He said it hisself “I don’t wanna be single” THATS the issue. Deep down he doesn’t really wanna be w her he just doesn’t wanna be alone & that’s where he needs to start so he doesn’t end up in the same relationship over & over again
When she said “who’s really ready to have a kid”…my parents were lmao I do not believe in just having kids and not being prepared at all. I understood exactly what he meant
This girl is a queen. She is so beautiful in a lot of ways. For this whole episode I couldn’t stop admiring her and her words especially these ones about their kid. May she find a real man who would cherish her and love her just the way she does. She definitely deserves the best
I don’t think it’s the fact that he’s not a real man, I think it’s the fact that he’s still developing and exceptionally so. He was just not the fit for her at the time.
Girl, all the love and focus you gone give to him give it to yourself. There's so much more to life, travel, get your degree, broaden your horizon. I can't fault him for the way he feels. He is blatantly telling you he isn't ready. At that age men usually want to explore and test the waters. You both are young, enjoy your lives.
You’re right. She’s not listening because she’s too focused on what she wants. Stop trying to wear these men down when they’re being honest about how they feel.
You know these mammies only feel ALIVE when being subjected to exploitation by a black man… it is there number one goal in life to be in a one sided parasitical symbiosis that in her MIND and there minds alone(!) ARE LIVING IN A DISNEY FAIRY TALE
At this stage of my life your comment makes perfect sense but at 20, it most likely would’ve wnt in one ear and out the other 🤷🏻♀️ …. probably why my dad would always say “hard head makes a soft behind” …. he was right lol
People know that! But everyone has the ability to have children, and not everyone is gonna be a perfect parent 💯 you can’t just come back to this statement every time dealing with emotionally broken people. You have no idea what actually caused these insecurities within her or what her parents are like. Please educate yourself sis maybe you can do some healing and find yourself.
@@callmebymyname8634 no, I'm saying this is normal stage etiquette on Karamo's show. I don't really see how you can judge the young man's character based on that.
@@markydan1232 I understand the normalcy of the manoeuvre and also that not everyone is the same. However, I still believe if someone cares enough about a person they would greet them upon meeting them regardless of where or how that meeting took place.
I believe she still will be with him. On the show it was a front for Karomo. I never noticed how ridiculous I was until I seen her. I was a fool and loving a man more than he loved me, like her. It took years for me to wake up and leave him alone.. Karomo was right, because I ended up resenting him, because now I have to always deal with him because we have a son. A man that loves you and wants you will be everything you need, romantic, loyal, and he will look for you, not the other way around. The fact that he doesn't plan dates speaks volumes. As someone else commented he's not romantic but with the right one he will! What one man/woman won't do trust and believe the next one will!
At 20, she seems more invested in the potential fairytale than in her own personal development and growth. She seems intelligent but needs an awakening. If she stays with him it will likely be a rude awakening. 8 mos in and he doesn’t want to be “inside” with her. If the baby had survived would he have miraculously turned into an “inside dad” to care for them. I hope she exits stage left and embraces being single.
Unfortunately this young lady knows how to catch a man but she does not know how to retain him,,,,,,, men and women process emotions very differently,,,,,,, although I do not think this young lady is (the streets),,,,,, she has to realize that,,,,,, the young man that she picked,,,,,,, is very young,,,,,,, and although (HE),,,,,, Macy her is a probable candidate,,,,, it did not help her case,,,, when she unfortunately decided to get up and walk off stage,,,,,,,,, this young man knows that she is very (emotional) therefore,,,,,,, he knows this is something that he really doesn't want to deal with at 22,,,,, therefore he may not be ready for this type of relationship,,,,,, she wants him to be a (husband),,,,, when fact in reality he's not actually grown up yet! Where is she is,,,,, ready to settle down now,,,,,,, and ,,,,, a fact of life,,,,, this young man will do what most young men do,,,,,,,,(choose the best,,,,,,,, that gives the,, least (RESISTANCE,,,,, IN having a headache) (🤯💯🤷❗)!
I'm about to call this exactly the way I see it. He wants to spend time away from home with his friends doing whatever it is they agree to do but still go home to her without being in a committed relationship. He's using her for a place to stay. That's exactly what it is
These two should go their separate ways and who knows maybe they can be together some 5 or 10 years down the line. It's a hard truth but kids in their early 20s, especially guys, aren't ready to settle down and start a family that early. A lot of us have been there and done that and we know.
I won’t say all guys, this concept of guys in their early 20s aren’t ready to settle down is BS! Lol I do agree that most guys aren’t but it’s not just guys in their early 20s, it’s guys with their morals Jacked up, I got married at the Age of 19 And I’m 22 now, me and my wife are still together and are growing stronger than ever. So let’s not just say early 20s it’s men with their priorities jacked up period!!!
so i didn't fault him when he said it was a blessing in disguise bc while that is harsh, its his true emotions. But then to lean back and be like it wasn't fully a child to the mother of said child is CRAZY. Everyone can have their own opinions about a fetus, a baby, etc but SHE was the pregnant one and SHE lost the life inside of her. That immediately would've shifted something in the way i look at him. That's BEFORE the unlock the phone happened. Baby leave him. "Just to look" go to hell
He wasnbt grieving...he was glad she lost it. When he said what he said about it not fully being a child, thats what it told me. He tried to say he grieves differently but he doesn't look like he cares about the loss of the baby lol....he went right back to going "outside" lol
She is trying to force a relationship. If you feel the need to check your partner's phone you need to move on. Why stay with someone that you do not trust.
Girl you’re young! Now is not the time to try to tie a man down if he’s behaving as if he doesn’t want to! Live your life and the right one for you will come to you while you’re focusing on yourself, much love.
I hope she learns the lessons she needs to learn in her “first grown” relationship. No one should have to change in order to be loved and accepted by a mate. She’s asking him to grieve in a way that makes her feel comfortable and that doesn’t work at all. She’s not ready for a grown up relationship. She needs to take time to grieve the baby and mature a little more before she moves in with a man.
What he wants is to be outside...and do just enough to save her for later. A lot of men do that because women..we just don't allow ourselves to see when they are not ready. And I am so glad Karamo said the "courage" to break up because making a choice based on what you know to be true rather than your emotion is very difficult. I can see these two young adults going their separate ways but finding each other again after they have lived a little bit. #ONELOVE
My question will be, if they ain't ready but love the vibe between them right, why can't they just live the moment and see what becomes of it? Something like experimenting and see what the results might be? Obviously, they ain't really ready for commitment - they too young for that and they have a lot of experience going forward. Except if they ain't really honest about wanting the enjoy the moment, I feel they should let the moment do it's magic.
The only problem is after she's lived a little bit he won't want her,,,, simply put,,,,,(women are interested in a man's future,,,,(men are interested in a woman's PAST,,,,, men and women are VERY different,,,,,, with too much experience,,,,, the process of elimination has already begun unbenounced(To Most Women)!👎🤷👎💯
Yes! Karamo said some true words at the end. I got with my boyfriend at 22, Same story, cheating, lies, “outside”etc. I wanted him so bad though, so I stuck around thinking I could change him. Lots of heartache, lots of cries. And now here I am at 30, resenting him, unhappy and finally deciding to choose me. I have a long road ahead of healing and learning to trust again and also trusting myself. Learning to actually love myself and get to know myself is challenging cause I really don’t know me anymore. I pray this young lady chooses herself.
He doesn’t wanna be single but he wants to be single and have her and have a place to stay.. he knows he’s not ready but he’s ready to be around her but not with her
I love Karamo's stickpins, and if they are called something else, someone please tell me. We called them that decades ago. Love Karamo...so calming and informative.
as far as the pregnancy goes i’ve never been pregnant but ik as a woman if you miscarry or have any dire complications like that, its gonna hurt her. deep. but i do feel like she cant get mad at the way HE feels about the pregnancy and how HE grieves. it might not seem right and ok to you but to HIM thats what his mental can take
8 months together pregnant & miscarriage that's a lot for any relationship but especially a new one, she jumped in head first!!!! She is head over heals wish her luck! On this bumpy road ahead
Sis, why you trying to grow a baby for a man who hasn't asked you to marry him? What's wrong with these females? If you don't trust him why would you make a baby with him? That baby will not keep him with you. You'll just be a baby momma. Be successful, be about you, build your self esteem. Don't become a family without a commitment in marriage. Trust me what I say is true because I can tell where this is headed in two to five years she'll be his baby momma and he'll be with someone who's not insecure trying to make babies.
Great Advice you gave the young man...they moved too fast and she's very serious now and he should be 22 and enjoying himself and she should too. They're both young! Great Great Advice!
Great video: I was in a beautiful marriage before my ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bringing this here, i cant stop thinking about her.
its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, till i had to seek the help of a spiritual spell caster who helped me bring her back
Like my Daddy always told my sisters and I, " Why would a man pick an apple from the ground when he'd gladly climb to get the freshest one?? And why would a man buy the cow when he's getting the milk for free?? This young woman needs to know her worth so she won't choose just any guy who won't marry her but shack up instead. Pull back girl and let dogs roam.
Seriously?? Your significant other going on an app during the course of the relationship is a MAJOR red flag. That to me is a form of premeditated cheating. Id rather a guy who doesn't step out at the first relationship inconvenience.
I think these are two young people trying to fast track life. He is trying to see what is out there before making any true commitments. I don't think he is cheating; he is just young and that is what you do at that age. You still figuring out life! Enjoy your youth and find happiness for yourself without expecting it from someone else. #loveisthemedicine
It feels like she tried to trap him with that baby. He told her that the miscarriage she had was a blessing. She needs to step all the way back. She wants to change him and he’s not into her enough to care about her needs and wants.
i don't know who needs to hear these but NEVER FORGET .. Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes , always perseveres. LOVE NEVER FAILS. (1Corinthian 13:4-8)
She needs to be honest with herself and say that she only wanted to have the baby because she thought it would keep him. Broooo y’all are 20 years old, who what man what’s a baby at 20?
They need to slow down. 20, only in a relationship for 9 months and lost a baby already? At this age, take your time with the person you are dating! Learn each other, communicate and enjoy each other before trying to develop a family. Too much too soon.
At that young, man it’s okay to wanna be outside, it’s okay to end a relationship neither make you a bad person. I found that in the ending of relationships we always want to place blame, but there doesn’t always have to be a bad guy in the situation..
At least he knows what he wants, but I agree with his admission that he wants to be in a committed relationship.. He sounds like he’s screaming out for guidance, like a father figure.. I don’t agree they’re too young to be committed because they can grow together if they support each other through the relationship.. I think she should give him a chance to fix his actions, especially since this is the first open conversation they’re having since the miscarriage.. He’s not cheating, and that says a lot about his character for a man of his age.. I don’t think he’s a bad guy, he just needs a mentor.. If he wanted to roam I think he had plenty opportunities to roam.. I want to see the whole episode because I feel like he wasn’t heard and his feelings were dismissed because he’s a young male that likes being outside..
I get him. They weren't ready and this child would've been brought up in dysfunction. I get being sad about it. However, I agree that it may be a "blessing" that this child didn't make it.
If a man says to you that we are not ready for a baby then dont push cause darling its goona be u stuck with the baby alone . Be free be happy live life when its your time you will be bless with your perfect family
Women expect a lot from men when they're not ready to give it. Relationship is give and take. Give love and received love. Don't give to someone who is not ready to take it and appreciate you. Don't expect a man to give you what you're not giving him. 8 months she's already feeling insecure means her next relationship she will still be insecured. If she has be cheated before meaning the problem is with her not the men who come to her. She has to withdraw, check herself then take it over so that it wont repeat itself. There's something deeper in them that need to be fixed
Musajja-wa-KABAKA, Karamo. Ssebo webale okutuweereza. Eno video nayo tujeyanzizza nnyo, nga bulijjo. Kannyongere okukowoola Jjajja Nabuzaana akunnyongerere emikisa kamaala. God bless you abundantly.
One of the few times where no one is doing anything absurdly foul or being super toxic with these relationships😭 but I’m glad they were able to communicate and accept (possibly) that they just don’t belong together
Woman think they are suppose to give EVERY a baby. She’s sitting there w/trust issues & everything else & she’s talking about having a baby. She’s trying to trap him w/a baby to keep him & make him do what she wants him to do. That man is doing his OWN thing. Women need to do better. More ppl should be HONEST when it comes to having kids, he’s absolutely right. Now use protection, Sir!
I 100% understand what he meant with saying it’s a blessing in disguise and they weren’t ready. Getting would of been baby names tatted is INSANE They’re both really young and didn’t need to have a child rn especially after 8 months. This relationship is moving kind of fast with them already living together. Like just because they’re young doesn’t mean they can’t be committed but let’s be realistic at the same time. She wants marriage and children NOW but that’s going to take time . Don’t rush , don’t force , just let it happen naturally . Maybe today ain’t the day for y’all to be so serious with one another so many expectations.
Maybe he needs a place & not really into you so he tests the waters. Now he can get away it because you aren't going anywhere, just complaining.so he gets to do whatever he wants PLUS live off you! Dump him
Me and my child’s father met a month before I got pregnant and we both stay inside we like do not go out anymore like that every once in awhile he goes out and I choose to stay home it can work if he wanted too but he doesn’t he doesn’t see himself with her honestly.
Nah Karamo sometimes you gotta go where your heart is. They clearly love each other & doesn’t seem toxic so maybe theyll stay together until the wheels fall off & then they can separate later in life and then live their single free life. At least that’s how I did it lol. Been in 3 relationships since freshman in HS I’m 29 now and single for 3.5 years.
no man falls "inlove" faster, than a boy who needs a place to live.
The term is Hobosexual
@@cajunfire6290 😂
@@cajunfire6290 😂😂😂 I love that term
@@MelMoy11 smh
@@TrajaeBJones it's terrible
“He’s not a romantic person” for the woman he actually wants he would be.
@@cajunfire6290 okay in some cases but that’s not what I was speaking about tho.
He gives me a gay vibe 😂
@@cajunfire6290 Huh? What are you talking about.
This right here. He’s not romantic for HER 🙄
Facts
“Before you start over let’s unlock that phone”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LMAO FR 😂😂
He said it hisself “I don’t wanna be single” THATS the issue. Deep down he doesn’t really wanna be w her he just doesn’t wanna be alone & that’s where he needs to start so he doesn’t end up in the same relationship over & over again
dudes have been doing this since forever tho. and they never listen lmao
Either that, or he just doesn’t want anyone else to have her.
ppl be dating trying to salvage a relationship like theyve been married for 30 years. it’s unreal 😮
When she said “who’s really ready to have a kid”…my parents were lmao I do not believe in just having kids and not being prepared at all. I understood exactly what he meant
Exactly!
This!!! I’m always stunned when people say they didn’t plan their kid… what do you expect to happen if you get 🤦♀️ in
Same. My parents married in their late 20's and planned my brother and I. They didn't just have us unexpectedly or unprepared .
I didnt plan mine even though I wanted to. Came as a total surprise at 8months. Dr said BOOM you pregnant then BOOM you gotta have her NOW! 😅😂
then the audience gon clap like it make sense 😕
This girl is a queen. She is so beautiful in a lot of ways. For this whole episode I couldn’t stop admiring her and her words especially these ones about their kid. May she find a real man who would cherish her and love her just the way she does. She definitely deserves the best
You hit the nail on the head
I don’t think it’s the fact that he’s not a real man, I think it’s the fact that he’s still developing and exceptionally so. He was just not the fit for her at the time.
She's so pretty omgg
Girl, all the love and focus you gone give to him give it to yourself.
There's so much more to life, travel, get your degree, broaden your horizon.
I can't fault him for the way he feels. He is blatantly telling you he isn't ready. At that age men usually want to explore and test the waters.
You both are young, enjoy your lives.
You’re right. She’s not listening because she’s too focused on what she wants. Stop trying to wear these men down when they’re being honest about how they feel.
@@opulence_prime But we all heard him JUST say he wants to be with her. It’s not all on her.
@@opulence_prime love the username
You know these mammies only feel ALIVE when being subjected to exploitation by a black man… it is there number one goal in life to be in a one sided parasitical symbiosis that in her MIND and there minds alone(!) ARE LIVING IN A DISNEY FAIRY TALE
At this stage of my life your comment makes perfect sense but at 20, it most likely would’ve wnt in one ear and out the other 🤷🏻♀️ …. probably why my dad would always say “hard head makes a soft behind” …. he was right lol
I'm embarrassed for her. This is why it's so important to instill confidence and self worth and value in your daughters
People know that! But everyone has the ability to have children, and not everyone is gonna be a perfect parent 💯 you can’t just come back to this statement every time dealing with emotionally broken people. You have no idea what actually caused these insecurities within her or what her parents are like. Please educate yourself sis maybe you can do some healing and find yourself.
Just leave him alone he said the miscarriage was a blessing and now coming home extremely late yeah just leave your intuition is never wrong .
+Nicole817 You are mad pretty!!!!... Shit!!!!...
@@moisepicard3991 thanks have a blessed day and may god continue to bless you and your family 💕
always trust your gut!!
It probably was the best thing for them. They can’t even take care of themselves.
@@bjackson4825 I get that but both selfishly knew this and still made the decision to have a baby
He walked on stage and didn’t even greet her. Don’t waste your time girl. Actions tell you all you need to know. ❤
That's actually pretty common
@@markydan1232 My whole point is it shouldn’t be 😌
@@callmebymyname8634 no, I'm saying this is normal stage etiquette on Karamo's show. I don't really see how you can judge the young man's character based on that.
@@markydan1232 I understand the normalcy of the manoeuvre and also that not everyone is the same. However, I still believe if someone cares enough about a person they would greet them upon meeting them regardless of where or how that meeting took place.
@@callmebymyname8634are you new to these type of shows? even the most in love couples don't greet each other. you doing too much thinking. chill out
So basically he wants to do what he wants to do but wants her there waiting for him when he gets back from doing what he wants to do. 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah definitely l been there before and l was hurt a lot now l am wiser trust me 🤞🤓
Sounds about 20 years old
Am going through this , I need strength
@@letsgrowwithm4620i hope u out sis
@slimtend40 Yes, I Agree With You On This 100%
I want to be outside, but......
I need a place to stay.
🤣🤣🤣
That’s EXACTLY what it is.
Nutshell and I hope she don't fall for it. I hope she is paying attention because his actions are betraying his mouth.
This comment took me out!!😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂poor guy he is gonna be homeless now with the advice Karamo should get him a place to stay too
I believe she still will be with him. On the show it was a front for Karomo. I never noticed how ridiculous I was until I seen her. I was a fool and loving a man more than he loved me, like her. It took years for me to wake up and leave him alone.. Karomo was right, because I ended up resenting him, because now I have to always deal with him because we have a son.
A man that loves you and wants you will be everything you need, romantic, loyal, and he will look for you, not the other way around. The fact that he doesn't plan dates speaks volumes. As someone else commented he's not romantic but with the right one he will!
What one man/woman won't do trust and believe the next one will!
Good feedback bit their decision
@@nick74195 true it's there decision. They seem like a lovely couple but you can't force it. Ijs
At 20, she seems more invested in the potential fairytale than in her own personal development and growth. She seems intelligent but needs an awakening. If she stays with him it will likely be a rude awakening. 8 mos in and he doesn’t want to be “inside” with her. If the baby had survived would he have miraculously turned into an “inside dad” to care for them. I hope she exits stage left and embraces being single.
Unfortunately this young lady knows how to catch a man but she does not know how to retain him,,,,,,, men and women process emotions very differently,,,,,,, although I do not think this young lady is (the streets),,,,,, she has to realize that,,,,,, the young man that she picked,,,,,,, is very young,,,,,,, and although (HE),,,,,, Macy her is a probable candidate,,,,, it did not help her case,,,, when she unfortunately decided to get up and walk off stage,,,,,,,,, this young man knows that she is very (emotional) therefore,,,,,,, he knows this is something that he really doesn't want to deal with at 22,,,,, therefore he may not be ready for this type of relationship,,,,,, she wants him to be a (husband),,,,, when fact in reality he's not actually grown up yet!
Where is she is,,,,, ready to settle down now,,,,,,, and ,,,,, a fact of life,,,,, this young man will do what most young men do,,,,,,,,(choose the best,,,,,,,, that gives the,, least (RESISTANCE,,,,, IN having a headache)
(🤯💯🤷❗)!
I was also in that same situation I do have a good co parenting relationship with him but I regret having a child with him so much
I'm about to call this exactly the way I see it.
He wants to spend time away from home with his friends doing whatever it is they agree to do but still go home to her without being in a committed relationship.
He's using her for a place to stay. That's exactly what it is
These two should go their separate ways and who knows maybe they can be together some 5 or 10 years down the line. It's a hard truth but kids in their early 20s, especially guys, aren't ready to settle down and start a family that early. A lot of us have been there and done that and we know.
Yes, we know and wish we knew better then
I won’t say all guys, this concept of guys in their early 20s aren’t ready to settle down is BS! Lol I do agree that most guys aren’t but it’s not just guys in their early 20s, it’s guys with their morals Jacked up, I got married at the Age of 19 And I’m 22 now, me and my wife are still together and are growing stronger than ever. So let’s not just say early 20s it’s men with their priorities jacked up period!!!
@@jkevtv495THIS!!!
@@jkevtv495THIS. me and my husband also got married at 19 and we’re doing great
U saying especially guys in their early twenties is not ready but most women are not ready in their early 20s🤦🏿💯🤣
so i didn't fault him when he said it was a blessing in disguise bc while that is harsh, its his true emotions. But then to lean back and be like it wasn't fully a child to the mother of said child is CRAZY. Everyone can have their own opinions about a fetus, a baby, etc but SHE was the pregnant one and SHE lost the life inside of her. That immediately would've shifted something in the way i look at him. That's BEFORE the unlock the phone happened. Baby leave him. "Just to look" go to hell
He wasnbt grieving...he was glad she lost it. When he said what he said about it not fully being a child, thats what it told me. He tried to say he grieves differently but he doesn't look like he cares about the loss of the baby lol....he went right back to going "outside" lol
I immediately shifted like whaaa 🤨🤔🤔
I mean it wasn’t fully a child nothing to get so hurt over
@@MontManii msybe to you and maybe to him and thats fine. But to say that to the person that was actually pregnant is nasty.
@@MontManiigirl are you crazy miscarriages are painful nd traumatizing asf nd fuck with your body
They are so young and looking for advice to save their relationship and the only thing our generation can offer them is self love lol
She is trying to force a relationship. If you feel the need to check your partner's phone you need to move on. Why stay with someone that you do not trust.
Girl you’re young! Now is not the time to try to tie a man down if he’s behaving as if he doesn’t want to! Live your life and the right one for you will come to you while you’re focusing on yourself, much love.
💯💯💯
I thought she was about to take her wig off 😂😂
She should have 😂😂😂😂😂
I hope she learns the lessons she needs to learn in her “first grown” relationship. No one should have to change in order to be loved and accepted by a mate. She’s asking him to grieve in a way that makes her feel comfortable and that doesn’t work at all. She’s not ready for a grown up relationship. She needs to take time to grieve the baby and mature a little more before she moves in with a man.
What he wants is to be outside...and do just enough to save her for later. A lot of men do that because women..we just don't allow ourselves to see when they are not ready. And I am so glad Karamo said the "courage" to break up because making a choice based on what you know to be true rather than your emotion is very difficult. I can see these two young adults going their separate ways but finding each other again after they have lived a little bit. #ONELOVE
My question will be, if they ain't ready but love the vibe between them right, why can't they just live the moment and see what becomes of it? Something like experimenting and see what the results might be? Obviously, they ain't really ready for commitment - they too young for that and they have a lot of experience going forward. Except if they ain't really honest about wanting the enjoy the moment, I feel they should let the moment do it's magic.
The only problem is after she's lived a little bit he won't want her,,,, simply put,,,,,(women are interested in a man's future,,,,(men are interested in a woman's PAST,,,,, men and women are VERY different,,,,,, with too much experience,,,,, the process of elimination has already begun unbenounced(To Most Women)!👎🤷👎💯
Yes! Karamo said some true words at the end. I got with my boyfriend at 22,
Same story, cheating, lies, “outside”etc. I wanted him so bad though, so I stuck around thinking I could change him. Lots of heartache, lots of cries. And now here I am at 30, resenting him, unhappy and finally deciding to choose me. I have a long road ahead of healing and learning to trust again and also trusting myself. Learning to actually love myself and get to know myself is challenging cause I really don’t know me anymore. I pray this young lady chooses herself.
He does not care about that baby. He is actually happy about it.
Imma 16 year old female. I enjoy watching these😂❤.
He doesn’t wanna be single but he wants to be single and have her and have a place to stay.. he knows he’s not ready but he’s ready to be around her but not with her
Love this show and karamo always keep it real
She would have been another single mom.. get rid of him
She answered all her own questions little does she know 🙏🏾
Karamo be telling the truth about these relationships
He deleted them texts and other pics guaranteed
@@ashpash1271 naw lol, Karamo’s team will find those too 😂
I love Karamo's stickpins, and if they are called something else, someone please tell me. We called them that decades ago. Love Karamo...so calming and informative.
His lapel pin. I like them too
@@Teenytinymia Thanks for the correct name. As times change, we have to be current with the names.
as far as the pregnancy goes i’ve never been pregnant but ik as a woman if you miscarry or have any dire complications like that, its gonna hurt her. deep. but i do feel like she cant get mad at the way HE feels about the pregnancy and how HE grieves. it might not seem right and ok to you but to HIM thats what his mental can take
She is his comfort zone ( living arrangements)... he doesn’t want to find another’s place to live!
Simple
Take a shot every time they say “outside”
chile..if i did i would run every store out of alcohol🤦🏾♀️
8 months together pregnant & miscarriage that's a lot for any relationship but especially a new one, she jumped in head first!!!! She is head over heals wish her luck! On this bumpy road ahead
Karamo you hit the nail right on the head with everything you said to this young man
She Definitely Loves Him More Than He Loves Her 🙁
Respect,Trust,Love,Commitment, Communication,Self Love/if you don’t have that ,there’s no us period
Sis, why you trying to grow a baby for a man who hasn't asked you to marry him? What's wrong with these females? If you don't trust him why would you make a baby with him? That baby will not keep him with you. You'll just be a baby momma. Be successful, be about you, build your self esteem. Don't become a family without a commitment in marriage. Trust me what I say is true because I can tell where this is headed in two to five years she'll be his baby momma and he'll be with someone who's not insecure trying to make babies.
That man need somewhere to stay you can tell 😂 “ I don’t wona be single I wona stay wit you”
“that’s what we say in texas” girl everyone says that everywhere 💀
Great Advice you gave the young man...they moved too fast and she's very serious now and he should be 22 and enjoying himself and she should too. They're both young! Great Great Advice!
It's ok if he wants to be outside at 22 just be honest. I was locked down during my 20's but I was ready and not everybody is and they aren't ready.
Great video: I was in a beautiful marriage before my ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bringing this here, i cant stop thinking about her.
its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, till i had to seek the help of a spiritual spell caster who helped me bring her back
@@MajorCockbern wow, how did you get a spell caster, and how do i reach her?
@@elshanazimov6043 Her name is Victoria Dora white, and she is a great spiritual spell caster who can bring back your ex.
@@MajorCockbern Thank you for this valuable information,i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@elshanazimov6043Dont be doing no damn voodoo on people, cmon now. Let it go!
Like my Daddy always told my sisters and I, " Why would a man pick an apple from the ground when he'd gladly climb to get the freshest one?? And why would a man buy the cow when he's getting the milk for free?? This young woman needs to know her worth so she won't choose just any guy who won't marry her but shack up instead. Pull back girl and let dogs roam.
I feel like the app wasn’t that deep for her to walk away 😭😂
Seriously?? Your significant other going on an app during the course of the relationship is a MAJOR red flag. That to me is a form of premeditated cheating. Id rather a guy who doesn't step out at the first relationship inconvenience.
Me too it was extra
The drama lol
I think these are two young people trying to fast track life. He is trying to see what is out there before making any true commitments. I don't think he is cheating; he is just young and that is what you do at that age. You still figuring out life! Enjoy your youth and find happiness for yourself without expecting it from someone else. #loveisthemedicine
It feels like she tried to trap him with that baby. He told her that the miscarriage she had was a blessing. She needs to step all the way back. She wants to change him and he’s not into her enough to care about her needs and wants.
Precisely
Exactly
How did him tatting the baby name give he was trapped
Facts
Now it's het fault lol ok
This young lady needs to focus on herself and her own education and goals.He is not the one!Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
She is trying to grow up too fast, and he needs to grow up.
That’s most women’s mistake esph when dealing with younger guys that’s why they prefer older guys
i don't know who needs to hear these but NEVER FORGET ..
Love is patient.
Love is kind.
It does not envy,
it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others,
it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
it always protects, always trusts, always hopes , always perseveres.
LOVE NEVER FAILS.
(1Corinthian 13:4-8)
Unconditional Love, but Love, brings all that!!!!
Girl everybody say outside lol
She needs to be honest with herself and say that she only wanted to have the baby because she thought it would keep him. Broooo y’all are 20 years old, who what man what’s a baby at 20?
Giiirl leave this man. You deserve better, focus on yourself. You're young and have a whole life ahead of you
When he says stay with you. He means I'm her house 😊
They need to slow down. 20, only in a relationship for 9 months and lost a baby already? At this age, take your time with the person you are dating! Learn each other, communicate and enjoy each other before trying to develop a family. Too much too soon.
The comment I was looking for, why is she even trying to have a baby with some one who she can’t communicate clearly with
i’m sorry but a BLESSING?!!
They both not ready they are in 20's they having fun safely enjoying themselves
At that young, man it’s okay to wanna be outside, it’s okay to end a relationship neither make you a bad person.
I found that in the ending of relationships we always want to place blame, but there doesn’t always have to be a bad guy in the situation..
He wants to stay w her cus he’s homeless :/
🤣 💯
🎯 These young girls just don’t get it. Hell I’m 25 and know when 💩 is stanking! I’m single and childfree for life!
At least he knows what he wants, but I agree with his admission that he wants to be in a committed relationship.. He sounds like he’s screaming out for guidance, like a father figure.. I don’t agree they’re too young to be committed because they can grow together if they support each other through the relationship.. I think she should give him a chance to fix his actions, especially since this is the first open conversation they’re having since the miscarriage.. He’s not cheating, and that says a lot about his character for a man of his age.. I don’t think he’s a bad guy, he just needs a mentor.. If he wanted to roam I think he had plenty opportunities to roam.. I want to see the whole episode because I feel like he wasn’t heard and his feelings were dismissed because he’s a young male that likes being outside..
If you met him “outside” then why are we confused on him being outside….
she said it was “love at first sight” yet she said “i was good being single” like girl
I get him. They weren't ready and this child would've been brought up in dysfunction. I get being sad about it. However, I agree that it may be a "blessing" that this child didn't make it.
If a man says to you that we are not ready for a baby then dont push cause darling its goona be u stuck with the baby alone . Be free be happy live life when its your time you will be bless with your perfect family
Women expect a lot from men when they're not ready to give it. Relationship is give and take. Give love and received love. Don't give to someone who is not ready to take it and appreciate you. Don't expect a man to give you what you're not giving him. 8 months she's already feeling insecure means her next relationship she will still be insecured. If she has be cheated before meaning the problem is with her not the men who come to her. She has to withdraw, check herself then take it over so that it wont repeat itself. There's something deeper in them that need to be fixed
He always looks so fly!
Let's be sincere, a 22 year old boy isn't mature enough to be in marriage, even at 28 I never felt ready.
28 is old enough
Not everyone is the same
Marriages use to begin younger than that you can marry young and wait a couple of years before having kids
Musajja-wa-KABAKA, Karamo.
Ssebo webale okutuweereza. Eno video nayo tujeyanzizza nnyo, nga bulijjo.
Kannyongere okukowoola Jjajja Nabuzaana akunnyongerere emikisa kamaala.
God bless you abundantly.
A person must value God and their spouse and partner before they value anything else. No exceptions.
One of the few times where no one is doing anything absurdly foul or being super toxic with these relationships😭 but I’m glad they were able to communicate and accept (possibly) that they just don’t belong together
How do you get em, is how you lose em….. time to grow up and learn that
i love the karamo show
Woman think they are suppose to give EVERY a baby. She’s sitting there w/trust issues & everything else & she’s talking about having a baby. She’s trying to trap him w/a baby to keep him & make him do what she wants him to do. That man is doing his OWN thing. Women need to do better. More ppl should be HONEST when it comes to having kids, he’s absolutely right. Now use protection, Sir!
First of all, why are they even on a whole tv show and they only been dating 8 months.
She need to appreciate him saying how he feels upfront . Why have a baby with someone who is obviously not ready just to try to keep him ?
She said she will be good single but I can see and maybe even Stevie Wonder can too, that she's about to go home and herself a really good cry
The wig the wig the wigguh😊😭
She's built the comedian Sinbad.
I 100% understand what he meant with saying it’s a blessing in disguise and they weren’t ready. Getting would of been baby names tatted is INSANE They’re both really young and didn’t need to have a child rn especially after 8 months. This relationship is moving kind of fast with them already living together. Like just because they’re young doesn’t mean they can’t be committed but let’s be realistic at the same time. She wants marriage and children NOW but that’s going to take time . Don’t rush , don’t force , just let it happen naturally . Maybe today ain’t the day for y’all to be so serious with one another so many expectations.
I wish I had this advice at 24
Same!
Karamo stay sharp!!
this girl is beautiful inside and outside... the guy is a player
Karamo we need updates on relationships
I love your show
It hit different when yk dis lil dread ahh 🥷🏼
We met "Outside" ... but I'm "DIFFERENT"
Maybe he needs a place & not really into you so he tests the waters. Now he can get away it because you aren't going anywhere, just complaining.so he gets to do whatever he wants PLUS live off you! Dump him
Good advice.
I believe even though you are young and in an relationship you can still go out and have fun. That's good he is not cheating.
could’ve kept this episode honestly 😂 didn’t even need to air this one
On the cool.
Exactly lol everything about it was trash
This fool said … 😩I WANNA BE OUTSIDE 🤦🏾♂️😅😅😅😅
His face when she said she wants to be with him long term 😭
No real man want a family until they our financially stable in reality.. but sometimes us as woman want a family to fast 💨
Me and my child’s father met a month before I got pregnant and we both stay inside we like do not go out anymore like that every once in awhile he goes out and I choose to stay home it can work if he wanted too but he doesn’t he doesn’t see himself with her honestly.
Man, both of ya'll run!
Karomo is the grim reaper when it comes to relationships
Hello from South Sudan Juba🫂❤️
Nah Karamo sometimes you gotta go where your heart is. They clearly love each other & doesn’t seem toxic so maybe theyll stay together until the wheels fall off & then they can separate later in life and then live their single free life. At least that’s how I did it lol. Been in 3 relationships since freshman in HS I’m 29 now and single for 3.5 years.
she so pretty 😻