Look by the way they talk and how the OP can get calmer by the mere presence of the best friend i must say that they are probably not be best friends for long if you know what i mean
@@gabrielfreire3732yeah it sounds like it, though until op brought up the sister thing I thought op was a guy but who know which way the friend swings and if the dad knows good for him letting his kid like who she likes and not treat he like there’s something wrong with her.
Story 1: Ops sister.... Has no bakery skills No business experience. No college Golden child Spoilt Karen Yea let me open a bakery Months later Yrheiwhdf2owggdbws9gwwdgekegejeidydue6fheowgdheueyrveheydueheveyeheheye *lot of cursing* No... I messed up.... My job died.. I'll just take my brothers money.... 9h no he don't want to...... Manipulate him...... Fuck I got sued
Likewise with the parents lending her that money. I don't care how "golden child" she is to them - they own a business themselves, if they were stupid enough to make a move like this then their business would have failed just as quickly as their daughters did. Given the fact that it has been going for a long time it makes no sense for them to be so stupid with their money. Better to just let her have a useless position at their own company. Or better still, just give her an allowance and leave it at that.
I actually had to pause the video when the daughter said "AGAIN"... what a trashy woman that ex was. And trash is to be taken out before it stinks up the place.
I'm not american and credit cards are not a thing where I'm from (like rarely people get them) so i don't understand how it's even possible to open a credit card without the person present.
@@suan333understandable. If you have a full name, full social security number, and date of birth it is possible. Many parents with financial problems have opened credit in their kids names and ruin their credit before they are of age.
@@suan333 people will basically forge signatures on an agreement form to co-sign on a line of credit or loan which is accepted because of the forged signature and makes them liable
It's very telling that the daughter said, "You're doing this again". Sounds like the ex has gone from one guy to another and the daughter never had a stable father figure, which she obviously resents her mother for.
No. That is a bad idea. You are just wasting your time. Completely ignore her and have fun hanging around other women. The best way to get revenge over a cheating woman is to let her know that she has no power over you and your life is still better than hers. If she knows that your life is even better without her in it, that fact will eat her up from within.
Story 2: One of cheater's text OP was "If we had spent more time together, this wouldn't have happened." Ignoring the fact that she was the one constantly canceling plans on him.
Ha! The audacity of that last woman is amazing. "If you cared anything about us, it didn't mean anything, if we spent more time together." What a POS. She was the one who didn't want to spend time together. Cheater logic.
@@stephanien6237 Especially the serial cheaters. After a number of years, I figured it was so he could say that I kicked him out and filed for divorce.
@somberbunny7945 probably the girl's own dad. I mean. Why is the single mother single and why is the daughter saying again? She's got a pattern that's why
Family can always make you feel guilty. This is because you are a decent person. Your parents know what buttons to push to make you feel as though you are responsible for their problems. "Family" is a very convenient concept to trot out whenever they want something from you. When you want something from them, "family" disappears and you're on your own.
The Family expecting him to stop everything he's doing makes them AH. But Op saying for sure that he's better than his sister is AH behavior to me. He has a huge ego.
@@amaryllisrelic9097 It's even worse then that. OP will advise them but they won't listen and when it fails they will tell everyone the business failed because of OP.
@@amaryllisrelic9097how is that a huge ego to say that he's better than someone, albert Einstein is better than you and if he said that would he be an AH?, the only difference between you and Einstein and them two is that there is a lesser difference in intelligence...
Broke down because absolute losers called you a disappointment? Am I missing something? A baker that can't bake, parents taking loans out for that baker and they think OP is the disappointment? This new world is crazy
The fact OP broke down meant that she had just the smallest ounce of love for them there for some reason. If it was me, I would’ve laughed in their faces and called them broke idiots lol
The part you are missing is emotional abuse and manipulation. When a child goes through their life being ignored, the mind starts putting every moment of hurt, frustration, resentment, grief, and sadness into a box like Schrodinger's cat; a superposition where the moments are both an approval and a rejection. But when one side gets validated, the box is opened allowing an instantaneous bombardment of all those moments carrying the same verdict. In short, it's like feeling 19 years of verbal abuse condensed into a single second.
Most people have feelings. If she was in her early years of college, she’s in her late teens. She’s honestly pretty smart for going no contact and getting in touch with a lawyer so fast. Her parents embarrassed her, set her up, mocked her, and completely disowned her. What little amount of love and hope she still had was obliterated. Definitely a huge learning moment
OP is a disappointment in their eyes because she refused to be a doormat, bend to their will and sacrifice her future for their precious golden baby. That's how the narcissist's mind works.
So someone's been pushing me to pay for their college funds. I won't name names, but it's someone so close to me that we practically live under the same roof. I currently have one coin left. Though I'm definitely not asking for any type of donation.
I won’t name names too. They’ll stick their hand out as if they’re entitled to your money. That’s why I don’t tell people I don’t have money. I’d rather them think I have nothing than to want something out of me.
I'll give you a penny for your thoughts, that way you'll have two cents to rub together 😂 Seriously, though, I wish you the best, cause that's a sucky position to be in.
Story #2: “If you cared we would be able to work this out.” Lol if she cared she wouldn’t have screwed another guy. Gotta love the reasoning (or lack thereof) of cheaters.
I would of burst out laughing the moment she said i was jealous of her and said why would i be jealous of someone who couldnt even keep a business afloat and put her parents in debt
1st story: yes, OP is being selfish, but in her situation, it's COMPLETELY OKAY for her to be selfish. She should choose herself and her future over a family that always put her down and never did anything for her besides the bare minimum.
You people need to let go of this concept that selfishness is always a bad thing, really. Whenever you choose your own well-being over someone else's, you are being selfish, no matter how you justify it. But like I said, there are situations where being selfish is okay.
Choosing yourself and your future doesn't make you selfish. Her parents and her sister were selfish because they only cared about themselves and their happiness while putting someone else down.
For the second story, best revenge is to tag them on social media and let all their friends know they cheated by asking her, “why did you cheat on me? Was all I’ve done for you and not enough?” Works often.
The second story just shows how OP is so mature and possibly a very loving person (in my opinion). like the fact that he still let her keep the Ice cream and tried very hard to trust her more then anything just shows how much he trusted her and the fact that he didn't wanna hurt her by being suspicious about her makes it obvious how well he treated her. I think the woman was very much an ungrateful woman and she was the one at fault trying to guilt trip him which is honestly such a pathetic move OP deserves better and the daughter needs a better mother figure because not only did she grow without a father figure. But the mother isn't just one of the worst when it comes to staying with one guy at a time (in my humble opinion)
The first story feels like watching a villain origin story. The OP was undoubtedly messed up for constantly competing with her sister, actively trying to stomp her in every arena, but you understand why she did it. She seemed to think parental love was earned through competition, so she challenged her sister at every turn. She seemed to think they were rivals, but it was obvious that she didn't see her as an enemy until they came barging into the life she built for herself, demanding that she give it all up for a family that didn't care whether she was alive or dead, and even resented her for being alive. I feel bad for both of the sisters, but as much as I feel for the older sister, I believe she knew that she was constantly being favored and did nothing to protect the OP while it was happening. And that was wrong of her.
OP needs to know just because you CAN help them fix the situation doesn't mean they will LISTEN and then they will blame OP. OP will be the punching bag for when it fails and they will blame OP for the business failing.
People who think that family members owe each other anything are delusional. You do things for each other because you're family and you should love each other. Not because you "owe" anyone anything. If you take advantage of that love or neglect a person, then that love is gone
Lol, people trying to bash OP for being "bitter and resentful" are the exact type of sibling or parent to someone right now. They just don't want to be called out on their BS so they try to make others feel bad about it
Ironically, that's an abridged version of the actual phrase, twisted to have the opposite meaning. The full phrase is “The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”, meaning that chosen bonds are more important than family ones.
Story 2: I had to double-check that I heard right when she said "If we spent more time together, this never would have happened." Okay, first off, you talk to your partner if you think you aren't spending enough time together, not jump into bed with another person. Second, he was insisting before to hang out more, but you pushed him away! Honestly, she's full of it and never meant well for this man who went all-out trying to do good for her and her family. Credit to the daughter for not putting up with her mom's BS, too.
Moms saying op is a "disappointment" is so hilarious since she got 60% her tution unlike someone who opend a bakery without experience or bakeing skills that the real "disappointment"
I have a feeling in 5 years there will be a story titled "my best friend since kindergarten expect my dad to pay for her college and take care of her and now she's bragging that I'm jealous of her"
the best friend and dad from story 1 are soo nice that its too good to be true almost as if they were maid up kind of like the main villain from "You" season 3
it's hard to believe that most, if any of these stories, are for real because they're on reddit and they've always been written in such an overly dramatic fashion.
Second story: she is clearly an awful person and d thankfully her daughter knows it too… so she will get her comeuppance one day… sorry for the loss of ice cream… i love chocolate too. 1st story: just wow… she has gone through too much with her own family to help them… at that point I would call it a day and choose the bff family any day… like don’t claim them and they won’t claim you. Such a mess when parents play favorites… that really wrecks kids for life.
Honestly op should try to feel less bitter and resentful. But op has every right to such feelings. Honestly I blame the parents more for this they're actions caused a rift between the two siblings.
1st story: OP does not sound bitter and resentful, she sounds like a massive, arrogant jerk. It would have been one thing to constantly put down her sibling that she has a rivalry with, but calling her best friend a 'little anxiety pill' is just downright disturbing. The way she talks about her bff's dad funding her college doesn't sits entirely well with me either, something's off about it. OP gives off the vibe that she's toxic just like her family with the sole difference that she is the black sheep.
Tell them to f up and go on whit your life. Never quit college it’s not your responsibility or your problem. Who tells their child quit college and ruin their future
Story 1 OP is doing the right thing taking care of their own future fuck that family I learned long long ago you can't trust even family so just go through life with acquaintances no strong attachment because when the people you want to be more betray you you can just push it out of your way and go on with your life.
That best friend and her dad are the kind of people that make the world spin. Phenomenal people and the owners of the diner too.
Look by the way they talk and how the OP can get calmer by the mere presence of the best friend i must say that they are probably not be best friends for long if you know what i mean
@@gabrielfreire3732 what do you mean????i don't get it
@@LovelySunset-arti think theyre inferring that OP and the BFF have romantic tension
That’s why I call bs
@@gabrielfreire3732yeah it sounds like it, though until op brought up the sister thing I thought op was a guy but who know which way the friend swings and if the dad knows good for him letting his kid like who she likes and not treat he like there’s something wrong with her.
Story 1: No experience in baking or business and decides to open a bakery business? What could possibly go wrong?
'The smartest decision ever!'
Moths later
'Shit i shouldve never fucking went with bakery i have no fucking experience and my foods are shitty'
Pfh
Story 1: Ops sister....
Has no bakery skills
No business experience.
No college
Golden child
Spoilt
Karen
Yea let me open a bakery
Months later
Yrheiwhdf2owggdbws9gwwdgekegejeidydue6fheowgdheueyrveheydueheveyeheheye *lot of cursing*
No... I messed up.... My job died..
I'll just take my brothers money.... 9h no he don't want to...... Manipulate him...... Fuck I got sued
nothing tasty to eat
Likewise with the parents lending her that money.
I don't care how "golden child" she is to them - they own a business themselves, if they were stupid enough to make a move like this then their business would have failed just as quickly as their daughters did.
Given the fact that it has been going for a long time it makes no sense for them to be so stupid with their money.
Better to just let her have a useless position at their own company.
Or better still, just give her an allowance and leave it at that.
I actually had to pause the video when the daughter said "AGAIN"... what a trashy woman that ex was. And trash is to be taken out before it stinks up the place.
Op in 1st story, needs to make sure that their cruel family doesn't take out any credit cards in her name.
Yes! She needs to put a freeze on her credit!
I'm not american and credit cards are not a thing where I'm from (like rarely people get them) so i don't understand how it's even possible to open a credit card without the person present.
They probably already did
@@suan333understandable. If you have a full name, full social security number, and date of birth it is possible. Many parents with financial problems have opened credit in their kids names and ruin their credit before they are of age.
@@suan333 people will basically forge signatures on an agreement form to co-sign on a line of credit or loan which is accepted because of the forged signature and makes them liable
It's very telling that the daughter said, "You're doing this again". Sounds like the ex has gone from one guy to another and the daughter never had a stable father figure, which she obviously resents her mother for.
Yea the ops situation is sad but the daughter is sadder
Second story: OP should send her one text saying "If you loved me, you wouldn't have become an adulteror."
And yes I'm loving myself
No. That is a bad idea. You are just wasting your time.
Completely ignore her and have fun hanging around other women. The best way to get revenge over a cheating woman is to let her know that she has no power over you and your life is still better than hers. If she knows that your life is even better without her in it, that fact will eat her up from within.
@@sosamma090 the idea is the make fun of what she said herself if only the OP have a dark humor sense
Adultery is for marriages, she’s a cheater.
just thought the same thing
Story 2: One of cheater's text OP was "If we had spent more time together, this wouldn't have happened." Ignoring the fact that she was the one constantly canceling plans on him.
Hypocrite.
Exactly my thought
They always find excuses and never take responsibility.
Basic gaslighting 101.
"You should've not allowed me to leave! This is all your fault"
Doubled down on the "I AM BITTER" Damn right! xD
Ha! The audacity of that last woman is amazing. "If you cared anything about us, it didn't mean anything, if we spent more time together." What a POS. She was the one who didn't want to spend time together. Cheater logic.
I don’t know why cheaters don’t just break up.
@@stephanien6237not wanting to lose thier meal ticket
@@stephanien6237cuz most of them are good-for-nothing parasites
@@stephanien6237 Especially the serial cheaters. After a number of years, I figured it was so he could say that I kicked him out and filed for divorce.
@@TyreeHarris-ir9pl Absolutely! My ex-husband worked part time while I worked full-time to support him, me and our 2 kids.
OP is lucky that they have amazing friends. The diner owners and the best friend and their amazing dad.
Cupcakes, it had to be cupcakes. Fastest way to say "I'm a total business flop who's being bankrolled by Daddy" is a cupcake shop.
Story 2: The daughter sounds like a good kid. Surprising, considering her mother.
Well sometimes purity comes out to spite the rot
But is she really? The daughter said "agian" as if she knew her mother has already stepped out of the relationship with op. Thats how i read it anywho
Daughter obviously knew...
@@somberbunny7945 To me it sounded more like her mom had cheated in a previous relationship, and so she called her out for doing it again.
@somberbunny7945 probably the girl's own dad. I mean. Why is the single mother single and why is the daughter saying again? She's got a pattern that's why
Family can always make you feel guilty. This is because you are a decent person. Your parents know what buttons to push to make you feel as though you are responsible for their problems. "Family" is a very convenient concept to trot out whenever they want something from you. When you want something from them, "family" disappears and you're on your own.
The Family expecting him to stop everything he's doing makes them AH. But Op saying for sure that he's better than his sister is AH behavior to me. He has a huge ego.
@@amaryllisrelic9097 It's even worse then that. OP will advise them but they won't listen and when it fails they will tell everyone the business failed because of OP.
@@amaryllisrelic9097how is that a huge ego to say that he's better than someone, albert Einstein is better than you and if he said that would he be an AH?, the only difference between you and Einstein and them two is that there is a lesser difference in intelligence...
@@1cn1cn1ok 😂
@@amaryllisrelic9097bruh that's confidence not ego lmao
Never get why mfs harp on unimportant details
Broke down because absolute losers called you a disappointment? Am I missing something? A baker that can't bake, parents taking loans out for that baker and they think OP is the disappointment? This new world is crazy
The fact OP broke down meant that she had just the smallest ounce of love for them there for some reason. If it was me, I would’ve laughed in their faces and called them broke idiots lol
The part you are missing is emotional abuse and manipulation.
When a child goes through their life being ignored, the mind starts putting every moment of hurt, frustration, resentment, grief, and sadness into a box like Schrodinger's cat; a superposition where the moments are both an approval and a rejection. But when one side gets validated, the box is opened allowing an instantaneous bombardment of all those moments carrying the same verdict.
In short, it's like feeling 19 years of verbal abuse condensed into a single second.
Most people have feelings. If she was in her early years of college, she’s in her late teens. She’s honestly pretty smart for going no contact and getting in touch with a lawyer so fast. Her parents embarrassed her, set her up, mocked her, and completely disowned her. What little amount of love and hope she still had was obliterated. Definitely a huge learning moment
OP is a disappointment in their eyes because she refused to be a doormat, bend to their will and sacrifice her future for their precious golden baby. That's how the narcissist's mind works.
Its a fake story
Best friends dad is the mvp
"I wish i kept the ice cream" 😂
Bad idea to eat when you feel sad, don't link food and emotions or you'll end up getting fat
@@domvasta And will also associate that taste of the ice cream with the breakup
damn bro hardest line ever heard bru "I kno u get hungry after s3x" like damnnn my mans tht was harsh but fckn funnyyy
So someone's been pushing me to pay for their college funds. I won't name names, but it's someone so close to me that we practically live under the same roof. I currently have one coin left. Though I'm definitely not asking for any type of donation.
I won’t name names too. They’ll stick their hand out as if they’re entitled to your money. That’s why I don’t tell people I don’t have money. I’d rather them think I have nothing than to want something out of me.
I'll give you a penny for your thoughts, that way you'll have two cents to rub together 😂
Seriously, though, I wish you the best, cause that's a sucky position to be in.
What a wonderful ending with "I wish I kept the ice cream"
😂😂😂
Once a cheater always a cheater.
AMEN!
1st story NTA. Go no contact and stay no contact. OP. Is nothing more that spare kidneys for their golden child sibling.
If first story op ever gets married they should invite besties dad to walk them down the isle.
Story #2: “If you cared we would be able to work this out.”
Lol if she cared she wouldn’t have screwed another guy. Gotta love the reasoning (or lack thereof) of cheaters.
That best friend is your true sister
The best friends dad is a W in every way. I already know he would be a great person to have a drink with
Story 2: the daughter definitely orchestrated all of the encounter to help OP she’s amazing 😂
The friends father takes the father of the year award in a landslide
your bestfriends dad is looking out for you !! stay with them forever
2 mins into the video and friend and friends dad are the kind of person everyone needs.
I would of burst out laughing the moment she said i was jealous of her and said why would i be jealous of someone who couldnt even keep a business afloat and put her parents in debt
That kind of comeback would work better if OP wasn't pretty clearly jealous as hell of their sister's relationship with their parents.
1st OP feels guilty because her family wants her to feel guilty. Basic gaslighting.
1st story: yes, OP is being selfish, but in her situation, it's COMPLETELY OKAY for her to be selfish. She should choose herself and her future over a family that always put her down and never did anything for her besides the bare minimum.
No she isn't. She doesn't owe her family anything.
How is that selfish?? they made their own choices with their own money same as op so makes no sense why op would owe them anything
DarkEinherjar, you need to fix yourself.
You people need to let go of this concept that selfishness is always a bad thing, really.
Whenever you choose your own well-being over someone else's, you are being selfish, no matter how you justify it. But like I said, there are situations where being selfish is okay.
Choosing yourself and your future doesn't make you selfish. Her parents and her sister were selfish because they only cared about themselves and their happiness while putting someone else down.
"The i raised you " is a whole pile of B.S. If you chose to bring a child into the world, that is your responsibility
Op in the first story being a business major just makes me see them as lazy af no matter what 😂
"I know you get hungry after seggs, so here's some icecream."
I GOT GOOSEBUMPS 🥶 THAT WAS COOOOOLD 🤯
op bffs dad is such a great person, helping to pay for her tuition
S2: Spidey senses tingling means stop being oblivious.
For the second story, best revenge is to tag them on social media and let all their friends know they cheated by asking her, “why did you cheat on me? Was all I’ve done for you and not enough?” Works often.
The second story just shows how OP is so mature and possibly a very loving person (in my opinion). like the fact that he still let her keep the Ice cream and tried very hard to trust her more then anything just shows how much he trusted her and the fact that he didn't wanna hurt her by being suspicious about her makes it obvious how well he treated her. I think the woman was very much an ungrateful woman and she was the one at fault trying to guilt trip him which is honestly such a pathetic move OP deserves better and the daughter needs a better mother figure because not only did she grow without a father figure. But the mother isn't just one of the worst when it comes to staying with one guy at a time (in my humble opinion)
The first story feels like watching a villain origin story.
The OP was undoubtedly messed up for constantly competing with her sister, actively trying to stomp her in every arena, but you understand why she did it. She seemed to think parental love was earned through competition, so she challenged her sister at every turn. She seemed to think they were rivals, but it was obvious that she didn't see her as an enemy until they came barging into the life she built for herself, demanding that she give it all up for a family that didn't care whether she was alive or dead, and even resented her for being alive.
I feel bad for both of the sisters, but as much as I feel for the older sister, I believe she knew that she was constantly being favored and did nothing to protect the OP while it was happening.
And that was wrong of her.
OP needs to know just because you CAN help them fix the situation doesn't mean they will LISTEN and then they will blame OP. OP will be the punching bag for when it fails and they will blame OP for the business failing.
People who think that family members owe each other anything are delusional. You do things for each other because you're family and you should love each other. Not because you "owe" anyone anything. If you take advantage of that love or neglect a person, then that love is gone
OP: She’s so self-involved.
Also OP: I’M the best sibling!
Lol, people trying to bash OP for being "bitter and resentful" are the exact type of sibling or parent to someone right now. They just don't want to be called out on their BS so they try to make others feel bad about it
For the second story : Yes you should have kept the icecream
Blood may be thicker than water, but right and wrong are thicker than blood.
Ironically, that's an abridged version of the actual phrase, twisted to have the opposite meaning.
The full phrase is “The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”, meaning that chosen bonds are more important than family ones.
Blood may be thicker than water but it's easier for them to drown you in.
So is nobody going to talk about in the second story the guy said “ my spider sense was tingling”?
sounds like bffs dad wanted two kids but was sadly robbed of the chance an is actually happy to be OPs better dad
second story: this guy is a DOOR MAT
“I wish I kept the ice cream” 😂😂 or at least smear it in the carpet lol
Listening to all these stories made me realize that I never once tried to bond with anyone in the family. Maybe I’ll start to try it muself
"You're just jealous."
"Jealous of you tanking your business and dragging our parents down with you?" 😂
21:20 bro I burst out laughing at this. What a line
Imagine dating a single mother, especially after she shows red flags.
For the second story. Bro didn’t only lost his wife but ice cream too. That horrible.
"IF we spent more time together this wouldn't have happened" buy she canceled on him ever chance she got😂😂😂
Friends sometimes can be a true brother and stick by ur side
"not as good as me in any way"
yep i am out of here
Story 2: I had to double-check that I heard right when she said "If we spent more time together, this never would have happened." Okay, first off, you talk to your partner if you think you aren't spending enough time together, not jump into bed with another person. Second, he was insisting before to hang out more, but you pushed him away! Honestly, she's full of it and never meant well for this man who went all-out trying to do good for her and her family. Credit to the daughter for not putting up with her mom's BS, too.
If those parents only care that much about their child they really shouldn't be having another child, or even a child at all.
Story 1. You feel bad because you have been conditioned through neglect to put her first. It is uncomfortable. You will get past it.
Moms saying op is a "disappointment" is so hilarious since she got 60% her tution unlike someone who opend a bakery without experience or bakeing skills that the real "disappointment"
With story 1, I bet her best friends dad will offer to adopt her soon.
Did it again? What do you mean “again?”
Well, you see, cheaters often form a pattern of adulterous behaviour.
Second story guy was a nice guy, he was the provider and nothing more. He's the textbook definition of Beta Bucks.
I have a feeling in 5 years there will be a story titled "my best friend since kindergarten expect my dad to pay for her college and take care of her and now she's bragging that I'm jealous of her"
Story 1: its sad that her friends dad is more of a father to OP than her own father
the best friend and dad from story 1 are soo nice that its too good to be true almost as if they were maid up kind of like the main villain from "You" season 3
1st OP should report her family for dine and dashing just as a nuclear tier FU for them leaving her like that.
Story 1: The village stepped up with this one
Story 2: my exact reaction would've been "welp I'm keeping the ice cream" and left
OP is Matilda 💀
Op1 the phrasing step up really rubs me the wrong way. Her friends dad has no responsibility. He just helps out a friend, hes a good man
The end "i wish i kept the ice cream" damn
it's hard to believe that most, if any of these stories, are for real because they're on reddit and they've always been written in such an overly dramatic fashion.
S2: "And you do it again".
That kid resenting her mother is cheating wh0re. She will leave her alone as soon as she cans for her mental health
The 2nd story would make part of a miniseries.
Second story: she is clearly an awful person and d thankfully her daughter knows it too… so she will get her comeuppance one day… sorry for the loss of ice cream… i love chocolate too.
1st story: just wow… she has gone through too much with her own family to help them… at that point I would call it a day and choose the bff family any day… like don’t claim them and they won’t claim you. Such a mess when parents play favorites… that really wrecks kids for life.
Story 2:
"If we had spent more time together, this wouldn't have happened."
OP: So, can we hang out?
Ex: no
The Second Story: That girl and you have a manipulative relationship
I am planning to start baking. I hope to God im not as bad as that sis😂 both in baking and in business.
Story 1: I agree with OP on just about everything but her elitist attitude on college. Most people who go to college aren’t good business owners
Honestly op should try to feel less bitter and resentful. But op has every right to such feelings. Honestly I blame the parents more for this they're actions caused a rift between the two siblings.
Story one: You are not in the wrong but feel guilty because you are a good person. I would talk to your friends and maybe a therapist.
Damn, poor guy, I too wish he kept the ice cream(
Tip: if ur new graduated from college work for some year then start businesses
Story 1 - OP should probably lock down their credit as well.
2nd op probably made her feel so damn guilty by lraving the ice cream
Claims the house is not her home then resents the facts she gonna lose her home ..... ffs make up your mind
Even if OP is bitter she has rights to be.. cause I would be in jail if I was in Op's shoes.
What I don't get is why people bothered asking about that. Like as if it's a bad thing
Story 2 : revenge arc pls
"You're being an attention seeker."
"If I have to act this way for my parents to acknowledge me then that just proves how horrible you are."
Wishing he had kept the icecream is valid
I wish i should have kept the ice cream😂
1st story: OP does not sound bitter and resentful, she sounds like a massive, arrogant jerk. It would have been one thing to constantly put down her sibling that she has a rivalry with, but calling her best friend a 'little anxiety pill' is just downright disturbing. The way she talks about her bff's dad funding her college doesn't sits entirely well with me either, something's off about it.
OP gives off the vibe that she's toxic just like her family with the sole difference that she is the black sheep.
The 2nd story is literally he is fine to resolve it and willing to part way with her but she refuse and make it worst
Tell them to f up and go on whit your life. Never quit college it’s not your responsibility or your problem. Who tells their child quit college and ruin their future
Same but i would have kept the ice cream, lol
Story 1 OP is doing the right thing taking care of their own future fuck that family I learned long long ago you can't trust even family so just go through life with acquaintances no strong attachment because when the people you want to be more betray you you can just push it out of your way and go on with your life.
Steffi still has friends? I can understand them putting up with her when they were getting a free trip. But to actually take her in?