Unlock The Phone: Is He Cheating With My BFF? | KARAMO

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  • Опубліковано 23 січ 2023
  • Aleacia suspects her boyfriend Sheffer is creeping behind her back. The worst part? She thinks he’s cheating with her best friend Sequoia. Aleacia doesn’t know how to move on because she and Sheffer share a son. Today, everyone’s phone is getting unlocked to get to the bottom of it all. Will Karamo find a path forward for Aleacia and Sheffer?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 936

  • @Nonnies.Glam1
    @Nonnies.Glam1 Рік тому +1410

    Catching him in her moms house with another chick should’ve sealed the deal ! Smh that’s so disrespectful to be cheating but to be bold enough to be in her mother house with another woman is Beyond disrespectful

    • @deeransom
      @deeransom Рік тому +75

      I was like wait what!? He would still be running from me till this day 😂

    • @alajuwonhiggins8865
      @alajuwonhiggins8865 Рік тому +4

      WHAT! 😮😧

    • @agadonk
      @agadonk Рік тому +26

      And then be with him for 4 years unmarried with his baby. I can't.

    • @startinajackson606
      @startinajackson606 Рік тому

      He’s dispicable, she has to know her worth and leave that cockroach

    • @ChibiChick25
      @ChibiChick25 Рік тому +1

      If catching her man balls deep in another chick wasn't enough to make her leave, nothing will smh #WasteOurTime

  • @NvturvllyChicYT
    @NvturvllyChicYT Рік тому +851

    He's a pathological liar but it's hard to feel bad for her when she wants him more than her own sanity. It's soooo sad

    • @virgochild4216
      @virgochild4216 Рік тому +11

      That resonated deeply in my soul.❤️🙏🏾

    • @aianayanna
      @aianayanna Рік тому +10

      literally , i just hope she finds the strength to walk away

    • @MerveilleloveTamegne
      @MerveilleloveTamegne 10 місяців тому

      So sad😢

    • @mudbuds1161
      @mudbuds1161 9 місяців тому

      That's exactly why we should feel bad for her.

    • @dajuaniaglass1669
      @dajuaniaglass1669 2 місяці тому

      I know them personally and it is sad, she’s been with him since she was in high school so she had years of emotional ties to him.

  • @planetsoverpeople
    @planetsoverpeople Рік тому +440

    Him leaving her for 6 weeks after literally giving birth to their son told me everything. And what's worse is she really allowed him to do that because she eats up whatever bs he tells her omg.

    • @foreignbentley173
      @foreignbentley173 10 місяців тому +17

      What makes me mad is she’s scared to be a single mom when in all sense of the word she’s already a single mom who gets the bare minimum of help from him. She’s doesn’t love herself at all and it’s very sad.

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 Рік тому +411

    1) lack of self esteem
    2) trauma bonding
    3) weight makes her insecure
    4) wasting her time with trash

    • @agabboo
      @agabboo Рік тому +31

      why bring her weight into this……….

    • @randomfemale4322
      @randomfemale4322 Рік тому +61

      @@agabboo weight is a source of insecurity for many women, whether Americans wanna admit it or not.

    • @Probity100
      @Probity100 Рік тому +19

      @@randomfemale4322 exactly thanks for explaining. We all know kids bully kids with weight issues and men mostly/always go for the skinnier girls.

    • @marimarielove
      @marimarielove Рік тому

      ​@tyntyn1010 lmao what kind of men are you speaking of, do you see all of these women getting bigger asses and hips, paying thousands of dollars and risking their lives to be bigger

    • @warriorchild2521
      @warriorchild2521 Рік тому +5

      You are Correct…And about the Weight in the USA 🇺🇸 , and other European countries it is a very big issue,in some other Countries ,however, it is the other way around..Totally Opposite, ..I remember in My Teenage yrs. and some of us, (Colleagues.. fam…my friends,etc ) , in their twenties (20)& early thirties (30)were trying to gain Some weight.. and even Now whenever,we are going back 😂to our Countries ,we tried to gained and Put on Weight 😂..😂.. The addition of the weight, is considered Sexy 😍👍.. ..it is Crazy !😜..it is called Culture!!..(NB..HAVING Parents from two different countries/Cultures one idolizes fat &Sexy ..and the other Skinny $ Sexy…and us (Children)benefactors of Dual Citizenship/Cultures..it is absolutely Crazy !!😝we should flow with the Programs!!!..Please Pray🙏for us!!!😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹

  • @empresssssssss
    @empresssssssss Рік тому +1203

    Karamo needs to do the lie detector tests included in shows also that would be cool

  • @afrodite287
    @afrodite287 Рік тому +83

    Not Karamo about to call that woman a big ball of sunshine and catching himself 💀💀💀💀

    • @ay-shaamasih9270
      @ay-shaamasih9270 Рік тому +11

      😂😂😂

    • @yfb.audiii
      @yfb.audiii 9 місяців тому +12

      I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS BECAUSE I ALMOST FELL TF OUTTTT😂😂😂😂

    • @afrodite287
      @afrodite287 9 місяців тому +10

      @@yfb.audiii he had to remember he was on TV 🤣🤣🤣

    • @naiibanks5538
      @naiibanks5538 7 місяців тому +1

      Yesss 😂😂

    • @AirShay
      @AirShay 4 місяці тому +2

      Okay so it wasn’t just me 😭

  • @MrsDymples76
    @MrsDymples76 Рік тому +329

    Her shady ahh “friend” has an explanation for everything 🙄. Why would you hide that he was coming to you for “advice”? I knew that the boyfriend bent her over as soon as the friend said “if I wanted him I can have him”. No ma’am no ma’am. Can’t have people like that around me.

    • @ariamarshall5161
      @ariamarshall5161 Рік тому +28

      U SAID IT!!!!!!

    • @victoryvences
      @victoryvences 2 місяці тому

      Soooo TRUE! 👍 🙌 👏 👌

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia 2 місяці тому

      Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂

    • @victoryvences
      @victoryvences 2 місяці тому

      @@PrettySequoia First of all...The correct words are: SHE and I. So I guess you dropped out of college too? You have some ridiculous reasons why you wouldn't sleep with him supposedly according to you. Those things wouldn't matter since it was just messing around, not marrying him! That profile picture looks nothing like you. I could tell that you're very insecure about your weight, even though you'd probably never admit it. Hopefully your friend kicked you out of her life for good.

    • @victoryvences
      @victoryvences 2 місяці тому

      @@PrettySequoia Yeah right the majority of people know that you're guilty especially since you deleted everything from your phone.

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 Рік тому +408

    The moment she said, I don't want him to leave me, is the moment it was over for her. He leaves her all the time. ......

  • @ivyring2
    @ivyring2 Рік тому +225

    Her friend even looked suspicious when karamo was telling her to be there for her . Let’s hope she leaves him & finds a new friend

    • @MerveilleloveTamegne
      @MerveilleloveTamegne 10 місяців тому +4

      Yes you better be alone

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia 2 місяці тому

      Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂

  • @mari_Mango88
    @mari_Mango88 Рік тому +390

    That six weeks thing was wild lol

  • @carringtonlei6105
    @carringtonlei6105 Рік тому +279

    First of all, when Karmo asked him why there were so many calls to her to the best friend, he was having a hard time coming up with an excuse - and the GIRLFRIEND - interrupted and gave him a built in excuse and said it was her... no, that's not how that works - if he's not talking to your best friend AT ALL... why was he trying to figure out an excuse instead of saying, immediately, "I don't call her!!!!"??
    Secondly, the best friend stepped in and gave him cover when she explained why he deleted their messages... then, SHE deleted their messages from HER phone too? What are you saying about her to the best friend - and what is the best friend saying to him about you that they're doing all this talking behind your back? I wish I WOULD find out that my significant other is talking to my best friend and I don't know about it!
    These people are having secks, sweetheart... get your self esteem together and find you another man and best friend.

    • @shawneegirl1980
      @shawneegirl1980 Рік тому +29

      You stated nothing but FACTS on top of FACTS LOL....she so delusional that she making excuses for them and choosing not to see it

    • @waveyandroyal
      @waveyandroyal Рік тому +9

      and did you see when she was explaining he looks at her like she lying 😂

    • @dcysivemedia3700
      @dcysivemedia3700 Рік тому +21

      That’s not her best friend that heffa is no good.

    • @SWEETZFRAMEZ
      @SWEETZFRAMEZ Рік тому +4

      Everything you stated is CORRECT!! Let's also add that nobody discussed the text message she saw, asking "how was it?" Or something to that affect, unless that cut out from what I watched. Also, she was very loose with every response she had to every question asked to her and even him, but when asked about her deleted messages, she took awhile to get the response out. It just seemed like she was definitely lying and couldn't think of a real reason. Aside from the ex. I'm sorry, this just screamed "sis, they're playing in your face"!

    • @gailwhite8361
      @gailwhite8361 11 місяців тому

      Well said 👏👏👏👏

  • @barbarachestnut6171
    @barbarachestnut6171 Рік тому +96

    Her so called best friend shouldn't been texting him behind her back. Her loyalty belongs to her. She's not a friend at all to me!

  • @2blessed2bestressed5
    @2blessed2bestressed5 Рік тому +62

    As soon as he lied about being a full time student, ( no reason to lie about it) I knew he couldn’t be trusted & everything was questionable.

  • @jariyanabots9565
    @jariyanabots9565 9 місяців тому +8

    The first giggle they did together would have been their last lmao

  • @marachatman4409
    @marachatman4409 Рік тому +96

    Him and the best friend got something going on 💯

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia 2 місяці тому

      Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂

  • @_pretty-tabs
    @_pretty-tabs 9 місяців тому +15

    She’s easily manipulated.
    The fact that she said she don’t think so bout her bestfriend is crazy.

  • @ambam656
    @ambam656 Рік тому +234

    Karamo was low key about to say something to her about that yellow dress in the beginning but he caught himself 🤣🤣🤣. I’m sure he didn’t want her to take it the wrong way

    • @JoeCola
      @JoeCola Рік тому +64

      He was two seconds from calling her Big Bird

    • @ambam656
      @ambam656 Рік тому +10

      @@JoeCola he really was though! 🤣 I felt it

    • @Shepinkfit
      @Shepinkfit Рік тому +75

      Big ball of sunshine 😂

    • @tjay9218
      @tjay9218 Рік тому +8

      I caught that as well

    • @tjay9218
      @tjay9218 Рік тому +10

      @@JoeColaI think it’s was a bumble bee 🐝

  • @mfieldssogood
    @mfieldssogood Рік тому +522

    I’ll NEVER understand why people ask for help only to KNOW THEY’RE going to stay with the foolery. When she needed him MOST, he went ghost instead of bonding and supporting her. Why didn’t his parents suggest he go home to his FAMILY??? And so-called friends shouldn’t be secretly communicating with your mate PERIOD!!! Don’t come get airtime/help knowing the truth is in your face🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @georgianamitchell9006
      @georgianamitchell9006 Рік тому +1

      0

    • @andrikaroberson5609
      @andrikaroberson5609 Рік тому +1

      EXACTLY

    • @perryrand876
      @perryrand876 Рік тому +1

      This is the one

    • @stephanieshaffer4131
      @stephanieshaffer4131 Рік тому +9

      Okay... why is she sitting there knowing she ain't going anywhere after the truth is revealed. 🤔😒🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kittielofton6095
      @kittielofton6095 Рік тому +6

      I agree sis! WTF are they even doing with eachothers number as well. And as long as she love him she isn't going nowhere. She will learn the hard way,,,I still think they messed around .

  • @godfavored5
    @godfavored5 Рік тому +58

    The way he look at the friend when she is answering questions 😒 “don’t slip” 😒😂

  • @paulslime298
    @paulslime298 Рік тому +38

    When she first came out Karamo said “look at you looking like ah…….beautiful “ he wanted to say something else lol😂

  • @bryencastle1152
    @bryencastle1152 Рік тому +11

    My eyes damn near rolled out my skull every time she said “because I love him” 🙄

  • @1234532785
    @1234532785 Рік тому +103

    This was really hard to watch. I PRAY she finds her self worth. She’s already raising her baby by herself. She doesn’t think there’s better out there! So sad.

  • @ExceptionalLex
    @ExceptionalLex Рік тому +39

    Pro tip: if you're already having problems in your relationship, don't add an innocent human into the mix.

    • @harundaniel7705
      @harundaniel7705 Рік тому +6

      Some think that adding a child to the mix will help solve their problems since it would make them “closer” and more “committed”…..uhhh no.

  • @rubymariie11.11
    @rubymariie11.11 9 місяців тому +11

    The Bestfriend and Boyfriend are definitely doing shit behind her back and I pray she opens her eyes very soon God Bless Her and Her Baby ♥️🙏🏽

  • @RuyaRuya0
    @RuyaRuya0 Рік тому +79

    Her best friend is a "good liar." I had a best friend who guys constantly reached out to after being rejected or do some messed up things, my ex went as far as asking her for advice. Come to find out when we broke up, she's hitting on him. RED FLAGS.

    • @apriljean8285
      @apriljean8285 Рік тому +10

      You call that lie good! I could see right through her BS 😂

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia 2 місяці тому

      Me and her both knew he was cheating as a matter of fact he’s about to have another child with another girl now. Me and her are STILL bestfriends & they finally broke up. I have a type, and it is HISPANIC men, that’s why it was funny to me bc she and everyone who knows me knows this. I don’t lay down with men who dropped out of college, smoke weed all day everyday, he doesn’t even take care of his son.. I STILL AM. He 100% was cheating on her and it was NOT with me. 😭😭😂

  • @Samanthas1
    @Samanthas1 Рік тому +72

    That man cheats on this woman consistently because he can, it’s also very likely that he done something with the friend. It’s so sad that someone would allow herself to be treated like this.

  • @katiekat8329
    @katiekat8329 Рік тому +13

    It’s so hard as a new mom in the first weeks, still in pain from giving birth, not feeling yourself with baby weight etc, and having a brand new tiny baby who cries every 2 hours to eat, change diapers, and mom has to figure out what the baby needs. Having a supportive partner is so helpful and can make you feel so much better about yourself.

  • @dayum_mi
    @dayum_mi Рік тому +19

    I’m confused. She said she won’t leave because I don’t want to be a single mother yet he leaves her for weeks at a time. This the epitome of I’m in a relationship alone. Girl you need to be afraid of STDs

  • @selfesteemqueen
    @selfesteemqueen Рік тому +265

    Neither can be trusted. Both of them are in toxic relationships and I wouldn’t be surprised if there was something more to the text messages that were deleted. The whole Tindr thing - I believe he’s cheating and she needs to really look within and gather her self esteem. She said she don’t wanna raise her kid on her own but she is basically doing that now because he’s leaving.

    • @sophiebutler5684
      @sophiebutler5684 Рік тому +19

      I hate when females say that, girl a lot of females don’t wanna be a single parent but I be damn if you going be cheating on me and keep leaving me I rather be single.

    • @sandrarice4197
      @sandrarice4197 Рік тому +15

      @@sophiebutler5684 By all definition she is already single raising her child alone. He is an absentee father and boyfriend.

    • @liorahlii1714
      @liorahlii1714 Рік тому

      Exactly 💯

  • @flawlessfabdiva
    @flawlessfabdiva Рік тому +25

    Deleting the messages from the phone is one thing but to delete them from iCloud…. That’s different.

  • @sashab.1589
    @sashab.1589 Рік тому +40

    She has no self respect and he’s feeding from that 😩🙏🏽😔I’m praying for her and her child .🙏🏽

  • @yellej3314
    @yellej3314 Рік тому +46

    I still think they are doing something honestly, they never answered what they were texting about when she asked "Was it good?" very suspicious, plus her smiling when they are about to check her phone.

    • @cecilianavarro9879
      @cecilianavarro9879 Рік тому +5

      I wouldn't trust her friend even if my LIFE depended on it !!! 😡😡

    • @DM-kz5or
      @DM-kz5or Рік тому +2

      EXACTLY!!

  • @MrsTriggaTay
    @MrsTriggaTay Рік тому +41

    Lord help, the pack of self esteem and self respect breaks my heart. In your bed at your parents house and he disappeared 6weeks after giving birth, it's just sad.

  • @aburgher1222
    @aburgher1222 Рік тому +242

    From the guilty look on Sequoia’s face when Karamo started talking about the unlocked phones, it was clear that she had something to hide.
    Alecia is gullible, she honestly doesn’t see that her so called friend is not a friend at all. How is it that Sequoia knew the answers to why all of Sheffer’s messages with her had been deleted both from his phone and the cloud? When Karamo asked him about them.
    I wish that Karamo had called her out on why she was answering a question directed to Sheffer, who he himself was stumbling to answer.
    You would think that the advice that a true friend would give would be in favour of saving your relationship, so there would be no need to erase the messages.

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia Рік тому +7

      Calm down I ain’t messing w anyone’s man. 😂 these shows aren’t want you think they are, remember that.

    • @pattielaine2931
      @pattielaine2931 Рік тому +3

      Let the church say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @MrsDymples76
      @MrsDymples76 Рік тому +3

      @@PrettySequoia please don’t tell me this ish scripted. I’ll be pissed

    • @nomzimasinyalela5080
      @nomzimasinyalela5080 Рік тому +10

      @@PrettySequoia texting and deleting messages to her man ,funny 🤣

    • @btallie
      @btallie Рік тому

      I really don’t think she is.

  • @trenellcarter1663
    @trenellcarter1663 Рік тому +91

    Yall deleted alllll the text messages??? So u mean to tell me EVERY single time you text him it's about giving advice???? Cut da crap lol...

    • @DBrown-vg1fi
      @DBrown-vg1fi Рік тому +13

      She’s lying

    • @chrissyvalenti
      @chrissyvalenti Рік тому +7

      Her lie was all over the place

    • @michellefreeman9886
      @michellefreeman9886 Рік тому +3

      Don't you wish you could be in the audience to yell that to them. I pray she gets it soon. For herself and her child.

    • @SL-ud7tf
      @SL-ud7tf 10 місяців тому +2

      Exactly! And notice the friend would answer for him, he deleted because I gave advice. I believe some physical activities took place between those two. They deleted even from the cloud.
      Edit: they discussed and rehearsed their 'innocent' faces for the camera, they deleted from both their clouds!

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia 2 місяці тому

      @@SL-ud7tf the fuck if it did 😂😂😭 I have a type and it’s hispanic men, that’s why I was laughing bc her and everyone that knows me knows this… he was 100% cheating he even has a baby on the way now, he was NOT fucking me trust that 😂😂

  • @iamidrac
    @iamidrac Рік тому +18

    why is the best friend answering for him..

    • @cecilianavarro9879
      @cecilianavarro9879 Рік тому +2

      That's what I say
      How can you trust your best friend talking behind her back with her boyfriend
      And giving him advice
      Is she a psychologist?

  • @sophiebutler5684
    @sophiebutler5684 Рік тому +58

    He going keep cheating on her because she lets him, she complains about it but doesn’t leave him, sis you deserve better and your child deserves attach mom and you can’t do that fully dealing with this.

  • @bxgirl2930
    @bxgirl2930 Рік тому +22

    And WHY THE HELL DO PEOPLE GIVE THIER FRIENDS THEIR MATES NUMBER ? 🙄 I NEVER FIGURED THAT OUT my husband calling and talking with my friends behind my back ABOUT ME SMH that's a form of comfort and intimacy that should be between both parties involved only

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 Рік тому +30

    This is why you don't carry before you marry.

    • @sophiebutler5684
      @sophiebutler5684 Рік тому +6

      What that has to do with anything you shouldn’t disrespect someone you say you love god bless her with a baby at that time.

    • @shanny0971
      @shanny0971 Рік тому +2

      I agree

    • @deshawnbrinson2298
      @deshawnbrinson2298 Рік тому +2

      Agreed

    • @torry24
      @torry24 Рік тому +6

      And what is marriage gonna do? He’s gonna do the same thing even worse then. Y’all put too much importance on marriage then be more f**** up than before!

    • @shanny0971
      @shanny0971 Рік тому +3

      @@torry24 can people have opinion?!! Goodness.

  • @distorbia20
    @distorbia20 Рік тому +17

    A man who can leave you for six weeks when you just gave birth so you can bond alone with a newborn is a psycho and doesn’t deserve you. My god. How do you forgive someone who wasn’t there for you when you needed him the most. The first few weeks and months of a newborn is so hard and the hormones don’t help too

  • @kmiller6587
    @kmiller6587 Рік тому +89

    The friend answering for him is sketchy. Him hesitating to figure out why his phone showed calls to the the friend? Sketchy. Because he would have said “I haven’t called her I don’t know why that’s even there”. Instead of scratching his brain for an answer. On top of that all their nerves said a lot to me. Whew, I wouldn’t trust either of them.

    • @dellapremium3704
      @dellapremium3704 Рік тому +18

      Sameeee!!! Even the friend deleting messages, is so suspicious! Cause if it was only giving advice, why would her ex make an issue out off it??👀..

    • @kmiller6587
      @kmiller6587 Рік тому +9

      @@dellapremium3704 I agree. They were way too quick to absolve her from any guilt.

  • @ThatOneWeirdGirl473
    @ThatOneWeirdGirl473 Рік тому +5

    The dude who was gripping his shirt at 9:41 is meee asff😭😭😭 but nah i dont understand why she even wanted the results knowing she was gonna stay with him.🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Itzyhani
    @Itzyhani Рік тому +9

    It’s so sad that she is so blind and accepting of their inappropriate behaviors.

  • @marryrobinson5566
    @marryrobinson5566 Рік тому +90

    When a man cheats on you What Love Got to Do with It🤨🥰🥰✌🏾

    • @brianwright889
      @brianwright889 Рік тому

      She Cheated On Him Too She Is Not Perfect Either

    • @andrikaroberson5609
      @andrikaroberson5609 Рік тому

      @@brianwright889 shut up

    • @brianwright889
      @brianwright889 Рік тому

      @@andrikaroberson5609 So You Saying She Could Sleep With His Friend Too That Don't Make It Right

    • @andrikaroberson5609
      @andrikaroberson5609 Рік тому

      @@brianwright889 but she didn’t though??

    • @andrikaroberson5609
      @andrikaroberson5609 Рік тому

      @@brianwright889 & if im not tripping karamo did state that they both had some differences before and they worked past them. so therefore they are no longer talking about it. this episode was to see if he was cheating on her with her best friend. they are not on this episode because of her possibly cheating. they are there because of him. and he has many red flags so just stop trying to play victim for him.

  • @shaylah2725
    @shaylah2725 Рік тому +8

    ' I dont want him to leave me ' ... Lord 😑

  • @PrettyhurrAKAne1908
    @PrettyhurrAKAne1908 Рік тому +35

    He just don’t make no damn sense 😅😩🤦🏾‍♀️ and she allow him to do what he wants, she not going anywhere Lawd smh

  • @KeepingUpWitZay
    @KeepingUpWitZay Рік тому +9

    his excuse was so weak 💀💀

  • @mangobby1515
    @mangobby1515 Рік тому +8

    He downloaded the app for the widgets🤣

  • @realmnthrwknives
    @realmnthrwknives Рік тому +61

    Nah i don't trust either one of them. I don't like the fact that both of them are deleting texts between the two of them - thats shady. But... the man is 100% trash. On tinder and logging in every time he goes away coincidentally? For color? What does that even mean. He's cheating clear as day and she deserves better.

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Рік тому +1

      I’m bias because I dated a guy who looked like him. I disagree he’s not trash. He’s a dumpster fire.
      Edit: I don’t trust her bff either.

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia Рік тому +2

      Okay well who cares, I know I ain’t do anything w him or want to. Unknown them both for years. And JUST stopped messing w my ex a month ago I wasn’t up in no one’s shit like that. Like I said he ain’t MY TYPE. I want a GOOD man, he look good to you?

    • @realmnthrwknives
      @realmnthrwknives Рік тому +15

      @@PrettySequoia People are gonna have opinions 🤷🏽‍♀️ I feel like you were being shady - that don't have to be cheating. But to me if my friend already has suspicions about me and her man then i would've been stop communicating with him AND stop deleting the messages. I would've been upfront and said i was giving him relationship advice about the two of you because he came to me. It took going on a tv show for you to do that.

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia Рік тому +1

      @@realmnthrwknivesshe knew that I was, I sent her messages of it. It’s a habit to delete stuff do you save all your unsaved contacts messages and spams? No? Didn’t think so.

    • @realmnthrwknives
      @realmnthrwknives Рік тому +8

      @@PrettySequoia spam and unsaved contacts are very different from a friend's boyfriend especially when that friend has already accused yall of doing something lmaoo and you know that but we can keep pretending ig

  • @torry24
    @torry24 Рік тому +25

    Yeah I believe he’s cheated with anything walking, he’s a horrible lier and he had the nerve to laugh about it! She needs to wake the f*** up! Talking about she scared to be a single mom, girl that’s ur self esteem. She’s needs to dismiss both of them.

  • @kris3980
    @kris3980 Рік тому +18

    Ale is a beautiful lady!! Boost up that self confidence and move on away from both your bf and bff, they're not in your corner. You should never beg someone to stay with you.

  • @nishahenson9759
    @nishahenson9759 Рік тому +13

    No what Karamo should have done was compare the dates, times and lengths of those calls between the two ladies to see if they were the 2 actually communicating together. Ijs 😳

  • @brittneycalynn7101
    @brittneycalynn7101 Рік тому +11

    Really she needs to be more in love with herself she so pretty she deserves better

  • @RecklessInspirer
    @RecklessInspirer Рік тому +10

    He doesn’t need to be texting her best friend to get relationship advice. That’s inappropriate to me. Especially after all that he’s put her through!

  • @arieltaylor6070
    @arieltaylor6070 Рік тому +19

    The gf needs some self esteem and self worth honestly. It's sad af how little she loves herself

  • @putitinder4595
    @putitinder4595 Рік тому +6

    Karamo is wise like Oprah, but the show is hella ghetto like Jerry Springer and I LOVE IT!…

  • @stephaniecarter5281
    @stephaniecarter5281 Рік тому +10

    They keep trying to let the best friend off-the-hook you know if you're going to blame him you're going to blame her to

    • @PrettySequoia
      @PrettySequoia Рік тому

      Bc I am off the hook, it happened with one of her old bestfriends of course she’s gonna think the same. But I was and am not never interested. :)

    • @malikastone
      @malikastone Рік тому +5

      Yep. The friend is still suspicious. In the first place it's not appropriate to be discussing intimate details of your "best friend's" relationship with her boyfriend. That's what therapy is for. If my friend's bf came to me looking for advice I'd say no, not my place I'm not gonna sit here and talk about my friend behind her back. They don't respect that poor girl at all. The boyfriend is pure trash. She needs to leave them both alone.

  • @peacelily7751
    @peacelily7751 Рік тому +11

    Hope she can build the strength to be more confident with herself and know that she doesn’t need to put up with a cheater and liar.

  • @tinabowie6955
    @tinabowie6955 Рік тому +15

    They’re both trash and lying. Girl dump him and tell her to kick rocks. She’s not your friend. Withholding info is the same as lying. You’re beautiful. You can do better💯💯💯💯

  • @venicesmith4525
    @venicesmith4525 Рік тому +2

    Girl bye, they've already discussed " we're deleting it" wake up!!

  • @jannanell
    @jannanell Рік тому +8

    The guy at 9:41 🤣

  • @tiba4life217
    @tiba4life217 Рік тому +6

    The lack of love for self....

  • @guccilady1017
    @guccilady1017 Рік тому +2

    You deserve what you accept. Once I learned that I had the strength to walk away from a cheater I loved. I told myself he’s only been able to repeatedly hurt me because I allowed it. It’s my fault and I’m done hurting myself.

  • @teshaj43
    @teshaj43 Рік тому +10

    Don’t put anything past the boyfriend and befriend because it happen to me.

  • @richbabe7836
    @richbabe7836 Рік тому +5

    She’s so beautiful 💛🖤

  • @JamMasterJazzy09
    @JamMasterJazzy09 Рік тому +5

    If that’s the best friend you got, you need new friends…. Smh

  • @TaylorL.X.K
    @TaylorL.X.K Рік тому +13

    He is just looking around. She is The side chick "friend". Why delete all of the text. They wasn't talking about her 24/7. They just both happen to delete all text. The friend kept talk because he isn't going to get them caught on tv. I would be upset that my best friend boyfriend is doing shady stuff to my best friend. If the two women are friends. There is no way the friend should be cool with him. I see no one validating her feelings until the end. It wasn't real.
    You know he is cheating with her. He is seriously on a whole dating app. He left her and the child to do his own thing. She is too young & beautiful. I wish Karamo would do a polygraph for once. I don't trust the best friend. Girl just co-parent and do you. If she fear being a single parent. That mean she must already figured that he ain't ish. Never stay because you have a child. If she haven't already. She need to take pictures of his info Incase he run. He seem like a**hole not a deadbeat. If he can leave her with the baby that long he may very well abandon his responsibilities. You can still find someone eventually to be in a loving healthy relationship with. It is better than being treated wrong.

  • @lungienxumalo3244
    @lungienxumalo3244 Рік тому +14

    Such lies 🤣 these 2 are playing her big time and they have both found a way to have complete control over her. The "bestfriend" is quick with answering questions which are directed to either the man/both of them cause she's a better liar, this is sad.

  • @perryrand876
    @perryrand876 Рік тому +22

    She is easily manipulated and it’s sad. The best friend and the man are bad for her. I wish there was w lie detector test

  • @EmpressT5
    @EmpressT5 Рік тому +13

    I love this show, it helps me so much! Karamo is the best!

  • @dezzydivine25
    @dezzydivine25 Рік тому +1

    The way he was gridding his teeth together when karamo was reading the his cat fish messages 😂

  • @sweettexastee
    @sweettexastee Рік тому +45

    Ok Karamo, I like the "unlock the phone" segment of your show but there needs to be some stipulations to this....I don't know what incentives, if any, you give to your guests, but something should be done about deleted text messages, apps, etc. and broken/new phones within a certain time period before the show....It's too easy for the guests to do and we are all still left without answers and having to speculate.....It defeats the purpose of them coming to the show....No pay, no return ticket home, something! Everything should be on hold until after the show besides a one-way ticket there!

    • @shamonicastone8592
      @shamonicastone8592 Рік тому +6

      Right because apparently the guests know about unlocking the phone before coming on the show!

    • @Marie-ff7vm
      @Marie-ff7vm Рік тому +3

      I agree!

    • @Zee-ob1pe
      @Zee-ob1pe Рік тому +7

      They should also do a lie detector test

  • @Novapj53
    @Novapj53 Рік тому +5

    I don't believe the friend, I think they have something going on because of the way he's looking and her friend keeps making excuses I just don't buy it

  • @emmebee1168
    @emmebee1168 Рік тому +8

    She's gorgeous. She can do so much better. Smh

  • @maddietv4421
    @maddietv4421 Рік тому +6

    the friend is clearly lying and they have sum going on

  • @aaliyahmontague
    @aaliyahmontague Рік тому +1

    That man lied with a straight face 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @richleyfans5820
    @richleyfans5820 Рік тому +11

    Where do you find a perfect spouse these days, you leave one and get into worse toxic relationship than the one you left, just stay alone and be happy if you don't want trouble.

  • @carmenwilliams8751
    @carmenwilliams8751 Рік тому +5

    He don't make no damn sense😂 wtf "colors"?!

  • @queenzhane7204
    @queenzhane7204 Рік тому +16

    There's way too much stock being put into the word. Love. Relationships are built on more than that. No one wants to be a single parent, but you have to have boundaries. I hope she gets it together and sees the light soon enough.

    • @kirascullark5224
      @kirascullark5224 Рік тому +2

      Indeed. What about respect? Sadly, he is a child. She is going to be going it alone whether he is around or not. And her so called Friend is disrespectful.

    • @queenzhane7204
      @queenzhane7204 Рік тому +1

      @@kirascullark5224 don't even get me started on this so-called friend. Homegirl just needs a new circle. I was a single mother for years and my kids are great. Life does not end because you are a single mother

  • @DejGarrett
    @DejGarrett Рік тому +1

    That "I give him advice that's why he deletes the text." Is so weird they lying.

  • @KTQ333
    @KTQ333 Рік тому +3

    She's not going to leave him and he can not formulate thoughts and sentences to save his life

  • @eyabrock
    @eyabrock Рік тому +7

    Nah her friend is messing with her man. She’s easily manipulated. Karamo knew. He should have just said “your friend can’t be trusted” but I think he stopped caring when he realized that she was dumb.

    • @lexioko
      @lexioko 9 місяців тому

      🤣😭

  • @v4mp2ari
    @v4mp2ari Рік тому +3

    I get the reason why she’s still with him, it hurts having to watch your mom be alone and being depressed , yes good things will come in time , but you don’t know how much time that will take. I get her fear and fear is a big factor in why people don’t leave.

    • @ExceptionalLex
      @ExceptionalLex Рік тому +1

      Once you conquer that fear you get stronger

  • @user-lg4gg8wl3d
    @user-lg4gg8wl3d 9 місяців тому

    "walking out here looking like -" like what sir say it 😂

  • @terry4161
    @terry4161 Рік тому +32

    Young people: do not idolize relationships. Stop loving friends and significant others more than god. There is a high probability your dedication will all be in vain.

    • @Shlbizzy_21
      @Shlbizzy_21 3 місяці тому

      The Bible said that family comes, frist, and it also said, keep your faith in private, pray in private and religion in private, and don't say he's name in vain, I'm sick of religious people always throwing their bullshit in people's face your not god

    • @terry4161
      @terry4161 3 місяці тому

      @@Shlbizzy_21 that’s the thing I’m not bound to any religion. I’m a spiritual individual…those are two very things but both religion and spirituality have love for god.

  • @Maddy25221
    @Maddy25221 11 місяців тому +3

    She may have a problem with being alone but she was ready to drop the friend and not the cheating boyfriend. He’s not even there, she IS alone, and the way she’s acting towards the friend tells she was going to blame her for whatever they did but couldn’t.

  • @IrenaDeacon
    @IrenaDeacon Рік тому +2

    Oh my dear sometimes when you love somebody love is not enough to keep relationship going. I know because I've been through it I've been through abusive relationships and gave people too many chances but I grow up and realised when people don't deserve chances don't give them. I just feel that this lady has a really golden heart a very very kind lady full of love that she should give the somebody who deserves her. Am I right or am I right?

  • @celestineallen5148
    @celestineallen5148 Рік тому +7

    It's not easy leave but when you leave you will be the happiest person. It's hard really hard am telling you but abuse let's not take it. As women or men. You can be single and love yourself.

  • @PastorNickcanody
    @PastorNickcanody Рік тому +4

    I don’t care what nobody says … They’re messing around.

  • @Texas_ice
    @Texas_ice Рік тому +1

    9:40😂😂😂😂 Dude was hear for the tea, Hunni.

  • @Lover4Fash
    @Lover4Fash Рік тому

    Sis you're beautiful! She does not need to deal with that, go be happy!

  • @sophiebutler5684
    @sophiebutler5684 Рік тому +6

    Girl don’t trust her she going say he ask for advice okay even if that’s the case why delete the message you only delete messages you don’t want your partner to see. (Snakes ) not only in the grass they lay next too you and smile in your face.

  • @Nivea_Walker
    @Nivea_Walker Рік тому +10

    Her man showed absolutely no emotions at all. Meanwhile she’s making excuses and being delusional about it. Sis leave him and glow up on him. You are worth more.

  • @Jamieegenti
    @Jamieegenti Рік тому +1

    They're both beautiful ladies!!! 😍

  • @LuckyyLEVEN
    @LuckyyLEVEN 4 місяці тому +1

    If Karamo did lie detector tests this show would be insane … Sheffer is sitting there like he doesn’t even know his name is Sheffer . He’s not even saying anything just sitting there saying “yea” “idk” “color apps”

  • @stephaniecarter5281
    @stephaniecarter5281 Рік тому +5

    Is she leave him she better leave the best friend too I don't think you doing nothing tell you the truth I just don't think he wants to be a father full-time yet and he still has his parents house he can go to and from

  • @stephaniecarter5281
    @stephaniecarter5281 Рік тому +7

    I don't believe it I think they're still up to something

  • @Lady.Pressed
    @Lady.Pressed Рік тому

    Goooddddd questions karamoooo!!

  • @queenmama9229
    @queenmama9229 Рік тому +1

    Not her type that's not the first thing say to ur BFF.
    Love Karamo he is so healing

  • @cheer8520258
    @cheer8520258 Рік тому +4

    He’s pathetic and for the streets. She needs to ditch both of them and seek therapy imo. Or at the very least set strict boundaries with her friend. I was somewhat in a similar situation where I was the friend (no fooling around in my part). When they were going through it (because of his foolishness) and he’d reach out to me to meditate, I would instantly reach out to my friend and keep her fully abreast. Yes we were all cool before he messed up, but my loyalty at the end of the day is to my best friend. Tf? Idk but if my friends man was ever to text me about anything (unless it’s like a surprise bday party or something), she’s getting screenshots. Out of respect and loyalty to my friend. 🤷🏾‍♀️