Help Me Leave My Toxic Boyfriend! | KARAMO
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- Опубліковано 12 гру 2022
- Shanice is desperately trying to fix her relationship with her boyfriend, Felix. Despite being together for 3 years, Felix has repeatedly cheated on Shanice and continues to exhibit toxic behavior in their relationship. Shanice is at her wit's end and is hoping that Karamo can help her figure out what to do. Can Karamo help Shanice see the light and make the difficult decision to leave Felix? Or will Karamo help Felix turn things around and become the loving partner that Shanice deserves?
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I wanna say thank you to all the positive comments & yes I did leave him that same day ♥️ they didn’t show when I went back stage to him & told him I was done. Trust me I know my worth & I will never allow another man to come into my life and treat me this way ..
Good for you ❤
Did you get your books?
Good job
I am so happy that you walked away. Wishing you the best!
Yes sis. He is a walking red flag. Use his behavior to remind yourself what to look for in ppl.
Cheating aside, in 5 minutes Felix displayed that he is aggressive, dishonest, emotional, loud and manipulative. Leave that man alone.
I'm going through same , I'm finally letting him go, moving on, ifs been hard but worth it.
if anything, Karamo will give out compliments to the guests, i love how he hypes them up when they arrive
Because he knows it builds they’re self esteem and makes them feel more worthy and I love him for that!
This guy is controlling, manipulator, narcissistic. My sister there is no love, love yourself first. You are beautiful. Move on. This is like my ex husband. I am relieved after moving away from him. I am ok and love my life
Thank you & I did move on ♥️
Yuppppp you said what I was thinking
@@ShaaBoss I’m glad you move on ,cause you’re beauty is with in and out❤❤❤
She is a beautiful woman. She doesn't deserve this
Not if she keeps simping and sticking around so she wont be alone in life
We deserve what we settle for.
Thank you ❤
She's doing exactly what she wants and being with who she wants and getting treated the way she wants...she deserves whatever she wants
@@shorts26 yeah because instead of leaving with some courage and no excuses, she allows him to have his way with her thats a fact.
I don't like the tone in which he talks to her 😭🥺. It gives me narcissist, controlling and abusive vibes. She deserves so much better. 🤧 I just came across this show today and I've been binge watching ever since👩🏾💻. Lowkey addicted this show is so good 😭😩. I love the host he gives the real 🙌🏾.
I pray she learns to love herself enough to actually move on.
My whole life ive been single and i tried to love myself, but somewhere along the way, it doesnt change anything. To me honestly its futile.
Thank you ♥️ & I did leave him the same day on the show & I wasn’t emotionally involved anymore
@@ShaaBoss proud of you!! He ain’t shit 🤣
@@niveahiett6051 thanks you ♥️
Yes totally agree
narcissists and toxic people will accuse you of what they are actually guilty of
It's called self-esteem. Love yourself WAY more than someone's terrible behavior. And scene!
Doing a Woman wrong will cause her to become numb to the man's feelings
It’s so easy to slip into distrusting them all
Absolutely
Preach honey!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
For a girl whos been there myself, I will never blame any woman for going back. Its so so hard to leave even if you can see the truth standing in front of you. Especially if you love him with all your heart. Eventually it comes a time when you can find strength leave and love yourself enough to do it.
Same....I was in 10 year toxic relationship ND I said enough is enough...a woman knows when she is ready
glad you both were able to leave 🙏🏽
I was always the supportive friend to their face then judgy in my head about how they couldn't leave the person. Now I'm sorry because it's currently my turn 😭
@@sorayaleblanc588I’m sorry to hear that 😞💯💯
no its not hard to leave tf
The cute white couple in the audience face expressions is so funny 😂
I love how animated they are! 😂
😂😂😂😂🤣 facts
I was looking for this comment 😂
@@ashleylessard6243 same haha
Yup that lady in the beginning sitting w her boyfriend face was like I wish my bf would try that mess lol I was dying laughing 🤣
I use to be w a narcissistic ex as well. It’s tuff breaking that cycle but once your actually done and cut all ties. It’s the most freeing thing ever
Men like this prey on women like her who have super low self esteem...this is why it's very important for men to raise their daughter's & be active in their lives...🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Many of us are blinded by love....but...eventually, we will get tired and say enough is enough. I sure as hell did.
YOU'RE Right! There's a Limit to what a person can take!
Many of you are blinded by the *illusion of love.
When you know what the real
Thing is you’d never allow
Someone to feed you this mess nevertheless feed it to yourself…. Just because you take your clothes off & have sex sometimes doesn’t make y’all partners if more young woman understood this we”d have less of these!
that was so nice for him to offer to pay for her books
My bf does the same exact thing during an argument. He unnecessarily escalates the situation then starts demanding to know whether or not I want to stay together. I can't with these man children 😐
Leave.
Manipulation.
Please ruuunnn it’ll get worse
i hope you left. i left mine and feel so free.
Y'all still together?
He almost had me wit the story about her ignoring him wanted to be consoled.
Always loving Karamo's outfits😍 plus advice. Can't get enough of him!!!
He be cleannnnn
shanice is such a great sister, she don’t deserve that. LOVE U BIG SIS❤❤
I love you more baby & thank you ♥️♥️
Misogynoir plus colourism makes it even harder to move on from this level of toxicity and abuse into the unknown. She’s stunning but she can’t see it and does not know her worth. I hope she can find the strength to leave him for real
This!!
Hey, can you explain the colorism part? I just started watching this episode .
@@ashleywatkins1380 a lot of men AND women (NOT ALL) don't like dark skinned women/men and its honestly sad. so I think what she means is, she was stuck on him because there's not many people without that weird "preference." I don't know if I worded this correctly but yeah
You hit the nail on the head. Know your worth girl, he ain't all the that, go to therapy, get your career goals on point and go live your beautiful melanated life. I don't know what you see about this controlling idiot, so I know there are self worth issues. Girl RUN.
Projecting much?
baby love don’t hurt NEVER LET a man tell you twice he DONT WANT YOU HE TOLD YOU SO MANY TIMES .sis level up and leave that dog for a man ❤
Her Best Friend Came Through With The Words
Host’s advice was A1 all throughout 🔥🔥 real ass nigga offerin school books as well. He’s a complete stranger PROVING there was absolutely nothin left in that relationship fa her. Let’s go queen👸🏿! #teamkaramo
Ya'll!! This was such a great episode!! I was in the audience and listening to her bf reminds me of so many people sheesh!! I absolutely love this show bc a lot of women just stay in the relationship because they are too afraid to step out of their comfort zone. They have been in such a toxic, dysfunctional relationship for so long, that they accept it as normal. It is NEVER OK for a partner to gaslight, manipulate, or constantly lie to you, you deserve better and she does too! Keep your head up Queen!!
How was the trip to Connecticut?
Yes it was but more stuff happen I just wished everything was in the episode & thank you 😊
Did you get your books back?
Felix the sneaky cat.
Young ladies:
Some of y’all are out here falling for the getcha gotcha. These men have y’all auditioning, accepting situationships, confused, depressed, stressed, and anxious.
Please hear me: you can not win a man over by allowing him to use and abuse you. If you’re in a situation with a man who cheats on you, doesn’t claim you, doesn’t show up for you, hurts you, lies to you, degrades you, uses your resources, has you stressed out…. walk away. Don’t announce it. Just leave. Then focus on building your love for yourself, your self value, and your boundaries. It makes a difference in how people treat you and what you will accept. A toxic relationship will not become healthy unless both of the people become healthy. You can’t control the other person. You can only control yourself. So, get healthy and meet a man who has also done the work or was raised to be healthy. Don’t waste you life or sentence your future children to a childhood with a toxic father. ❤
She’s so beautiful she don’t deserve this😢
Karamo hit it right on the head for both of them. When he say your addicted to drama I felt that.. people in my life are on that same thing and get mad when you don’t want to talk about the same thing over and over the person who did it dead and gone and your still bringing up negative stuff. Then saying well they did this or that, it’s if you understand forget if they get it or not.
He was preaching and was absolutely right. I thought I was crazy when I realized that’s why I couldn’t get along w/someone. Then be mad at myself later for going along with it 😅
my anger issues could never
She don't seem serious enough to let him go, after the show she will be back to him
Karamo is the gay best friend we all wish we had. ❤
Please love your self... The same energy you are giving to him give it to yourself BabyGirl
Staying with a cheating "boyfriend" is not love. It's not so worth it. Know your worth and move on!! You can do better
I don’t believe that she will end it. Look how she looks at him when he says he didn’t come on the show to end it. 😩
Yeah she's definitely addicted to drama. She's addicted to him too! And he's a narcissist!
DESPERATE !!!!!! GIRL .. RUN !
She doesn't wanna take accountability & looks to him to "correct" it.
I love this dude in the audience he told him right . ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Women’s addiction to toxic cheating men is crazy bro!! 😵💫
Sometimes your big heart is just a lack of boundaries. I'm hoping she means it. These things can last for decades. Breaking up for 10+ years.
televised couples therapy. who knew i’d needed it till now
Okay Karamo, this advice was on point! 💯
It’s sad but first she need to be honest and love herself and believe she’s worthy of love. She’s not ready to let go. I hope she see her worth
He's insecure but she'd needs to love herself first
What difference does it make if someone loves themselves before anyone else? That sounds selfish to me honestly.
You’re less likely to tolerate anything or anyone that disturbs your peace of mind
@@BriLaDivina98 not tolerating at all and putting yourself first all the time is selfish though.
@@boyeoshinaga6230 Let’s be real, we all have to put ourselves first majority of the time, even when it comes to our children. When you’re on a plane, during the safety briefings they tell you to put the oxygen mask on YOURSELF FIRST and then proceed to help your child or whoever else. You can’t pour from an empty cup. In order to help anyone, you must first help yourself. You’re thinking of it in a toxic way, but that’s CLEARLY not what I’m referring to. Especially in THIS situation
i feel like she’ll still go back
For sure. She isn't ready
her lil sis make sure she ain’t gonna💀
@@wjsnflop 😂😂🤣😂😂 going to hell
I have sickle cell disease and have a lot to say. How can I get in touch w/ Karamo??? I'd love to be on his show. I just got out of the hospital not even 2 days or so and one of my friends passed from it as well. I've lost a lot to this disease, friends with it is just the tip of the ice berg. I love how Karamo is straight forward and blunt with his guests, in a good way. I'm currently studying medical billing and coding. I'm supposed to graduate on the 31st. When I tell ya'll I'm in so much pain right now, it's unreal. The doc knew I needed a blood transfusion when he sent me home on Sunday plus said for me not to come back. I don't even know what to do anymore. I just want to complete my assignments/exams because I've come so far. My lowest grade is a C. I'm just in so much freakin pain and it's no way I can go to work in this crazy weather. Sickle cell disease has also ruined my teeth yet I haven't saved enough for oral surgery. My bad this post is so long.
I think you could try texting him in instagram or facebook
Hang in there
I hope you feel better and it gets better for you beauty! I cannot imagine how you feel and the toll it has taken on you and your body, please keep going and stay strong! But also don't overwork yourself.. I hope that you graduated
- I Have Sickle Cell Also . If You Ever Need To Talk Just Message Me . ❤
Yes, I've noticed that about him too. Blunt and compassionate all at once.
She took him to the show but in reality she only put a big red flag on her own self esteem. She needs to work on self love and boundaries and cut off points in relationships. Validate yourself like your bestie just did for you ❤
He looks like he is very Controlling.
My ex was a manipulative narcissist.
Now this time Karamo hit the nail on the head
They feed off of each other.
First of all, a man calling his woman " bro" is a sign of disrespect. That's how he address his homies. His conversation is very controlling and manipulative. She's insecure because she's overweight. She's an attractive woman, in my opinion ( lose the eyelashes,weave and heavy makeup). She can exercise,eat healthy and lose weight. She'll gain self confidence and lose that self esteem when she loves herself. And lose that other toxic baggage...him. He's narcissistic.
Well put!
the realest comment on here!!!
You hit all the spots 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Overweight or not! He would’ve still cheated. Losing weight wouldn’t stop him or make him any better for her. She is an attractive women but let’s take away this and that to make her more appealing for who? Then suggest she lose weight and eats heathy? Who says she doesn’t. Gaining self confidence doesn’t have sh*t to do with going to the gym baby. It comes from within. I’m pretty sure she’ll appreciate the tips she’s already gotten though.
@@mightyb8318 EXACTLY!!
I love at the very end when he goes “where you going”. To click on another one of your videos, I ain’t going no where
Oh I'm so glad she left
2 minutes in he showed us who he is
And when Karamo asked him a question he turned it around to blame her but Karamo was not having it and redirected the question back to him
👏🏾
He is definitely not the problem. She is definitely the problem because she is the one allowing this abusive behavior to be done to her.
Nah he’s the problem babe. He been the problem. Yes she needs to leave him but she isn’t the cause of his actions.
They both are
@@itsurgirlcharlenePeriod.
I am so happy you walked away . You are a beautiful sista and deserve to be treated with love and respect . God Bless you.
See how she did the wrap around at 7:24. The topic was about his grandmother and she brought up the cheating video to get herself out of it
He’s narcissistic, and he wants to control her, and is!!
Addiction to drama is wild
fr😂😂😂😂😂
Hold your head high dear you deserved better we women need to take a stand
A narcissist never sees their wrong doing because it's all about them and what they want to do or say to the other person they always want to be in control of other people's lives.
Love this!!!!! Karamo great job!!!
he's literally a walking red flag, holy crap
Never allow a person to tell you more than once he doesn't want you for the life of me i wil not understand how can you fight for someone that's showing he doesn't want you learn to love yourself before loving anyone a person can only do what you allow them to do
She’s so beautiful ❤
Dang this video spoke to me I didn’t realize I’m addicted to toxic behavior smh but I want a good man doesn’t make sense
The introduction was wowser! Let me watch the rest...
It's all about mind control that's why he thought or thinks she'll never leave, he thinks she won't find anyone better when she will. He's the problem not her, she has to be strong enough to walk away and once she leaves be strong enough to stay away from him.
She's such a beautiful woman AND she's EDUCATED ❗️🙌🏽
Lil dude KNOW her worth and know she's going to do great things with or WITHOUT and he's threatened. With his clown ass and her best friend LOVE HER and want her to see her worth so bad!
Great episode don't engage move on awesome advice!
Enough is enough girl. Please don't go back! Good show 💪🏾
Once a Cheater always a Cheater
FACTS !!!!
He really doesn't want her
Karamo you are doing such important work .
This girl keeps blaming him instead of seeing he's only there because she wants him to be, this relationship started in mess and will end in mess
No one said I ever was blaming him I know trust me I know my faults in a relationship and I tried to leave plenty of times and he would do the manipulation and that’s how I would end up back because he knows that I have a good heart and try to see the best in everyone
This is one of the best episodes I’ve seen. As someone who has tolerated sooo much abuse in romantic relationships, he hit the nail on the head. Some of the things her man was saying and doing seemed so normal to me until Karamo pointed them out as abusive. This was super eye opening for me.
I know everybody's judging her so harshly but you kno what the reality is when you in relationship it is hard to move on everything takes time she's heartbroken but I believe she will get there and heal her heart good luck Shanice and everything you do 🙏🙏
Thank you so much. I appreciate that it’s like going through these comments. It’s like you’re only see what they showed on the show it was more to it. A lot of people are saying that can’t be them but you never know until you’re in the situation like that and that’s why I don’t judge people.
Damn, I’ve been depressed and lonely since my ex dumped me 2 months ago…I’m bingeing Karamo episodes rn and feel like the Universe is telling me that I’m good.
Wipe off the tears and keep it moving.
At least now I don’t worry about his phone, how much porn he’s watching, and dealing with his bad moods.
Staying single, it’s just not worth the heartache.
This lady is beautiful and intelligent….why do we allow men to treat us this way? Also putting her health at risk by possibly getting an STI. 😢😢😢😢
You are going to just fine, Beautiful!
🫶🏿💚🫶🏿💚🫶🏿
i hope you’re feeling better nowadays sweetheart
Karamo looking loverly as usual loving the outfits
I like that Karamo put the responsibility with her to put an end to the toxicity because if she's not going to do anything about it shouldn't be a problem. I hope she means it when she says that she siiiiiiiiiingle. 🎵🎵🎵
I like how he said I did your project for you I want you to succeed. My whole thing is that’s the whole trap. Ofc you can’t do bad the whole time then it’s going to be obvious that you’re shitty. They bring you up and throw you back down. That’s the game.
Lord have mercy. I know someone like this. I just never seen it in real time. Prayers to anyone experiencing this .
Sis u are very beautiful. Leave that toxic relationship because that man might contact a disease and infect you girl. U deserve better. U should be a priority and not an option dear sis. Love from Cameroon 😘😘
I love how he greets his guests
She needs to move on, dude's not worth her time.
QUIT PLAYING WITH MR.KARAMO ❤❤❤❤❤, ALWAYS DROPPING WISDOM
She don’t even believe the “I’m single” comment
15:14 not, "What am I looking for?! What did I come in here looking for?!" 😂
It ain't over. And the host is a lot more sweeter than I remember
He's openly gay
“We can only the show to fix this or end this?” Reverts right back to the manipulation 😂
From what I can ascertain, SHE AINT GOIN NOWHERE
This is my girl!!!!! Like actually and we need to get her away from him !!!!! XoxoX love you
I grew up wit dis nigga dis is funny af to me 😂😂😂
Whats tea then 🙃
She needs to learn to love HER. She's put her all into a man who calls her "bro" and cheats when he pleases. One day she'll wake up and know her worth. He is extremely DUSTY and should be left to the streets.
I’m glad he kept it real and held both accountable for their actions yea he’s wrong for cheating but she also actively chose to stay in the situation. This is one show I’ll say may actually be helping the guest instead of humiliating them.
I love his show
It’s odd how everytime a couple comes on here they get at the man more than the woman !! I think it’s best for both sides to be later out !!
Cheating is never good , manipulation is never good but so is emotional instability & taking accountability for both sides .
He seems smart and open ! And she shouldn’t be making a decision based off anyone’s opinions but her own ..
Hopefully she makes the best decision for her .. it’s ok to let go for a while & trust what the future holds .
That was the weakest “I’m single!” I ever heard 😂
I’m so lost on why she think it’s okay for a men to disrespect her that many time🤨🤔like he’s not even cute🙄it’s show how much she respects her self.
I KEPT thinking to myself…..WHAT does she even see in him?!?!?!?!?
The fact that we feel like a person being deceitful and disrespectful to us is acceptable is ok for us to stay because we think its LOVE is crazy and I hate that for us.