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КОМЕНТАРІ • 658

  • @gl0ck9handy
    @gl0ck9handy Рік тому +299

    When she said she can take on debt because she "Could afford it" she is wrong. If she could afford it she would pay it in cash and not take out a loan 🤷‍♂️

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 Рік тому +27

      “I can afford it” = “I can afford the monthly minimum payment as long as I put some of my living expenses on credit”

    • @ghostbird92
      @ghostbird92 Рік тому +12

      Her statement was like an oxymoron. Completely nonsensical

    • @lauren4078
      @lauren4078 Рік тому

      Yeah, that was one of the most ignorant, idiotic things I've ever heard on this program.

    • @BlueDauntless
      @BlueDauntless 9 місяців тому

      I’m surprised Dave didn’t call that out.

  • @joelfenner9179
    @joelfenner9179 Рік тому +473

    I think many callers "think" they want to hear the truth until Dave unleashes the fury.

    • @blodus4521
      @blodus4521 Рік тому +11

      They may "think" they know what he will say and hope to reinforce the decision they've already made.

    • @gmarie3053
      @gmarie3053 Рік тому +14

      Well done to them for calling in anyway. It’s not easy

    • @AlEx-hk1pf
      @AlEx-hk1pf Рік тому

      😅😅

    • @AlEx-hk1pf
      @AlEx-hk1pf Рік тому +7

      The truth hurts, but it's still the truth 😅. Making 200k and can't pay daycare, unbelievable. So, what if the parents were not there? I wonder if they have thought about that possibility.

    • @disco4535
      @disco4535 Рік тому

      Or maybe they know how this show works and get what they expected.

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po Рік тому +77

    This is why dave cannot be replaced

  • @andrewshepherd1579
    @andrewshepherd1579 Рік тому +7

    IT IS ABSOLUTELY SHOCKING how these Americans have so much car debt. 70k in car debt...honestly????

  • @pistachiosandpopcorn7146
    @pistachiosandpopcorn7146 Рік тому +74

    “That’s called skinny fat” Lmao I like this lady

  • @mxerb5912
    @mxerb5912 Рік тому +763

    Imagine owning 90k in toys and wondering if you should sell your home to pay for them 😂

    • @Ink30
      @Ink30 Рік тому +60

      I've seen people with 100k worth of car debt in an apartment,ridiculous

    • @sciencetypeperson2401
      @sciencetypeperson2401 Рік тому +69

      "Should we sell our one appreciating asset to pay for all of our depreciating assets?" 🤦‍♂️

    • @killamixx
      @killamixx Рік тому +2

      Wow

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +2

      Are we talking Tonka truck, or GI Joe. This is IMPORTANT to define now.

    • @joelkaben
      @joelkaben Рік тому

      Lmao, crazy stuff.

  • @yayyareaa2997
    @yayyareaa2997 Рік тому +75

    Just here to hear Dave say “Vee-Hickle”

  • @9liveslisa
    @9liveslisa Рік тому +101

    I love Dave's hard truth. It is what all of us need to hear over and over until we wise up.

    • @erikgutierrez3613
      @erikgutierrez3613 Рік тому +7

      The personalities come and go but none will ever give it to you straight like Dave.

  • @RRAREBEAR
    @RRAREBEAR Рік тому +392

    5:01 Let’s all take a moment to acknowledge Ramsey NAILING their age. That was pure skill. “Are you 28?” “Yes.” 😆

    • @samanthaglover4426
      @samanthaglover4426 Рік тому +16

      Right. 😂😂😂😂😂 very hilarious moment.

    • @cvaldez9981
      @cvaldez9981 Рік тому +2

      😂

    • @racheln4309
      @racheln4309 Рік тому +7

      Hey! Not all 28 year olds are dumb!

    • @costco_pizza
      @costco_pizza Рік тому +3

      He absolutely nailed it. You can always tell when they list off all the stupid decisions they make. It’s easy to know their age!!

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 Рік тому +6

      Humans are predictable, rarely are they ever different or unique. we have entire marketing teams to figure out what people want and how they get where they are. it is always the same story old as time.

  • @TheBooRad97
    @TheBooRad97 Рік тому +77

    These two are the definition of complacency.

    • @amberdelivered06
      @amberdelivered06 Рік тому

      My mamas situation is even crazier. She makes 2k a month and doesn't have a penny saved. She's 58 and lives with relatives. She knows she doesn't make enough but she likes the retail job. It's terrible seeing her like this.

  • @jet4415
    @jet4415 Рік тому +62

    Freaking car payments! Get beaters and sell the trailer. And goodness, NO childcare costs! What a blessing.

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +3

      Why did they breed while in debt?

    • @jet4415
      @jet4415 Рік тому +2

      @@randymillhouse791 They can’t stop themselves. A kid is like buying a trailer to them.

    • @CarlaQuattlebaum
      @CarlaQuattlebaum Рік тому +1

      Those car payments are insane! $700 and $600!!

    • @Dubya556
      @Dubya556 Рік тому +3

      @@jet4415crazy assumptions you’re making there. Disgusting

  • @luke8838
    @luke8838 Рік тому +14

    Selling off appreciating assets to keep depreciating assets. Yikes

  • @mariolakaminska1327
    @mariolakaminska1327 Рік тому +44

    I love Dave, his no bs approach. It’s refreshing because everybody is so soft and whiny.

  • @haleytruslow7200
    @haleytruslow7200 Рік тому +134

    Listening to this show makes me feel so much better about myself 😭

    • @zimmermanlandscape9287
      @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому +2

      Plain and simple fact. I feel better about myself when watching this show. Ikr. My wife’s car needs work and I just think back to when I didn’t have a wife but my car needed work and I was still carrying 25 grand in student loans around with me and had no paid for real estate and five grand in credit card debt. This ministry is amazing.

    • @mustangkurt
      @mustangkurt Рік тому +3

      I hear ya. The level of financial illiteracy in this country never ceases to amaze me.

    • @shawnanderson7858
      @shawnanderson7858 Рік тому +3

      "My 600lb Life" is another show that'll make you feel really good about yourself.

    • @dutch4117
      @dutch4117 11 місяців тому

      It becomes debt porn after awhile.

    • @BaconMountainMan
      @BaconMountainMan 8 місяців тому

      Same. 😀

  • @ogreeno9314
    @ogreeno9314 Рік тому +62

    My grandma use to tell me if u can't afford it, don't buy it.

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +2

      So she was buried in a pine box on public land?

    • @isay207
      @isay207 Рік тому +3

      Smart gramma

    • @donnafontaine2799
      @donnafontaine2799 Рік тому +2

      Yes your grandma is a very smart lady

    • @ashleyjones5396
      @ashleyjones5396 7 місяців тому +2

      I tell my son just bc I can afford don’t mean I’m buying it!

    • @fueledbymusic3
      @fueledbymusic3 7 місяців тому

      It's actually, "If you have to use credit to buy it. You can't afford it"

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780 Рік тому +46

    She's calling from a lounge at Mandalay Bay.

  • @alexbryant2796
    @alexbryant2796 Рік тому +44

    “Are you 28?” 😂

  • @Zodiacarsv
    @Zodiacarsv Рік тому +114

    Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of the team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear MYSTICFLIP . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.

  • @Erikkurilla01
    @Erikkurilla01 Рік тому +303

    Finance and Business books have been so helpful. I’m 55 and my wife 50 we are both retired with over $3 million in net worth and no debts. Currently living smart and frugal with our money. No longer putting blames on FED for our misfortunes. Saving and investing lifestyle in the stock market made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn weekly.

    • @jessicasquire
      @jessicasquire Рік тому +2

      You have done great for yourselves. I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do for me now because I have no idea of how and where to invest in. I would be happy if you could advise me based on how you went about yours, as I am ready to go the passive income path.

    • @Lemariecooper
      @Lemariecooper Рік тому +2

      That is so amazing, I’m trying to get onto the housing ladder at 40. I wish at 55 I will be testifying to similar success

    • @jessicasquire
      @jessicasquire Рік тому

      Thanks so much I was able to find her page and I already leave her a message.

    • @patrickbrussels4454
      @patrickbrussels4454 Рік тому

      The quickest way to make your first millions is to invest directly with an expert that is trustworthy and has made a name and individual billionaires, I'm surprised you know her too . Stephanie is Good!

    • @Nostradevus1
      @Nostradevus1 Рік тому

      Just because you can work around a criminal organization stealing your money doesn’t mean they don’t deserve some blame for the pain they cause in everyone’s’ lives.

  • @CarnivoreStork
    @CarnivoreStork Рік тому +47

    An $800,000 house in Vegas is a
    McMansion.

    • @Lil-Whiskies
      @Lil-Whiskies Рік тому +15

      I was just thinking, that's a lot of house for a couple and a baby. They could have bought a decent house at $400k and had it paid off by now.

    • @donnafontaine2799
      @donnafontaine2799 Рік тому +5

      People do crazy things .. lmao😅

  • @babagamer9123
    @babagamer9123 Рік тому +106

    This man spends hundreds of thousands of time just to help us. He helps those in need while also helping us. He always puts a smile on our faces and we should appreciate it. Hats off to Him! I love you dude. Crazy I've never payed attention to the MYSTICFLIP on the internet movement when I say ancestral your a gift to our people

  • @joeplem5329
    @joeplem5329 Рік тому +96

    For the life of me I'll never understand why people today refuse to live within their means and are okay working their lives away when you don't have to 😒

    • @cutehumor
      @cutehumor Рік тому +4

      My us stocks and my credit card rewards thanks these people!!! I will retire rich 😊

    • @the_expidition427
      @the_expidition427 Рік тому +2

      It is simple. People learn what to spend is in their pocket

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 Рік тому +7

      Because living within your means doesn’t get you a sweet trailer!

    • @94sunset196
      @94sunset196 Рік тому +8

      It's the decades old 'Keeping up with the Joneses'. They probably have social media accounts and post pictures of their new cars. Or they want to out do their family and friends and post pics of their new vacation home, new boat, new jet skis and so on.

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому

      Americans are a disturbed lot. Here is one item: "Come on down to XYZ Auto and SAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
      Americans don't even realize there are no good restaurants in the USA. They think the fruit at the store tastes good and they can feed it to their kids. Can't wait to get outta this USA.

  • @somyrapoacelli1560
    @somyrapoacelli1560 Рік тому +47

    Jade was right about the ‘Skinny Fat’ I love Watching Jade glad shes part of Ramsey Show

  • @marcuswashington461
    @marcuswashington461 Рік тому +240

    Perfect example of decent salary and living check to check!! This is America!!

    • @michaelhutchings6602
      @michaelhutchings6602 Рік тому

      *This is stupid people

    • @MrJimmy3459
      @MrJimmy3459 Рік тому +13

      They could be millionaires in 10 years with their salary but debt is killing that dream

    • @thomasd5488
      @thomasd5488 Рік тому +12

      @@MrJimmy3459 Yup, live on $100k per year, and invest $100k in dividend stocks per year.
      They would be millionaires in 9 years.

    • @jbrittsun
      @jbrittsun Рік тому +23

      Decent salary?? That income is in the 95th percentile of ALL America, meaning this couple makes more than 95 percent of ALL Americans!! Practically the ENTIRE country makes LESS money than this couple!!

    • @mocheen4837
      @mocheen4837 Рік тому +1

      Easy for her to get out of debt. She will have a great life after age 30.

  • @jeanniesabol5410
    @jeanniesabol5410 Рік тому +3

    Dave and company are so right about so many things. Tried and true principles.

  • @brandonwaddell2583
    @brandonwaddell2583 Рік тому +19

    The benefit of that suffering cannot be stressed enough. My wife and I started it a little over a year ago and we’re on track to be done with baby step 2 by the end of this year and IT HAS SUCKED. But what it’s also done is changed how we look at money, cause we don’t ever want that go through that suck again

    • @jwlsngold5026
      @jwlsngold5026 Рік тому +4

      CONGRATS!! Keep up the fight it is so worth it!! 👏 👍

    • @bich-vanle
      @bich-vanle Рік тому +3

      Hang on tight. My husband and I were there once and we made it to step 6 rn. Keep going bc it will be worth it. 👏!

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +2

      What John Fogarty told his band after album 1 was a moderate success: "I ain't goin' back to the carwash!"

    • @brandonwaddell2583
      @brandonwaddell2583 Рік тому +1

      Thanks y’all 🫡

    • @WackyIraqi777
      @WackyIraqi777 Місяць тому

      Or just live below your means from an early age and skip the suffering phase.

  • @3rddegreeburns494
    @3rddegreeburns494 7 місяців тому +3

    They wanted to sell the house, not for a "fresh start" but to get their hands on that cash! Dave didn't tell them what they really wanted to hear. I hope they stick to Dave's plan and truly change their behavior.

  • @getinthespace7715
    @getinthespace7715 Рік тому +17

    $200k income and an $800k house.
    That's probably a $4k a month payment.
    Plus $70k car debt and the Heloc.
    Ouch.

    • @robr268
      @robr268 Рік тому +1

      So is the cars the issue or the house payment? Because $1300 isnt killing their over $10k monthly income.

    • @ingridburling8731
      @ingridburling8731 11 місяців тому +3

      I'm floored by this and the numbers. We have under 20K to live off, and we are saving money in the bank - and we are not suffering in our everyday life. With an income of 200K, we would consider ourselves to be rolling in money, so why can't they manage? And why on earth are they living in a house worth 800K? A modestly sized house would be enough.

    • @getinthespace7715
      @getinthespace7715 11 місяців тому

      @@robr268, if they are spending $4k a month on their house and probably another $1500-2k/month on cars. Plus a home equity line of credit, plus who knows what sort of other insane expenses. They don't seem to be "in control" of their spending.
      I'm in a situation where we have been funding my wife's nurse practitioner degree and are in the process of moving out of state.
      I'm renting a house in one place and a townhouse in another on $150k income. While paying for all this nursing school debt we took on over the last 6 months and everything else in our life.
      Once my wife starts working this month we will have a combined income over $300k and our living expenses will drop to $1500/month.
      We'll wipe out all our debt in the first 6 months and we'll be able to bank money fast.
      We started out 15 years ago on my single income of $36k a year. We understand the value of money and hard work.
      I would never sign myself up for an $800k mortgage. It's not worth it.
      I spend over $1500/month on Housing and it feels stupid.

    • @getinthespace7715
      @getinthespace7715 11 місяців тому

      @@ingridburling8731, it sounds like complete lunacy. When my wife and I started out 15 years ago we were living on my $36k a year gross income. We've kept that same scarcity mentality which has allowed us to save $250k in retirement.
      My high-school janitor and his wife who worked at the grocery store bakery retired multi-millionaires when I was in high school. He gave me great advice when I was a kid. I took it to heart. Avoid debt and invest like crazy. Some people don't get it. My wife just graduated with her Nurse Practitioner degree. Our income is skyrocketing this year. Our goal is to be the first in our family to create generational wealth.
      Setup college funds for our daughter and all our nieces and nephews.

  • @linuxsurfer2002
    @linuxsurfer2002 Рік тому +41

    The team is right - if they sell things and "start fresh" it won't change their lifestyle - and in a few years they will be back in debt at square one. They need to make serious changes. Either get super serious about this debt, as Dave recommended, or sell the cars and trailer, get beater cars, and attack the heloc.

  • @henryancheta6668
    @henryancheta6668 5 місяців тому

    Mr Ramsey has prove himself a sound voice about financial discipline. I really get motivated to prudent money management by listening to him.

  • @froboy88
    @froboy88 11 місяців тому

    Dave is to the point in his life and career where gives a flip about tact. 🤣 Straight to the point!

  • @Shane_Raw
    @Shane_Raw Рік тому +1

    SO many people need to be watching this video. I can't count how many people I've come across who have decent jobs and struggle to make ends meet, but they make mortgage-like payments on a car loan and other frivolous things

  • @TheBeard411
    @TheBeard411 Рік тому +21

    Cranky Dave is my favorite 😂

  • @aysedelibay5353
    @aysedelibay5353 Рік тому +111

    first of all.Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully!You deserve so much.He does what he says he is going to do and his ethics are of the highest quality.MYSTICFLIP

  • @KamalaTheClown
    @KamalaTheClown Рік тому +74

    Jade is spot on about being “skinny fat”. My wife and I make the same money, roughly 200k. We own a house that we bought for 180k, two cars paid off, one purchased for 16k brand new and the other purchased brand new for 35k but paid off fully. We have ZERO intention of buying another house or cars at the moment. We have ZERO intention of having debt. The piece of mind is priceless. God forbid our financial situation changes and we are ready for the worst. I can’t imagine having so much debt, even at our income level.

    • @zimmermanlandscape9287
      @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому

      Such a huge difference it makes getting advice straight from the man. I have put 10Gs/mo of blow money into my budget while carrying a house payment around with me before too. He’s really right. If you stop that for like 13 months and pay the house off you can go straight back to it as soon as you want. Or see the value in investing 10Gs/mo and just keep doing that instead. The options are limitless

    • @defaultname7685
      @defaultname7685 Рік тому

      Lmaoooo where the fuck did you buy a house for less than 200k? Must be nice buying over a decade ago.

    • @Gavin-bp3xx
      @Gavin-bp3xx Рік тому +2

      Lol. We have the exact same situation except for on 260k $160,000 paid off house 3 cars 8k truck, 8k mustang, and 38k Durango. All paid cash. I didn’t think anyone was nearly as cheap as me.

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому

      I am right there with you man. Always good to avoid the gonads being stomped on by creditors.

    • @zimmermanlandscape9287
      @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому

      @@Gavin-bp3xx who needs a dresser when you can store clean clothes in a laundry basket lol

  • @Albert12893
    @Albert12893 Рік тому +1

    Dave Ramsay.what a man.speaks nothing but the truth and says it like it is.legend

  • @ONLY1KUDWE
    @ONLY1KUDWE Рік тому +26

    I live how Dave tells it like it is.

  • @ji-inroh495
    @ji-inroh495 Рік тому +37

    And there is no state income tax in NV. lol Why do you have a HELOC when you gross $200k a year? 🤦‍♂

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 Рік тому +4

      That's the $200K question.
      Dave didn't ask, Where did the $70K HELOC go?

    • @bich-vanle
      @bich-vanle Рік тому +2

      You made a good point. My husband makes over 200k and we don't have any debts except mortgage. We live in LA so our incomes tax is 35% w 50% tax on bonuses. We bought a pre own lexus 40k paying cash. I was feeling extreme pain when we paid it. I would never go back to financing loans crap. We are trying to pay off our mortgage rn.

  • @moo3538
    @moo3538 Рік тому +2

    If they make 200k so they bring about 10k a month home after Taxs. There is no way they can pay 10k a month

  • @user-vg6ym5xy2r
    @user-vg6ym5xy2r Рік тому +3

    I love when Dave guesses the caller’s age just by their financial situation.

  • @PurvisTwiggs
    @PurvisTwiggs Рік тому +256

    You are not alone but don't sell to pay for a liability. To keep up with rising cost we are beginning to see the equity of our home for what it truly is, Its becoming hard for us seniors not to ask the obvious question: Should we cash in, invest the money, and rent/relocate?

    • @PurvisTwiggs
      @PurvisTwiggs Рік тому

      I know times are uncertain. I and my spouse are working on a ballpark estimate of $5M for retirement, and I have a good 6-figures each loaded up for this, if we sold our house you think we can do it in 5 years at most? I'm nearly 55.

    • @SergiannaPawson
      @SergiannaPawson Рік тому

      @@marcoerrett Very true, people downplay planners role, until burnt by their mistakes. I remember just after my layoff early 2020 amidst covid outbreak, I needed to stay afloat, hence researched for license-fiduciary advsors. Thankfully, I came across someone of practical knowledge, and decades of experience, I liquidated 200k of 325k from my 401(k) it has yielded nearly 1 m after subsequent investments so far.

    • @irenatrulove
      @irenatrulove Рік тому

      can you refer me please

    • @SergiannaPawson
      @SergiannaPawson Рік тому

      Loren Lena Walker is my fiduciary and my dads estate planner responsible for our families portfolio success, lady is advanced and experienced and has a private client base you can confirm her yourself on the internet, regulation and all.

    • @SergiannaPawson
      @SergiannaPawson Рік тому

      @@marcoerrett Well we own a horse ranch out in mexico city with just 7 horses now. I love horse riding. Lol. It is a commission they charge on profits accrued on your account so it is affordable.

  • @erenguler9620
    @erenguler9620 Рік тому +113

    MYSTICFLIP literally gave me a fresh start. Before, I was stressed out and exhausted from being turned down from lender to lender. As of now, I'm currently in the phase of purchasing a home. I'm more confident and I feel more secure. I want to extend a very big THANK YOU to Brandon .

  • @blue-wb8yn
    @blue-wb8yn Рік тому +25

    They want to sell the house to pay for their cars?! 😅

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +1

      AGE 28!

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому +2

      When I was 28, I wasn't that dumb. I should have bought a house in my neighborhood instead of out of state but who knew that the prices were going to go up so high here

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 10 днів тому

      🤔😜🙃😳

  • @amberbiggs
    @amberbiggs Рік тому +3

    Why on earth would they sell the house before selling those cars?

  • @rc3884
    @rc3884 Рік тому

    Love the honesty Ramsey! Its why I keep watching your videos! We need to hear it even if we don’t like it!

  • @countrymusicandcher8593
    @countrymusicandcher8593 Рік тому +1

    What i love about this show is that every episode (almost) they don’t only get an in-the-moment advice. BUT, they also get something that lasts beoynd the show - classes, couches, books, whatever they need that they can resonably offer

  • @mitchellgrand3724
    @mitchellgrand3724 Рік тому +4

    No way is she going to change. She's a princess and thinks she can buy anything because they earn as much. Husband wants to sell the camper. Bet they used it once !

  • @WarriorsPhoto
    @WarriorsPhoto Рік тому +5

    The skinny fat message made the most sense to me. 😢
    Glad I started listening to Dave Ramsey again. 🎉❤

  • @v.m.4453
    @v.m.4453 Рік тому +68

    I laughed so hard when Jade said "skinny fat"
    Lmao!

    • @drn13355
      @drn13355 Рік тому +5

      I remember Vince Vaughn described his body that way once.

  • @MyLifefunthingss
    @MyLifefunthingss 29 днів тому

    im 28 and gosh dang he got me😅 im these people except less toys and more student loans ... praise dave

  • @patriotdrone9566
    @patriotdrone9566 Рік тому +20

    imagine if they had cheap paid for vehicles and invested that 1500 a month in an ETF for the next 20+years, they'd be retired millionaires. Instead they are going to be broke for having ridiculous car payments.

    • @robr268
      @robr268 Рік тому

      I don't think that $1300 a month is hurting them too much when they probably taking home over $12,000. They're spending alot of money and mortgage is probably extremely high.

    • @patriotdrone9566
      @patriotdrone9566 Рік тому +5

      @@robr268Not the point. They are pissing away potentially millions of dollars on stupid insanely high car payments. These type of people keep car payments forever. Its a cycle.

    • @robr268
      @robr268 Рік тому

      @patriotdrone9566 I understood the point. They just earn a lot of money. You would think its more debt.

    • @goforbroke2
      @goforbroke2 Рік тому +1

      Bet money, they spend 3k+ a month on Food and Amazon packages. 😂

    • @kevinkidneyy
      @kevinkidneyy Рік тому

      boring

  • @jsjskndksjsk5572
    @jsjskndksjsk5572 Рік тому +110

    As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against these criminals and terrorists on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators. Keep up the good work MYSTICFLIP on the internet

  • @zimmermanlandscape9287
    @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому +3

    Good job Dave. I saw your video the other day about abrasive personalities. Way to go tempering your response by saying - you called here now are you absolutely certain that the truth is what you want to hear … lol perfect

  • @diceportz7107
    @diceportz7107 Рік тому +54

    "We maintain debt because we can afford it"???? Just how much money is that???

    • @MrJimmy3459
      @MrJimmy3459 Рік тому +14

      translation = we can afford the monthly payments

    • @94sunset196
      @94sunset196 Рік тому +3

      It's sad. If they invested that money instead, in their twenties, at their salaries they could retire in their mid 50's maybe????? Or earlier??????

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому +1

      Too much...

  • @BollywoodMediaOnline
    @BollywoodMediaOnline Рік тому +3

    OMG love the skinny fat analogy, Jade!!! That is perfect 🙌

  • @haloimplant7678
    @haloimplant7678 2 місяці тому +1

    More people making good money and giving it all to car financing

  • @drn13355
    @drn13355 Рік тому +8

    Will do you it? "I think we could". They won't do it.

  • @timelbrecht9562
    @timelbrecht9562 Рік тому +4

    The other point not made is why would you pay off your house to pay off depreciating crap. Sell one car ( buy a get you by car) , sell the camper. Pay off the rest in a year ( except house)

  • @belesternavarrete8293
    @belesternavarrete8293 Рік тому +1

    Not Utah! It’s full already, especially, SLC 😭 lol

  • @dangehn665
    @dangehn665 Рік тому +3

    Wow. Tough love par excellence from Dave Ramsey!!

  • @jessemar65951
    @jessemar65951 Рік тому

    Great call good for the caller buckle down and pay off the dept

  • @BrianaBudgets
    @BrianaBudgets 3 місяці тому +1

    “We maintain debt because we can afford it.” Huh?

    • @bourkette8
      @bourkette8 22 дні тому

      They can afford to give away a bunch of money for interest and she thinks that makes perfect sense 🙄 A fool and his money are soon parted!

  • @taurusthebull76
    @taurusthebull76 Рік тому +3

    I love that analogy, Jade. "Skinny Fat" 🎯

  • @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl
    @JerseyDevilJerseyGirl Рік тому +4

    “Haha” “heh heh” “hah”
    The giggles tell me she really doesn’t care & has no idea what’s going on

  • @odelllucas
    @odelllucas Рік тому +6

    I wish folks had all of there information written down and ready to go, when they call into this show.

  • @chriss7552
    @chriss7552 Рік тому

    😂😂😂love it. How did Dave know that the caller is 28years old. This is awesome 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bahwickee
    @bahwickee Рік тому +12

    Holy Smokes those car notes and monthly payments are insane

    • @speeddemon0712
      @speeddemon0712 Рік тому +3

      Those notes are average, if not below average now days. Have you seen the video of the dealership employees almost bragging about their $1200 - $1400 payments? Now that's insane!

    • @goforbroke2
      @goforbroke2 Рік тому +1

      Those payments are average as noted below. The car payments aren’t the issue, I bet they spend 3K + a month on Food & Amazon stuff.

    • @MrWaffle04
      @MrWaffle04 Рік тому +2

      The car payments on a 200k income aren’t horrible.
      $850k mortgage on a 200k income ON TOP of the cars is the problem. $400-500k in a house would make way more sense for their income if they want to keep the cars.
      We love to pick on car payments nowadays (and don’t get me wrong - it has gotten ridiculous with some of these payments my) but we never talk about being house poor. We make $140k in the Midwest and I was on the fence for a long time about spending $300k on our house because I thought it was a lot to take on for our income. I can’t even imagine a mortgage on an $850k house.. good lord.

  • @heathervenkat1414
    @heathervenkat1414 Рік тому +12

    I love how he guessed her exact age lol

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому

      28 is a stupid age. Been there. Was stupid. Have stupid, will travel.

    • @im-gi2pg
      @im-gi2pg 11 місяців тому +1

      As a hairdresser, when I hear of a kid who cut their own hair, i know they are 4 years old. Never fails.

  • @S2gmamoke
    @S2gmamoke Рік тому +103

    Hey Sherry after taking your advice and getting the 51 point increase to my fico score, Mysticflip claimed my increase came from my car payment balance decreasing which I believe was a lie, hoping I'd not realized the real reason it went down and try the process all over again.....makes me realize these companies really wanna keep us down and indebted to them...am I crazy for thinking this way?

  • @batistapamela
    @batistapamela 11 місяців тому

    I love how wise jade is 💯❤

  • @sunnybeach103
    @sunnybeach103 Рік тому +6

    I'm so freaking fed up seeing all my neighbors have 2- 3, $40k vehicles each sitting in our low income housing parking lot. We have 2 paid off used cars and haven't had a car payment in 6 years!! I can't even fathom how these ppl are making it. We also live in hawaii which is totally overpriced now more than ever. I'm assuming everyone's parents are paying for their adult children ls lifestyles.

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому

      Is the low income housing subsidized by the government / neighbors? I just found out a gallon I know gets her housing subsidized when she could live for free at her job at the YMCA

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому

      Gal*

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому

      What bugs me about these overpriced cars is that my neighbors now only drive 10 mph because they're so afraid to scratch it.

  • @michelleatwood1234
    @michelleatwood1234 Рік тому +3

    Utah is expensive. Housing is very over price

  • @kensmart1976
    @kensmart1976 Рік тому +3

    $70K in vehicle loans is stupid. Any vehicle purchase, including RVs and trailers, should be paid with cash. Otherwise don't buy them. Why don't people understand this?

  • @philipgerry5228
    @philipgerry5228 Рік тому +11

    Stop buying until debts are paid.

  • @ShelleySorenson
    @ShelleySorenson Рік тому +1

    Wise saying, "If you can't afford to save up the money to buy it, you can't afford the loan."

  • @michaelgerhardt7130
    @michaelgerhardt7130 Рік тому +18

    So why would you sell your biggest asset to pay off debt? If the house is worth 800k and goes up a measly 2% a year, that is almost of 50k in 3 years of appreciation. I know you dont see it until you sell but if you sell and rent, you’ll spend 30-40k a year in rental income and have no tax benefits, and the only equity payments you’ll be making will be will be for your landlord each time you pay your rent and he/she pays their mortgage. This is poor man’s logic.

    • @randymillhouse791
      @randymillhouse791 Рік тому

      AGE 28!

    • @frozentundra7446
      @frozentundra7446 Рік тому

      @@randymillhouse791 Agreed!

    • @Cristobal8605
      @Cristobal8605 7 місяців тому

      A house is not an asset though

    • @michaelgerhardt7130
      @michaelgerhardt7130 7 місяців тому

      @@Cristobal8605 if you think that your doing something wrong

    • @Cristobal8605
      @Cristobal8605 7 місяців тому

      @@michaelgerhardt7130 an asset provides income, a house takes it away. You think cars are assets too, don’t you?

  • @thepracticalblade9013
    @thepracticalblade9013 Рік тому +4

    Wild. Absolutely wild. Every time someone doesn't include their mortgage in what they claim is their debt, I about lose my mind. "I have no debt except my mortage." Hold on, let me rephrase... "I have no debt except the biggest piece of debt that most people have." Got it.
    I get sick to my stomach when people "don't count" their mortgage as debt. Wild. Mind blowing.

    • @thetaekwondoe3887
      @thetaekwondoe3887 11 місяців тому

      Well from calls I've heard, Dave usually asks, "what's your debt, besides your mortgage?"

  • @catholicfaithofmine2664
    @catholicfaithofmine2664 Рік тому +1

    So....wait...buying stupid stuff but NOT making extra payments towards the house to pay it off. 😂😂

  • @tthomaselli2
    @tthomaselli2 Рік тому +2

    Who's the woman on the left-hand side of the screen?...
    She's gorgeous.

  • @Samuels691
    @Samuels691 Рік тому +1

    Spending like in congress 😂😂😂

  • @theflightsimulationexperie6894

    This is when I like Dave’s advice.

  • @superkmpm
    @superkmpm Рік тому +2

    Ive been here. Young, good pay check, not a care in the world.
    They have a kid though. They need to get it together for junior's sake.

  • @ricksnethen5505
    @ricksnethen5505 Рік тому +1

    I really like the concept of "It doesn't change the person in the mirror."

  • @fatimamanneh9432
    @fatimamanneh9432 Рік тому +4

    I said it before the more money people make the more stupid crap they do smh

  • @chrisruth7057
    @chrisruth7057 Місяць тому

    I definitely wouldn't put myself in that situation to being with no.way +. definitely not get married or have kids but if I had a choice I would definitely sell the house & get out of debt the fast &.easy way that's definitely a no brainer for me

  • @dm9103
    @dm9103 Рік тому +1

    800k house with 200k combined income... 😂

  • @Lady.Luck.
    @Lady.Luck. Рік тому +6

    Its insane to me that people think its worth paying $1k a month just to ride around in a nice car. When a used car thats maintained would be paid for. Literally just riding from A to B for $1k a month

    • @amylee6038
      @amylee6038 Рік тому +2

      What is surprising is the rage you get from people when suggesting they get rid of their vanity item. Their car is a personal statement. A lot of emotions tied up in it.

    • @Lady.Luck.
      @Lady.Luck. Рік тому +2

      @@amylee6038 totally agree. It's a status symbol for them

  • @caezar044
    @caezar044 Рік тому +4

    Too much house on that income to have that much car. Pick one or the other.

  • @hedgiegal3340
    @hedgiegal3340 Рік тому +1

    They aren't going to do it. They want the easy way out. He's going to sell that house and repeat the cycle all over again.

  • @snakeplissken3063
    @snakeplissken3063 Рік тому +2

    I have never owned a car worth $40k, and I've certainly never borrowed $40k to buy a car. You can get a certified pre-owned Carolla for less than $20k. They run forever and parts are cheap.

    • @doug6259
      @doug6259 Рік тому +1

      The most expensive car I ever owned was $15K.

    • @brucefrisby5721
      @brucefrisby5721 27 днів тому +1

      Got one for 12,000

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 Рік тому +11

    I would never marry anyone who cannot manage money and who I would have to depend on for money. This is why I have my own money my own house my own car and no debt

    • @denisewehling649
      @denisewehling649 Рік тому +1

      Yep

    • @Dee0336
      @Dee0336 Рік тому +2

      That’s what every responsible single adult has.

    • @aolvaar8792
      @aolvaar8792 Рік тому +2

      Cats?

    • @AJ_SouthernGal
      @AJ_SouthernGal Рік тому

      Yep. SMART.

    • @creolelady182
      @creolelady182 Рік тому +1

      @@aolvaar8792 NO BUT i WILL NOT HAVE MEN LIVING WITH ME. They tend to want to take over stuff that I paid for. Thats why I am divorced

  • @regtalkswealth
    @regtalkswealth Рік тому +2

    Yes stop being spoilt 😂

  • @misteroz
    @misteroz Рік тому +3

    The skinny-fat analogy is so on the nose.

  • @JohnGrayFinance
    @JohnGrayFinance Рік тому

    Anytime someone asks you “do you really want me to tell you the truth?” You’re about to get absolutely destroyed. And you probably need it.

  • @yunusemrectak5311
    @yunusemrectak5311 Рік тому +110

    Honestly, we need more people like you MYSTICFLIP if we had an army of people like you, we could stamp out these total loss in no time. I love that you are helping the victims, too it's ultra gratifying when you are to save people in real time like you do thanks 🙏🏻 for getting ours approved

  • @ES-7766
    @ES-7766 Рік тому +1

    I think the problem with many Americans is that they have to have the “coolest” vehicles and expensive toys. Except for once, I have always bought two year old cars. I pay said cars off and them until the mileage is very high. I just began watching these videos and I’m going to implement a lot of this into my life.

    • @lauren4078
      @lauren4078 Рік тому

      It's because they're trying to impress people who really don't give a crap about them, i.e. strangers. We can assume that the vast majority of most new vehicles are financed... which isn't really all that impressive. Anyone can finance a new vehicle. They even give out title loans! 🤷‍♀️

  • @kimberlybeth
    @kimberlybeth 11 місяців тому +1

    I’d rather have a nice home and a used car. I’d love the fix to my debt being all I gotta do is sell my nice car so I can keep my nice house and not move.

  • @wayneburton3168
    @wayneburton3168 Рік тому +6

    Really Dave, why have a co-host if you won’t let them add to the discussion? Either let her contribute without interrupting her or just split up times and host on your own. My 2 cents. Still a great channel!

  • @too-da-loo
    @too-da-loo Рік тому +115

    Perfect example of people spending so much on vehicles and toys.

    • @zimmermanlandscape9287
      @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому +1

      Post Malone moves to Utah. Silicon Valley workers have to ride the bus into San Jose for their jobs.

    • @mocheen4837
      @mocheen4837 Рік тому +7

      I see people making a lot less that drive new Dodge Challengers and Chargers who do not own a home.

    • @kevinsamson1693
      @kevinsamson1693 Рік тому +1

      @@mocheen4837the scatpack and hellcat challengers and chargers are not gonna be in production after 2024 so Its their only opportunity to get it

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 Рік тому +6

      @@kevinsamson1693here’s an opportunity for them: just don’t get it

    • @zimmermanlandscape9287
      @zimmermanlandscape9287 Рік тому +1

      @@mocheen4837 they literally spend more on the car than the landlord spent on the house they rent

  • @bradyoung1714
    @bradyoung1714 Рік тому +3

    If there is any evidence from every video I have watched, its that they need to teach finance in school before you take chemistry or political science

    • @matthewwaters9742
      @matthewwaters9742 10 місяців тому

      Most schools do teach about finances but the students, just like most adults, do not see the point and push it down the road.

    • @nancylord4776
      @nancylord4776 7 місяців тому

      @@matthewwaters9742No they teach about “smart” use of credit cards, how to take out student loans, etc. They don’t teach about behavioral finance because they don’t understand it themselves. You can’t teach what you don’t know. Love you, Dave Ramsey! Your teachings have transformed our lives.