JUICY AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP Q&A

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  • @MindyMinx
    @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +515

    Hieeee guys! The first upload of this video was deleted from UA-cam due to the video stopping half way through for some including myself but was playing fine for others due to a glitch. I deleted the original upload completely because I want every viewer to have a chance to view the entire video not only 50%. Love you guys so much & thank you for your patience while I was re uploading. No changes were made to the content of the video.

    • @coffeebean725
      @coffeebean725 4 роки тому +15

      Mindy Minx hieeeeee! Hey I was just wondering if Larry could expand on how his family reacted next time you do a Q&A? Does he have any brothers, sisters, or parents he had to tell that he was nervous about the reaction? Love you guys!

    • @sydneydean1311
      @sydneydean1311 4 роки тому +5

      I love y'alls q &a's Please Do More!!!

    • @sydneydean1311
      @sydneydean1311 4 роки тому +11

      Next time y'all do an age gap q & a can Larry please talk about how his police officer coworkers reacted/ felt about the age gap? 😊

    • @samanthafrechette8952
      @samanthafrechette8952 4 роки тому +3

      You guys are so cute together ❤️

    • @luvpixiedustkimberly2484
      @luvpixiedustkimberly2484 4 роки тому +5

      I know it’s irrelevant, but I have always wondered about Larry’s ex. Like how long had he been single before you guys got together & if and when Bruce ever has children....will she be in the picture at the same time as you guys....like something that you will have to deal with or anything like that. Does that make sense?

  • @taylors.23
    @taylors.23 4 роки тому +4326

    Why was this recommended to me.... lol

  • @katharrington1220
    @katharrington1220 4 роки тому +4864

    this girl is making money off the fact that y’all think her relationship is weird lmao

    • @faithbetts4613
      @faithbetts4613 4 роки тому +71

      No she making money off as a UA-camr lol... your jeloues

    • @Quode001
      @Quode001 4 роки тому +10

      Good

    • @katharrington1220
      @katharrington1220 4 роки тому +80

      Faith Betts how am i jealous? lmao that’s a very bold assumption considering i never said anything negative

    • @donnabarden4494
      @donnabarden4494 4 роки тому +21

      Goody for them, lovely couple 🤩

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 4 роки тому +18

      She also gonna make money off the old hags death.

  • @Fry_Plantain
    @Fry_Plantain 4 роки тому +1340

    While I don’t really have an issue with their relationship, I DO have a problem with UA-cam putting this into my recommendations.... WTF UA-cam, why? Best of luck to you both tho 😂😂😂

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +66

      Thank you lol sorry we popped up in your recommended ✨😊

    • @Fry_Plantain
      @Fry_Plantain 4 роки тому +12

      Mindy Minx lmaooo. It’s cool

    • @cascadestars
      @cascadestars 4 роки тому +26

      @@Fry_Plantain once I got a recommendation for video about how to wash windows.
      .....I watched it

    • @Fry_Plantain
      @Fry_Plantain 4 роки тому +2

      cascadestars lmfaoooo

    • @trude8073
      @trude8073 4 роки тому +4

      UA-cam recommended a video on the people cleaning up a house after a crime scene, where they showed us how and what they do. I subscribed. 😂

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 роки тому +1284

    Even though there’s a big age gap, I think they’re on the same wavelength and compliment each other well

    • @AhmedXbox
      @AhmedXbox 4 роки тому +13

      Adnan A man your everywhere lol

    • @Jennifer-uh8th
      @Jennifer-uh8th 4 роки тому +1

      Are u following me? You are EVERYWHERE

    • @GeneralGorillaSonicOC
      @GeneralGorillaSonicOC 4 роки тому +3

      Usually age gaps in dating are proof gold diggers will do anything for money. If this guy died tomorrow make sure the both the police and life insurance agency investigate before forking over cash.

    • @sydneycohn6455
      @sydneycohn6455 3 роки тому +2

      There's no actual problem with an age gap relationship. Psychology understands that people initially view these relationships as being 'exploitive', because they falsely associate an unhealthy power dynamic conditioned by money, sex, or lifestyle. So they end up stereotyping the couple. Because of this initial wrong view, people can't imagine that this kind of relationship is based on shared values, beliefs, and interests. Bascially people are just confused and think that they're not.

    • @pdg61met
      @pdg61met 3 роки тому

      Wait about 5 to 7 years. Someone will be very unhappy.

  • @sweeterthanhic6430
    @sweeterthanhic6430 4 роки тому +337

    She’s really good with her words, careful how she says everything, & aware how anything COULD be offensive & it’s so genuine

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +25

      Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @stephaniebalog9207
      @stephaniebalog9207 4 роки тому +4

      I agree

    • @robertbrooks3007
      @robertbrooks3007 3 роки тому +4

      I noticed that as well. It’s so nice to see that and they both are just very respectful. All the best to you both !!

    • @janecoe9407
      @janecoe9407 7 місяців тому

      YES BUT THEY SEEM LIKE FRIENDS NOT MARRIED.

  • @laurenb1284
    @laurenb1284 4 роки тому +673

    " you would be surprised how many questions we get regarding the age gap" not surpising at all actually....

    • @saltandpepperandmint
      @saltandpepperandmint 4 роки тому +1

      Lauren Batterbee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 4 роки тому +4

      That’s the same thing I was saying. It’s so obvious that they would get hella questions about that

  • @AA28374
    @AA28374 4 роки тому +691

    Why are some of y’all judging? As long as everything is legal, consensual, and safe it doesn’t matter.

    • @kamisa7362
      @kamisa7362 4 роки тому +30

      @jake shepherd. Stop being ignorant. I dated someone way older than me for 10 years and it had nothing to do with money. I also never cheated on him and we were both in love.

    • @GeneralGorillaSonicOC
      @GeneralGorillaSonicOC 4 роки тому +2

      Usually age gaps in dating are proof gold diggers will do anything for money. If this guy died tomorrow make sure the both the police and life insurance agency investigate before forking over cash.

    • @AA28374
      @AA28374 4 роки тому +19

      General Gorilla “usually” huh? Where are your statistics to back up your ignorant statement? I have family members who are in age gap relationships, and they have been married 20 years, and love each other very much. Get over yourself and quit with the degrading assumptions on women.

    • @AA28374
      @AA28374 4 роки тому +7

      skies. “Weird” is subjective. That is only a matter of opinion

    • @RaquelNavas
      @RaquelNavas 4 роки тому +6

      I agree with you they deserve to be happy.

  • @jesiyadigg
    @jesiyadigg 2 роки тому +85

    This relationship truly is a diamond in the ruff. They’re so wholesome. Larry doesn’t have a single creepy bone in his body.
    Im embarrassed to admit that the age gap relationships I’ve witnessed, the old man is creepy and perverted. They constantly want their ego fed. They’d take any young body they find sexy. And the young girls that will deal with a man like that do it for money and gifts.
    Larry is confident in his skin, he doesn’t have an ego to feed. He respects Mindys mind, body, and soul. He doesn’t treat her like a child or as though he’s above her. They have mature, adult conversations where they speak to each other as equals. Literally everything about their relationship is the opposite of the stigma that age gap relationships have, especially with an older man and young woman. They’re singlehandedly breaking the stigma and giving other age gap couples the confidence to embrace their love regardless of any judgement.
    I know this comment is a lot. It’s just so refreshing to have my mind cleansed from the image of creeps with beautiful, usually broken girls hanging a dollar over her head to have his way with her, and turn her into his accessory.

    • @vee6411
      @vee6411 Рік тому +2

      Exactly, sometimes you don’t get to decide who you fall for. Larry seems like he genuinely loves her and they have spoke about how they met, which was coincidental. I think the creepy old guys usually prey on younger women, and that is all they go for. So I completely agree with you.

  • @xDreamer17
    @xDreamer17 4 роки тому +502

    My parent are 20 years apart and they’re happily married since 30 years... and my boyfriend and I are 17 years apart and we’re deeply in love since 3 years.. age has never been an issue to us thankfully

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +16

      Wishing all of you the best🥰✨

    • @Flores324
      @Flores324 4 роки тому +6

      Dang

    • @Kavyathegreat
      @Kavyathegreat 4 роки тому +4

      @@Flores324
      .. 👀

    • @TheDougSpot
      @TheDougSpot 4 роки тому +4

      Let me guess, in both cases the man is the older one

    • @bimalkumarsahadev8824
      @bimalkumarsahadev8824 4 роки тому +5

      @@TheDougSpot
      Look at the great relationships between the French President and his former teacher who is 25 yrs elder to him!And read about and watch the platonic love between the Greek Piano Maestro Yaani and his beloved wife 16 years his senior and among sports stars: one of the most famous cricket genius in the last few decades Sachin Tendulkar who fell in love with a doctor 8 years older than him while he was undergoing treatment in a hospital when he was just 19 or 20 and married her later & living happily even at the age of 42 & 50 now, with their two teenage children. So large age gap marriages are not only taking place between older men marrying younger women but the other way too...DGLS_Official..!!

  • @lilykeidel9421
    @lilykeidel9421 3 роки тому +143

    My parents are 15 years apart!! My mom had me at 40 so my dad was 55 when he became a dad (I’m currently 15). And all I can say is that older dads are THE BEST! I know you guys are going through your IUI journey right now, and I’m so incredibly excited to see y’all become parents. You mentioned in this video that it’s “now or never” for Larry when it comes to having another child. I hope that Larry isn’t afraid of aging while raising this kid. My dad being an older dad was truly the best thing ever. I never ever wished that my dad was young like all my friends dads, in fact it never once crossed my mind. My dad unfortunately passed away in November of 2019 after a battle with cancer, and he would have just turned 71❤️ Although I only had 14 years with him and my time with him was cut short, he has shown me enough love to last me the rest of my life. Larry, I promise you that age is just a number ESPECIALLY when you’re a parent. OLDER DADS ROCK!! Best of luck to you both as you prepare for this baby :)

    • @Samahra01
      @Samahra01 3 роки тому +11

      This is the sweetest comment on earth! This is how we should view our lives! God never promised that this life would be easy but focusing on what we have been given..our blessings-helps! You're in my prayers! Love from Mpls!

    • @lilykeidel9421
      @lilykeidel9421 3 роки тому

      @@Samahra01 thank you so much!

    • @marykyzer4373
      @marykyzer4373 2 роки тому +1

      I agree that older dad's a great my mom is 47 and my dad would of been 75 if he was still here

    • @caydence808
      @caydence808 Рік тому +3

      Such a sweet sweet comment! So happy you were so well loved by your dad that it will last a life time. Beautiful.

    • @HoischenFA
      @HoischenFA Рік тому +1

      Wonderful words! You're so right!

  • @jessieg1107
    @jessieg1107 2 роки тому +65

    I'm in a 31 year age gap (28 + 59) and it's nice to know there are others out there that are experiencing the same thing. Thanks for creating this platform so others can find and relate to xx

    • @Celinexdp
      @Celinexdp 2 роки тому +1

      Please can I ask advice 🙏🏻 I am 19 and my bf is 39. His family loves me and we are really happy together. But I haven’t told my family or parents because I know they will NOT approve and they will be harsh. How can I bring it to you then in the best way and deal with their criticism?

    • @pariahazul8653
      @pariahazul8653 Рік тому

      @@Celinexdp At the end of the day it shouldn’t matter what they think at this point. As long as he’s serious about a relationship with you cares about you that’s all that matters

    • @juliebaxter3564
      @juliebaxter3564 Рік тому

      @@Celinexdp Be frank with your family. I kept my relationship secret for too long now we're getting married. Your family may also know. At 19 you are classed as an adult so hope they qre ok with your news.

  • @alsmyth5251
    @alsmyth5251 4 роки тому +415

    This came up in my recommended and I was like "oh god here we go this is gonna be weird" lol but actually they seem like a sweet and normal couple.

  • @laceandtullebysamira
    @laceandtullebysamira 4 роки тому +224

    Please remember that you can adopt, there are so many children out there that need a home. A child does not need to be a biological child to be able to love them as if they were your own. That love can grow to be so great and deep for that child just like you fall in love with someone.

    • @jaxl1931
      @jaxl1931 4 роки тому +8

      I completely agree. Someone told me its expensive and can be quite difficult to actually adopt even if you have a stable home.

    • @nomiromi3
      @nomiromi3 4 роки тому +17

      Samira Reyes some people just want a child that can they themselves produced if that’s the right word lol i personally will defo want my own biological children x

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 роки тому +2

      There’s actually an age limit to adopt from foster care though.

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 роки тому

      101sanford what?

    • @MousyLeigh
      @MousyLeigh 4 роки тому

      101sanford I’m not sure what that has to do with my comment. I was simply telling the other commenter that there are age requirements when you adopt a child from foster care.

  • @OnCamWithCami
    @OnCamWithCami 4 роки тому +145

    Honestly I’m not bothered by age gaps as long as both members are consenting adults, and that there was no previous predatory behavior/grooming! Rooting for you guys!💓

  • @sizzle8547
    @sizzle8547 4 роки тому +516

    I almost cried when he said “i could be ruining your life”

    • @ruthlessfairy
      @ruthlessfairy 4 роки тому +47

      My partner also said this to me multiple times (we are 20 years apart). It's so sweet and comforting to know that these men actually exist.

    • @tabethmureya8137
      @tabethmureya8137 4 роки тому +5

      Same... I felt that 💔

    • @jamiehorwitz1227
      @jamiehorwitz1227 4 роки тому +40

      He’s not “ruining your life.” It’s your decision who you want to be with. And you choose him.

    • @rebeccadebrier7442
      @rebeccadebrier7442 4 роки тому +12

      My husband has said that to me more than once. He’s 18 years older than I am.

    • @aylamiller5752
      @aylamiller5752 3 роки тому +4

      I know and he looked so sad :( it makes me think about the fact that if I date people that are much older than me they'll always have that guilt in the back of their head for something that isnt their fault.

  • @USER.__777
    @USER.__777 4 роки тому +96

    Y’all vibe so well together and the fact that he cares about your wants and your family’s wants speaks volumes! I completely support age gap relationships if there was no grooming involved!

  • @mariaphares4783
    @mariaphares4783 4 роки тому +147

    Aww, Larry made me cry when he was talking about kids and how it would affect people, like her parents. You can see how much he loves her. You guys are way too cute and sweet. ❤️

  • @cwilkGMCR
    @cwilkGMCR 4 роки тому +588

    “You don’t need a pill, trust me.”
    😂😂😂 HECK YEAH, LARRY!

  • @fatimagracem-
    @fatimagracem- 4 роки тому +49

    not in a gap relationship but i watched this entire thing just to be informed, and not reminisce in the “ignorance is bliss” mindset so that when i do witness one or anything in that realm, i won’t be so quick to judge but rather be more open to understanding them.

  • @emilymohrmann236
    @emilymohrmann236 4 роки тому +191

    My husband and I are 19 years apart. He is my best friend and I don’t know where I would be without him.

    • @bayonna1810
      @bayonna1810 4 роки тому +10

      the age doesn’t matter as long as there’s love and support and u have that strong relationship that makes him ur best friend not only ur husband everything is so amazing ☺️ also me and my husband are 11 years apart 🙂

    • @mrmanq9517
      @mrmanq9517 3 роки тому

      The wisdom of an older man is a MUST in a womans life

  • @jackson2556
    @jackson2556 4 роки тому +165

    I am personally not bothered by age gap relationships, as long as all partners are happy it's non of my business 💖

  • @Silvia-vg7zr
    @Silvia-vg7zr 4 роки тому +293

    My parents have a 21 years age gap and are still happily married. My mom is 53 and my dad is 74. They met when my mom was 19, and no my dad is not rich so it wasn’t about the money

    • @santaemin2993
      @santaemin2993 4 роки тому +2

      Silvia Sfriso 😱😱

    • @itsmarcia7519
      @itsmarcia7519 4 роки тому +30

      My dad is 83 and my mother if she was still alive she would be 60. I'm currently 18. But I wish my dad was younger because sometimes it's really hard for me to communicate with him.

    • @willgaff3183
      @willgaff3183 4 роки тому +5

      My mum 43 my dad 72 😂

    • @Randompotatoes-qs7bm
      @Randompotatoes-qs7bm 4 роки тому +4

      It's Marcia I’m sorry, that’s the thing that all these selfish people don’t think about. :(

    • @vgrayz6628
      @vgrayz6628 4 роки тому +3

      @@itsmarcia7519 this is the main reason why people should not have that much of a bigger age gap

  • @filipinaamericancouple144
    @filipinaamericancouple144 4 роки тому +15

    My husband and I is 23 years age gap.. he's the sweetest man I've meet. We both love each other we enjoy life to the fullest..

  • @nora_ray
    @nora_ray 4 роки тому +404

    "You don't need a 💙 pill when you're with someone that looks like her." DaAwE😍🥰 Get It Larry!!

  • @hollylangford24
    @hollylangford24 4 роки тому +157

    I’m 26 and my husbands 43. We have been married for 3 years and have a perfect baby girl ❤️
    Edit- I just want to say to anyone thinking about replying to this with something disgusting and false like some already have, I own a company (on my own), I’m financially comfortable (on my own) and I fell in love with my husband when he was working an average job and I was working an average job. Our daughter was fully planned after a year of being married, and we subsequently lost our 2nd child (who was also very much planned) during pregnancy complications a few months ago. Nothing about our relationship has been fake nor forced nor for anything other than love.
    To anyone thinking age gaps are wrong, if you met the love of your life, your dream person, but they were younger/older than you, would you say no to forever with them? Because if your answer is yes, then you don’t truly love them. Love is unconditional. I hope everyone finds what I’ve got with my marriage ❤️

  • @millireay6738
    @millireay6738 3 роки тому +54

    I’m 30 and my husband is 54. I swear I’m the grownup in the relationship. I cannot keep up with him. Lol. Would love to get to know another awesome couple like us! 😈💜

    • @DianaRodriguez-fi1mt
      @DianaRodriguez-fi1mt 3 роки тому +5

      My husband and I been together for 9 years now we have 2 beautiful children and we have a 23 yrs difference

    • @kurlykaitlyn
      @kurlykaitlyn 3 роки тому +7

      Id love to do that! I have a 30yr gap. we’ve been happy for almost 10years. I don’t care what other people think. I have the most fun in my life with him. And I love him more every year

  • @bri9734
    @bri9734 Рік тому +2

    “Larry can’t have kids.” Fast forward to now ♥️♥️♥️

  • @emelien4489
    @emelien4489 4 роки тому +66

    It's 28 years between me and my fiance, I'm in my 20s and he in his 40s. We have been together for almost 3 years, and he is truly the love of my life. Thank you for being a wonderful couple that inspire others.

    • @fabulouzD
      @fabulouzD 4 роки тому +6

      Emelie N that’s nice to hear. I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 43 .

    • @prnst4r
      @prnst4r 4 роки тому +4

      He must be hot, probably looks younger than what he is and probably wealthy too.

    • @prnst4r
      @prnst4r 4 роки тому +3

      @@fabulouzD He must be hot, probably looks younger than what he is and probably wealthy too.

    • @nondumisogasser7155
      @nondumisogasser7155 4 роки тому

      @@fabulouzD stop.

    • @nondumisogasser7155
      @nondumisogasser7155 4 роки тому

      @@fabulouzD girl...a guy 10 years older but this be pushing it.

  • @laurene1389
    @laurene1389 4 роки тому +33

    You two are so genuine and lovely. Regarding having kids Mindy, remember that even if you were with a spouse your own age, there are no guarantees it would be easy to have a child then either! There are no guarantees, the most important thing is to have a stable marriage and you clearly do. You are both going to be wonderful parents together, I wish you all the luck!

  • @jessicaqu
    @jessicaqu 3 роки тому +14

    I’m of Mindy’s age, and can totally empathize with her. Proud of you guys for staying strong and living your best life.

  • @devonw9891
    @devonw9891 4 роки тому +22

    I think UA-cam is spying on me lmao...that is the ONLY explanation as to how this appeared in my recommendations. The two of you are lovely!

  • @laraann3252
    @laraann3252 4 роки тому +82

    You two are the literal sweetest people on the planet🥺💗

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +1

      Lara Ann Thank you🥰❤️

  • @LoveHopeFaith90
    @LoveHopeFaith90 4 роки тому +47

    I'm in a 22 year age gap relationship! I'm 30 and he's 52 and we are the happiest we have ever been! Age is merely a number! Love you guys so much!!!!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +4

      Brilynn90 Yay! Sending you both love🥰 Thank you for your support!❤️

  • @Momandwife04
    @Momandwife04 4 роки тому +380

    To everyone who has a problem with their relationship, why don’t you keep scrolling? Stop being so judgmental. If she’s happy that’s all that matters.

    • @BrendaHernandez-pg5xp
      @BrendaHernandez-pg5xp 4 роки тому +3

      Yes!!!

    • @Maeve2001
      @Maeve2001 4 роки тому +4

      No problem with it at all and I’m glad that they found each and super happy for them however, I just don’t think they’ve considered when she’s 60 and still wanting to travel and enjoy life, he’ll be 90 if he even makes it that long. I think it’s sad to think about 😐

    • @spanishcaramel7
      @spanishcaramel7 4 роки тому

      ..and him (if they BOTH happy)

    • @Momandwife04
      @Momandwife04 4 роки тому

      spanishcaramel7 that’s what I meant

    • @Momandwife04
      @Momandwife04 4 роки тому

      spanishcaramel7 he is happy too

  • @desi83
    @desi83 4 роки тому +27

    I’m so glad I found you guys. I’m in an age gap relationship as well. 24 year age gap. 17 years together! I’m 36 now, he’s 60. You have no idea how much I appreciate y’all’s videos 🥰🥰🤗🤗

  • @hotelblud6701
    @hotelblud6701 4 роки тому +234

    My boyfriend is only 8 years older than me but it’s still a big difference to some people

    • @amandac8836
      @amandac8836 4 роки тому +2

      Same, especially since the last person I was with was 2 years younger than me, having someone who is 8 years older now is a big change for me

    • @LBR19530
      @LBR19530 4 роки тому +10

      Mine is 8 years older than me too and it’s honestly not weird at all. People are so judgmental

    • @danabxoxo379
      @danabxoxo379 4 роки тому +5

      Mine is 6 yrs older and is of a different race and ppl look at us weird... but I really don’t care ppl my age are not srs about life!

  • @salmaba3229
    @salmaba3229 4 роки тому +91

    This man is a precious gentleman

  • @roadschoolerusa9621
    @roadschoolerusa9621 4 роки тому +15

    I like it when someone asked about “older will be gone sooner” and you answered nope coz we don’t know when and what age we’ll be gone.Some are sick but they’ll still alive,and there’s are healthy people but gone due to accident.So that’s a positive thought about having a big age gap.

  • @kellynemecek5894
    @kellynemecek5894 4 роки тому +9

    My dad and stepmom are 14 years apart, and they are so great together. I’m so happy they have each other, and to have such a wonderful stepmom in my life.

  • @sherribaldwin2239
    @sherribaldwin2239 4 роки тому +85

    I think you guys are such a great couple! I think Mindy is an “old soul” and Larry seems to be “young at heart” (he likes Harry Potter, collectibles, etc). I think that makes you both meet I’m the middle and makes you guys a perfect match ❤️

  • @katiemarie4651
    @katiemarie4651 4 роки тому +82

    I've been watching you guys for a while now . All I see is two people who love and adore each other 🤷‍♀️❤

    • @AndreyaWryght
      @AndreyaWryght 4 роки тому +2

      That's the first thing I noticed. The way they look at each other ❤️❤️👌true love right there

  • @kristen_xoxos4143
    @kristen_xoxos4143 4 роки тому +9

    I'm so glad to see someone on UA-cam that's in a age gap relationship. I'm 28 and my bf of almost 6 years is 55 and it's been the best relationship I've ever had.

  • @1journal2catstea39
    @1journal2catstea39 4 роки тому +33

    I am 14 years younger than my boyfriend. He is the most amazing person. I want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is so smart and so sweet and so generous. If I cry he cries with me. I cannot imagine life without him. I am happy for you two. 😊

    • @bibtii9691
      @bibtii9691 4 роки тому

      1journal2cats &tea So are my parents they are still together after 24 years :) It works just like every relationship as long as there is communication, happiness, love and trust, the relationship is functioning 😊

  • @justcauseimcute
    @justcauseimcute 4 роки тому +12

    Hahaha I love Larrys facial expressions ! So cute - you can really tell he try’s to be so involved and enthusiastic ! It’s awesome.

  • @tarabelleenoch3305
    @tarabelleenoch3305 4 роки тому +45

    “We deal with our battles as they come.” ❤️

  • @Jaxxie1981
    @Jaxxie1981 4 роки тому +69

    I'm 39 and my husband is 55. My husband worries that he'll be a burden when I'm still feeling youthful, but I love him so much it doesn't matter to me.

    • @selgomezfan1rcw
      @selgomezfan1rcw 4 роки тому +14

      Thats not a bad age gap though

    • @suseysoll448
      @suseysoll448 4 роки тому +8

      16 years is not that little actually

    • @umut967
      @umut967 4 роки тому +3

      You are a real woman, your husband is lucky

    • @BrookeMonroe
      @BrookeMonroe 4 роки тому

      Awwww 🥰🥺

    • @mikafreak1
      @mikafreak1 4 роки тому +1

      My boyfriend and I are 15 years apart. Love him so much!!

  • @theswiftvet7107
    @theswiftvet7107 4 роки тому +21

    My parents have a 30 year age gap ... and they had me naturally! So it's definitely possible, don't lose hope guys! Love you forever and always. Love knows no boundaries, that's what makes it so beautiful

    • @theswiftvet7107
      @theswiftvet7107 4 роки тому

      @@chocona3639 its definitely true! My parents are very happy together. I think every relationship has highs and lows.

  • @johnhammond2123
    @johnhammond2123 4 роки тому +6

    My girlfriend and I are are 21 years apart and it's nice to see we aren't alone so thank you so much! We are now expecting a baby! We had a miscarriage last year and we got pregnant a year exactly after the miscarriage. Such a blessing!

  • @shelby5781
    @shelby5781 4 роки тому +26

    Love these Q and As! My husband and are 21 years apart and doctors told us we would probably never conceive and we have a 19 month old daughter now ❤️ it CAN happen and just try to keep the faith. Love you guys and you’d be great parents.

  • @amy2565
    @amy2565 4 роки тому +7

    This video is so heartwarming, there's a 20 year gap between me and my partner ,we have been together 2 years and are now engaged, it's disgusting how rude and insulting strangers can be looking in from the outside in ,stay awesome guys ,you look great together 🥰

    • @AmericanDreamer
      @AmericanDreamer 6 місяців тому

      Hi, Amy! Are you guys still together? Did you marry? I wish you both a great 2024 💛 and a lot of joy and love! 💛 I hope you dont mind sharing with me - how to go about if your older bf's (he is 19, almost 20 y older than me, so same as you and your boyfriend ) friends do not really accept and include you? I mean, they are civil to me, but not more than that and dont rly want to befriend me genuinely, just for the sake of my bf do they act civil (that's really the most accurate word ) -hi, how are you, bye! I would love to become part of their group/friendship, but it is not happening, somehow it doesn't click and it has caused a lot of heart ache on my side. They all are in their mid/ late 40ies and early 50ies. So I get it - they are not used to having much younger friends. For me the gap has never been a problem, coz all my life I have always dealt better with older people, better connection overall and I am used to having older friends. But they seem to be very off put by something, I am guessing it is the age gap -both mine and my bf's and age gap between me and them. I gather they do not want to accept me coz of that and also coz i come from another country and i do not yet speak the local language altho you can not be fluent and still show positive curiosity and want to get to know your good friend's partner. right? I have had the weirdest cutest Google translator conversations with people and it results in lot of fun in the process and really communicating despite that! Like it should be more about connecting not about dismissing someone based on the language! (recently I found out that many of them are very good at English but they been avoiding to use it with me and refused to talk, so we could not have convos when at party/hangout. And my bf has known it all along that they are capable of English convos and he has said nothing! They rly like my bf and so I am puzzled, why their immediate reaction is like it is..Bwsed on what? My bf doesn't seem to care, not also concerned about why such distant attitudes from them. He is well accepted and that is enough for him. If they came to know me and see that I'm, let's say, bad for my bf, then that would be legit, but they have not tried to get to know who am I, they literally don't know me and about me, except whatever scarps my bf has shared with them!! ! So ...what is going on...He seems uninterested so I let it go but it bothers me deeply. They just act excluding in various ways and because they sweet talk him (especially one of his besties) it escapes his notice..can you pls give me some advise? it has been hurtful, friends means very much to him, since his parents are dead for years..i dont mind his friends at all, just sad because he puts them first and somehow is not even troubled that this is the dynamic between us and that they act like that..it would bother the hell out of me.. in lip service they talk friendly about (!) me, but in deed and when my bf is not around - they dont wanna talk to me. i dont want to make things worse than they are. it has been this way ever since i first met them. I appreciate any insights. Me and him are currently on the very brink of break up 💔😬 It has been a tough ride.

  • @jemmamckee4907
    @jemmamckee4907 4 роки тому +2

    This video and the comments especially have helped me a lot. I’m in a 13 year (and a few months) gap with someone who is absolutely amazing. He is much healthier than me and looks the same age as me but, I struggled ever since we got engaged in May 2019. After watching this video, I feel a weight lifted. Thank you & much love.

  • @shadeofjade2040
    @shadeofjade2040 4 роки тому +28

    Life decisions from a person with more experience is a benefit to your relationship for sure!

  • @autumnross6647
    @autumnross6647 4 роки тому +13

    I absolutely love you guys! I am 29 and In a 18 year gap relationship with the absolute love of my life. So nice to be able to relate to someone!

  • @TM-tw1py
    @TM-tw1py Рік тому +2

    I think much of society tells us that age gap relationships are not good, but the reality is a nice gap is age is a very healthy functional thing in a relationship.

  • @MarkandJoey
    @MarkandJoey 3 роки тому +14

    Loved this video! We’re in a 19 age gap relationship, and it’s always nice to see other couples share their love for each other.

  • @brendaflores1532
    @brendaflores1532 4 роки тому +60

    Oh my God! I'm also in an age gap relationship and the things Larry said about "ruining your life" is something my boyfriend says, I thought it was something that just happened to us. Thanks for this video! I appreciate you speaking so openly.
    Sending you lots of love from Mexico ♡

    • @emilyann3840
      @emilyann3840 4 роки тому +5

      My boyfriend says the same about “holding me back” because I have “so much more life to live”, so I’m super glad it’s not just us too!!

  • @Swedishgrl360
    @Swedishgrl360 2 роки тому +6

    I know you might not see this bc this is an older video BUT videos like this one and couples like you and Larry has been so helpful for me in my new age gap relationship. I was WAY better prepared for some difficulties that i wouldn’t have been if i hadn’t followed you and your relationship before. Thank you for sharing your beautiful love and journey 🥰

  • @nicolasrivera3733
    @nicolasrivera3733 4 роки тому +56

    Y’all are so adorable and tbh I wish more people would come out about their age gap. I was in a 35 year age gap and was deeply in love but the pressure from society and family kind of pressed us apart. Thanks for sharing your amazing story. 😇

    • @raghavnamasivayam5098
      @raghavnamasivayam5098 2 роки тому +1

      well how old were you
      well how was old was your gf
      If you dont mind

  • @marymay6387
    @marymay6387 3 роки тому +8

    I honestly love you two! I have been in a relationship with a man 2x my age for almost 5 months. I'm 27, he's 52. But I don't feel like the age makes any difference besides the life experience he has that I havent had yet. No kids, no divorces, life is so easy and fun and romantic. Most of our friends and family have been supportive, we both just love the other for who we are and are so happy! Thanks for posting your life and letting people realize that being in love doesn't require you to be a certain age!!! 🥰

  • @NS-s951
    @NS-s951 4 роки тому +98

    The way he looks at her is so beautiful

  • @Bailster
    @Bailster 4 роки тому +31

    You are a beautiful couple. Love should have no barriers or restrictions - it’s about the person that fits your heart and soul as much as you for theirs. Thank you for being so open about your “unconventional” relationship as to help open minds and inspire discussions. It’s 2020. Time to embrace humanity - raw, imperfect, unexpected and beautifully organic.
    Stay you! You’re an inspiration! ❤️

  • @rainbowliann
    @rainbowliann 4 роки тому +35

    She is such an old soul ❤️ I can see why they click.

  • @Na-jx2vg
    @Na-jx2vg 3 роки тому +3

    This made me full so much more validated. UA-camrs like you make my life feel so much more supported and valid! its inspiring to me and I appreciate it so much

  • @poteetdana
    @poteetdana 4 роки тому +15

    You can see and feel the love that you guys have for each other. Continue to share your precious journey with all of us. Love ya'll.

  • @juliecameron4171
    @juliecameron4171 4 роки тому +15

    Loved this video!!! ♥️ me and my fiancé Gary who are 28 yrs apart, we have twin boys and are getting married June 27th this year and watching you two and how comfortable you are in public makes me more confident to do the same. 😊 I just love y’all

    • @kurlykaitlyn
      @kurlykaitlyn 3 роки тому +3

      Yasss!!! In the first few years I was scared and ashamed but we would go on trips and wouldn’t worry and have such a time!! 30yr gap but strangers always saw we were a couple because our energy and dynamic with eachother. I’m almost 10years of being with this man and I can’t imagine myself being with anyone else to make me this happy

  • @kaylagreene7688
    @kaylagreene7688 Рік тому +3

    I am going back and watching your older videos, and I just love Larry’s love and compassion for you. How he thought more
    About you than himself, so selfless than anything else. It speaks volumes of his character and love for you. You two are just wonderful wish we could meet you.

  • @sarahsalsa2461
    @sarahsalsa2461 4 роки тому +5

    There's an age gap between my boyfriend and I.
    People freak out about it.
    Ultimately, no matter what other people say or think, it's NOT their relationship and it doesn't impact their lives at all tbh, so it shouldn't really cause so much direct hate and backlash. Its sad that people can't just let people be happy and live their version of happy.
    Good luck to you both! May love fill your lives forever. ❤

  • @bri9266
    @bri9266 4 роки тому +26

    When I first started watching y'all I was so happy to know and see there were other couples out there in an age Gap relationship like my husband and I, and felt less like an outcast/alone. So glad y'all are so open and sharing y'all's story. ❤️

    • @brittanyholtgreven4106
      @brittanyholtgreven4106 4 роки тому +6

      Same!! Turning 28 here on Feb. 1st and my husband just turned 49 last month. Been together 6yrs and I didn't know anyone else my age in an age gap relationship until Mindy

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +4

      Bri GJM You’re definitely not alone❤️ sending you love✨

  • @dollyramos367
    @dollyramos367 4 роки тому +24

    Me and my husband are 20 years apart we have two beautiful girls and life couldn’t be any better. ❤️❤️love your videos

  • @kirstenanderson4543
    @kirstenanderson4543 4 роки тому +8

    Thank you for putting yourself and your relationship out there! I'm with a man 24 years older and it's been such a confidence boost to see people in similar situations. Much love.

    • @raghavnamasivayam5098
      @raghavnamasivayam5098 2 роки тому

      well how old are you if you dont mind

    • @rosechild3118
      @rosechild3118 Рік тому +1

      Same here. We are 22 years apart. Sometimes I have to smile when I see people starring at us

  • @MadiHearts
    @MadiHearts 4 роки тому +4

    I just wanted to say I’ve watch a bunch of your videos because of Barcroft tv. You’ve actually changed my mind on age gap relationships. I’m so happy for you both and I’m sending you prayers and good vibes for a happy, healthy baby in your future.❤️

  • @marissamurray7610
    @marissamurray7610 4 роки тому +13

    I’m 25 and my husband 49. We have three beautiful kids and the happiest ever. I have found the live of my life and soulmate with an age gap. ❤️

    • @isybahhm1069
      @isybahhm1069 4 роки тому

      Dude is going to be 67 when they graduate high school lmao

  • @water2wine1
    @water2wine1 4 роки тому +49

    My dad and I spent a lot of time together. I am single and my mother passed when he was 63. People always assumed we were a couple so I had the opposite. He got to where he would quickly say I was his daughter. 😂 as soon as that was said I could see the relief on people’s faces.

    • @LifeBeingDest
      @LifeBeingDest 4 роки тому +4

      water2wine1 bro same lmao hella awkward

    • @Sapphireia
      @Sapphireia 4 роки тому +1

      Yeees I traveled a lot with my dad when I was about 14 and my dad was 47. People asked if we were on honeymoon...

    • @abbigail.a
      @abbigail.a 4 роки тому

      Literally same, it was incredible annoying 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @christino3852
      @christino3852 4 роки тому

      water2wine1 I’ve had people assume me and my dad were a couple too. The first time the woman I talked to just said “oh well, you can never be too careful!” and I thought it was sweet 😊 Never felt I saw any relief on her face.

  • @abygaelthompson3105
    @abygaelthompson3105 4 роки тому +131

    I'm a little concerned why this popped up on my recommendation list lolol

  • @heatherbaron5835
    @heatherbaron5835 4 роки тому +4

    This was randomly in my recommended, but I love it! I’m in a 17 year gap relationship and it’s the happiest I’ve been!

  • @rebeccastreet1563
    @rebeccastreet1563 4 роки тому +13

    Your relationship gives me a sense of security and stability due to his age he has wisdom. ❤️

  • @treniesablunt
    @treniesablunt 4 роки тому +21

    Hello from fl my hubby is 55 I'm 35 and I love him more then life itself... people question our relationship because of it and for tiny period I did 2.... keep doing what u do

  • @caitlin5508rules
    @caitlin5508rules 4 роки тому +3

    My boyfriend is 12 years older than me and it’s 50/50 on how family and friends feel about it. I love watching you two because I know age doesn’t matter, but it’s nice seeing another couple with an age Gap who is as happy as ever ❤️

  • @jamaicangirl8789
    @jamaicangirl8789 4 роки тому +9

    I love the way Larry looks at his wife, omg he is so in love with her. I love you guys so much!

    • @junecooper4688
      @junecooper4688 2 роки тому

      They compliment each other don't they and Mindy's so happy and talkative,she's a joy to watch

  • @SugarSpiceHomemadeWithLove
    @SugarSpiceHomemadeWithLove 4 роки тому +71

    older man are way matured,sweet and caring... based on my friends..

    • @summoner1032
      @summoner1032 4 роки тому +7

      If you met me, you'd change your mind lol Don't generalise, that's how the oldies will take advantage of you.

    • @carlhelmer-jensen4661
      @carlhelmer-jensen4661 4 роки тому

      Often women won't date the older man so he'll prey on the young, naive woman with less income. (Not saying this about Larry but just to be aware please...)

    • @johnj9976
      @johnj9976 4 роки тому

      @@carlhelmer-jensen4661 Guess my age? My age is *changeable* I'm riding my *bicycle* my body is *unbreakable* my thoughts are *abnormal* I'm not an *animal* I'm *normal* I have classical *clavicle* it's pretty *touchable* I'm able to *freestyle* I'm not *grime* but I kinda look like *one* & I'm *done*

    • @roadschoolerusa9621
      @roadschoolerusa9621 4 роки тому

      Sugar & Spice TV true and they won’t reallly make drama like younger guys.

    • @jesuislapluie695
      @jesuislapluie695 4 роки тому

      And... Old. 🤦‍♀️

  • @natw6910
    @natw6910 4 роки тому +43

    I was thinking “wow, I’m sure I watched this earlier” 😂 but saw from your Instagram why you needed to upload it again!! Hieeee from the UK ❤️

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому +2

      Nat W haha very true! Hieeee & thanks for watching!

    • @zaingillanizain2901
      @zaingillanizain2901 4 роки тому

      Very sweet discussion!

    • @tarac4555
      @tarac4555 4 роки тому +1

      Nat W Some people don’t have Instagram. So people who don’t want to miss stuff like this so I appreciate them doing this. 🙂

    • @zaingillanizain2901
      @zaingillanizain2901 4 роки тому

      @@tarac4555 right sweety

  • @valentinacooper5886
    @valentinacooper5886 4 роки тому +16

    My husband is 16 years older than me, and we are happy❤️

  • @glowjunkie4840
    @glowjunkie4840 4 роки тому +8

    Just found your channel and love y'all already. I'm 30 and my husband is 54. Age doesn't matter as long as the love is there. Much love to y'all

  • @awakenedwarrior6880
    @awakenedwarrior6880 4 роки тому +6

    We're 37 age gap... And im 38 now...
    And i just love this man with all my heart. His heart and soul is just so beautiful. But i think, like larry he's into that thought... He's in so much confusion maybe. But I just love him so much.
    Thanks for this inspiring video...
    Much love and God bless

  • @Erika-wl8xb
    @Erika-wl8xb 4 роки тому +129

    Larry is such a sweet human being I love you both

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  4 роки тому

      Erika Aw thank you so much🥰❤️ xoxox

  • @TheJh19
    @TheJh19 Рік тому +3

    I found your channel a few months ago and loved your content. However, I came across this video just today and I love your channel even more now. I can relate to you and your relationship so much. My partner and I are in a 19 year difference relationship and he too is in law-enforcement. thank you for sharing your relationship with the rest of the world.

  • @HappyHippieGamerGirl
    @HappyHippieGamerGirl 4 роки тому +65

    Y’all give me hope! My boyfriend is 17 years older than me. He’s 38, I’m 21. We are expecting our first child ❤️ it’s been hard for my family to accept things. I love him & absolutely don’t know what I’d do without him. God bless y’all.

    • @MarvelLights
      @MarvelLights 4 роки тому +2

      ash 🌹 love is love. Just be sure he’s 1000000% about you .... no ex’s or baby mamas in the picture..... I speak from my own experience.... (it was the same exact age gap and age of him & I at the time)
      I wish you the best. 💕

    • @HappyHippieGamerGirl
      @HappyHippieGamerGirl 4 роки тому +2

      MarvelLights yes I’ve never dealt with baby mamas before until him😂 he’s got two bio kids before me but all he does is co parent with them lol

    • @MarvelLights
      @MarvelLights 4 роки тому +1

      Good! Lol

    • @lauren.g5382
      @lauren.g5382 4 роки тому +3

      ash 🌹 my boyfriend and I are also 17 years apart, how funny😂 congratulations on your first child!!

    • @Lifewithlizgarcia
      @Lifewithlizgarcia 4 роки тому +4

      ash 🌹 Me and my fiancé are also 17 years apart! He’s 39 and I’m 22, completely in love with each other, happy for you!

  • @michellemurphy4148
    @michellemurphy4148 4 роки тому +35

    Larry is such a sweet guy especially when he was talking about how he affects her and everyone around her, he obviously cares for her. Best to you both

    • @ashleyjust
      @ashleyjust 4 роки тому

      Michelle Murphy this is such a sweet comment, I was thinking the same thing!

  • @reginarojas3265
    @reginarojas3265 4 роки тому +6

    I'm 20, and my boyfriend is 50, now I don't feel that lonely, love you guys.

  • @alexisfindley5173
    @alexisfindley5173 4 роки тому +1

    I really love that y’all are not afraid to be open about your relationship. You clearly both love each other and I love watching y’all and hearing your stories. I am actually in an age gap relationship myself of 14 years. You both are inspiring. Thank you for giving me confidence in my own relationship with my adoring man♥️

  • @TattedSassyRN
    @TattedSassyRN 4 роки тому +1

    This couple is genuine. They're happier than most couples, so let them be. 💗

  • @lissapadilla3486
    @lissapadilla3486 4 роки тому +46

    Larry's facial expressions crack me up!

  • @loz5976
    @loz5976 4 роки тому +4

    So good to hear this! I'm also in an age gap relationship, I'm 19 and he's 32. Was really hard to talk to my friends about him but he is still the best thing that's ever happened to me !

    • @faustianspirit7507
      @faustianspirit7507 4 роки тому

      Has he introduced you to his parents?

    • @loz5976
      @loz5976 4 роки тому

      @@faustianspirit7507 I've met his mother, yes. His father is not in the picture. He has also met my parents. They were definitely a bit iffy at first. But they understand that we love each other and they support that.

    • @faustianspirit7507
      @faustianspirit7507 4 роки тому

      @@loz5976 That's good to hear. I had some concerns bcuz it can be hard to see a man's red flags at 19, but you seem to be involving your family which is a good thing. The situation with his father might affect your relationship down the line, but if you suspect that's the case you can talk to your family about it.

    • @loz5976
      @loz5976 4 роки тому

      ​@@faustianspirit7507 You are absolutely right. I understand what you mean by the red flags. His father passed away a couple years ago but he never got along with him. So thank you for the advice, I will definitely remember that for the future. I'm 20 now and my friends have finally started to accept us which I definitely understand why they didn't. Considering he can be quite intimidating, but they've seen his goofy and loving side now and love hanging out with us!

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 4 роки тому +1

    I just found your channel and I am so grateful to see someone take the time to answer so many questions, being so open and honest and taking the time to film and editing this video

  • @crystal6817
    @crystal6817 4 роки тому +2

    My sons Dad and I were 14 years apart. We broke up because we were too different but we became great friends. Unfortunately he passed when he was 48 due to cancer. Love each other unconditionally, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Life is short. ❤️❤️

  • @kristag5768
    @kristag5768 4 роки тому +21

    You two are perfect for eachother 💜 the age may of been thing when u were 20 but clearly you two are very much in love and happy. Forever more for you both 🥰

  • @Dogwithoutaname
    @Dogwithoutaname 4 роки тому +16

    I love Larry's faces when mindy does the intro

  • @smileyfacingyou
    @smileyfacingyou 4 роки тому

    I'll admit I was judging at first but after seeing how great you 2 are together I have no judgement whatsoever. Larry is so supportive and genuinely so kind to you, that is rare to find in a man nowadays. Hope you 2 live a long happy life!

  • @HMNayef
    @HMNayef 4 роки тому +1

    So much rawness and love in the video- especially at the end. Keeping you in my prayers 💕 ❤️