet again :)
Leen Hey bro! Peace :) Hope you're doing good!
Brother Tris Oh boy am I haha :D Good would be quite the understatement. You have no idea. Well..maybe you do.
How about yourself?
Leen Praise the Lord, also an answer to prayer ;)
All good over here, bro... the Lord is moving in power. Keep watch though, for the days are evil. God bless you and stay close to Him :)
Where else would I go? :)
God bless you brother!
I respect you Pastor but that's a very deceptive explanation. I'm a Christian. I don't think Oral sex is okay. Thessalonians 4:3 said that it is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality, that each should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen who do not know God. Oral sex is a very dangerous sin. It is very clear in the bible. It was all started in Sodom and Gomorra that's why God punished them. And now people who makes porn video practice Oral Sex. Whether you are married or not it is immoral. The bible says that our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit so whoever destroy it will be punished by God. 1 Thessalonians 4:7 says for God did not call us to be impure but live a holy life. Verse 8, therefore he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, Who gives you His Holy Spirit. May Jesus enlighten all Christians in this matter. This is a very very complicated matter.
God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of anal sex not oral sex. If you're gonna try to tell people exactly what God thinks on his behalf, at least get your facts straight.
@Joel Kabuso why would there be sperm in her mouth when she is kissing her kids ?????
@Joel Kabuso You are simply lying.
While that definition is true today the ONLY implication in the BIBLE is sex between men.
No other possible definition exists.
So your definition is false.
Second you have your relationships confused. Having missionary position sex is sinful if you are not married.
IF you are married and in agreement there is little to nothing you could imagine that is off limits.
Certainly God would NOT declare oral sex to be sinful and give us a book dedicated to sexuality including several scenes of Oral Sex.
You seem utterly ignorant of Biblical sexuality and in that void make up all kinds of silly and self imposed rules that have NOTHING to do with Godliness.
Oral sex has been with us since the Garden and IF you want to look at this Biblically it's plain God endorsed it as one aspect of lovemaking.
It's the most natural thing in the world.
It makes no sense to enjoy caressing and kissing every part of your mares body except where it brings the greatest pleasure - pleasure designed into the Human body by a Gracious Creator.
@@jamesjet3163 the funny thing about these self defeating arguments against oral sex is their factual ignorance. The vaginas is far more sanitary than the mouth.
Sperms cannot survive in the mouth. They survive in the vaginas.
The risk of oral sex is the mouth contaminating the genitals and not the other way around.
@@Vixenallure365 false... it was because of injustice, murder, unfairness and same sex and orgies.
In the context of marriage all types of sex is okay, this question should not even be asked
Sodomy and perversion is not allowed within marriage. Webster's dictionary defines sodomy as anal, oral sex and bestiality. It could also mean any unnatural/ non reproductive sexual act as defined by other dictionaries so that would include toys, manual sex, using the pull out method ect. The Bible says no sodomite will enter the kingdom of heaven "Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? 'Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor [a]homosexuals, nor [b]SODOMITES, 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. " - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Notice how homosexuals and sodomites are used separately meaning they are two different things. Also from a logical point of view anal sex is wrong because it would be hypocritical of us Christians to try and stop the homosexuals from having sex but then we go do the exact same thing in our marriage beds. However lesbians can not have anal sex... They only have oral sex (as well as other unnatural sexual acts but for the sake of the discussion I'll just stick to oral sex) So if oral sex is okay then what exactly is wrong with lesbianism? Nothing! Why can't two lesbians who are married to each other have oral sex but we Christians can? That's also hypocritical. Either oral sex is allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples or it's not allowed for both lesbian and heterosexual couples.
Praying that the Lord might open your eyes to see the truth, God bless!