I agree 💯 I went thur this but he was using me for a place to stay I was naw if u can’t pay half my rent & bills u got to go & never look @ this age don’t got time for games or time or being use!!!
@@indiam1966 I met a guy last year and when I started conversing with him,he told me how he lived with his daughter,but she was preparing to move due to her job. Every time we talked he continued to bring it up,then he wanted to come over,bring wine, Netflix & chill. I told him I don't do house dates,I go out on dates. He continued trying to talk me into letting him come over. My pastor husband told me, he's trying to get in,he has no place to go once his daughter moves. If you let him in and stay the night, you're going to have a hard time getting him out. I took that advice and ran for the hills, I'm not a homeless shelter!! Glad you got rid of the dead weight 🥰 I tell myself if I want to take care of someone, I'll have kids. You will be surprised how many grown men are out here homeless. Many blessings to you.
With all the things she discovered on her own, she didn't need to go to Karamo to know her man is cheating. She knew everything she needed to know to make a decision to stay or leave.
No you have to be the one to make that choice. Other people will never help you leave a horrible person. Sadly, YOU have to be sick and tired of going through the mess and leave.
Based on him being ok with her getting a side piece tells me he doesn’t consider her as his girlfriend. She’s just a woman of convenience to him. She needs to find her worth.
Neve take word of what a woman is saying all that hyped up adrenaline after this show she'll be back with him they alwayz go back to the man child not a real man just like they do on couples court end of story as usual
He is straight up lying. He knows good and well he went to that jeezy concert WITH that other woman. I hope she leaves him. Karamo was right! She’s settling. All it takes is for her to see her own self worth and she will leave. Sadly, it takes some of us longer than others to do so. Been there and had 2 years of my life wasted by my ex getting played by him and lied to over and over. Notice he said “she ain’t never caught me….” Just because you don’t physically see someone cheating doesn’t mean you aint ignoring all kinds of red flags! Open your eyes!!!!
I mean with 8 kids and being 250lbs+...if I heard correctly, how many options does she have? She's not entirely in the best position to demand anything, so if she leaves she needs to have been building some type of financial cushion for her and her children.
If you are broken I'm praying you find healing in 2023 when a person is broken this is the treatment you will tolerate please learn to love you before getting into any relationship never lose yourself to have someone sometimes we sign up for our own pain
She has low self esteem 4 kids and probably feels like no one else will want her with 4 children .. she already know he ain't nothing . She ain't going nowhere .
I agree! She needs to work on loving herself and validating herself and healing any area's she needs too. It's sad that ppl will still stay and show their kids these unhealthy relationships behaviors.
I hope she gets the love and encouragement to leave. Start focusing on herself and the kids. Please sister better to be alone with peace of mind and happy!! 💙❤💙❤
@@barbiegirlmyaalexander3459speak on it sistah 💯💯 it's not too hard to tell a person that you're not happy if that person ain't happy they need to speak up open there damn mouth it goes both wayz for men and women ain't no sex above the other men and women need to stay single if they are going to cheat
Wow!!!!! I found out my ex was cheating while at a Jeezy Concert!😂 He was with another chick and she was pregnant!! The girl was recording them together and posted it, and my friend saw it. She screen recorded it and sent it to me. This was almost 2 weeks ago. I felt no way about it. Bc I always ask God to remove anyone out of my life that’s not supposed to be apart of it. I just ended the relationship and keep it moving. 💋
Why can’t us women be stronger. You had your proof she would have made more effect (if that’s what she wanted) just walking away with less noise. she’s clearly has low self esteem and is just generally probably quite tired with life. 4 children , 1 for him and they’ve only been together 3yrs. I hope she gets better. Losing weight first may help! ❤
Women are not weak. They are taking into consideration their children and them being raised in a broken home..unlike men who cheat. Shame on you for calling women weak.
@@megan236 it’s 2023. Women do not need to be staying in a home with a man that is not respecting them. Children or not. Children are not stupid either. Adults start acting funny, things change and everybody can notice it. Happiness always comes first and honesty!
Honestly people just don’t want to be alone so they become indenial. This lady cheated on her husband 25 times & her husband said it was just a phase & she would get over it.
sometimes it better to be alone.....she might not be able to make it on her own [so she stays].For men and women that have another sneaky link just don;t get into a relatioinship.Tell people you can;t be faithful.
"She should break up with me then" He doesn't want to be in this relationship...and instead of being honest about that and leaving, he wants her to be the one to leave. He is passive af and doesn't want to look like the bad guy.
@Chichi Okolo Omission of information and wasting years of someone's life is NOT being honest. The only reason he even said what he said on the show is because he was backed into a corner.
@@thewriter2050 I’m pretty sure he’s said similar things in the past. This is not the first time this man has looked at this woman with contempt (and it won’t be the last since she likely won’t leave). She didn’t hear it because she may have felt the pickings were slim and she couldn’t do better. And when you are an overweight, uneducated, unattractive woman you are usually right. Unfortunately.
Karamooooo!!! Thank you for bringing back the old school talk shows!!! The audience interacting, you interacting and commenting. I LOVE your show!!!!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
He is hiding something. Renae needs to let him go. He is a cheater. Your family can survive without him. He said you can leave. He doesn’t love you enough. Be happy leave him alone.
He's not cheating. The girlfriend, the one at the Jeezy concert, clearly knows this lady and how willing this lady is to be the side piece, the baby mama, and the birther for his seed as long as he tells her she's beautiful. He's not cheating on his girl.
Love can truly be blind so no judgement and I've been there but I had enough and realized he had the issue not me and I never looked back. A lot of women take infidelity as something wrong with them and it effects there self esteem. But we must value ourselves first and foremost!
After the first time catching him , it should have been a wrap! Ladies, please start knowing your worth and stop accepting the lies! Having a peace of mind is better than having a piece of a man cheating on you and having you do insecure stuff like this💯
Chris knows that's he's cheating on Rani. If he refuses to unlock his phone, that means that he has a guilty conscience and he knows that he's going to be busted. Rani has every right not to trust him.
He not even in the relationship no more, he just talking she tolerated too much so he not gone take her serious look at his response but sis like it as well she use to the little drama her and her friends be having fun searching… hopefully she can gain some confidence and self love don’t accept this type of behavior.
I understand her to 100% Im so glad that Im not like this anymore. I hope she finds the strenght to leave, its so easy to say ”just leave him” but its not.
This woman is NOT stupid. She’s quick witted and shuts down his silliness quick. I think this is a self esteem issue or trauma, cuz she knows he is up to no good but won’t let go
I have 3 brothers and were all handsome and I never understood why my younger brother mess wit all big girls. He has 2 kids by two overweight bms. All his lil chicks either thick or heavyset and I thought it was his type. Til I took him round some slim nice looking females and he was doing his thing wit dem but it'll never last..... after watching dis episode i see why. Girls with weight issues are very insecure and put up with a helluva lot more than a girl who has options... he neva had a job , dont take care his kids , but got alotta females, it ain't a coincidence that they're all overweight. This not to degrade obese women btw jus an observation 💯 she gah work on herself big time she a black queen its somebody out here for everybody ❗❗
She knew she needed to leave him before she even came to this show. This man didn’t care if she left him or not 😭 “she can go” like baby don’t walk, run!
Y’all got to stop fighting for people who put you in the position to fight. Especially just a boyfriend. He already being deceitful. Marriage either never happening or he’s going to do the same in marriage. Girl, just leave.
Its sad to say but she's going baxk home to all the BS she came to the sgiw with. His a** would be gone on thre fact of not participating in making the relationship work. Why did you come to the show knowing you didn't give af about the relationship. I hate that she has to go through that but it will not stop until she's ready to acknowledge he's not for her.
She has low self esteem & is settling for a lying, narcissistic piece of man. He knows how to give her just enough to stay, while he does EXACTLY what he wants.
my question if i was in the audience "why would you lie about being alone if its just a friend you bumped into ? why are you friends with a woman DMing your girl and creating trouble like that ?"
“just because he makes you feel nice in some ways doesn’t mean he has permission to make you feel bad in other ways” AMEN!!!!
Preaaaaccchhhhh
Churrrch
Amen 🙌🏾
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is a word! ❤
When he said, she can leave!! That sealed the deal !! If he is willing to give up that easy and not fight, it says alot.
I agree 💯 I went thur this but he was using me for a place to stay I was naw if u can’t pay half my rent & bills u got to go & never look @ this age don’t got time for games or time or being use!!!
@@indiam1966 I met a guy last year and when I started conversing with him,he told me how he lived with his daughter,but she was preparing to move due to her job. Every time we talked he continued to bring it up,then he wanted to come over,bring wine, Netflix & chill. I told him I don't do house dates,I go out on dates. He continued trying to talk me into letting him come over. My pastor husband told me, he's trying to get in,he has no place to go once his daughter moves. If you let him in and stay the night, you're going to have a hard time getting him out. I took that advice and ran for the hills, I'm not a homeless shelter!! Glad you got rid of the dead weight 🥰 I tell myself if I want to take care of someone, I'll have kids. You will be surprised how many grown men are out here homeless. Many blessings to you.
You’re very wise Valina!!
That’s to much work 😂
@valinadavis960 your pastor husband?
With all the things she discovered on her own, she didn't need to go to Karamo to know her man is cheating. She knew everything she needed to know to make a decision to stay or leave.
True but sometimes women need a lil extra motivation to leave a toxic situation. I wish that weren't the case.
Hello!🥴😌
So true.
didn't need to g
Wanted a mini vacation with her cheating man.
Sometimes the signs of cheating can be right in your face and you STILL need help making a decision to stay or leave...It's crazy
So true
They called unstable creatures for a reason
Soo true
No you have to be the one to make that choice. Other people will never help you leave a horrible person. Sadly, YOU have to be sick and tired of going through the mess and leave.
I guess she was hoping it was hope! so sad she needs to move on.
Based on him being ok with her getting a side piece tells me he doesn’t consider her as his girlfriend. She’s just a woman of convenience to him. She needs to find her worth.
He's going to continue to cheat on her because he knows she not going nowhere. I feel sorry for her.
Why she grown she knows has evidence and all so if she likes it I love it
True
I never understand why women want to know so much and knowing they're not prepared to do anything about it!!
Neve take word of what a woman is saying all that hyped up adrenaline after this show she'll be back with him they alwayz go back to the man child not a real man just like they do on couples court end of story as usual
Crazy, not so sure why we r wired that way
Karamo and these suits!!! 🙌🏾 I can just look at him and his fashions without the content. He got me searching for a mauve suit now 😂
😂😂😂😂
Ain't he fresh?!!!
😄😄😄😄
It is clear as glass that he is not committed to her & and she's just trying to convince herself otherwise.
I pray that this woman find self love first. When you have that you will never settle for less.
This man told her twice in this episode that she can go. She needs to work on her and realize you don't need a man to make you happy.
He is straight up lying. He knows good and well he went to that jeezy concert WITH that other woman. I hope she leaves him. Karamo was right! She’s settling. All it takes is for her to see her own self worth and she will leave. Sadly, it takes some of us longer than others to do so. Been there and had 2 years of my life wasted by my ex getting played by him and lied to over and over. Notice he said “she ain’t never caught me….” Just because you don’t physically see someone cheating doesn’t mean you aint ignoring all kinds of red flags! Open your eyes!!!!
Sadly I stayed in a relationship like that for 5 years! I’m glad 2 people that I love helped me open up my eyes.
I mean with 8 kids and being 250lbs+...if I heard correctly, how many options does she have? She's not entirely in the best position to demand anything, so if she leaves she needs to have been building some type of financial cushion for her and her children.
KARAMO is clean!!!
If you are broken I'm praying you find healing in 2023 when a person is broken this is the treatment you will tolerate please learn to love you before getting into any relationship never lose yourself to have someone sometimes we sign up for our own pain
She has low self esteem 4 kids and probably feels like no one else will want her with 4 children .. she already know he ain't nothing . She ain't going nowhere .
I agree! She needs to work on loving herself and validating herself and healing any area's she needs too. It's sad that ppl will still stay and show their kids these unhealthy relationships behaviors.
I hope she gets the love and encouragement to leave. Start focusing on herself and the kids. Please sister better to be alone with peace of mind and happy!! 💙❤💙❤
She said if he had been honest about the woman at the concert, they could have went on with their day.
I agree 💯 percent with you
@@barbiegirlmyaalexander3459speak on it sistah 💯💯 it's not too hard to tell a person that you're not happy if that person ain't happy they need to speak up open there damn mouth it goes both wayz for men and women ain't no sex above the other men and women need to stay single if they are going to cheat
It’s easy to see when you’re not emotionally connected. She knows but it’s still hard.
Doing what is right is most often Not easy. She needs to find her self respect and dump him yesterday.
It’s hard to believe that some of these guys actually have women fighting over them. 🤦🏽♀️ #Why
Girl, I was thinking the same da$& thing!!!😳
Exactly
Ahahahahahahaha Right?
Exactly 💯
You got a women and you take another women out instead of me is a deal breaker....PERIOD....BOY BYE!!!
My heart goes out to her, because she’s blind to what’s really real!!! 😢
Well you know what they say.. love is blind
She's not blind she sees it, she just doesn't want to let go.
She's not blind, some women think they can't live without a man, so sad!
@@het-herukhepra752 very!!
She’s playing dumb. She isn’t going anywhere.
Once I seen the picture, it's no need to unlock his phone. You already know the answer ma'am
Girl, what are you seeing in this man? SMDHHH
Did y’all catch him when he said I’m happy at home with my man 😅😂😂😂😂
He continues to lie and try to excuse himself. Leave him alone you can do better without him. You are beautiful.
Wow!!!!! I found out my ex was cheating while at a Jeezy Concert!😂 He was with another chick and she was pregnant!! The girl was recording them together and posted it, and my friend saw it. She screen recorded it and sent it to me. This was almost 2 weeks ago. I felt no way about it. Bc I always ask God to remove anyone out of my life that’s not supposed to be apart of it. I just ended the relationship and keep it moving. 💋
Why can’t us women be stronger. You had your proof she would have made more effect (if that’s what she wanted) just walking away with less noise. she’s clearly has low self esteem and is just generally probably quite tired with life. 4 children , 1 for him and they’ve only been together 3yrs. I hope she gets better. Losing weight first may help! ❤
Women are not weak. They are taking into consideration their children and them being raised in a broken home..unlike men who cheat. Shame on you for calling women weak.
And not basing your worth on having a man. It's better to have no man, than a garbage man.
@@megan236 it’s 2023. Women do not need to be staying in a home with a man that is not respecting them. Children or not. Children are not stupid either. Adults start acting funny, things change and everybody can notice it. Happiness always comes first and honesty!
@@wadilotus exactly!
Honestly people just don’t want to be alone so they become indenial. This lady cheated on her husband 25 times & her husband said it was just a phase & she would get over it.
Easy to “connect dots” when the line is ALREADY DRAWN🤣 3:31
Lmao!!! I know this is someone’s real life, it’s just that this comment was too funny!!
Right?!
Yes honey get your self esteem up because you're lacking. He is using you, he doesn't want you. He's with you for convenience.
I mean pictures, dm’s and phone calls….. ma’am what more proof do you damn need
sometimes it better to be alone.....she might not be able to make it on her own [so she stays].For men and women that have another sneaky link just don;t get into a relatioinship.Tell people you can;t be faithful.
What's love got to do with it!! Common sense should let her know he's cheating!!
He knows her self esteem is so low and that he just has to tell her she's beautiful and he can treat her anyway he wants and she will accept it
Beautiful woman..please know your worth... he's not worth the heart and headaches...point...blank... PERIOD!!!!!
Not the jewelers package having a “pacific” name on it 🤦🏻♀️
Stop it 😂😂😂😂😂 @jennifer
We have 'A' child, but between us, we have 8 children.... wait, what? This is one nasty bucket of chicken 🐔
🤣🤣🤣 rotted moldy chicken
🤣🤣🤣
He must be with her, cause she takes care of everything, financial
That and the cushion.
Love him out of your life. Love yourself first!!!
She want to act slow, I don't feel bad for her. He showed you millions of times that he don't want to be you! She must be taking care of him.
"She should break up with me then"
He doesn't want to be in this relationship...and instead of being honest about that and leaving, he wants her to be the one to leave. He is passive af and doesn't want to look like the bad guy.
He is honest about it. "She should break up with me then" is honesty. She's refusing to hear it, like you just did.
@Chichi Okolo Omission of information and wasting years of someone's life is NOT being honest. The only reason he even said what he said on the show is because he was backed into a corner.
@@thewriter2050 I’m pretty sure he’s said similar things in the past. This is not the first time this man has looked at this woman with contempt (and it won’t be the last since she likely won’t leave). She didn’t hear it because she may have felt the pickings were slim and she couldn’t do better. And when you are an overweight, uneducated, unattractive woman you are usually right. Unfortunately.
Karamo is slaying with these fashions! 🔥💯
Karamooooo!!! Thank you for bringing back the old school talk shows!!! The audience interacting, you interacting and commenting. I LOVE your show!!!!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Rani, Don't settle. You are a beautiful woman. You deserve so much better. Don't be a doormat. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Whether she is beautiful or not, she needs to get a backbone and stop being a fool.
He is hiding something. Renae needs to let him go. He is a cheater. Your family can survive without him. He said you can leave. He doesn’t love you enough. Be happy leave him alone.
Tell her that she is BEAUTIFUL yet cheating on her is not showing her how beautiful she is. That crush her esteem even greater... Smh!
Girl run🏃🏾♀️💯 There's a great man in your future ♥️ A man who has nothing to hide, hides nothing.
It's his audacity for me 😭
Help her Jesus with her self esteem! Cause baby when he said "she should just break up with me!!!!!" She should have told him to kick rocks!
If you have to go through all of this, what are you really doing? Walk away!
He cheating and she a fool if she thinks otherwise 😮
He's not cheating. The girlfriend, the one at the Jeezy concert, clearly knows this lady and how willing this lady is to be the side piece, the baby mama, and the birther for his seed as long as he tells her she's beautiful. He's not cheating on his girl.
@@AkireMaru He’s cheating!!!!
KARAMO you doing a wonderful job, keep it up, putting family and friends together 🙏🙏
Clearly he wants to be single,...
Child its not him its her letting another person treat you like this.
she has all the evidence of him cheating. she didnt need to unlock his phone.
Not Young Jeezy! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chile... THE DUST!
How is he making you confident but u on here checking a phone? How sway?
Confidence comes from within hunny
That’s right make him nervous girl lol
You had all your answers.....
He looks like a sparring partner lol
This woman chose to continually be a fool and accepted it. Good luck to her on her journey.
I swear Karamo you're the man! 🔥🔥
Girl smh 🙄 you know this man got a whole other wife and kids somewhere. PLEASE stop being with these men off of hope and possibility
Love can truly be blind so no judgement and I've been there but I had enough and realized he had the issue not me and I never looked back. A lot of women take infidelity as something wrong with them and it effects there self esteem. But we must value ourselves first and foremost!
After the first time catching him , it should have been a wrap! Ladies, please start knowing your worth and stop accepting the lies! Having a peace of mind is better than having a piece of a man cheating on you and having you do insecure stuff like this💯
why tf would they come all that way if he wasn’t gon unlock his phone wth…
This big back dude should be ashamed of himself. He acting like HE is the prize. I hope and pray she move tf around cause he doesn't deserve her...
being inlove will make you blind to alot of things.
Girl, what more do u need to know?? Leave him, or leave him to dog u out in peace.
Chris knows that's he's cheating on Rani. If he refuses to unlock his phone, that means that he has a guilty conscience and he knows that he's going to be busted. Rani has every right not to trust him.
Love going to Jeezy concerts💜💜. He would get hurt if he with another girl seeing Jeezy and not with me!
My man can’t even go see azeliah banks without me with another woman 😂
omg he literally hates her. i hope she knows how beautiful she is. he's def taking advantage of her low self esteem.
She’s not going anywhere so her goon squad may as well stop snooping.
She and her goon squad...let that man do dirt in peace...
@@jamesgibson3716 exactly lol
She stay even after he told her the truth child please girl why are they on the show let him cheat in peace she ain’t going nowhere clearly
He not even in the relationship no more, he just talking she tolerated too much so he not gone take her serious look at his response but sis like it as well she use to the little drama her and her friends be having fun searching… hopefully she can gain some confidence and self love don’t accept this type of behavior.
I understand her to 100% Im so glad that Im not like this anymore. I hope she finds the strenght to leave, its so easy to say ”just leave him” but its not.
First off, she's been with him for 3 years, no engagement?
Don't forget they also have a child together.
@@traceejohnson290 yes they have a child but that's still no excuse to be a door mat.
Bussssttteerrr. Ima stick beside em!!! That’s my dawg
This woman is NOT stupid. She’s quick witted and shuts down his silliness quick. I think this is a self esteem issue or trauma, cuz she knows he is up to no good but won’t let go
I have 3 brothers and were all handsome and I never understood why my younger brother mess wit all big girls. He has 2 kids by two overweight bms. All his lil chicks either thick or heavyset and I thought it was his type. Til I took him round some slim nice looking females and he was doing his thing wit dem but it'll never last..... after watching dis episode i see why. Girls with weight issues are very insecure and put up with a helluva lot more than a girl who has options... he neva had a job , dont take care his kids , but got alotta females, it ain't a coincidence that they're all overweight. This not to degrade obese women btw jus an observation 💯 she gah work on herself big time she a black queen its somebody out here for everybody ❗❗
It happens out the blue people u haven’t seen in years out of all just shows up
If they know they are coming to the show for a certain thing , and they back out… the guest should be on the hook for their plane ride home 😂
If I had a dollar for every time she said “and I believed it” I would be a rich.
You get a side piece I get a side piece 😂 😅
I love Karamo!!
He don’t want you boo.
She knew she needed to leave him before she even came to this show. This man didn’t care if she left him or not 😭 “she can go” like baby don’t walk, run!
Y’all got to stop fighting for people who put you in the position to fight. Especially just a boyfriend. He already being deceitful. Marriage either never happening or he’s going to do the same in marriage. Girl, just leave.
Some people don’t get how traumatizing this is
Extremely traumatizing
What being lied to and played, please it has happened at least once to everyone.
Its sad to say but she's going baxk home to all the BS she came to the sgiw with. His a** would be gone on thre fact of not participating in making the relationship work. Why did you come to the show knowing you didn't give af about the relationship. I hate that she has to go through that but it will not stop until she's ready to acknowledge he's not for her.
Collectively 8 kids, 3 1/2 yrs together, and not married?! Girl Bye
And her homegirls looking out for her and she not gonna do nothing about it.
She has low self esteem & is settling for a lying, narcissistic piece of man. He knows how to give her just enough to stay, while he does EXACTLY what he wants.
Karomo being messy😂 tryna gas light that man and the crowd ⛽️ like that😂
Why come on the damn show if you aren't going to open your phone? Girl, run! He does not respect or honor you.
So when she leaves him he's gonna be harassing her. Because she had the nerve to
leave him.
Men are weird.
Ego.
“In the beginning” Baby they always do that! Wake up! It’s called manipulation
She knew good and well she sharing her man.....why did she go on national tv to be made a fool?
When the camera went to Chris backstage for the very first time … good lordt .
He was gaslighting so hard, he didn’t even know how to make up new lies on the spot😂
I'm 2 minutes in and I'm trying to understand how much proof do you need
I'm lost for words for once!!! LMAO
my question if i was in the audience "why would you lie about being alone if its just a friend you bumped into ? why are you friends with a woman DMing your girl and creating trouble like that ?"
"It was a jury package with a pacific name on it." 💀