Hanging out after she breaks it off only gives her another chance to confirm why she left or wanted a break. Only hang out to have fun and hook up, no confirm her thoughts and feelings towards you while doing “friend” things like running errands. (Just heard it from the coach in his last sentence of this video. It’s so true.)
I've been watching since 2015. I went from being a factory worker to an assistant Project Manager at a utility company. The mindset helps and the work put in will speak for itself.
This girl is done with him. It's over. So now if he wants to avoid this happening again, he's gotta read the book, not once but at least 10 times & he's gotta get his drinking under control
Yup that happened to me. She broke up with me after she had enough of my over drinking. Get the drinking under control first and foremost, then go see a behavioral therapist.
Yeah drinking is a fools game in my younger days, I have destroyed a couple relationships with my drinking. I ended up pushing them away with my behavior
@@jeremys3418 I did too & I learned from it. Id get drunk & if my GF & I started having a disagreement instead of walking away (NEVER argue with a women) Id just keep going & the "Fuck you bitch" would start coming out. She'd hang up & id start calling back to no answer & leaving drunk out of control messages. It's impossible to think logically & its all drunk raw emotion. After awhile ANY girl will get tired of that & lose all respect. I stopped all that years ago & my relationships immediately improved
@@mahdman3 Didn't have to go to a therapist but it might be needed for someone.Thankfully when I quit getting shitfaced all the time I immediately saw improvement in my mindset & behavior & haven't ran any women off since then
This coach is one of my favorites. I use to be in this guys position 6 years ago and it caused my divorce since then ive read his book among many others seeked help and now me and my ex wife still see each other occasionally. Altho I never went back I am alot older and just want to work on myself "have fun and hook up" and that lingo rlly works
I just finished watching one of your videos and it hit so hard, i was crying, then I watched the start of this video and burst out laughing at your Jack in box impersonation.
Lol. She ain’t coming back bro. You blew it…several times. She’ll meet a chill, low key surfer dude in Hawaii and start a new relationship while being close to family. Better listen to Coach, read the book several times and don’t blow it on the next girl. Go book a flight somewhere else, that isn’t Hawaii. Do not pop up on the girl. She don’t want you
Ur personality sucks and probably ugly but just like the d I guess 😂. It’s like when us men just to want to hit it but would never be seen with her in daylight 😂
Nooooo... noo no. I was in a relationship with a chick that put in almost no effort. I found a text from her to her friend where she said I miss my "ex hoe"... so I always remembered that. She did nothing to make me feel secure. Gave me one word text and never did shit for me so i kept feeling like there was someone else. She would accuse me of being insecure constantly... and made it look like I was the problem to everyone else.. After I would confront her.. Women are full of shit now days.
Question, i recently was scrolling on Instagram and i noticed that a good friend of mine got engaged, i told my girlfriend that i am hapy for him that he got engaged and then my girlfriend told me "that means you too now need to hurry" (meaning i should hurry with proposing to her) she told me that with a big smile...is that her way of telling me that i need to propose to her? Thanks
Proposing is a sure fire way to kill a % of attraction and make her think you're a guy who's easy to control and predictable. We've all (men and women) been conditioned to believe marriage is the way forward. It's just a day that costs a shit load of money and makes you a lap dog. And she'll make you feel guilty for not proposing because the uncertainty is emotionally tiring for her and she wants you boxed in so she can start thinking of other guys. As horrible as it is that's the way it is.
Remember the book, you should ask her what she means by that statement. I mean, it's obvious that she wants you to propose to her but always make sure where you stand with her without being pushy on the subject.
I was the one dumping her multiple times thinking logically and then would go back to her asking for forgiveness.. but this time was the last straw she already had a line up n basically hooked up with him after I dumped her again out of spite.
That's not true a woman falls in love and out of love slow with that being said if she does love you it takes a lot of fucking up too push her completely away which happens alot a person can only take so much my friend.
So true brother, I am doing this shit now with her and keep pushing her away, ignoring her, in the end she is a human and despite all the other males she choose me but bcoz of my personal insecurities I end up hurting her and now she is travelling with her friends so the moment she comes back I am going to leave bcoz deep down I know I am not ready and not emotionally stable enough just like this guy in the video @@jamescrumpler8384
Any man child that isn’t even willing to put in even a minimal amount of effort by reading a simple book that he knows would do him a world of good doesn’t deserve a chance with the girl or any girl for that matter. Just sayin.
listen to her, she litterally sayd to you what to do. you smothered her so leave her alone, do nothing and meanwhile read the book, followe the 7 principle to get an ex back
A 3% man has no competition. These other guys are nobody to be jealous of...
Needed to see this, thanks friend
This is the perfect title, so many guys have done this and need this advice! Best dating coach to exist
Hanging out after she breaks it off only gives her another chance to confirm why she left or wanted a break. Only hang out to have fun and hook up, no confirm her thoughts and feelings towards you while doing “friend” things like running errands. (Just heard it from the coach in his last sentence of this video. It’s so true.)
I've been watching since 2015. I went from being a factory worker to an assistant Project Manager at a utility company. The mindset helps and the work put in will speak for itself.
This girl is done with him. It's over. So now if he wants to avoid this happening again, he's gotta read the book, not once but at least 10 times & he's gotta get his drinking under control
Yup that happened to me. She broke up with me after she had enough of my over drinking. Get the drinking under control first and foremost, then go see a behavioral therapist.
Yeah drinking is a fools game in my younger days, I have destroyed a couple relationships with my drinking. I ended up pushing them away with my behavior
@@jeremys3418 I did too & I learned from it.
Id get drunk & if my GF & I started having a disagreement instead of walking away (NEVER argue with a women) Id just keep going & the "Fuck you bitch" would start coming out. She'd hang up & id start calling back to no answer & leaving drunk out of control messages. It's impossible to think logically & its all drunk raw emotion. After awhile ANY girl will get tired of that & lose all respect. I stopped all that years ago & my relationships immediately improved
@@mahdman3 Didn't have to go to a therapist but it might be needed for someone.Thankfully when I quit getting shitfaced all the time I immediately saw improvement in my mindset & behavior & haven't ran any women off since then
@@jroll5858 Good job!
This coach is one of my favorites. I use to be in this guys position 6 years ago and it caused my divorce since then ive read his book among many others seeked help and now me and my ex wife still see each other occasionally. Altho I never went back I am alot older and just want to work on myself "have fun and hook up" and that lingo rlly works
I just finished watching one of your videos and it hit so hard, i was crying, then I watched the start of this video and burst out laughing at your Jack in box impersonation.
POW! Demolished by Coach. That hurts.
I read the book 72 times. I'm just here for the comments. 👍🏻
Those are rookie numbers.
How's it going for you guys are you living out your birthright? It takes time to meet and vet a quality girl. Character is destiny.
Awareness and accountability is the first step. Now do the work.
She gone. The ol’ “gotta work on myself” response aka “fck you, dude.”
Great advice, Coach. 💪🏾
Oh, man, one-itis!
There are a billion women in the world looking for a 3% man.
A healthy girl, from a stable household would never stay for two and a half years with a dude like that. She has some problems too.
That girl gone man! She gone.....
"Youre a fucking total child" 😂😂😂 love u man
Yess! Coach laid him out! As he should
Lol. She ain’t coming back bro. You blew it…several times. She’ll meet a chill, low key surfer dude in Hawaii and start a new relationship while being close to family. Better listen to Coach, read the book several times and don’t blow it on the next girl. Go book a flight somewhere else, that isn’t Hawaii. Do not pop up on the girl. She don’t want you
Yea you and coach are right. It stings like a bitc$ but it takes this situation for ppl to realize what's going on and work on themselves.
First! LoL... always love getting your videos! Keep up the good work!
I have the opposite problem, they wanna keep hooking up with me but not in a relationship anymore.
Ur personality sucks and probably ugly but just like the d I guess 😂. It’s like when us men just to want to hit it but would never be seen with her in daylight 😂
Nooooo... noo no. I was in a relationship with a chick that put in almost no effort. I found a text from her to her friend where she said I miss my "ex hoe"... so I always remembered that. She did nothing to make me feel secure. Gave me one word text and never did shit for me so i kept feeling like there was someone else. She would accuse me of being insecure constantly... and made it look like I was the problem to everyone else.. After I would confront her.. Women are full of shit now days.
Hall & Oates sang it best "She's Gone" ~-~ Oh why, what went wrong ~-~
Hello, let it go. Get a new one 😂
Question, i recently was scrolling on Instagram and i noticed that a good friend of mine got engaged, i told my girlfriend that i am hapy for him that he got engaged and then my girlfriend told me "that means you too now need to hurry" (meaning i should hurry with proposing to her) she told me that with a big smile...is that her way of telling me that i need to propose to her? Thanks
Proposing is a sure fire way to kill a % of attraction and make her think you're a guy who's easy to control and predictable. We've all (men and women) been conditioned to believe marriage is the way forward. It's just a day that costs a shit load of money and makes you a lap dog. And she'll make you feel guilty for not proposing because the uncertainty is emotionally tiring for her and she wants you boxed in so she can start thinking of other guys. As horrible as it is that's the way it is.
Remember the book, you should ask her what she means by that statement. I mean, it's obvious that she wants you to propose to her but always make sure where you stand with her without being pushy on the subject.
@@ronnywouters7037So when do smart men breed? Do they father? If only simps breed or father, the world will only get worse
Coach I found out that I’m a dismissive avoidant and ruined my relationship drastically over 2 years ..can you do a video about it?
I was the one dumping her multiple times thinking logically and then would go back to her asking for forgiveness.. but this time was the last straw she already had a line up n basically hooked up with him after I dumped her again out of spite.
Bro I have been doing this to this girl my gf we breakup and patchup each week I don't know why I push her away @@ccharis9757
If she really loved you she wouldn’t leave you
That's not true a woman falls in love and out of love slow with that being said if she does love you it takes a lot of fucking up too push her completely away which happens alot a person can only take so much my friend.
Nah, the guy blew it completely. I don't want any person like that, neither in a friendship or romantic relationship
So true brother, I am doing this shit now with her and keep pushing her away, ignoring her, in the end she is a human and despite all the other males she choose me but bcoz of my personal insecurities I end up hurting her and now she is travelling with her friends so the moment she comes back I am going to leave bcoz deep down I know I am not ready and not emotionally stable enough just like this guy in the video @@jamescrumpler8384
You just get women Coach 🤷🏽♀️ I wish your book was required reading in schools.
Any man child that isn’t even willing to put in even a minimal amount of effort by reading a simple book that he knows would do him a world of good doesn’t deserve a chance with the girl or any girl for that matter. Just sayin.
My ex basically is saying that I’ve smothered her😭I want her back guys 😂help me on what to do. She changed the dynamic of our relationship
listen to her, she litterally sayd to you what to do. you smothered her so leave her alone, do nothing and meanwhile read the book, followe the 7 principle to get an ex back
@@andreag.6691 thanks it’s kinda hard I’ve gotten use to spending time with her I’m just afraid of another guy stepping in stealing her away for good
4:23 instant demonetization
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Yeah no! Stop giving that beta baby brat hope! Theres no hope for you buddy! So glad she left him!
Don’t be a ‘Jack ass n da box’
BETA!!!